9 HUGE Green Flags.. You SHOULD Date These Girls! | Courtney Ryan
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In this video I talk about 9 HUGE green flags you guys should be looking out for in women. I want you all to be in happy, healthy relationships and these are the qualities that will make that happen. Thank you all for watching and comment something that you consider a green flag!
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My ex had more red flags than a Chinese new year parade. They say not even a bull would know where to charge. 🐂🚩
Good one!! 😂😂
I actually laughed out loud that was good XD
😆Hahahahahaha 👍
She had so many red flags evan a bull gets confused which way to charge.😂
@@paulcooper5748 hahahahahaha
Basically, the biggest green flag is a girl mature enough to be direct, honest, supportive, sincere, kind and optimist.
it does not mean she's loyal no man want to marry a man who end up having sex with his best friend
And to renounce Hypergamy
no girl is direct. honest supportive, sincere kind and optimist yes. But direct..no woman is is direct.
A problem is that some girls can flip VERY QUICKLY from most of those things, to becoming cold / distant / uninterested / dumping you because they're able to replace you with another hot guy via internet-dating within 20 minutes.
All the good qualities of a mature human being
"Why would you want to be with a girl that's mean?" That's a great question!
Some put up with it because it is "livable" if she is really attractive or some other quality he values over attitude and most think the bad attitude is transient so she will get better over time the more she knows him. It sounds weird but I'm telling you why people do.
guys who dont understand themselves, guys that dont have high value of themselves, guys that dont strive to be better and improve.
Some really solid green flags!
Nice seeing you here :0
if you go out of bounds on this video there is a hidden green flag inside that plant pot in the background
9 Huge Green Flags That You Should Date This Girl 1. She doesn’t play games with you 2. She’s supportive of you 3. She’s interested 4. Communication skills 5. She has friends 6. She’s interdependent 7. She’s kind 8. Glass half full kind of girl 9. She has goals/ambitions/prospects
@JÒE 0 green points for my girl.. im done
@@kobki66 lol fucks sake
@@emptysoul2757 dont worry i just met another one, and she's a Christian, better than 30yo DG :D
Ok she marks off mostly all of these
No wonder Courtney didnt liked ghis guy.
Let be honest here, all the points Courtney pointed out apply to guys as well. Basically how to find a great partner 101
Funny how that works out, isn't it?
If we're being honest, what Courtney did was find a round about way of saying that men should want women who are chasing high value men. Ask your dates what they bring to the table. Bet they say support, motivation, and love. Because they wanted you motivated - the more successful you are, the more money they can use you for.
Yea no. That says more about the validity of the content of the video than what you framed to conclude.
@@MrDanielWP Then get a chick that makes her own money. Why you tripping?
@@valhar2000 its pointless
I've been dating this girl since a few weeks and so far no red flags were shown. Instead basically everything you listed here I recognized in her. So.... wish me luck boys, I think I got a keeper :D
All the best, buddy! 😊
It’s not just having goals that is important, it’s taking action towards those goals that is important.
It is the passion that flows in her veins that is important.
Very true!!
I take action on Wu Wei every day
very good One of the most important reasons I said goodbye to my recent fiancee.
Can the girls just carry around red and green flags so we have a clearer picture before we move in?
😂😂😂 that would be the dream LOL
That would be nice.
All women have a combination of green/ red flags, if you want to call it that.
@@CourtneyRyan There should be an App for that 😂😂😂!!!
Lol
To me, being supportive doesn't always mean hearing what I want to hear. Just having that HONEST feedback is all I want. I can laugh at my own stupidity when it's pointed out to me in an objective manner, provided it's done with RESPECT. Honesty and respect are currencies that pay off!
I agree! Being supportive means to have your best interest at heart.
Being supportive can also mean she sees benefits (for herself) in case you succeed in anything.
Being support means making my life easier and more enjoyable. Actually guys should be looking for a gal who gets her happiness from making her man happy just as guys get their happiness by doing things that please their women.
I agree. Some men want "support" that's actually only flattery.
I like the way you emphasize important words with capital letters
Agree with most of those except the friend part. For me, it's a red flag if a person always needs other people to 'entertain' them. Any human being is capable of spending quality time alone and it says more about them being comfortable with who they are than someone who needs constant attention from their friends or a partner.
Let's be realistic, who has time and/or money to spend on friends??
@@JishinimaTidehoshi Singles. We got the point.
I feel like being supportive of the other person is very important; I’ve been studying all the time for graduate school and my ex said she hated how I put school before her
Same here, originally I thought she was happy for me but whether it was lack of communication she just seemed to become resentful. The girl I've been talking to recently, at my new job , she about a yr older than me, she just comes across as genuine, she asks questions whenever we see each other and we get to speak more in person especially when we're on lunch. I'm usually very cautious, but I've actually just been able to talk as if it were anyone else, without feeling as though if I say too much, it will cone across this way. Let's see anyway 🤷🏽♂️
@@Giovanni-01 I wish the best for you; just don't forget to do the goals you want to do; everyone needs personal time for themselves.
Girls don't know what they want half the time. As a man is attracted to a cute and submissive woman, women are attracted to men who are ambitious and put their purpose first. To me it seems like your ex was subconsciously testing you to see how you'd respond. You'd pass her test if you tell her "you know how I feel about you, but I'm on my mission in life". She'll be so turned on, she won't know what to do.
I love green flags, usually it’s always the negative/red flags that get highlighted! 😄
Green Flags are always the Ugly ones!!!
@@morgangalegarcia6946 Is that based on your personal experience?
Love green flags
i like red flags, is my favourite color, but only the color, not for girls behaviour.
Sadly, the lack of green flags in this dating environment is a positive. It just makes it easier for one not to pursuit or even continue the dating ritual and saves you time money and energy. Great content.
Agree
Yea talk about a bad case of blue balls
Then one day you meet someone with the same level of cynicism and call it a day.
@@christianhcevallos sometimes you gotta do your own thing. It's ok not to date
@@lordtudraska1796 True true
got to watch the "she has friends" one, because some of those friends can and will turn her to the dark side... or at the very least turn her from you.... personal experience on this one.....
jealous friends
Sometimes her friends are really her anti dating committee.
She has to have good friends, and I mean friends who are quality people.
That's a weird one. I mean as a man shouldn't you be trying your best to isolate her from friends and perhaps family so you can have her all to yourself?
Legend has it, that there was a hidden scroll written by the ancients, that one such woman like this walked the earth. The papyrus told of a woman born of divine providence. This woman had all 9 green flags and would cause the skies to weep and the angels to sing.
We are still waiting for the Prophecy to come true. :D
Those are all the qualities my wife has. We met in high school back in 1982.
And why are you watching this clip, then? Just kindly asking.
Love the Justin “the Jihadist” Trudeau avatar!😂
@@nocturnaljoe9543 I’m married too watching this vid. We’ve been married since 1999. Just seeing what this woman has to say. 😀
If even husbands can validate what this woman says, then you know that she is a reliable source!
@@nocturnaljoe9543 He's talking about his wife but not referring to the girlfriend
1. She doesn't have instagram, snapchat and the rest 2. She is not manipulating you 3. She deeply cares about others instead of loving only herself 4. Brains, logic, intuïtion and emotions are well balanced 5. She doesn't blame others 6. She does what she says 7. She can laugh and likes to tease 8. She tries to improve herself 9. You can trust her and she trusts you
Oh I know that girl, but then I woke up.
I love this. My wife doesn’t have half of these green flags. Although it seemed like she did at the beginning. This channel is going to save my life one day.
Make her disappear in suspicious circumstances 😆
Wow, awesome video ... in a word "refreshing" (great to hear some positive attributes to balance out things to avoid) 😊! A few other Green Flags are: 10. Compassion / Empathy 11. Sense of Humor 12. Emotional Intelligence 13. Work / Life Balance 14. Sincerity / Honesty 15. Love for Life Actually, these ALL apply to not only women but men as well ... Secret: Gotta say Courtney, you display a lot of these attributes through your videos 👍😊👍
Well I think you are just describing a normal,well raised lady.A lady that were raised in a stable and normal family.Now a days because of financial pressures and materialism families aren’t that stable.Parents don’t have enough time to spend with their children and they are raised by schools basically,which is just a system.Also don’t forget the effect of social media which is:making people to think and behave superficial,not the reality and also having lots fake attentions and friends.What you described is very rare now a days.Thanks for the clip.👌🏻
AGREE 👍
best chance of meeting a girl like this is a girl from a small town
@@michaelsix9684 Those girls are often snatched up quick! So you will have to do a lot of searching hahah
It describes my daughters ages 20 and 18 both ambitious, both with jobs and in college from a happy family with parents married 25 yrs. We advise them to look for stable guys from intact families.
@@beautifulspirit7420 you daughters are so lucky to have you as a parent, I'm 65, and when I grew up in the 60s and 70s every kid I knew had 2 parents, today that is rare, 40% of all children today are born out of wedlock, many of them are doomed from birth, I'm thankful now I never had children, I don't think I could protect them in this culture today
Stay away from passive aggressive girls. I talked to the girl and since my day is truly busy (not faking) whenever she would call I would text back and tell her I'd call back later and I did. She would never answer that same day but would call me back days or weeks later and this happened 2-3 times. What I realized is that she was punishing me for not answering when she wanted me to so she was basically saying I'd lose her if i didnt behave the way she wanted me to. I blocked her after the 3rd time
But are you sure that's what she was doing or maybe she was genuinely busy...
If she shows good behavior like calling you you have to reward it there and then by picking up, if only to say I'm really sorry, I'll call you later to set a date when I've got my diary in front of me. She probably thought you were playing games so decided to do so herself. ALWAYS REWARD GOOD BEHAVIOR IN A GIRL, LIKE HER INITIATING CONTACT. THAT SAID, LONG PHONE CALLS ARE A NO NO. THAT'S FREE ATTENTION FOR HER. CALLS ARE TO GET DATES. GET HER OFF THE PHONE AND INTO THE COFFEE SHOP.
@@missNCW its 24 hours in a day no one works 20 hours and everyone always has their phone glued to them so she could've texted or anything. It was passive aggression
She was setting the trap.
I must have messed with the same girl. Same end result, too. 😆
I'm impressed by the quality and depth of your content. Subscribed! Props to Teddy for choosing such a brilliant young lady :)
The no friends one makes sense, but there are ppl out there who appear as social butterflies, but have little to no friends. I have just one friend. I appear to know everyone and talk to everyone, but I don't have alot of friends because it's not easy to connect with ppl. It's easy to chat with anyone any day, but to really connect with someone in a meaningful and fufilling way is difficult. There are so many ppl in the world. It's hard to create platonic friendships or find love.
The Golden Rule is always a good sign, she is always treating others the way she want you to treat her. Courtney’s biggest point is #4, communication.
Some of these just seem like "she doesn't have xyx red flag" more than a green flag. The one that resonates with me is communication. When a woman is willing to openly discuss things like an adult, many of the other potential issues can be avoided.
Getting been married and seen other married couples, communication is the #1 quality you both need to work on if you want to really thrive.
Courtney, you had me at "she doesn’t play games." Great list. All true, in my experience.
Really loved this breakdown! It’s really hard finding someone with all these qualities. Either they are rare or ive been around the wrong women.
I've seen more red flags in my short dating life than Formula 1 throughout history.
You are what you attract.
Me too. Ignored them as being biased of my past and wanting to give everyone her own chance. Later on deeply regretted it. - probably the next girl I'll meet. If there is a chance left. I'll do the same again XD
Half truths dont count.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
This video should be called "How to spot an unicorn"!
Thought exact same thing.
Must admit; I can't say I have met a girl that has all these qualities. And I have NEVER met a girl that can communicate properly.
@@silicabeastmaster1175 I hear yah, but it's just our fault right? :P We just need to make 6 figures and be nice and bad at the same time and also be tall because our personality matters. It's so fn easy, dude. Women do it all the time. /s
@@silicabeastmaster1175 I think what matters most is the will to grow, don't expect someone to be full fledged ninja lol, figure out if your aspirations for personal growth are on a similar level and if so, go learn to do back flips together bruh!
Yeah it is a bit of an unfortunate reality that we're in these days, but once you find that amazing girl you'll think all that effort was totally worth it
I saw a response trying to dunk on you point by point. You've absolutely nailed it here. Big love. Big respect. Thanks for helping bring some fairness back into the game Courtney. You rock!
Excellent advice Courtney!! As someone else said #4 communication, I work on that in EVERYTHING including relationships and everyday life also
not following what you mean by that. lol just kidding. Enjoy your day! :D Cheers!
When she wants you to meet her parents shes good, Ryan
Not always, but that’s a sign she’s very interested in you.
You deserve an award for your voice
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Sounds lovely that's for sure
I love your videos! I love that you give some amazing wholesome advice to people who otherwise could be listening to some of these "dating gurus" or "pickup artists" that give the worst advice possible.
I have been married 40 years now and I was lucky enough to know some of this by instinct but you are really giving great advice that I fully support and recommend following
Finding girls that show these Green Flags is really hard tho, really rare some times
yea she's talking about hunting for a unicorn. but the key to success with women is to not take them on a date before fucking. the date can come after, her affection should not be bought with food and nice words, but she can be rewarded with a full plate for already putting out.
It really is.
@@walmartian goodluck
@@walmartian Wow! That's never worked me. I've never expected it to either. That's what the rest of the world calls a "booty call".
@@Gregsgreatfood its cause your probably an average looking man with all due respect greg! Good looking guys have the privilege of acting aloof and giving off no interest and still get laid. Us avg men can not. We have to juggle 5 tennis balls while doing a comedy sketch and read novels on feminism just to get a conversation 🤦🏾♂️
Everyone posts about red flags. Our unique wing woman posts the green flags
She posted Red flags too. Check out her other videos.
@@nahidnewaz3309 He was saying that she actually has posted a video about green flags since other people don't do it
She's clearly a glass half full type a girl...
@@rey_nemaattori stil beats a empty glass
These are truths, Ms. They're a true sign of a healthy personality. I've proved them. It's a blessing to have found your channel, Sister.
Excellent video. I needed to see this video in the 1980’s. It explains why I’ve been screwing-up with women for decades, it’s been my fault and I refused to see it. I always had goals and ambition, and my current life proves it, yet I always chased and caught women without goals. Friends even told me “she’s not going to help you” but I never listened. My X wife had no goals. Thanks for the insight. I simply never thought enough about blending lifestyles. Now my blinders are off finally, I never dated kind girls.
After a traumatic relationship more than a decade ago, the relationships I’ve had were mostly superficial. I sought after physical and superficial qualities knowing it won’t last. Fixed all the issue both body and mind, and realized I need a lasting relationship. Met this girl I noticed her face and looks first but as I talked to her it’s her personal qualities and maturity (so far) that is her biggest seller. I’m trying not to fall head over heels because I want this to be a proper courtship because she’s seem like she’s worth it. I want to take time as she does which is awesome. Only thing I’m worried about is why she wasn’t copped by dudes yet despite having lots of keeper qualities ? 😂 I hate being suspicious but I gotta guard feelings if I’m gonna commit again.
"Only thing I’m worried about is why she wasn’t copped by dudes yet despite having lots of keeper qualities" - just ask her and listen closely to the answers. Who knows, could be a bunch of reasons? If she doesn't hang out in bars and clubs then she's unlikely to have been hit on by a bunch of Chads. Quality girls can fly under the radar sometimes if they don't put themselves "out there" in obvious ways.
High quality women seek for high quality men. Most of the high quality women i know take their time in getting to know the man they wanted to start a relationship with. Most of them wanted their first/next relationship to be a serious one and long lasting...
Quality Women won’t settle for any guy. He has to be of quality too. Finding that takes time.
This is exactly my experience and now I met someone with most of the qualities I admire. But yet I'm sceptical and cautious of she is telling the truth about herself or just playing a role. How do you ever trust again after going through the trauma of betrayal? Might learn the hard way I should stay single.
Any updates my guy??
The biggest green flag is when she admires my huge Pokémon collection 😂
In my case is that if she respect my love for Dragon Ball Z
From my experience 99% of the time she is full of it if she says that to me. She is only out for $ or something.
Women often fake interest in a man’s hobbies. Take it from someone who knows. Fake gaming interest was wildly apparent after not understanding even basic controls of some games that are intuitive to most gamers.
There are women like that.
@@animestarlord9021 avoid broke women problem solved
Very nice to see the positive traits identified, there is a sea of information about the red flags/dangers/threats, so refreshing, thank you.
Thank you for this pretty good list. I do have mixed feelings about the friends issue. While it is possible for a woman to too much of a loner, I have often run into the other extreme - a girl who can’t do anything alone and constantly has to be around others. The first sign of this is often in online dating profiles where every photo is a group photo. Girls like this can be needy and skeptical of introverted guys. Eventually the guy finds he can’t get her alone much because her friends always have to tag along. Also this probably means she won’t accept anything less than a big expensive wedding down the line.
I never thought about this, but I see your point. My ex was one of those. Anything fun or cute that we had planned somehow always ended being a group activity.
A woman with too many female friends will be the sounding board for the girl seeing you to drop you. Guaranteed, women are using the hive mentality to disqualify every single man their friends don't like. The woman needs to make a choice between a bunch of female friends or you and a few female friends. Any other outcome is usually a failure.
A wedding is a small expense compared to a divorce.
_"Also this probably means she won’t accept anything less than a big expensive wedding down the line."_ Nothing personal, but that's quite a stretch of logic from someone who sounds like hasn't been married yet.
Good point. It must really suck to be with someone and never being able to get them alone. 😬
All my ex’s are like this. Usually what kills a relationship is long distance. Or the friends and the career - when you both have jobs with long hours and other person wants to see friends and family, you get pushed out, you spend less time together and the little things end what was barely there.
Living abroad the last 12 years.. Trust me I hear you. ;)
friends and career aka being independent are massive red flags and just cancer to a relationship that no amount of chemo will cure
@@dumkaisachakal6341people these days want to have everything. Relationships require time, if you don't make time for them they will never work.
short answer: she Invests in you
Yes 👏🏼
In the same proportion that you invest in her.
an even better answer: if she is even the slightest bit of headache, let go!
If she "invests" in a guy, she would give you money or a cheque regularly.......... #Investment #YouAndCourtneyRyanDontKnowWhatYouTalkingAboutPleaseJustShutTheFuckUpStopTalkingThankYou
@@bahaatamer1245 THAT I agree. BUT if you truly really love the girl, and at the same time she's pain in the ass, would you still let her go?
Thank you Courtney Ryan for all the help you give us.
Such a great video! No BS. Very logical and straightforward. I can see this improving my own dating life. Earned my like and subscribe :)
legit went from a very toxic immature relationship into a girl thats fits all these categories. i have never felt as good about a woman as i do for her. she holds conversations easily, is always trying to find the positive but doesnt just ignore negative things, has no problem being clear when she wants something doesnt even play any hint games with me. even if she has no idea what im talking about she listens and will research later so she can make me feel better about my interests. her goals are honorable and not completely selfish, i wish i could be with her right now but covid is keeping us physically apart.
Where do you live? In Arkansas we're mostly back to normal.
@@dhisufiroafrozenseraphimdragon were seperated by an ocean atm. Im in kentucky we only had one city follow covid restrictions haha.
@@Darkmage1000 Ah ok. I hope you get to meet her soon.
Holy cow I have a total keeper!!!😍 Not that I didn’t know before watching this video, but it’s nice to see her in every point made here☺️
I recently came accross your channel, at first I thought it was going to be the typical fashion channel but as Im going through the videos, all of them have been really helpful and youve been giving sincere advice so you definetly got a new longterm viewer
This is an excellent list. Your red flags video is also excellent. Great work, Courtney.
I think you should have mercy on girls that have no friends, she might be just too introverted.
definitely. my younger sister is 18 and has no friends. people have always thought she was rude/anti social but she literally suffers with a lot of social anxiety and other issues. she is extremely introverted. she used to have one really close friend but that girl ended their friendship bc she didn't like that she was quiet and distant. the girl made it all about her and said my sister was too selfish to even communicate like a normal person, apparently my sister didn't "care" for her. but my sister would always tell me she was so happy she found a friend. I feel so bad. I just think she needs to be surrounded by more understanding people and all will be good.
I mean, even a high degree of introversion can be considered a red flag. Social anxiety and things like that are pretty serious mental health challenges that you'll have to cope with if you date someone with them. Nobody's perfect, but it's something you have to take a look at and consider when you plan to date. And it's definitely something that needs to be talked about
Mercy? A woman not being dating/wife material doesn't mean she's a bad person - just that an intimate relationship with her will have its share of problems and friction and should probably be avoided. Don't ever date someone out of mercy.
@@ServantofBaal Introversion != social anxiety.
@@ThePandafriend I said social anxiety and things like that. Just one example. There's often comorbidity if they're very introverted
Im actually talking to this girl and what separates her from all the girls I’ve talked to is that she knows what she wants and that’s what I love in a girl
She is worthy of wearing a crown
That's a good one man, another one i've found big in my experience is graceful under pressure. When something goes wrong like miss a turn on the highway / forget to do something / lots of work stress. Does she still treat you kindly? I've seen dudes girls get super sharp about little things, can only imagine what it's like when life's big moments roll in. my 2 cents
I think these green flags are highly overlooked! Thanks for sharing it needs to be talked about more
I wouldn't necessarily list points 5 (she has friends) and 6 (she's interdependent) as green flags, though they might be for some people. Personally, I prefer a fusional type of love where the two partners are sufficient to each other. The independent type is definitely not an option for people like me and the interdependent type might be acceptable, but certainly isn't ideal.
The ideal girl is Courtney’s cloned twin.
Fax! Lol
Just cute girl
Im waiting for teddy to get the boot, personally lol
@@CH-eb1rn who is Teddy?
My feelings exactly.
For me, one that wants to take it to long term relationship, wants a family, has hobbies weather or not i can relate just having ur own things u like is nice, doesn’t dress vulgar, no tatts🤢, supportive of ur goals, ask questions I like questions, knows how to love, not stuck up, puts u above friends that r jealous, tells u why she’s unhappy, can cook cause I can and want to share our skills and recipes, u said many things that I desire in a girl 🥰
not tattoos good
@@josecarlosxyz tattoos just ruins beauty for me a lot
@@josecarlosxyz tattoos just ruins beauty for me a lot
@@marcusbrown188 Depends on the size and amount. One little - significant tattoo is ok.
So many people do the red flags videos, its a nice change to hear some green flags. Thank you for the video.
Love the way you communicate. Direct to the point. Well spoken. Clear. Love it.
The biggest issue here: Where do you find them? Generally you hear "look at a library, look at a gym, look at a club you are in, volunteer somewhere, church, ect." I dont think a single woman I have met in my entire life, would feel comfortable being approached in any of those places. You rely on friends of friends to introduce you, or you go your own way. Pretty much end of story.
Just throwing an idea out there, why don't you focus less on going to these places to meet the women, and instead think about who may already be there at the stuff you're already interested in who are dateable? I find that when you do new things angling to meet people it's like they can smell it, you come off desperate for friends/girlfriends. Instead, if you're already involved in the activity and already on good terms with a woman in the group, it's easier to try taking it further. You're less suspicious, and it's a natural progression. Make sense?
@@JamesRDavenport I don’t spend my time looking anymore, I gave up worrying about it frankly, I was simply making a point that this is the type of thing men are told to do to locate them. I agree with your assessment though, but I believe the best option is to focus on yourself and move on. Men get very little out of a relationship anyway.
Nonsense - what girl doesn't want to be approached by an attractive, confident man? You've got to stop thinking like that. Sounds like you lack that confidence and are making excuses.
@@jleano609 interesting perspective 😂 The juice is not worth the squeeze in my opinion, so no that’s not the issue. Again I’m simply trying to shed light on where those that care to look, should look. That’s all.
I was in my own path until this girl came to me at work! Just focus on yourself 💯
Confident women that are friendly are extremely hard to come by these days. Most women I pass by just immediately stare at the floor and avoid all eye contact with me like they're scared of me, and the actual confident women are all the weekend party girls that are straight up walking red flags.
eh, i'm fine with insecure - we're all trying to figure it out. key here is self actualizing. she may not be perfect now, but can learn and grow into one. guys are far from a finished product either at any given time.
Me too. Women seem scared of me, even after I let them out of the trunk and untie them. Women are weird.
Absolutely Spot On! Nice work and send these women my way. Thank you for your passion.
Needed this about 5 years ago. Great video.
This video should be entered into the National Library of Congress to help people interested in dating find a healthy and happy mate. Excellent video, my favorite one you've done to date.
😂 I love it. Thank you so much!
Courtney, you are such a wise young person! Love what you’re communicating with us
I learned all of these lessons in one relationship haha. Another great video Courtney and a good lesson in how to be the right man to attract the right woman.
Great list Courtney. I would caution on the supportive one though. It's good to be supportive and have a woman that doesn't expect you to do everything but if she has to keep you on track she's going to lose attraction for you. Women want a guy that's a leader and takes charge and shows initiative. If she's constantly having to prod him then it's not going to go well for either of you. I can't reiterate enough how important communication skills are. You are 100% correct on this, yet many people (men and women) lack good communication skills. That said, if she's open to learning and can take instruction and constructive criticism then anyone can learn good communication skills.
Watching this video just *BOOSTS* my confidence like heck. It’s good to know these green flags because the red flags are always discouraging, and it’s way more tedious to find a girl that isn’t completely covered in red flags. Red flags are good for awareness, but I find the green flags are more hopeful.
This content is so unheard of I feel like the first person landing on a new planet. Thanks for the positive message, it's much needed.
Great vid! I absolutely agree with all those green flags. BTW, really off topic, but the color of that sweater is great!
what makes this extremely rare video seem more honest is the elaboration of each point instead of superficial attributes
#4 communication skills. This is a very important point. “I am fine” when a person doesn’t really mean it. I wish every person be mature like Courtney. Thanks for videos Courtney!
These videos actually helps a lot..........thank you Courtney for your efforts for making us better and knowledgeable......love from India
Thanks for the green flags video, especially since there are so many red flags videos! The girl I like (and who I think might like me) has all or most of these traits. She doesn't play games; she has asked me a bunch of questions, including what my major is (when I said I haven't decided, she said something to the effect that that keeps the door open for a wider opportunity of what I'm going to do--which seems to indicate support); she definitely has friends and is interdependent; she is most definitely kind-she's the nicest girl I know and the only one I know that will stand there to hold the door for people if she gets there first-- which drives me crazy, because I'm thinking "I'm the guy; I should be holding the door for you."; I suppose she's optimistic, because she sure doesn't seem like a pessimist; and yes, she has goals and ambitions-- she wants to become some sort of doctor, I know what she said that kind does, but I'm not sure I remember the name correctly, something like "memologist" (which may get in the way a bit since I'm more the traditional type that believes in the man going out to work while the woman takes care of things at home). The only trait I'm not sure if she has is the communication skills you described; even though we talk to each other quite a bit despite both being introverts, I haven't really had the chance to see the specific examples you gave.
Love the way you teach. Appreciate your views and information... It's easy to follow. Amazing how obvious the green flags are but I find myself to pretend to forget this stuff in certain situations.
I will be honest when your video popped up on my feed I thought your message was going to be all fluff BUT you are on point with every single characteristic and behavior you made, all 9 of them!!!! I'm in my 50's and I've seen the good and bad in females you have describe. Great content Courtney I hope this helps someone.
I’d say another green flag (probably not one that would make you say she’s the one just by itself, but combined with other green flags) is financial intelligence. I’m not saying she knows how to trade, and buy and sell crypto currency, but she knows how to manage her money for the most part. I believe it’s very important for long term relationships specially when you’re thinking of living together and such. Not everyone knows how to manage money, so even a girl who is open to learn about it along with you, that’s one intelligent woman
Agreed.
I think Courtney has the most pleasant manner and speaking voice to convey her content, of any of the videos I've seen along this line of relationship and dating advice. If I ever met a young lady like her, it would be hard not to feel immediate good vibes about things. Very good channel!
Thanks for doing this. There are enough problems in this world, people always trying to focus on negative stuff (mainstream media is the first guilty party here, they only relate bad events like theft, crime, accidents, etc.). So once in a while, recognize we still have good human beings on this planet, and celebrate the positive aspects.
Great video as usual. I am dating such an angel that I knew she would show almost every green flag. Women that special are uplifting but challenging because someone similar wants to reflect that light and so I hold myself to a much higher standard since I have met her. If only life was simple. Everyone is different and has their own challenges no matter how sweet and kind they are so always be supportive and eventually you will find the match you were hoping for. Just realize it may take a very long time and do your best to be patient. That is how I am trying to live.
Hi Courtney, greetings from London. Thank you for your videos. You are the epitome of a lady. Not only because of your beauty and elegance. It is also your graciousness, your generosity of spirit, your wisdom and your emotional intelligence. Please keep up the good work...
I was really looking for a piece of advice and I found my very specific answer in this video. Really appreciate it, Courtney!
I'd love it if you considered researching the difficulties men may face when they're in love with a woman with mental health issues. So many different questions about the facts in these types of relationships. Love your work, Courtney; I'm definitely dressing better. Thank you.
I'm working on the friends and ambitions part. The first one is tough because of the pandemic, the second is even harder to me since I've been dealing with depression for years, I'm only 21. For now I want to get a degree, a good job and heal from everything. I sometimes feel like I'm not ambitious enough? And I struggle with comunication, I'm too closed off
There're good ones out there. You've given good advice towards how to recognize them sooner.
They can and likely do change. Then the wrath is supported by society and family courts.
The kindness comment gave me some clarity especially about the baristas they didn’t know. Kindness can be blindsided by love. Interpretation is key. Thanks for your insightful kindness Courtney. Great video as always.
This is so helpful and unique thank you for posting the green flags and not just the red ones
Wow even in Instagram she made her promise . Thanks Courtney 😀
Her eyes are hypnotizing and calm.
Hello Courtney, thank you for your work. I think it is very brave nowadays to „switch sides“. Keep doing your thing, I believe you are helping a lot of men and women to save and improve the relationships with their partners.
Thank you, Courtney. Another great video!
"She’s interested" Whelp, game over.
I am glad that you mentioned "stay at home mums" bc it is kind of a looked down upon position nowadays. I am not in this position rn but once i have a baby one day i want to invest my time to care for my child, my household and ofc support my Husband. God bless you Courtney❤
"stay at home mums" are a huge red flag to me. I want a woman in my life, not a housekeeper.
I'm the daughter of one, and I so loved the experience of being able to spend long periods of time with her. If I have kids, I'd like to be home with them.
Great video! Alot of right points. Thank you
Well, you are certainly a high value woman, and a keeper. Thank you for the inspiration, the clarity, and the fundamental energy/motivation guiding you through these videos. May women all around the world listen curiously, draw upon your wisdom, and implement what is the most relevant to them.
A year ago, I would have watched this video and check off a few of those items. But now, after dedicating all of 2021 to invest in myself and in the person I want to be, I can say I feel confident that I check off all of those points 😁😁😊
❤️🥰 you go girl!
#1 No Games: "Hey, so, wanna play monopoly?" "I don't play games with you." That's a red flag if I ever saw one! lol
I love your content thank you for all you do and your compassionate advice
My “now” ex came running into my life when we met, made me care, whe I didn’t meet all of her expectations she led me on for the last 5 months and broke up with me. I know I’m not completely innocent here but if she really cared she would’ve tried to talk it out. I’m done with girls without dads or any kind of relationship with their dads. Largest red flag there is cause all she did was use me as her emotional support blanket and I can’t live like that.