My Prison Husband Is Not 'Using Me' | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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AFTER ONE YEAR of writing to each other via a prison pen pal service, Bleu and Jay decided to tie the knot. The pair were first introduced by Bleu's friend, who had been writing to another inmate living in the same pod as Jay. At first, Bleu was skeptical. "I didn't grow up as a little girl and be like, Oh, I want to be with an inmate. Like, that sounds so cool," Bleu said. "So when they introduced us, I was not for it. And we ended up falling in love." After getting married in secret, Bleu gave her parents the news over the phone - and it didn't go down well. "My biggest regret when getting married was the fact that my parents weren't there," Bleu added. "I told them over the phone because I was scared of looking them in the eye and seeing the disappointment in my dad's face." Now the couple are planning and dreaming about their future together in the hope of Jay getting released once he's eligible for parole - in four years' time. Bleu's decision to stay with Jay has been met with a lot of criticism, from close family to strangers online. Bleu said: "Yes, I know my relationship is a little unconventional, considering where my husband is. I know where the stereotypes that come in with it lie. But ultimately, I love him genuinely, and I know he loves me just as much, if not more."
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He’s a good guy doing 30 years in jail. Yeah right
The classic “he’s misunderstood, but only I know the real him”. These girls will ember learn 🤦🏼♀️
Thats what am saying how are you goanna date a man that went to jail for 30 years if I was her I would end call right their.
I was laughing hard when she said they dont argue in public.😂😂😂
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I know right 😂😅
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The pillow she made of him is cracking me up 😂
Human bodypillow is wild
😂😂😂😂
I'm crying and screaming. It definitely caught me off guard 💀
😂😂😂
The sprite in a tea cup is wild
Same thought 😂
It tastes better 🤭
I was waiting on her to grab a bottle and pour some type of liquor in there. 😂
I always be putting my sprite in a tea cup😂😂 be hitting different
LIKE ITS AFTERNOON TEA 😂😂😂 IM DEAD
*I MEAN..... THIS IS HER JOURNEY. NOT OURS. SHE GONNA LEARN WHAT SHE NEEDS TO* 🤷🏾♀
Beautifully put.❤
Big big facts
Exactly! I know the reaction she's going to get but it is her life.
You guys saying "Love don't Judge" while knowing we're going be judging the hell out of it 😂
Yup...
Just messy 😮😂😂😂😂
That's so true! Def needs a new title!
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He is using you 100%.....🤷🏽♀️ no shade.
Right
how much money do you think she puts on his books? lol I feel bad for sis
@@elorajdhI do too it makes me sad she’s so sweet
Facts These inmates are looking for somewhere to stay after they get out 😂😂
She's a pretty girl but she's going to wish she had waited. He's an inmate for a reason.
Pretty? What are you smoking?
@@FloridaMan786 she is. I mean obviously weight can change so that doesn’t constitute being pretty. You can tell she is even if she was skinny.
Pretty fuckin rough bro.
@@FloridaMan786of course it’s a man fat shaming women. As usual 🙄
She is pretty I agree
“We don’t argue in public”…. Because….only one of you can publicly do that
😂😂came here to say this
She seems like such a sweet girl... shocked someone like her would want a prison man
Low self-esteem
Y u say that@@tiahnarodriguez3809
she’s desperate and delusional smfhh
Beyond sad I wish she loved her self more she could do so much better!
The pillow is wild☠️🙏🏽🙏🏽
Her eyelashes are a bit heavy, she can't open her eyes 😂😂😂 As for this prisoner crap, once he's out and there's more for him to do, he'll be off having fun elsewhere
She says their relationship is Dom-Sub but didn't say which of them is which. 🤔
I think the thing with the eyes is that she has puffy face. I am questioning his intentions with this girl.
The weight of her eye lashes is the least of her weight concerns.
she is sweet and her face is beautiful. i am sad for her that she cannot be physical with him and have to dream and longing for him. but at least she and he feel loved.
@@orientalgirl8926you can't even see her face behind all that fat like what
This is truly a bizarre channel!
That’s why I love it 😎😎😎
Yup, and I can't get enough!😂
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The dog looks fed up when she was making the call🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This comment cracked me up😂😂😂
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Lmao 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Baby I was mf SCREAMING 🤣😆🤣😆
By not arguing in public does she mean that they never argue on speakerphone?? 😭😂
Yooooo😭😭😭😭
She does have a nice voice I can see why
🙄Here u Go😅
@@lovebug9458😂😂😂
I have worked with prisoners for 20 years. Sorry, but he IS using you. A lot of these guys are using several woman at a time for money to pay their restitution and for their commissary. My heart does go out to her, but she is setting herself up for heartbreak.
Same! I worked with them too and HEARD them say to me how most women are being used. #therapistlife
Should we tell her y'all 😂?
Nah, she needs to learn through experience 💀.
To each his own, but i wouldnt ever want to marry someone in jail. What did he do get 30 years?? And he has 19 years left??? Yeah, no
If i was with them before and then they went to jail for an understandable reason then that’s fine but the fact we don’t even know what he did to get those years let alone why he got tht amount is a hugeeee red flag
The desperation
The real test is when he is a free man again
Wait till he gets out
@@ellobo4033 yup it’s all good till they get out and it’s freedom
Right smh
Nah!!!, he ain't leaving her. He gonna be BROKE as hell & perhaps nowhere to go when he gets out. He'll be fed, warm, unemployed & I'm quite sure she'll be just fine by that. (My opinion, of course).
@@miamiboi1506 He’s gonna do everything you say, and have a side. What’s worse is this lady will let him and accept any excuse he makes about how he’s not gonna cheat no mo’. I know these types and that’s how it usually goes.
@tiahnarodriguez3809 The minute he roams the free world, he'll more than likely see someone better, then it's Plan Plot & Pounce!!!. Yup, I definitely 💯% agree with you on that.
Why doesn’t she mention what he did? That’s what I’m curious about.
It's that jail talk got her wrapped up because they have nothing but time to sweet talk you all day long. Once he's outside it will be sooooo different
Exactly.
So true
Next season on “love after lock up”
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I said the same damn thing hahaha
Yesss ❤😂😂😂😂
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Take care of your health first. Focusing on the wrong thing.
What'd wrong with her health
You should focus on your mental
@@rob198991 Wym what’s wrong with her? She’s obese. You can literally see it.
@@rob198991she’s morbidly obese
😂😭😭😂😂😂🤣😅 Lol
JUST finished watching “Love after Lockup”. Recipe for disaster EVERY time😂 someone locked up is happy to talk to anyone on the outside bc prison makes you stir crazy. And when you’re finally free, the last thing they wanna do is be tied down.
Their #1 boundary is not arguing in public? That should be pretty easy to uphold.
Prisoners have all the time in the world to use words to make these Women feel "good". Outside those walls you are forgotten in a blink.
He is using you........
🙄🙄🙄 I worked in the prison system for 13 years, specifically in Texas….ok, best of luck
She reminds me of Tammy Slaton
Hey my bills are paid
The biggest test will be when he gets out of prison! If he'll still stick around or leave
Gurl why
I know the Instagram reels of this are going to be insane.
I wish this woman the best. She really seems nice and sweet. He just wants a place to stay for when he gets out though. Please let him go lol
Bro just want to get bailed out of jail😂😂
He’s in prison he can’t get bailed out buddy
We can all asume he's using her, but what if a big if, he actually keeps his word and spoils her and treats her like a queen, beside if she likes it i love it
I’m surprised that weird pillow thing doesn’t have more wear and tear from the ungodly amount of grinding it must have endured.
😂😂
😂 this comment is underrated
this person was undoubtedly abused as a child
I agree.
I’m sorry but she has a point by saying she gets more judgement as a big girl- people think that because she’s big she has no other options
She’s beautiful inside and out. I wish them All the very best. I pray 🙏🏼 when he gets out, they make wonderful memories to last a lifetime……🙏🏼❤️
Do Americans split a can of sprite when family comes over 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes. Better than tea and that’s why yall have messed up teeth 😂
😭😭😭 I’m from Detroit nah but that has me dyingggggggggg
Fizzy drinks are better then tea nah they both bad but yous be gettin fat off the soda
@@DublinG2True American 🇺🇸 obese wit bad teeth.
nah, i had to rewind to see if i missed the liquor or sum loll
I have not read one kind comment. Girl, life is a mystery, you do it YOUR WAY and live in the moment. What will be will be. ❤❤
That’s how people get screwed over. Where is the sense in getting married to a convict that has 19 more years left? What nonsense.
Because there is nothing kind to say. This is crazy
Exactly ! 🙏🏼❤️
she literally has BIGGER priorities than being tricked by a prisoner, God bless.
Your natural hair looks so much nicer. Your beautiful and God bless you and your husband ❤😊
I’m going start my own business 😂
And find other girls 😂
That was when I knew he wasn't serious lol
4 years until parole hearing, she’s only getting older they may not have those three babies.
Now what in the big Bertha precious love story is this???? 😂😂😂😂
15 years? what he do 😭😭
30 years originally
What a cute room she has
I don't get it. "we dont argue out in public", uhhhh he's locked up, Ya'll don't go out in public! He is in prison! He still has 19 yeats to go! Omg, this is so sad. I wish them the best.
She seems like such a sweet soul♥️ I’m happy she’s happy, and just because her husband is locked up, doesn’t mean she is being used. ♥️ Leave her alone
Girl read what you just said.
@@kitchenfloor You’re ignorant. Bye
Agreed 🙏🏼❤️
Maybe there's a reason why nobody on the outside will date you? Get some self respect, cuz he ain't it!!!
Blitzkrieg BOP!
She is lucky he is not able to cheat on her with other women🤭🙈
I’m sure he has a girlfriend in jail 😏
i cant tell if her eyes are open or closed
She is def a victim of something
Don't argue in public....Ma'am, what? At the window? That like saying I dont argue with the people at the drive thru. I just hope he does her right when he gets out
Damn Charles Barkley was right about them San Antonio women 😂😂😂
With them churros
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Even the dog is tired of her nonsense!! 😂
He's using the crap out of her. How much do you put on his books every month?
He definitely using her
She already got wings she need to use them to fly away
lol your going to hell bro
Smfh
Nah I genuinely hope they work. I do. She's so giddy 😂 it's kinda cute
Please stop heaping hate on her. She has big issues and truly I think she needs counselling. This relationship will do what it does, on or off, whatever. I worry about her and how vulnerable she is, both physically and emotionally. When he gets out we’ll see the measure of the man.
The following adage goes for both: all trains serve you 😁
She looks like Stewie after his steroids wore off and he had wings lol.
God bless everyone. ❤She seems very creative. Hopefully he is able to go to school in there so he can jumpstart for when he comes home.
Wow . These comment’s are wild . This world is so damn ugly . Since when did bullying someone on the internet become more important then just being happy for someone ?! . Yall should be ashamed
AMEN I agree with u 💯 😊
Womp womp It is not bullying, it is telling the truth. We know you black people cannot take criticism
agreed
…What is there to be happy about?
Bleu's fake eyelashes and so heavy that she can't even open her eyes wide open! 😔
Me reading the title: "Keep telling yourself that, girl!"
Baby girl in for a reality check once he’s out
Girl is splitting a can of soda w her mom, ofc he aint using her 😂😂😂
I feel so bad for the mom
She's sweet, but delulu
I mean, at least he can’t cheat on her with another woman
Her middle name is probably delulu
I’m a corrections nurse, these men entertain several women
She need to be on love during lock up but bein wit someone for that long knowing they won’t get out any time soon and still marrying them is wild. And did she call this man in jail?
You kinda remind me of me and my husband but he's in the navy and in Korea so stay strong keep up everything for him
0:19 💔 Blue married her husband over the phone while he was in prison, leading to judgment from others. 1:02 ❤ Blue fell in love with her husband despite initially being hesitant due to stereotypes about inmates. 2:01 💍 Blue's first meeting with her husband was emotional and reaffirmed her love for him. 2:30 💒 Blue and her husband got married in secret through a proxy ceremony over the phone. 3:00 😢 Blue faced hurtful comments from her mother about her relationship with an inmate. 4:01 ⚖ Blue's husband was sentenced to 30 years in prison at 17 and has served 11 years so far. 4:28 📞 Blue maintains regular contact with her husband through phone calls despite his incarceration. 5:08 🤔 Blue and her husband maintain their relationship by overcoming challenges together. 6:07 🔄 Blue believes she faces criticism due to her size as a "prison wife," highlighting societal stereotypes. 6:42 📝 Blue shares insights into the dynamics of her relationship with her husband, emphasizing mutual respect and boundaries. 7:57 💖 Despite the challenges, Blue is committed to her husband and would choose him again.
I would get bored 😂
Good luck to you😊
can't she open her eyes ?
as a non-american, i’m surprised she can call him while he’s in prison. also, i agree with her mum that there was no need for them to marry
I am from india. Hearing all real love story really happy .
This is big back behavior!😢
You already posted this one
6:48 we never argue in public. How would he get in public??
To each their own, but personally I think this is absolutely foolish.
I'm guessing it was his idea to not call each other by name, that way he can't get all his penpals mixed up 👀 I really wish her all the best.
No i get the same responses ... i must have no self Esteem ... not it !
No mentioning the reason why he is 30 years in jail...
Didn’t y’all post this already? 😒
I wish you both the best.
When you think with your heart
The mother looks like she’s been ripped from bobs burgers 💀
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i feel bad for her parents. her mum walked away, understandably so!
I hope she knows he’s just looking for a place to stay when he gets out ….. but hey he could be “different”
LOVE DURING AND AFTER LOCKUP..yes..! 😅😅 She will be on the next season..!