Science Says Men Need 2 “Guy’s Nights” Per Week To Stay Healthy

2024 ж. 9 Сәу.
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Chris and George The TInmen discuss why men need at least two guys' nights per week for their mental health. What are the benefits of having guys' nights according to George The Tinmen? Why do some women oppose guys' nights according to George The Tinmen?
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    @ChrisWillx@ChrisWillx25 күн бұрын
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      @knowahnosenothing4862@knowahnosenothing486225 күн бұрын
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      @spencerburke3752@spencerburke375224 күн бұрын
    • It makes sense for guys 10-25, and also for men 55-80 but the average man 25-40 having 2 "guy nights" a week would probably end up dead if it was only done in person. because at some point one of the guys is going to suggest something wildly fun, but also wildly dangerous and from 25-40 is 15 years at 2 nights a week thats 1,590 outings atleast 90 of those outings will be near death and if 10% of that is fatal thats 9 times they probably got themselves or a bro killed.

      @jasonu3741@jasonu374124 күн бұрын
  • I'm a father, 45 years old with 2 young daughters. Both my wife and i work full time, we barely get time to tread water with all the household chores etc. My best mate who was best man at our wedding comes over on a Saturday night every 6 weeks or so. He brings his guitar and we sit and have a jam for about 4 hours. This time is so good for me, even though I'm happy with the rest of my life.

    @simonkempthorne4610@simonkempthorne461025 күн бұрын
    • That's awesome! And remember that it's good for your kids to see you relaxed and enjoying your hobbies. It lets them see your human side and sets the foundation for the relationship you'll have when they're all grown.

      @grammaurai6843@grammaurai684324 күн бұрын
    • It makes sense for guys 10-25, and also for men 55-80 but the average man 25-40 having 2 "guy nights" a week would probably end up dead if it was only done in person. because at some point one of the guys is going to suggest something wildly fun, but also wildly dangerous and from 25-40 is 15 years at 2 nights a week thats 1,590 outings atleast 90 of those outings will be near death and if 10% of that is fatal thats 9 times they probably got themselves or a bro killed.

      @jasonu3741@jasonu374124 күн бұрын
    • @@jasonu3741nahh I feel like after 30 men calm down a bit. Their pre frontal cortexes develop enough that they’re aware of risks in that regard. It could get rowdy don’t get me wrong, get them near a fire and all hell could break loose. But with age comes some responsibility for yourself and your family and I think the average man is smarter than that

      @chrisdawson9312@chrisdawson931222 күн бұрын
  • My husband has a night a week with his snooker buddies for last 17 years and he rarely misses it. On Sundays he visits a mate for an hour or so and they help each other out with mechanical jobs when needed. It’s healthy and necessary and I encourage it. I have plenty of girl time and we have couples time and our time. 33 yrs of marriage we’ve learnt we don’t have to be joined at the hip to have a solid relationship.

    @LizB55@LizB5523 күн бұрын
  • Two guys night out a week doesn't have to be anything crazy. My buddies and I did that for years just through a regular long running Dungeons and Dragons game. Kept us all sane.

    @jonrazo7912@jonrazo791225 күн бұрын
    • Twice a week? Damn that's a lot of prep for the DM. I had to limit mine to once every two weeks, just to have enough time to work on the campaign.

      @AulisVaara@AulisVaara5 күн бұрын
    • @@AulisVaara We were a lot younger. I started playing D&D with school friends when I was around 10. I played with the same group pf friends until I was around 35.

      @jonrazo7912@jonrazo79125 күн бұрын
  • Sadly, most guys are horrible at making and keeping guy friends. The moment the guy gets married, he's gone. Only when he realizes later that he needs his bro's, it's too late, cuz those friends have moved on. Guys need to learn how to have genuine friendships that aren't romantic in nature.

    @Arielelian@Arielelian24 күн бұрын
    • Yep your mates will be the ones picking you up off the floor when she leaves.

      @fujohnson8667@fujohnson866724 күн бұрын
  • I realized that i gravitated towards this 2 night a week deal through luck. From out of highschool until i was in my early 20s, i felt way more socially empty than now. I almost never miss my Thursday night game night online with the guys, or our saturday in person D&D sessions. It feels great and I'm glad to have a wife that supports me in that.

    @iody247@iody24725 күн бұрын
  • I love how there’s women on here and the first thing they do is “me, me, me” making it about them. How about just listening and realizing the world doesn’t revolve around you.

    @MAC6.@MAC6.25 күн бұрын
    • But it does revolve around them. Can’t fix it.

      @tommyrq180@tommyrq18024 күн бұрын
    • That's because there is latent narcissism in the majority of women these days .

      @welshpokerman101@welshpokerman10124 күн бұрын
    • ​@@tommyrq180Only in their heads and in those of gynocentric men, not everything is about women. Men can have fun and not think about women.

      @Planeet-Long@Planeet-Long24 күн бұрын
    • I read a bumper sticker on the back of a Tesla that read … no wife happy life. He was at the departure drop off at SeaTac.. Seattle. Hmmm ✈️

      @rossgossman6530@rossgossman653023 күн бұрын
    • Haha sounds like you need a few days off m8

      @user-rn1ws5id8h@user-rn1ws5id8h22 күн бұрын
  • There’s undoubtedly a lot of pressure on men. There’s a lot of pressure on women too. There’s a lot of pressure on relationships. There’s pressure on children. But let’s talk about the bigger problem too. Financial pressures could be somewhat alleviated if we didn’t live in a culture where what you own and image matters. Mental health would improve if we were all weren’t addicted to our phones and screens. Relationship pressures would improve if both people were present and committed to partnership, not their phones. Physical health would improve if our society didn’t keep creating things to make life so easy you don’t have to move. I can control my washing machine from my car for goodness sake. It’s ridiculous. Easy lives make weak people. That’s just a fact. And I’m not saying there aren’t people who have very really difficulties and these solutions don’t apply, there’s definitely more than one crisis situation going on. But let’s go upstream to how we got here in the first place. We mock the old days of gender roles, but families all ate dinner together without a phone and talked. It used to be a village did in fact raise a child, and now you have men and women all alone raising children by themselves without support. We’ve broken down so many systems that helped us all stay healthier in many ways. Women are at the end of their rope now too. It’s so disheartening to sit in a public space and watch humans these days. We are like robots, being controlled by our phones, and what our phones tell us to do, think, and prioritize. It’s time to look up, put down your phone, and face what life really is in front of you and deal with it. Stop running from responsibilities and procrastination.

    @jowiens32@jowiens3225 күн бұрын
    • Damn now thats a comment

      @FormidableOne@FormidableOne24 күн бұрын
    • ​@@FormidableOnethey should go back to School if they wanna write a paper like that! I ain't grading it!

      @WilcoxNotreallythere@WilcoxNotreallythere24 күн бұрын
    • Agreed! One of the best comments I've read on this channel.

      @Go.Bex.@Go.Bex.23 күн бұрын
    • Shush

      @LOGIBEAR01@LOGIBEAR0123 күн бұрын
  • I’m single and between work, the gym, family and trying to turn my passion into my career, I barely have enough time to see my friends once a week. It’s pretty delusional for married men to expect 2 nights to themselves each week.

    @michaelsieger9133@michaelsieger913324 күн бұрын
    • Yeah 2 is too much but once a week seems realistic

      @ivanvidojevic2461@ivanvidojevic246124 күн бұрын
    • When the kids are in bed and when all chores are done.

      @Planeet-Long@Planeet-Long24 күн бұрын
    • ​@@Planeet-Long Sleep is one of the most important factors for health though. If your kids go to bed at 8-10pm and wake up at 6-7am for school or whatever that means you're gonna be barely sleeping... and people wonder why less people are having kids lol the math just doesn't add up

      @pricklycats@pricklycats23 күн бұрын
  • I know 0 women who would be okay with 2 nights a week.

    @dansmith680@dansmith68025 күн бұрын
    • That's why you don't ask and you don't negotiate

      @louiswilliamterminator2887@louiswilliamterminator288724 күн бұрын
    • My wife is fine with it :D

      @CG-fx9bl@CG-fx9bl24 күн бұрын
    • That's okay, you only know a handful anyway.

      @Kris.G@Kris.G24 күн бұрын
    • I know 0 women.

      @Killllian@Killllian24 күн бұрын
    • @@Killllian women aren't real anyway

      @Kris.G@Kris.G24 күн бұрын
  • I met up with some friends back from uni on Monday. Tomorrow, I'm having some friends round for board games. This week I am sorted!

    @Joe-rp8xn@Joe-rp8xn25 күн бұрын
  • If she takes 2-3 hours to get ready to go somewhere she can wait 2-3 hours for me to play some mf video games in my free time.

    @imdevzii@imdevzii25 күн бұрын
    • you have already lost if you are engaging in negotiations like this.

      @wills9732@wills973225 күн бұрын
    • @@wills9732 it’s not a negotiation though, it’s my time to relax. I can spend 2-3 hours a day doing something I love and enjoy if she can do something she loves and enjoys.

      @imdevzii@imdevzii25 күн бұрын
    • ​@@wills9732 yeah, I'd just bail if I ever needed to have these stupid conversations again

      @adrian-dragosbalaban6401@adrian-dragosbalaban640124 күн бұрын
    • Just marry a tomboy, they put on random clothes from their wardrobe and don't wear make-up, it's such a relief to be with a tomboy... Until she starts complaining that you take too long to get ready... 😒

      @Planeet-Long@Planeet-Long24 күн бұрын
    • @@Planeet-Long I’ll pass

      @imdevzii@imdevzii23 күн бұрын
  • I do and have loved so many men in my life from my father, son and husband - and many male best friends. I love male conversations, male greatness from Aristotle, Shakespeare to Einstein. Not only that; who dig our roads, build our cities, fix our plumbing....? Women who hate men need to check their own faults and weaknesses.

    @helenmalinowski4482@helenmalinowski448224 күн бұрын
    • Lol literally biting the hand that feeds them... if men disappeared the entire world would collapse overnight and that's not an exaggeration at all

      @pricklycats@pricklycats23 күн бұрын
  • As a SAHM when we had babies a night on my own after a day on my own was just too much to handle. But if I’d been traded two nights off a week myself I maybe could have. For women without babies….yeah I don’t understand. I’d be so happy for my husband to get out more and be happier now that my kids are older. It’s better for all of us when he’s taken care of. I don’t have issues taking time for myself now, I have lots of issues convincing him to do it and he NEEDS to.

    @andianderson3017@andianderson301724 күн бұрын
  • The path is to seek truth, work on self & be of service. Socialization - “we can keep going on less attention than we crave”, we know this from times we’ve indulged in socializing & walked away with nothing but lost time & neglected duties. Depends on the individual, I have enough on my plate.

    @xeropunt5749@xeropunt574925 күн бұрын
    • Facts. That’s too much wasted time…if you’re a grown man with responsibilities and life goals…2 times every week is a waste of time.

      @manoftomorrow5987@manoftomorrow598725 күн бұрын
    • Being married and having kids is way better than having friends . Hanging with my family doesn't compare with anything else in life.

      @alfonsoramirezelorriaga1153@alfonsoramirezelorriaga115323 күн бұрын
    • @@alfonsoramirezelorriaga1153 Yes thank you,, I agree. I can’t say time spent with friends or relatives my age was pure joy lol.

      @xeropunt5749@xeropunt574923 күн бұрын
    • I think, looking at this video as a thought experiment, the hope would be to be inspired to a higher quality of friendship. I love being a father, and spending time with my partner. But there is also a part of my identity that needs other kinds of interactions. Those friends I’ve found through hobbies and business ventures, for example, have enriched me & helped me learn how to be a better person at the same time. I think it’s possible for all of us.

      @mactireliath2356@mactireliath235623 күн бұрын
    • @@mactireliath2356 I think it does depend on one’s personality type & quality of opportunity, & I do not think all men need suffer from some solitude or lack of buddy time.. If one is highly clean, courteous, ethical & spiritual minded, one can’t endure someone who is not. If I had the opportunity to spend a day with Musk, I would, but with a Jack Black or Seth Rogan or gangster rapper would be torture for me lol… I am a flexivert & can go for a very long time without hanging out. I never feel deprived. There’s so much to do, learn, think & be. Friends aren’t always down to do your thing. Sometimes you get lucky & find a perfect friend, but too many a times someone betrays another’s peace. Peace is what keeps you happy, deeply, in the long term.

      @xeropunt5749@xeropunt574923 күн бұрын
  • Bro nothing would make me happier than if my man fucking left me alone and hung out with friends. Then again in an independent introvert and he’s codependent. I beg him to go hang out with other men

    @divinelatina4295@divinelatina429525 күн бұрын
  • Didn't know George before the episode. That's one of the reasons why I love Modern Wisdom when I discover people like this. Well done, Chris!

    @producedbypodcast@producedbypodcast25 күн бұрын
  • I dont even have 2 friends

    @Boostlagg@Boostlagg25 күн бұрын
    • Right there with you brother.

      @Crcmvnt@Crcmvnt24 күн бұрын
    • You can go out 2 times with a single one?

      @SirAlexanderdeLarge@SirAlexanderdeLarge24 күн бұрын
    • If you can get one see them twice.

      @dinocarosi4303@dinocarosi430324 күн бұрын
    • I don't have FRIENDS but I have work buddies, but due to the shift work it's difficult to meet.

      @Kris.G@Kris.G24 күн бұрын
    • Friends are becoming a liability in this day and age.

      @WilcoxNotreallythere@WilcoxNotreallythere24 күн бұрын
  • Very important. Must do.

    @jejuislandtrekker8113@jejuislandtrekker811322 күн бұрын
  • 2 times a week!? I have kids, man. I have 2 a month on average and it's great. Also, text friends and call friends daily. If you have time for 2 nights then awesome and go for it! Just not a thing for us dads typically.

    @markwmosley@markwmosley25 күн бұрын
    • 2 a month is crazy lol. If i get out once a quarter, I'd be happy.

      @lifeforgod07@lifeforgod0725 күн бұрын
    • @@lifeforgod07 I make a real effort to make it happen and my wife is super supportive. Typically just a "bro dinner" and home by 10pm or so but nice to get out and hang with friends.

      @markwmosley@markwmosley25 күн бұрын
    • Met my bro today after 3 years will probably meet again after 3 years again

      @abhijeetambat8521@abhijeetambat852125 күн бұрын
    • I got 4 kids, three sons, so it’s guys time all the time. It’s evening now, almost, now having a cigar and beer reflecting and enjoying fatherhood, ideas for the future, man… have many kids ya’ll, it’s tough but in a good way, it’s incredible. Wish you good health and a wonderful life.

      @denniskatinas@denniskatinas25 күн бұрын
    • Yeah, twice a week is just ridiculous. It’s generally for single men with not much to do.

      @freda7961@freda796125 күн бұрын
  • I'm 41yo. Used to have great friendships in my youth (up to 25), and male parties were common. Slowly but surely, I lost all my friends, except one. Now I barely know anyone. Somehow loneliness still isn't considered as a real problem in our society, especially when it concerns men. If ever, it'll be seen as primarily their fault. I reckon I/we can be "solitary animals", but it's also what is expected from us. I found women to be often disapproving of my former friendships, pushing me to spend even less time with them. It's just unhealthy overall, for men, women, society.

    @Pode91@Pode9124 күн бұрын
    • Read "Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man". From that you'll learn why you get that push (and so many other pushes). You'll also learn why making 1000 concessions will kill the relationship. The woman will have full emotional control over her man, who will be isolated from friends and family, safe and secure, but boring, predictable and unattractive to her

      @louiswilliamterminator2887@louiswilliamterminator288724 күн бұрын
    • My dad told me all my friendships would fissile out by 25. He was right. The world is all smack talk and back stabbing now.

      @WilcoxNotreallythere@WilcoxNotreallythere24 күн бұрын
    • ​@@louiswilliamterminator2887 That actually sounds like how a narcissist isolates their partner in a relationship. I am not even sure if that is normal female behaviour, unless somehow all women suffer from narcissistic personality disorder (or rather their husbands suffer from their wife's narcissism).

      @Planeet-Long@Planeet-Long24 күн бұрын
    • @@Planeet-Long That sounds about right. In any case the book is a short and easy read, but contains such a wealth of insight that it takes multiple reads to fully understand and practically integrate into your relationships. I'm not a young guy, and that book has been incredibly useful. It also explains 'the how's and 'the why' of the deterioration of many a male/female relationship.

      @louiswilliamterminator2887@louiswilliamterminator288723 күн бұрын
  • Woman's perspective here: I've ALWAYS thought that relationships were far HEALTHIER if BOTH partners get both some alone time and social time with friends. It's NOT healthy for men to ONLY have their female partners for support. Two evenings (or one evening and some time on a weekend day) seems REASONABLE to me. That doesn't mean that men shouldn't be dong more DOMESTIC labor than they usually do (if BOTH partners work outside jobs)--but, that's another issue). Some women's resentment of men having time with their male friends might come from their BFs/husbands ALREADY spending a lot of at home on video games and/or watching sports--while doing very little at home chores.

    @user-cz5lj2vx1f@user-cz5lj2vx1f25 күн бұрын
  • I wish I had the option. Due to my living situation and work, I see a friend in person like a couple of times per year since the past 4 years.

    @anomalyraven@anomalyraven25 күн бұрын
    • Make it happen. Why don’t you?

      @s.s.0@s.s.025 күн бұрын
    • @@s.s.0 Making new friends isn't easy.

      @derpyeh9107@derpyeh910725 күн бұрын
    • @@derpyeh9107 he didn’t say he doesn’t have friends he said he wishes he had the option to see them. I understand it is hard to make friends nowadays.

      @s.s.0@s.s.024 күн бұрын
  • yes please, we men all men NEED THIS

    @rwolfrocks@rwolfrocks12 күн бұрын
  • Married to a Slavic woman, where international women's day is Valentine's day. You learn of the analogue, defender of the fatherland day. If you don't get a gift, you don't owe one back. I gave up on hunans early. When I read all my mother's books, psychology, sociology, feminism, etc. Married twice, neither time to an English woman. Getting into AI, i got into hunans, because "AI" is deeply surprisingly human. So sitting back and observing my wife change day to day is really odd. I found Stoicism as a way to deal with my wife, because "I am going to have to accept that some things will not change" I can honestly recommend it, got me through cancer. Never would have expected that. Great show by the way.

    @praxis22@praxis2223 күн бұрын
  • I have been a lone wolf ever since I graduated college almost a year ago in May 2023. The problem is that for almost half the year (January-April), I work 11 hour shifts and in my few moments of free time I have been studying for the CPA Exam so I can advance my career. A lot of my friends are also in jobs that have extended shifts. I'm just hoping that I can pass the CPA Exam as soon as possible so I can be social again.

    @nickd2296@nickd229625 күн бұрын
    • If you stay in public practice half your year will be almost intolerable .

      @DukeofEarl@DukeofEarl25 күн бұрын
    • Ah mate you got years of shite coming

      @fujohnson8667@fujohnson866724 күн бұрын
  • Hey homies - I agree with the sentiments expressed. BUT "the study" was bogus. It was funded by the Guinness beer company where they wanted Dunbar to team up with Danny Wallace (british humorist) for an ad campaign. The funding source doesn't necessarily mean the study's bad, but it was only done on a group of five guys. The only place the research was published was on Guinness's website and they've since taken it down. I don't think this takes away from the commentary around men needing to spend time together or that the backlash from that very notion being ridiculous. Yet, I just wanted to give some extra context in case you all reference this study later and open your central point open for attack. The core studies on social connection and the disproportionate impact on men because of how we construct our social circles (or lack thereof) should be enough. :)

    @patticus@patticus22 күн бұрын
  • Reading some of these comments, man... just builds a case for me to stay out of the married with children business.

    @Moshm4n@Moshm4n25 күн бұрын
    • If you're uninterested in selfless sacrifice, duty, leadership, and discipline, then yes, you absolutely should leave the legacy building to other men! 💪 It's great that you've identified your limits before marriage and fatherhood and not after.

      @grammaurai6843@grammaurai684325 күн бұрын
    • Get your passport ready homie

      @rxvyy@rxvyy25 күн бұрын
    • @@grammaurai6843legacy? Lmfao, most men are average at best. The only legacy they’ll leave behind is more tax paying npcs.

      @SATANTHEGREATx@SATANTHEGREATx25 күн бұрын
    • @@grammaurai6843 That's a weird inference to make from Mosh's comment.

      @derpyeh9107@derpyeh910725 күн бұрын
    • @@ephemera5714 Happiness can be found in a life of service and sacrifice, but not everyone wants to live that way, and obtaining happiness and satisfaction through a life dedicated to family and community doesn't negate the value of that choice. Some prefer the control and autonomy that comes from singleness. I'm not the one putting a moral judgment on that - I'm explicitly saying that it's *actually better* to know that about yourself before trapping a wife and kids into a life and relationship that none of you wants. A lot of men are in denial about it.

      @grammaurai6843@grammaurai684324 күн бұрын
  • I agree completely. Men need a brotherhood. Men need men to do manly things, to have encouragement, understanding and accountability. Men motivate men to be MEN. I need women around to understand me as a woman. In my marriage there is no designated time for socializing. Like everything else in our marriage, we compromise. Sometimes he needs more time with his mates, and I pick up that slack. Sometimes I need rest and he does the same for me. Because we love one another. Funny how easy things become when you love your partner.

    @serainbenade9242@serainbenade924225 күн бұрын
  • I think this research is probably accurate and useful, for an awful lot of men. Personally, I find the notion about as unappealing as two weeks on a cruise ship. However, my personal (probably rare) idiosyncrasies are not to be recommended, on the whole. I raise them simply to suggest that individuals should find what works for them. Either way, effort should be made to find peace of mind.

    @AnthonyKellett@AnthonyKellett25 күн бұрын
    • Money doesn't have much use if you die from stress before getting to use it

      @pricklycats@pricklycats23 күн бұрын
  • I have to say - I agree with this. Man and woman need our time , maybe alone or maybe with friends but you need time to yourself to be you. Not a husband not a wife not a mother or father just to be you … very important

    @cheresebrazierdoyle5217@cheresebrazierdoyle521723 күн бұрын
  • Best and mosr affordable way of meeting this quota is through sports! E.g. Jiujitsu few days per week

    @FormidableOne@FormidableOne24 күн бұрын
  • Guess I’ll die

    @freeottis@freeottis25 күн бұрын
    • insert meme

      @Kris.G@Kris.G24 күн бұрын
  • There are millions of men who would spend lots of time with their partner and not seek time out socializing but women don’t want them lmao. They want guys who other women want and actively desire. It’s a self destructive ego game. I am glad to be a man though. Running around partying, drinking and having everything given to me, crying to get my way and posting my Ls on social media for everyone to see. It’s great.

    @quietprocess7403@quietprocess740325 күн бұрын
  • Female here, I have 6 brothers. Absolutely, males need male time ! 💪🏻 It makes them better brothers, husbands, and fathers. Key is, being very selective on hanging out with males that will support and encourage you to be the best possible you. Emulate the man that you want your daughter to marry. You are the number one prototype that she will go after.

    @TheNephilim101@TheNephilim10118 күн бұрын
  • Years ago, in every pub in every town, sat a lonely figure of a man, hoping, waiting, and insisting on being heard. Others would whisper in the shadows "Be careful! Don't get too close, he's the pub bore..." Drunk on his own intellect, yearning to be special, situationally unaware, he always missed 'the point'. He always went home alone

    @Lord_Liverpool@Lord_Liverpool24 күн бұрын
  • Yay thanks for sharing George! he's great!

    @Snake369@Snake36925 күн бұрын
  • My partner and his mates get together twice a week and have done religiously since they were in their early twenties and I love to see them together. We have managed to navigate bringing up 2 daughters and work full time. Him being with his mates a few times a week has made him a better partner and dad. I don't get why this is such a bad thing!

    @katwhitehead9382@katwhitehead938223 күн бұрын
  • We juuuust moved so he doesn’t have a crew yet, but I still encourage phone calls with friends, exercising on his own, and down time after work. However, from past relationships and friends stories I’ve found that guys night often means getting shitfaced and coming home way too late etc etc. I’m sure some women are being way too controlling, but I think a big percentage have been burned by bad behavior around this.

    @nicoleforrester4455@nicoleforrester445524 күн бұрын
    • For sure a lot of people (not only guys) think about a good night out as getting drunk and doing stupid things. If that is the case with someone's partner I would reconsider the relationship. There's so much of life besides getting wasted.

      @Fernadogcv@Fernadogcv24 күн бұрын
  • @chris you need to interview Frank Schwartz of F3. It’s a FREE men’s morning workout and leadership group, and we address this point head on

    @pinkflamingo8806@pinkflamingo880620 күн бұрын
  • I get about one year

    @CemeterySunshine@CemeterySunshine24 күн бұрын
  • I, also, think a lot of it depends on the association their partner is engaging in. What kind of friends? What activites are they doing? Is his best friend a known cheater with shady characteristics? I think age has a lot to do with it. Are the two nights at the bar? Or are the two nights gaming at home? Fishing at your local lake? Golfing? Are you home by a reasonable time? There's a lot that the couple need to reason on and let be known what they are willing or not willing to except. It boils down to communication, kindness, and respect.

    @whitneyryshae@whitneyryshae10 күн бұрын
  • "Is he thinking of me?" No... he was just getting up to make a peanut butter sandwich.

    @conanmcclanahan1069@conanmcclanahan106925 күн бұрын
  • It’s just instinctive man-hate. Let’s face it, break one guy, just get another.

    @jameselder3476@jameselder347625 күн бұрын
    • True. For a fuller understanding, read "Practical Female Psychology: For a Practical Man"

      @louiswilliamterminator2887@louiswilliamterminator288724 күн бұрын
  • My husband has a hobby of fish and fish tanks. He helped his friend start one up. One night around 9:30 or so, his friend noticed his fish start to tilt/die. He reached out to my husband for help and decided he needed a new filter. So my husband jumps up and goes to his house to pick him up to make a Walmart run. Well... apparently his friends woman was NOT happy. Acted super jealous and annoyed. Like... girl... calm down... There's so many insecure women out there that can't even handle their man going to Walmart past 7 PM.

    @whitneyryshae@whitneyryshae10 күн бұрын
  • Maybe it is my age but I just don't get this whole discussion. I was always a lone wolf. I guess I needed another guy on the squash court but other than that... I also found I did much better with women when I didn't hangout with a pack. Guys become real jerks when they are with other guys.

    @villagefarang@villagefarang24 күн бұрын
    • Bingo. I operate on a similar level then but never really put it into words.

      @WilcoxNotreallythere@WilcoxNotreallythere24 күн бұрын
  • I work in a female dominated industry and company. I go to a powerlifting gym after work to be in a male world. If I don't go to the gym to be around other men it negatively affects my mental health

    @markcalvert6320@markcalvert632017 күн бұрын
  • Bottom line, when women are present, men have to edit and change everything they say and do or there will be someone who takes offense and the criminal lawsuits start. Lose your job, reputation, property and be branded for life as "toxic" or worse..

    @kajagoogoo9613@kajagoogoo961325 күн бұрын
  • 6:20 😂 literally

    @reeseysosa@reeseysosa24 күн бұрын
  • There is less time for everyone to do what they want or to allow partners to be social as there is less time, a lot of women feel unloved if you’re not with them 24/7 and if your girl wants girl time and you can’t that’s a big red flag already.

    @aidanpartridge713@aidanpartridge71324 күн бұрын
  • I already knew Saturday was for the boys but what’s the other day? Thursday?

    @Ssyphoned@Ssyphoned25 күн бұрын
  • The Distinguished Gentlemen's Ride!

    @williamanderson4029@williamanderson402924 күн бұрын
  • I suggest bowling league guys. She’s doesn’t want to come play, but she can still come and watch the door is open. Plus yer drinking and also competing. Solves all the issues . U get to know the people in the league slowly and become part of the community Highly recommend

    @peterbarrett5496@peterbarrett549623 күн бұрын
  • I think a lot of people, especially women, are confusing what a guys night can be. I usually have 2 guys nights a week and it's me playing basketball at a local gym for 2 hours. And then my in studio podcast which usually ends up being around 2 and a half hours. I'm a dad and i still help out with the baby and stuff around the house. And yes i afford my wife the same kind of opportunities when she wants them. I think it may be a little easier for me because my wife is a stay at home mom. But it can be done and that time away from her allows me to miss her and enjoy my time at home all the more.

    @theninjaofmusic@theninjaofmusic25 күн бұрын
  • 08:20 This actually points to a lower glass ceiling for talented men, if less accomplished women are more likely to be appointed CEO purely because she's a woman you need to be much more competent as a man, meaning that for men and women of the same level of competencies a glass ceiling exists for men that doesn't exist for women.

    @Planeet-Long@Planeet-Long24 күн бұрын
  • I don’t find this unreasonable. I'm married...going on 8 years. I enjoy my time and wish my husband would be less clingly.

    @Boyhead1973@Boyhead197325 күн бұрын
    • Push him to get involved with stuff. Sports, the gym, and church are all great places for him to find some brotherhood.

      @theninjaofmusic@theninjaofmusic25 күн бұрын
  • Ehhh I need 2 nights to myself 😅😂

    @azraelfirstofhisname8695@azraelfirstofhisname869525 күн бұрын
    • I need 6 nights to myself and I’m Not kidding lol

      @brianmeen2158@brianmeen215824 күн бұрын
    • @@brianmeen2158 lol here here

      @azraelfirstofhisname8695@azraelfirstofhisname869524 күн бұрын
  • Gas is expensive, activities are exensive, life is expensive. What fantasy does this study think 2 nights a week is feasible?!

    @nathanielleeson7263@nathanielleeson726314 күн бұрын
  • "Guys night" is such a weird concept to me. All the way back to high school my friends group has been mixed men and women. My wife is my best friend. I dunno, true for populations but not all individuals is a category I suppose.

    @bairdbiz@bairdbiz24 күн бұрын
  • A directly quotable video title, wish me luck, lads ...But in all seriousness, if there was a comparison of what women want for their sons, versus from their partners, it would be revealing in this respect. Of course there would be a range of responses, but they would be distributed differently.

    @threatened2024@threatened202425 күн бұрын
  • Science

    @leoniebachmann2677@leoniebachmann267725 күн бұрын
  • What are friends. I have a family. How can anyone be a good father a good husband work 50 + hrs a week and still have times to go hang with the boys twice a week. Not saying I wouldn’t enjoy it. But too much to juggle without dropping something.

    @techjunky82@techjunky8224 күн бұрын
    • 100%, you have to make sacrifices if you're married with kids! Hopefully you can get some of your hobbies back once they're grown up

      @CG-fx9bl@CG-fx9bl24 күн бұрын
  • I cant imagine anyone other than my wife wanting to see me every week lmao! truly. I dont want to see my friends every week. oh well! my goal right now is once per month see friends or family outside the house. Probably very unhealthy but its improvement for me. 35 yo, married, one kiddo. but i also play video games with my wife almost every day, which is so fun. if my wife saw friends once per week i would be so proud of her and i know it would be huge for her health, same for me i know.

    @cloudcyclone@cloudcyclone19 күн бұрын
  • That all male house party sounds great haha

    @isobaric@isobaric23 күн бұрын
  • If anyone wants to golf hit me up! Come out with my friends and I!

    @Thepippinator2@Thepippinator224 күн бұрын
  • Men don’t need a day. We’re the basis for stable , safe, prosperous society. Days are for the weak.

    @tommyrq180@tommyrq18024 күн бұрын
  • Science says, 2 SPA days per week and 8 hours sleep for young mothers to remain healthy.

    @lucys.4695@lucys.469523 күн бұрын
  • If no alcohol or other drugs are involved.

    @sjin8896@sjin889624 күн бұрын
    • Only the cleanest MDMA for me.

      @WilcoxNotreallythere@WilcoxNotreallythere24 күн бұрын
  • It used to be a night at the local pub - NO girls.

    @philodonoghue3062@philodonoghue306224 күн бұрын
  • uhm...do I have to feel bad now if my husband prefers to spend time with me? will he die earlier if I do not force him to spend time with his friends? serious question

    @impepenane@impepenane25 күн бұрын
  • I always try to advocate to women to make sure they find hobbies or activites that are for themselves... not as a couple. You BOTH have to have your own time. I think a lot of women expect to fulfull ALL their man's needs and desires and that's just not realistic. This is why tribes were so important. Men get their pack of brothrens while the older women can calm down the younger women. LOL

    @whitneyryshae@whitneyryshae10 күн бұрын
  • I have 7 guy nights per week. Sometimes I even sleep through them.

    @erikwade3668@erikwade366824 күн бұрын
  • Shit I haven’t had a guys night since my bachelor party. I’ve been married 7 years end of this month.

    @Crcmvnt@Crcmvnt24 күн бұрын
  • Hanging out with the bros is overrated 😂 I'm always so bored. That shit was fun when we were kids but watching the game, drinking brews and shooting the shit gets old.

    @DrPatFenis@DrPatFenis19 күн бұрын
  • At 38 I have no desire to see friends once a week let alone twice 🤷

    @_SIRENITY_@_SIRENITY_23 күн бұрын
  • Do 2 alone "Guy's Nights" per week count? That's how many friends I have xD

    @Takwygladapilaw@Takwygladapilaw25 күн бұрын
    • Me too, but we move 🤙

      @fujohnson8667@fujohnson866724 күн бұрын
  • “Science says that men…” -psychologists “Oh, so we’re hating on women now?”

    @robertrussell4549@robertrussell454925 күн бұрын
  • My wife's brother's "guy nights" are spear fishing on midnight low tides. I want to join 'em.

    @coniatosamnathaniel@coniatosamnathaniel23 күн бұрын
  • Haven't had a guys night in 7 years and i feel like im dying.

    @phoenixvette@phoenixvette24 күн бұрын
  • Wait, you guys have friends to do a guys night?

    @ryo1549@ryo154925 күн бұрын
  • 2 guy, one cup

    @moonknight4053@moonknight405324 күн бұрын
  • Rofl 2 a week i dont even have 2 friends as a adult male

    @MrStreetninja007@MrStreetninja00725 күн бұрын
    • Then you're doing this right.

      @WilcoxNotreallythere@WilcoxNotreallythere24 күн бұрын
  • 2 nights a week seems excessive....and i'm a dude. A full quarter of nights every month spent away from your family doesn't strike me as reasonable.

    @Hstevenson69@Hstevenson6924 күн бұрын
  • The comments show how widespread the issue is when men are married with kids

    @alexfafoutakis@alexfafoutakis24 күн бұрын
  • Fuck that. One or two a year max

    @LOGIBEAR01@LOGIBEAR0123 күн бұрын
  • “GUYS NIGHT”

    @jamorant8849@jamorant884924 күн бұрын
  • The study was comissoned by Guiness. That's all you need to know

    @RichieKastl@RichieKastl24 күн бұрын
  • Me surviving on zero in years 😅

    @shortstraw4@shortstraw424 күн бұрын
  • Is it toxic masculinity if a trans man is being aggressive? Asking for a friend

    @TheTsupul@TheTsupul24 күн бұрын
  • *You know it is truly a Guys Night when* *_''There's a giant banana hanging from the ceiling that everyone's trying to kick''_* 5:06 *This is somehow the most dude thing ever* 😂 Addition: And it is true. Males in particular like to be more alone and isolated nowadays and social interactions in general lift the spirits and allow you to forget about the world for just one day.

    @DavidBruceChadington@DavidBruceChadington24 күн бұрын
  • Who's this Science guy, he says a lot of stuff but no one has ever met him?

    @pieterrossouw8596@pieterrossouw859624 күн бұрын
  • Some guys are just arseholes. But... most women who do not get as much attention from their guy as they need are dating out of their leagues. They are 6s hanging out to 8s thinking its long term relationship while for him its just a fling.

    @Peteruspl@Peteruspl23 күн бұрын
  • I think a guy's night is a healthy need for a man. And it releases stress and built up emotions. Its a necessity to have it in some form.

    @coleyod@coleyod25 күн бұрын
  • Mens night out: Sports ⚽️ Women’s night out: Gossip ☕️

    @captaindusk8097@captaindusk809725 күн бұрын
    • Men gossip a lot too nowadays. 😂

      @taraz6786@taraz678624 күн бұрын
    • @@taraz6786 Men have always been massive gossips. My own father chief among them. 😆

      @MarieCurtis92@MarieCurtis9224 күн бұрын
    • this checks out in my experience

      @Gromov-jj8jf@Gromov-jj8jf24 күн бұрын
    • I think my husband would probably like a break from me gossiping about college football.

      @DawgMama@DawgMama24 күн бұрын
    • I don't like sports, though. 🤷🏻‍♂️

      @SirAlexanderdeLarge@SirAlexanderdeLarge24 күн бұрын
  • 1 night for muay thai, 1 night for Jiu-jitsu, 1 night for Jesus, minimum.

    @mannyfreeesh5256@mannyfreeesh525624 күн бұрын
  • SOMEONE FINALLY SAID IT. 💪🏾

    @performerguy90@performerguy9025 күн бұрын
  • Some truths dropped here !!!

    @marcusp905@marcusp90525 күн бұрын
  • Just play HELLDIVERS 2 and SAVE DEMOCRACY!

    @taddeushelm@taddeushelm24 күн бұрын
  • I use to think this…but as I got older I don’t have time to spend 2 nights with “the bros”. I got gym, work and rest to catch up on. If you need 2 nights a week to spend with the boys every week, I guarantee you that you’re unsuccessful in live.

    @manoftomorrow5987@manoftomorrow598725 күн бұрын
    • Life, not "live". I may be lonely but at least I can bloody spell.

      @RandomGuyyy@RandomGuyyy24 күн бұрын
    • @@RandomGuyyy 🙄

      @manoftomorrow5987@manoftomorrow598724 күн бұрын
  • LMAO

    @muffaletta@muffaletta25 күн бұрын
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