The Scary Rise Of Sexless Men
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Vincent Harinam explains why the dating market is creating a large class of sexless men. Why are single men dangerous for society? Are Incels actually a terrorist group? What is an incel? Is hypergamy to blame? Why is the modern dating market such a mess? What is Tinder doing to dating?
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I see nothing wrong with lots of single men. It’s called “survival of the fittest.” If you’re lazy, unintelligent, refuse to read a book or go to the gym, and have a terrible personality -> you are destined to be single. I worked hard to go to the gym every day at 5AM. I worked hard to become a doctor and make a good salary. I read everyday to keep myself informed and intelligent. I refuse to be shamed for my hard work. I am not a “chad” I’m just a hard worker.
@@mosesking2923 tell me, why don't you fight each and every one who stands in your way, or resists to your will, but choose the exact communication that will message your intent across, without threatening the other party? I don't know a book that teaches human communication, but did learn that around blue-collar workers personality, social ability and biological limitations reveal themselves - the team is willing to include anyone who prioritizes results, or social activity. From the simps I met, the poor socialization screamed out to anyone looking, and not pounding on their own chests the common mantras. Hard work rewards, but those who are not properly socially able will be exploited, resulting in the commonly known outcome.
@@mosesking2923 100% completely agree!
Fascinating clip! Please have Andrew Huberman on.
So what should I do as a 23 year old. I’m trying to better myself but I just don’t hit all the check marks these women want. Mostly I’m not tall, and I have no money. Im trying to ditch my bad habits and build good ones but will that even be good enough?
Old African saying; "The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth" .
Except thats not even needed. Recent studies suggest 30% of men age 18-30 are still virgins. If Thanos snapped them out of reality right now there would be a massive gaping hole in the job market. The dirty little secret is society in general actually depends on Ncels to survive.
That’s a great saying.
@@Syncrotron9001 you get it👍
@@Syncrotron9001 Society abuses and exploits INCELS, which are to a society what a nuclear runaway is to a nuclear reactor.
that saying is missing the part where the "child" goes to jail or faces the death penalty depending on the state
I have this feeling that single men will be less willing to go defend their nation when they don't have wives and children to care about.
This is true. Men are selfish and lack empathy by nature. They won't help anyone unless they have something to gain from it.
Of course they wont care, but dont worry military killer robots are already on assembly lines and they wouldnt have any mercy...
Nothing to fight for honestly
I won’t fight for this country. I’ll defend my parents and siblings. That’s it
Nah they may still fight for their town and many other things about their culture they like. But fighting for modern women is like fighting for a group that absolutely despises you.
I am a male, Dutch and a virgin at age 33. I would consider myself an incel in my earlier 20s but not right now....its more like loneliness. I have learnt to cope with it but yeh....the ever changing society kinda looks scary to even put myself out there. Im in no meens psychologically unstable in the sense that I would be a threat to society....but weirdly I do feel like it would be interesting to see society collapse on itself...in the way its going.
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Well I'm Arubano from Aruba same here man it's a lot worse down here
Judging by the woke madness that has proliferated in Holland, I don't blame you. I would especially be mad at my government if I were you.
I'll drink to that. I'm 44, and haven't had sex either. For the longest time I believed it was loneliness, but society labels people like us as a problem when in reality society itself is the problem. I was in love in a woman for 3 years, then she suddenly ghosted me over a year ago. Now I have accepted that I will never have a partner in my life. Such bliss.
Yeah, me too. It’s super interesting to see how modern society ends
Society full of lonely sad men with nothing to lose is dangerous. Then the danger is magnified when society goes out of their way to shame the lonely sad men... Recipe of absolute chaos.
Thats why mass shootings are so common in america.
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And when an enemy invades, how many of these sad lonely men will fight to defend the society which has cast them aside?
@@doodlemecrzy8075 I say this all the time. Weak men and delusional idiots are running the country and doing their best to shit on hands that feeds and protect them. Russians and Chinese have their fair share of social problems, but nowhere near as western countries where people question objective reality and doing the most sick social experiment not known until Weimar Republic.
@@doodlemecrzy8075 Military is facing a Recruitment Crisis! Not good going into potential WW3
The one thing I'm now certain of, conclusively: these 'Tinder' and other dating apps are poison to society.
Social media owners like mark zuckerberg purposefully designed the apps to be addicting and make people mentally sick. I could link you a video that goes indepth about this..
@@aimane3375 Wouldn't surprise me but at this point it's on us, on everyone out there to see the poison and never start using them, stop using them, stop trying to find apps like it. That's on us. We don't even need to care about the "who, why, how" that made them poisonous but only know we don't need or want that ruining our lives, fellow citizens or anyone elses. these 'tinders and grinders', every single time i hear about these apps its just a disaster or some evil thing or just plain misery and wasting time ugh.
@@jonathandewberry289 women cannot live without social media, attention for them is like oxygen they cannot live without it. So why would they shut it down?
@@SA-vz7qi my focus was more on how fast and easy it is for women to get validation and attention now.. before social media a woman had to go outside to for that attention but now she can get it for free. On top of dating apps and instagram. But yes it used to happen on a smaller scale, but now the majority of women are like that.
@@SA-vz7qi That's sounds absolutely plausible.
A man with nothing to lose is a dangerous man.
So you're afraid of street beggars, is that it?
@@johnmilius3031 no
@@johnmilius3031 yes beggars are often junkies or drunkards and dangerous.
@@incelstate2466 "But for the grace of god, there go you."
I've got nothing
There are worse things than being alone but many people never really realise it or realise it too late
Underrated
Ive been alone while around people. That was worse. A relationship isnt the solution
One huge problem is social media: No human, male or female, at any point in history has been exposed to so many pieces of propoganda and false ideals on how they are supposed to live their lives and end up confused and depressed. We romanticize depression as a society and accept that we should live in countries with hustle cultures where if one cannot attain women or work ridiculously hours that they should be subject to ridicule. I sincerely hope that changes and that if anyone reads this comment, they no longer judge a man or anyone based on their ability to find a woman or attain a high degree of wealth at such a young age.
i agree. plus theres so many underlying issues at play as well. the way the world is structured now is leading to issues that 100 years ago didnt exist. the unrealistic expecatations asked of todays youth for many will make the already manic depressive people worse than they already are. it will only worsen as time goes on. i cant see a bright future for relationships given the way of the world built these days.
Nah, many of the issues modern society has already existed since forever. There was a short period where everything looked better, but just looked. Social media is a tool, instead of blaming TikTok I am thankful that showed me what women are: without any hindrance they proved they don't love, pick the most useful man for her, and drop ot as soon as could get a better one, wich again happened all throughout history
I really wish, the west never reached our continent(africa) not to be offensive, but african culture was way more stable and everyone didn't lack coz we provided by ourselves from the land and content. Western ideology is just inconsistent
I recommend the full episode of this podcast. 10/10
Link?
@@MarkJoseph81 kzhead.info/sun/iMtxea6Cm2qve2g/bejne.html
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@@kamrudkd the number of violent men will increase significantly
@@ghosttheprogram6973 sadly we need to be talking about this. We need government, policy makers, social Workers, economists on board to discuss these issues For better social outcomes for all.
A society filled with hopeless permanently single men who have no reason to support the system. This will not end well. Either though indifference or violence
That’s a good thing. If you are a porn-addicted, video game-addicted slob who still reads comic books at age 30 instead of going to college and getting a job, you deserve to be single. I see nothing wrong with lots of single men. It’s called “survival of the fittest.” If you’re lazy, unintelligent, refuse to read a book or go to the gym, and have a terrible personality -> you are destined to be single. I worked hard to go to the gym every day at 5AM. I worked hard to become a doctor and make a good salary. I read everyday to keep myself informed and intelligent. I refuse to be shamed for my hard work. I am not a “chad” I’m just a hard worker.
@@mosesking2923 Unfortunately the average person isn’t like you The average person just wants enough money to afford a house, car and to drink themselves stupid on a regular basis without fearing bankruptcy The hard working doctor is not typical and survival of the fitness has been dead since Homeless people can be fat in this country. Reality is often disappointing and the people around aren’t always the greatest
@@mosesking2923 You know nothing
@@mosesking2923 I paid for my house from selling rare comic and video games, hell i probably more than you make sitting at home.
@@salamiswami5456 Indeed they know nothing. They make fun of hobbies and a back scratcher for lonely people, figuratively speaking, as if being a knuckle dragging no nut November meat head obsessed with sports and working out is somehow better. Then they assume that lazy people are unintelligent, when maybe the reason they are unmotivated is because they are aware enough and smart enough to realize that the whole system is rigged and is more or less a joke and not really worth much effort in the first place.
“Life is unfair. So take the abuse.” Nah I’d rather be single.
Or get a passport if you can afford to travel.
@@andrewhernandez2987 no
5:30 Freudian slip was GOLD
For many men, there is… No incentive No respect No sympathy What could possibly go wrong??
If you are a porn-addicted, video game-addicted slob who still reads comic books at age 30 instead of going to college and getting a job, you don’t deserve sympathy or respect. I see nothing wrong with lots of single men. It’s called “survival of the fittest.” If you’re lazy, unintelligent, refuse to read a book or go to the gym, and have a terrible personality -> you are destined to be single. I worked hard to go to the gym every day at 5AM. I worked hard to become a doctor and make a good salary. I read everyday to keep myself informed and intelligent. I refuse to be shamed for my hard work. I am not a “chad” I’m just a hard worker.
@@mosesking2923 It’s a chicken/egg scenario. Are men single because of the things you listed? Or do men gravitate towards the things you listed because society is apathetic towards men at best, and at worst, downright hostile? Thanks to feminism, lots of women care more about a man’s genetics than his character, leaving many men incompatible no matter how much he self improves. That said, I still believe every man should strive to reach his full potential/purpose - if not for society, then for yourself. Having said that, I don’t recall one instance of positive reinforcement towards masculinity from the media in my nearly thirty years on earth. I do, however, remember plenty of demonization towards men. Is it any wonder why men are opting out of society? Tl;dr - Why should men care about a society that doesn’t care about them??
@@mosesking2923 You are not a hard worker. You are a little slave. Keep it up. Look down on others while sniffing your own farts, I know it feels good.
@@mosesking2923 Spamming the same nonsense?
@@mosesking2923 - I am a 3 time deployment military vet, who is very fit, financially secure, and has all my affairs in order. And I choose to remain single due to the risks associated with the legalized wrath of a woman's ire and contempt. No all single men are basement dwellers who live with their mothers. Personally I just look at the rates of divorce, child support, custody, odds of a cheating spouse, alimony, paternal fraud, and decide that I don't desire or require any of that. You do you, and I'll do me.
My friend tried the one man multiple females type lifestyle. It worked well until his wife discovered the other females in his life lol. Now 50 -70% of his income goes to the 3 women that had children with him lol. He’s now with one woman who gets 50% of her ex-husbands income and he is living really well because that 50% is 4 times more than his income before its given to his baby mama’s lol So in the end his children are being raised by single mothers and he’s raising some other mans children and living well off of that man’s income. It’s a truly messed up world! Lol
Holy fuck. Never get married gents.
His fault for messing around. It’s a shame he decided to continue the cycle of single parent households
The world ain't messed up. It's a quiet nice place with a lot of potential. What ruins it for everyone are people like your friend (there are other bad actors of course).
He shouldn’t have been an idiot to do that when he was married.
@@XTheSpartanX7 that’s why she should’ve done it in a country where the power of marriage isn’t in the wife’s hands(3rd world countries)
I'm single and celibate. But I am not a threat to society. In fact I prefer being by myself. I barely go out except to shop, work, and attend church. I avoid women like the plague. No one is in any danger from me!
😅😅like the plague? I can’t even be mad at you. But there is no escape from women. They are everywhere 😅no escape
my close friend is with ya on that. ever since his last breakup he avoids going out alone. i usually go out alone but to certain areas where i can be alone. its not as bad some make it look.
Nothing worse than being Friend-zoned.
indeed but you can reverse uno card that. a friend of mine did such a thing, he was friendzoned by his childhood friend and yet he accepted it, became his best version of himself and became a surrogate son for the parents of her childhood friend, easily a top tier man. when he became that, guess who tried to drop the friendzone? her and yet he didn't let her drop the friendzone. he in a way got vindicated by living well. it goes without saying she is a childless spinster who went from oh damn to oh shit, literally from elegant to elephant. live well my fellow men, that will be your justice.
This problem is quite problematic in India and China, where millions of men cannot find a bride.
Imagine You take those woman in the Western countries and they going to change . And you don't want to know.
I have wondered about what gendercide would do since I was 14. I am 37.
You mean in one country that a norm is arranged marriage and the other that spent a decade killing off its women and now regretting it? Perhaps they should broaden their options. But they probably would never do it, cause it would require more effort. What man wants that.
India and China both killed girl child.
@@robbenvanpersie1562 What do you mean by that,?
What sucks is how relatives start thinking there’s something wrong with you if you haven’t had a girlfriend. Like yes there’s all kinds of mental issues I have but I’m not some crazy bastard. I’m not a “ticking time bomb”. I’m just trying to heal from past trauma. I’m behind and that’s all that is. But I mean that’s what society will say. I don’t even want a relationship right now because I bring nothing to the table. I need lots of alone time right now.
@Vampire Mïlf well the sad reality is it is easy for others. The have normal levels of self esteem, so getting a girlfriend or even many dates is a sign of a normally adjusted person. The issue with someone being behind is the mental issues and problems from anger/loneliness/outcast/negativity that stack on top of each other leaving you in a cycle that you may never break free.
@Succubi Mïlf I think they understand because they still hear about it. I myself still have these issues but as you get older people expect you to resolve your own problems and take accountability.
@@viralt487 what about me, I'm training really hard in triathlons to win iron man one day, it's a lot of training and I don't need a handle brake on my life because I don't have time, I'm very fit physically and mentally and I'm 30, never had a girlfriend in my life.
U see the problem is u think love is a necessity in one's life for happiness but it's not. People like to often categories others, in this instance it's if u have a partner it equates to a healthy individual, but that's not the case, look at the Buddhism and the monks. Self love exists. What you should be talking about is the individuals love he received during his upbringing.
@@darrenzebrowski9842 monks are on one end of an extreme.
Yeah, a gf/drink mate is about as far as I'm willing to go. Screw legal contracts.
Single is liberty.
As long as you can bang when you want...
@@mrconfusion87get a good fleshlight bud
I can confirm my indifference to society burning down…
I'm practicing my Harp playing.
I'm cackling. Everyone who made fun of me are having their lives fall apart. And all I can think is "good". Fuck this world and double fuck canada.
@@SquashGuy02134 Canada is cool, whistler and lake Louis especially
@@SquashGuy02134 Love yout attitude bro
@JPaul I'd probably enjoy that honestly lol
If those men who are left behind and have no incentive will care less about what happens to society. They won't participate in saving it and will watch as the world burns..
They won't keep getting these stupid V-shots because our government are telling us we're racist if we don't. Trudeu did actually say if you don't go and get it done you're mysogenistic! hahaha
Or will gleefully add to the flames! 🤣🤣🤣
@Chris U make feel a social waste.. hv never thought these concepts before!!
Polygamy was never normal, it used to be the case for extremely powerful men, like kings and members of higher nobility, so like 0.001% of the population. Monogamy is ultimately the natural state for humans. It makes sense biologically, because children take a huge amount of time and care and to grow into adulthood, so stable couples are much more fit for survival of their children. Harems could potentially fulfill that only if the man has a vast amount of resources already available, and that only was the case, as mentioned before, of kings or the extremely rich. Monogamy also leads to stable societies, what would have happened if in a prehistoric tribe of 100 people, the 10 strongest men would hoard most women to themselves? The other men would refuse to collaborate with the group, compromising the overall survival, or even worse revolt and kill the men at the top (being stronger or the best hunter in the tribe wouldn't save you from a handful of bloodlusted men that are out to get you). Some may call this into question by saying that most men never ended up passing their genes to our times, while most women did. This doesn't actually compromise the claim that monogamy is the default, because infant mortality has always been very high, and men would die young more often than not since they were doing risky jobs and going to war all the time. Women would end up widows while still young and fertile, so they got picked up by other men
In precivilisation going back like 8k years, only 1 man reproduced for every 17 women. In all of human history 80% or women have reproduced to 40% of men. So your response is?
Never sign a contract with someone who is encouraged financially to break it.
Billions of men with nothing in common but hatred. What can go wrong...
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I will send out the national guard before this madness happens to our women.
@@abolisher lol what is the national guard going to do tough guy? There's millions of us incels the national guard won't do jack shit keep coping lol.
@@abolisher your neo nazi larping national guard? I’d buy that for a dollar. Imagine simping for a women
@@abolisher yeah just nationak guard and police and other institution would full of incels,mgtow and redpill and blackpilled guys lol good luck
At 5:35 when chris blurts out the freudian slip "emotional control" 😂
Why should any man strive to "do better" and "compete", when the quality of women these days is so low that it's not worth the effort. That doesn't make men less masculine or inadequate, it makes the women not worth fighting for or trying to impress. But these days it's the general quality of people, man and woman alike that has degraded. This is the worst time to be alive, truly.
in the end better men become higher women standards will get.
The one-child policy was not instituted centuries ago. It was instituted decades ago. Huge difference.
Thought that too when I heard him say that.
Yeah. Makes you think if this was a simple mistake or maybe he just doesn't know what he is talking about.
So was the Sexual Revolution.
@@ZWIPPMANN he def doesn't
I think he mis-spoke there.
Truth is: People treat men who can't get women like shit, which further decreases these men's self esteem. This of course causes a lack of confidence. It's all a viscous cycle that only the lucky ones manage to break out of. You can say "just don't care" all you want but it's human nature to preform better in general when you have positive reinforcement rather than negative. There is no "victim mentality" to this. It's literally everyday life for some unfortunate people.
the funny thing is that in todays society everyone is walking around with a chip on their shoulder playing the victim. But when a straight white man does it his giving all types of names for it. What makes this funnier is that while all these groups want to claim systematic opprestion the only group that has legal advantages over the other are women. but no one wants to talk about that.
@@creeperkingdom3190 why did you bring race into this dude?
@@JSmoothGamer just used it to emphasize my point. I also put sexuality in it if that counts for anything. Non of what I said is meant to imply that only white men have issues with how men are regarded in their communities. As a blackman myself I would say the destabilizing of the relationship between men and women is more pronounced in our community due to general poverty and government aid (ironically). And to my knowledge stuff like this happened in Japan and other eastern countries long before it started happening in the west. if that's your problem with my statement.
also keep in mind that men account for 52% of the population which aside from deviations of homosexual relationships that their is man for every woman but not a woman for every man. So women have a better range to select from. Nature can be cruel to the non genetically blessed.
Yeah, a little compassion goes a long way.
tough.
Being single is the best decision a man can make
Unless women are beating your door down to be with you...is it really a decision?
@raymondcarter8915 Which never happens??? And even if it is, still no; there’s nothing to gain other than sex
Aside from the Disneyfication of relationships, I think a lot of it has to do with the overbearing tolerance stuff because I see people constantly encouraged to "drop them, they're toxic, omg girl, you don't need to put up with that." A lot of the time it's not toxicity, it's just normal conflict, and nobody withstands the normal conflict anymore. They use "toxicity" as an excuse to just drop people and not face the hard conversations, and you can't maintain a relationship if you can't have the hard conversations.
It's so funny, right? I know that a lot of people either go to therapy or cope with their problems through the mentality of "everyone else is toxic, drop them". I personally believe there ARE indeed toxic people that are beyond helping and converting into well adjusted individuals. But this culture of "toxicity" in which I doubt, when not outright deny, that any of the therapists or stand-ins for therapists these people have, ever tell this people in the second person "YOU are the toxic one, YOU need to change". It creates a climate where we just discard each other and stroke our own ego. It's never worth it to try to struggle to make things work, because everyone just discards. Nobody is toxic except everyone else. Selfishness is the ultimate goal and we have even come to patholgize altruism with labels like "white knight". Sure, it's not real altruism to do things to get something in exchange, but I do believe that the reason why we pathologize those behaviours (being nice to the other person so that they like you in return, which at worst is just reciprocating a pro-social attitude, i.e. if not romantically, socially, a society should appreciate individuals that help, contribute and do sacrifices) while saying that it's much more normal to be manipulative, aggressive, grab what you want, hurt, hit, cheat... Because at least that's "more honest than doing nice things so others like you". Moral of the story: never, ever help anyone. It's a lot of wasted effort. Did your parents or society or religious morals tell you that you should feel good when you help, that you should feel bad when you don't, that cooperation, collaboration, giving second chances and a mutualism and reciprocity in which you help other people stand back up when they fall, because you would like others to do the same for you...? Well, I've got news for you. You're actually the worst type of person in the world, because your attemp to make the world a better place in hopes that other people will do the same for you is actually very selfish. It's even more selfish than being outright selfish.
Part of this is because of social media and hypergamy. Women used to only choose from a small pool of Men in the local villages. Now, they have access to a MASSIVE pool of Men. They always, always, always think that they can do better. Until they can't. Infinite choice combined with female innate indecisiveness is a curious combination.
@@denebx4 Most will grow old and bitter alone with cats, box wine and become Karens ...
Damn, this comment hits me hard ... my ex girlfriend said that our relationship was toxic but just like you said it was just normal conflict from time to time, I never insulted her, we didn't even yell at each other but I would call her on her bullshit and she didn't like that, then bam she went on vacation with another guy that was just a "friend" despite the fact I was here for her every time she was sad (she was depressed and I encouraged her to see a shrink), I encouraged her when she was stressed by her exams and so on ... crazy how a person can call a relationship toxic just because there is conflict sometines especially that she had quite a temper too
@@sangotunk8043 Yeh, it's hard to be there for someone who isn't 'there for themselves'. 😢 When someone isn't ready to acknowledge their own sides of the 'toxicity', it only means that the other person has to take all the responsibility for any issues, and that's not a relationship. Just just enabling 😑 I'm sorry you dealt with that, and I hope you've seen happier times with someone who appreciates you. 😊
People get mad when you bring this conversation up and yet it needs to be had.
2:04 - "Twitter usage" What? 🤔
Real love is very rare in this day and age. The single epidemic will continue and it will get worse the coming decades.
Pandemic will last this decade
The one child policy is from 1980. Not "centuries back"
If anything shows how insanely damaging it was Not even 40 years later and now they have a crisis where now millions of men have no hope in finding a wife
@Joey Wheeler That’s literally what’s happening as we speak Thousands of Chinese men are marrying African women right now Better a foreigner than nobody
I said the same thing to myself when they said this in the episode, it was definitely not centuries ago haha
@@MarkJoseph81 if it was a century ago China's uncounted country girls would be massive "ghost" city where the actual number is like 7 million but on official count is 300,000
@@prettyboyjeremy African wives i doubt
"Women want emotional control"...Wonderful and trustworthy slip !
I know a woman who was at a dinner party in Seattle with a Microsoft bigwig. There were ten people- Microsoft bigwig, and nine women. All of the women were in a sexual relationship with him, and courting his favor. Entirely real. There is a high risk that polyamory is code for polygyny.
Well, having a wife that’s not attracted to you and just makes your life miserable because you’re not a Chad is no good either.
Many women having short-term/casual access to chads due to encouraged sexual liberation is what inflates their standards to begin with.
@@themarathoncontinues4211 Agreed, but now that we are already in this era of sexual liberation, we can't really put the genie back in the bottle without cries of "oppression". We can't teach the younger generation of these dangers either without cries of "grooming". They've got a shaming tactic for everything. They want everyone/everything to change for their benefit, but will not change or fight their own nature, even if it means a stable future for themselves and society at large.
Violence, like always, is the answer.
@@fireduprabbit7525 fully agree unfortunately. Leaves a lot of men in a tough position, we can just do the best we can on an individual level though
@@fireduprabbit7525 There are easy solutions A. Ask men to raise their standards instead of allowing men to settle for less. B. Expect more from men. Advise men to stop being porn-addicted video game playing comic book collecting morons. Tell men to read books, pursue advanced careers, hit the gym, and better themselves.
Incel is the most unempathetic derogatory term. It doesn't even make sense!
I agree. It's a total misnomer, really.
What does it mean really?
90% of men can no longer date or find anyone worth dating. It's just Leftist Shaming language. If you had to work for free, and decided not to work, no one would call you work shy or lazy because you don't get paid. Work is something you for pay because you wouldn't do it for free. When guys have to jump through a million hoops, We get abuse, spend our time and money to get rapidly replaced by some Chad who's just wanting to F Or a F'boy as girls call them.... Fill in the blanks! Dating just really isn't working for guys now. Incel is just a guy who's still trying. I went MGTOW and went from being skint to balls deep in crypto. When guys give up Dating, life gets better!
@@evaphillips2102 involuntary Celibate
@@evaphillips2102 MGTOW is better. Not worth 90% of guys dating now
I haven't been on a date since the 1990s . And those dates sucked
Our increasingly individualistic and selfish society plays a big part imo.
All I know is that most men I know play 2+ hours of video games a day regardless of being single or married. Not saying games are "evil", but they one of the strongest distractions men have right now, and I believe we are seeing men be selfish by avoiding community through sinking time in the virtual world more and more.
@@someone-ji2zbwould you try to make friends with people who label you as angry bigoted resentful piece of shit? I know I sure wouldn't
Interesting to note is that I've seen that couples that marry while one or both are successful during an economic boom are more likely to divorce when the economy crashes (as in 2008). Those that married when both were poorer then made money or stayed the same tended to stay together. The possible reason is that the latter knew they could survive an economic crash since they already had the foundation. The former didn't so ended up blaming each other and separating
Another reason could be that they didn't get together due to their economic status. Meaning, they found something else compelling in one another that was not defined by money or status. So if these couples attain success then lose it, they won't leave each other because the foundation of the relationship was not founded on status. Conversely, if money and status is a big reason you are with your mate then once that's gone so is the reason for staying with that person
In other words, dont date women in college
Actually many couples that met in Uni and both started off as poor still divorce.
@@beneficent2557 if you can date women while you're college aged, you probably should. Maybe don't get serious in college? Statistically you're much less likely to get divorced after age 25. Age 32 seems to be the sweet spot for marital stability, after that, divorce starts start trending up again.
I met my husband is grad school and we are happily married 26 yrs today (June 7th 2022).
The lesson on polygamy is that it never turns out well. The women are jealous of each other and basically hate each other. The kids don't recognize each other as full brothers and sisters and off each other later in life. They don't even respect the father or mother fully in life and abandon them because the children can't bond with their parents because the parents attention is spread so thin with all the kids half brothers and sisters, concubines etc. Polygamy always falls flat and just creates chaos.
@Perturbed Atheist It only works by enslaving the sexless men. Farmers don't typically get rich, therefor in this system they would be sexless, people starve without farmers, therefor slavery.
@Perturbed Atheist Stop having sons, only have daughters. Save the boys.
@Perturbed Atheist it create alot of civil unrest. why More advance muslim countries have very high monogamy rate. how ever they arrange marriage which is more efficient of form monogamous bonds than dating. how ever they turn it into match making because they allow the women to say no to the match.
@Perturbed Atheist studies have shown it create unrest. Those who are virgins have zero worth in society. they usually turn to crime. think about it your work created where the alpha get more love than you. If refuse to go along and not work then alpha wealth will collapse. also society will collapse because a lot jobs that society needs are low pay. this is why romans had monogamy because democracy work better with monogamy.
@Perturbed Atheist How it "works"? Polygamistic societies are unstable and violent. In every single developed country you have enforced monogamy. That's what works. How can people be so blind, you have everything literally in front of your eyes and still can't see. Monogamy - rich western societies (japan, china, russian too). Polygamy - perpetual wars in middle east and africa. Polygamy forces young men to "conquer" and go to war if they want to have woman literally only way is taking it away from neighbours (other tribes or nations). If they don't have neighbours they can steal women from with force (aka our "civilized" societies) they will turn on system itself.
Met my 1st wife at 17 & married her at 19. Being married gave me purpose as we bought a home, had kids & for 10 years she was awesome. But then she got tired of being a housewife & left me for bigger, better, stronger & financially destroyed me in divorce court. Bottom line: I wish I never married, modern marriage offers nothing but pain for a man.
What happened to the kids if you don't mind me asking?
@@ghengiskhan9308 What happen was the kids disliked their stepfather & they came with me every weekend & on Sunday's they used to beg me not to bring them back home to mom. After 3 years of marriage she divorced the stepfather & jumped on the D carousel, & the kids were with me 50% of the time. Both son's graduated with engineering degrees & are doing well with a wife & kids of their own.
A win is a win. Good for her
you chose that woman. live with your choices
I agree 100% I did choose to marry that woman. My #1 complaint regarding marriage is that the divorce courts by default exist to financially rape men & separate men from their children. @@spiritofalaska
no matter how much we discuss, things have to get worse and desperate before people will consider changes for improvement. Polygamy looks inevitable or is already here but not secured by marriage serial dating is already advocating polygamy. Chads be dating multiple girls all the time and same for stacy. Incels are already left out.
The aphorism 'There's someone for everyone' has a second part often omitted which is, 'if you're willing to settle'.
I could definitely see this being the case
Well, it appears society has found an answer for this.
I think it’s more about being alone, then being a single man. Studies show that men mental health is best at big sporting events (think World Cup). Most generations past had some sort of collective brotherhood. The individualistic and consumer driven culture we now live in is the key factor here.
Male mental health definitely improves when succeeding in competition...it’s kinda why I get confused by this hypergamy stuff. Like it kind of writes-off and completely dismisses just how powerful the male competitive drive actually is. Like this is the same gender that forged society as we know it, battled each other and the terrain, developed the majority of infrastructure and technological innovations around us, overcame immense obstacles and bent the land to their will...and apparently now, are suddenly incapable of finding a new strategy to show off and impress women all because a grand total of two generations of women read more books and could buy more things. Like I know the internet is quite polarising but I don’t think of men as that pathetic
@@lunar686 that's strong men. strong men are rare even throughout history. you don't hear about weak men because they died or never reproduced.
Very intelligent point.
@@viralt487 wait? So you’re saying strong men are rare and then you’re saying weak men don’t reproduce and die. So what about all of us? Are our parents strong men or weak men? If only strong men reproduce then that means there’s lots of strong men cause there’s 7 billion of us on the planet
@@damiantirado9616 trend of single women is high because too many weak men.
I'm sitting back with my popcorn watching it all burn. I'm taking whatever side that wins in the end since morals are out the window at this point.
Just like a woman!
Let society burn to the ground. Fk it!
Go after the kind of woman you want. You're the hunter.
@Krzysiek Mazanek you are aware that George Carlin was a leftist right?
@Krzysiek Mazanek I never said that.
I intend to be dangerous for this so called "society".
Don't settle. Pls don't
Black pill guys don't "hate" Chads and Stacies, though they might resent them a bit. They simply acknowledge the reality their existence. I'm not BP, btw.
The old ways make sense. The older I get, the more apparent that is.
Same. As a woman raised in feminism this is correct. All ways make more sense to me now.
I see DARK times ahead for humanity.
For the WEF especially.
ahead? were in them
@@matisyahup613 You wish.
@Tad Leblanc it's going to get worse I agree, but looking back to the 90s and early 2000s were already in pretty deep shit.
@@matisyahup613 It's all relative.
8:30 True, today, if things aren't perfect they are considered terrible. The entitlement and expectations are way too out of whack.
The current dating market i a recipe for social disaster. Boys growing up without any chance of a relationship will have few qualms about being recruited to various types of extremism. What do they have to loose anyway? I would think it is not so much that no one loves them, but more so that no one will accept their love. THAT is actually an even worse rejection.
That's an overstatement IMO. Having a woman or a family isn't the only thing that propels you through the life. Sure, there are people who would end up just as you say, but not many.
@@bmsuperstar1 Perhaps it is not the only thing, but it is the onluy reason there are any of us.
@@JK-jt3lr- One thing people refuse to address is the single motherhood rate that is only getting higher. The vast majority of these men were raised by single mothers. They never had a father figure in their life. Women create monsters and now they bitch about them. Let’s not forget, women spent decades saying “my body, my choice,” and telling men to mind their own business. That’s exactly what they’re doing.
I'm single and I assume it. I guess wanting a loving, caring, nice, faithful woman is too much nowadays
Sadly, it is. The tiny percentage of women who fall into that category are quickly taken off the dating market.
@@jasonpauldegraaf correct me if I'm wrong but they rarely marry a good guy
@@emmamusic4600 Of course, but the pretty ones are always in relationships. So they are non existent to 90% of the male population
@@fidykely Regardless of whether he's good or not, she will eventually resent him. 80% of divorces are initiated by women (the main reason cited is "unhappiness"). Of course, asshole cheating husbands exist. More often than not, however, the wife simply loses the feels, cashes out, and moves on. Generally speaking, wives will offer their love, attention, care, and support in this order: Her children, herself, her family, her pets, and then (if anything remains) her husband. And when they must, they'll often view him as weak for being "needy" (which only fuels further the inevitable resentment). Most modern women expect their men to offer emotional, financial, and relational support but have no paradigm to reciprocate. In their minds, he's there to care and provide for her at whatever cost. And if he cannot cut it, her social media/dating apps can provide her with a few hundred more willing simps within a few days' time.
@@emmamusic4600 for sexually/physically attractive men ofc who are the top 20% of the male populace. So basically, you dont "exist" for a majority of men.
This has the potential to destroy society, playing wit fire!!! Millions of angry dissilussioned men!!
Lol I’m also a Black Piller, but I’m not angry. I gave up for me it’s over
An economical breakdown will resolve this issue.
Thank you for making this video. Spot on men.
The price good men pay for indifference to public affairs is to be ruled by evil men.
Even Thanos knows how bad this unbalance is
We live in a simp-ecomony, men in relationships or dating spend an insane amount of money chasing women. Think of all the flowers, gifts, jewelry, homes, cars, restaurants, vacations, and the list goes on and on. When men are single they are able to save a lot of money and typically dont spend much unless its on themselves. If men remain single then billions of dollars are not being spent in the general economy. The average man in the pursuit of women can easily spend $10k-$20k a year on women, now times that by millions of men. Economists are freaking out because more men than ever are not dating, and not interested in dating, and that is costing the economy literally billions of dollars.
Good takes
Because a lot of single men are lonely and miserable. Men live longer in relationships with women… blame nature for that.
Yep. David's Bridal just filed for bankruptcy. More businesses that revolve around marriage and dating will go bankrupt.
@@Andrew--S A stupid fvcking bridal store replaced a cool store that sold board games, wargaming minis and table top rpg's in my home town. Still salty about it. Good riddance to bridal crap.
True words This is exactly what is happening if there is no dating then there is no going out to dinner buying gifts there is no nothing being bought
Great conversation. It's a very serious point, that needs to be discussed. Only thing i have to add, and i'm not sure if you mention it in the full video, but online dating services aught to be banned, for the disruption it causes in society... The potential danger it poses...
Back in the 1980's Susan Faludi published a book called "Stiffed," in which she said that (1) as men identify their masculinity by what they do for a living, and (2) as American men lose their good paying blue collar union jobs, they will resort to a kind of ornamental idea of masculinity. This is exactly what has happened. What is missing for American men is good paying middle class jobs not requiring a college degree--the jobs that have been shipped overseas. Yet, in the present crisis, no one talks about that.
Excellent point.
This might be why Trump rose up. He dared to promote "Get tough on China." Nobody else did.
Men don't base their masculinity on what they do for a living. Women base men's masculinity on what they do for a living.
@@llywelyngruffydd8474 That used to be true when women depended more on men for resources. One problem today for men is that women are so much more independent. There is a crisis of masculine identity and it's not about women. When men stop blaming women for their problems they will begin to deal with their own.
many trades pay significantly more than white collar jobs though. i was on track to clear 100k a year as a specialty finish carpenter after 2 years lol Mining same thing, not even 2. You cant ship those overseas
I've pretty much accepted that I'm part of the ~40% of men who won't reproduce. It would be so much better if I weren't still afflicted with the biological imperative and the fiction of love.
Now if only I could stop caring because so far try as I may everytime I see a nice Woman I think hey you should go talk to her then reality snaps back in " wtf you mean talk to her no no no keep walking " but it's that brief moment of desire that reminds me I am very lonely and want someone and idk if drinking will make that go away cause if I did I'd be tempted
Same here but I’m a woman 🥲 life sucks when all you want is a happy marriage, kids and a house to grow old in. But that will never happen
From my perspective it is better not to have something, than to have it be taken away. I last saw my son on his 2nd birthday, his Mum "lost" the divorce due to her stupidity. However the court readily believed her accusations about my violent temper. The only way to see him was for me to say I was guilty, get court approved anger management treatment, be at the mercy of her anger, and the courts assumption of my guilt. That was over 30 years ago, I've not seen him since.
@@jaidee9570 wow that’s crazy. Why not just take the classes? Surely your pride isn’t worth not being in your sons life
@WomenHateShortMen you can't buy love but can buy sex, just buy sex and get it out of your system so you only live with one problem instead of two.
You are absolutely correct, hence the decreasing numbers in recruitment for the Armed Forces.
ive been single for 31 years Sure ive had periods when ive been angry, Most of my anger is against society since ive never been able to get a job. If society gives me nothing and treats me like crap why should i follow their rules. Now im going to college to get a good degree to finally see if i can get into society
In the manosphere we say enjoy the decline
Men decline at almost the exact same time women do. You are being sold a lie. The only difference is some older men can secure a younger woman - but chances she’ll only want them for the money?
@@sarahmeadows8131 the wall comes for us all
@@meshugganator08 true mate. True
It's simple. Women don't give a shit about men's struggles. They just wait at the finish line and choose the winner.
More inaccurate manosphere rhetoric
@@wyleecoyotee4252 says the fake account
@@emmanuelnaicker2067 don't respond to that quarrelsome sperg.
True
"just grow a foot in height bro"
In the Blade Runner remake the main character Officer K has an AI Girlfriend.
This video clearly ignores that women can date multiple men
That's what happens when society, culture and biology gets questioned every single minute...?...!
Reminds me of that scene from 300 “Men, what is your profession?!” It’s fantastic that society has gone above and beyond to elevate marginalized groups at the expense of men. Unless societal collapse was part of their strategy, they probably should have factored in what large groups of men with nothing left to lose do. “I gave you two choices; I could explain in excruciating detail the consequences of your actions, or you could just have fun. Did you have fun?”
@@sirwizalot7164 You hit it right on the nail, that's why porn, videogames, netflix, junk food, anime, mainstream entertainment, etc. are so readily available, it's to keep men dormant, numb, hooked to the poisons of modernity so they don't burn down the society that has promised them so much while giving back nothing in return except for disappointments and more responsabilities but without any authority or incentives to balance said expectations...
@@sirwizalot7164 I recommend you read *The Rational Male* 4 books and watch Rollo Tomassi's videos, that's all the insight you'll need ;)
@@transforgoku These men will be treated like all other veterans of all other wars, they're just veterans of different wars, the psychic kind.
@Muslimcel Of course, what else would they do, something constructive? That'd require imagination and thinking, fat chance.
“ I know not with what weapons WW3 will be fought, but WW4 will be fought with sticks and stones” -Albert Einstein It is true they’re trying to Band-Aid our current situation with vices such as drugs and games, which is obviously not a long term solution. The last ditch effort of those in power to retain their power is war; Sending men with nothing left to lose to kill each other rather than allow revolt against the institutions that caused these problems in the first place. And as always women will sit on the sidelines playing the victim’s, choosing the Men who make it out alive. Whether it was ancient Greece or modern society, The expectation has always been for men to die; women have said as much. Well currently we may have lost any power and respect that comes in dying, we do have the power to choose a purpose in which we die for.
I was saying this in 2010. It nearly destroyed my career. I left the topic alone and went to work instead. Now 12 years later, people are finally asking “why are so many young men committing violent acts?” Unmarriageable men are a volatile social force. Consider too that ascendant young women in positions of institutional leadership will preferentially hire men based on the natural algorithm (looks, height, success). So society needs to answer its own question: “why are young men with no marriage prospects who have vanishing hope of professional success committing acts of mass violence?” Hmm. I wonder why.
That's just a lame excuse for committing violence ...that's just their ego ...it's better to make learn to respect others first
@@victoryv116 Keep portraying young men as the problem. That’ll make them less violent for sure.
It does prove that men are naturally abusive though, if they need to be given a woman not to lash out violently. Seems feminists are right.
@@victoryv116 Be lonely long enough and who knows how that changes someone's psyche.
Western society is becoming violent because men, especially young men are being treated like shit. That's a fact. Of course they will lash out. No attention, garbage low paying jobs, no pussy, the men will get angry. Can't have a society where only rich and very good looking men can attract women. Some men will move to Asia, find a GF and be happy. Most Western men don't have that option though.
When is someone going to show, what going to happen next! I’m 53 single male, blue collar worker, I’ve worked all of my life, I live beneath my means, I have pretty reasonable retirement savings, own my own house & everything in it. Now I’m getting hit on by women in their 50s that have nothing, except multiple children to multiple fathers that are living on the welfare system! I’m not interested in buying last week’s non winning lottery ticket!
As a single 55 year old self employed, debt free home owning female getting hit on by tired, old, grumpy, lonely, men, I feel your frustration - but, i'd much rather live happily alone than settle on damaged and cynical.
@La A I'm 58yr old woman in same situation.
The problem is I think a lot of "average" people or even slightly above average people do actually have options. They just don't like their options. A lot of the dating market's problems would be solved if the average person actually took a good hard look at the mirror and asked themselves "Would I date myself" Just imagine if the average man and woman would exercise 3-4 times a week and would cut something unhealthy out of their lives like drinking soda just imagine how much more attractive both genders at the average level would become.
@@laa2871 You could try to date a younger man - of course, it will cost you a few bucks - you'll have to take him to dinner, and pay for almost everything - Your other option is to simply stay alone for the remainder of your life. The guy who has assets, property, etc., is not interested in women who are 55 yrs old -unless maybe, they are from a 3rd world country, and believe men are important.
@@jlang7705 There is no way younger men are physically attracted to them for more than one night. It is such a pointless relationship. They should aim for men 65+
GOOD TAKL !
Very good! Thank you! Almost every discussion of this topic is filled with venom. You guys provide constructive feedback & propose solutions. This world needs more people like you guys.
Simplest thing is to get rid of welfare.
your a smart man. whered you study
This is the security net where they fleece single men out of money to pay for Chad's kids.
Creeper. I’m in Europe. From a peasant background. People do need help but we have created rights without any moral judgements ie deserving poor v undeserving poor.
That's why religion has these rules.
We place way too much emphasis on relationships and sex. The happiest people I know are all single or celibate. My married friends, on the other hand, all seem utterly miserable. Especially the ones with kids.
i think we are thinking about this too deeply,which is fun but i think there is a simple ansewer to this,,get rid of all these dating apps and social media and go back to where you have to pick the best person you can find in your arrea ,.it may take awhile to forget about this internet bs but eventually everything should go back to normal
true
As long as family and divorce laws favor women. Men will opt out. Its called self defense.
Thats fine. Best to keep lames (men and women) off the market. Lol when divorced favored men…women were abused and and trapped in toxic relationship with more children than a family than her mind, body, and the whole family can support. Now that the risk for both parties are more proportionate to what a woman and man would contribute to a household…men are pissy. And thats fine. Please stay off market. Your are a hero.
@@WordsofHarmony There will be violence from such men. That's concerning.
@@WordsofHarmony tell em sis🙌🏼
@@weaksupremacy3799 the violence will boomerang right back at them. Who are they to make others suffer for their Choices and lame lives? God exists and he would never let such losers win in life amen
@Prepare for jihad and Islamic Revolution inshallah Troll spotted.
Just saw this after a tinder ad
I am afraid of VIP men. I am sure that they will look down on me, cheat etc. I never ever engaged in a conversation with such a person.
This podcast came to mind with recent events today: China's massive military buildup (with the numbers of males who will not find wives?), and Japan's current construction boom in central Tokyo and rebuilding in disaster-hit areas (keep those healthy young men productively engaged!)... I agree with Vincent Harinam. Just leaving men-without-mates to the vagaries of "the market" is not a good idea.
They wont find them in Taiwan either. Iran has constantly lowering birth rate aswell. Ukraine has an extremely low birth rate too. This time they can't use war to solve the incel epidemic.
The Buddhist culture and Christian culture used to have monasteries for men to go to, to live together productively and have companionship and meaning to their lives.
And not one single word about divorce and family court, alimony, child support. paternal fraud, etc. Men do pay attention to what happens to other men, and it isn't rocket science to go "Wow, I don't envy that man and his situation, and so I shall take steps to avoid his fate." Getting married, and staying married until your golden years, is no longer the norm in society, it's the exception. This is the part where I throw back my head and laugh.
Do you really want to be married to the same woman for the rest of your life? Having sex with only one woman for the rest of your life? Think about this seriously
@@wyleecoyotee4252 - getting married is playing Russian roulette with only one round not chambered and she's always pulling the trigger. If I wanted to get married, I would just find a lady who already hated me and buy her a house and give her half my assets, skip all the paperwork.
@@wyleecoyotee4252 In a Ideal world that's no problem, what's the issue with being married to or having sex with the same woman for the rest of your life? At some point in a man's life they should have enough sexual/relationship experience and encounter to realize that every pussy is the same if you just looking for hookups. I'm in my mid-20s and at a point in my life where sex in it of itself became nothing more than me trying out every store-brought dessert for something interesting, I want something more which is why I would like to get married. Also, to be married to the same woman for the rest of my life will be a testament to our loyalty and companionship for each other, love is a fleeting but loyalty/companionship is for forever.
@WhoBlah If you're only 20yr then you are only looking at it from a certain Disneylike perspective. I was married 18yrs and people change. Having sex with the same person for that length of time isn't all it's cracked up to be. Furthermore you're assuming your relationship or sex life doesn't deteriorate. It's awful when it becomes a sexless marriage.
@@wyleecoyotee4252 I've not looked at relationships and marriage from the Disney perspective since I was 13, either I was built different or too many men get their relationship advices from the media they consume. I personally don't believe people change, I believe that once you get to know someone very well and live with them you enter a crossroad where you ask yourself "Is this the person I want to have children with?" and "Is this the person I want to grow old with?" Now, speaking as a man who has no trouble or qualms with finding a woman to fuck, let me tell you this, I've reached a point where I just stopped caring about sex or the quality of it. Hooking up with different women over the years made me just bored and isn't all cracked up either. If I were to make a rough guess of your life, I would guess you've gotten married way too early and held on to an dead marriage too long that your youth passed you. I never assumed that relationships and sex don't deteriorate, I even said "love is fleeting" because at one point in every marriage even in healthy ones, love dissipates and the sex stops becoming exciting this is why loyalty and companionship is extremely important. Deep in my core, I rather have the companionship that I built with a woman for the rest of life, then to live as aging bachelor who have meaningless sex, but that's just me.
So these men whom are cast aside… what will they do?!
Form their own communities in the wastelands (i.e. forrests, mountains, swamps, deserts,...). 😊
I guess they are already trying to eliminate those that try to rebel against this nature of the elite classes.
I don't class myself as an incel, but I would fall into that box if placed myself in that box. I dated a bit in my 20s and ultimately gave up. Now I am in my 30s and the level of self improvement and people skills I developed I am proud of. I don't need a woman to complete me, I don't bitch and moan, and I just live my life. I have TOO much crap to do to care. If I meet someone in the future cool. I'll have questions like any normal man, but if it happens organically so be it. I have the gym, making music, working, working on buying my first house, and getting my car re-painted to car about certain things. Live life man. It's short and hard, but it's what you make of it that matters. I dropped weight, improvement myself to be the man I always envisioned, and the momentum continues. Do what works for you and if a woman comes in your life cool beans, if not just live a life that is complete and fulfilling for you. Not easy, but worth it.
Keep telling yourself that,
@@garibaldi54 I will do Steve, thank you so much for the sarcastic remark. I hope you and your family remain healthy and have a blessed year this year. Peace!
@@xagonent4942 I hope so too. ;)
We have to adapt somehow adaptation is possible. Making small moves in the community would give me fulfillment. Doing charity, feeding the orphans, feeding the homeless, keeping the youth away from gangsters and drugs. I do combat sports aswell wrestling and judo so competing and coaching others. If I can coach a youngster and get him into program instead of becoming a drug addict it's worth it. There's no point of being hateful because of your circumstances. I will also be graduating with my second degree so I'm trying to inspire other young men that getting into college is possible. If I can do it anyone can do it.
@@wrestlingjudoms1302 Come on mate, none of that stuff is going to compensate for the most basic human desire which is to find a mate for sexual companionship.
Being single takes off the pressure of attaining specific financial goals and that has helped me ease my mental pressure recently. So this is the state I don't want to change, at least for couple of years from now
bro you from south africa?
I like the way you say unedited
Just waiting for the collapse here :) Can't fucking wait for the gloves to come off and the state is out of the way, dead under its own weight that myself, and 1000s of other men refuse to hold up anymore. Be strong brothers!!!!! STAY. THE. COURSE.
I love your programme...I recently moved to a small college in the US and there is nothing for single males in their 40's -this contributes to the epidemic of loneliness which is now a serious public health issue. This leads to many emotional and mental health issues and can manifest in so many unhealthy ways. Have you ever dealt with this situation in your pod cast discussions?
@@frenne_dilley Back then single older guys would buy a weapon and armor and become a crusader.
40s.... find other 40s divorced women ...
Here is my question. Why be civilized if the system is designed to humiliate you? The social contract is dead.
slavery for Ncels is coming. The successful men simply cant do all the physical labor it takes to upkeep their harems, someone has to farm and do garbage work and those guys are going to be sexless and eventually just stop working.
I just said the same thing in my other comment.
@Krzysiek Mazanek Especially men who are "on the spectrum" but still fit enough to work. I recommend all men get tested for autism and if they test positive IMMEDIATELY read just how high the divorce rates are for your FIRST marriage (its 70%+)
There's this thing called jail....
@@Syncrotron9001 Serfdom?
8:58 Even just hearing thesse terms made my skin crawl lol