SELENA GOMEZ ON: How To STOP Insecurity & TRULY LOVE YOURSELF To The Core | Jay Shetty

2024 ж. 11 Мам.
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Today, I am talking to a good friend and celebrity, Selena Gomez.
Selena bravely tells her story about her long battle with mental health and how this led to her life mission to help spread mental health awareness around the world and provide mental health services for the less privileged. I get to deeply understand her inner thoughts on topics such as dealing with pressure of being a celebrity and the gossip that comes with it, finding self healing, embracing change, being one with your inner self, and living day by day being content, kind, and full of love to share.
Life isn’t a simple journey, but despite the complications, challenges, and struggles, we can always find it in our hearts to tap into our inner good and be compassionate, especially to ourselves.
What We Discuss:
00:00:00 Intro
00: First meeting
00: Selena Gomez: My Mind & Me documentary
00: Sharing our darkest secrets with others
00: Befriending your own inner critic
00: Learning to be more compassionate towards yourself and others
00: Taking control of your own story
00:21:01 Choosing to combat negativity with love and kindness
00:26:04 Getting asked frustrating questions
00:27:57 No one is perfect, even celebrities
00:32:27 How do you deal with imperfections?
00:37:38 Areas in your life that made you who you are
00:40:01 Embracing change
00:44:54 Mental health awareness
00:47:23 You have to be aware of people
00:53:51 How do you deal with fears?
00:56:58 What is your intention?
00: Sometimes parents project perfection around their children
00: Pain, suffering, growth
00: Wondermind - mental fitness
00: You’ll figure it out, keep going
00: Missteps parents may have taken
00: Were you always open to therapy?
00: Producing the series 13 Reasons Why
00: Selena and Mandy on Final Five

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  • Really felt it when she said "I would rather continue to get my heart broken than to not feel at all."

    @LadyKaye79@LadyKaye79 Жыл бұрын
    • What does it mean?

      @MarijaNbgd95@MarijaNbgd95 Жыл бұрын
    • Well that's life we don't stop loving simply because the risk of being hurt is there.

      @anonimo2359@anonimo2359 Жыл бұрын
    • But heartbreak is still hard regardless

      @mariadominguez116@mariadominguez116 Жыл бұрын
    • @@MarijaNbgd95 that she would continue to get in relationships and fall in love/get broken like having to break up after than not trying to find love again at all

      @julietmatthew5476@julietmatthew5476 Жыл бұрын
    • Shows that she have amazing heart which we all don't have it ,put our guards to it after one attempt 💙

      @sariiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii@sariiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii Жыл бұрын
  • As an extrovert and a content creator, this is hard to say... but spending time alone is VITAL to embracing our insecurities. And no, I don't mean "alone scrolling on social media or "alone watching Netflix"... I mean alone having a warm bath, or hiking in nature. Spend more time alone, watch your insecurities heal :)

    @Speakademy@Speakademy Жыл бұрын
    • I agree, I find when I'm consuming too much content or "oversocialising", my insecurities skyrocket.

      @abreakfromscrolling7312@abreakfromscrolling7312 Жыл бұрын
    • Yessss reminds me of that quote - "a man can solve most of his problems if he is willing to sit in a room alone, in silence, and think."

      @storyarch1084@storyarch1084 Жыл бұрын
    • cannot argue, tho too much alone time would drive me INSANE!

      @itsunbelievable1534@itsunbelievable1534 Жыл бұрын
    • I relate to that especially warm baths.... I seem to have some mental and emotional breakthroughs in there :)

      @changein2365@changein2365 Жыл бұрын
    • Thank you for that - I'll spend some time alone.... right after watching this podcast 😅

      @dailyquotes1192@dailyquotes1192 Жыл бұрын
  • i came here to improve my english

    @user-gh1zm4yg8i@user-gh1zm4yg8i4 ай бұрын
    • Me too bro😂😂

      @richdad99@richdad99Ай бұрын
    • mee too

      @Putrikazumi@Putrikazumi27 күн бұрын
    • same here hahahaha

      @estervirginia7257@estervirginia725726 күн бұрын
    • Me to

      @sarsalan5345@sarsalan534525 күн бұрын
    • Me too😊

      @raiattiq3679@raiattiq367924 күн бұрын
  • "Serve to heal, give to let go." That's beautiful.

    @Kristijunes@Kristijunes Жыл бұрын
    • Hii

      @bavaniraokalisetti9194@bavaniraokalisetti9194Ай бұрын
  • Don’t let compliments get to your head and criticisms get to your heart. ❤️

    @sugoiheart@sugoiheart Жыл бұрын
    • @zelgarcia5420@zelgarcia5420 Жыл бұрын
    • If someone gives you praise.... sniff it. Don't swallow it.

      @carmenanderson2303@carmenanderson2303 Жыл бұрын
    • Right! 📌

      @joyceese8158@joyceese8158 Жыл бұрын
  • This podcast brought tears to my eyes when Selena’s mom said, “it’s okay to be vulnerable. People aren’t going to judge. They will ask if you are okay.”

    @yofitjamie22@yofitjamie22 Жыл бұрын
    • Have adored Selina from her beginning on Barney. She is so beautiful inside and out! I would love to connect with her. She has helped me to grow a lot!

      @kimberlystoodley4554@kimberlystoodley4554 Жыл бұрын
    • "There's blessing in the breaking." Really relatable! Finding the light in our lives despite the darkness is a challenge but it's worth it.

      @grannyronna@grannyronna9 ай бұрын
    • @@grannyronna😊

      @girlwifdog@girlwifdog8 ай бұрын
  • How painful it is to be a good person. She is incredible

    @kasstingyourr4378@kasstingyourr43789 ай бұрын
    • You're completely right! Let me give you a passage of the Bible... Hebrews 11:38 the world was not worthy of them. (Read the whole chapter if possible) 😉 Blessings!

      @MariaClaudiaA.Castillo@MariaClaudiaA.Castillo16 күн бұрын
  • “getting comfortable with uncomfortable things”

    @SaodatNuriddinova-ss4gs@SaodatNuriddinova-ss4gs28 күн бұрын
  • I so admire when celebrities use their platform to inspire and educate us. She is one of the few celebrities I follow because of how genuine and humble she is. Stay strong Selena! Recuerda que las cosas que nos destruyen son las mismas cosas que nos hacen fuerte! 💜

    @enmarizkallah3459@enmarizkallah3459 Жыл бұрын
    • Many celebs are sell outs

      @user-ir1lu1ei4n@user-ir1lu1ei4n Жыл бұрын
    • If we treated them like mere humans and not celebrities. Their and ours both lives would be better. We wont have extraordinary expectations from them. We wouldnt be shocked when they do something good or bad. We wouldnt have insecurities from their online portrayed lives.

      @tuffnutvalo6717@tuffnutvalo6717 Жыл бұрын
    • ❤ agreed

      @sandras2624@sandras2624 Жыл бұрын
    • I used to think selena was amazing but now I see she is a covert narcissist.. Poor me pick me girl.. Bullies other girls so cunningpy

      @sairamsaikripa@sairamsaikripa Жыл бұрын
    • Clearly she's chosen

      @nenesibanda4171@nenesibanda4171 Жыл бұрын
  • “My story isn’t done.” I don’t know why but this felt SO empowering!!

    @vrindaharchandani9836@vrindaharchandani9836 Жыл бұрын
    • What u wanted to achieve in ur life

      @boora2321@boora2321 Жыл бұрын
    • @@HerminiaDavis means..

      @boora2321@boora2321 Жыл бұрын
    • I believe it feels empowering because she makes us feel like we, too, can have such a beautiful heart!

      @DarceeAnthony-yr6eq@DarceeAnthony-yr6eq Жыл бұрын
    • I feel it is because it’s like saying “there’s always tomorrow”, we are not done until we are. If we still have life to live, there’s always a chance to change our reality and become our better selves

      @user-ih4fd9sf8x@user-ih4fd9sf8x10 ай бұрын
    • it is done

      @lordhallibel3604@lordhallibel36049 ай бұрын
  • THIS MAN HAS SAID THE TRUTH ABOUT SALENA, SHE IS MAKING A DIFFERENCE IN PEOPLE BY BEING HER SELF IS HER PURPOSE IN LIFE TO HELP PEOPLE. ❤👑

    @israel172251@israel172251 Жыл бұрын
  • I’m someone who’s lost her mom when I was 3, dad when I was 16 and my elder sibling in the year 2021 :) I mean I’m definitely hurt but I have planned big things for myself as I’m moving to a different country soon to pursue my studies.. I’m just grateful to them for raising me and made me the person I am today.

    @moodypeachx@moodypeachx Жыл бұрын
    • Proud of you ♥️ best of luck ♥️

      @KK-wd3gc@KK-wd3gc Жыл бұрын
    • Hey dear I'm really proud of you, even though i don't know you in person but I can feel how great you are as a person , study hard and always surround yourself with positive people and be happy. God bless you with lots of success and love!

      @pritihazra8184@pritihazra8184 Жыл бұрын
    • To your not so positive days, just know and acknowledge they also exist, embrace them and make room for a better day! 🫶🏼

      @sheilacampos5246@sheilacampos52462 ай бұрын
  • You can tell this woman is genuinely kind. She wears her heart on her sleeve, but has definitely trained her mind to do better ❤

    @abeermahadi@abeermahadi Жыл бұрын
  • What she has is truly a gift. When you feel everything, you feel like it is a curse, but it is actually a gift, when you don't let the world harden your heart ❤️

    @tm7866@tm7866 Жыл бұрын
    • ❤️

      @Mymoon_laaaaaaaaaadiiieeesss@Mymoon_laaaaaaaaaadiiieeesss Жыл бұрын
    • 💕🙏

      @Selsmittenxo@Selsmittenxo Жыл бұрын
    • Beautiful… so true…… this is awesome….cheers to Selena and the crew as well….

      @claytiller2766@claytiller2766 Жыл бұрын
    • How beautiful said ❤

      @JK-ve1eg@JK-ve1eg Жыл бұрын
    • Indeed 👍🏻

      @irmalujan1723@irmalujan1723 Жыл бұрын
  • I love her mom! Very relatable , down to earth , still has that inner child but you can tell she has wisdom and a good heart! And passed that down to her daughter!

    @ashcakes220@ashcakes220 Жыл бұрын
  • This was so refreshing to see Selena being interviewed with her mom, it took the celebrity aspect out and just see people interacting and giving their experiences. It was inspiring to listen to them, thank you

    @shelleydavis5231@shelleydavis5231 Жыл бұрын
    • Selena congratulations to you, you are a wonderful talented young lady, you're gifted continue to do the best you can. In relationships don't settle, being single is freedom, and things you can do being single you can't do while in a relationship, good things comes to them that wait. I thank you for all the good you are doing continue to do good and surely goodness and mercy shall follow you

      @parnellacain@parnellacain Жыл бұрын
    • so inspiring

      @kahanassic@kahanassic6 ай бұрын
  • My grand mom died 6 hrs ago and i found myself here watching this podcast. I also suffer from bipolar mood disorder, anxiety and my depression triggered off from my lost but somehow the strength selena show us and her determination to survive is giving me strength to face my demons. Thank you for being here for us selena.

    @I_AM_KD_WIFE@I_AM_KD_WIFE Жыл бұрын
    • Stay strong sis!!

      @medachraf1552@medachraf1552 Жыл бұрын
    • Sorry for your loss and i hope you get better ❤

      @naomi2623@naomi2623 Жыл бұрын
    • I’m so sorry for your lost may god put his hands over you and give you strength through this tough time .

      @ForeverrAdrii@ForeverrAdrii Жыл бұрын
    • I am so sorry for your loss. May your mom rest in peace. I am sending you all my possible love and support. 🤍

      @sweetdisaster6339@sweetdisaster6339 Жыл бұрын
    • @@medachraf1552 bhb

      @MarlinaCarlos@MarlinaCarlos Жыл бұрын
  • Selena is such a strong brave person. I can relate to her lots. She is a great role model for everyone! I love her green shoes 👠 and style

    @DanielMazz@DanielMazz Жыл бұрын
    • Her orange fingernails were a great touch too 💕

      @charlene2349@charlene2349 Жыл бұрын
  • One great advice I ever had, “practice love, patience, and tolerance everyday”.. It improved my life, got me out of a bad place with myself, and changed it for the better.

    @LTakeThaL@LTakeThaL Жыл бұрын
    • Wow 😮❤

      @rachaelhutchings5659@rachaelhutchings5659 Жыл бұрын
  • I'm a person who barely follows celebrities, but since that I've seen Selena's story she became such an inspiration for me. Not for being perfect, but for being real and for being strong. My whole life I've had to deal with insecurities, fear of being judged and the attempt of trying to be perfect. The result was a sad person who barely had motivations in life. I used to spend the whole day on the internet or playing games because it was kinda my escape from reality. I was always wondering what i was doing here, because i couldn't find any purpose or meaning in my life. I was a lonely person, who literally had no friends at school, and my family always complaining about it telling me to change but no one really helped me but made me feel more insecure about social interactions!! As a teenager i only made 1 single friend, and we still talk until nowadays btw. I had no dreams for my future, and ya a lot of other stuff that would make a really long text if i did write everything here... I'm currently 21, thankfully not at school anymore, and my life changed like 1 year ago... I've always felt i didn't fit on what people wanted me to be or to do, and it was what hurted the most, because i was unhappy doing what people thought that was the right thing to do. The most scary moments for me was breaking everything that people said that was the best.. and start from the whole 0 even not knowing exactly where to go, but i stopped caring about what people thought about my choices... and decided to make my own choices for my own risk, if i did the right thing great, but if i didn't ok it was my choice!! I was just tired of living based on fear of things not working without even trying. I started taking more care of myself to work on my self confidence, wearing outfits i really like and focusing on the best parts of myself... physically and mentally. I dropped my previous college to study computer science that was really my choice even tho i was not sure if it was the right thing to do, probably a lot of people judged and didn't understand this change. But incredibly it was the best thing I've ever done, the happiness i feel now is something so big and genuine, like i really found myself on what I'm doing now. On this college i found people that i really like and that i care about, including my current bf that is like the most amazing and supportive people I've ever met. For making my own choices without caring about ppl opinions and keep going even when i was scared, I've got so many blessings. I have an amazing job now aswell and it's like I've found my motivation to live, the past few years that i had no hope and had a lot of fears, and little by little it became a memory... and it's like I'm living now everything that i didn't live in my whole teenager days. I still not perfect, i have a lot to learn but just by living feeling like you're doing the right thing already feels different...

    @lymitm3244@lymitm324411 ай бұрын
    • @luisamarins8902@luisamarins89028 ай бұрын
    • Happy for you! Keep growing, and empowering yourself

      @callme_adam@callme_adam7 ай бұрын
    • So proud of you hun! Blessings always and never forget how beautiful you are even when you may not feel like it! Xoxo

      @MelissaLopes_23@MelissaLopes_234 ай бұрын
    • 😊

      @mominahmahdiyar6356@mominahmahdiyar63563 ай бұрын
    • How did you know what to do?

      @ImLehwz@ImLehwz3 ай бұрын
  • She’s truly an inspiration. This woman makes me better every single day. Love her so much

    @selsfav9888@selsfav9888 Жыл бұрын
    • Inspiration who ignores to thanks even to spell the name of that girl who saved her life!?? Wtf

      @kosovarxhokli1327@kosovarxhokli1327 Жыл бұрын
    • @@kosovarxhokli1327 i agree

      @yadicruz8262@yadicruz8262 Жыл бұрын
    • I totally agree with you….

      @janicediaz7921@janicediaz7921 Жыл бұрын
    • You reflect on the people who used to be in your life, and it's like, 'Wow, I can't believe that person was ever really in my life.' But people are put into your life for seasons, for different reasons, and to teach you lessons. Selena Gomez

      @samrinasiddiqui1015@samrinasiddiqui1015 Жыл бұрын
    • @@samrinasiddiqui1015 ask Francia how she feel now

      @yadicruz8262@yadicruz8262 Жыл бұрын
  • Love Selena’s strength and fortitude. She has been through it all and is truly grounded. Mental health is an important discussion to have and I am glad Selena is the leading light in this space.

    @manifest2203@manifest2203 Жыл бұрын
    • Selena is a deceiver & a hypocrite. She craves FAME & WEALTH & wants to be in the SPOTLIGHT ALWAYS. Sold her SOUL long time AGO & FOOLED the world for YEARS. TIME THE TRUTH GOT EXPOSED. 99% OF THE CELEBS ARE PART OF THE ILLUMINATI.

      @SelenaGomezIlluminati@SelenaGomezIlluminati Жыл бұрын
  • I struggled (and I have been struggling with) anxiety and depression, and Selena just said the truth in all the words. Everyone has a different history, but having a mental disease is something kind of difficult to explain to others. All my love ❤ from Mexico.

    @zaaybethgallegos1160@zaaybethgallegos116010 ай бұрын
  • Selena and her mom grew up together. My mom had me very young too and we are best friends. I love their bond 🤍

    @alma81033@alma81033 Жыл бұрын
  • I love the fact that she isn't afraid to show the the world that her brain was fried at some point too. her courage to peel out all the layers and show everything to the whole world is really admirable. She genuinely cares about mental health and is continuing to use her platform to raise awareness. After watching the doc i realised that even though she's a pop star, she's one of us. That no matter what your position is, everyone go through hard times in their lives. If any of you haven't watched it yet, I highly recommend to watch it. You won't learn anything bout her life..but you'll learn you're not alone and seeking help will get you through it.

    @nipunikavindya1419@nipunikavindya1419 Жыл бұрын
  • Hearing her talk about having to befriend her bipolar is so hard. I am still in a place of somewhat denial and trying to work against it at times. I often ignore when it speaks to me bc I don’t want to hear it. I am scared of it. When I am going through a depressive episode I get frustrated and hate when I can’t get out of bed. When I’m going through mania, I feel embarrassed and forcefully lock myself away.

    @odalis1893@odalis1893 Жыл бұрын
    • Don’f feel embarrassed! It’s a natural & normal thing… it’s something that should be normalized. You have a beautiful & strong mind! Just keep yourself educated & fill your beautiful mind with beautiful thoughts! & if that doesn’t work just listen & let it go… negativity doesn’t define you. You define your thoughts! Just know that there is hope it may be hard to feel but just keep the faith! Sending love & light on your journey you beautiful energetic being. ❤️

      @alexdom6714@alexdom6714 Жыл бұрын
    • I feel this way about my depression and avoidant behavior. I love that she befriends her bipolar because it's honest. It's a reminder that it's not you but part of you and that it's not going away and will teach you something about yourself always. Have self compassion as you would a friend going through it. What would you say tothem? I tell myself to get comfortable with the uncomfortable, breathe and keep going even if it's a tiny step. Progress not perfection.

      @nasara690@nasara690 Жыл бұрын
    • You're strong and every day is an opportunity to find your own way to manage this. Hope you're feeling better💜

      @silvinaranarivero5489@silvinaranarivero5489 Жыл бұрын
    • Take your time! It is a process and you are healing but step by step. Accepting is one of the hardest steps in healing. But you will experience it and feel relieved when you are ready.

      @michelleblack1750@michelleblack1750 Жыл бұрын
    • You are so strong for this and I hope you can see that you are amazing.

      @andreamarieee@andreamarieee Жыл бұрын
  • My daughter made me watch the documentary over the holidays, It made me want to hug her. God bless you Selena, you have touch so many hearts throughout your journey I look forward to see what God has stored for you! ❤

    @cloud5113@cloud5113 Жыл бұрын
  • I love that she says she doesn't have to be perfect all the time ❤. Her opening up about mental health really helped me except my no perfection and brokenness. Xx

    @s22centuaryfox@s22centuaryfox2 ай бұрын
  • I love her so much. She has had a huge impact on my life, I also struggle with depression and her strength is something that really inspires me. We need more famous people to fight for things that really matter. Selena absolutely deserves all the fame and success she has. 💖

    @michelcomenta@michelcomenta Жыл бұрын
    • Selena is a deceiver & a hypocrite. She craves FAME & WEALTH & wants to be in the SPOTLIGHT ALWAYS. Sold her SOUL long time AGO & FOOLED the world for YEARS. TIME THE TRUTH GOT EXPOSED. 99% OF THE CELEBS ARE PART OF THE ILLUMINATI.

      @SelenaGomezIlluminati@SelenaGomezIlluminati Жыл бұрын
    • her words are helping

      @kahanassic@kahanassic6 ай бұрын
    • Agree, Selena deserves the best!

      @DaleMit@DaleMit6 ай бұрын
    • I pray you heal. Go to Jesus. He’ll heal you

      @bigtree802@bigtree8025 ай бұрын
  • Dear selena you have no idea how much positive impact you have in my life. You are an true inspiration for girls like me who is dealing with insecurity since childhood. WHO SAYS is not only a song now it has become a anthem. It's a motivational for every girl who is dealing with self doubt, who feels worthless, who is insecure. Even your personal life inspires us so much. Thank you for always being there for your fans. Love you always ❤

    @raimamandal4180@raimamandal4180 Жыл бұрын
    • Agreed

      @SirjanaThapaKhanal@SirjanaThapaKhanal9 ай бұрын
  • As someone who has multiple diagnoses of mental health. I have been so fixated on how to “fix myself” and it is so comforting watching this video. I definitely plan to watch her documentary. So thank you for being so open Selena and even everyone in the comments ❤️ I hope everyone has a wonderful day and continue moving forward.

    @lil.cinamunrol@lil.cinamunrol7 ай бұрын
  • Thank you Selena, for not making me feel so alone in my own journey recovering from narsassistic abuse DBT is awesome! One starts to feel sorry for people walking right into it.

    @jellybean3599@jellybean359910 ай бұрын
  • I have never felt understood until this day. I am so grateful for Selena putting those words for us..I feel a lot better now.

    @ira_zhena@ira_zhena Жыл бұрын
  • Selena's mom is so self aware wow. I didn't even know selena had this influence in her life. Truly thankful to know this. Thanks Jay for doing this interview.

    @35pri2ish@35pri2ish Жыл бұрын
  • I hope selena finds a man who loves her unconditionally ❤️, no matter what who never gives up on her.. She deserves love💯

    @meghamalekar4279@meghamalekar4279 Жыл бұрын
  • I love Selena and her realness. Truly a good soul shines through and I am sk glad she is seeing more of it. As a mom I identify with her mom’s reflection of raising my child. Always something i wish i did differently or knew back then. I Always apologize too because it helps to validate her feelings or experiences. So important

    @Em76394@Em76394 Жыл бұрын
  • She is a multitalented, amazing, kind and loving woman. Every time she opens her heart I feel how much she wants to make a change in this world.

    @Kryceci00@Kryceci00 Жыл бұрын
  • I didn't expect to like Selena as much as I do now. How kind and open-hearted. Can't wait to watch the documentary!

    @brandongrill2767@brandongrill2767 Жыл бұрын
    • Selena is a deceiver & a hypocrite. She craves FAME & WEALTH & wants to be in the SPOTLIGHT ALWAYS. Sold her SOUL long time AGO & FOOLED the world for YEARS. TIME THE TRUTH GOT EXPOSED. 99% OF THE CELEBS ARE PART OF THE ILLUMINATI.

      @SelenaGomezIlluminati@SelenaGomezIlluminati Жыл бұрын
    • 😊

      @Marat-py4vx@Marat-py4vx8 ай бұрын
  • she such a genuine, honest, loving person and celeb. love her

    @junglauren1812@junglauren181220 күн бұрын
  • Selena is someone that I would keep for my entire life... she's so precious 🥲🥹 I love her..

    @whatwouldresado_@whatwouldresado_ Жыл бұрын
  • so happy her mum was on the show, a lot of the things we go through are generational, amazing to see them collaborate

    @niceplayground@niceplayground Жыл бұрын
  • I cried while watching Selena's Documentary. Selena So real n hence my eyes filled with tears. Love from India 🌹Be strong, no matter what we are always with you.

    @RajeshGangurde@RajeshGangurde Жыл бұрын
    • I cried too ❤ from London

      @MamiYankeeMusic@MamiYankeeMusic Жыл бұрын
    • I don't have apple plus .. i wanna watch it 🥺🥺

      @niara6@niara6 Жыл бұрын
    • @@niara6 Niara did you see my latest message

      @MamiYankeeMusic@MamiYankeeMusic Жыл бұрын
    • Yeah, I dont have apple plus either 😔

      @sbdelcallain9293@sbdelcallain9293 Жыл бұрын
    • @@MamiYankeeMusic , Your message to "Niara" intrigued me... do you have another way for us to watch it?

      @leesabox1047@leesabox1047 Жыл бұрын
  • Selena Gomez, you’re truly beautiful inside and out. Keep being a great example especially for many millennials

    @nathananderson8720@nathananderson8720 Жыл бұрын
  • Love how he interview his guess.He ask good Questions and let the guess to speak. He is so kind and encourages others. God bless both of them ❤

    @RIOSALEXANDRA@RIOSALEXANDRA Жыл бұрын
  • I watched the documentary this weekend. Twice. I identified with so many of her issues. Watching this interview On Purpose, I’m a fan now; a fan of her heart and soul…and incredible strength. I admire her desire to live a life of service. She is a remarkable being who I believe is going to make this world a better place.

    @joannerossi8941@joannerossi8941 Жыл бұрын
    • Is it true that she didn't include her friend, that gave her kidney, to the documentary? I like Selena very much and that would upset me

      @asiyatsarbasheva2402@asiyatsarbasheva2402 Жыл бұрын
    • @@asiyatsarbasheva2402 she did but it wasn't the main focus

      @lubna5814@lubna5814 Жыл бұрын
    • 🙏👍it true

      @carmentotres2599@carmentotres2599 Жыл бұрын
    • ​@@asiyatsarbasheva2402 Her kidney donor doesn't need to be praise every time Selena opens her mouth. This gets Me mad. 😡

      @starbright7217@starbright7217 Жыл бұрын
  • Having Mandy added an extra layer of realness and depth. I wish there was more Wondermind content like a podcast where people can open up about feelings in a safe way. I love any Sel and her mom content they have such a nice relationship that they’ve won. Selena is who she is bc of her mom

    @FashionistaStreet@FashionistaStreet Жыл бұрын
  • How humbling these two women are. Love Selena and her mom are beautiful inside and out. Thank you for sharing your stories and shedding some light on such a important topic.

    @jeno5176@jeno5176 Жыл бұрын
  • she is so sweet, humble and kind like her mother. The world needs more people like Selena . I like listening to your podcasts

    @anissas9076@anissas90768 ай бұрын
  • Selena is one beautifully raised human with the greater outlook in life. She is a healer for millions out there ❤

    @tshewangchoden8408@tshewangchoden8408 Жыл бұрын
    • Selena is a deceiver & a hypocrite. She craves FAME & WEALTH & wants to be in the SPOTLIGHT ALWAYS. Sold her SOUL long time AGO & FOOLED the world for YEARS. TIME THE TRUTH GOT EXPOSED. 99% OF THE CELEBS ARE PART OF THE ILLUMINATI.

      @SelenaGomezIlluminati@SelenaGomezIlluminati Жыл бұрын
  • What a gift to have a mother who is willing not to live in denial, or become so closed off and defensive. My parents and older siblings choose to gaslight and make the scapegoat. They have made me feel like all my mental health struggles are something I’m exaggerating and choosing to wallow in. I’m surprised I’m still standing and as sane as I am. It’s hard to not be resentful and envious of what it would have been like to have loving support on long my journey. Any mother who has the courage to be honest helps to facilitate true authentic healing. This starts to help the minimize the stigma. Having the stigma of the world against you it does not help if family adds to it.

    @moodfood21@moodfood21 Жыл бұрын
    • I hear you and feel you. Being an empath in a family of narcs is extremely painful and challenging. God bless you on your journey.

      @taralilarose1@taralilarose1 Жыл бұрын
    • I loved reading your words. My relationship with my mother was difficult. As a result I have tried to be there for my children. Evaluating our lives emotions and relationships is a great skill. All the best on your journey.

      @sandrasutherland1013@sandrasutherland1013 Жыл бұрын
    • I often wonder how my journey would have been as well if I had loving support by my family throughout it, definitely would have made it easier. However it has made me a very strong independent woman. That I'm truly grateful for.

      @cjt6472@cjt64727 ай бұрын
  • Selena Is a true gift. Her realness is on another level. We will always love you! Spreading kindness and being a better person.💙🙏🏼

    @sarahesayers@sarahesayers Жыл бұрын
  • What a great episode, her and her mother talked so transparently about being vulnerable, not being perfect and trying to just be... wow❤

    @patoponce9949@patoponce994911 ай бұрын
  • I love how honest and humble she is, she never gave up and stood strong,so proud

    @mahtaamy8334@mahtaamy8334 Жыл бұрын
  • I've been struggling these few days, and slipping back. Came across this conversation, hearing Selena voice out these struggles and emotions, trying to reframe the mind, it's helping me. I needed this. Thank you so much.

    @crispytatertots@crispytatertots Жыл бұрын
  • selena realy helped me throughout my darkest times every time i feel sad or angry or emty i listen to her then i feel healed god bless her i wish she knew how much people she helped ...

    @ayak4253@ayak4253 Жыл бұрын
  • Selena was raised so well very polite and mannered things to mama she raised her well

    @lisamiranda9804@lisamiranda980411 ай бұрын
  • This was a special episode. Thank you. I really appreciated Selena’s mom’s input. As a young mother, I really relate to both of their perspectives of life, depression, hope and the work it takes to heal. I frequently am wondering how open I should be with my daughter, when to step in as a mama and when to listen, how to be vulnerable and not consistently down. I truly appreciate the honesty of this episode.

    @cassandra.rose.@cassandra.rose. Жыл бұрын
    • ♥️

      @DrAkashraj@DrAkashraj Жыл бұрын
  • Selena looks like just her mom ❤️So sweet , brilliant and intelligent.I love her so much)

    @ANB05@ANB05 Жыл бұрын
  • Jay Shetty is excellent at what he does. He genuinely listens and empathizes with all the single words being said. Ontop of that, he asks the right questions to maintain a quality conversation.

    @Gina-ef9tc@Gina-ef9tc Жыл бұрын
  • I was really in my head today... it's okay to cry and take my time to heal...Thank you for being so authentic!!!!

    @fathimahassain4535@fathimahassain4535 Жыл бұрын
  • She’s so wise beyond her years! Love her so much ❤

    @emilydelbuonomusic@emilydelbuonomusic Жыл бұрын
  • She’s so calm and zen and when she talks about personal deep stuff her voice becomes almost like they slowed down the speed on the video

    @nicogggg@nicogggg Жыл бұрын
  • I genuinely love Selena. I have been since I was a kid. Now that I`m 25 I relate to her so much more. I look up to her. She deserves the world. I am so happy such a beautiful soul exists and spreads so much compassion, kindness and love. May god / the universe protect her, bless her with health, happiness and all the love there is. 🫀

    @ysmnyz@ysmnyz Жыл бұрын
  • Selena!!!! A living representation of the love that's inside all of us. If you're brave enough you can learn to LOVE and only LOVE! That is what's real. I love this interview Jay! We see you in all of us.

    @minneo7022@minneo7022 Жыл бұрын
  • Selena is one of the most kind-hearted person I've ever seen! Love her 💖

    @priyokhan5402@priyokhan5402 Жыл бұрын
  • She’s so special.. since I was little she was my favourite. So happy that we have so wondeful people as a celebrities! Love her! ❤

    @ancagrovu9842@ancagrovu9842 Жыл бұрын
  • She is so sweet and kind, big hug for Selena

    @JuliaKobzar-le2vh@JuliaKobzar-le2vh10 ай бұрын
  • As a soon to be first time mom, this has really given me closure and an ease of mind as I prepare for my son's arrival. I never grew up with transparent parents, but hearing Mandy talk about her struggles and overcoming trials truly inspired me. I've always looked up to you Selena! Now I look up to your mom too (:

    @Limake1030@Limake1030 Жыл бұрын
  • Finally! Thank you for having someone who is truly empathetic and in touch with the world around her. She helps other and is so kind to her fans. Thank you!!

    @moris12.@moris12. Жыл бұрын
  • It takes a lot of courage to come out and talk about mental health. I'm a psychologist who has had my own personal journey . This is a cause super close to my heart and it's always touching when someone overcomes the "conditioned shame, stigma and taboo", and pours their heart out. There is so much to learn and understand,, to be more kind, sensitive, compassionate and to do ur own in whatever capacity that you can.

    @shilparaheja07@shilparaheja07 Жыл бұрын
  • Growing with Selena on screen since I was a child, it makes me so happy to listen to her and support her❤ She is a beautiful soul and that’s something nothing and nobody can take away. Incredibly well spoken, gentle , kind and respectful, thats the messages Selena conveys to us , her fans which is so rare , as celebrities usually dont have this type of approach of care❤❤❤ Love you so much Selena !! You taught me so much and I am so grateful for you ! ❤️❤️❤️

    @althaeaskingdom9274@althaeaskingdom927411 ай бұрын
  • this broke me. thank you for using your platform to shed light into other peoples lives. I think its so easy for "normal people" to see celebrities in a completely different world. Especially when we think that large amounts of money would solve most of our problems. But we're literally all the same & just want to be happy.

    @apbarriosified@apbarriosified Жыл бұрын
  • I experience Bipolar 1 and commend Selena for speaking her truth. It’s caused a ripple effect that has made me more accepting of the illness and committing to learning more and using this diagnosis as a strength.

    @westcoastsands@westcoastsands Жыл бұрын
  • Learning about what you feel and hardships you are going through is powerful. I thank you guys for spreading awareness and sharing your pain and experiences in a humane way. It's a rare pictures of our realities. Beautiful 🥰

    @nthabisengkhepase601@nthabisengkhepase601 Жыл бұрын
  • It was so wonderful to hear her struggles and how she pulls through hard times and how much it mirrors my own. I hear a lot of cbt coping skills in what she says. I'm so glad that she is having these honest conversations. ❤

    @OrngePeel@OrngePeel11 ай бұрын
  • selena is gorgeous and so wise, so good to have her with us. The world is so much better thanks to her music

    @min.t3188@min.t3188 Жыл бұрын
  • Selena Gomez is making sense to me with this being a celebrity that's not seen as perfect stuff. That's a great way of uplifting the people.

    @borbu1964@borbu1964 Жыл бұрын
  • Wow, you always make me realize that the power is within me! Right when I'm losing hope, you pick me right up!

    @gloriacordero4103@gloriacordero41038 ай бұрын
  • I appreciate that you all shared your experiences and let us learn from them or realise them from our lives, which already exist. It was beautiful and lovely. She and her mom seemed very calm and lovely people. Even the way Selena talked and the phase was very peaceful, which made me realize that I can also take my time when I am talking as well. Thank you so much!

    @Ray_Nam@Ray_Nam7 ай бұрын
  • She's brave, strong and very inspirational. Selena is literally the perfect role model to me and to many others. I love how she always talks from a normal human being point of view that we all can relate to and not a famous person that their only struggles are related to fame. Bless her, I hope she stays happy for the rest of her life.

    @ryyeas9518@ryyeas9518 Жыл бұрын
    • Role model for what? Talking about 5 year old break up again and again . Taking friends kidney and drinking and abusing that friend eww find a better role model

      @journalshours3524@journalshours3524 Жыл бұрын
    • @@journalshours3524 That breakup was part of HER life and she has the full right to speak about it for the rest of her life as long as she’s not mention his name. Plus she never drank after the kidney transplant it always been a juice, water or an empty glass you can go and check all her videos since you have the time to click on her interview’s link and check all the comments. And next time when you insert yourself in topics that you’re not involved in, make sure tiktok videos is not your sources.

      @ryyeas9518@ryyeas9518 Жыл бұрын
    • how is she inspirational when she has just denied her best friend that gave her a kidney???

      @Dahlia_lilah@Dahlia_lilah Жыл бұрын
    • @@Dahlia_lilah she never denied her! Not once.. stop putting words in people mouths and jumping on the media bully train. People that do that are the problem. Selena even posted on the same thread sorry she didn’t mention everyone she knew and fransica already had deleted her comment… why because she regretted it and came from an impulse moment.

      @andreinamireles1553@andreinamireles1553 Жыл бұрын
    • @@journalshours3524 but yet here you are watching her interview…. If you don’t have any interest in her or have anything nice to say… hop off, move along, keep your negative hateful abusive comments to yourself. It’s ironic how you feel entitled to blast Selena about being an abusive friend when you don’t even personally know her, yet here you are being an abusive media groupie spreading hate. Makes no sense

      @andreinamireles1553@andreinamireles1553 Жыл бұрын
  • This entire interview is so needed in the entire world. This is reality and it embraces a reality for folks.

    @jacquelinezubieta1048@jacquelinezubieta1048 Жыл бұрын
  • Selena - just allow yourself to love "you" You are a gift to others. You made me shed a tear. I love your selflessness. You just GO girl!! ❤️

    @MichelleGBR@MichelleGBR4 ай бұрын
  • There’s a blessing in the breaking, such a powerful and beautiful heart

    @ItsPeiii@ItsPeiii6 ай бұрын
  • So refreshingly honest! I want to thank you, Jay for having this conversation with Selena and her mother, Mandy. As someone who has been struggling with bipolar and ptsd issues much of my life, the lightbulb moments that I experienced watching and listening to this were incredible! At age 65 this year, I feel like I am just beginning to understand my mental health issues as being part of who I am and not feeling ashamed of them. My motto is "We are all here to help each other." Thank you all for helping me today.

    @lynnenc2u@lynnenc2u Жыл бұрын
  • Selena is a lot like her mom. It's nice when celebrities try to keep it real. They are just human beings after all.

    @natet5959@natet595911 ай бұрын
  • Every time I am listing interview with Selena, I am so impressed how beautiful soul she is in and out! She should be very proud of her self and same for her mum ! Probably she heard that from lots of people but I will say again, we love you Selena!

    @california_camperva@california_camperva Жыл бұрын
  • Selena is like an elder sister to teenagers...💖

    @noorifatima3001@noorifatima3001 Жыл бұрын
    • she def is

      @ninicore@ninicore Жыл бұрын
    • 100% she helps me so so much daily

      @WolfyMusic622@WolfyMusic622 Жыл бұрын
  • Thank you for sharing your story! This has helped me to understand my journey with my son. He’s in college and doesn’t come home much or communicate like I’d love him to this conversation helped me to know I’m not alone. I’ve beat myself up thinking I’ve done this or that! I’ve apologized so many times. Thank you so much.💗

    @travsyl@travsyl Жыл бұрын
  • I really had to go and watch Selena's documentary to truly know her words and to understand them, I really understand her now, her pain her disease... everything. She is the most strong woman I ever seen ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    @yayaa4124@yayaa41243 ай бұрын
  • Love Selena Gomez , As a person she is helping a lot of people

    @UnitePop@UnitePop Жыл бұрын
  • She is speaking her heart out in a natural way without any filter, n that's amazing.

    @nailarfique3363@nailarfique3363 Жыл бұрын
  • I really loved watching the bond between mom and daughter. It was great to see how they supported and loved each other through the hard times. It was beautiful. ❤

    @jisseidydiaz@jisseidydiaz Жыл бұрын
  • Wow!!! Everything she is saying is legit what I've been going through. Wow... I wouldn't have never known.. I'm currently working with a trauma therapist.. and she honestly just made me cry because I do not know who can relate to me... Bipolar and extra things... Are not easy to deal with. Learning to live with it, befriending the demons while silencing others. She's a true hero. I don't wanna sound cliche. But I'm grateful to have watched this podcast. Thank you!

    @ladyhush_@ladyhush_ Жыл бұрын
  • I love Selena, and ive been getting really into Jays videos, so i knew this one would be good. I'm ready to love myself the way ive always deserved but never had. Its hard to love yourself when you dont even know what that feels like, but its worth chasing.

    @boobare5792@boobare579211 ай бұрын
  • Jay, you are such a great listener and communicator. Selena was spoken to with such reverence and honor as she deserves. This helps so many with mental illness and it takes such courage to speak about this.

    @CarpeDiem_Advising@CarpeDiem_Advising Жыл бұрын
  • This is so powerful and gets more relatable with every minute that goes by. It’s not only reflective but hopeful, light hearted at points and most importantly, it’s intentional ❤️

    @danellepillay5888@danellepillay5888 Жыл бұрын
  • I clicked on this because I already knew Selena is a gift, on the path to her destiny. Like I have always been amazed by- its the younger ppl bringing more than they were given. It's a wonderful thing. Keep sharing the real, so many ppl need that right now!

    @michelefarnese1274@michelefarnese1274 Жыл бұрын
  • This was a fantastic episode! Thank you so much Selena and Mom! I’m so grateful for sharing your lives and experiences with us. Thank you, Jay as well! Such an amazing interviewer. We could all take a lesson in active listening from you!

    @yukieaparsley335@yukieaparsley335 Жыл бұрын
  • Knowing yourself for all that you are is not an easy process and can be very painful but also freeing and healing. She is such an inspiration and her genuineness is admirable.

    @LadyKaye79@LadyKaye79 Жыл бұрын
  • The way she is saying thank you like a little baby for every compliment she’s getting 🥺😍♥️ Each and every single word she speaks is so meaningful and inspiring ♥️

    @ama8237@ama8237 Жыл бұрын
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