Emotional Ending -Malcolm & Marie🖤| Marie Thanking Herself | Zendaya | John David Washington
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I hope Marie reminds people in toxic relationships their worth
Amen!!!! 🙏
Just did for me. This hit so hard and home. Thank you Marie love Satona🙏🏾💖💖
@DD 💖💖
It does.
She really did 😭😭😭😭
what kind of person forgets to thank their significant other while accepting an award.
An arrogant self centered one
Exactly. And ESPECIALLY WHEN THE MOVIE IS ABOUT THAT SIGNIFICANT OTHERS LIFE.
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@@ILarissaL she literally thanks her s.o. every single time wtf u on about?
Right? Like I get Marie has issues but damn. How the hell did he forget? Especially if it’s the first movie that’s one you don’t forget. The others after that’s not too much of a problem because you’ve done it before.
I don’t think people understand how much she simply wanted to be appreciated . It wasn’t just about that night . It was the events of that night that reminded her that he’s never really had an appreciation for anything that’s she’s done for him and general . If he hadn’t tried to argue her down the whole movie maybe he would’ve understood that she wasn’t picking a fight . This scene right here explains it all
I think people understand, but they both set the tone of what kind of relationship they had.
Omg you just explained my exactly feeling this exact moment in my marriage. Bless you I needed to hear this from a stranger.🙏🏾💖💖
I feel like woman read between the lines where as men just read meaning woman pay attention to tiny detail men look at the big pictures
Its simple. Stop needing or wanting appreciation from outside sources. Appreciate yourself and be greatful for that. Then just be thankful and classy if you do get appreciation from outside sources. Its really that simple. Dont make people have to be a certain way for you. Let them be them and you be you. You can wind up find someone who appreciates you without you having to force them passive agressively or whatever.
Absolutely
Everyone's talking about the relationship while I'm over here in awe over how much zendaya had to memorize 😆
right!!! the whole movie was literally made up of multiple monologues it’s amazing
Yoo same she’s so talented
LOL I thought the same as I was reading the subtitles
They filmed this is a VERY short amount of time too, I think she said 22 days or something like that
I remember I had to remember a monologue for theater class and it was the shortest one but I still forgot half of it 😭😭😭😭
Marie was right from the beginning. Malcolm is letting his narcissism get the best of him
Yeah, But What finally happened is just simply feels real..
@@moviesstuff_8980 especially if you’ve been in toxic relationships. It’s so hard to get out
@@katykins2010 she was right from the beginning..but she let her own insecurities add to the drama when she knew full well Malcolm limitations as a partner
I think they both have narcissistic tendencies 🤷🏽♀️ he admitted his wrong way more than she did.. narcissists don’t do that. Y’all need to stawp it. Marie is insecure and broken.. Malcolm is selfish and inconsiderate 🤷🏽♀️ both were at fault. She could’ve expressed her pain better and he could’ve consider her feelings more
@@keishamarie6185 truth you get it.
Funny how all she wanted was a thank you and be appreciated and he brought up her pass and trauma . I would leave a man if he brought up all the horrible shit ive been through during an argument.
definitely, he was terrible towards her and so cruel
She did the same thing and she was cruel too
@@rageur6546 she never told him to kill himself, I mean all of the stuff he said to her was way worse
@@marvel096 He mocked her suicide attempt and constantly called her crazy and psychotic for just pointing out that his movie was based on a mentally ill 20 yr old drug addict, her age when they met and when she was battling addiction and severe depression. And why does a man with a great college education from a well-to-do stable family pursue relationships with young women that are very fucked up? Does he have a savior complex? Does he want to feel needed? Is he consciously or subconsciously looking for good material to write stories about?
Same I was hoping that she will leave at the end of the movie, to leave for herself she deserves better
"Thank you for making my ungrateful ass some mac and cheese after I forgot to fucking thank you " She literally made him a meal even after he forgot to thank her and give her appreciation for the movie he literally based off of her and her experiences...that is..wow, wow Marie.
Its simple. Stop needing or wanting appreciation from outside sources. Appreciate yourself and be greatful for that. Then just be thankful and classy if you do get appreciation from outside sources. Its really that simple. Dont make people have to be a certain way for you. Let them be them and you be you. You can wind up find someone who appreciates you without you having to force them passive agressively or whatever.
@@ayandak47 People will always want to be appreciated by ones they love. Parents, partner, friends.. It is how it is and how it should be because when someone starts to take you for granted, things go bad.. Self love doesn't mean you don't need people, it just means you're more picky about who you choose and what behaviour you tolerate from others.
@@ayandak47 😂😂 this is the third time I'm seeing this exact comment
@@ayandak47 You are literally just copying and pasting the same comment under everything. Have some originality. There is no outside sources. They are in a relationship and should be appreciated.
@@ayandak47 tbh no matter how much you appreciate yourself u do need someone to appreciate u ,you can't just always appreciate yourself
Something I found really interesting in this scene was him at the end saying “I love you, Marie” when you would think he would say “Thank you, Marie”.
Actually I noticed that too but I think it's because he wouldn't say thank you. Too much like admitting she's right that he's an ass. To him, I think, his self obsessed ass believes I love you is enough and that it encompasses everything including sorry, thank you etc.
@@beverleysterling-bates1051 That’s a great point! I wasn’t thinking about it this way! He is such a prideful person so I definitely see this being the reason he still didn’t thank her even after she let down her walls to explain to him the simplicity of what she wanted from him
@@beverleysterling-bates1051 He can't express his gratitude and that's why Marie has to pack her bags and leave. She needs to find an outlet to express herself without pleading for an intermediary to help her tell her story. Even if she goes back to living in a shitty apartment, gets a regular job and goes to a spoken word open mic event to unload her stories. Malcolm thinks that she's hot and funny and is glad that she's sober, but he stifles her growth
Didn’t he say thank you tho?
TRUEEEE
She just wanted to be appreciated 🥲
That video from the Asian woman came to my head when I read this. "I just want to be appreciated"
Bro she was shes fucking nuts for blaming everything on him she asks for too much
@@rageur6546 for real
I will just assume everyone reads this as the meme
Its simple. Stop needing or wanting appreciation from outside sources. Appreciate yourself and be greatful for that. Then just be thankful and classy if you do get appreciation from outside sources. Its really that simple. Dont make people have to be a certain way for you. Let them be them and you be you. You can wind up find someone who appreciates you without you having to force them passive agressively or whatever.
kinda alienated by people arguing about who "won" the argument. Do you guys really think relationships are about winning and losing?
in my opinion, its about understanding why it is important to appreciation and not take the one(s) that care about u for granted and to acknowledge the decisions , the sacrifices, the changing for the better, the selfness, the learning love, the strength, all for u
@@valiciapatterson1865 agreed
@@user-nv3sh5jh3p yep. I mean I know very little about relationships, but I do not think you should treat your partner like your enemy and if you constantly make everything about who has the upper hand, I can't imagine that that makes anyone truly happy.
@@ydo650 trust me it doesn’t. It’s exhausting
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they ended it the way they ended it because they wanted men like Malcom to know that for all the shit they say and the very little amount of appreciation they give, they dont deserve to "win". he gaslighted her by bringing up trauma and turned everything on her, he even body shamed her abt weight.
Not just men because I’ve been a Malcom before
@@jdoubleyg Did you change?
@@vyentro29 in alot of ways yes, but my default is to still hurt because I've been hurt. And my words in no ways match the hurt I perceive so it's like bringing a knife to a gunfight.
I respect this honesty .... keep working on a better u luv.... 🙏
Everyone, women or men, can be a Malcom at some point, it's hard not to let our egos get in the way. People aren't just good or bad and at some capacity we all can be toxic and treat the people we love like shit. Emotional intelligence is something that takes practice and time to learn (and actually apply), the first step is understand the capacity that all of us have to create pain and chaos, that we are flawed and we need to keep ourselves in check and aware.
I've started to realize as I got older, no one wins an argument. You may have the upper hand and more valid points, but no one wins.
This comment is incredibly powerful.
Agree!!
But like what even can you do?
Yep... you win as two or none at all. Relationships move together.
Can you elaborate on that
As a woman, this is all I want; I want the man I love to honor and appreciate me. Love is an action word. I want to be seen and not taken for granted.
👏👏👏✍👏👏👏👏👏👏
Its simple. Stop needing or wanting appreciation from outside sources. Appreciate yourself and be greatful for that. Then just be thankful and classy if you do get appreciation from outside sources. Its really that simple. Dont make people have to be a certain way for you. Let them be them and you be you. You can wind up find someone who appreciates you without you having to force them passive agressively or whatever.
@@ayandak47 okay.. You just spam post this comment everywhere. It's not because you said something that profound.
@@simonii96 exactly fourth time i'm seeing it
I have not seen this film. It’s not really my vibe, but I watched this. And after everything she said... he STILL couldn’t give a thank you. He still didn’t get it.
lol well if you watched the movie you would know he did thank her after this
This is a speech every woman can relate to.
My husband been thanking me from day one for the most basic things like getting him a glass of water, doing grocerys, the laundry etc etc, i always thought its a bit too much to say thank you for every little thing. Slowly i started doing the same thing jusr sayint thank you to the little things. Cause i started to notice that not once in our relationship have i ever felt unappreciated by him, and he most definitely deserves the same.
That really makes a difference my mom never says thank you she just expects things to be done. My dad on the other hand always says thank you.
Zendaya is so authentically beautiful and raw as an actress.
GIVE ZENDAYA AN OSCAR FOR THIS SCENE HOLY SHIT
Like everyone talks about the knife scene but fore it's this scene which is just perfect.
Yea this scene geez the most simple/powerful thing I've seen in a long time...
Did you even see all the nominated performances?
More like a Razzie.
Nobody won the argument and nobody was GOING to win. She even said so herself at the beginning when she wanted to avoid the confrontation all together. She just wanted to feel as appreciated and thanked as he made the people in his film feel. The film that was based off of HER. The film that he involved her in and made her be a part of because he knew her input was vital to the success of his movie. The thank you that she’d wanted was only a dumbed down request compared to the thanks she deserved. He exposed her life in that film. The film where SHE was supposed to be the leading role and got turned down by her own man, in a story that was ABOUT HER. The thank you she asked for, isn’t the thank yous that she got🤷🏾♀️
The mac n cheese line I felt that! - couples can relate to this, both sides feel unappreciated all the time and never communicate.
Yup.
This scene literally reminded me of all the things my ex used to do for me that I took for granted man... You only get one Marie in this lifetime that puts up with all your BS. And once she’s gone; she’s GONE. Damn.
Yep
This is literally what every partner wants to hear. Really powerful lines.
She shouldn’t have even wasted her breath baby girl just go.
He wants to completely remind her all the time that he saved her, that she was a drug addict! All she wanted was to matter in the relationship.
Being unappreciated when you are trying your best is very painful
It might be very unhealthy how many times I’ve watched this a week. Thank you
Sameeeeeee
Bruh same 😭
Damn, this scene was so powerful. It was strong and brought the whole movie together. She was screaming just so he could sincerely say (thank you). She deserved an Oscar for this performance.
I'm watching this after dealing with my toxic family during Thanksgiving after helping with half of the dinner. We all need to feel appreciated and even saying "thank you" goes a long way. It's also the difficulty of people not comprehending how that "thank you" is important.
The way he said I love u like it's an apology
this makes me cry so much. all she wanted was a thank u.
I think they both got their feelings a points across. A lot of tension throughout it but at the end they understood each other and still stood by each other’s sides.
This fight reminds me of a horrible argument my parents had once. My mother works and takes care of the household but is hardly appreciated openly by us especially by my dad. That day all the frustration, anger, tension etc amalgamated into a sudden breakdown and I realised how little we show our appreciation and love openly to the people we love. We all should do this often. Marie just wanted to feel appreciated and loved.
She need to be with somebody that’s like that for real. She basically in the relationship alone. 🥺
Marie: all I wanted was a thank you Malcolm: I love you Marie
What I realized during the movie is that none of the issues they argued about, came up before. They've probably never talked about these issues and that's why it escalated so much. Because both had so much pent up anger and unresolved problems that both felt they are in the right. So eventhough it's basic and common knowledge... Communication is the key to prevent most problems
You know what’s interesting I had a thought, people are saying that it was an argument. While it can be viewed that way, it wasn’t. An argument requires two people, Marie wasn’t arguing she was simply just letting Malcolm know how she truly felt. To me it’s great and weird how authentic this is and relatable, wonderful acting. Anyways just a thought🦋🖤
She called him a fraud, said his was work was mediocre, claimed he was only with her for material and that he never loved her but it isn't an argument?
This was heartbreaking. Tears welled up in my eyes
I am going through a divorce & I want to watch this movie but even small clips trigger me... my soon to be ex husband is borderline narcissistic from childhood trauma. It really is so hard to love someone & walk away after 5 years of putting in all your love to someone who took you for granted half of the time... but you have to do what’s best for you. This is for anyone who’s in a toxic relationship... you can’t make someone change... or love someone so hard, that they love you how you’d like them to. Always put God & you before anyone else.. because people will take your kindness for weakness until one day you are so empty you walk away.
huggggggggggs
Sending hugs don't be afraid to get help.
For all arguments that I've had in my lifetime, it always started out with something simple/fixable as not being told thank you. And when it's not really address properly, it can lead to other shit hitting the fan
This is my worst fear when it comes to being a future wife. I’m doing all this stuff around the house, for the house and my family with no appreciation and no gratitude😭😭😭 Respect to all current wives bc y’all be doing a LOT👏🏾
She won the argument when she starten to say all the tings she wanted to hear out loud, to herself Its the best way to show that the best person to give you love is you, the best thank yous are the one you give yourself
Her acting tho…. THE TALENT
Love this, she's giving him an array of options that he could've picked from, though I'm sure that she wouldn't have minded this full thing during his speech on the stage. She has some self-respect and love, has nothing to do about winning but communicating💖🔥
He had one job and he chose “I love you ,Marie”
At the end of the day Marie won the argument with a thought provoking message
Totally heartwarming🖤
No winners here. They're learning how to listen to each other and how to love each other. That's the damn point.
Was it only me who thought of euphoria when he said he helped her through her drug addiction and when she relapsed😅🤨
Same here 😂
Marie could be Rue 10 yrs into the future: Rue moves to NYC with Jules and is scouted by a modeling agency. She adopts the name "Marie". Jules dumps her when she discovered that Rue has not quit drugs. Rue goes in a bender but is still able to be a functional addict, she meets Malcolm at a party and he supports her through her journey to sobriety but when she achieved long term sobriety he turns inward and starts focusing on his movie, forgetting about Marie. Marie feels indebted to Malcolm for helping her out in the early years so she forgives his casual cruelty and obliviousness until the night of his movie's premiere
You should write movies haha
@RD - 07MA 759611 Robert H Lagerquist Sr PS She never identifies herself as a lesbian. As a matter of fact, she says that the only person she's ever been attracted to is Jules and that happened after Jules stood up to Nate during the party in the first episode. So Rue may be attracted to the energy of a person and not their gender. She would be attracted to Jules if she had never transitioned (Jules talks in her bridge episode about wanting to stop using hormones) or if she completed her transition and did the genital reassignment surgery. Rue would be considered a type of pansexual
The same writer from euphoria wrote this
His performance was totally about not recognizing that his wife pushed and raised him up to his greater success while he was taking her for granted all the way !!! I believe she is more mature that him . Period .
It is usually who we love the most, hurts us the most.
That's twice now that Zendaya has played someone with an addiction problem. What a talent, cannot have been easy to play that. I guess that euphoria was more direct though and more obvious as opposed to this one which was more subtle. I haven't watched this film, so this is more of an assumption
They both lost this argument .. nobody left satisfied ... it is sad.. but beautiful just because it is so real 👁👄👁
I think this scene was so powerful because he finally heard her. Washington was amazing too. He finally see what she was fighting for. She simply wanted to be appreciated (thank)...
She is such a good actor
This was so damn real!!
"Imani" is the name of Ali's daughter in Euphoria, plus Marie's drug addiction and her journey to sobriety literally made me think that this was somehow connected to Euphoria lmao
Whats that gotta do w it .. who's name is Imani in this movie
The movie directed by Malcolm , its name is 'Imani'
Actually the name of Ali’s daughter is Marie! And ur right, this kinda remind us of euphoria, z is amazing in both of them tbh!! 😊
Sam Levinson wrote both lol so you're right
Smh I felt her on this. Sometimes that's all you want is to feel and be told that you are appreciated.
Looking back, this movie is a master piece
The movie is not about who wins the argue
This is now my FAVORITE movie... I can totally see this happening. Excellent writing and performance. #superb
a couple years ago I made exactly the same speech to an asshole and i regret it. It was just a waste of time, they never change, they never get it. They just act like they did for a while than it starts all over again. Life is too short to make this speech to people who don't get it and never will.
This movie was so hard to watch for me. I still haven't finished it because I found the argument to be to much for me and started to get anxious while watching it. But the acting was fantastic and so was the cinematography from what I've seen
She just wanted to be appreciated
Powerful scene... a little appreciation and thank you mean so much!
There is no winner here. This all about Perspective and how everyone commenting seems to understand this relationship. That's the beauty of this film, it creates respectful dialogue. John David Washington sister produced this film.
Simply beautiful
DOPE... whooo- just Dope... “Thank you, Marie”❤️
Thankyou for making this movie I finally understand life now
I cry sooo much at the scène !! Great movie and actors
Great movie about narcissist - empath relationship ..... so deep and clear with all the reactions in the right place. The actors did really well, and the chemistry between them is spot on. Director of photography and camera, the light crew also the rest of the crew great job everyone! Overall really raw to the point and well executed . :)
I’ve been in this kind of relationship before I was just like Marie I just wanted to be appreciated and my ex would just turn everything the whole argument on me saying how insecure I was and how right he was he would just say anything to win the argument when I didn’t even want the argument in the first place I just wanted to be heard and appreciated to be seen toxic relationships like this most of them don’t work mine definitely didn’t and when you are in this kind of relationship you gotta start realizing that they are never gonna admit their wrongs, they are never gonna see you and appreciate you so you have to appreciate and see yourself and not look for it in anyone else but yourself it took me a long time to realize that I love this movie because how raw and honest it was the characters, the atmosphere, everything even Marie making Malcolm food while being upset and arguing with him it’s just relatable and both were cruel and petty to each other the movie wasn’t biased on either gender showed the heartbreaking honesty of a toxic relationship
Loved the movie!!
Keep up your good works, BOTH of you.
This is honestly so true I have seen people fight like this and it is so so relatable .
I'm memorizing this monologue and there are a lot of redundancies
Wow, she is amazing!!
Looking back at it now him saying I love you to just illustrates how he still didn’t get it, or that love in itself is never enough. There needs to be actions following that and a simple “thank you” says so much.
So he never did anything to prove his love for her??? Like going through the whole rehab process
She just wanted to know she was appreciated in the relationship, he was too narcissistic to allow that to happen and wanted all the credit, but they both went about this convo the wrong way. They’re both toxic. Especially together. End of story.
This movie really was the best I've ever seen I felt sm emotion from those two characters. Malcolm was a peice of shit for saying what he said to her after everything she said in this scene he STILL couldn't say thank you... she definitely knows her worth she damn for sure proved that to him in this film but no matter how low a person can make you feel you're always searching for the high in them. She would never get what he said outta her head after that.
And after all that he still doesn’t say thank you. “I love you Marie” wtf
I love you, marie. Ill always love you, oh my MARIE.❤❤❤ I LOVE
Love this movie and the message. My mom got bored and left the room but i was stuck in every word.
This made me cry
i don’t know bout you all but when I watched it it reminded me of my last relationship and all the arguments I was exactly like Marie and I realized how I just wanted to be appreciated just like her in the movie
Whew. This movie was amazing.
I actually cried at this scene don't know why I'm only 13 and maybe it was because of how Z portrayed her character and how she said those words in the scene made it so real and it was like she got those words from her heart and not from a script it was just amazing but then again she's an incredible actress honestly I think I'm going to watch the movie for the sixth time
It's not about narcissism in relationships or even if you feel left out or not appreciated enough it's about till what time you can actually live in someone else's deluded version of themselves✌️
Marie being a role model Heck ya!Beautifully portrayed and I commend women who can put up with that BS because I refuse to. Hope these types are stronger in the end for being able to take the neglect and abuse, but just wow in the emotion packed into this.
Lol. Imma go write me a thank you letter. This is good stuff!
There was no winning in this argument. If this movie showed me anything, it showed me that live isn't always flowers and roses. Peolle love to talk about how he came for Marie, but they never talk about hiw Marie was coming for him too. I think that they were saying out loud what people in relationships think. How many times have you talked to your friends about your significant other and said some hurtful stuff you would never actually say to your significant others face? It is just weird to see them said out loud to each other. I think they both had some stuff built up on the inside and that shit came exploding out. He should have thanked her, and she should have expressed her feelings earlier than the night of his movie release. Although, that was more than likely her breaking point. I loved this movie... the only toxic thing about it and that they let it get to that explosive argument. I bet they stay together in the end though. And I don't know how I feel about that specifically, but I am okay with either outcome.
She is SO right.
What a power full scene
She is a good actress
"thank you thank you thank you" is exactly what my parents tell me to stop saying so much to my abusive, narcissistic husband.
i wouldnt be able to speak as long as zendaya did in this scene, because my husband wouldve already loudly interrupted me.
You don't even like your husband anymore , leave him or you will regret it. He is not going to change sister
I wonder if she ever thanked him for helping her through her addiction and recovery and while she was sleeping with other guys.
😗😗😗
that’s what i was thinking.
Smh 🤦🏿 and she was getting mad 😡 at him for having a another girl casted.
@@lavonnealexander6936 it was wayy more than that tho
It wasn't about Malcolm, not today, not this argument
*I felt like a winner too when she threw her end speech* 🥴✊🏼
I've never seen this movie but this clip made me cry 😭
These are the type of couple I like to counsel.
The dialogue is killer..makes me want to thank you zendaya..thank you for looking so fucking awesome
Her dialogue was so longgggg GHEE WHIZ!!
thank you
Definitely #TeamMarie