Overcome Fear of the Dark

2024 ж. 9 Мам.
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"It's 'nyctophobia'. I feel embarrassed to admit it! I'm twenty-eight. It's normally kids that have it. I manage eight people at work. I shouldn't have this phobia, but I have. Can you help me?"
Fear of the dark often, but not always, begins in childhood, and this was the case for a client of mine named 'Janet'. In this video I'll talk about where 'Janet''s fear of the dark came from and how I helped her, including 5 tips you can use to overcome a fear of the dark.
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*Key points in this video:*
00:00 Introduction
00:12 "It's nyctophobia"
01:37 "I'm terrified of passing on my fear of the dark to my son"
02:45 Nothing to fear but fear itself
03:55 Fear of the dark needs to be treated as a phobia
04:33 5 useful tips to lift fear of the dark
04:41 Tip 1: Wean yourself from light
06:29 Tip 2: Program yourself to relax in the dark
07:10 Tip 3: Challenge the fear
08:28 Tip 4: Overcome fear by controlling your body
10:22 Tip 5: Reframe your idea of 'darkness'
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  • Nice. Now, how do I get rid of demons? Specifically the nocturnal dementor type stuff?

    @wyattx008@wyattx0083 жыл бұрын
    • what........HOW DO YOU HAVE DEMONS!😶😰

      @billpaveglio8430@billpaveglio8430 Жыл бұрын
    • @@billpaveglio8430 he just listens to juice word

      @Skullcrusher-hh7wb@Skullcrusher-hh7wb Жыл бұрын
    • Demons are nothing but a manifestation of the self appearing in your reality. Push more positivity and push away the darkness in your brain and bring the light into your brain and light it like a light bulb.

      @DankMemer42013@DankMemer42013 Жыл бұрын
    • So what you wanna do is umm get holy water and say the holy bible then your good to go

      @OT_148@OT_148 Жыл бұрын
    • Is it intrusive thoughts?

      @zentzu4003@zentzu4003 Жыл бұрын
  • Thank you for this. I'm 48 and just recently realized my fear of the dark is because as a child for a 2 year period I was sexually abused and it was usually in the dark.

    @EssaryMichele@EssaryMichele11 ай бұрын
  • I tend to watch scary games... so that’s what scares me. I need to stop, but I love the videos.

    @lky1235@lky1235 Жыл бұрын
    • Same

      @L4SER@L4SER Жыл бұрын
  • FOr me its not as bad as some of the people you metioned have it, but its bad enoth. I can't walk my staris up normaly for example. I alway feel like Im being watched, my flight instinkt kicks in, I feel like Im being chased, and I enter my room, run to my bed and cover myself as much as I can. Only then I calm down. And everytime Im turning of the lights to go to sleep, I feel like Im being watched from the shadows again, and I run through my room ect. Its terrible. Im never gonna live alone, Im gonna have a panic atack like 4 times a week :(

    @TheBugUderUrBed@TheBugUderUrBed Жыл бұрын
  • I fear the dark because im so smart of existence that I'm aware spirits could be watching

    @adgepeterb@adgepeterb9 ай бұрын
  • 25 years of age and the phobia grown more and more irrational. Its not just around sleepy time anymore,,, during a power outage i can't even get up to use the restroom without a flashlight or a lit candle. When its evening, I can't get into any other room of my house unless that room is pre-lit. I don't go out socially a lot because of the few minutes i'll have in the dark once I get home and the fun is over. This,,, helps... Thank you... Not as deep as it would need to be to completely eradicate the phobia, but an excellent start nonetheless

    @mthulisimotsa@mthulisimotsa6 ай бұрын
  • The best lecture about nyctophobia on the internet, thank you sir!

    @pawegarapich1254@pawegarapich1254 Жыл бұрын
  • I absolutely love your videos Mark. They are packed with useful information and techniques that are clever and easy to implement. I enjoy listening to these videos and I recommend it to my colleagues and students. Thank you! Best regards from a clinical psychologist from Denmark.

    @Anna-Psychology@Anna-Psychology3 жыл бұрын
  • I'm not afraid of the dark I'm just afraid what's in the dark

    @vladx243@vladx243 Жыл бұрын
    • Well get it into to your mind that whatever exists in the dark also exists in the light

      @EIia_M@EIia_M Жыл бұрын
    • @@EIia_M i think if i thought like that i would be always super aware of my surroundings and fearing everything and had to be around people who i trust the most.

      @haarithabdirahman6838@haarithabdirahman6838 Жыл бұрын
  • Very helpful for therapists Mark. Thanks for sharing your knowledge

    @AnugrahEdmonds@AnugrahEdmonds3 жыл бұрын
  • Profound. Excellent explanation and solutions

    @anordinaryexistence7305@anordinaryexistence7305 Жыл бұрын
  • I have trouble meditating with my eyes closed because of this problem. After a couple of days I sense an oppressive darkness in my mind.

    @stevekudlo1464@stevekudlo14642 ай бұрын
  • Thank you sooo much for this video, im 13 and felt that I was the only one and afraid, but this video helped me so much

    @livefastandeatass5345@livefastandeatass5345 Жыл бұрын
  • A very useful video, thank you

    @rimiaya2287@rimiaya22872 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you you really helped me 😁

    @TTK_S10W@TTK_S10W Жыл бұрын
  • thanks man I’m 10 and this is really helpful

    @jaxon_bozo@jaxon_bozo Жыл бұрын
  • It’s really hard for me. I’ve got to the point that I need lights and an audio playing to fall asleep..

    @fuscovalentina@fuscovalentina Жыл бұрын
    • You’re not alone

      @omarabdi8260@omarabdi82609 ай бұрын
  • This didn’t help, I’m still worried of Charles the demon grabbing my leg while I’m running down the hallway to take a piss.

    @Selevann_@Selevann_ Жыл бұрын
    • I feel the same

      @aliceiancu2024@aliceiancu2024 Жыл бұрын
  • very useful!

    @meganstorm8677@meganstorm86772 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you soo much I

    @kyfreeman9394@kyfreeman93942 жыл бұрын
  • The thing is i was only scared of the dark when i was very little but now its kinda back😭

    @watermeloon1146@watermeloon1146 Жыл бұрын
  • I'll be going to do Paranormal investigations in my life soon, not scared of the dark as I've been in the dark for a lot of time in times. The dark just drives me crazy, not scared but just crazy.

    @klenhattMate@klenhattMate Жыл бұрын
  • Thanks the reason in I was afraid of the dark in the first place because I watch a a horror backstory of cartoon cat

    @z-one9907@z-one9907 Жыл бұрын
  • My brother-in-law 27 and sister-in-law 23. are both scared of the dark.

    @escoSZN@escoSZN10 ай бұрын
  • I was only 3:30 into the video and i couldn't watch anymore because this just terrifies me

    @kittysquad4372@kittysquad43722 жыл бұрын
    • Don't be too scared. I am 50% scared of the dark so your not the only one. Also I am 25% scared of spiders and 25% scard of snakes.🙂🕷🐍⬛

      @billpaveglio8430@billpaveglio8430 Жыл бұрын
    • @@billpaveglio8430 I’m even more scared

      @L4SER@L4SER Жыл бұрын
  • When I’m in an enclosed space like a solitary room I’m not scared at all but the living, kitchen and dining rooms are all connected in my house and it’s the first thing You see when You step out of my room what can I do about that

    @TWDSHMLSS@TWDSHMLSS Жыл бұрын
    • Try doing something that would “scare you to death” and teach yourself to relax

      @treefitty937@treefitty937 Жыл бұрын
  • I'm here cause I remembered this funny thing I used to have. As a teen, I realized sexual arousal helps lol. That's when your mind is occupied with nothing else than whatever playful thought it's occupied with. I couldn't think about stupid monsters when I wanted some ugh. I grew out of it as well as my nyctophobia. I think what worked is me focusing on other things. Miss those days.. oops, nights, that was fun.

    @kukumber_kat@kukumber_kat Жыл бұрын
    • That's relatable

      @98ydfyyh9@98ydfyyh98 ай бұрын
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