Victims and survivors of Jeffrey Dahmer say they want people to see him for who he really was -- not the glamorized TV version. See a never-before-aired interview with Dahmer’s father and stepmother that sheds light on the monster behind the man. They provide chilling details about his bizarre childhood behaviors. Plus, the Netflix series Dahmer - Monster: The Jeffrey Dahmer Story pushed a decades-old story into today’s spotlight, some say giving it a 2022 “pop culture moment.” After the series debuted, Dahmer’s infamous glasses went up for sale for $150,000, and people dressed up as the notorious serial killer for Halloween. Has our culture’s obsession with true crime desensitized us?
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His mother leaving him did NOT turn him into a serial killer, no more than Hitler's rejection from art school turned him into a genocidal maniac. It's terrifying to accept, but there's no reliable root for psychopathy.
Agreed. However his mothers mental illness and overly prescribed diet of medications while pregnant im sure DID contribute to his major chemical imbalance in his brain. And her total abandonment and lack of motherly anything im didnt help him. Just a thought
Exactly I concur
Agreed
psychopathy results from a complex combination of genetic and environmental factors.
Didn't they say his mother left and took his brother but not him... She probably left with his brother because they knew that Jeffrey was messed up. And I think Jeffrey's father has everything to do with this, I think Jeffrey witnessed some things done by his father.. And that's all I'm going to say.
I couldn't even imagine how I would react finding out my child did what he did. That would mentally destroy me.
Yeah, but Michael Gove is really h0t.
No for real… I couldn’t imagine that
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His father created him, abused neglected corrupted Dahmer they killed animals together his father is a sociopath himself ASPD+NPD factor 2
Top 10 Bruh moments
Its actually crazy how his father has the same voice with the actor that plays him
ON GOD BRO sounds exactly alike
All he needs is the glasses
He also sounds like the real Jeffrey Dahmer.
The actor played him ; his really an actor.
He sounds like Jeffrey dahmer
Damn the Netflix series definitely had the perfect actor to play Jeffery’s father.
Even the voice is the same
Yes right !!! I said the same thing.. 😮
The voice is identical I mean evan peters voice is close to jeff but I can't tell the difference between Jeff's real father voice and the actor at all
Yes!
Yeeesssss I was thinking the same thing
I feel bad for Lionel it’s been 30 years and he is still being haunted by his sons actions and the media will never stop pushing these serial killers
I would be too
The story that won’t go away
Unfortunately there is a huge demand for learning about these sick f:/~Ks!
Media won’t stop pushing them because of OUR morbid curiosity, you clicked on this video didn’t you, you’re part of the problem kid
He has always welcomed media interviews
Animal cruelty from a young age is a tell-tale warning of pending psychopathy
i was looking for a comment to reply this to, every child has certain ways they learn to comfort themselves with the uncomfortable so when you let your child collect animal viscera, his psychology is subject to trauma a child can’t simply comprehend, and for him to develop sexual attraction for organs and mutilation, his mother leaving was simply a catalyst to all of this, with no motherly connection freud would have had a field day with the reason this man chose to commit such vile atrocities.
I dont think I follow. @@skeetyeet3928
@@skeetyeet3928 His mother leaving had little to do with Jeff's brutality. She was not a good mother all along. Freud has some nice theories, most of which don't hold water. Perhaps his Interpretation of Dreams holds the most water. I think ID Twin Studies separated at birth show the greater importance of biology over environment, not that environment is not very imporant.
We know that now, because psychiatrists had the opportunity to study “psychopaths “ before they got executed and took their stories to their graves
@@SaraMKay Research has revealed that 25 percent of aggressive inmates had committed multiple acts of animal abuse as children. Forty-five percent of school shooters had histories of alleged animal cruelty, and 21 percent of serial murderers admitted to childhood animal abuse. I made a point earlier that Biology Rules and this is probably more true with serial killers. And maybe head trauma too plays a role. "British child psychiatrist Stephen Scott, an expert in childhood and adolescent antisocial behavior, explains that “unlike regular antisocial behavior, serial killers seem to be born rather than made, with a Heritability of 80 percent of the characteristics being due to genes, whereas with ordinary antisocial and later criminal behavior, it is only 30 percent.”
rip to those 17 men who lost their lives. my heart goes out to their families.
Men and boys
@@almdraco762 yep
The youngest was 14
I heard there could be more unidentified bodies
@@obiwan9662 there's talk that he was responsible for a lot of disappearances when he was in the army but no concrete proof
I think the meds his mom was on while she was pregnant should not be dismissed. Those drugs, if given to the wrong person, can change an adults brain for the worse. Now imagine a developing fetus being exposed to all that. Not saying it explains everything, but it could have been a necessary part of all this.
Absolutely agree
I’ve said this so many time totally agree !!
I agree! i was prescribed antidepressants and my baby stopped moving for days! Decided to stop taking them after a few weeks and she was back to normal and active. Medicine definitely affects fetuses even when they claim it doesn't
True!
Gtfoh
Watching Jeff's parents trying to defend and understand the actions of their son is heartbreaking I can't imagine the nightmares they have
Even though Jeffrey was wicked wrong. Now this is just my opinion. The parents feel probably some sort of guilt. And usually a parents love is undeniable so I think that’s why. I think they love him a lot any parent unless they are dead beats will do anything for their child. It’s sad but it is what it is
@@LexiMcHenry no dip Lexi
@@thesmartoneificationthat was rude
@@LexiMcHenry Apparently both parents have character disorders.
I mean the father did have the same type of issues but he just never acted on it like his son did. So it’s like he could relate.
It's sad seeing him as a baby, and then looking at what he became
It’s very sad. That’s something ive had to try to get my head round while studying this case which I’m weirdly obsessed with. I don’t usually jump onto Netflix trends but this really gave me a new perspective on life, and career path. Very upsetting to see how an innocent boy can have sinister things developing in his brain while looking so.. innocent. Very sad the monster he became.
He had it in him since he was born, it just hadn't yet developed into the complex psychological trait he was going to exhibit later on. Psychopaths are natural born. There are kids that have had a much rougher childhood and never hurt others let alone take someone's life.
What do u mean? He didn't even look evil when he committed / got charged.
@@pbufh you clearly didnt understand what i was addressing.
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Now that he’s passed away I feel a bit of relief for him that he no longer has to constantly have the thoughts of what his son had done, that must have been imaginable of what he has mentally went through
I can’t believe he’s dead 😞
Wait when did he pass??
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The fact the father and Evan Peter's played the roles so well in Dahmer on Netflix is insane... they even sound alike.
He was in stepbrothers too
Richard Jenkins is his name, brilliant actor.
@@supernothing77 that's mainly what I know him from haha
maybe they used his voice
It wasn't just 1 thing that turned Jeffrey into who he was. It was a perfect storm of many things, including his own DNA.
Head injuries can also have a major impact on psychopathy. I heard he had one, not sure if its true tho. I cant bring myself to watch the show... mostly because I love the actor and dont want to ruin it 😅
@@doeeyes2 the show is awesome ! They chose the PERFECT actor to play Jeff...it just gives you all the more reason to love the actor, he's brilliant
Mother figure in psychopathy is often distant but dominant, emotionally neglectful and a father figure passive or missing
@@doeeyes2 he didn't have a head injury
Bullying does it too.
Wow, the dad's voice sounds surprisingly similar to Evan Peters' voice in his portrayal of Jeffrey Dahmer. They did pick a really good actor to play him in that Netflix show. Both of them, actually.
Richard Jenkins is amazing.
Evan Peter's didn't portray the father though...
@@keijokaljo7622 no that's not what she meant
When he said jeffrey said he couldnt have one foot square of his own property i instantly thought of evan peters portray of jeffreys whinning 🤣
@@keijokaljo7622 ummmm yeah I know. Which is why I said Evan Peters portrayal of Jeffrey.....? I was just pointing out that the dad's voice sounds similar to Evans portrayal of Jeffrey. Maybe I didn't make that clear?
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The guy who played the father in the series was the perfect fit.
IKR
Damn. The way the step mom jumped in and immediately correct Dr. Phil at the beginning was... interesting.
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I can’t imagine what family members of serial killers think and feel knowing their own loved ones did such evil things
jeff’s niece said she’s very disturbed and is afraid she’s gonna turn out like him 😭
@olivia-ci7tq hey, I was treat pretty crappily as a kid. I always say to my mum how terrified I am of ending up like the men she dated, and eventually I realised something. If you have the ability to fear becoming like these people, it is because you are a good person that would never be like that.
They are victims too.
@@davidlea5155 yeah fr
Even worse when the family lives every day ,like that person done nothing
his father is very well spoken, I don’t know how I would’ve coped knowing this became a worldwide story and how to even begin processing it all. big respect, my thoughts are with the victims 🤍
It’s fishy. He is fishy.
By pain suffering and stress. Deep pain.
what kind though, cod,haddock, cobbler, or carp?
Because he was a very intelligent man who wrote a book about it; that probably helped him process and heal.
@@beezlebub9he groomed his child to do these things
The actor who played his father has best performance in whole series
We get it. About 1000 people on here have already said it🤦♀️
No lol even had the best
@@HydeOffical not even. the woman who played his neighbor was so compelling.
@@Yehoshua66 I think even was the best but I agree I can’t think of many bad performances in the show
@@HydeOffical very true. the whole cast was stellar.
This man looks completely broken , I can’t feel anything but empathy and admiration for him
Well he would hardly be happy and talking with Pride about his Sons achievements like what most parents from the Planet f......king Earth do.
Shame on u
@@derkilleravalo8260 you love the b......ard killer Dahmer? Shame on you. Tell that to the families this losers son killed.
@@derkilleravalo8260what's to be ashamed?
@@0neWayUp Lionel dhamer Is a fuckn psycho....
Love how cold step mom is still turning Jeff's problems on his mother. They seem like a living embodiment of "distant, unloving parents" in medical literature.
@AntiFEMINISTandPROUD I can tell this is just a sad posting from some incel wanting attention. There...go hug yourself.
I think his father loved him, just was also a product of his own environment
I think she's just really, really defensive. Heaven knows she'll have had enough practise.
Hard not to blame her for at least having part of it, but he as well should realize he was being neglectful, he was trying just not enough
@@1rage17 idk but in my point of view, there is big chance that the father must work more excesively than the mother to pay child support for jeff brother, pay the mortgage, jeff needs, and maybe his new gf/wife.. it is not that the father neglected it but the father need to work overtime.. I think the most main driving factor is what the father said that jeff relating his sexual desires with death of animal in his early teens..
Jeff's younger brother David changed is last name when all of this went down. He did not go to his brother's trial or visit him in prison. He did not engage with the news media at all, and has continued to live in anonymity ever since.
I always thought the heavy drug use his mother was involved in during her pregnancy with Jeff played a part
That’s true. Like the Parkland Shooter - his mom was using drugs while pregnant with him.
Yeah there’s so much mixed up stuff said about his life, I thought she was abusing her prescriptions too
@@1rage17it messed up is mitochondria solace
Well it probably didn't. There was a cat scan done on Jeffrey's brain before the trial and no brain abnormalities were found. She was also on medication with David and he turned out fine
She wasn’t on drugs, she was on medication from the doctors
I can’t imagine being the parent of a serial killer. The pain and shame they have to live with..
It’s a nightmare for a parent
Well, they contributed on his behavior, he was not born serial killer, they made him so ...
@@ilham5146 are you sure???
Dam 😮
@@ilham5146 psychopaths are born like that.
The pain they must feel I can't even imagine. Even if he was born that way ,the feeling of guilt is inevitable.
His father and stepmother seem like very nice caring people. I really hope they are doing ok and they are not being harassed by idiots .
They get death threats constantly
@@nicolemonrue There are so many ignorant idiots out there . The parents had nothing to do with what Jeff Dahmer did .😞
They seem ,,,doesnt mean they are caring people!
@@andrewhazenberg3398😂
They give off a bad vibe
His mom creeped me out, the way she looked when she said "He's jeff to us." 😢
I’m a counselor at a clinic, and we have these discussions amongst peers, it’s hard for me to blame a parent for such an extremely distorted person, unless there were “direct” grooming or involvement activities at play
Its not about blame. Its about learning about this kind of behaviour so we know how to deal with it. We have a lot of sick/ill people and we need to deal with that fact. Putting them away is not the (only) answer. And besides that: you cant deny yhe external factors that trigger this behaviour. Its always a combination..nature and nurture.
The parents ignored and missed many opportunities to raise this boy differently. They bear some responsibility, even if they don't see it.
@@hekate1971 is there a real answer, I mean we’re talking about cannibalism, which is very extreme, and what traits would serve as an indicator, how many parents raise “people eaters”?????
@@josephineananda I don't know of any parent who hasn't made mistakes in raising their children. Mr. Dahmer obviously loved Jeff very much and never gave up on him, especially when his gruesome crimes dominated the news. The Dahmer's younger son didn't turn out like this. In fact, he changed his name so that he's not associated with Jeff and his atrocious crimes.
@@mainecoon6514 Their parenting mistakes are unforgivable.
Being interested in oddities and liking bones does not mean that your going to be a killer
Just have situational-awareness at all time, you never know
agree
Um it kinda does. White ppl are weird
It did for Jeffery though
Its one thing to collect and another to have an obsession and killing for your bones
I am really grateful to the parents that they made the effort to shed so much more light on this case. It is always better to know more than having to deal with this unclarity of why things happened.
They refused to give the victims families the money from Jeff's trial and wanted to keep it 👍
Whoever played his father did a good job at him.
Yes he is a good actor been in many other good movies
Richard Jenkins. Very talented character actor
Lionel Dahmer's actor sounds exactly like the real guy.
Yea he does
My husbands grandma taught him and his wife tennis. Had no idea who they were until later on, said they were really nice people
@@jcldctt his parents are nice. He is the serial killer after all
@@jcldctt what makes you think they aren't nice people?!
@@GunnersMom97 did I say I didn't think they were? No.
@@GunnersMom97 oh idk, one family member is a psychopathic rapist & cannibal & the others raised him? Wtf kind of question is that?
Don't listen to the trolls. It's ridiculous you can't say anything.
The audacity that the stepmother showed by scolding Dr Phil for referring to him as "Jeffrey." Total Karen Move.
Chill.
Yeah I thought the same. Karen for sure !
I was like it doesn't matter if Dr.Phil called him Jeffrey or Jeff. We can him a monster.
How she acted was totally unnecesarry and ignorant. Like what's the issue? His name is Jeffrey. Why expect random people to call a monster or anyone by their nickname lol. Although in the show, the step mother is really pleasant but in this video😵
Imagine opening a locked box belonging to your son and finding a human head.
😰🤢🤮🤮🤮
You'd be like...."This is unacceptable, you're grounded for a whole month."
These days, if a parent insisted on seeing what was in the box, the child's therapist would tell us we need to give our kid more privacy & have enough trust in them to give them that space.
There’s a time to give them privacy and then there’s a time to follow your instincts when something feels wrong
@TomTheDog i know that i can be trusted. I'm more concerned about whether it's safe for me to trust them, not the other way around.
@TomTheDogwhy are you defending a serial killer? (I'm not referring to my kid, I'm referring to Jeffrey Dhamer.)
@TomTheDog but too much privacy enables more criminal behavior. Like there was the time he didn't kill someone he had intended to because of his grandma showing up. If he had more privacy on that one occasion, then that would have been one more murder victim who didn't escape him.
😂😂😂
"We don't relate to Jeffrey. He's Jeff." Fakest smile ever. Yeah, mom's a piece of work and I've only gotten into the interview 15 seconds.
that's the stepmom not the mom.
That’s the girlfriend not the mom
Lots of stepmothers are snarky like this. Deep, down inside, they don’t want to be bothered with the problem kids of a former marriage. They’re just kicking themselves for falling in love with a man who has so much baggage. It’s too bothersome for them to deal with. Well, it’s their fault. They knew what they were getting into.
She's creepy too...
Just a way to intimidate so as not to be asked a lot of questions
It’s crazy how well they cast him for the series
I feel so sorry and bad for Lionel..he doesn't deserve to go through this horrible experience and pain from all of this..how can he take this?
i feel worse for the victims families!!
@@faith123 I do as well. Its extremely upsetting to hear that your own child would do these horrible things to others. may the victims families heal🙏.
To be fair his parents "gave" him bpd (borderline personality disorder) witch is probably part of the reason he became a serial killer
Nah, he deserves this pain for making and monster of a man.
Probably in a money transfer but cash would be cool
At the end of the day, Jeff was allowed to run free and that how he was able to get away with a lot. Living near a wooded area wasn’t the problem. He was a legal adult when his mom left. Abandonment issues are the root of a lot of this.
People have worse abandonment issues and are still functioning members of society. The root of the problem was his demented perceptions of fulfilling an inhuman lust that is most likely a genetic problem with his brain. Although, the abandonment issues definitely did make this worse.
His mom leaving him for a few weeks at 18 hardly qualifies as abandonedment. He did not even want to go with her even though she asked him to 🙄
@TomTheDog Okay? 😂 everyone already knows that. (i hope at least)
@TomTheDog That's not quite what I meant. If everybody handled these experiences the same as Dahmer, it would be genocidal. I'm making it 𝘤𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘳, in my original comment that everyone handles things differently. Dahmer handled things differently because of his inhuman lust to kill and cannibalize humans.
@@8luvbug He was 17 and she took his brother left him for good she never came back his Father was living with his stepmom somewhere else his whole family was gone. She didn't want him it's in the report of his Doctor .
Jeffrey has the voice of his father
There both sociopaths except the father has ASPD+NPD not ASPD+BPD+SPD like dahmer
Yes, it's almost like... He's his father.
We don't know, we don't relate to Jeffrey 🤣🤣🤣
Omg he does 😱 never even noticed till I saw your comment.
Yea😍
Lionel's wife is NOT Jeffrey's mother. Why was she even there?
Because they were together while this was all happening
This really peels back a layer most never think about. Lionel truly loved his son and was so devastated by his actions and death.
I come across so so many people who accuse Lionel of molesting and all sorts of horrible stuff.
Wow no one asked the lady he hadn’t even talked yet
She's not his real mom, she didn't raise him
She can be Shari? His second wife?
"Call the manager. His name is Jeff."
@@SalehQattan she's his stepmom who unlike his biological mother was very fond of him.
@@jayxfrost8987 That's not what Shari's friend said.. She said shari hated Jeffrey and David and was mad that Lionel had to play child support. Shari said in another interview that she wished Jeffrey was put down like a dog. Doesn't sound like a step mother who's loving. Jeffrey said his mom was a very comforting person when she could be.
Not gonna lie, I had no idea his parents where still alive
Well his mom is dead but that’s him father and stepmother
@@cammalone4457 o ok I didnt know that
It wasn't all that long ago
Only his father is alive.. he’s 86yr
@@badgurl5758 what about his step mom??
I seem to remember from back when all this horror story went down that JD's father said there was "total" neglect of him when the parents split. He lived on his own unsupervised with no input of love or parenting during his adolescent years. Reminds me of the old saying, "an idle mind is the devil's workshop".
The father just recently passed away
Rip ❤
That was rich of the step-mom to say.
She’s as much of a weirdo as her husband
Shes seems like a bit of a karen tbh
Literally
So judgemental.
@@robynboone8256 how?
Of course Dr Phil has to capitalize off it now that it's trending lol
😂 exactly
This is important even though Jeff's parents were not the best parents I don't think they would ever envision they would raise the most infamous serial killer on earth. Parents need to care about this they need to care about these things if they see any kind of behavior like this it needs to be corrected and in the right way. You're never too young for therapy
THIS
Therapy? Uh no. The child would need to learn about Jesus and learn about Gods love.
Just because someone is a sociopath or psychopath. Doesn’t mean they are all murders. There is sick minded people you walk past through stores, mall, ect . The importance of understanding that people need to have good understanding of empathy, and good role models , good parenting comes a long way. It won’t always avoid coming across people like this but watching porn non stop, or having sites with gore on it . Has played with alot of these peoples minds now
Thanks for your shows and vidoes i always enjoy because tell the truth
What is the point of this? There are NEVER gonna be any proper answers to this horrific situation. It's just disrespectful to the victims and their families....🤬
It's Dr Phil, they don't really care about ur pain , they just looking for views , cuz the serie was successful, everyone talking about it
@@SalehQattan Yeah, true. I forgot how gross he is...
Lmfao how is it disrespectful? They are literally raising awareness
Its about the parents making more money.
Oh stfu with that tired argument
that hair dye job would make me a serial killer too
I’d rather be dead than red on the head 😂
Oh that is just color in a can
One of the thoughts I had throughout this interview was how hard it must have been for his parents. It's almost like the polar opposite of being able to brag about your son being an esteemed poet laureate or author, a heart surgeon of the highest order (like being on Dr. DeBakey's surgical team), or an astronaut. You know it had to be hard for them, having to relive it on national television.
I remember an interview with him where it came out of his own mouth that he had no idea why he was this way and that he had a good childhood is the way he put it he said his childhood wasn't perfect but he said in no way it led him to do this he didn't think he said he didn't have any idea why he was this way
@Sunny Lynn yeah perhaps did he say that I've never heard him say that but with what I heard that came out of his mouth he said it wasn't perfect but it wasn't horrible and didn't cause him to be this way which seems pretty damn accurate to me.... but I know that parents can really cause some damage I know mine did
Please use punctuation I had to read ur comment 3 times lmao
@@Indecisivetacos if you can't read without punctuation then I don't know what to tell you
Did u interview him lol
This is SO interesting!
After hearing this I'm blown away how the actors in the show got the voices & mannerisms so dead on.
The Netflix shows casting was 10/10
The parents didn’t cause it, but the certainly didn’t prevent it
Good Comment
How do you prevent someone from becoming a cannibal and necrophiliac?
@@8luvbug His Parents didn't pay any attention to him. Maybe professional help at an early age might have helped
@@giannimolluso5846 Hindsight. No one thinks their child will become that way. His upbringing wasn't even all that bad. I don't think there's help for people like him other than being permanently institutionalized.
@@8luvbug You could be right. Some People are born psychotic they say
My brother is evil. When my parents found out how evil he was they tried to hide it. I really struggled with them hiding his behaviors. Forty years later, I get it. Everyone assumes that it’s the parents fault. They would have been crucified. I’m not saying I agree with what they did, I just get it. I wouldn’t want to be them.
I don't feel bad for Lionel. He loves to place all the blame of Jeffery being messed up on his ex-wife Joyce, he wrote a whole Book about it, but in Reality, he completely added to the mix too. He was neglectful, an unemotional robot, and was too busy being off with his New girlfriend who then became his wife (the lady next to him here), to Notice how messed up Jeffrey was. The warning signs were there ALL ALONG. His weird behaviour... drinking before school... coming home from school drunk... yelling and hitting trees in the garden... The public nudity... Molesting a child... A prison sentence... Being discharged from the military... Stealing a mannequin and sleeping with it... The locked box of the head which Jeffrey refused to open... Lionel making him move out from the grandmother's house... The signs were there. Fact. Lionel just wasn't emotionally EQUIPPED to be able to Deal with them. And because of that, he brushed everything under the carpet. Which had Devastating consequences for many people. But in hindsight, it's very easy to play the "Oh my ex-wife was sooo messed up" card, write a book on it and do loads of interviews where you look very sad, and try to absolve yourself of all responsibility of it.
I love how in the very beginning the step mom seems to get almost defensive and correct Dr.Phil on calling him Jeff rather than Jeffrey? Seriously lady? That’s what’s important here?
Some people believe he started to make his thoughts real after surgery he had when he was little
That father doesn't really look friendly. He must know much more.... Based on his eyes.
This poor guy has been doing interviews about his son for years. Wonder if he ever gets tired of talking about it, it’s gotta be emotional for him every time. He still looks great, though.
It's his choice. And I'm sure he gets paid for some of them.
@@kerrymartin7557 true, I just think it would get tedious after so long
@@kerrymartin7557I think he does it to try and give people answers as much as he can. Some of these things cant be explained. He can't tell you why but he is trying to humanize the whole thing and how things got missed. Nobody can ever imagine their child to be Dahmer let alone a neighbor etc. It's frightening. Darkness can take many forms.
Dr. Phil never ages
Lol so true
I don't believe his parents were loving and were there for him. I believe this could have been stopped or prevented. Extreme loneliness and neglect.. this is what happens or what could happen. Parents love your children, listen to them, and be there for them
Apparently when he was a baby, nobody held him unless it was for pictures or to change diapers
Listening/hearing his father peacefully discussing his son's actions as a kid was like he shrugged it off like 'boys enjoy gross stuff'. By not forcing his son into therapy, he was only encouraging things to get worse. His father actually played a large part in Jeffrey s future psychopathic actions!
Dont blame it on his parents. His parents were loving of their kids they just had marital issues and struggled to give the attention the kids needed, they didnt purposefuly leave him lonley. This happens to half the kids on the planet, they dont turn into psycho cannibals.
It’s horrible when any parent isn’t loving and is neglectful. However, there’s plenty of parents who are like that yet their child doesn’t turn out a perverted serial killer. It produces a screwed up individual, but it certainly doesn’t make them a serial killer.
His father did his best. He’s not to blame for Jeffrey’s crimes.
Holy!!!! This guy's voice is IDENTICAL to the voice of the actor on the Netflix series of Dahmer.
OMG. The actor of Lionel in Dahmer sounds exactly the same.
I feel terrible for these people. They can never get away from the story of their son. You know even after they found out a piece of them had to still love him. Or at least what he once was. Most of us are guilty of having a fascination with the macabre. But the price of that fascination is that these innocent people have their lives tainted with blood and evil forever.
Why would it matter if hes calling him Jeffrey, thats his damn name
Just stupid people trying to take control of a conversation, nothing more.
That's their son. They called him Jeff. Maybe hearing Jeffrey makes them think of the evil person he really is. He is known as Jeffrey Dahmer to the world and maybe that's a way for them not to think of him as a monster. Jeffrey is the monster. Jeff is their son.
Both are monsters tbh, son or not
They're making an attempt to dissociate the psychopath, Jeffrey, from the person they believe they knew. As she said, "we know him as Jeff." Years ago, the original interviews were played quite often. I remember thinking that correcting his name was odd. Especially during the timing of questions on certain interviews. It seemed it was their way of suggesting they only know him as Jeff, the sweet boy we raised and loved as opposed to Jeffrey this horrific psychopath. Maybe the dissociation in their minds aleiveate accepting some level of responsibility that they missed the development of a serial killer.
He seems to still be in denial
Isnt it old?
The interew
@@tristanz.u nah it was recorded this year
@@Patrickbateman____ it’s a old interview. Look up a interview of him in 2020, he looks much older there. He is already 86
@@Cpdm26 do u have the link to the full interview?
I didn’t realize how well they did with the casting
I believe when we stop trying to find reasons why people do wrong we will stop giving them reasons to do wrong Everyone should be accountable for their actions without playing victim of something or someone And finding a reason for a serial killer has yet to be found and I don't think it's going to be found
Still there's excuses for what happens, but doesn't mean u kill people
so you think things just happen for no reason and we shouldn’t look into why things happen?
Until Lionel passes on, Jeffery’s actions will haunt him and the story will keep on going. I feel as if all the trauma Lionel has endured, he will never be fully at peace on this earth.
I feel for this family. Can not imagine what they’ve been through. I read a military criminal interrogator’s take on a serial killer. Nature vs. nurture? He said a person is born with it. I’m sure some experiences in life can alter a personality. But a serial killer of this magnitude is a born killer.
It’s the spirit of Satan. Only God can deliver a man of his sinful compulsions.
No mostly it’s unloved children. He was alone all the time and no one liked him
What year was this interview??
After what he did, she has the nerve to demand he refer to him as “Jeff”? LMAO that woman has some balls!
She comes across as incredibly cold and dangerous
i was looking to see if someone would mention that 😂
Honestly they both creep me out
In his family he was always Jeff. The media did lot like the nickname so they went with Jeffrey.
Y is she even there?
The spooky music is a little unnecessary lol
0:06 she needs to watch her tone.
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I've always felt most badly for Jeffrey Dahmer's parents to be honest. They didn't choose for their son to grow up and become a serial killer with cannibalistic tendencies. I've never met them personally but I imagine that it has to be a real burden just to wake up each morning knowing that your son was The guy who had dismembered body parts all over his apartment, and severed heads in the freezer next to the popsicles. I can't even begin to imagine how it must feel day in and day out, just knowing that your child was Jeffrey Dahmer, and what it must feel like going to your local grocery store and just hoping to God that no one recognizes you and starts throwing rocks in your direction. Seriously. That's no way to live.
My heart breaks for him
The first few seconds I rolled my eyes. Lady who TH cares if it’s Jeff or Jeffrey?
Yeah, she wants us to respect his NAME, f*** him!
They do
No hate, but to you Jeffrey is exactly what he is, and a stranger. To them, he is a son and someone they know all their lives. So that's why they care about the use of his name. To them Jeffrey is the serial killer and Jeff is the beloved son from the past. Simple.
Lol dr Phil was respectful about it. I wouldn’t have been.
Says a lot about her…
I feel horrible for his parents
Yeah they probably blame themselves even though it wasn't their fault
@@Nothingwasfixedatall10 really they do
I feel horrible for his brother. He changed his last name.
Proud 👏
What if Jeff’s father contributed to his actions? The defense “He just didn’t want to be alone” is a huge RED FLAG. The fathers approach, calmness when speaking… I’m not saying he is… I’m saying the way he defended the acts of a murderer is contrary to a normal issue. His eyes, face, voice. Seemingly Emotionless. Which could be from years of mental anguish, or something more sinister…
Don't be ignorant , u would defend urself if u saw how many people blaming u fighting u and suing u for something he didn't know and it wasn't even in his knowledge that it might lead to this!
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I think it was his personality and his family nature to protect. I know many people who would blindly back their child or family member up. The line between enabling and support/unity blurs in this case. I don’t know if he enabled him but he definitely blindly supported him.
His father is a sociopath ASPD+NPD and corrupted manipulated and abused dahmer
@@AlexZ-lc6nl he enabled created corrupted and abused Dahmer he made Dahmer a killer through his manipulation
Background music is so eerie.
It’s crazy how much the father’s voice sounds like the actor who portrayed him on Monster
I have so much respect for this man , he's always behaved with the utmost dignity .
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You’re kidding right?
Get off your phone
@@nypinstripes2388no Jeffrey is cool chill mwn
he worked on military human experiments ala mkultra program, hes not innocent, he made dahmer exactly what he became
Parents in serious denial.
@neekoxbaby They were in denial long before they found out.
Really, their son is a serial-killing cannibal, and stepmom wants to split hairs about calling him Jeff instead of Jeffrey? Wow!
I just found out that Jeff’s father has passed away. RIP Lionel Dahmer.
Not intentional, but the parenting or lack of helped manifest the child into a killer. This short interview has multiple red flags regarding how both parents responded to Jeff's behavior.
Not according to studies some are just born psychopathic
I’m glad the father was willing to talk and admit to his faults so other parents can look for warning signs in their own children. It’s so easy to turn a blind eye and deaf ear.. these interviews make you not want to
Its a bad sign when a person attacks an animal.that was a warning sign
He said he never killed any animals just road kill.
It looks like the good doctor travelled back in time for this interview.
Has anyone got the link to the whole interview please 🙏
Read the biography of Jeffrey then Lionel's memoir. It is much more interesting than any of the tv shows or interviews that are out there.
Well if Jeffrey Dhamer tried to tell his father of his evil doings or if both his parents were so consumed by their own problems that they did not stop to pay attention to the signs of abnormal behavior or if they would have sought out real & consistent help for him maybe that would have made a difference. In my opinion, yes the parents are a fault to a certain extent. He was left alone & abandoned. How long before the father physically came around to check up on him when his mother abandoned him? Freaking taxidermy? The human mind is complex and traumatic experiences can deeply affect and alter one's mental development.
It's sad the back and fourth blame between the parents. Imagine existing to pin it on your partner who helped make that child. It was wrong of Lionel to take jeff out looking for roadkill
he just wanted jeff to be happy, he never had hobbies after his traumatic surgery as a kid, so while i agree, i also kinda get why he did jt
Lionel never did that. Where are you getting this information? I want a source
That’s a strong man, the mother is the one that fought for custody and left. Poor Lionel