Are you a trustworthy person? Ask a Psychopath

2021 ж. 30 Мау.
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We all know someone with psychopathy.
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But few know the truth about it. We’re helping change that… by helping you know the signs. Know about treatment options and resources. And know you’re not alone.
James Fallon is a professor of neuroscience at University of California at Irvine, and the author of the book The Psychopath Inside. He considers himself a "prosocial psychopath."
He joins us today on zoom to discuss what it is like to be psychopathic.

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  • I think he's basically saying he has no "moral compass" but is able to adhere to certain behaviours that he knows are socially representative of trust (eg: punctuality). I know a psychopath who is undiagnosed, if he was I suspect he would not be a borderline case. He is obsessively punctual, and obsessively adheres to certain behaviours that "represent" trustworthiness to others - but clearly the internal moral compass is completely absent

    @lizjane1349@lizjane13499 ай бұрын
    • > moral compass How would you define that?

      @internetcancer1672@internetcancer16723 ай бұрын
    • @@internetcancer1672 an innate sense of morality and an innate desire to follow said morality

      @asdfghyter@asdfghyter3 ай бұрын
    • well said

      @ohmynoche@ohmynoche2 ай бұрын
    • i know someone the same, and reddit is his moral compass...

      @leafster1337@leafster13372 ай бұрын
    • @@leafster1337 Social media.. a blessing and a curse perhaps

      @lizjane1349@lizjane13492 ай бұрын
  • -are you trustworthy? -10 mins later *Always* there and stuff

    @plunderersparadise@plunderersparadise5 ай бұрын
  • This guy is a renowned neuroanatomist with decades of experience, who pals around with psychologists professionally. It always amazes me how many armchair experts pop up beneath his videos and start trying to correct him; "Actually technically I think he means...", "Actually he's not a psychopath because...", "Actually according to the DSM-5..." I feel like whatever you're about to say, he probably already knows.

    @tombackhouse9121@tombackhouse9121 Жыл бұрын
    • People think a little info makes them an expert.

      @holdshiftt2run308@holdshiftt2run308 Жыл бұрын
    • If anything, its just observational. Folks arent ssying im an expert over this guy, theyre just reporting back their view from the info they have had access to. I know what you mean but would take it from a different point of view. Youre mad people are acting like experts wgen theyre just reporting what theyve observed from their experiences, real life, tv, reading etc. it makes sense.

      @mashakalinkina7207@mashakalinkina7207 Жыл бұрын
    • I disagree. While what you're saying is probably technically true (and in practice I would feel the same way), this type of thinking is what leads people to never question "experts" who are fallible just like the rest of us. There is already a person in the comments who talks about the "experts" on COVID without having any idea how most experts feel about COVID and while just accepting anything they were told on the news during COVID. I agree that in practice, you're probably correct, but philosophically, it is generally bad to say that no one can question an expert. Yeah, it will lead to us having to listen to some really dumb opinions, but that's better than the alternative.

      @bradleyboyer9979@bradleyboyer9979 Жыл бұрын
    • I don't think he has anything valuable to say at all, though it was interesting he couldn't even really define what trust is.

      @BDub2024@BDub2024 Жыл бұрын
    • @@BDub2024 What motive does he have for doing the interview? How does this evil scheme benefit him? Is it to collect insults from people on YT like you?

      @squirlmy@squirlmy Жыл бұрын
  • He takes over 4 minutes to evade the question in every possible way all while smiling. "You can Trust me" -Every Psychopath

    @jdm1066@jdm1066 Жыл бұрын
    • Yeah it was 4 minutes of nothing substantial, relying on superficial charm.

      @mikeyerian2562@mikeyerian256211 ай бұрын
    • creepy dude

      @Tedanson@Tedanson7 ай бұрын
    • Just your judgemwnt on that mirror my love 😘 ❤️

      @Beyond-Poker369@Beyond-Poker3695 ай бұрын
  • So in short the answer is no 😂

    @slow_nikto@slow_nikto2 жыл бұрын
  • So basically you can trust him to be on time and be where he says he is and mostly tell the truth. He plays by “the rules” so in a way that most people follow these rules most of the time so does he. What you cant trust is that he wont do anything to cause you harm in a situation where it would be a grey area in the rules or he will gain something he wants because he doesnt have the ability to consider your feelings. Sounds like most people honestly.

    @MimiMadness94@MimiMadness942 жыл бұрын
    • This is an actual scientist Md in brain, he has psychopath traits and is married. His name is Jim Fallon look him up before judging someone because of what you see or don’t know. If it wasn’t for psychopaths there wouldn’t be smart people out there doing great things for other humans not killing.

      @QuiK075@QuiK0752 жыл бұрын
    • He's never had a close relationship with someone, so him being trustworthy doesn't apply in this context for him. But, in terms of like what he is describing like being on time to work or an appointment, then yes, he is trustworthy. But, telling your inner darkest secrets to him and then expecting him to be trusted with them, then no. Because a psychopath will think of ways to exploit weakness. Even if they don't act on that thought, it's still there.

      @professionalcommenter@professionalcommenter Жыл бұрын
    • Yeah pretty much everyone. Except this guy is being honest about everything instead of just doing and saying what you’re “supposed to”

      @spicyjoeflaminfajitas@spicyjoeflaminfajitas Жыл бұрын
    • The difference is most neurotypicals will consider whether the gain is worth causing the harm. They will stop and think about it, and you will be surprised to find that people will reject gains if it causes significant harm to someone else. Aka we rationalise it based on current and future emotions and empathy. The psychopath won't blink before they decide to accept the gain, irrespective of the person who will be harmed. They will be more likely to think 'will I receive negative consequences FOR MYSELF that outweigh the gain?' e.g. go to jail for something not worth it. Definitely lacking in empathy and definitely not the same as NT's.

      @qbb01@qbb01 Жыл бұрын
    • @@qbb01 woah, kinda weird for you to imply people who aren't neurotypical don't have empathy. A lot of autistic people and people with ADHD are the most empathetic people on earth, what is your idea of neurodivergent?

      @isaiahromero9861@isaiahromero9861 Жыл бұрын
  • I appreciate him explaining the gray area and concepts of it. You really would have to dictate what you feel is trustworthy; is it just being reliable and competent, is it being able to tell someone something in confidence, or is it feeling like you can believe the info you're given without feeling like it's a lie and your being tricked. Many of these things can be opinion based and a relatively healthy adult can decipher them, a child not so much. And trust is a spectrum. We all to various degrees are trustworthy and I love how he points it out and explains it.

    @farmer4785@farmer47852 жыл бұрын
  • He reeeally danced around that one. The answer is no.

    @mishi144@mishi1442 жыл бұрын
    • It's a spectrum was his point. He can be trustworthy in a reliable sense and his family can go to him.

      @farmer4785@farmer47852 жыл бұрын
    • He's a scientist. Absolutes are not a thing in science.

      @ChrisCanoeshoe@ChrisCanoeshoe Жыл бұрын
    • He broke the question down in the different aspects of what trustworthy could mean so it was thorough

      @brycat8033@brycat8033 Жыл бұрын
    • I am 79% psychopathic acording to a test online.. But I feel remorse for animals and humans, specially if I think that I would hurt them, I could not be able to do so with out any cause

      @luftim@luftim Жыл бұрын
    • He doesn't know what trust is. Reliability is as close to a feeling as he understands

      @greatvid4648@greatvid4648 Жыл бұрын
  • 3:30 - There are no 'tells' because they don't feel guilt or remorse about anything. This makes psychopaths so believable!

    @invisiblemissx@invisiblemissx2 жыл бұрын
    • Or anxious

      @ravenID429@ravenID4294 ай бұрын
    • ​@@ravenID429 what is your source? psychopaths are in fact anxious, it has been observed clinically since 1999 and reconciled beyond 2020. i'd like to see where you've heard or read that.

      @3valen9@3valen93 ай бұрын
  • A person who is trustworthy will not take 5 minutes to answer a simple question.

    @theinterfaithshepherd9075@theinterfaithshepherd9075 Жыл бұрын
    • RIGHT 😂 I mean dude breaking them stuff and over analyzing a simple question, a bit annoying

      @FadingAway10@FadingAway1011 ай бұрын
    • It's worse. A trustworthy person might, if they're very into the subject, take a long time to define it. They're explaining something complex, and that can take time. If it has occupied a lot of their time, but they would eventually come to some sort of conclusion or answered your question with brevity, instead of what he does. What he's doing is dilute the definition of words. Normal people will do that a little bit, but not to the point of every thing being carefully scripted to "I'm a good guy actually :D He he (laughs and smiles for no reason)" He even makes you the fault for falling for his manipulation. "You're the reason you can't trust me." More red flags than a communist parade.

      @willek1335@willek13355 ай бұрын
    • To be fair, this is some kind of “educational” interview where he’s supposed to explain his POV.,

      @HardTimeBluesCafe@HardTimeBluesCafe2 ай бұрын
  • Would be cool to interview his family

    @jazmin6031@jazmin6031 Жыл бұрын
    • He did it already, I think you can find it in here (yt)

      @caziis13@caziis13 Жыл бұрын
    • ​@@caziis13where?

      @sirkermitthefirstoffrogeth9622@sirkermitthefirstoffrogeth962210 ай бұрын
  • He has no idea what trust actually means ...

    @melodiefrances3898@melodiefrances38982 жыл бұрын
    • That’s exactly what I thought!!

      @fofo_9860@fofo_9860 Жыл бұрын
  • Okay, this answer overwhelmingly confirmed that he is not trustworthy, lol. Which isn't to say that he is dangerous. But most definitely dishonest and manipulative. I find this interesting to think about. Trust in the context of relationships is about honesty and respecting boundaries. If you're manipulative, you aren't these things and people can sense this.

    @Mad_Madalyn@Mad_Madalyn2 жыл бұрын
    • You got the words in my mind. Lol. He has a lot of nonsense wordings just to hide that he isn't trustworthy.

      @whitepouch0904@whitepouch09042 жыл бұрын
    • I legitimately don't understand why his answer seems untrustworthy to you. What specifically made you feel that way? I felt he was being honest & not pretending to be what society tells you people should be.

      @ericguerra4792@ericguerra47922 жыл бұрын
    • He's not dancing around the answer, he feels it's a spectrum meaning he can be trustworthy depending on what the context is.

      @farmer4785@farmer47852 жыл бұрын
    • @@ericguerra4792 but didn’t you just say that you think you’re a psychopath on another video? So of course you see yourself as trustworthy, you don’t see through the lens that most do and no offence to you but you’re probably a little bit in denial about your manipulative tactics IF you really are a psychopath. Psychopaths ARE manipulative, it’s a hallmark trait of psychopaths. You CANNOT be a trustworthy person and be manipulative. That’s an oxymoron within itself.

      @_kikizaman_@_kikizaman_2 жыл бұрын
    • @Wyqid then ur not trustworthy, newsflash.

      @_kikizaman_@_kikizaman_2 жыл бұрын
  • “I don’t know what trust is.” ...proceeds to back that up to-a-T. He thinks trust is having ppl rely on your punctuality.

    @michaelfleming8490@michaelfleming84902 жыл бұрын
    • Lmao, that's what I was thinking.

      @ravenswood118@ravenswood118 Жыл бұрын
    • I thought it was sooo strange when he started talking about punctuality, either he doesn't wanna say No outright or cant even comprehend what trust means

      @ekay4495@ekay44957 ай бұрын
  • I'm pretty upfront, don't trust me, and im only dealing with you because you are useful. Hopefully you benefit, because i will.

    @christopherhorn1161@christopherhorn1161 Жыл бұрын
    • Wow

      @kriskaymusic2@kriskaymusic2 Жыл бұрын
    • I'm not a psychopath nor a sociopath and I have this same idea , this is the truth , even if u don't know about it u still use others for ur benefit ,it's in our blood you even make friends to not feel lonely , you adopt a pet to support you emotionally , your good to your co-workers/classmates to make a good reputation and good allies ,you help strangers down the street cuz u think it's a "good deed" that helps u get to heaven , you even get children and support them to pay you back when they grow up and get a job , or at least, to get compliments from strangers for being the parent of a successful child etc.... We all do this by nature , we pay back kindness with kindness cuz we wanna keep our allies by our side like an army to use later

      @luna-mt7sf@luna-mt7sf10 ай бұрын
    • At least your honest, just don't harm others, as I'm sure you wouldnt like to be harmed either

      @ekay4495@ekay44957 ай бұрын
    • I don't think most people view everything in life as a transaction, I can help someone cause I can PUT MYSELF IN THEIR SITUATION (EMPATHY), a trait Psychopaths simply lack@@luna-mt7sf

      @ekay4495@ekay44957 ай бұрын
  • "Every teacher is a conman" says it all regarding the justification of his actions.

    @oliviamartini9700@oliviamartini97002 жыл бұрын
    • @@brownincel6018college grads DO get good jobs. Everyone I know w a degree has a good job. What’s your definition of a “con artist”. A teacher isn’t the definition of a con artist.

      @wolfie1027@wolfie1027 Жыл бұрын
    • i don't think you were listening to what he was saying lol. he was saying there's a positive and a negative way to frame everything: i.e. you could make "convincing" a negative thing by describing anyone who's convincing as a "conman". i.e. "every teacher is a conman/convincing"

      @jakeb.6487@jakeb.648710 ай бұрын
  • Skillfully avoids answering the question. Tries to re-define "trust". Trust and reliability are not the same. To the the question, are you trustworthy, the way in which he answers, to me, indicates, no. He is not trustworthy or accountable. He can't even be trusted to answer a simple question truthfully. He couldn't even lie in the standard fashion and say "yes, I am trustworthy".

    @ryanmaxwelll2730@ryanmaxwelll27309 ай бұрын
  • Short answer: NO, Don't be fooled by his charming long talking and avoidance of responding, the sweet background music and his gaslighting on what the question really was.

    @JuanPabloBerthoud@JuanPabloBerthoud Жыл бұрын
    • Oh but after reading the comments sadly I see they’re getting fooled good 😂😂

      @kriskaymusic2@kriskaymusic2 Жыл бұрын
    • I was like “where is the gaslighting?” But nope, found it1:52 I’m sure there is more but yep, deflecting responsibility and stuff it’s pretty funny

      @nelsontorres7460@nelsontorres7460 Жыл бұрын
    • He's a self-admitted psychopath so what the heck are you going to expect? of course there will be some gaslighting. Duh!

      @QWERTYUIOP-wu6ht@QWERTYUIOP-wu6ht8 ай бұрын
  • Pyscopaths will always be manipulative and dishonest. They pick their words VERY carefully… don’t be duped. Respond with it’s a YES or NO answer. I could never have these kinds of people in my personal life pThey give me the creeps.

    @K1LLmatic@K1LLmatic11 ай бұрын
  • Now the creepy clown portrait at the lower left of the screen in his room kinda makes more sense...

    @tad5920@tad59202 жыл бұрын
    • @TA D, I had to go back and look. Interesting, but creepy as you say.

      @thisorthat7626@thisorthat7626 Жыл бұрын
  • You can beat around the bush as much as you want. The answer is still no.

    @LazyBastard69@LazyBastard692 жыл бұрын
    • Think of it like a spectrum. Then it might be yes within certain contexts.

      @farmer4785@farmer47852 жыл бұрын
    • Exactly

      @Mo.1988@Mo.1988 Жыл бұрын
  • A lot of these comments are truly negative and unhelpful. Imagine you get a window into a mysterious, taboo side of humanity and you go “Na naaa!”. Just appreciate the opportunity and stop trying to be “cool”.

    @DuckiesDad08@DuckiesDad082 жыл бұрын
    • You've been manipulated. Good luck. 😉

      @nikkasatoru7102@nikkasatoru71022 жыл бұрын
    • I agree John!

      @farmer4785@farmer47852 жыл бұрын
    • @@nikkasatoru7102 You're proving John's point...

      @farmer4785@farmer47852 жыл бұрын
    • Unhelpful to who? What are you even talking about?

      @cmdjk1@cmdjk12 жыл бұрын
    • Generally if someone sees a cute puppy and the title is cute puppy, they will say that is cute. If an untrustworthy psycho talks in an un trustworthy way, they say the guy is an untrustworthy psycho. It's not about popular consensus or being cool or even being negative. It's about calling the sky blue.

      @kayhaich@kayhaich17 күн бұрын
  • This is fascinating to listen to. I dont feel it, but i think i get the logic.

    @venepskeuten9206@venepskeuten92063 ай бұрын
  • There is professional trustworthiness, and social trustworthiness. I have known several people who whose 'tell' is compulsive lying. Young men who would consistently lie about where they were, what a person said, what they did; even if it was obvious it was not true, or even to their advantage to lie. And then make a joke about it, convince friends he would not lie to THEM, just people we don't know. Always has a story ready, telling about his wild adventures. Then items start disappearing, and after a frantic search, that item is found in a place you thought you looked three times. Things suddenly break, and this guy would offer to help. Someone who poses as a friend, and then secretly screw with you for no apparent reason. But my point is, if someone has this lying trait, there is no doubt he is a psychopath, and to be avoided. It'll save you loads of grief.

    @zodlovesyou7146@zodlovesyou71467 ай бұрын
  • As a psychopath he’s way nicer than my ex with NPD. He’s pure vengeful evil.

    @ESumner@ESumner Жыл бұрын
    • psychopaths are more calm than narcissists .

      @dylanpenaflor@dylanpenaflor7 ай бұрын
    • @@dylanpenaflor what about sociopaths… mine seems more like ASPD at times too with his constant claim that he had no choice but to abuse, what was he SUPPOSED to do… and I know he really means it! He only ever has 1 solution, and it’s never the functional non demonic choice lol it’s always the vengeance related one.

      @ESumner@ESumner7 ай бұрын
    • @@ESumnerThey can overlap

      @ravenID429@ravenID4294 ай бұрын
  • Trust is the belief that the other person will follow through with what they promised even when it is somewhat against their own interest. No one does it forever obviously but trustworthy people know keeping their word allows others to risk more with them in the future because they have proven to do what they say. It's like the financial idea of credit worthiness. Banks are willing to risk more money to you if you have proven to pay it back in the past. So trustworthy people can build larger long term teams of friends.

    @yougeo@yougeo2 жыл бұрын
    • To me, that speaks more to reliability. Trust is a bit deeper and more emotional. You may not think your partner will be punctual, but when you sleep with your partner you trust that they aren't going to give you HIV.

      @TomikaKelly@TomikaKelly Жыл бұрын
  • I feel relatable to this man. One time in my life, I watched a friend of mine and understood through his behavior that responses get you other responses, and I like good responses from other people, so I started doing that, acting expressive. I was pretty good at reading the other's emotions and knew how to respond to them so that it matched the emotion that I was percieving in them. Because of that, I completely discarded the notion that I could be a psychopath... that is until I found out that psychopaths can have cognitive empathy. At this point, I am really wondering if I care about something, or just feel it because I expect myself to. When I kill a fly, I feel remorseful, but that is such an extreme that I wonder "Do I really feel it or am I just setting myself to think I feel remorse?" Sometimes I have to think to be sad in a situation where I should be sad. I've learnt to manipulate people into being happy just cause I like them to be. People are much better when they are in a good mood. I probably don't have psycopathy, but some symptoms just hit too close to home, so I'm trying to figure out myself what I truly am. I wrote this cause if anyone has this figured out and maybe had the same experience as me, be sure to tell me, would appreciate greately

    @blulikefriendlyhit1213@blulikefriendlyhit12133 ай бұрын
    • I feel the same way. It's like emotion start as a concept in my head then transfers to my body. More often than not it feels a different brand of anxiety.

      @Callum701@Callum7012 ай бұрын
    • @@Callum701 Wouldn't have described it better, it starts in the head and then goes down to my heart

      @blulikefriendlyhit1213@blulikefriendlyhit12132 ай бұрын
    • @@Callum701 I'm probably just autistic 😂

      @blulikefriendlyhit1213@blulikefriendlyhit12132 ай бұрын
  • "technically, when you dont belive me you're borderline" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I could listen to this the entire life

    @plunderersparadise@plunderersparadise5 ай бұрын
  • If someone asked me if I'm a trustworthy person I'd say yes, not give some roundabout answer about what does that really mean. I trust this guy about as far as i can throw him and that ain't far!

    @Tedanson@Tedanson7 ай бұрын
    • Do people actually trust you though? Like, who puts their trust in you? Anyone?

      @YouAreNotCute@YouAreNotCute4 ай бұрын
    • @@YouAreNotCute yes, friends, family, that shouldn't be hard for you to believe, unless you're projecting because people don't trust you.

      @Tedanson@Tedanson4 ай бұрын
    • ​@@Tedanson When someone pops up and declares themselves trustworthy, it is not trustworthy behavior. When someone openly volunteers the areas in which they may not be perfect, that is pretty fucking trustworthy. Hope that helps you understand how a logical human being views people like you.

      @YouAreNotCute@YouAreNotCute4 ай бұрын
    • @@YouAreNotCute Are you a trustworthy person is literally the title of the video, that's what we are discussing here. I can give a straight answer because I am not a psychopath so it's a simple yes. If this were a video about kittens and I was randomly bringing it up then it would be different.

      @Tedanson@Tedanson4 ай бұрын
    • @@Tedanson Alritey. You have wowed me with your tremendous intellect. Now I trust you. Jk.

      @YouAreNotCute@YouAreNotCute3 ай бұрын
  • “Every teacher is a con-man...” These individuals can rattle on and on and on about delusional nonsense. If you think that because a teacher‘s job involves needing to convince students of certain things as part of the educational process makes them a “con-person,” you really are nuts.

    @michaelfleming8490@michaelfleming84902 жыл бұрын
    • His point was a child trusts the information their teachers give them. A teacher can manipulate that and teach strong opinions instead of facts and ignore healthy concepts like research. That can mess with a child's way of thinking and even so called "brain wash" them if you will. He's not nuts he's simply explaining the spectrum of trust to state he can be in some contexts but struggles with others.

      @farmer4785@farmer47852 жыл бұрын
    • Hes just explaining the complexities, trust isnt as black and white as people make it seem

      @manueldeltoro9944@manueldeltoro9944 Жыл бұрын
    • Exactly he doesn’t directly answer questions

      @Mo.1988@Mo.1988 Жыл бұрын
    • @@farmer4785 Yeah, that's not the same thing as a con man.

      @ravenswood118@ravenswood118 Жыл бұрын
    • THANK YOUUU! Nothing but gaslighting , deflecting , lack of accountability and word salad the whole video finally someone with a brain 😂

      @kriskaymusic2@kriskaymusic2 Жыл бұрын
  • Interviewer: Are you a trustworthy person? Psychopath: .....Yes, I'm very trustworthy....trust me on that.

    @MishTheMash@MishTheMash Жыл бұрын
  • Fascinating

    @honeywest3460@honeywest34605 ай бұрын
  • The fact that he equated trustworthiness to being on time should tell you everything 😅

    @debee1471@debee14713 ай бұрын
  • I think if you are a psychopath or a sociopath you need to have understanding of ethics or morals to follow, otherwise you just be really bad and evil and not have remorse .

    @Summer-ju4pj@Summer-ju4pj Жыл бұрын
  • He says it...it's a game to him.

    @goldenbubble1803@goldenbubble18032 жыл бұрын
  • I find the background music incredibly distracting. I think the work/channel here is really interesting and educational but any background music really takes away from it(imo).

    @naznow@naznow Жыл бұрын
  • This man is a well renowned scientist. He was the one that found there was a significant difference between a normal Human brain and a psychopathic brain . He found the difference is in the anterior lobe or lack of it. He discovered , breaking protocol, his brain was the most psychopathic brain in the study in regards to the anterior lobe difference. He also found out Liz’s Bourdin was a relative of his. The are mental predators but there, obviously, on a large spectrum. I chose not to be in the presence of a psychopath. I know better then that. They charm and can influence you in ways you aren’t even aware of till your world is over.

    @mmmfun77@mmmfun77 Жыл бұрын
  • He's right, he is scientist, so he cannot simply forget rules to operate in the world, i think everyone must keep the mind open and see the things logicaly, not assuming he is always lying

    @leilo41@leilo419 ай бұрын
  • Are you trustworthy? "I don't know what trust means" 😂 that is exactly the kind of thing I say when someone asks if I'm their girlfriend after we sleep together. "What do you mean by girlfriend? I mean what does that even mean these days?" Lol and I know that the answer is just no.

    @S2375wattage@S2375wattage10 ай бұрын
    • Maybe you should consider charging money, that way things are clear hahaha

      @nickcarroll8565@nickcarroll85654 ай бұрын
    • His response is a very typical response for a psychopath to give when asked a question. It is one of the reasons why psychopaths are more likely to pursue positions of political and corporate leadership. Here in England, our corporate and political establishment is certainly disproportionately occupied by these sorts of individuals. If you want, you can read about the post office scandal that has more recently come to light over here. It really sheds light on how people like this thrive for so long in the absence of suspicion.

      @billyparker1803@billyparker18034 ай бұрын
    • @@nickcarroll8565 Exactly!

      @user-xk3ip6wd1z@user-xk3ip6wd1z3 ай бұрын
  • So from what i gather. Not in the way that we consider it "trust" as he serves his own interests only, but he does adhere to the principles closely related to what we deem a part of trust. So not "trustworthy", but "reliable". Its interesting. Clearly i cannot judge this person as i would a human without his condition. So i must judge according to the rules of his condition, which to me means in a mostly logical manner not considering my emotional input.

    @venepskeuten9206@venepskeuten92063 ай бұрын
  • "I'm not sure what trust means". So in other words, no he is NOT trustworthy.

    @marshalmcdonald7476@marshalmcdonald74764 ай бұрын
  • "A preteen would have" as if every preteen etc 😂

    @anamuraro@anamuraro7 ай бұрын
  • I actually think that I'm like that. Pro social, or whatever he called it. I have OCD as well.

    @rulebreaker_xoii@rulebreaker_xoii Жыл бұрын
  • The telephone hold music in the background is the tell that a psychopath made this video.

    @LILINTERNET@LILINTERNET3 ай бұрын
  • Got it the answer is no 😂

    @asmaeelife@asmaeelife Жыл бұрын
  • I would trust him if I was his business partner, I would never trust him otherwise. His idea of being trustworthy is to "Follow common sense" however, the one major issue with this is that common sense cannot cover everything. If he is blind to nuance and incapable of responding appropriately to unique situations that don't follow common sense, he will rely on his innate pyschopathy to handle everything, meaning he will resort to lying, cheating, manipulating, gaslighting, or sublty threatening to handle the situation.

    @sameermunshi1615@sameermunshi1615Ай бұрын
  • Thank you so much for sharing

    @joudisall6474@joudisall6474 Жыл бұрын
  • I mean tbh we shouldn't be surprised, he sounds and talk and dodges like a psychopath would, because HE IS ONE

    @ekay4495@ekay44957 ай бұрын
  • I wonder if it’s something “mental” that would cause a person to be a psychopath or if it’s more “spiritual” ?

    @FadingAway10@FadingAway1011 ай бұрын
  • The puppy photos in the back are very disarming. It's all part of his sinister plan!!

    @chigoguego@chigoguego2 жыл бұрын
    • LOL

      @marcoespinosamx@marcoespinosamx2 жыл бұрын
    • This is an actual scientist Md in brain, he has psychopath traits and is married. His name is Jim Fallon look him up before judging someone because of what you see. If it wasn’t for psychopaths there wouldn’t be smart people out there doing great things not killing.

      @QuiK075@QuiK0752 жыл бұрын
    • Hahaha. I'm sorry I had to laugh just cuz he was trying to convince he is a trustworthy person and then your comment lol. Imagine if he read this.

      @whitepouch0904@whitepouch09042 жыл бұрын
    • The clown portrait on the left behind him...

      @Nanou200183@Nanou200183 Жыл бұрын
  • So, no. But he's actually right about what trust is. The complete, deep emotional unwillingness to cause willful harm to others is rare and people cause harm to each other all the time, it's just that after they realize it, or have others point it out, they make a bunch of excuses for it until they run out of rationalizations, then they feel guilt. This guy just doesn't. It's causing harm without justification that people have a problem with. Blame and justification are games to this guy. Sounds bad, but having your treatment of others predicated on a game, which is largely cultural, isn't much better. Evolution just has us taking those games really seriously when we're invested in them. This is why competitive sports get us so wrapped up, why having good guys and bad guys is important to the stories we read or watch, and why we see relationships as non-disposable despite them coming and going in our lives all the time. It's not a generalized principle, it's about who we get invested with. This guy is not invested in anyone. He's a consumer of relationships.

    @ideologybot4592@ideologybot45922 жыл бұрын
  • I have respect for this man, I know a psychopath like him but he would never admit he is one. He has displayed some traits but very hard to spot for those who don't know that psychopaths can be very normal looking people, but the red flags small and big are all there. His needing of sympathy and validation from his followers is a big huge flashing red flag.

    @sj1684@sj1684 Жыл бұрын
    • @@heavyhead2k139 "not an expert but that sounds more like a narcissist" well, you're not an expert so the rest of your point is invalid

      @QWERTYUIOP-wu6ht@QWERTYUIOP-wu6ht8 ай бұрын
  • Title: ask a psychopath Him: technically its BPD

    @michi3375@michi33759 ай бұрын
  • Yeah the moral and ethics thing has been really confusing me lately like I ask what’s wrong w murder, genuinely asking, and no one will answer me So yeah honestly so confusing

    @girlypopgay@girlypopgay11 ай бұрын
    • I think it means you may be a psychopath, that's why your having a hard time comprehending. I wouldn't want to killed, I wouldn't want people close to me to be killed, therefor I shouldn't kill others for the same reasons. Psychopaths lack empathy so to put themselves in other peoples shoes, so they don't see a problem is someone else goes away, others are just a thing, no emotion attached to it.

      @ekay4495@ekay44957 ай бұрын
  • If anyone watching this considers themselves entirely trustworthy, or that any such person actually exists, then they are the delusional one. This guy takes the question seriously, and it's complex. I have friends who consider my entirely trustworthy, and with good reason. I also have known people who would warn you never to trust me.

    @Stewkeithmtb@Stewkeithmtb2 жыл бұрын
    • Enough with the semantics 🙄

      @Mo.1988@Mo.1988 Жыл бұрын
    • You are fooled quite easily.

      @MacLaw3084@MacLaw30847 ай бұрын
    • @@MacLaw3084 yes absolutely. I'm a human being, we are all easy to fool.

      @Stewkeithmtb@Stewkeithmtb7 ай бұрын
    • @@Stewkeithmtb I don’t remember making this comment to you, so please accept my apology.

      @MacLaw3084@MacLaw30845 ай бұрын
    • @@MacLaw3084 of course. No apology necessary 👍

      @Stewkeithmtb@Stewkeithmtb5 ай бұрын
  • This question is very vague. Can you trust him in terms of what? If you ask a psychopath this question, how do you know you're even getting the honest answer? How do you know they're not doing that thing where they try to tweak the answer into something they think you want to hear? Even non-psychopaths do this.

    @inhabitantofearth@inhabitantofearth Жыл бұрын
  • I can’t stop looking at the picture of the scary clown at the bottom left.

    @michaeliancohen@michaeliancohen3 ай бұрын
  • I personally haven't witnessed anyone who is a self admitted narcissist or psychopath! But what do I know!

    @ozzyoz5210@ozzyoz521011 ай бұрын
  • Psychopathd are fascinating! I hope I never ever meet or deal with any of them 🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻 Amen

    @AlaaChan@AlaaChan2 ай бұрын
  • I think I would trust him to be on time and get things done. I would not trust him to get it done in a good way. I would always feel like I needed to check his path.

    @goodtoGoNow1956@goodtoGoNow19564 ай бұрын
  • Bro you will expose all of us lol..

    @Zuentax@Zuentax Жыл бұрын
  • I assume U can trust him when its abiut othwr things if it doesnt go against his self interest and the relationship matters enough for what ever reason

    @manueldeltoro9944@manueldeltoro9944 Жыл бұрын
  • I understand why he dances around the question, he doesn't want his life (perhaps his family's life too) to be negatively impacted. How can you give an answer different than the one socially expected and not suffer negative consequences ? While we play all sorts of games, and do all sorts of manipulation unconsciously, he has to do it consciously, remain within a range of acceptability, and still be "palatable" enough for people around him. That's just my 2 cents anyway, but how do you account for that lol ?

    @josephmbimbi@josephmbimbi27 күн бұрын
  • I don't know this guy or what he truly stands for, but it seems clear after listening to him for only a short time that he fancies himself as a non-conformist and revels in is perceived self-image of uniqueness. The word psychopath carries with it a dangerous connotation and needs to be taken seriously but just by hearing what he has to say, I think I would be bored to the point that I would move on prior to finding anything more about him or his motives.

    @jimarlt8629@jimarlt862919 сағат бұрын
  • So.. no.

    @Fliedermutter@Fliedermutter2 жыл бұрын
  • the many rhetorical 'Right?' questions were Grating on me.....!

    @starcrystal5551@starcrystal55512 жыл бұрын
  • Anybody see It in the left corner next to the bookcase? Comforting…

    @briansharp7872@briansharp78726 ай бұрын
  • Hmmm… distraction, distancing and then deflecting. 2 minutes in and I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t trust this guy with anything, however likeable he seems.

    @MattSofianosGuitar@MattSofianosGuitar Жыл бұрын
  • How do psychopaths feel about cheating on their long term partners? Cognitively they know it’s against societal rules, but how do they feel about cheating and the devastating effect it has on their partners?

    @cupcake0480@cupcake04802 ай бұрын
  • "Ask a borderline psychopath "

    @JohnDoe-ig8nd@JohnDoe-ig8nd2 жыл бұрын
  • I wish he would be a little more specific as to the behaviors pointing toward this diagnosis.

    @RonD108@RonD1082 жыл бұрын
  • Just being in a video like this with this title is untrustworthy

    @kayhaich@kayhaich17 күн бұрын
  • So, he considered himself reliable and not like those borderline 😂

    @Lyrielonwind@Lyrielonwind2 жыл бұрын
  • He just died. RIP bud

    @JimS870@JimS8704 ай бұрын
  • I did not hear him answer the question. I heard him answer the question he wanted to answer. I am not sure he understands what trust is. Trust is, can I trust you with my small child, my cash, to not lie to or mislead me for your own benefit. I don't expect to trust the car salesman.

    @budte@budte10 ай бұрын
  • Sound like no but he doesn't want to admit it.

    @josephzicaro9913@josephzicaro9913 Жыл бұрын
    • That would make him lose face in others eyes, so he has to manipulate the situation/idea in his favour. He's a psychopath, not that any one of us wants to boldly claim a negative trait

      @ekay4495@ekay44957 ай бұрын
  • I like this guy, very interesting. But I found myself wanting him to give actual examples from his life, his actions and responses.

    @KpxUrz5745@KpxUrz57452 ай бұрын
    • He passed last year

      @message2612@message26122 ай бұрын
  • Everything is an exchange

    @ccm8817@ccm8817 Жыл бұрын
  • He seems more like OCD and OCPD. Once a person says their a sub clinical psychopath people will find negative things.

    @birdlover6842@birdlover68426 ай бұрын
  • All he’s doing is reframing, which is a common manipulative tactic

    @Twinnzllc@Twinnzllc11 ай бұрын
  • He does something very common ... going around to dissipate the question. He is in the low spectum for sure 🤍

    @ceciliajunqueira600@ceciliajunqueira600 Жыл бұрын
  • They’re not so smart as they think they are if they can’t fathom what compassion is

    @wolfie1027@wolfie1027 Жыл бұрын
  • So, basically...no. 🙄

    @TomikaKelly@TomikaKelly Жыл бұрын
  • The music. Make it stop. Please. Really detracts from what would otherwise be an excellent video.

    @EFTTappingwithHeatherAmbler@EFTTappingwithHeatherAmbler Жыл бұрын
  • hmmmm I considered psychopathy as well, but apparantly I am autistic. Ever tried to compare your "shortcomings" with the autism checklist?

    @lakkakka@lakkakka8 ай бұрын
  • A lot of armchair psychologists in the comment section would really benefit from taking an ethics and morals class so they can differentiate between the two.

    @false_fruits2999@false_fruits29995 ай бұрын
    • No one needs to apologize to you for stating an opinion, and I trust all have dealt with both concepts just by having lived, so no need for the class.

      @jimarlt8629@jimarlt862916 сағат бұрын
  • The answer is NO.

    @gilbertgrejp@gilbertgrejp Жыл бұрын
  • Sure u can be trusted to be there until it comes to you or them.....then its you

    @treefrog123a@treefrog123a4 ай бұрын
  • The videos/interviews are very interesting but why the meaningless 90s sales music? 😂

    @philip_hofmaenner47@philip_hofmaenner473 ай бұрын
  • I'd like to hear more about the bad things he actually did. This is just an old guy waffling about his thoughts on lie in general.

    @thejerk5656@thejerk56564 ай бұрын
  • Okay so he says he does things playfully but doesn't mention exactly what he does also it might be a game for him but it's not a game for others

    @matthewpitre8159@matthewpitre81596 ай бұрын
  • I could have reeeeaaallly done without the background music

    @alexandramurphy7318@alexandramurphy73185 ай бұрын
  • Trust is about knowing what a person cares about, if a psychopath fundamentally does not care, then they cannot be trusted.

    @Xerrash@Xerrash4 ай бұрын
  • Nice pilpul, JEW.

    @benis3551@benis35514 ай бұрын
  • Interesting fact. Dr Fallon is a descendant of Lizzy Borden.

    @richard4991@richard499113 күн бұрын
  • The scary clown portrait on the wall to the left of the screen just over his shoulder really says it all . . .

    @lis6411@lis6411 Жыл бұрын
  • This dude has no idea what trust is😂

    @fiendant@fiendant Жыл бұрын
  • Why would you hang out with a robot that has wants but no remorse? And it sometimes wants Walmarts right behind you or what you have….or will just be shitty for fun 😂

    @TheBiggestMoronYouKnow@TheBiggestMoronYouKnow Жыл бұрын
    • Walmarts??!?!?!?

      @squirlmy@squirlmy Жыл бұрын
  • What?

    @evelynbarry5046@evelynbarry5046 Жыл бұрын
  • You just can't expect an honest answer from a psychopath.

    @Rover101@Rover101 Жыл бұрын
    • if he wasnt honest to some degree he would never say he is a psychopath in the first place. The fact that he is so upfront on how he views things tells u that he is capable of speaking the truth.

      @dante19890@dante19890 Жыл бұрын
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