Raquel and Selena Gomez Fought || My Mind and Me
2022 ж. 21 Қар.
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After years in the limelight, Selena Gomez unimaginable stardom. But just as she reaches a new peak, an unexpected turn pulls her into darkness. This uniquely raw and intimate documentary spans her six-year journey into a new light.
Released: 2022-11-04
Genre: Music, Documentary
Casts: Raquelle Stevens, Selena Gomez,
Duration: 95 min
Country: United States of America
Production: Lighthouse Management + Media, Interscope Films
I commend Selena for leaving this in the documentary. I think she was trying to show ppl that she’s not perfect. She was honest when she said she says terrible things to her parents that she wish she could take back. I also commend her friend Raquel for calling Selena out and not being a “yes woman”. It takes courage to be able to talk to your loved ones like this.
Usually it’s the directors decision to leave stuff in or out
You need to watch whole documentary if you want to judge. Because this conversation started with Selena’s complain, we don’t have it here in the video, but in the film it was there. And Raquel was right to say that, Selena was toxic sometimes. And I respect Raquel to say that, it means she is her best friend.
where can i watch it?
People attacking her like they don't argue with their families over a cookie 💀 stfu & understand what a documentary is.
Being around someone with bipolar disorder can be difficult. And exhausting. I think people put Selena on such a pedestal that anytime anyone says anything bad or fights with her they just immediately attack them. Like they did when this scene came up and everyone attacked this girl just because she’s not a “yes woman”
Exactly. They say Raquel is a bad friend, but as a person with a lot of mental health issues, I am glad Selena has someone who will be with her and will somehow fight her so she doesn't spiral into the self-destructive tendencies that we can have.
@@nefimendezhd exactly i have loved ones with mental health issues and being a yes man is not always best for them. I have mental health issues myself, in particular depression and trauma related anxiety. It’s helpful and in that moment definitely annoying to have someone contradict your feelings, but later on SOMETIMES the realize you may have a point and sometimes they stick by their words and that’s okay too, But the thing is feelings aren’t always a portrayal of what’s real. You may FEEL a certain way that for example “this person hates me, just like everyone else” but that doesn’t mean it’s true you need someone to “bring you back down to earth” yea it’s not always helpful, like the situation in Kenya from what I saw (which wasn’t much I’ll admit, as I didn’t actually watch the doc, it wasn’t helpful and like who cares if it’s not her reality , it’s someone’s, she’s definitely “living the dream” in terms of circumstances doesn’t make her feelings any less valid, even rich people have problems. But it’s important to recognize that the suffering of the world IS important to acknowledge and idk I could be wrong but it felt like Raquel was dismissing those peoples suffering. But I’m not in her mind and I don’t know her do she could’ve meant something else entirely. My mother and I live together and we recently realized our communication is vastly different. She’ll say something and only recently have I started to realize she may not always mean what I assume she means so the other day for example I said “hey when you said this, I heard this, but I’m not sure that’s what you meant” sure enough it wasn’t” soy point is, idk Raquel amd she could have meant something different than what I or anyone else understood from it” Sorry for the long rant, I can be wordy and I find psychology fascinating
This “friend” is very passive aggressive AND still friends w/ jb/hb. So really, how much does she have sg back?
@@jenniferstewart3834 ugh! What are you 15? You can be friends with 2 people who don’t get along with each other. It’s called being mature. As far as being passive aggressive, do you know them, are you there with them all the time. Everyone has their moments of passive aggressive moments. Just like Selena has her moments of “oh everyone hates me!” Etc. Very common statement of those with bipolar. Also very annoying to have to reassure your loved ones with bipolar that the world isn’t against them they are okay and loved. It’s exhausting having to be constantly a reassurance to your loved ones. Real friends will tell you the truth whether you like it or not. They’ll be encouraging and loving but they’ll also be honest when it’s important
Maybe I have the disorder and don’t realize. Because I’ve had moments where I just need to get away from people. I’m not mad, there’s no fights that have transpired but I need time to recoup. I need to be alone. I’m just genuinely curious was it wrong for Selena to ask for that? A day. I like to have other peoples perspective!
Selena wasn’t wrong in wanting one day but I think both were saying one thing and hearing another from the other person and both of them were jumping to the negative assumption, Selena more so whereas I think Raquel was trying to figure out why to Selena wasn’t doing so well so as to help her. Whereas I think Selena may have felt that Raquel’s questions were an inquisition.
Ok, I understand BOTH sides. As someone who has chronic illness and Bipolar like Selena I know what she’s saying here. As well as, having friends and a partner with Bipolar, I have been in her friend’s shoes before. Don’t get me wrong, her friend phrased a lot of things HORRIBLY lol. But Selena was very snappy (understandably so considering how tired and ill she probably was feeling here). They both could’ve handled this conversation a lot better from both sides, but i understand why her friend was pushing for her to go to this social event. She was concerned about Selena and probably assumed having Sel get out and do something fun would be good for her mental health and mood. Sel wasn’t having NONE of that tho. The crabby homebody cancer came out. 😂
Selena literally said she didn’t feel like attending that dinner. Raquel needs to respect that and stop being pushing her to do something she doesn’t feel like doing
Dude selena is a passive aggressive gaslight. She is always moody and down.
It’s ok for Selena to have her bad days
True
I adore Raquel. We all have a Raquel in our group 😂❤
She shouldn't talk to people like that that is not nice
Ok for everyone here saying how hard is to be around people with bipolar disorder needs to stop because of the stigma. My mom is bipolar and even though she has moments she is the most wonderful person to be around. Every relationship as either friendship, family or romantic will have your ups and downs and people will disagree and have arguments but please don’t blame this on her bipolar disorder because this has nothing to do with it, it’s just part of being human. To be pointing the finger on everything she does is because of her diagnose it’s so unnecessary and wrong.
I understand the stigma side of it but it’s the truth. At times it is hard and people need to have an awareness so they can better deal with that person in a healthier way
Sometimes she was so dramatic and toxic that makes me feel uncomfy for the workers doin' her makeup while she complaining about her life, she has an complex personality.
I knew she had it hard but omg thank god she is still here
what a weird "argument" it was all in selenas head lmao
She don't need people to put pressure on her, to do more than she is willing. I bet Selina is paying for the nicest things that Raquel is enjoy.
As someone who deals with a family member with chronic illness and bipolar, this was so hard to watch because I’ve had conversations like this. 😭😞it’s literally so draining and frustrating to deal with someone like this from time to time. 😭
Rest is very important for mental health and not getting enough sleep can set off a bipolar episode she should have more supportive people around her who don't make her feel like crap every time she has to miss out on something because she has to put herself first in these situations.
What normal people don’t understand is how the most simplest tasks or even trying to show ourselves up to make room for other’s meetings/events can actually be quite overwhelming for anyone that suffers from mental illness…
They are still friends I’m sure there has been worse even when nobody knew what was going on with Selena
I do understand 100% where Raquel is coming from and I completely get that she thought maybe Selena getting out would make her feel better and I find all this hate towards her ridiculous. However, as someone who also deals with her own chronic illnesses, I completely see selena’s side and how she feels. some people tend to forget that everyday or at least some days more than others are extremely difficult for us to even get out of bed, let alone go and work or go to a social event. It’s not as easy for us as it is for people who don’t have to deal with this. We are constantly tired and in pain and feeling rubbish, we never catch a break. I feel like personally, if you’ve never had to deal with a chronic illness before then you don’t really have a right to comment about how that person is feeling or why they don’t want to do something or go somewhere.
I used to love Selena but now I can't stand her after how she referred to Francia.
So what do these friends do like what's their job except being with selena do they earn money or just keep hanging out with her
Yaa how do they earn money? Are they part of selena's ventures or something? I think they might earn money by profits etc by working and being a part of selena' ventures
Well that’s a stupid assumption. The world doesn’t revolve around Selena. The girl probably has her own job like anyone else.
@@jinx-1 i heard from a source saying that raquel is a one of the share holder in selena ventures
@@jinx-1 it was not an assumption it was a question out of curiosity. Becz they are living with her whether in her documentary her tours her cooking shows
@@sowmyahr6082 that must be the reason .
I think she put her first. And that in itself is a great thing. Period. She needed rest. Listen
Iv bipolar disorder the medication alone makes u sleepy plus iv fibromyalgia on top I get so tired and cranky ,,she has another lupus on top of hers and it zaps u energy ,u can't blame her for snapping sometimes
Their great at acting
This is not even acting lol
Raquel says she is just trying to figure out what's going on. Apparently, she is not truly in tune with Selena. Common sense would be to get your rest in between things. You can't keep pushing yourself traveling, touring and performing.. This is what causes people to get stressed and anxiety and maybe depression sets in. Selena CLEARLY stated NO. Not the night she gets in and has to shoot a video the next day.
Wow Jeepers no one understands .. i walk away too
Ok so I'm seeing a lot people in the comments saying Selena is Attacking her friend and being rude but like after watching this clip three times Selena's just telling the friend that she fine tbh this isn't even argument just a disagreement like u guys want Selena to be mean and rude so bad GET A DAMN JOB AND SHUT UP
Yeah I think it’s just the way selena talks. And have similar chronic illnesses i sound like this a lot too, monotone. I thought her friend was inviting her somewhere and Selena was just saying she couldn’t go bc she wouldn’t have time she needed to rest. And her friend was just not understanding, and Selena may have been insecure when she brought up the ungrateful remark but I don’t think this is a fight at all. Just a bad day
Um relax bro it isn't that major
I'm sorry but that Raquel chick is so invalidating and just the way she speaks isn't genuine. Validate support and accept if she can't do that. then take a holiday and have someone else do your job jesus.
That’s the bipolar disorder that’s how they are up one minute down the next! Up down up down and it’s emotionally exhausting for the sufferer and their loved ones around them especially if they don’t understand the condition! See Selena wanted to sleep when she should’ve been up and going but that’s the disorder! I really didn’t know Selena is going through all this like is she okay and managing or do the fans need to be checking in with her to see if she gonna make it?!?
Raquelle is a hero.
I like her but omg Selena seems difficult and drama filled..she also has a bad temper
Why is she giving me Alex Russo vibes here lol
yeah selenas rude
They didnt fight Raquel was tryna bait her inro a fight and an exhausted Selena said nahhhhh I'm out. Good for you Selena
Multimillionaire complains again about whatever she's over dramatizing this time while blatantly disrespecting friend who gave her a kidney documentary
I think she just said she was tired. Even with her wealth she’s a human being who gets tired/exhausted. Money doesn’t remove mental or physical exhaustion does it resolve many responsibilities. Of course! I think she just wanted a day.
Stop people she was suffering be empthatic
Money hides alot of problems
@@manyasharma321 jesus yall find lots of excises for your god and saviour selena gomez. Being rude to someone who saved your damn life is unjustified
Have some compassion, man. Jesus Christ.
I love Selena Gomez
She is toxic this friends reach
Wow she's such a classical narcissist. It's mind blowing how they all act the same, regardless of their age, gender, race, ethnic, economical backgrounds. They have the same sick behavior, twisting your words and putting meaning to your words to make you the bad person, picking fights for nothing and guilt tripping you then storming out of the room.
She literally said she didn’t wanna go to the dinner and her friend kept asking her to do it?
Fake friend at all this Raquelle she doesnt even know how to deal with her and understand her how tired she is from what she has passed through.
I don’t like Raquel at all, she’s clearly starting shit here and making Selena look bad
She make herself look bad , she’s mentally unstable
Right like she low-key nagging and all Selena wants to do is rest lol
@@josiah_crazy7621 exactly!! Selena deserves to say home and rest and not have to party, especially after traveling a lot
@@josiah_crazy7621 yeah it was weird
That blonde friend is being really toxic
no. selena is literally gaslighting her and arguing for no reason
Selena snapped on her for no reason. I don’t understand why people are pretending they can’t see what kind of an entitled brat she acted like this entire documentary. I wouldn’t be able to be around her at all
No she didn’t you probably is like Rachel
@@LorraineBusch no I’m not bc of someone started talking to me like that I would’ve started throwing hands. Raquel just allowed it to happen
Selena has issues and that person who ever it is is being mean to her