11 simple things that make anyone instantly more attractive :)
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03:10 - Posture
03:52 - Skincare
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04:52 - Grooming
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05:35 - Confidence
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Lana blakley please make vedio on how to develop confidence and achieve things 💓😭
Why make more tips about attraction if there is no fun on that self-improvement is good for low pride people but these kind of content are waste of time there no reason to go for these kind of things.
I subbed, Lana. Thanks, girl.
You have no idea I still think girls look at my looks not at my heart? That I hold deal to my chest but when I look at myself I'm so critical about my reflection dose that make sense?
Here's my attractive list: 1. Gorgeousness 2. Fitness and self-care 3. Humility and humbleness 4. Kindness 5. Self-respect and respect for others 6. Emotional intelligence 7. Sense of humour 8. Self-confidence 9. Ambition/goal-driven 10. Generosity and thoughtfulness 11. Peacefulness Edit: my bonus attractive trait is: 12. Authenticity (this one is a complete turn-on for me).
Thanks for sharing. This is great 🥰🥰❤❤
@@deutschmitpurple2918 thank you :)
Love it! ❤
definitely peaceful people attract right people, my kind too, thanks for sharing here
@@mayanlogos92 thank you. I really don't like the noise and chaos. I'm an introvert. So, that's why I prefer being around peaceful people because I'm peaceful myself.
simple thing #1, be Lana Blakely XD
(≧▽≦) hehe agree
or be you :)
@@Someone06919 you're too cute (⁄ ⁄•⁄ω⁄•⁄ ⁄)⁄ , thank you xx
You could always try being yourself?! 💕
lol
Dress well Sit straight Skin care Be confident Got it😌✨
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only if ur naturally pretty 👩🏻
@@EXXTREMEGAMER5600 lol
@@EXXTREMEGAMER5600 no younjust gotta be your best self....things don't turn out the way you want even after bejng your best self then fuck everyone else I am awesome mentality attracts people to you.
@@EXXTREMEGAMER5600 And you wonder why you think you look ugly. ☠️
Simple things that make anyone instantly more attractive : 1. Self confidence. 2. Being healthy. 3. The way we dress & accessories. 4. Posture. 5. Skincare. 6. Haircare. 7. Grooming. 8. Taking care of ourselves. 9. Smelling good. 10. Good attitude. 11. Be kind & humble. 12. Being clean & neat. 13. Manners. 14. Always smile & be happy.
These are some really good things to follow! Although it would be really REALLY almost impossible to follow the last one; I never liked sitting with my benchmates in college for 9 hours straight hearing them talk immature unprofessional shit..not to mention I used to be a straight A student in school and since college started my grades dropped real real hard, I always feel guilty I'm being rude to people online (online friends ig) even tho at the same time I think I pay the most attention. I think I'm the dulkest student in my class (others aren't passionate about education and copy their way through exams, I pity them every single time) Now I cannot smile and be happy because my classmates will pay attention to me more and distract me, and everytime I try to enjoy something bad always hits. And mine's a strict Indian college so there's really no time to get emotionwl and be happy and all and talk and smile. That's why I hate it when my friends keep talking during class all the time. One of them thinks she's way too cute and I just cant- she immature My apologies for ranting negative things, I love your comment. Thank you for the tips 💛
Self-confidence is earned it's not simple to get!
14 is a bit odd. Being happy and smiling does help, but it is impossible to always be happy. And I'd be freaked out if something terrible happened and all the person could do is express happiness. Open communication about emptions is nice and empathy
@@MissMoontree I think it means just be positive in general. But yes you got to be real too. No one likes a negative person though
No-1)Looks No-2)Voice No-3)race No-4)Status these are the main ingredient for sexual attraction which is core of all relationships which means a women has to be attracted to the mans body,face first.Otherwise nothing will.And no i dont want love from women.I dont care about love.Its meaningless
After a month being stuck deeply in depression I have no clue why but this video calmed me somehow. It made me realize how much my depression let me neglect myself and I think taking care of myself will also bring me uphill again a bit more. You made my day. Thank you a lot❤
depression is so hard, i hope things look up for you soon! sending love
When you start trying some of these tips, take it one step at a time. Don't feel like you have to get everything right at once! Take care ❤
If you have no clue why but this video calmed you, then it actually didn't calm you..
After having to go through a similar thing I can relate.
@@cccc2740 What she's saying is the video did calm her for a reason, but she doesn't know what that reason is
Instinctively we are attracted to people who look "healthy". It is an archetype in us, seeking the most appropriate partner for having offspring. So of course, your posture, your skin, your hair, teeth, nails, smell, grooming suggests health. And then, because we are not animals 😁, the whole representation of the person. Strong, independent, kind, good manners, eloquent, someone who is approachable, someone who suggests an interesting inner world which we want to explore.
Came to say the same thing! All of the things mentioned all anomalistically tell us someone is “healthy” and therefore good to breed with haha
technically we are animals but we are more modernized to where the last things on this list matter as well!
we are animals
Comments like these makes me think "Are the heterosexuals okay? "
@@MoonchildDontCry What an off-putting comment
Having a humble, kind personality. It really doesn't matter what you look like.
kindness can make even the average person insanely attractive
I like that at the beginning she acknowledges the importance of looks. I think we should also acknowledge the importance of voice tones and volumes because I started forwarding up the video so fast just after a few seconds 😆
Ever since I started watching your videos this year, my life seems to just feel better. The wholesome, homely feeling of exploring topics which I usually avoid is just so... Thank you for everything.
Personally, me before 6 months at the lowest point in did all the things opposite to what you mentioned- not dressing well , no skincare or fitness , worst posture and always focusing on the negative side . I am in awe that I actually worked on all the things you mentioned here!! along with my therapy and my mental health going uphill I really have attracted many right people and friends and also around 4-5 guys approached me you know ! never been this confident and secured in my body :) I'm in tears....ah! thanks lana , love u
These things really don't work for longer duration,sister ,the time you are giving on your fashion,,grooming,hairstyle,etc if started giving to your career and studies then you would reach heights of success and forget about 4-5 people,you would attract 400-500 people,if you become super successful who have a lot of money, that's reality,accept it or else you know
@@mainaksen280 It's not about studies or being successful. You know what does make you successful? Not money. Not business. Happiness. OP said they used to live unhealthily. They weren't taking care themselves and was always negative. Of course, this isn't bad, but it's not good either. What is good, is that they changed. Mental health will always be first, no matter what. I think you should start thinking like that too.
@@user-lu9yk1zx6n I absolutely agree with you.
woah great
i also experienced same as yours :)
I love Lana so much!! To me, you're like a big sister giving us advice & chatting with us when we're struggling haha
I’ve always admired your videos and the calm demeanour but i am loving that the vibes of this channel are getting more and more warm and intimate, how you’ve improved the quality over the years and the topics, it’s all so good!❤
Awesome tips on how to be more attractive, Lana! Love this! Being attractive is so much more than looking good! Thanks again for another inspiring video!
Love this video, makes sense and helps reflect on oneself. This video gave me the motivation to stop hiding my happiness about life (even if sometimes things are yucky), life is/can be so beautiful.
YESSSSS...part 2 please. I do really enjoy these types of your videos. Short and on point
gurl you're literally the supreme energy here on my feed... idk abt others, but your video content is really worth my time lana !!!! it's really worth everybody's time 💕
Woow, such a great content. No sugarcoating straight to the point. Definitely looking forward to part 2
Hello how r u doing Just came by here to tell you that in this video u were incredibly honest and open about ur struggles with self confidence which i hugely appreciate And u give good advices about it 2 which is really really good Keep up with the good work and have a nice day 😊
I feel an incredible lightness while watching the video, your way of talking is so calming. great video, thank you!
Yes, please do a part 2! Very well conveyed points in this one.
This is the first time I have seen your channel, I don't really like to sit and listen to youtube videos without doing something else at the same time but I was mesmerized by your voice! Your video is very relaxing and informative
Part 2 please!! I love your videos, they really boost my mood!
Part 2 would be great, especially for habits that people may not always be aware of ❤
Love the whole vibe of this video, so much positivity. I like your hair, it looks really nice!
Really loves this video. Also I like your hair and your gesture. Basically, you’re like the definition of perfect. Waiting for part 2 anyway!
As a pilates instructor I can confirm that your posture makes people so drawn to you! Everyone slouches over so when you don't, it's a rarity that people are naturally attracted to 😊
WE NEED PART TWO. THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO 💖
part 2 would be great! enjoyed this video too, thank you so much lana!!
a huge one that i feel is overlooked a lot is someone's voice. This can make or break a person's attractiveness I feel
you should definitely shoot the second part. This is an amazing work. You are like a sister who talks sincerely, thank you ❤❤🌞🌞
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i randomly saw your video and it made my mood low to suddenly calm and relaxed ..i was ovethinking about certain things but even though i didnt need any counselling on being attractive but listening to you reminded me that i have my own life to take care of ..thank youu so much LANA , love from INDIA 💞💞
Part 2 please, I really love your content Lana. It makes me become a more delicate and thoughtful person which is my self-growth goal now. Once again, thank you so much. I wish you lots of luck in life.
love your videos lana! and yes to a part 2 💛
I like this corner of youtube, its so pleasant and mannerly lol.
Hi Ms. Lana,do a second part of this video pretty please? 😭 It's just so good to watch your videos especially like this content. Thanks in advance Ms. Lana 😚
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, we need definitely part 2 please.
great tips! looking forward to part 2 🔥
Great video Lana! Amazing take on a topic that I believe every young adult thinks about, whether consciously or subconsciously 👌
i love how realistic you are, i love hearing you talk
The health thing is arguably the most important because, as you say, it's a fundamental instinct, but it makes me so sad because I'm chronically ill and there's literally nothing I can do about that. When I was healthy, it reflected in every aspect of me, and people were drawn to me back then. Nowadays I have dull skin, tired eyes, my head is too foggy to engage in conversation like I once could, I don't have the energy to work out how I used to, or to even invest in my individuality like I did before. I kind of just have to survive now. I feel so much less human and I think I'm seen as less human, too.
I am so sorry you feel like that...I struggle with low self-esteem due to the same problem....
Guys, being healthy is something we cannot always control but that does not mean we should lower how good we feel about ourselves. It's definitely difficult but have faith in yourself, believe even if you think nothing can change your situation still believe and trust me, if you start having even a little, very tiny sliver of optimism, you'll start feeling better and eventually good about yourself, you'll accept yourself as you are and once that happens you will naturally attract other people The thing you would want is to love yourself as you are. It's ok if you are not in the best of your health or to not have things you want, you did not choose it purposely and if someone judges you for that, better people are waiting for you and trust me there are It really starts with you, with how you feel about yourself. You don't have to think about others Care about and love yourself Accept yourself as you are I definitely know how difficult what i said may sound, but that's how things are. And if you can help yourself and get over your insecurities, kudos to you, it's gonna be worth it
its literally me, I'm cronically ill and I feel so bad about it
Ugh, so sorry you are in this situation, too, I am also chronically ill and relate to every word you wrote, literally...
it’s crazy how much hair can change how you look. i went through a phase where i tried to use heat to style my hair (that and i worked at a pool) so my hair became very damaged so i cut most of it off in hopes of starting over. at times i don’t feel very feminine because i’ll wear baggy clothes and darker shades so now I’m trying to balance my wardrobe to still be me but also more feminine
Ikr I totally agree with you
You’re so professional in front of the camera , i be like damn, lana it’s fascinating to see your growth at it (i mean you’ve looked good on camera before too, but now you’re just like a professional
I love how you got straight to the point 👏🏼👏🏼
Yes we do want part two of this
Part 2 please. I love you Lana!
Very much been figuring this out myself over the course over 2022 after doing 12 rounds with anxiety and depression, so thank you for this, thank you for confirming that I at least am making the right steps, even if I'm not 100% there yet. 😁 You just earned another subscriber. 😁
Great tips Lana! Please make part 2 :)
you inspire me every day with your content, i appreciate it
Yes, please make a part 2! This was so so lovely. I’m glad you focused on the things you did-your appearance, taking care of yourself, grooming, hair, good oral health, being healthy, your smell, etc, are all soo important. Some additional things for part two: people who have interests/hobbies/passions. It’s soo unattractive when people say they are boring and do nothing but work, sleep, eat & play video games, Lol. Having interests immediately makes a person interesting. I also love to read, and I find men who read to be sooo attractive. I don’t even care what they read, but there’s something so sexy about a man reading.
Everything is temporary, good things are temporary, bad things are temporary. Only God is eternal. You don’t need a man/ woman, you need God, and God will give you everything that you need. A man/woman will love you for your physical look/ charisma/ money/ intelligence….. or all the temporary things to fill a void that THEY need to fill and will only love you if you meet their needs, but God loves you for who you are, whatever you are and no matter what your past is. In fact, God doesn’t need you, you need Him and He can do whatever He wants anytime with you, yet He loves you. “Make every effort to enter through the narrow door, because many, I tell you, will try to enter and will not be able to.” _ Luke 13: 24 “Then Jesus said to his disciples, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. For whoever wants to save their lifewill lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will find it.” _ matthew 16: 24-25 “When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” _ John 8:12 “Be enthusiastic to serve the Lord, keeping your passion toward him boiling hot! Radiate with the glow of the Holy Spirit and let him fill you with excitement as you serve him.” _ Romans 12:11
we’d love a part 2!
Lanaaa, please share your hair care and blow out routine. They look amazing !!
I feel like we don’t talk enough about how beautiful Lana is! 😍
I felt that too 🙂. She is really beautiful 🖤
Literally... I was just scrolling through videos, and seeing her face on the thumbnail smiling is simply a sight of beauty to be admired. Some people are blessed with such a beautiful appearance.
That's like, half of the comments in almost every one of her videos. But yes, she is gorgeous.
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She is kurdish :)
The way u said the word Nope and the music playing in the background was awesome and it makes me feel too good
Congrats on 1mili Lana!!!! Love you❤❤❤❤❤. Thank you for this video!
I'd love to see a part two to this video ☺️💛
So thoughtfully titled!
Thank you for this video. I discovered many things, and this made me feel a little relieved and happy ✨✨
part 2, Lana, please! Thank you!!
I love you Lana! Thank you for your videos! 🥰❤
I would love a part 2!
Thank you, this reminds me that I need to work on these!!
Thank you Lana for this video ❤
Yay another video!! Keep posting
I just love her video aesthetic. Like its just so soft n pleasing to look at while listening to her voice...
I would bs absolutely happy if you made a part two
We NEED a part 2 ♥️
I can only agree to your list :) It doesn't always have to be a great makeover, some little tweaks here and there will do just fine! Not only will it change how one is perceived by other, but more importantly also by yourself! I have hyperhidrosis (excessive sweating), which makes it very hard to wear what I'd really feel comfortable in when in public. That's why I mostly keep my old out-washed stuff that make sweat invisible, but make me feel even more bad. Wearing clothes that look good on me *and* make great sweat stains invisible make me feel so much better, and I think that does show in the end :)
I'm really looking forward to part 2
You are correct. My life is changing.. i can feel it. Thank you so much
Would be more than glad to have a part two Lana :) thank you for this
My most favorite LanA💘👸❤
would love to see a part 2:))
@lana Blakely love the content of your videos! Serves more like a fresh revision of stuff I already know but presented in a much better way ! If possible, could you share your wardrobe essential tips + where do you shop your clothes from?
Yes please. Part 2!
Always amazing to see my fav KZheadr uploads 💖
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Lana, I really would appreciate if you upload your hair routine with an hair tutorial of your wavy classy hairstyle. It's so beautiful!
Sorry it's taking so long but I do have a hair video coming up :)
Love your vibe, thank you! Can you make a tutorial to style your hair like in this video please? I'm in love with it 😊😊
You always inspire myself, Lana. You are wonderful person
Great video! Looking forward to Part 2! I hope you have a beautiful Sunday Lana! :)
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Sometimes i don’t really need ur advices but i’m still watching whole ur videos to see ur smile, hear ur voice, that’s make me feel better. I’m pretty sure i’m not the only one who feel like that 😊😊
yes, please, i'm all in for a second part 🌟
I love watching your videos, your voice is so calming😊
Yep...This is so good.....Why not a Part 2 ♥🤩
Thanks Lana for all ur work and just wanted to appreciate you for ur efforts :)
many thanks!! :)
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Yes please ..waiting for part 2 on this very topic
Great content thank you so much, will wait for part 2 please.
Thank you so much for such an amazing video Lana! Love you
She's S0oooooo gorgeous🌷👸 top Vloger in my heard💘💞❤❤❤
What attracts me (just my opinion😊): 1-Making me laugh 2- Having a kind look/gaze (I can have a crush on someone because their gaze seems loving and trustworthy) 3- Feeling protected: you don't need to be strong but as an anxious person I really enjoy peaceful, calming persons (weirdly one of the most calming person I know has a life full of twists and turns😏) 4- A good looking face 5- Did I mention humour ? 7- General knowledge, knowing surprising facts that will amaze me 6- Being fit That's all for me :)
What do you mean by good looking face is she need to be fair and have good features wtf was that
Ok 👌🏼 good relationship with you congrats to you im telling to you truly I'm married man my age 63 my wife she Filipino 35 years House Wife ok I'm needing only one good partner firstly I'm don't cheeting any one
@@tanyakaur8648 Hey! First of all I am a woman who only pursues heterosexual relationships thus I am describing features I find attractive on men. Moreover, in my country (France), being fair isn't a beauty norm, just a feature shared by most (although different ethnicities are also French, we are mostly white). Finally, finding some features appealing is just personal taste and totally normal.
exactly the point here is our choice.
@@alexandraapolline8434 Is your list in order of importance to you? Asking bc of my girlfriend, our relationship could be better
I really enjoy this video This video helps me so much Please make Part 2!!
Yes have a part 2!!
i can’t get over how perfect ur hair is
You're too sweet
Firstly, you are AWESOME! unexpectedly, came across this wonderful channel. A little tip from me, sometimes being attractive doesn't always lie on the physical aspect. It also lie on the way we think, the way we speak, and the way we treat others. The more better it is, the more attractive we automatically become. : )
Yes be kind ( beings 💕 is a beautiful 😍 Thing so be kind smile 😃😊
I hope your next part about this topic. Love you
i find it so attractive when someone is genuinely laughing and smiling idk what it is but it makes me wanna smile too 😊
Let's appreciate her beauty as well guys💕💕
A good way to think about how to be more "attractive" (which is quite different from just being beautiful/hot/handsome) is to think: If you met someone who was really physically attractive/ beautiful/ handsome, etc., what qualities could they have would make you NOT want to be around them? You'd probably list things like rudeness, arrogance, boring to talk to, no sense of humour... keep listing things, and right there you have a perfect list of what someone can do to be more attractive...
she said it, care about yourself and how you look it changes so much. fax!.
your voice is so calming
One trick I learnt is giving a genuine compliment to the person you meet. Instantly puts a smile on their face and breaks the ice.
Part 2, please ☺️