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How To Never Be Boring If You're Usually Quiet

Charisma on Command
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In today’s video, you’ll learn how to be extremely likable, whether you’re an energetic extrovert or a soft spoken introvert.
We’ll cover how to make an amazing first impression AND how to turn that first impression into deep relationships with people that love and admire you.
⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:00 - Intro
0:11 - #1: Charismatic body language
- Listening With Warm, Soft Eye Contact.
- A Duchenne Smile.
- Speaking Through A Smile.
- Expansive Gestures.
1:34 - #2: Capture attention
- A Pre-Story Laugh.
- A One Line Hook.
2:54 - #3: Making someone feel good around you
- Laugh When Someone Makes A Joke.
- Adding A Light Platonic Touch And Compliment.
- Be Universally Kind.
- Playful Teasing.
6:31 - #4: Be a shield in their shield wall
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  • Finally one for us introverts

    @__m__a__x__@__m__a__x__7 ай бұрын

    • Yeah, i only need to learn to laugh like a human and not like an awkward darf

      @vinzenzs2805@vinzenzs28057 ай бұрын

    • All of these videos on how to temporarily impersonate fictional characters are for 'introverts' (and more specifically people who are carrying a lot of baggage, not just introverts). People who are sane are simply themselves, no need to copy phrases or attitudes or any of that insane bs...

      @Dabaiko@Dabaiko7 ай бұрын

    • Just be handsome bro

      @deleted01@deleted017 ай бұрын

    • This channel made me realise being an “introvert” or just avoiding people and claiming to be one is just a lazy excuse for not being a nice sociable person. I’m an introvert and been watching this channel for years and made me realise that I can be an “extrovert” and still retreat to my room at the end of a long day and be alone to recharge … got a way better job that pays x3 times better than I was doing menial office work avoiding people which I had before.

      @ciroelim@ciroelim7 ай бұрын

    • ​@Davi2010jk Most people are carrying a lot of baggage. That's part of life and part of being human.

      @Rise876@Rise8767 ай бұрын

  • The best thing about this channel's advice is the way it emphasizes how being kind and making others feel good cannot be manipulative but genuine. The general message is that to be likeable you actually need to be a good person.

    @reshpeck@reshpeck7 ай бұрын

    • Great comment!

      @ChutneyRomero@ChutneyRomero7 ай бұрын

    • The worst thing about this channel is how it's always the super-celebrities which are used as examples.

      @conforzo@conforzo7 ай бұрын

    • But you need to learn some manipulation tips also for backup 💯

      @sambhavjain8422@sambhavjain84227 ай бұрын

    • @@conforzoif this video was about me doing those things, you wouldn’t have clicked on it

      @skaylingop9673@skaylingop96737 ай бұрын

    • ​@@sambhavjain8422 I ain't gonna manipulate nobody

      @mariamkettani@mariamkettani7 ай бұрын

  • I'm glad you made that caveat: Not everyone you go out of your way for will stay in your life. BUT it shouldn't stop you from continuing to be kind and generous. Don't do favors for people expecting a certain response.

    @hipnhappenin@hipnhappenin7 ай бұрын

    • This should be a common sense. People like their relationships to feel genuine, and that rule aplies to people who tend to be fakers too, so you should not expect that every kindness needs to be out of some favour, because people will notice and noone will actually want to associate. However, it's true that not all the people deserve kindness, but that's where the rule of never chasing after people comes. If you feel you have to force the relationship (romantic and friendly), than give it up, it's dead already.

      @marijajanicijevic8211@marijajanicijevic82117 ай бұрын

    • females always pick the wrong ones and hurt the good ones

      @CorruptDemocratsJ6@CorruptDemocratsJ62 ай бұрын

  • Brad Pitt has always seemed like the nicest dude you could meet.

    @the21stsergeant@the21stsergeant7 ай бұрын

  • Just want to say, I love myself more because of your videos and little things I changed in my behavior. When I am at work, with friends, girlfriend, with just one person or group of people, I am a more approachable and make better connections. Also I feel like I am respected more. It is hard to sum it up in one comment here. I never did any of your paid courses, but just from your free videos here on this channel I changed my life to better.

    @skubi7@skubi77 ай бұрын

    • no, thank you for posting this dude i whole heartedly agree, i realize now i have been watchin their videos since i was in high school. truly they helped me grow into myself and for not a dime off my back

      @thecoffeecurator@thecoffeecurator7 ай бұрын

    • You done deepthroating him?

      @goldiegolderman1842@goldiegolderman18427 ай бұрын

    • @@thecoffeecurator I've had the same experience. I've got a ton of value out of the podcast as well (which is also free)

      @dannymarchiori4289@dannymarchiori42897 ай бұрын

  • Man, I feel so emotionally dumb watching this, lol, but it's like every time I talk I forget there's this whole world outside my head. Sometimes I knock and there's nobody there. This video sets me back in place. Much love!! ^__^

    @armorykittington@armorykittington7 ай бұрын

  • I've watched almost all of the videos released by Charisma on Command, and here's one of the big self-corrections I had to make on my journey of putting these tips into practice: Many of their videos give the guidance to make others feel comfortable around you, by 1) Complimenting 2) Playful teasting I've found that when I watched these videos, I often forgot the 1st and tried to capitalize on the 2nd. Because I've focused so much on how to get a laugh through teasing, I eventually lost what natural skill I had in complimenting others. And it's shown. So to anybody with a similar experience, go back to the first point, and be free in your conpliments to others. Thank you Charisma on Command for the awesome video!

    @matthewjohansson9159@matthewjohansson91597 ай бұрын

  • This channel but this video specifically is so amazing. They really teach you emotional intelligence and act quick with social ques and make yourself memorable in the best way. Being a genuine human being. Just fantastic. I’ve been watching for years now and have made such drastic changes in my life.

    @1936840@19368407 ай бұрын

  • The quiet types don't gossip and that's a plus

    @ebarr9476@ebarr94767 ай бұрын

    • We have nobody to gossip to

      @MeatCatCheesyBlaster@MeatCatCheesyBlaster7 ай бұрын

  • Brads really just a great guy. Period 😂

    @sparklepugtea@sparklepugtea7 ай бұрын

  • I used to do these things naturally. But life happens. I’m really appreciative for these examples and insights. They serve as reminders to be your best self.

    @egb8728@egb87284 ай бұрын

  • thank you for the summary at the end! that really helps. I have today a big group event and feel uncomfortable talking (or just even being there: social anxiety), but I will try some of these tips. 🤞

    @FeliciaSandiego@FeliciaSandiego7 ай бұрын

  • You're videos are amazing. Keep on rockin'!

    @SabrinaConstance@SabrinaConstance7 ай бұрын

  • You’re my favorite channel ever. Thank you for your work. 😍

    @COLOMBIASXE@COLOMBIASXE7 ай бұрын

  • I love your correct placement of Jimmy Fallon when you talk about a forced laugh.

    @moviewryter1985@moviewryter19857 ай бұрын

  • This channel should be at the top of KZhead, amazing content, congrats.

    @danielfdez4140@danielfdez41407 ай бұрын

  • It is spot on that when you say "fake laugh", a clip of Jimmy Phallus briefly appears.

    @marcob5549@marcob55497 ай бұрын

  • Thank you for the re-cap! 😊

    @witch-kx8oe@witch-kx8oe7 ай бұрын

  • We need more of these videos for our fellow introverts

    @adilbek.ermekov@adilbek.ermekov7 ай бұрын

  • love it, thank you

    @yuvaldemayo0@yuvaldemayo07 ай бұрын

  • Love your content ❤️❤️❤️

    @sudeshpanchal1892@sudeshpanchal18927 ай бұрын

  • Your creative skills are awe inspiring❤

    @pandurangacr7863@pandurangacr78637 ай бұрын

  • Wish I had a curated short list of the best content from this channel

    @JohnVandivier@JohnVandivier7 ай бұрын

  • Can you do a video on how to engage other people to ask you questions back? I feel like conversations with people I'm still getting to know never really go anywhere. I'm curious about them, but I'd also like to be shown that same curiosity. Anyone else having this problem?

    @chai_lattes@chai_lattes7 ай бұрын

    • Maybe start off with talking about you first. Like, "I recently started getting into x hobby. Have you heard of x or what is your experience with x?" I don't think you should worry about being self-absorbed. Odds are they don't mind you giving some information about yourself, they're just too clueless to ask

      @hipnhappenin@hipnhappenin7 ай бұрын

    • @@hipnhappenin I've tried that before, but whenever I share something about myself that could be used as a jumping off point to further conversation, the response is so dull. Like they don't really respond one way or another. Not much interest or reaction, definitely no follow up question. So I'm just like...?😂 It's really strange because even if I like the person, the interaction feels a little lopsided and perplexing, and I walk away feeling kind of lonely for a couple days. I do think it's mainly an issue of people not knowing how to, so I'm trying not to think so deeply on it and focus on what does work for me within the friendship.

      @chai_lattes@chai_lattes7 ай бұрын

    • @@chai_lattesThere’s also the possibility that the person you’re trying to talk to has no interest and is just being nice about it. I’ve been on both sides, it’s frustrating

      @c.s2193@c.s21937 ай бұрын

    • This is a tip from one of their other recent videos about Chris Pratt: "Learn having fun with yourself." Then, when you are out or in a conversation, look for ways you could have some fun. This time you are not in the conversation to learn something about someone else or getting yourself noticed. You are simply trying to have some fun for yourself. Side effect: People will find you interesting, but you won't even care anymore ;) If you try it out, please let me know how it went

      @NA-hz6ic@NA-hz6ic7 ай бұрын

    • @@c.s2193 There's a possibility😂 It's definitely an insecurity that comes up for me. 1) The awkwardness and difference in communication style makes me feel lonely, and 2) Do they even like me??? Sometimes the beginnings of friendship can be awkward and clunky. I really appreciate that these friends make an effort to message me and make plans that we actually follow through on. Hopefully, we can break down the wall of awkwardness together.

      @chai_lattes@chai_lattes7 ай бұрын

  • Be extremely attractive

    @MusicAutomation@MusicAutomation7 ай бұрын

  • @3:52 I find watching comedy has taught me to make quips about different situations on the fly and making others around me laugh

    @noblepolygon8694@noblepolygon86947 ай бұрын

  • This channel is awesome. Thanks for the content

    @ChristianSoschner@ChristianSoschner7 ай бұрын

  • Another great video Ben

    @Werdxp@Werdxp7 ай бұрын

  • Do one just in brad Pitt. I know people only see his face but I think they are attracted to his personality over his looks.

    @baneinvestment917@baneinvestment9177 ай бұрын

    • if he only had the face he'd be another high fashion stonefaced model. but theres a reason he was the leading hollywood man in 80s and 90s

      @tobiaseaton200@tobiaseaton2003 ай бұрын

  • Be your best self!

    @TheHumanRanger@TheHumanRanger7 ай бұрын

  • I love how you still have to be an extrovert for this

    @ericswinton8742@ericswinton87427 ай бұрын

  • How to be extremely likable using 7 words.... um, ok. "I have free cocaine for everyone here!"

    @facubeitches1144@facubeitches11447 ай бұрын

  • You should make a video about the tv show 'would I lie to you" It shows really good examples of charismatic and funny people, great story telling, good and poorly executed banter. I would love to know how the hosts of the show are seemingly effortlessly funny and why when other guests sometimes attempt to make a joke it doesnt get received as well.

    @js2sgamer951@js2sgamer9517 ай бұрын

  • I already smile like this while talking, but instead of this confidence it’s that nervous smile

    @itachiuchiwa6875@itachiuchiwa68753 ай бұрын

  • This channel in a nutshell: Be kind.

    @imomuganda@imomuganda7 ай бұрын

  • Smile, always. Move with confidence. Know your worth.

    @abaker4692@abaker46927 ай бұрын

  • nice, simply what i need

    @Fwransen@Fwransen7 ай бұрын

  • Good stuff thank u

    @Ubi22@Ubi224 ай бұрын

  • i was at a party and i tried to strike a conversation with a group of guys i never met and found myself in an awkward situation not adding anything to the conversation. they were busy speaking about somebody I didn't know. how to have a good conversation finding yourself in the situation i hust described?

    @joegreat98@joegreat987 ай бұрын

    • Ask them how they know one another. Wait for the moment you have something in common. That’s you’re in.

      @egb8728@egb87284 ай бұрын

  • You should do a breakdown of Barney about his charisma and charm! (from how I met your mother) It would be a super helpful video

    @rae5954@rae59547 ай бұрын

  • Has anyone done the program? Is it worth it?

    @MarkRayner1998@MarkRayner19987 ай бұрын

  • Gwyneth Poltrow's story about BP is so cool🔥

    @J0yB0mbad1l@J0yB0mbad1l7 ай бұрын

  • A Duchenne smile is not just wrinkles around the eyes, they have to come in at an angle to be a genuine smile

    @ethanbrunt7755@ethanbrunt77553 ай бұрын

  • More for introverts please

    @sarkakulova5071@sarkakulova50717 ай бұрын

  • Summary of the tips is at 8:10.

    @godloveskaren@godloveskaren7 ай бұрын

  • How do I do that Duchenne Smile?

    @PumperPanda95@PumperPanda957 ай бұрын

  • i already do these things thanks to your videos . PHEW that's a relief. I find myself overthinking it sometimes but i realized these tips are just guidelines for your inner self everybody has a unique strength of expression

    @itismeanttobe@itismeanttobe7 ай бұрын

  • I recommend for you guys to make a video on Jon Zherka. Dude is so charismatic, yes he says some crazy stuff but every podcast he's on and every video I've seen him on, he's always the star of the show. I watched both his podcasts with Bradley Martyn, I watched them both, start to finish.

    @nahorletap@nahorletap7 ай бұрын

  • 4:15 I was one of those guys that said "girls don't like nice guys" and it was painful of the idea to think nice guys finish last but the problem is I didn't have insight. If there was a grizzly bear in the group I wouldn't nearly give her the attention as a 10. Just let things happen and be in the flow of the moment and give props to people where you see fit without it becoming nauseating 💁🏽‍♂️

    @kevinsims2876@kevinsims287620 күн бұрын

  • the problem is that most people will mistake your kindness for weakness

    @Black-Hole434@Black-Hole4347 ай бұрын

  • Guys, you're the best

    @andriyzolotov@andriyzolotov7 ай бұрын

  • I'm a hard-spoken introvert.

    @AmerigoGadsden@AmerigoGadsden7 ай бұрын

  • My problem is I am quiet + awkward + insecure + not physically attractive 🙃🙃 I need to be remade completely 😂

    @homiekeen23@homiekeen237 ай бұрын

  • This is my favorite yet coz I have a similar personality

    @pandeni4512@pandeni4512Ай бұрын

  • I do feel that status and looks naturally help though

    @Lyf-3276@Lyf-32767 ай бұрын

  • Was a huge Brad Pitt fan before and now I’m a even bigger fan!

    @BD-or5yh@BD-or5yh7 ай бұрын

  • I would like to see an analysis of Damon Salvatore's charisma from the Vampire Diaries

    @Bekbolot-mw1gb@Bekbolot-mw1gb7 ай бұрын

  • Best video you've made :)

    @josephrosati9921@josephrosati99216 ай бұрын

  • Hi guys, 3rd season of The Morning Show is out now. Please do Cory Elisson!

    @etylenodiamina@etylenodiamina7 ай бұрын

  • The advice in this video is really good but why do i feel like it never works irl for me.

    @jgprice9990@jgprice99907 ай бұрын

  • Your advice is great and all, I've seen many of them, but you use professionally trained actors in so many examples, they are in situations and have natural skill to use these tricks, it's not really transferrable to normal daily life for the rest of us. You should use broadcasters, interviewers, or ted talks or even student demo reels of what works and what doesn't. Anything to make it more realistic for 99.9% of the population.

    @axtonjcranston1064@axtonjcranston10647 ай бұрын

    • Valid point. Actors can make articial appear genuine. Further, actors generally have great upturned symmetrical smiles to go with good looks. Advice may have merit, just more difficult for most to execute.

      @jeffzest8393@jeffzest83937 ай бұрын

    • Fully agree.

      @pawelp9219@pawelp92197 ай бұрын

    • But on the other side, wouldn't you want to learn these skills from the best of the best?? The guys are so good wouldn't you want to observe them??

      @TheSodaShop@TheSodaShop6 ай бұрын

  • Can you make one about aragorn

    @mattnguyen1672@mattnguyen16727 ай бұрын

  • Tip 8: Be a Brad Pitt

    @youtubecommentator5978@youtubecommentator59787 ай бұрын

  • can you make a Channing Tatum charisma video? it would be nice

    @liljoe3378@liljoe33787 ай бұрын

  • I have a problem that people like me on the first day, but get more distant when we continue to meet. Why is that?

    @vonunterberg4313@vonunterberg43137 ай бұрын

  • aww I had no idea brad Pitt had a sweet personality

    @sentientAl@sentientAl7 ай бұрын

  • bradd pitt starring this youtube video too be like 😂

    @itsabdelg@itsabdelg7 ай бұрын

  • I love how the video cuts to Jimmy Fallon laughing as he says you don't have to force the laugh

    @iamapat@iamapat5 ай бұрын

  • Be really good looking if you are quiet is the message.

    @davidfariello3972@davidfariello39727 ай бұрын

  • that random soprano clip 😂

    @captaindusk8097@captaindusk80977 ай бұрын

  • Thank you, now i am good at humaning

    @jackthefrog80085@jackthefrog80085Ай бұрын

  • Please do Tony Soprano

    @TonySoprano007@TonySoprano0077 ай бұрын

  • how do you have relaxed eye contact though I always look intense and angry

    @lamborghinicentenario2497@lamborghinicentenario24977 ай бұрын

    • Lol that’s funny! A Mona Lisa smile helps

      @LollieVox@LollieVox7 ай бұрын

    • Practice your eye contact looking at people on screen

      @ry_an.@ry_an.7 ай бұрын

    • Press your tongue to the roof of your mouth. The rest of your face will relax.

      @colinmoras2385@colinmoras23857 ай бұрын

  • I have a friend who is selectively kind to only one person in our group. You're definitely right that it comes off as manipulative and it makes him sorta insufferable.

    @LeifTunteri-lm6un@LeifTunteri-lm6unАй бұрын

  • Step 1: Be EXTREMELY good looking like Brad Pitt.

    @gudduentertains@gudduentertains7 ай бұрын

  • Him:- "Watch something you know will make you laugh before you go out" me: who sees my brother's face right after he wakes up everyday:

    @NishikaHasiniAsaithambi@NishikaHasiniAsaithambi28 күн бұрын

  • How do any women get over Brad Pitt? The most basic thing about me is that I absolutely love him.

    @thecommonsensecapricorn@thecommonsensecapricorn7 ай бұрын

  • I feel like I am naturally charming. But I still get rude glances and people treat me like I’m nothing. I go to Uni here in Texas and I attended a frat event and literally everytime I was speaking theses people would roll their eyes

    @isaisa967@isaisa9677 ай бұрын

    • So maybe you might not be as "naturally charming" as you think?

      @scientiaorbis@scientiaorbis7 ай бұрын

    • You’re probably just very cringe and socially unaware ngl

      @sancho608@sancho6087 ай бұрын

  • Next video on Michael Scofield from prison break. Pleaseeee Btw nyc video

    @conor2079@conor20797 ай бұрын

  • Does it Mean Brad pitt is an Introvert 😮😮❤❤❤

    @oyeeHunter@oyeeHunter7 ай бұрын

  • Do a video on asap rocky

    @peted2757@peted27577 ай бұрын

  • Hi

    @TheRealHerbaSchmurba@TheRealHerbaSchmurba7 ай бұрын

  • I'm now in my 50s. I've owned my own custom built home, I've been homeless, and everything ib between. I recently didca luttle self reflection on my dreams..what they used to be, and what they are now. I used to dream of being married, the big house on land, 2.5 kids, the shining new car, "white picket fence" life. Now, my dream is to have a safe, sound roof over my head with a comfortable bed, a reliable vehicle,and enough mobey to pay my bills without worry, pay for my medical needs and to keep healthy food in the fridge. I don't NEED designer clothes. I don't NEED flashy jewelry or the newest tech. Would it be nice to be able to travel and see new places? Yes. Would it be fun to be able to purchase something i see just because I want it? Yes. But I don't NEED to have enough money for those kinds of things in order to be at peace, to be happy.

    @MommaOsoIrish67@MommaOsoIrish67Ай бұрын

  • God, I’ve been killing it for 33 years. Not in a good way.😅

    @DMTandSHROOMS@DMTandSHROOMS7 ай бұрын

  • Does anyone know how to prevent the resentment response that people often have later down the line after you help them in a time of need? It's not an uncommon occurrence when people feel an immeasurable dept to someone who helped them for them to turn it into resentment to free them from the cognitive dissoance.

    @TheGreatGYROFLUFF@TheGreatGYROFLUFF4 ай бұрын

  • Man, in addition to being that handsome, Brad Pitt is also charismatic AF.

    @matthewthomas9189@matthewthomas91895 ай бұрын

  • what if your smile scares people asking for a friend

    @EscapeRealityProductions@EscapeRealityProductions3 ай бұрын

  • Conclusion: You cannot get over Brad Pitt both physical appearance and personality.

    @myster54@myster5426 күн бұрын

  • Adam Sandler was starstruck in that interview with Brad

    @dowhatnow3560@dowhatnow35602 ай бұрын

  • Great video! But I personally dispise the pre-scentence laugh, it annoys me a lot when people to it

    @sp-uf6tx@sp-uf6tx5 ай бұрын

  • Amazing

    @United_Wings@United_Wings7 ай бұрын

  • Brad Pitt's apparently face blind. That would impact how he chooses to interact with people.

    @dennismmmm@dennismmmm7 ай бұрын

  • The lifekind. Perchance.

    @cezreycor@cezreycor19 күн бұрын

  • This is why Sean Strickland has the most aesthetic physique in the UFC

    @HJRC_@HJRC_7 ай бұрын

  • Vídeo top

    @miqueiassilvanascimento7331@miqueiassilvanascimento73313 ай бұрын

  • The MOST IMPORTANT thing to do is actually have stories. Do this by experiencing life. Go outside and make a fool of your self. At least you’ll have a good story to tell

    @danimal27@danimal277 ай бұрын

  • I'm not going to have a douchey smile!

    @toweypat@toweypat7 ай бұрын

  • great video but for anyone interested in the gwenyth paltrow bit: " Angelina Jolie says she and ex-husband Brad Pitt 'fought' about him working with Harvey Weinstein. The three-time Golden Globe winner, 46, addressed the alleged abuse she faced during the 1998 Weinstein-produced film Playing by Heart, in which she starred at age 21, noting in an interview with The Guardian's Weekend magazine that she downplayed the encounter at the time. 'If you get yourself out of the room, you think he attempted, but didn't, right? The truth is that the attempt and the experience of the attempt is an assault,' Jolie said, adding: 'It was beyond a pass, it was something I had to escape.'" Sounds like he's not really there for people who need him, he's just a bit possessive.

    @user-nk4zo4do4h@user-nk4zo4do4h6 ай бұрын

  • Being Quite is a blessing, you get 200+ IQ level .you can read peoples minds as they talk, walk, you gather information more than anyone else,

    @motivet7908@motivet7908Ай бұрын

  • Man remember when skipping ads ment skipping both ads😢

    @mamodokod4613@mamodokod46135 ай бұрын
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