Ask a Psychopath - What is your background?

2024 ж. 9 Мам.
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What is your background, and how did you come to realize that you had psychopathy?
psychopathyis.org/
Confessions of a Sociopath: A Life Spent Hiding in Plain Sight
by M.E. Thomas
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  • Best part about this is she literally could not give a shit about anything we say.

    @thereligion4169@thereligion41692 жыл бұрын
    • Funny, I think I understand why this comment was popular, be so nice not to care what others think right? In real life they are monsters, BTDT. This woman needs to play it up in a palatable way that people somehow "respect" her. She is selling a video and books.

      @daviderickennedy2194@daviderickennedy219410 ай бұрын
    • Based on the fact she doesn't care what I say, I've got a lot to say believe me! I can't stand the fact these well intentioned materials completely downplay the massive potential for violence and abuse that is ever present in psychopathy. I appreciate not every psychopath has completed those actions to an illegal degree, and that many without psychopathy have. The point though, is that if a psychopath commits violence or abuse they are guaranteed to have zero emotion about it, be more prolific in those actions, be completely unresponsive to any law enforcement methods of controlling such behaviours, be very unlikely to stop due to zero empathy, guilt, anxiety or conscience about it plus very high levels of dopamine when committing such acts. Those are some pretty strong risk factors, and 30% of the prison population (approx) have psychopathy versus just 1% in the general populous - that's the ones who get caught, and there is a much a higher likelihood that psychopathic criminals won't get caught due to high IQ attributes plus planning and lack of emotional response. That is significant, so please stop cotton candying this disorder like we're being judgemental to think of these things.. how horrible of us. NO just no.

      @lizjane1349@lizjane13499 ай бұрын
    • Exactly. So, when I say that psychopaths should be aborted or euthanized, the only people that will get upset are normies; not the psychopaths themselves

      @nightmareofsolomon@nightmareofsolomon8 ай бұрын
    • @@lizjane1349 I'm not sure who is cotton candying anything here, or who this comment is directed against. Sociopathy is a serious set of problems, I'm not sure that anyone denies this. However, I think it is valuable when people who have serious personality disorders (sociopathy, narcissism, borderline, etc.) can be open about it, so that better therapies and social structures can be developed to help them live better and engage in less hurtful behavior. It would be better not to have the personality disorder, but given lack of a cure, it's good to do evidence-based damage control.

      @Megaritz@Megaritz8 ай бұрын
    • @@daviderickennedy2194 at least with her she is a monster that is not afraid to hide behind a mask

      @theinventor7027@theinventor70278 ай бұрын
  • I love that there’s upbeat prescription commercial music in the background while someone describes what it’s like being a psychopath. Lol.

    @commandermillander2201@commandermillander22018 ай бұрын
    • 😂😂

      @pro-socialsociopath769@pro-socialsociopath7694 ай бұрын
    • so strange! first thing I noticed as well

      @kessmybutt@kessmybutt3 ай бұрын
    • I think because most people that are listening to her.😵‍💫...and we need the music to calm us or distract from her story.

      @nickycalvert2602@nickycalvert26023 ай бұрын
    • it's a bit of a stretch to mention this here because the channel I'm mentioning isn't *strictly* psychopathic (a little more lunatic in its own way I suppose) but if you love this, you should love these @skycorphomevideo xD

      @n3v3r1s4@n3v3r1s43 ай бұрын
    • Hahaha right?

      @aretee3@aretee32 ай бұрын
  • A lawyer? Perfect career for her 👌🏽

    @sharingan847@sharingan8472 жыл бұрын
    • No jokes, it is.

      @mikhailklimov3289@mikhailklimov328910 ай бұрын
    • #2 after CEO

      @jaimeheard9202@jaimeheard92029 ай бұрын
    • Psychopath: Lying? What's that?!

      @Christrulesall2@Christrulesall26 ай бұрын
    • @@Christrulesall2 sounds like a career. 😆

      @sharingan847@sharingan8476 ай бұрын
    • CFO waiting for an opening o throw the CEO under the bus.@@jaimeheard9202

      @Christrulesall2@Christrulesall24 ай бұрын
  • The combination of her cheery attitude and the upbeat music are hilarious.

    @oopeeScoops@oopeeScoops6 ай бұрын
    • BUWAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

      @jasreallySUCCS@jasreallySUCCS3 ай бұрын
    • Like a job interview presentation or something like this. "Here now become a psychopath with this training course."

      @Muck-qy2oo@Muck-qy2oo26 күн бұрын
    • They're trying to normalize it

      @user-yw8qf8cc3t@user-yw8qf8cc3t18 күн бұрын
  • I guess this is why ethics classes exist for lawyers.

    @Maxime_K-G@Maxime_K-G4 ай бұрын
    • Do you really think ethics classes can change sb personality? I don’t think so.

      @kamilaktulu9045@kamilaktulu90453 ай бұрын
    • @@kamilaktulu9045 I would hope so... But yeah, I always thought it was a bit ironic. Couldn't believe it actually when I first heard about it.

      @Maxime_K-G@Maxime_K-G3 ай бұрын
    • They don't work

      @misterhair66@misterhair663 ай бұрын
    • ​@kamilaktulu9045 lmao do you think ethics is about changing personality? Ethics is literally science of rational decision making in hopes for ethical or good result. Nothing mvm

      @whateverimake9350@whateverimake93502 ай бұрын
    • @@kamilaktulu9045 i don't think it needs to change the personality to be effective. by changing it into a rational decision making you can make it understandable for psychopaths as well

      @asdfghyter@asdfghyter2 ай бұрын
  • “I asked what’s empathy, and he started describing it, and I thought yea I definitely don’t do this” 🤣🤣🤣🤣 she’s fkn hilarious dude I like her. She spitting facts.

    @WarriorMindandBody@WarriorMindandBody3 ай бұрын
  • Is it just me or do u notice in all her interviews that 90% of the time she is looking away from the camera when she speaks.

    @valeriehoule5300@valeriehoule53002 жыл бұрын
    • A little spooky

      @nesanerves9197@nesanerves919710 ай бұрын
    • Actually I think she is just recalling past events, but I am not a specialist. Also looking at the camera is weird, if you never done that.

      @0xAdam_@0xAdam_10 ай бұрын
    • I was fascinated by her eye-accessing cues. Assuming the video isn't inverted (a good assumption when working off film or video), then 90% of her eye movements are to the right side which is 'construction/abstraction' rather than left side which is 'recall/access'. This was an immediate data point for me because even when she's talking about things that sound like they should be "remembered" (more upper/mid-left) and she's locked hard over to the right. Very interesting.

      @liamsouthwell27@liamsouthwell279 ай бұрын
    • She is looking to the books in the shelf. They are her best friends who help her through her crisis.

      @rufuscollins2834@rufuscollins28349 ай бұрын
    • @@liamsouthwell27 This body language analysis stuff is bogus pseudoscience.

      @Megaritz@Megaritz8 ай бұрын
  • I am glad she is "harmless". Her smile on the other hand is scary. Greetings from UK

    @JakubMarilyn@JakubMarilyn2 жыл бұрын
    • Kind of sarcastic, they are very good actors and play anything they want except very complex emothional like cry (looks very scary as many details very wrong).

      @AABB-px8lc@AABB-px8lc4 ай бұрын
    • Watch the other parts. She ain't harmless.

      @poopsmcgee2k6@poopsmcgee2k63 ай бұрын
    • ​@@AABB-px8lcJesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent to be saved.

      @IloveJesus777j77@IloveJesus777j77Ай бұрын
    • ​@@poopsmcgee2k6Jesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent to be saved.

      @IloveJesus777j77@IloveJesus777j77Ай бұрын
  • That joker smile of her. No wonder she went to law school.

    @Dannyzuko92@Dannyzuko922 жыл бұрын
    • Jesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent to be saved.

      @IloveJesus777j77@IloveJesus777j77Ай бұрын
  • The background ‘muzak’ feels painfully inappropriate here haha

    @hairo71@hairo714 ай бұрын
  • It's great to hear the honesty because it sheds light on things we really can't understand with our own thinking we need to take their word for it

    @suewoo5@suewoo510 ай бұрын
    • Don't trust her, psychopaths can never be fully honest, Life is literally like a video game to them, and people are like NPCs to them, they will use and dispose on need to use basics!!

      @varunpathak2678@varunpathak26788 ай бұрын
    • @@varunpathak2678 nobody can be fully honest it is not just psychopaths that lie

      @theinventor7027@theinventor70278 ай бұрын
    • Wait? Why can't you understand with your own thinking? I could understand her perfectly with my own thinking

      @jwilleseries7764@jwilleseries77646 ай бұрын
    • I would take her word and appreciate her honesty however I wouldn’t trust her because you never know what there capable of and sadly a lawyer with no empathy or compassion so it would be terrible for someone to hire her and have her in court for a case because she lacks empathy to the core crying can be both negative or positive depending on the person.

      @selinaogorman8380@selinaogorman83805 ай бұрын
    • @@selinaogorman8380 Honestly, you just convinced me that she is an excellent lawyer because she won't let guilty people get out of thier punishment they deserve by crying so I would prefer her as a lawyer becuase she does not let emotions cloud her work

      @jwilleseries7764@jwilleseries77645 ай бұрын
  • I swear to God i'd stay away from this woman 500 feet.

    @trandat4@trandat49 ай бұрын
  • She's nowhere near as bad as I've seen. She at least seems interested in the fact that she may be a psychopath. My experience with a psychopath is that she knew very well she enjoyed hurting ppl. So much that she tricked ppl into thinking she was kind and had no idea she was abusive. That way she could keep her victims stuck. This woman actually genuinely seems clueless that she's hurting ppl. There's a difference.

    @nicolii7321@nicolii73219 ай бұрын
    • Well psychopaths aren't born with the same emotions as us so that's why I think she seemed so clueless about "hurting" people

      @ParmyJan@ParmyJan9 ай бұрын
    • Read this lady's book... she seduced her female coworker and abused her until she became skeletal and lost her hair, then months later wrote a heartfelt email "apologizing," gleefully caused her to breakup with her girlfriend, then nonchalantly describes how that woman tried to kill herself many times. Every psychopath does this. When they say they manipulate people, believe them

      @hgbgakdflndbz6921@hgbgakdflndbz69218 ай бұрын
    • @@hgbgakdflndbz6921 thanks for sharing. That's so disturbing

      @ParmyJan@ParmyJan8 ай бұрын
    • @@ParmyJan Empathy is not just feeling with others but also being able to understand what other people are feeling, thus it is easy to hide your emotions from a psycopath and that is good to know when dealing with a malignant psycopath

      @jwilleseries7764@jwilleseries77644 ай бұрын
    • Probably manipulating...? I guess

      @emanuelevasina1813@emanuelevasina18134 ай бұрын
  • Thank you for sharing all of this. I´ve seen the 5 chapters. Thank you because it helps others to understand people like you. It´s a very valuable thing when you can´t understand why some people act so different and how they are able to do it with no remorse. I hope you find your way to happiness. Thanks again for being so brave.

    @asturiasrobocop1341@asturiasrobocop13419 ай бұрын
    • Definitely agree, she did a very brave and useful thing. She's probably helped many people understand this and ultimately do better for each other 👍🏾

      @petor95@petor954 ай бұрын
    • You just took a psychopath's story as truth... @@petor95

      @doofsdoofs@doofsdoofs4 ай бұрын
  • I swear you can always tell if someone’s a psychopath by looking at their eyes. I have no idea how to even describe it but I feel like it’s almost nature’s way of trying to give us clues to avoid predators. Kinda like how you can sense someone’s staring at you even if you’re not looking at them. I can imagine being alone in a room with her would feel super intense

    @laurenj6771@laurenj67716 ай бұрын
    • exactly, in childhood (4-10 yrs) was very upset by few actors, get goosebumps, hearthbeat, just like wave throu skin ( they playing evil in movies), and few years ago i finally got it. Eyes moves exactly same as my mom. I suspect i have similar as learned, that strange "stops" not related to what she say. Now I absolutely sure they are psycho, I read books, actor colleges describe they have very strange things like laugh in case of dramatic event or do very disgusting jokes just with ppl on streets even kids.

      @AABB-px8lc@AABB-px8lc4 ай бұрын
    • Stop listening to what your beloved narcissistic Media is telling you about psychopathy. Psychopaths are not necessarily "predators", "sadists", etc. Many of them just perceive the world like a chess game defined by critical thinking skills as opposed to an emotional journey defined by interpersonal connection. Again: consider the fact that you -- I am sure -- are an advocate for the fellow Cluster B personality type of Narcissistic Personality, as that personality type is heavily embraced and encouraged by American culture. In many ways, narcissists can also be predators. What makes narcissistic behavior moral, precisely?

      @TheCerebralNarcissist@TheCerebralNarcissist3 ай бұрын
    • @@TheCerebralNarcissist Narcissistic behavior shouldn’t be celebrated or embraces. Not every person with a cluster B personality disorder is a predator, but they all have the potential to be which is why certain traits make people weary as avoiding potential predators is an instinct many creatures have. Just like to many small animals, we human beings are predators. Does that mean every single one of us is going to hurt a bunny rabbit or chipmunk or bird we pass by? No, but because the animals have no way of knowing which ones of us are good or bad, they view us all as potential threats until we have proven ourselves as trustworthy

      @laurenj6771@laurenj67713 ай бұрын
    • Can tell Bipolar mania with the eyes too

      @skycloud4802@skycloud48023 ай бұрын
    • @@TheCerebralNarcissist they are dangerous still. they will absolutely use you for their own gains and your harm if they get the chance. i don't know why you would think people are advocates for Cluster B Narcissistic Personality though? I am certainly not

      @asdfghyter@asdfghyter2 ай бұрын
  • Say what you want, but her blunt honesty is refreshing, but that lack of empathy/emotion is very unsettling.

    @ripley7t429@ripley7t4294 ай бұрын
  • "When they cry I get angry" So you DO have feelings.

    @stevietricks4954@stevietricks49542 жыл бұрын
    • They do experience all emotions except guilt or remorse, empathy and fear. Anger/rage is one of their more heightened emotions and is harder for them to manage, generally speaking.

      @zilch2653@zilch265310 ай бұрын
    • @@zilch2653They don't feel sadness either. They only feel two out of four basic emotions.

      @MarshallTheArtist@MarshallTheArtist10 ай бұрын
    • @MarshallTheArtist. They do fell sadness bruh.

      @rosabengali@rosabengali7 ай бұрын
    • A psychopath feels emotions, just not in relation to how other people feel or how they make them feel. So they might get angry when somebody pushes them but they can't feel that same anger when they see someone else getting pushed. Nor will they feel guilt after gaving pushed someone themselves

      @tastyDungeon@tastyDungeon7 ай бұрын
    • I would surmise she is bothered by others crying because she does not cry.

      @HighSpeedNoDrag@HighSpeedNoDrag3 ай бұрын
  • i kinda love her self awareness and honesty about all these things that we consider very shameful, and that she knows she might be better off hiding.

    @eelco8800@eelco88002 ай бұрын
  • This is a great video. I’ve always been curious about how other peoples brains work 99% of the population our brains work differently but it doesn’t mean that there’s a true way perceiving reality.

    @exploreinglife4240@exploreinglife42402 жыл бұрын
    • So you‘re saying it‘s not true that 99% of brains work „differently“, since we can‘t „truly“ perceive reality?

      @TheRaveJunkie@TheRaveJunkie3 ай бұрын
  • You can tell right away, at least I can, that there's something off when she talks. The expression in her eyes is not fully in sync with the way she smiles and moves her face.

    @europeanguy8773@europeanguy87734 ай бұрын
  • I'm curious that her colleague told her she might be a sociopath. I've known people who I am pretty sure are sociopaths and _wouldn't dream_ of telling them.

    @theovolz3073@theovolz30733 ай бұрын
  • It's good to be self aware even if you're cray cray.

    @michaelking4578@michaelking45783 ай бұрын
    • U think we just, decide, to be like that?

      @that-one-guy4747@that-one-guy47473 ай бұрын
  • Her eye shift is to the extreme right when recalling stories from the past

    @daveyork0@daveyork03 ай бұрын
  • This is pretty fascinating stuff. It's not like you cross some magic line and then you're quote-unquote "a psychopath." She just has a collection of traits and tendencies that, together, push her out to the fringes of humanity instead of closer to the middle. She's self-aware enough to be able to look at those tendencies objectively and realize that's she's not like other people. She also understands that something is going on with other people, internally, and that she'll never experience that thing (and can't really relate to it), but that it's closer to "normal" than whatever she is. I heard a story about a professor who gave his class a test for psychopathy and he also took the test (just for fun), and when the results came back there was only one obvious psychopath in the class, and it turned out to be him. And he had a stable life with a wife, children, etc. But he described a mindset very similar to this individual.

    @mikec3756@mikec37562 ай бұрын
  • She's a lawyer - of course she is, its the one job someone like her would be most qualified for.

    @toucansam3@toucansam33 ай бұрын
  • So good , in my opinion, being able to articulate and very brave to speak about. people who suffer from this more than often dodge and disassociate themselves from this problem probably to protect the ego or from previous trauma. This very helpful I think for those people having this and those that care for them . Ie family , friends. I’m not formally educated on this subject and hopefully I could articulate clearly. Best of everything to all. The end

    @bottomsupbass@bottomsupbassАй бұрын
  • Crying is a manipulative tactic omg

    @user-sd8ux3vz3v@user-sd8ux3vz3v2 жыл бұрын
    • It is well known and established fact. Babies cry to get what they want. Adults cry for different reasons, but the point still stands.

      @TomasPetkevicius94@TomasPetkevicius9410 ай бұрын
    • ​@@OceaNOfficialAcc Indeed. Due to different brain chemistry to her this seems like a fact.

      @TomasPetkevicius94@TomasPetkevicius949 ай бұрын
    • Sometimes crying is a manipulative tactic.

      @EMYoutube1225@EMYoutube12259 ай бұрын
    • It can be manipulative… sure… But I’ve made sure I was alone and that no one was around when I broke down crying about my dog dying - and I’ve cried maybe twice in the last 20 years. So it seems to be a bit more complicated than that

      @jimmythe-gent@jimmythe-gent7 ай бұрын
    • Sometimes crying can be manipulative sometimes to it can also be because of betrayal and heartbreak yes sadly a sociopath and a psychopath wouldn’t understand because they lack empathy and sympathy so on this level they won’t understand I have had several things happened to me I got betrayed and lost people I love due to death so for a normal person like myself it really hurts so yes it’s a real raw emotion and I cry because a scene to a movie made me cry both good and sad it’s due to high empathy so definitely psychopaths and sociopaths will have a difficult time understanding these emotions until maybe they become more self aware!

      @selinaogorman8380@selinaogorman83805 ай бұрын
  • This is Gold.

    @akiratheastronaut@akiratheastronaut3 ай бұрын
  • To be honest it sounds like a really honest and healthy management of relationships and self-awareness. Not having the capacity or desire to engage in a social situation and not making excuses or petty lies about it sounds like a better world.

    @MesKizo@MesKizo2 ай бұрын
  • My ex husband is like this but far more lethal. Thanks for the confirmation. It explains so much.

    @psalmsreader7997@psalmsreader79973 ай бұрын
    • oh

      @noma_es_sebas@noma_es_sebas3 ай бұрын
  • Psychopaths can only cry for themselves.

    @mommom3172@mommom317210 ай бұрын
    • They cry from anger , frustrations ,not sadness

      @SRBOMBONICA86@SRBOMBONICA869 ай бұрын
  • Man you can tell she's thinking to make sense and rationalize her actions - based on societal expectations. Quick on her feet to make an argument that we can all somewhat understand.

    @VA-ie4qq@VA-ie4qq7 ай бұрын
  • A lawyer, California. It all makes sense now.

    @Jayzilla-jr4fr@Jayzilla-jr4fr3 ай бұрын
    • It doesn't, but whatever helps you spread your propaganda, right?

      @purplemist7@purplemist72 ай бұрын
  • 3:45 This was a perfect example of how Psychopaths can come across just moronic rather than malevolent. She is expressing a profound stupidity of a simple concept within the world around her and she’s not embarrassed or alerted by this weakness…she reacts with dismay, just stuck in an unsolvable puzzle that most kindergartners could grasp. More than superficial charm, the biggest red flag I notice when interacting with someone with these traits is how profoundly stupid they can come across in relation to their education or profession. This is amplified because they have so little understanding of their deficiencies, interactions are peppered with a startling experience of disinhibited idiocy coming from the psychopath even when the expressed purpose of the interaction demands the psychopath presenting with the upmost competence. Like a meeting with an attorney. Ironically, Neuro typicals would likely have enough empathy to understand that they need to do “the more dishonest” thing and conceal their true anti social reactions. Maybe present a false compassion, empathy or priority to another.

    @onemysore6120@onemysore61206 ай бұрын
    • It’s not really stupidity, they were just born without empathy a Nuro typical toddler was born with empathy so of course they can conceptualize what to do.

      @edanridge3023@edanridge30236 ай бұрын
    • @@edanridge3023 it can accurately be described as stupidity since they lack the intellectual capability to understand something that is simple to a normal person it's not like she has to feel emotion to understand (on an intellectual level) the concept of mourning, yet she still couldn't get it

      @DevinDTV@DevinDTV3 ай бұрын
    • @@DevinDTV its not stupidity, its annoyance. she understands mourning. she just doesnt like it and wants to distance herself from it. its like someone who is bleeding. do you want blood all over your shirt ? no. you just walk away and avoid the issue. its stupid to assume someone with an IQ much higher than yours is stupid.

      @ysesq@ysesq3 ай бұрын
  • She's a psychopath. And if that wasn't bad enough, she's a lawyer!!!

    @quasarvillenights3266@quasarvillenights32663 ай бұрын
  • It’s good she’s learned to recognise her condition

    @Jordysegs89@Jordysegs896 ай бұрын
    • Probably just because she sees an advantage in that.

      @ojjoooooo@ojjoooooo4 ай бұрын
  • i have way too much empathy. if she wants some im happy to share...

    @harrybellingham98@harrybellingham984 ай бұрын
  • The first thing I thought of when starting this video was this makes total sense. I’ve seen psychopathy in quite a few wealthy and successful people. Although she does come off as if she takes great pride in her psychopathy as a justification of her successful career.

    @DoctorPlay@DoctorPlayАй бұрын
  • I taught myself to cry as little girl because my mum screamed at me for not crying when Old Yeller died. I was like geeze it's just a movie.

    @user-wl8yu7hi1h@user-wl8yu7hi1h8 ай бұрын
    • my mom never cried, just imitated, it is awful and literally scary. She trying to pretend. Dont do it, it have no sense, nerve "waves" sequence so complex you never do it proper way. Just please be gentle with ppl, at least I know you are not evil in general, just do not understand few things you see.

      @AABB-px8lc@AABB-px8lc4 ай бұрын
  • Bro it's so scary and fun to watch at the same time, I wonder how the relationship with colleagues are since she's openly psychopatic. I guess if she is still employed that maybe people around her have been able to make negotiations with her

    @emanuelevasina1813@emanuelevasina18134 ай бұрын
    • my mom is same, I thing i can describe how it looks from colleges POV. Very bright boss workaholic, when she come everyone get double check is is ok to maximally decrease chance she note something wrong. Dont even mind do something you should half way or slow, punishment is just unavoidavle. NO mercy, literally, but not to bull someone but by usual professional workflow, like biorobot. If her workflow is cut head it will be cut in time and with quality (literally, psycho dont give a shit about feelings, instructions says - she do). She best mate if you talk about arts, painting, music, cariere, ballet, sinigers, but dont even try to ask about cute dancing hungry kittens or crying kid or someone illness .

      @AABB-px8lc@AABB-px8lc4 ай бұрын
  • Dude, I was DYING when she talked about making a joke about the little disabled kid 🤣🤣🤣 This woman has a higher level of self-awareness than most people, I'd ride stolen bikes with her!

    @therealspindoctor2593@therealspindoctor25933 ай бұрын
    • I want to know what the joke is.

      @AutomaticDuck300@AutomaticDuck3003 ай бұрын
    • Another psychopath spotted, scary that these things live among us

      @DuendeCaughtOnTape@DuendeCaughtOnTape3 ай бұрын
    • ​@@DuendeCaughtOnTapenot a psychopath, just some edgy child

      @user-bp3lg4gv3m@user-bp3lg4gv3m3 ай бұрын
    • @@DuendeCaughtOnTape 1% is 1%. We come across them more than we think.

      @Michael-qh1ip@Michael-qh1ipАй бұрын
    • ​@@DuendeCaughtOnTapeJesus is coming back. Believe He died for your sins and rose again then repent to be saved.For it is written, As I live, says the Lord, every knee shall bow to Me, and every tongue shall confess to God [acknowledge Him to His honor and to His praise].

      @IloveJesus777j77@IloveJesus777j77Ай бұрын
  • High functioning

    @AtticTapes14@AtticTapes142 жыл бұрын
  • Find it weird she doesn't like looking at the camera. She'll look for only a few seconds but otherwise she looks off to the left. Weird.

    @PhantomKaratOfficial@PhantomKaratOfficial2 ай бұрын
  • Jamie Lund/ Townsend

    @AtticTapes14@AtticTapes142 жыл бұрын
  • grad school is rife w these wonderful characters

    @-kBSplnp@-kBSplnp3 ай бұрын
  • why on earth 5 videos of few minutes instead of one video lasting about 20 min?

    @waimar5457@waimar5457Ай бұрын
  • So why do they seek revenge on people who crossed them if they genuinely don’t care about anything? I know life is a game to them since there’s nothing else more interesting to do. But what’s their motivation behind seeking out revenge under certain circumstances when it’s irrelevant to achieving their goals and they can’t process anger.

    @TerriJoe4638@TerriJoe46384 ай бұрын
    • they are very cary about anything except empathy, shame and conscience, dont misunderstand. Usually same brain area responce for pain level, and they are have very high pain threshold (my mum literally barely care she broke her arm, and dont give a sht when I broke arm as kid on ski 40 yeras ago "you say it hurts? Cmon, dont play drama queen, go hospital yourself and stop nod"). She is not evil, just thinks other ppl same like she is and cannot believe we have pain. Thay are very smart and useful, help many ppl (if instruction say they must). But, if she see someone intentionally do something wrong to her, she go "Monte Cristo" mode (btw, one of her prefer books), like do anything, even many years think plan, collect information, prepare scene and strike. In my case, only by words, hopefully.

      @AABB-px8lc@AABB-px8lc4 ай бұрын
  • Thank you; this was very interesting and enlighten! The only thing that made a bit irritated was the music. Why is it music? Such a interesting subject could be without background music because the topic talks for itself. If you are from outside America and English is not first language then you really want to hear what the person has to say; she talks fast enough anyway... Thank you for this big information!

    @namaste2305@namaste23053 ай бұрын
  • I am a narcissist. I knew I had issues with people all the time and I genuinely blamed other people for a long time. Eventually, I realised that it had to be me. I have some help and I read a lot and studied a lot on narcissism and it was awful as it all unfolded. I'm the sort of narcissist with low self-esteem. I thought I had low self-esteem because my father treated me very badly as a child and so I just thought I needed to feel secure in relationships. I do care massively what others think of me and so because of that I never considered I was a narcissist. I thought narcissists thought they were better than everyone and didn't care what anyone thought about them. I didn't know narcissists can have incredibly fragile egos and this is why I feel like I'm a victim of other people. Really they are not hurting me, I just think they are. Finding out really helped as I now know what to look for. I know when I am manipulating others but it is still my go-to behaviour. I don't date anymore as I don't want to hurt any more women. Emotionally not physically hurt them. I'm very lonely and suicidal but I don't think I will kill myself. Thinking about suicide all the time and having grandiose thoughts about my life and things that are all part of it. I know people hate narcissists. This makes me sad. I am human and I want to be loved. It's very difficult as everyone goes away. They eventually see me as I do not see myself. I was attractive and dated a lot of women and I even understand now that my lack of inhibitions is a part of it. I did experience what is called a narcissistic collapse. A realisation that I am not really important to anyone but myself and that I have nothing and am nothing. But I cannot tell someone "I'm a narcissist but I am trying to be better". So I cannot have friends or lovers. I'm going to die alone. But I also know people don't feel sorry for narcissists. Fck me! I was just being manipulative right there. See it? It's hilarious as I didn't mean to start being manipulative but then I saw it as I was doing it. That is so crazy. That is what I'm talking about. I was being honest and then started trying to manipulate you the reader into feeling sorry for me. What a piece of crap I am. Yep, I need to be alone.

    @AnyoneCanSee@AnyoneCanSee4 ай бұрын
    • This is out of place attention-seeking behavior in a KZhead comments section, see a therapist.

      @doofsdoofs@doofsdoofs4 ай бұрын
    • Realising you have npd is very painful because its another massive blow to your ego but if you can survive it you will eventually emerge from the self pity with new resilience and commit to practising listening, gratitude and humility truly as skills. Its extremely difficult. Eventually with help from a skilled therapist you may be able to have compassion for yourself and how you grew up and then possibly learn to have compassion for others . For others reading this, by compassion i pointedly do not mean empathy. Obviously I recommend the book "how to stop being a narcissist" and the series on npd by the youtube channel "borderlinernotes" theres lots of great insight there with more sympathetic approaches for the pwNPD. (Again to others reading this, please dont go there and spout more pop psychology swill about abusive exes because we are sick of reading it. Npd is a traumagenic illness and pwNPD need to have a space to talk about their trauma and issues without being excluded for once. Thanks) Hope that helps. Youre not alone

      @ayembic7933@ayembic79334 ай бұрын
    • I remember hearing a guy said that narcissists are formed two ways. One way they became a narcissist is they were just born that way , but the other more interesting reason is they may have been neglected or worse as a child, so as a ‘defense’ the brain would provide itself with artificial validation instead of the normal healthy way of receiving some externally for doing good things that actually help people or provide real value. He could be wrong but it made sense.

      @user-oy9zy4ds9m@user-oy9zy4ds9m4 ай бұрын
    • ​@@doofsdoofsThat's pretty much what he just frickin said my dude!! 🤣🤣☠️

      @DeviantBris4nce@DeviantBris4nce4 ай бұрын
    • If he's cognitively aware of the fact that he shouldn't be posting it, he shouldn't post it. That's pretty much what I just frickin said my dude!! 🤣🤣☠ If you're aware that you shouldn't post something mid-typing, it shouldn't be posted. Not a hard concept to grasp-delete the post. @@DeviantBris4nce

      @doofsdoofs@doofsdoofs4 ай бұрын
  • I once tried to act this way to a doctor since i have theater classes. They froze up. One asked a other to check for a PD. Behaviour confirmed 😂

    @Vilematrix@Vilematrix18 күн бұрын
  • You are as described

    @c.j.7593@c.j.75936 ай бұрын
  • That is one creepy smile she maintained though out the video

    @howdidwegethere4616@howdidwegethere46166 ай бұрын
  • dafuck 100% my mom. In every sentence. Especially crying. Thanks for sharing. She is not evil, just not understand what is cry and sometime curioisly observed me (like kid looking at cool bug, gently touching it to se does it continue to crawl or open wings and fly away), in worst case trying to shame me like I am imitating to get some privileges.

    @AABB-px8lc@AABB-px8lc4 ай бұрын
  • she was smiling while explaining how she couldn't handle her friend being too emotional about her dad dying. damn, i'm like here with no friends.

    @MrHmongrice@MrHmongrice3 ай бұрын
  • bruh, my ex girlfriend had this thing about hating when people were crying too, thinking they would be trying to manipulate her even though it's obvious they were just upset.

    @naelpontes8444@naelpontes84447 ай бұрын
    • That shit is sooo weird to me. I knew a person like that too. Somebody could be soul crushingly crying and they thought it was manipulation. How sick can one be

      @anayarey7865@anayarey78652 ай бұрын
  • I believe there’s a great miscommunication here about what a psychopath is and what a sociopath is. Starting with the claim that she (a self-proclaimed psychopath) wrote a book titled “confessions of a sociopath “. These two are very different from each other.

    @andreirodin2061@andreirodin2061Ай бұрын
  • So I found these videos a few months ago. At the time I was coming to terms with the reality that I'm a narcissist. I was wondering if I might have antisocial personality disorder and when I watched these videos I said, ya I can relate to a lot of this but I definitely have the ability to feel fear so there's no way I'm a psychopath. Cut to present moment, I'm convinced I'm a sociopath and I'm trying to get a psychological evaluation to find out. These videos helped me a lot to understand what antisocial personality disorder is. I'm hoping to have the evaluation soon and I'm excited and nervous to see what the doctors say. At this point I would be shocked if they said I don't have it. But I'm literally a crazy person so what do I know.

    @bornmad_diemad@bornmad_diemad10 ай бұрын
    • Keep us updated

      @fran791@fran7919 ай бұрын
    • You feel fear ???that's VERY rare for sociopathy

      @SRBOMBONICA86@SRBOMBONICA869 ай бұрын
    • @@SRBOMBONICA86 interestingly enough, it's psychopaths that usually can't feel fear. Psychopaths are born with an inability to feel certain human emotions. It could be because of physical characteristics of their brain or body that makes them unable to feel fear, remorse, regret, or empathy. Sociopaths, on the other hand, are born with more normal emotional capabilities but, because of trauma, develope an inability to feel certain emotions. I was intensely traumatized for my entire childhood and into my adulthood. I can't feel guilt, I rarely feel remorse, but I have an anxiety disorder and I feel fear almost constantly. I just went and had a psychological evaluation today to find out if I have ASPD. I would be surprised if they don't think I have it.

      @bornmad_diemad@bornmad_diemad9 ай бұрын
    • @@bornmad_diemad you don't have it ,anxiety is impossible to feel even in ASPD

      @SRBOMBONICA86@SRBOMBONICA869 ай бұрын
    • @@SRBOMBONICA86 that is not true. People with aspd can experience many different emotions, including anxiety. People are complicated. If you're interested in this topic I would encourage you to read from some medical sources about it, you can easily find the diagnostic criteria for aspd online.

      @bornmad_diemad@bornmad_diemad9 ай бұрын
  • Notice her smile seems forced and her eyes don't smile

    @anonymous.2727@anonymous.27277 ай бұрын
    • It is really seductive.

      @warmwatersloth6188@warmwatersloth61885 ай бұрын
    • @@warmwatersloth6188 it's creepy she is smiling but you look at her eyes and they look neutral

      @anonymous.2727@anonymous.27275 ай бұрын
  • Her name's Jamie Lund, but I think she now used the name Townsend. She's right that psychopaths find emotions burdensome. I knew at least three kids growing up who had all the traits of psychopathy, and they all found other people's emotions annoying.

    @MondoBeno@MondoBeno3 ай бұрын
  • Professor

    @AtticTapes14@AtticTapes142 жыл бұрын
  • This woman is amazingly reflective. She understands that she's an outlier. A fascinating examination. It's like she's searching for wisdom.

    @randolphpinkle4482@randolphpinkle44823 ай бұрын
    • I really hope she never has a child or partner, she seems aware enough to know that wouldn’t work though

      @chelseaweber3311@chelseaweber33113 ай бұрын
  • Well at least she's not a killer psychopath those are a totally different breed altogether

    @GuardianAngel..@GuardianAngel..12 күн бұрын
  • Yeah, she's in the 99th percentile. Smartest person sitting in that chair.

    @Supertzar999@Supertzar9993 ай бұрын
  • Whoever choose the background music is definitely trying to make me a psychopath 😂

    @vivalavideoable@vivalavideoable2 ай бұрын
  • The lawyer friend diagnosed her like a professional must be a lot of them among the lawyer friends.

    @irmavanguard4097@irmavanguard40972 ай бұрын
  • Psychopaths always think they are much smarter than they actually are because of their inherent narcissism. Shes smarter than most and is able to manipulate easily. The avoidant eye gaze is interesting.

    @ian7033-qj9wg@ian7033-qj9wg3 ай бұрын
  • This actually looks like a mockumentary

    @fooldel12@fooldel123 ай бұрын
  • She is charming too, they say that is also a trait. She is very frank here. If i was in a lot of trouble and needed a lawyer i would probably want a psychopathic lawyer to make sure they do whatever is necessary to get me off!

    @Parasmunt@Parasmunt3 ай бұрын
    • Don’t you realize how "whatever is necessary" sounds like? It‘s almost like you‘d be okay if she, or who ever, did murder to help you.

      @baby_capybara3@baby_capybara33 ай бұрын
    • @@baby_capybara3 Yeah, i guess it was not my intention for the comment to be taken so deep.

      @Parasmunt@Parasmunt3 ай бұрын
  • Shes perfect. ❤

    @kvrma8893@kvrma88933 ай бұрын
  • Me being a huge people pleaser, it's so frustrating to listen to what she's saying.

    @laisa6844@laisa68448 ай бұрын
    • Yes!!!!

      @milamaximova8288@milamaximova82887 ай бұрын
    • Ikr, these are practically opposites on the empathy scale lol

      @naelpontes8444@naelpontes84447 ай бұрын
  • I am a music major 🔥🔥🔥

    @loganjohnson8010@loganjohnson80102 ай бұрын
  • Climate change activists or any activists these days would have a really hard time convincing her about anything.

    @barkleybarkleyy4418@barkleybarkleyy44188 ай бұрын
  • I ❤ law career

    @Blancanieves1996@Blancanieves1996Күн бұрын
  • My problem is I keep trying to get revenge with my dad

    @RyanRiley-zw5lg@RyanRiley-zw5lg8 ай бұрын
  • She at least is being honest and is trying with therapy. I have known people I thought were friends who are nowhere near the level of being aware of their deficiencies... in fact they enjoy them...

    @doris2793@doris2793Ай бұрын
  • What's with the uplifting music?

    @chewyourmilk@chewyourmilk2 ай бұрын
  • shes hilarious

    @Samsoncooperman@Samsoncooperman10 ай бұрын
  • Oh i'm ryan riley i'm a schizophrenic

    @RyanRiley-zw5lg@RyanRiley-zw5lg8 ай бұрын
  • Maybe the real treasure was the tactless jokes we made along the way

    @danielvalle8875@danielvalle88753 ай бұрын
  • I'm confused: "Psychopath" isn't technically a diagnosis, is it? Is this in reference to a diagnosis of Antisocial Personality Disorder, or what?

    @Megaritz@Megaritz8 ай бұрын
    • Psychopaths have a difference in the brain. It's a condition you are born with

      @Ego208@Ego2088 ай бұрын
    • it’s a common synonym, a colloquialism. it’s also to differentiate from sociopathic ASPD, they’re different

      @PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim7 ай бұрын
    • If I’m not mistaken psychopathy is a spectrum and she is completely on one side

      @calmsine7767@calmsine77677 ай бұрын
    • You are both correct and wrong. Psychopathy is on a spectrum, as is almost every malady, but she is far from being an extreme example.

      @paulmaxwell8851@paulmaxwell88514 ай бұрын
  • I've read her book and I remember that she wrote that she's always manipulating people and situations to satisfy her agendas. I have this 'feeling' that she is almost certainly doing that, in this and subsequent episodes. I can 'sense' all the empaths desperately wanting to believe her.

    @Timothy2963@Timothy29633 ай бұрын
  • the eye contact or ack there of

    @classicalmloo1216@classicalmloo12163 ай бұрын
  • And I think I might be a borderline sociopath

    @RyanRiley-zw5lg@RyanRiley-zw5lg8 ай бұрын
    • It is possible to change. I was very selfish when I was young and have learned empathy and consideration. Now it is natural.

      @jamese9283@jamese92834 ай бұрын
    • I disagree as she clearly demonstrates behavior well within the realm of Psychopathy.

      @HighSpeedNoDrag@HighSpeedNoDrag3 ай бұрын
  • Maybe if she wanted to change she could really work on this part of personality. It might be a real revelation if she experienced empathy. it would make her a better person.

    @nidurnevets@nidurnevets4 ай бұрын
  • The real question is, can they love? Can they have a functioning family? Do they love their family members? What feelings do they have?

    @Unexpectedperspectivesnow@Unexpectedperspectivesnow2 ай бұрын
  • My queen

    @j.s3300@j.s33003 ай бұрын
  • says she's in the top 1% of pop for intelligence, but had to look up what a sociopath was.... righto

    @steinanderson9849@steinanderson98493 ай бұрын
    • Intelligence does not equal knowledge. The most intelligent person is not just the one who has memorized the most facts and definitions.

      @baguettegott3409@baguettegott34093 ай бұрын
  • ok so here i am listening to a supposed psychopath with supposedly no empathy talk about her friend's dad dying and so I'm 100% expecting her to straight up laugh when she said "and then he died" and so when she didn't I realized that the sickest thing about this lady is that she is hanging out with and believing the PSYCHOPATHS that have told her that she's a psychopath!

    @tpstrat14@tpstrat14Ай бұрын
  • It seems little surreal with that joyful and lighthearted music playing along in the background. Like - except for this minor detail; everything is OK. 😂🤔 I am glad that she makes and uploads these KZhead-clips though. Holding on to one-dimensional Hannibal Lecter stereotypes does not help.

    @Melker63@Melker63Ай бұрын
  • pfffffffffft cant handle emotion b please i got my genetics all scrambled up you dont know the supernovas and big bangs going on in my head this singularity of emotional baggae that is unwanted meh and yet i smile why because i know there are people even in darkness there is light

    @pktrainerpk5supersus459@pktrainerpk5supersus4595 ай бұрын
  • I like her….

    @winkylife@winkylifeАй бұрын
  • So how a psychopath can be a lawyer?

    @alakey8kg@alakey8kg3 ай бұрын
    • Why wouldn't they be able to? Seems ideal.

      @ThinkInGold@ThinkInGold3 ай бұрын
  • So, is she a sociopath or a psychopath? There is a difference.

    @jsoulas@jsoulasАй бұрын
  • no wonder they blame their victim for all the pain they caused them.

    @VeNuS2910@VeNuS2910Ай бұрын
  • So psychopaths are basically androids?

    @tinypizzas@tinypizzas5 ай бұрын
    • Yes, she seems like a robot.

      @jamese9283@jamese92834 ай бұрын
  • Her background meaning ‘your parents’…she went from a 3 year old pic to college…………🤔🤔🤔🤔

    @nbe4671@nbe4671Ай бұрын
  • I just realized in the past decade that 90% of my family members are friendly smiley psychopaths that are always plotting on people. 💀 She reminds me of my greed aunt who works in finance and has no problem bragging about how she steals money on yhe daily.

    @kasparovthegodofwar@kasparovthegodofwarАй бұрын
  • Can I hire you

    @RyanRiley-zw5lg@RyanRiley-zw5lg8 ай бұрын
  • maybe someone doesn't get hired despite having qualfications and because of this he beats his dog, ¿entiendas? displacement

    @RR_DM@RR_DM3 ай бұрын
  • at least she has learned how to pretend

    @goodtoGoNow1956@goodtoGoNow19564 ай бұрын
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