how to be attractive as an introvert

2024 ж. 10 Мам.
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Mastering charisma as an introvert.
0:00 being an introvert
0:24 killer
1:29 people are ego driven
2:28 this beats everything
3:12 self-respect
4:20 hello sunshine
I’m trying something new. Thank you for your support! I am always working hard and I got big things coming up.

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  • Today is November 9 2023 ,I'm sure this video will blow up ,I'll come back to comment my progress .

    @_your_aesthetx@_your_aesthetx6 ай бұрын
    • Aww thank you

      @abclarisma@abclarisma6 ай бұрын
    • ​@@abclarismayou're welcome✨

      @_your_aesthetx@_your_aesthetx5 ай бұрын
    • u were right!!

      @zachele@zachele2 ай бұрын
  • I spent so much of my life trying to get other people's attention because I was so lonely. I am the way I've always been, and yet, the whole relational thing only got better as I became an adult. But at this point, my desire to meet new people and gain friends is burned to ashes because of the repeat failure and rejection and betrayal I've endured. I don't think I'm that good of a person, but I do what I can for others and I just hget trampled on. I'm both an introvert and a heavy empath. I am genuine but struggle with dealing with emotions to the point where I just want to remain closed off forever to minimize the damage others can do to me.

    @YouKnowMeDuh@YouKnowMeDuhАй бұрын
    • I definitely relate to that. Keep on being yourself, eventually the right people will come into your life and appreciate you for who you are

      @abclarisma@abclarismaАй бұрын
  • I think youtube knew i needed this video 😭 and thank you sm for the tips, i feel like i always try to hard trying to think what to say to the other person cause i overthink through it too much, sometimes I feel that I shouldn't even be there to exist as myself in a certain situation, so i move away from the spotlight and dont share my opinions or my thoughts and run away to hide from interaction 😭 and maybe that's why I never know what to say or react in certain situations but i will try my best to change my perception :) and wishing you success and happiness in your future endeavors

    @natasha_b777@natasha_b7776 ай бұрын
    • I definitely feel that way sometimes. Please take care of yourself!

      @abclarisma@abclarisma6 ай бұрын
  • I loveeeed the video and ur channel I just discovered it and I can't believe you have only 95 subs you definitely deserve more!

    @xavierthrope@xavierthrope6 ай бұрын
    • Thank you so much for your support! I will keep on working hard and creating better content!

      @abclarisma@abclarisma6 ай бұрын
  • You did a really good job! Thanks for share your thoughts a i hope you can keep doing it!

    @xboss7159@xboss71595 ай бұрын
    • Thank you so much for your support!!

      @abclarisma@abclarisma5 ай бұрын
  • sooo right

    @antowIA@antowIA6 ай бұрын
  • New sub!! This was so helpful and you’re so pretty!!!

    @Pinkpilatesprincesss@Pinkpilatesprincesss4 ай бұрын
    • Tysm I will work hard and create better content

      @abclarisma@abclarisma4 ай бұрын
  • This was brilliant!

    @godisgodisme@godisgodisme5 ай бұрын
    • Aww thank you for your support!

      @abclarisma@abclarisma5 ай бұрын
  • You will be popular

    @user-dg2jz6vv5l@user-dg2jz6vv5l6 ай бұрын
    • Aww thank you! I’ll keep on working hard and creating better videos

      @abclarisma@abclarisma6 ай бұрын
  • Hey Clare!!!!! So nice to meet you yesterday!!!! Love the video!!!! ☺

    @spencerwlam@spencerwlam3 ай бұрын
    • Hi Spencer! Thank you for the support!! Excited to see your content as well!!

      @abclarisma@abclarisma3 ай бұрын
  • I loved the video! I think it’s really helpful ❤ a random tip from a content creator myself 😊 I recommend you to improve your thumbnails, it will do a lot and attract more people. I wish you the best! 😉🙏✨✨✨💖

    @mofidahassan8194@mofidahassan81946 ай бұрын
    • Thank you so much your advice! I really appreciate it. Best of luck to you too!

      @abclarisma@abclarisma6 ай бұрын
  • Thanks ❤

    @Winshet@Winshet6 ай бұрын
    • You are so welcome

      @abclarisma@abclarisma6 ай бұрын
  • Found this video in my recommendeds!

    @zwn4444@zwn44446 ай бұрын
    • Thank you for your support!

      @abclarisma@abclarisma6 ай бұрын
  • You’re so pretty 🤍

    @Simplymismu@Simplymismu6 ай бұрын
    • Thank you, Back at you too

      @abclarisma@abclarisma6 ай бұрын
  • imma x ray tech, i use the exact same shyt when interacting w/ my patient, esp when they're in acute pain or just emotionally drained, it helps both me and them alot

    @CosmicNarcissist@CosmicNarcissist6 ай бұрын
    • Thank you for sharing!

      @abclarisma@abclarisma6 ай бұрын
  • You’re so pretty and nice ♥︎

    @sophia_321@sophia_3216 ай бұрын
    • Thank youuu

      @abclarisma@abclarisma6 ай бұрын
  • you're gon blow up i just know it haha 😁🌟

    @calista8999@calista89996 ай бұрын
    • Hopefully

      @abclarisma@abclarisma6 ай бұрын
  • Pls make more videos like this 😀

    @dishitabisht3420@dishitabisht34206 ай бұрын
    • Thank you for the feedback, I will!

      @abclarisma@abclarisma6 ай бұрын
  • Just wanna say hi, I guess, I'm like - who's this? Why did this video get recommended to me, hmm, but you go girl, with your online persona/journey! All the best!

    @Kyinre@Kyinre6 ай бұрын
    • Thank you so much for your support!!

      @abclarisma@abclarisma6 ай бұрын
    • @@abclarisma you're welcome! 🙂

      @Kyinre@Kyinre6 ай бұрын
  • Fantastic video :) i just realized i dont too bad

    @janclaunitzer2376@janclaunitzer23763 ай бұрын
    • Thank you

      @abclarisma@abclarisma3 ай бұрын
  • I loved the video! New sub ❤ 117

    @itsleviosa859@itsleviosa8596 ай бұрын
    • Thank you for the support!

      @abclarisma@abclarisma6 ай бұрын
  • GIRL NOT THE HATE COMMENTS LMFAO, lovely video

    @msmelancholy@msmelancholy3 ай бұрын
    • Tysm

      @abclarisma@abclarisma3 ай бұрын
  • 3:57 i'm 5'6 too and the tallest in my class. Can you recommend ways to not feel uncomfortable taking space and standing tall? It makes me feel big in a bad way and people are really judgmental about taller girls especially in Asia, i think yk what i mean since you're Asian too.

    @Trickyyeditss@Trickyyeditss3 ай бұрын
    • Being short is great and being tall is also great. You can be a model, or do sports. Own it, and be a kind person to others ofc. If ppl are still judgmental, they’re probably jealous of your height

      @abclarisma@abclarisma3 ай бұрын
    • ​@@abclarisma Thank you!

      @Trickyyeditss@Trickyyeditss3 ай бұрын
  • while I agree with you about these suggestion, the irony here is that, these pointers you provided is counter-intuitive to being an introvert. Make eye contact, be talkative and funny and put out a positive vibe with smiles, etc. Just thinking out loud here, that's all. Have a good one!

    @atirocks@atirocks2 ай бұрын
    • Thank you for the feedback! Although I definitely consider myself to be a pretty funny person

      @abclarisma@abclarisma2 ай бұрын
    • tell me something funny then@@abclarisma

      @atirocks@atirocks2 ай бұрын
    • @@abclarisma as a funny person, i want you to tell me something funny!

      @atirocks@atirocks2 ай бұрын
    • Something funny

      @abclarisma@abclarisma2 ай бұрын
    • @@abclarisma ive heard that before. Tell me a funny joke

      @atirocks@atirocks2 ай бұрын
  • You already are attractive

    @baconpenguin94@baconpenguin943 ай бұрын
    • Back at you

      @abclarisma@abclarisma3 ай бұрын
  • 🩵🩵🩵🩵

    @liyarah8392@liyarah83925 ай бұрын
    • 🫶🫶🫶

      @abclarisma@abclarisma5 ай бұрын
  • We need videos on self love...🤍🌷 Btw u are so pretty 🌺

    @Anushka..00093@Anushka..000935 ай бұрын
    • Thank you! I will definitely some of those videos in the future

      @abclarisma@abclarisma5 ай бұрын
  • Sooo by any chance would this advice help me get your number

    @rockelatch2313@rockelatch23136 ай бұрын
    • Thank you hahaha

      @abclarisma@abclarisma6 ай бұрын
  • i loved the video, it was really helpful! 🤍 wishing all the best for you!

    @elaineirie@elaineirie6 ай бұрын
    • Thank you so much for your support!

      @abclarisma@abclarisma6 ай бұрын
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