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7 Things Dating Couples Should Not Do | Kingsley Okonkwo

Kingsley Okonkwo
2023 ж. 1 Мау.
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"I believe there are stages a relationship should follow, first friendship then dating but most times people jump into different phases of their relationship without due processes and it always ends up bad, sometimes disastrous."
Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares "7 Things Dating Couples Should Not Do".
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  • 7 Mistakes. 1. Not Cultivating or Building Friendship 2. Not having clarity or vision. 3. Not having mentors 4. Having sex before marriage . 5. Waiting to Have all the Money before you Marry. 6. Playing House 7. No premarital counselling

    @emastephen2607@emastephen260711 ай бұрын

    • Thanks 🔥

      @faithhope4703@faithhope470311 ай бұрын

    • GOD bless you. I wanted someone to summarise quickly

      @created2inspire459@created2inspire45910 ай бұрын

    • I never knew all this things...now I know,,,my God.. Thank you...

      @Minister--pat@Minister--pat9 ай бұрын

    • A

      @lydiaopare5157@lydiaopare51579 ай бұрын

    • Please sir, How can this be corrected😢

      @rejoiceahaiwe1501@rejoiceahaiwe15017 ай бұрын

  • Number one- Not building friendship proverbs 17:17 A friend loves at all times Build your friendship Number two- Not having clarity Proverbs 29:18 Not having vision the people perish Number three- Not having mentors proverbs 31:1 Accountability is key Number four- Having sex before marriage Sex affects intimacy, respect, trust, good behaviour. Number five- waiting to have the money before marriage Number six- Playing house meaning moving in together, it reduces respect, motivation, anticipation, it brings challenges.Proverbs 25:17 Number seven- They don't do premarital counselling.proverbs 15:22 Doing premarital counselling greatly reduces the chance of failing.

    @rossyprim2336@rossyprim233610 ай бұрын

    • God bless you ❤

      @Irene_Ogada06@Irene_Ogada062 ай бұрын

    • God bless you more okay

      @obaalinda8360@obaalinda83602 ай бұрын

  • True, some churches don’t talk about marriage and relationship. Which is very bad

    @soulmatesempire@soulmatesempire11 ай бұрын

  • 7 mistakes dating couples make. 1. Not building friendship (prov. 17:17) TPT .... If ure not touching each other, can you spend quality time together easily? 2. Not having clarity (prov. 29:18)... What are we doing? Where are we going? What's the plan? When are we planning to get married? How do we work towards it? 3. Not having mentors (prov. 31:1)MSG... have distant mentors and close mentors. Accountability is key. Let there be people that can counsel both of you. 4. Having sex ... kissing never satisfies, it brings the fire .. create boundaries... Sex before marriage affects intimacy. Sex affects the trust because the person that cheats with you will cheat on you. Sex brings disrespect. It dishonors God. 5. Waiting to have all the money before you marry. 6. Playing house. Moving in together before the time. It affects commitment. Prov. 25:17 7. Not doing pre-marital counseling. Love is never enough. Pre marital counseling ensures safety for both parties.

    @abigaildoraa@abigaildoraa3 ай бұрын

  • Cheating is a personal decision. Some people will never cheat no matter how hard things are; others will always cheat no matter how good they have it. This is where true beauty comes in! Beauty isn't about having a pretty face. It's about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart, and a pretty soul. ✨ if you played your part and loved someone with all your heart ✨ if you spoke on your feelings & tried to communicate ✨ if you waited for change & none came it’s not your loss, it’s theirs. let go, heal, & move on to someone that deserves you. You deserve someone who you were created for and who was created for you, to understand and love you properly

    @EAtoons@EAtoons2 ай бұрын

  • I really truly would like to get all of your book on relationship & marriage because I really truly want my second marriage to be very successful for a very long time

    @haroldmartin3652@haroldmartin36525 ай бұрын

  • 1. Not Building Friendship 10:57-- The love of a friend stands strong; romantic love fades. A friend loves at all times. Can you all talk without touching each other, having sex, or discussing wedding plans? 2. Not Having Clarity 13:00-- Not having clarity of where we are going (marriage?). When are we getting married? 4 years? 5 years? 1 year? Let's start working towards it. Let's not keep checking each other out. 3. Not Having Mentors 15:22-- 4. Not Staying Celibate 18:23-- For some, they keep kissing and touching completely out of their dating. "Let's just talk" 5. Waiting To Have All the Money 20:37-- You don't need a big house. 6. Playing House 24:44 7. Pre-marital Counseling 29:35

    @byrnenoel6317@byrnenoel631710 ай бұрын

    • God bless you for highlighting

      @faustinaodinakaazolibe7473@faustinaodinakaazolibe747310 ай бұрын

  • Please do another video telling us how to correct these mistakes. When you are already in the relationship

    @missnuti@missnuti11 ай бұрын

    • True

      @kevinonsale5662@kevinonsale56628 ай бұрын

    • We really need this…

      @priscilliamaiyeko3626@priscilliamaiyeko36267 ай бұрын

    • You stop it. And have meaningful conversations and put God first in the relationship. That's how.

      @samthecreator10@samthecreator106 ай бұрын

    • I believe its practicing the opposite of these 7 mistakes.

      @chelumwenifumbo9983@chelumwenifumbo99836 ай бұрын

    • For instance if you been having sex with your partner, bring a stop to that.

      @chelumwenifumbo9983@chelumwenifumbo99836 ай бұрын

  • His teachings blessed my life. It helped me know what marriage is. It enabled me choose the right man.❤🙏

    @agnesamitamasinde@agnesamitamasinde7 ай бұрын

  • Pastor K ans his Kingso Kingso story is evergreen. Everything I listen to it i still enjoy jt

    @kwobsiemarius9613@kwobsiemarius961311 ай бұрын

  • Knowledge is truly powerful... Thank you pastor K for saying yes to Jesus, listening to you and your wife helped me allot .... you are truly a blessing.... thank you sir

    @peacegelwanmiwilfred7177@peacegelwanmiwilfred717711 ай бұрын

  • Every single person has to see this message 👏👏 I feel so blessed after watching this

    @kesienaemefe4582@kesienaemefe458211 ай бұрын

  • I've been in a relationship and lonely before. Definitely being "married and lonely" must be worse

    @naongakalumbi8670@naongakalumbi867011 ай бұрын

  • Supporters don't matter if you're not prepared 💓

    @AnnetIyara-iu3ed@AnnetIyara-iu3ed10 ай бұрын

  • This was so good! Had me cracking up too 😂

    @_QueenBell@_QueenBell3 ай бұрын

  • This is profound! Especially 3 and 7... young people don't seek knowledge anymore until they encounter problems in the marriage and most times its already too late.

    @breatheeleganceheart-talk@breatheeleganceheart-talk11 ай бұрын

  • I'm so encouraged by the message this video just popped up at random. 😊

    @debbiemumba3040@debbiemumba304010 ай бұрын

  • i love ur books❤️‍🔥🤲🏾,thank you for this video too and many more you’ve uploaded!

    @michelleadebiyi2341@michelleadebiyi234111 ай бұрын

  • Well done MOG

    @NZB89@NZB8911 ай бұрын

  • This has really blessed me

    @asunganyirose@asunganyirose9 ай бұрын

  • I love this I'm learning here

    @cleovernebaptiste2747@cleovernebaptiste274711 ай бұрын

  • I love this message

    @FolakeAdunni@FolakeAdunniАй бұрын

  • This video just motivated me. Now I'm certain that I'm doing the right thing 😊😊😊

    @cattyreals572@cattyreals57210 ай бұрын

  • This is lovely ❤

    @EverydayAfriTV@EverydayAfriTV11 ай бұрын

  • Listening to Pastor K is bliss! Second time this video has popped up and it's so fresh like a reminder

    @OACTSPodcast@OACTSPodcast10 ай бұрын

  • Thank you so much sir for the advice

    @iam-paulvocal@iam-paulvocal10 ай бұрын

  • God Bless You For This Message Sire!!!

    @adebanjomayowa3844@adebanjomayowa38446 ай бұрын

  • My mentor. Thank you for the teaching.

    @chelumwenifumbo9983@chelumwenifumbo99836 ай бұрын

  • God bless you sir for this message 🔥🔥🔥🔥

    @faithsamuel7553@faithsamuel755311 ай бұрын

  • I like the way he says "are you here somebody"😅

    @obenamaduprince608@obenamaduprince60810 ай бұрын

  • Wow,I am so blessed to listen to this word of God!

    @christakalembe241@christakalembe2416 ай бұрын

  • Powerful word

    @felistasmusunzuru6183@felistasmusunzuru61832 ай бұрын

  • Thanks for these wise teaching...

    @BlessingIhemekwelem@BlessingIhemekwelem4 ай бұрын

  • God bless you!!

    @CoiShan@CoiShan10 ай бұрын

  • Thank you so much sir for this message 🙇

    @user-tp8qz8yt4x@user-tp8qz8yt4x6 ай бұрын

  • A failure is known by his goals!💓

    @AnnetIyara-iu3ed@AnnetIyara-iu3ed10 ай бұрын

  • Thank you sir i really appreciate ur message

    @user-ht7hs5cr3g@user-ht7hs5cr3g10 ай бұрын

  • I have made all this mistakes oooo...Thanks you pastor for teaching me this is basically for me.thank you so much....I am now single and will work it out ..

    @Minister--pat@Minister--pat9 ай бұрын

  • Nice one

    @ademolababatola5428@ademolababatola542811 ай бұрын

  • Wonderful Message and humourous while at it😂

    @Achieveress@Achieveress10 ай бұрын

  • Thank you 💕😊

    @adeoyemoses2537@adeoyemoses253710 ай бұрын

  • This message is Very awesome and full of wisdom. Listening to this message for the third time. Love you PK.

    @jummyalfred2909@jummyalfred290910 ай бұрын

  • Beautiful piece

    @ifemizu82@ifemizu823 ай бұрын

  • Very insightful 😊

    @rebeccamunyasia9498@rebeccamunyasia94987 ай бұрын

  • Thank you sir.🎉

    @sarahkumi@sarahkumi11 ай бұрын

  • In the multitude of counselor there is safety...thank you so much sir.

    @oluwakemiakinwunmi1303@oluwakemiakinwunmi130311 ай бұрын

  • PK is so wise… his teachings are always a blessing

    @jareya@jareya7 ай бұрын

  • God bless you sir

    @mfongeorge8185@mfongeorge818510 ай бұрын

  • God bless you Man of God🙏🙏🙏🙏

    @JosephineDonkor-kk5rj@JosephineDonkor-kk5rj9 ай бұрын

  • Thank you Sir..I'm so much blessed from this meeting. May God bless you.

    @BerthaOrkar-wg7xe@BerthaOrkar-wg7xe10 ай бұрын

  • Thank you🙏

    @matselaneelizabeth9780@matselaneelizabeth978011 ай бұрын

  • Be blessed man of God 🙏🙏

    @user-zq3ph5wt8k@user-zq3ph5wt8k10 ай бұрын

  • Thanks Pst. More grace

    @nextdigitalzone@nextdigitalzone9 ай бұрын

  • Wow!!!!!! This blessed me pastor k

    @gracekadiri2419@gracekadiri241911 ай бұрын

  • Thank you very much Pastor, you are an answer to a generation. ♥️

    @pauloluwaniyi6741@pauloluwaniyi674111 ай бұрын

  • God bless you sir I’m blessed from the word

    @nsonguruapeter4295@nsonguruapeter429510 ай бұрын

  • Thank you so much sir. I am so blessed!

    @user-hu4xb1ii4c@user-hu4xb1ii4c2 ай бұрын

  • Thank you sir, thou am still single ,am believe God for marriage, my first marriage broke when I was 20 years old, now am 32 I haven't heard what I learned from your teaching thank you , God give you long life and good health. Now am ready now for marriage

    @user-hj5vm7dm3x@user-hj5vm7dm3xАй бұрын

  • Thank you Jesus for creating this wonderful head over us.

    @adeoyeflorence4165@adeoyeflorence41659 ай бұрын

  • May God deliver us from useless friends

    @irmamedom7256@irmamedom72562 ай бұрын

  • Thank you so much sir. God bless you and ur household. This massage are all for me. Thanks a lot.

    @oresotutolulope6159@oresotutolulope615910 ай бұрын

  • Thank you Sir

    @nnajicalebchidera5298@nnajicalebchidera529810 ай бұрын

  • Wonderful Teaching!❤

    @paulzerina@paulzerina7 ай бұрын

  • God bless you Sir for the values shared. Pst, glad to know you're a fellow ex-commando.

    @emmanuelorji7274@emmanuelorji72749 ай бұрын

  • Am really so blessed by this message

    @ApiyoKevin-oq7fb@ApiyoKevin-oq7fb7 ай бұрын

  • Kinzo! Kim so!! 😂😂😂. Bless your hearts pastor K and M.

    @sarahblessed-sayah@sarahblessed-sayah11 ай бұрын

  • I appreciate dis❤

    @miraclelucky3256@miraclelucky325610 ай бұрын

  • Thank you sir... more anointing

    @amarachimonicachristian7142@amarachimonicachristian71427 ай бұрын

  • God bless you for eye opening ❤❤❤. Thanks

    @funepoweiminna6355@funepoweiminna63552 ай бұрын

  • Great video.

    @mumofelix@mumofelix4 ай бұрын

  • I hear😂 its amazing 🎉 God bless you pastor kingsley

    @kiizaaldrich327@kiizaaldrich32710 ай бұрын

  • This is really interesting.. I learnt alot .. thank you sir

    @Sibs_treats@Sibs_treats7 ай бұрын

  • Am really blessed Thank you sir

    @vindyprecious1531@vindyprecious153111 ай бұрын

  • Am blessed

    @Phaviey_gadgets@Phaviey_gadgets10 ай бұрын

  • I'm blessed. Thank you pastor sir

    @floraapi9431@floraapi943110 ай бұрын

  • Great teachings. Thank u Sir

    @franchescaasamoah3046@franchescaasamoah304611 ай бұрын

  • Thank you very much sir it will really go a long way God help me 🙏🙏

    @user-ql4dl9ox9d@user-ql4dl9ox9d7 ай бұрын

  • God Bless you sir for this message 🙏🙏🙏

    @tiygabaya1838@tiygabaya18388 ай бұрын

  • Am always blessed whenever I listen to Pastor K

    @favournoah9598@favournoah95989 ай бұрын

  • God will bless you 🎉❤

    @Gift_Ikechukwu@Gift_Ikechukwu2 ай бұрын

  • I love this

    @queenphilip711@queenphilip7113 ай бұрын

  • He's so right ... Ladies we have the power !!!

    @Xeik38@Xeik3811 ай бұрын

  • Thank u sir

    @williamsmacdonald442@williamsmacdonald4422 ай бұрын

  • Thanks sir

    @ogbozorgloriachisom1773@ogbozorgloriachisom17736 ай бұрын

  • Thanks for this teaching Pastor K.

    @tifarah86978@tifarah869788 ай бұрын

  • I am 23 now and I promise myself that no matter what happens... whether I am rich or not i must marry before the age of 28... God willing... Thank you sir for your teaching....

    @chrisax012@chrisax0123 ай бұрын

  • My ever able Counsellor sent by God God bless you Daddy I'm always inspired by your messages You'll live long and Mummy too with all your family members in Jesus Mighty Name. Amen.

    @marycrown6529@marycrown652910 ай бұрын

  • I must admit you're funny... 🤣 Nevertheless I love the simplicity of your messages. I glad to hear this. Thanks for making people have stable marriages. God bless you, sir!

    @oseghaleebenezer8482@oseghaleebenezer848210 ай бұрын

  • Daddy has never not delivered o

    @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy@NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vyАй бұрын

  • so profound👌👌🙏

    @gracetembo1120@gracetembo11208 ай бұрын

  • Am bless mum Thanks 🙏 More grace

    @johnuren4545@johnuren45457 ай бұрын

  • 18:58 🤣🤣 I just had to subscribe at this point.

    @djmukagallis9288@djmukagallis928810 ай бұрын

  • I want to view the fine girlfriend part Abeg😂 Thank you Sir I’m blessed by the message

    @SpurgeonIloba-ip7wz@SpurgeonIloba-ip7wz9 ай бұрын

  • God bless you Pastor K for this message. He that hath an ear let him hear what the spirit is saying. Every word is so true 💯

    @denikepriceless1450@denikepriceless14507 ай бұрын

  • Powerful daddy thank you for the word 😂😂😂😂😂

    @user-ur8lm6pw1t@user-ur8lm6pw1t9 ай бұрын

  • I am always happy listening to ur sermons nd viewing ur posts. Thank you so much sir for your impact.🙏🏽

    @elyonolamide4561@elyonolamide456110 ай бұрын

  • Talking of point 2 - You made mentioned dating without a PLAN. My question is, how do you PLAN a relationship? I mean how to have a Relationship Vision?

    @jesusmavericks@jesusmavericksАй бұрын

  • 😂😂pastor K 30minutes of violence🤣🤣 thank you for the knowledge sir

    @rianangaemaluta@rianangaemaluta11 ай бұрын

  • Thanks you Jesus

    @ninnemodestine1504@ninnemodestine15049 ай бұрын

  • Pastor please make this book available in Zambia

    @wezisiwale2354@wezisiwale235410 ай бұрын
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