Attractive Guys ALWAYS Do These 6 Things
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1. Have integrity 2. Take care of themselves (inside and out, healthy habits) 3. Dress for success, grooming 4. Even-tempered, keeps cool in stressful situations 5. Manners - gentlemanly gestures, kind to others 6. Passion/drive/purpose, skillset
we need space to caress our junk too
Skill set=things you could do for them
@@Dman425 it’s not like that.. women are impressed with all kinds of things.. like if you are good at chess, or can juggle etc etc
@@12233445566abc probably not. But, it sure doesn’t hurt, does it?
Thank you
6 things men would like about attractive women: 1. Have integrity 2. Have integrity 3. Have integrity 4. Have integrity 5. Have integrity 6. Have integrity
Men of integrity attract women of integrity. It's automatic. Women of integrity notice men of integrity and automatically gravitate towards them.
@@shaybs 🧢
You ever notice that the list of what women would want is what men would also want in women?
@@shaybs bullshit site your source or its just your hot air opinion
@@Gamers_RiseUp Right, at this point it shouldn’t even be a question! We are living in a time in history where the worst, most selfish, promiscuous, disloyal, most entitled women that ever lived exist!
Most men love an even-tempered woman too. Not the belligerent ones who fly off the handle over every little thing.
Absolutely! 🙌🏼 as they should
Storm, you are the man! Finally we have somebody who can tell Courtney ryan that she shouldn’t live in Disney world of her own imagination
@@CourtneyRyan really? you always talk about how men MUST behave but you have NEVER talked about the other side
@@zwollekira8202 actually she made plenty of videos about how women should or shouldn’t behave
@@zwollekira8202 I talk about this a lot, actually. Go watch Fridays video as an example lol
I thank my Mom for constantly telling me (when I was a kid) to stand up straight, be courteous, and be respectful to both women and men...and it has paid off in spades throughout my life.
Courtney does sound like a mom, and as we know moms know best when it comes to getting laid, right guys? LOL!
Confidence and Genuine. Respects others and treats everyone as an equal, doesn't matter if this person is a waitress or CEO.
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Being genuine is part of having integrity. When you have integrity you don't change who your are or your values based on the people or women around you. You present your genuine self.
Courtney won't reply, bc she is very busy and above you....
@@CourtneyRyan doesn't matter, unless its courtney.... then she is only with mega stars... not a waiter...see its all a lie... just get used to women belittling you , just tell em some Bullshit like a dumb lady wants to hear...
chess proves that ladies are not as smart as men... just get over it... women are the ones that can create life...
Thank you for sharing these helpful tips, Courtney! Having integrity is so important.
My girlfriend goes absolutely crazy because she thinks I am too calm and collected. I like to be in absolute control of my actions and reactions and she goes crazy... lol
Me according to gf: *calm emotionless robot that likes cuddles and makes her feel safe* Me in reality: "I can't sleep, their voices never stop screaming, and she's the only innocent thing left in my life"
@@rockytom5889 you good man?
@@Razor-gx2dq Yeah...am now. Thanks to her the voices are slowly dissapearing, and sleep is better. Also she's trying to teach me these things called 'feelings', which I think I forgot how to operate a decade ago, so it's been pretty scary, but she's been there to reassure me every time. I'm blessed to have such a creature in my life...cause I cannot make many people happy, usually I make them sad or horrified...she was genuinely curious and happy...so strange, but here we are, me(20), a kid who was fighting not to die since he was born, and it never stopped, just got more trouble added, and a little abused girl(21), who just wanted to be treated like a human being. We ain't perfect people with perfect lives, but we've paid our dues. I'll be there to beat down on whatever life throws at us, and she'll be there with me
@Laura UK Yeah, you're right...I plan on getting that sorted, it's just that sometimes you fall in so deep you don't even know how to reach out until you got someone who needs you.
@Laura UK I agree wholeheartedly, I think it is extremely important for a person to be in the right place mentally.
“Girls want guys with incredibly good skills” -Napoleon Dynamite
@KCBOBX “they’re really big”
Bow hunting skills… computer hacking skills… girls want guys with skills!
Nunchuck skills
As a girl originally from Miami I agree with what you said about girls who will look elsewhere if the guy is making less than a desirable salary. It's so so sad how many people there are so shallow. The funny thing is you know people are struggling but they will not admit it and will have a lifestyle outside of their means. I had several friends whose cars were repossessed. 🤦🏻♀️
Ouch its even better to buy second hand cars though just for utility but don't buy it actually if you just want to show off
Wow, that is really sad. It's awful that many women only look at the bank account and not all the other lovely qualities a guy may have.
Hey Courtney, thanks for the content! I’ve found it to be really helpful. You actually remind me a lot of my grandmother. She was always a southern lady with poise and class, and I’m sure she was a lot like you when she was younger.
Happy Sunday Courtney! I had commented on a video you did last week about how a lot of guys lack self confidence because they tend to overlook or undervalue virtues they already possess, like the ones you mention here. People in general, both men and women, have a tendency to prioritize qualities that are more apparent to others on the surface. I think having integrity is the most important virtue that support all the other qualities on your list to complete a high value individual.👍🏻
I love this comment! 🥰
@@CourtneyRyan thanks and that’s very encouraging, Courtney! Btw, I also follow Teddy’s watch channel and you both have the best content in your respective fields of interest on YT.😎👍🏻👍🏻
All the points you brought up are very helpful. The points alone are good, but your subtle emotions and feelings that come out while explaining the points are what really make the points memorable. Thank you for the video. 🙏
All the things my father and grandpa, and mom and grandma too, taught me while growing up! Too bad much of the last one or two generations have stopped teaching and the young have stopped learning. You are making a difference Courtney!
Atractive men are also the ones who are humble, and do not brag about their achievments. Great video, your content is gold.
🙌🏼 agreed! Thank you so much!
Hey Courtney love your videos keep up the awesome content 😁❤️
"Be a man with a plan", as well as a man of integrity, takes cares of himself, looks his best, well-mannered, and even-tempered! When I was in the military, it was drummed into us to act with integrity and remain cool in stressful situations. Good list Courtney... these traits can apply to women as well.
but it won't apply to women, bc of double standards...
Have all these things and still not even be considered date worthy to most modern women because you don't meet their insane shallow physical body standards of being at least 6ft, or this penis size, or not being bald, blah blah blah Easy way to go from a 8 out of 10 confident genuine guy to a worthless 5 out of 10 all because of your height bro, didn't you see courtneys other video where the women were shame rating men based on things they can't change lol
@@againstdrivingdrunk614 , you don't have to date someone you're not into. Same goes for women.
@@andrebaxter4023 haha its 75% luck... you have to get lucky with timing / location / scheduling etc... to meet the right person.
6:28 exactly! You don't be nice to women or others to try to attract them. You do it because it's the right thing to do. All these characteristics are things you need to do all the time even by yourself. They are not to trick people. You need to become this person all the time.
Doing the right thing only leads to falling short, Cobra Kai season 4 emphasized this This is something I need to get better at but be nice to an extent, but don’t be afraid to be mean to her. If she gets offended and pissed off, just realize it’s subjective, and that you just aren’t her type
I really like how genuine you are and I think you have a very good perspective on just how to be a good person. Thank you.
Keep up the good work Courtney! Great video as always
Happy Sunday Courtney! I think myself as a confident guy in mid 30s, nice relationship with a good woman who supports me and vice versa, and a well mannered, mellow. Just by the best version of you and only allow the people who bring value to you and the ones who are toxic, don't bring value, cut them out. Sending love from Florida
Happy Sunday John! Thanks for the comment! ❤️
@@CourtneyRyan You're welcome, Courtney! 😘
I simply have to say something here. It is not to offend you. But by calling other human beings "toxic" and having the need to "cut them out" it only shows that you are insecure and lack of latitude. That is the straight opposite of being a well mannered guy. ;)
Love your videos Courtney, always great value
The problem with these traits is that it takes time for a woman to notice them. That's probably why (back when we worked in offices), women thought of their office mates as attractive, because that's when these qualities can show. These aren't things you'd notice just meeting someone in a bar. I think of this advice is more for guys that want to keep a girl, than get a girl.
Exactly, these traits mean nothing if the woman isn't attracted to you at all.
Looks are 80% of what makes a man attractive.
Was going to say the same. This more like tips for keeping a partner
I don't agree. If you dress for success like myself. Even though I'm not good looking. I barely hit 7 on a scale of ten. However, dressing well, being well mannered, listening and being kind makes women get attracted to you. If you follow her advice, trust me women will be attracted to you. Have good intentions. Women notice all these subtle things she mentions and trust me it gets your foot in the door. She'll ask you out to get some coffee to get to know one another. That doesn't mean she'll be your girlfriend or you manage to get her. It just means these traits get your foot in the door.
@@coolnut99 SMV not looks
Thanks Courtney for the video !
Your channel is growing rapidly. Congrats. You've been getting a lot more viewers on your videos. Congrats. How do decide on what content to make sure you don't get repetitive? Always great content.
Thank you so much for your kind comment! I appreciate it 🥺 I keep a long list of ideas, I have so many! There will be times when I mention similar points in videos that I think are important but I really try my best to frame it in a different way so my viewers get something new out of it. Thank you again!
I find "confidence" a really vague and unhelpful thing people are "attracted" to, like whenever I see a woman say a guy is confident, they usually just mean he's a poser, whereas to me I see those guys as very low confidence, but then I don't actually know what to do in any situation to evoke confidence, and think "what does that word even mean?"
3:50 "know what is appropriate for specific situations;" yes, because women like men who just 'get it.' Men should always be growing, which includes learning something new daily. Style is fun, fads are stressful. Learn what is "appropriate!"
I love your honesty and how u bring the content
Thanks Courtney 😊 I think thinking of your actions, re development, in the context of the three basic desires from a partner (from your channel or maybe Rebecca Barret's) for men and women is helpful. Men: (a) Honour/respect; (b) Nurturing/supportive; and (c) Love (more physical than emotional). Women: (i) Security; (ii) Protection; and (iii) Love (more emotional than physical). So being physically fit and emotionally balanced ties into (ii). Having a passion, and learning mindset ties into (i), etc. Though in the first instance, you should be doing these things for yourself!
Things that attract and keep women - Money - Money - Money
Courtney i started watching your videos. Enjoy all of them. You seem wise beyond your years. I thought you were older than you are only because of your knowledge on most subjects
Hard to believe people have to be reminded about having good manners. Great video Courtney. 👍🏾
Thank you ❤️
I can see where manners when addressing people around you are important. Being a respectful man in charge and in control obviously shows respect and confidence. I didn’t agree with the opening doors, helping you take your coat off stuff though, especially not with someone you just met. Women want what they can’t have and a man who is falling all over a women they just met will crash and burn. Women fantasize about this type of stuff, but in the dating game it doesn’t work. You gotta have looks and, or money to attract women, It’s just the way it is, and nice, guys, and girls finish last.
Nice guys finish last, that doesn’t apply to women though. Nice women finish first
Love your videos very helpful Courtney Ryan thumbs up 👍
all these comedown to one mindful though... "love yourself" mentally and physically ..then all 6 points will follow .. love your post Courtney ..be safe
Thank you for your videos Courtney. This was somewhat helpful. E-Hugs.
Courtney You are the best wingman for us guys! Love all your content!
Hey Girl. You are going places. You seem intelligent, feminine and well spoken. Keep it up!
My ex fiance has some attachment issues and everything on this list was magnified ten-fold. I'm pretty even tempered, was working towards goals, etc etc but anytime I slipped even a little she never forgot it. Like, I think I swore at a car one time with good reason imo and it made her feel unsafe. At the same time, I can't blame myself for the breakup. Men, you're going to slip on occasion. As long as you aren't being abusive, yelling at them, emotionally unstable, etc etc and yet you're being blamed for your partner's unhappiness, it could also be that your woman has attachment issues to work through. Yes maybe there's things you need to work on but don't blame yourself for everything. You also need a woman who can forgive and communicate her needs with you
@Laura UK that makes sense, but honestly I don't think almost getting killed and having a brief emotional reaction is something only emotionally unstable people do and if a woman or a man for that matter can't read that I can't blame their partner
Integrity is a must and rightfully #1 on the list! I used to stress over this, but in hindsight, they're just weeding themselves out
🙌🏼 exactly
Tommy, you dropped something 🎤
Yeah, it's not stressed enough the difference between what attracts a healthy woman and an unhealthy one. I've known women that dislike even tempered men, for example, seeking out wild passionate flings instead. In the wrong environment you can have all of these qualities and still struggle.
Loyalty would seem to be a #1 need then integrity
@@drip369 lol love it!
This is to answer your question you asked at the end of the video. My skillset is vehicle maintenance (mechanic). It's interesting to some women, yet not all. Being a mechanic has its advantages such as working on her car when asks. Giving her advice on automotive things she can handle on her own. Maybe some conversation about automotive stuff if she likes car shows & such. Yet the disadvantages can be, my weathered and beat up hands (it comes with the job). My normal off duty attire reflects that I am a mechanic. You know, the shirts and hats with automotive murals on them along with a pair of blue jeans and work type shoes. It's all clean and crisp though. I do clean up well and keep my beard and mustache groomed nice. I'm just not one to wear all those latest men's fashion trends. I stick with the timeless stuff. By the way, I like your channel. Thanks for a good video.
Manners, manners, manners. Absolutely #1. If you want to learn a lot about someone really quickly? Meet them in a restaurant and watch closely how they treat and talk to the waiter/waitress. It never fails to reveal positive and negative traits. I live in South Florida, manners, honesty, and integrity are three things not found in many woman here. Fact.
Discovered you today. You got a mine of inspiring video messages. 👍🏼
Wow! You are beautiful but have great advice. I appreciate the honest truth and advice. It’s much appreciated. This channel seems legit and I appreciate the true advice. Thank you 🙏
I feel this list goes both ways
Yep !
I’ve been playing the violin for 10 years. Just got Corrective exercise certification a few months ago. Hitting instructor. Certified personal trainer. Play in a hardball league. Love working out.
GREAT STUFF , TKS
Great content thank you.
I am new!? But soooo liking what you do!!👍🏾
No bragging but this is so me, they all apply to me. And I’ve been very consistent with these key points the past few years. Thanks for the encouragement Courtney! Generally speaking.
Woohoo! You should be proud of yourself. Doesn’t sound like bragging to me 🙌🏼 keep it up!
@Joseph Thaletas sounds like you lack minding your own business : Ego 🤣
We luv ya Court!! 🙋♂️
Love you guys!! ❤️❤️
Thank you I have been going through a divorce and your videos have helped me a way better person. Realized that I lost myself in this marriage for the last 11 years and that can't happen again. Thank you again for making a better person. I have eating healthy, working out, and bettering myself in many ways. So far have lost 30 pounds and want to for sure lose another 20.
Woohoo! Rooting for you! ❤️
@@CourtneyRyan Thank you it means a lot that you responded to my post! :)
@@evidence-basedhealthuk5271 Hey I know that sometimes you can feel down. I have started talking to women again and have had a few people ask me out. I have told them I am not ready for dating yet. I am bald and have been since I was 25 when I met my soon-to-be ex-wife. There are many woman that aren't shallow, the ones that are you don't want to be with them. Just have to be confident in yourself, be honest, and be a great person. I believe in you, you will find a special someone.
Her voice omg I could listen all day
I am learning to play guitar. I built one myself and bought one from the store. Funny thing is I walked away from a woman learned harmonica moved to guitar and she pursues me a little now. Took your advice 8 months ago and it works every time.
I need HELP! There is a girl im talking to. One time we were talking over the phone and she was quiet. I told her if she doesnt speak im coming over to her house. She stayed quiet and i drove to her house late at night. She didnt want to come out in the beginning but she did eventually. We hugged and talked for 10 mins. While i was driving home she texted me to never to that again. She called me and started crying that i ruined her weekend and then told me that shes keeping me over the phone. Because if she cant sleep i shouldnt be able to😂 Im not the only one talking to her. And one time i was pissed of with everything. For 2 weeks i was thinking about what she wants with us. She noticed me at work and she knew i was pissed. She started to text me and call me. Didnt answer. At about 11 pm i texted and called her back because she was begging me to answer. I told her that maybe its best for her to move on with someone she feels comfortable with and forget about me. She told me before that she feels uncomfortable around me and she doesnt know what to say and that im hard to read and that im complicated. When i said that she should move on she started crying/sobbing. I asked her why shes crying. She said because youre saying you not going to talk to me. My question is: is she interested and what do i do?
I'm in 3 bands. I love music/art it's my passion.
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1) Be tall Don’t waste your time on this woman’s videos
Important video. Thank you.
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#2 is a big struggle for me. I'm allergic to a lot of things (corn, gluten, soy, white rice, sugar, milk), so I'm forced to eat healthy. But genetics fight against me and I have to work doubly hard to maintain any kind of physique. It's a constant struggle, especially since I work physically active jobs as well. My other fear is that when/if I ever get the body I really want then I'll just attract more shallow women. It's probably a silly thing to worry about, but I worry nonetheless. I don't have time or emotional energy to sift through shallow women. All the other items on the list are things I've maintained for a long while (not bragging, but I do prioritize being a good, contributing member of society). So it's not like I have trouble attracting women. But I think being even more physically attractive will help me look how I portray myself as, otherwise I feel kind of like a phony. I do enjoy being active (hikes, walking around the city, playing basketball, etc), but I don't 100% look the part due to ongoing health struggles since birth. The struggle is real. 😆 Anyway, thanks for the checklist! All of them are very important to keep in play.
I feel the same way, but for different reasons. I’m one of those “hard-gainers” who has such a high metabolism it’s nearly impossible for me to gain muscle and look like the Greek god I’ve always wanted to be like.
genetics? excuses. you're fat cause you eat too much and don't work out enough. period.
Still the best part in all of your videos is the way you pronounce your name😍
Courtney: I have a PhD, no debt, make 90K, have a pension and benefits, car paid off, I am fit and active, I dress well, have good hygiene (nice beard), I can cook, bake, play multiple instruments, speak multiple languages, lived and worked in several countries, study emotional intelligence, and keep a clean well decorated house. I also do swing dance and lindy hop classes twice a week, and I'm an organizer for 3 different meetup groups. I go kayaking, running and hiking. I achieved all my goals except buying a house which will take a year or so to save the down payment. I can only find women who want a FWB with me. I always used to just focus on myself, but I've hit a wall. I don't know ho much more I can build. I'm the guy parents want their daughters to marry. I keep up my confident exterior and I'm happy with myself, but I don't know what else I can do.
Serious question for you, I’m genuinely intrigued by your experience. Are you too nice? See I ask because I was once too nice. I’m older and have been married and divorced, top of my career, educated and in great physical shape. I married in my early twenties and divorced in my forties. Entering back into the dating scene was an eye opener. I had lots of dates that went nowhere. Being tall, athletic, decent looking and successful went far attracting women but none stuck around. I wound up sleeping with a coworker after a party and while I had always been attracted to her never pursued anything because we worked for the same company. I was a bit smitten with her and asked her out. She immediately replied, oh hell no. Dejected I asked why? She was brutally honest, I was the nice guy that all the ladies liked but a complete pushover and it showed. She told me it was a topic of conversation with some of the other company women. I was embarrassed and felt humiliated. She said I was an attractive guy but had no backbone and easily manipulated by women. Looking back their assessment was on point. I went out of my way for women and most of the time got nothing in return. A simp. I had no idea how to change. The next woman I asked out tried jerking me around on a second date and I calmly and respectfully told her I was no longer interested. It felt good to stand up for myself. That same woman chased me for two weeks looking for a second date but I refused. She disrespected me and if I accepted her treatment it wouldn’t get better with time. I had to work on having a spine around women for a few years but it’s paid off because you can be too nice. Just a suggestion.
You seem to have everything, I really don't know, maybe change where you're looking for women? Your Social circles may be a good place to find a woman.
@@scottp2462 Yes, I am told I'm too nice but that's been something I've been working on for years.
@@Razor-gx2dq I the admin for three different meetup groups and go to multiple social dance groups. I even went to a 3 day swing dance retreat last weekend. I'm doing the things I enjoy so I think I'm in the right social circles. I've already changed what I look for in women. My standards have dramatically lowered over the years. All I want is an average woman.
@@Razor-gx2dq My ex girlfriends mom once told her she was lucky to be with me because I "had it all". She met a tall guy with a sailboat on tinder and left me.
I've got all 6 traits you mentioned and no luck w the ladies. heck im such a gentleman that even my college professors would compliment me on it. 🙅♂
I have all of these traits but it means nothing. Women will choose the hot guy even if he has non of these traits or only a few.
Depends on what she is looking for. It is the same for men. If all they are looking for is physical attraction then yes the more attractive/hot person will be their choice. The traits she talks about are more about presenting yourself in the best way overall. Women do pick up on it.
@@Ziip47 every woman and every man needs physical attraction to start with. Don't get me wrong...I'm not ugly, most women check me out when I walk outside. I have good posture, good manners, dress well, smell good, impeccable skin etc. I have a friend that is handsome like myself, same height too but he has skin issues and has a few traits...not ambitious at all. He is jacked however and has a stunning girlfriend but cheats on her with lots of women. I just think the traits mentioned is a question of "are you an adult or still a kid".
Watching this video I learned why some middle age women dealing with me for a few minutes in a while clearly melt for me. Because of my manners. If only I had this same outcome with girls of my age.
Best youtuber out there!
🥺 you’re so kind, thank you!
Piece of advice for the guys. Be friendly to every girls u see treated them how u want to be treated but if u attracted to the girl than give those chivalrous traits towards her like holding the door carrying something heavy for her help her out in anyway ask her questions about her.
People who say that women don't appreciate gentlemen miss the whole point of being one. You do it because you believe it's the right way and not to be approved by anyone. Great material Courtney!
where do you get your "believe right way" handbook? Courtney is on a popular subject but I don't even think the girls she calls hot to interview on her show are hot. Take a few layers of "help" off of Courtney and she is just average.
@@richknisley9287 it's right in there -"believe". Let me rephrase - you do it because it's who you are and you have a strong conviction (by definition subjective) that this is the right way. And that's the whole point.
@@bartekw6970 im just wondering if you made it a teachable subject what would it look like because just saying "believe" only speaks to your depth and not about the accuracy of your content of the belief itself. Either you have something people can or will follow or you have something only you follow in which no one obviously will care
@@richknisley9287 it's the latter.
@@bartekw6970 maybe english isnt your primary language never mind. I asked if you made it a teachable subject. Its the latter makes no sense
What's the dynamic for men looking at a womans income? If the expectation is for a guy to make more than 6 figures in Miami to even look at his direction? Should men expect the same or maybe 80% or more of what he makes to look at the womens direction?
This is great advice for what you prefer in a good honest world, the world I use to know 20+ years ago..... And I completely understand as I try to be my best, probably the best dam 66 year old you'd ever know.... however the ones I've been meeting lately, act like they are the prize, they are little princess's with an attitude, don't care so much about these things, as they are more attractive to more about the buy me, bring me, take me, and the latest exciting thing you can do for them, your a circus act, and/or an entertainment director....
I love movies & music. I play guitar though am not in a band. I’m apparently the guy you want on your team at a trivia night. I can watch pretty much anything as well. I don’t like just one specific film genre.
Follow your passion and purpose gentlemen. Things will fall into place.
Being a photographer and cinematographer has worked out for me. Lucky enough to be able to pursue my craft and have some interesting stories along the way. Regardless of what you’re passion is, it is important for men to have a purpose.
Photographer ?! Could you rate my Instagram pics please ?
How do you got into that line of work ?
@@David-vt9hr I went to film school but there are many different paths. Anyone can buy a camera and learn
1:56 “I don’t know any super attractive man who eats McDonalds every day” May I introduce you to Warren Buffett, Courtney? 🤪 Jk, I totally agree with you. I take pride in having McDonalds a total number of 3 times my whole life!
And who told you that Warren Buffet was an attractive man? :O
Integrity is also another way to be respected by your peers and neighbors which is something women want in their man. If you respect yourself and have the integrity humility and discipline to end up respected by others, there is a better chance she will respect you
Yes!!!!
@John Grigg never heard of it 🤔 I will write it down
Nice video & work. Thank you. I keep faith to our Creator God to be attractive. No one needs to attract the world, only a few who will deeply appreciate you (including a soulmate).
Just be a good man, been teaching that as much as possible
Thanks!
Some topics you addressed to are more like a "hive mind" most likely known as culture and in every State and/or Country has its own "behavior". I personally see countries/states or even some areas as people (the wealthy one, fitness one, chill one, etc.) so I can prepare myself and set my mind to act (not lying of course, if someone asks I tell the truth, it's always better bc at some point they'll catch the lie and look soooo bad at the end) accordingly to that so I can feel secure, confident in any way and I have or don't have a comfort zone bc all places are my comfort zones depends on how you see it haha. 🤷🏻♂️
Crazy part is there are alot of great men with many if not all of these traits, and they are just overlooked and blatantly ignored by the women. I think honestly we should be asking women instead as to why exactly this is
Men described like this tend to be “boring”
Thank you very much
Everything in this video checks out alright except for the part about potential. While she did say that not ALL potential is sexy, that is being too nice. The truth is that the lion share of women don't care about the "potential" and would rather go after a guy who already faced the tests, passed, and is successful. Just remember the quote "women don't care about your struggles they are waiting at the finishing line" and that's all you did to know. They don't which winner they just want a winner and potential for most women translates to "this guy MIGHT make it but he can also fail too & I prefer someone who I know is a winner rather than someone who is a potential loser."
Nahh my guy. The right women will be there running along side you. I know it sounds corny but it is true.
I think 2 - 5 are valid only if u are a good looking guy in general. There are plenty of men who have these traits but women are not interested in them.
Being even tempered. Me: nervous sweating. Even though I tend to be a lot better out in public, when I'm at home I can get wound up and angry at some of the stupidest things, like sporting results going badly, or raging at a video game. This sort of thing sometimes ends up in me throwing anger and hate onto someone who doesn't deserve it, and it negatively affects my outlook on the world which can really hurt my attitude. I really do want to be more positive and optimistic, but due to the amount of crap I have been through, I find it a lot harder to be like that compared to other people. I just know that in the back of my mind, if a woman wants to be with me then they're going to have to have a good level of understanding and mental strength to deal with how I can get sometimes because I have been struggling to find ways of dealing with my temper my whole life.
Men I have a question for you. Do you prefer a women that 1. Have integrity/honest 2. Take care of themselves: both physical and mental well-being 3. Dress right and grooming there hair, face, etc 4. Even tempered; keeps cool in hot situations 5. Manners; says thank you and such 6. Passion, driven, has skills to offer
Yep, where are they ???/ Haven't seen any in the last 20 years.
God forbid you use common sense and rational thinking, man!
@@Martin-jk2ng rare trait these days
@@greg33770 check on the general personality of the people you have chosen to date. THERE is your answer.
@@josesantana770 at my age, i don't really have many options...whats left in the dating world at ppl in their 60's ?????
Integrity= Doing the right thing even when no one is looking!!
Always looking gorgeous 😍 Kourtney.
If a woman is not attracted to you, none of these things matter. You’re a nice guy…
Haha Bingo thank you. You become one of the average "nice guys", that they only start considering for dating once they hit their late 35s-40s typically as single mothers vocally and loudly professing that they are now very desperate and willing to ""lower their insane ridiculous previous body standards that they used to bully and overlook you for" and "settle" for a nice caring loser average guy like us lol But even then if you are lucky to get used by these women, they spend all day dreaming about their former previous massively endowed ex-boyfriends all day until they end up inevtiably cheating on you anyway and destroying the family unit.
Guys manners maketh man always remember. Just to make you guys full proof I went to my best friends wedding they got married to each other. Was well dressed and smelled good. I also had to help to the bride and the groom setup some of the small items for their wedding as well as coordinate their event which attracted a lot of attention. Plus I was respectful to both sides parents introducing myself and saying who I am and why I came 3 hours before the wedding. Got a lot of female attention that night and a lot of wanted to be near me. So what Courtney saying is very true. Also I come from an Indian family so I bow my head to my elders especially if they are grandparents and such so knowing these things if you ever are dating from another culture puts you in big props.
I always dress well and dress to impress and would mostly wear a suit and waistcoat for myself and women.
This is the silliest title ive ever seen yet courtney
Can you make a video on how social media can impact relationships?
If you let social media impact your relationship, you really need to get out of that relationship.
You have very valid points, Courtney. The problem is that too many women have the "nice guys finish last" mentality. They also think that being loud, obnoxious, and disrespectful is cool. Many women need to change their KARDASHIAN WANNABE or CARDI B WANNABE mentalities.
Yep !! The women I've been meeting lately act like they are so entitled, like they are the prize, regardless of their shit poor personality.
Nahhh that isn't true. There is a portion of women who find that attractive but most of the time that isn't what making them happy in the long run. The Nice guys finish last mentality comes from guys who are not confident enough to move through life with purpose. My advice is find something other then women to invest your time and energy into like working out, a career, a passion, or cause. Women will notice and see you have drive and confidence. Being rude, disrespectful, obnoxious are not traits I find attractive in women and I know they don't find attractive about us. (Maybe for a couple years in college but that is about it.)
@@Ziip47 thats how I remember it use to be, back when I was 20-40 years old.....now....with modern woman....YIKES !!! they think, and act like their shit don't stink, trust me, it stinks just like mine does. LOL
@@Ziip47 , Wow! That's a lot of hot air. That was a very fluffy response.
@@Ziip47 These men are perfectly confident moving through life in all different aspects from business to the gym/sports etc. To say these men "move through life with no purpose" when some of them dominate their sports or are accomplished businessmen/millionares etc, makes no sense. It's just that they aren't confident with women and/or cannot back up said confidence due to not having some shallow vain body "standard" that most modern women DEMAND such as penis isze. Women can smell a confident massively endowed great in bed guy and they can smell an average insecure guy who's not confident in the bed room a mile off and they hate that. Most women will not even waste their time these days when they realize that your body count is low and you don't have much experience etc. No matter how confident or well mannered you are. Which just gets you perceived to largely be a "simp" these days anyway or a "nice guy".
Hi Courtney, could you offer an opinion please! I am a man in my mid forties and I am returning to university to achieve my PhD. Would I be overdressed if I attend lectures etc. wearing oxford dress shoes, dress pants, dress shirt, sports jacket, and a nice watch. Obviously I know the typical university student does not wear these type of clothes; however, I am MUCH older than the typical university student and I feel at my age I should dress more like a professor. Courtney, I love your videos! Thank you.
And men who are self respecting, take care of themselves and have passions will hold similar standards for women and be thinking "is she good for me" rather than laying all his cards out because of her attractive exterior. I absolutely need mental stimulation with a person I'm going to spend time with. There's an abundance of ladies that don't even know what they like, let alone cultivate passions of their own.
And MOST IMPORTANTLY - he accepts her just as she is… while tirelessly working on his fitness, career, and personality. Gentlemen… anything wrong with this picture?
I take care of myself by avoid the 3 things which can age you horribly ( Stress,conflict and Arguing) also nagging, those 4 things age you horribly, so avoid them at all costs
I don't think women are fixers. I find the following line on many women's profiles: "I want a man, not a project." I feel like I'm a project. They might be fixers, but of their house, doing DIY projects, but not fixing their man.
What made you attracted you your future husband? How did you meet? What sets him apart in your eyes from other men? Could you do a video based on your experiences with love and how you found your dream man? It could be very motivational for some of us
It’s not about finding him… it’s about attracting him. Have the qualities that attract the men you want.
Her husband is rich af so go get some money then you'll get an attractive girl 👍
@@alexthebest5661 amen
6/6, YAAAAAY! 🥰😆👌