How we avoided SEPARATION ANXIETY with our Havanese puppy

2024 ж. 26 Сәу.
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Havanese are one of the best dog breeds out there. But that sweet and loyal temperament can also come with separation anxiety. Here's my tips and tricks for how we avoided this with our Havi girl.
00:00 - Some background
01:37 - Tip: Start small & start early
02:43 - Tip: Get a puppy cam
03:24 - Tip: Don't make hellos & goodbyes" a big deal
06:20 - Tip: Make goodbyes FUN
08:22 - Tip: Make the crate a safe space
10:30 - Tip: Limit dog's space when you're not home
11:05 - Tip: Try not to leave your dog alone with obvious barking triggers
12:34 - Tip: Play some background noise
13:20 - Tip: Don't acknowledge dog when barking or whining for attention
14:50 - Tip: Adjust pup to your lifestyle, not the other way around
15:53 - Tip: Practice separation while you're still home
16:25 - What does a separation-anxiety-free dog look like?
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Kong Wobbler:
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Snoop:
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Classic Kong:
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Diggs Revol Dog Crate:
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  • thanks, I just got havapoo and i was going crazy. this is beyond helpful, and your voice is so soothing.

    @meronmery-do1ke@meronmery-do1keАй бұрын
  • I totally agree about the neutral hellos and goodbyes. My Havi is fine on his own for awhile and I think it’s due to me being very chill about the transitions. It’s really NOT in our human instincts so I mostly had to train myself. lol Thanks for the other tips as well. I appreciate and totally agree with your message of building trust and security. I think that’s the best foundation for training any dog. And Havis are very special and do have their particular needs to be happy and healthy. 🐶❤️

    @jacynthakamor@jacynthakamor Жыл бұрын
    • I’m so glad your Havi is doing well. Definitely a challenge to train yourself for some of these things!

      @backtobreeality@backtobreeality Жыл бұрын
  • I read about not saying goodbye, and not greeting when i come back. but honestly, when I say to my dog, i will be back in a minute, he is calm and lays down. And it's not a big deal. When I forget to say it or think, it's not necessary, he barks when he realizes, that i've left. And i always say hello, when i come back. Never was difficult, only in hotels it takes a few days. I have a puppy cam as well, and usually he sleeps. Started very early too, just going to the letterbox or washing machine in the basement. Still, very nice video.

    @ems.938@ems.93825 күн бұрын
  • Hello,we lost our 15 years old little boy in august 22,but we're getting a new Havanese June 1. It's been a long time since the puppytime,so these videos are great to "catch up" 🙂.

    @arhans68@arhans6811 ай бұрын
    • Can I ask what breeder your using? I just lost my 15 year old Havanesse Moose. I want to start planning my next😊

      @conniehill4851@conniehill485110 ай бұрын
    • @@conniehill4851 Hi,I am from Norway,guessing you're not buying from here :-).Or..... ;-)?

      @arhans68@arhans6810 ай бұрын
    • I lost my 15 year old shitzu four weeks ago. I’ll never get over it

      @ruthiewilliams3482@ruthiewilliams34828 ай бұрын
  • I see why Jonny Devaney calls Havanese Stage 5 Clingers! Your girl is adorable and I’m glad you’re meeting her needs.

    @littlecatfeet9064@littlecatfeet90642 ай бұрын
  • These tips are gold!!!! Thank you. ❤

    @cathysteele924@cathysteele9246 ай бұрын
  • So helpful! Thank you.

    @roseanncordelli4996@roseanncordelli49968 ай бұрын
  • You have such good pointers here. Thanks for sharing

    @judithcoker8047@judithcoker8047 Жыл бұрын
    • I’m so glad you find them helpful!

      @backtobreeality@backtobreeality Жыл бұрын
  • Thank you for recommending this video I had some ideas of those, but you enlightened me with others ... really thank you

    @sweetprincess3368@sweetprincess33688 ай бұрын
  • super helpful, thank you!!!

    @mijaukl1@mijaukl1 Жыл бұрын
    • I’m glad it helps!

      @backtobreeality@backtobreeality Жыл бұрын
  • Thanks for this. We're getting a Havanese in a couple weeks and these videos are fantastic.

    @grantmcalpine6364@grantmcalpine6364 Жыл бұрын
    • Best of luck with your new baby!

      @backtobreeality@backtobreeality Жыл бұрын
  • Hi! Thanks for your tips. They're awesome! This is my first time owning a Havanese, and they are sooo smart. Would you do a video on what you feed your baby? It would be very helpful since they seem to have very sensitive stomachs. Thanks again!

    @ellief5646@ellief5646 Жыл бұрын
    • I’m glad it was helpful for you! One day I’ll make a video on feeding - if I ever figure that out myself! Our girl is SUCH a picky eater and doesn’t eat her kibble as much as I wish she would. My best recommendation is canned food (nice and smelly) because Havs love it and it helped with her diarrhea in the past, but it is more expensive. I also give her a scrambled egg (no added seasonings) sometimes if I feel she hasn’t been eating enough.

      @backtobreeality@backtobreeality Жыл бұрын
    • @@backtobreeality Thanks so much! That's helpful! My girl is not picky, but she's only 5 months old, and I find she doesn't eat as much as she should. I'll try out the egg to see if she likes it and maybe do a canned food to see how it goes.

      @ellief5646@ellief5646 Жыл бұрын
  • I’m getting a Havanese in July and I’ve been binging your videos! It’s my first time owning this breed and there aren’t a lot of Havanese specific videos out there. I’d love if you could post more about your puppy experience (eg socializing your puppy). Thank you so much!! Love your content ❤

    @mikaylapoon7540@mikaylapoon7540 Жыл бұрын
    • I plan to do more puppy-stage-focused videos soon! Thanks so much for this sweet comment. Best of luck with your little baby - it just gets better and better.

      @backtobreeality@backtobreeality Жыл бұрын
    • @@backtobreeality Thank you!! you’re awesome, I’m definitely gonna use the tips you share when I get my pup :)) PS your voice is super soothing too - you’re a natural!

      @mikaylapoon7540@mikaylapoon7540 Жыл бұрын
    • @@mikaylapoon7540 You are so sweet, thank you so much!!

      @backtobreeality@backtobreeality Жыл бұрын
  • I love these ideas. I've implemented some of them with our late dogs. Funny enough with leaving music on, we found by accident that our old shih tzu LOVED Kate Rusby's music. Any time we put her music on, he'd crawl into his bed, let out a big sigh, and go to sleep. So we'd put on Toby's "Kate playlist" and he was quite content with that. ^_^

    @ferrisulf@ferrisulf9 ай бұрын
  • Good tips especially ignoring while she's whining. That will be difficult for me!

    @flowerpixel@flowerpixel10 ай бұрын
    • It’s no easy task! But it’s for their own good, keep telling yourself that.

      @backtobreeality@backtobreeality10 ай бұрын
  • What pen do you use that has worked for you? I know there are MANY on Amazon, etc. but I have one to use at home and want to get maybe a small one for my office so I can take her at least part of the day with me to work and limit her to her pen.

    @tht8916@tht891611 ай бұрын
  • ❤❤❤❤love

    @Havaneseangels@HavaneseangelsАй бұрын
  • This is a wonderful video, probably better than many of the training videos I’ve watched. We have a 11 week old Havanese puppy, and he does not like it when we leave the room unless he has settled and is already sleeping. My question would be if they get really panicky and start scratching on the cage and seems super upset. What do you do?

    @jenniferb.7250@jenniferb.72509 ай бұрын
    • Thanks so much Jennifer! When Pistachio was still spending much of her day in her pen, she used to whine very loud when we’d walk out of the room. We started leaving her immediate pen area so that she could still see us but we were further away than she wanted (she was in the living room and we were in the attached kitchen) and we wouldn’t acknowledge her or let her out until she stopped vocalizing. It BROKE my heart. It’s so hard to hear them upset. But I wanted to teach her that good things happen when she finds her inner peace. Eventually, she started sitting quietly by her pen gate when she wanted to come out or be with us. She learned that calm behavior was what led to more interaction. For crated naps, we also covered that crate and played brown noise to help her not wonder where we were, and she’d usually settle pretty quickly. Also, distractions always help - you could leave him with a puzzle toy before you leave the room to build up that positive relationship with alone time. Hope that helps!

      @backtobreeality@backtobreeality9 ай бұрын
  • This video is great. Just got a Havi over the weekend. He’s 8 weeks and I want to start off on the right food with him. Do you have any resources you can share that helped you to refine your strategies? Thanks!!!

    @nothingnatural@nothingnatural Жыл бұрын
    • Congratulation on your little guy! I wish I had better feeding advice for you, but it’s still a bit of a struggle over here. Pistachio isn’t an enthusiastic eater of any kibble. If you’re on Facebook, try joining “The Trained Havanese” FB page - I’ve used that as a resource for lots of recommendations and people have great suggestions in there.

      @backtobreeality@backtobreeality Жыл бұрын
  • I put a ring camera in the room where my havanese dogs stay when we’re not home.

    @jdenino6022@jdenino6022 Жыл бұрын
  • My havanese is 4 months old ,she howls when I.go out,been carrying my keys around a huge trigger .rattled them a lot ,is slowly getting used to it.open both doors close them and she is getting better. I step outside for a few minutes ,in her crate she's better .But when she does howl boy she's loud. So I hope I will get there .thanks for video

    @yvonnetrott801@yvonnetrott8013 ай бұрын
  • Hello! Amazing and interesting video! Good work! I have a question that worried me a lot, I'm planning of getting a havanese, but I work 9 hours per day 5 days a week, and I can only work from home 1 day a week. Of course I'm planning of spending quality time with my future dog each morning and evening with games, cuddles and walks, but do you think that no matter the efforts, it is a very bad idea for getting a dog ? I feel like a lot of people are doing it and dogs are happy anyway, but I read so much awful things about working people having a dog that it makes me really anxious I would make a dog unhappy and unwell 😥

    @bryorbrie3853@bryorbrie38539 ай бұрын
    • Hi there, thanks for that feedback! I would recommend watching my most recent FAQ video - one of the questions I answer is on working full time away from home with a havanese. It’s a tricky subject for sure!

      @backtobreeality@backtobreeality9 ай бұрын
    • Thanks a lot! :)

      @bryorbrie3853@bryorbrie38539 ай бұрын
  • what did you use under your pup's play pen area? 3:03 are those just blankets or something else?

    @KennM12@KennM122 ай бұрын
    • It’s a picnic blanket with a vinyl bottom! Keeps liquids from getting to the floor. You can find them on Amazon.

      @backtobreeality@backtobreeality2 ай бұрын
  • Hello would love your help, my beautiful little Havanese is 10months old, I work from home which made it harder to train him to be alone. Currently I trained him to last 40min alone, however those 40min look like the following : 18 minutes playing with his puzzle eating his snacks 4 minutes on/off howl / bark 10 min watching people from the window 4 min on/off bowl/ bark - is this normal he howls/bark for a few minutes in between? - is it true that once you break 20 minutes you can leave them for hours and they don’t sense time? - is it normal he watches people and not just sleep? - how much howling/barking is too much? M thanks for your guidance 🥲 I think this is harder for me than I thought

    @monyhany@monyhanyАй бұрын
  • Do you have any advise if there is any problem keeping 2 Havanese pup at the same time? Will they develop littermate syndrome?

    @ericng5271@ericng52715 ай бұрын
  • What do you use to play music or noise on?

    @grantmcalpine6364@grantmcalpine6364 Жыл бұрын
    • We have Sonos speakers in our home that we use, but you could use any speaker or TV. Even a phone or laptop!

      @backtobreeality@backtobreeality Жыл бұрын
  • All dogs---all of them, are "pack animals"--it is NOT natural and good for them to be the one and only dog. GET TWO, and mix the sex while you are at it, also around the same size. Two females, not so good in many cases, two males--worse, and two males with either intact, "there will be blood". As you know, you can't always be home, or always take the dog with you, so get a second dog. A different breed is fine--though no terriers, those are in fact the exception to the rule, even mixed sex and same size--can still have trouble when terriers are involved. Just get two dogs--better for their mental health--and yours too.

    @jimquantic@jimquantic8 ай бұрын
    • It’s definitely ideal to have two dogs, but there’s a lot of reasons a person may only be able to have one dog - financial reasons, housing restrictions, etc. In my experience, your family becomes your dog’s “pack” and a solo dog can still live full, rich, low-anxiety life with a loving family.

      @backtobreeality@backtobreeality8 ай бұрын
    • @@backtobreeality agree

      @jimquantic@jimquantic8 ай бұрын
    • Agree @@backtobreeality

      @jimquantic@jimquantic8 ай бұрын
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