My Step Dad Flew to My House to Defend my Mom...*Gone Wrong*

2022 ж. 18 Мам.
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Recently I went to visit my biological father for the first time. Once I got back it changed everything. My Step Dad flew to my house to defend my mom
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  • her step dad has no rights for keeping her away from her biological dad. If he was a good step dad he would want her to have her biological dad in her life but he is just bad and how can he call her boyfriend those names?

    @katarina9168@katarina9168 Жыл бұрын
    • @@stephaniegutierrez1530 couldn’t agree more!

      @Mbb895@Mbb895 Жыл бұрын
    • I expected Angelika's mom not him .

      @janekitenye399@janekitenye399 Жыл бұрын
    • Totally agree their may be shit that happened in the past but that's her bio dad she has the right to have him in her life if that's what she wants you know & also calling Riche all those names was very disrespectful Gel & Rich you both are awesome love you both 💛

      @Krissy1995@Krissy1995 Жыл бұрын
    • Her step dad is super toxic

      @hiramnieves7430@hiramnieves7430 Жыл бұрын
    • @@stephaniegutierrez1530 man if I was rich I would have told her step dad hit me I will knock the shit out of you

      @gamingwithnoah8367@gamingwithnoah8367 Жыл бұрын
  • Mad respect and love for Richie for handling himself like a man and not rocking gel’s stepdad in public in front of gel love y’all gel and Richie

    @justinjones3793@justinjones3793 Жыл бұрын
  • I don't understand why your step dad hates Richie so much ,it seems like all he wanted to do was to beat him up .He seems kinda of controlling and toxic .I'm sorry to say this .He's acting weird. Richie was trying to be respectful by all means .Wanting a relationship with your father shouldn't be an issue to anyone tbh. Everyone makes mistakes and is not perfect. I wish this gets better.I love you guys❤🙏

    @lwethu_bashman03@lwethu_bashman03 Жыл бұрын
    • Super immature! They don’t even know Richie like that! What do they want for gel? Like Richie treats her like a queen! He is always there for her! I don’t understand

      @Mbb895@Mbb895 Жыл бұрын
    • We can all see why every time they go to NYC something happens he has trouble written all over him n who knew he is the reason why gels mom is never on their channel he toxic mahnn fr fr .

      @janekitenye399@janekitenye399 Жыл бұрын
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      @lakersin4latenightconvo@lakersin4latenightconvo Жыл бұрын
    • Why,? Because he drove her to her dads place

      @jenniferjackson7427@jenniferjackson7427 Жыл бұрын
    • That step dad is looney and controlling.

      @lindamedley7281@lindamedley7281 Жыл бұрын
  • Nah gel ur real biological father(real father) is the the one telling the truth I have a feeling ur actual father is actually an angel👼🏾 real shit man.

    @rubeno9953@rubeno9953 Жыл бұрын
  • Nobody should stop you from meeting and building a relationship with your real father, if that is what you wanna do go for it. You are 25 and nobody should dictate your decisions. Build a bond with your father.

    @nosebleeddbruh@nosebleeddbruh Жыл бұрын
    • At age 25, what stepdad could stop me to build a relation with my biological father. That is crazy! I'm sorry but your stepdad is the problem.

      @yvonne7799@yvonne7799 Жыл бұрын
  • Richie showing this man so much respect even tho he pulled up with a whole attitude and just bad vibe. If Gel wants to give her biological father a chance and try to have a relationship with him that her decision and it shouldn't be affecting anyone else. I respect both of yall for tryna keep calm in the interaction. It's hard when he came in maddd spicy but yall both were being as respectful as possible. Much love to both of you!

    @Melinda17@Melinda17 Жыл бұрын
  • I believe that your mom is lying to you , I can sense that from her voice not to mention randomly her husband showing up they are the ones holding something from you I can see right threw all that shit you don't deserve to be lied to , I hope to goodness you and your father make the best of your relationship I'd ignore all the shit that's going on and just move on the drama is gonna really drag you guys down your father seems very genuine

    @allisonchartrand745@allisonchartrand745 Жыл бұрын
    • Thank you i feel the same when i heard her mom on the phone i could just sense the lies threw the phone like i feel the mom kept gel from her dad because of the step dad stepping not allowing her to let her see him its sad that she has to deal with a step dad like that but i honestly believe gels biological dad when she went to meet him!! But i wish her and her biological dad nothing but the best!!!💜

      @ambergarcia9520@ambergarcia9520 Жыл бұрын
    • Yea,he might have been a drunkard and he admits that's why he didn't keep his family but he still loves her alot

      @alicewambui1464@alicewambui1464 Жыл бұрын
    • Respectfully the father not trying to get into details on that situation he just want to get to know his daughter like I said on the other video it's two to three sides to a story he obviously not a bad man he helped raise your step sister who wants to meet you an is involved in her life an just because you in MIAMI doesn't mean you bout that so RICH needs to pipe down hes not from the city or even best little havana Eastside Hialeah calle ocho hialeah miami lakes that's where the real hood chicos at

      @lonzo8345@lonzo8345 Жыл бұрын
    • As soon as she called her and the way she greeted her daughter back. I knew something was up. So sad

      @najadhassan308@najadhassan308 Жыл бұрын
  • I’m actually worried for your mom being with somebody like that 😬

    @cesarr1854@cesarr1854 Жыл бұрын
    • ^^ Screams narcissistic/abusive relationship. No wonder why he kicked her out.. he was trying to isolate her mom from the jump it sounds like. Smh

      @user-vf1fm5tz9v@user-vf1fm5tz9v Жыл бұрын
    • Yes, she chose another toxic one - what no. is that!!!??? ...

      @lindyixchelsedona270@lindyixchelsedona270 Жыл бұрын
    • Exactly! He is a brute

      @atuheirwejacqueline3584@atuheirwejacqueline3584 Жыл бұрын
    • He is more crazy , acts like a teenager from the streets.

      @vincej9275@vincej9275 Жыл бұрын
    • Me too

      @laminmarenabittaye132@laminmarenabittaye132 Жыл бұрын
  • I respect Richie for not rocking his jaw for being so disrespectful. And the disrespect is only coming from the step dad. I couldn't have toxic people like that around. I met my real father when I was 28 for the first time and my dad felt betrayed but eventually he understood that family is family regardless. My mom didn't tell me til I was 12 that my dad wasn't my real dad and that hurt but I have a relationship with my dad and my biological father and at the end of the day for my happiness they put their differences aside for me. And continue to. But when you truly love someone and want what's best you have to respect their choices regardless. I pray you are able to have a great relationship with the two people who created you and maybe the one who raised you as well. Prayers. Mad respect to Richie for supporting you cuz at the end of the day that's all he wants is you to be happy and support you. Hopefully the step dad will grow up and respect your decisions. Whatever that may be. You have a right to have a relationship with whoever you choose always remember that.

    @sheenaricketson2163@sheenaricketson2163 Жыл бұрын
    • Richie soft he's a baby boy

      @br-dj2ti@br-dj2ti Жыл бұрын
    • Agree agree or agree

      @AngelMartinez-iw6jb@AngelMartinez-iw6jb Жыл бұрын
    • That is FACTS

      @shaihunter5182@shaihunter5182 Жыл бұрын
    • @@br-dj2ti nah this old man is very disrespectiful ,he was just respecting his elder but the elder in this case is acting a fool fr .

      @janekitenye399@janekitenye399 Жыл бұрын
    • @@janekitenye399 I understand exactly what you're saying I do it would have pissed me off but I would have never entertained I would have just walked away

      @br-dj2ti@br-dj2ti Жыл бұрын
  • I had to Stop the video when he told Rich to Shut up. Why is he being so disrespectful?! Smh ..You handled that very well. She has every right to reconnect with her father. Stay safe.

    @PlaywitIt2011@PlaywitIt2011 Жыл бұрын
  • Mad respect and love for Richie for stepping up and protecting gel like the queen that she is

    @justinjones3793@justinjones3793 Жыл бұрын
  • Richie you a real man. You stayed calm the hold time. Big respect to the Rich Way 🙌🙌🙌

    @kestongill9896@kestongill9896 Жыл бұрын
  • Wow when Rich and Gel was walking towards her step dad I literally felt Gel’s fear. I’m thinking that is why Rich kept asking her was she alright. The step dad has definitely caused Gel to have ptsd due to his anger issues. I’m so happy that Gel had Rich with her to protect her from him.

    @princessphillips5584@princessphillips5584 Жыл бұрын
  • Props to richie for keeping his cool in this situation i could tell the step dad was instigating. i dont think i would have been able to keep my cool like this and Gel girl im so sorry you have to deal with this we love you guys i hope everything gets better soon

    @RosieKush@RosieKush Жыл бұрын
  • Props to both you and rich for staying as calm as you did. I’m sorry you’re dealing with all of this just trying to figure some answers out🥺💞 love you both

    @PandaPeroxide@PandaPeroxide Жыл бұрын
    • I didn't see my biological dad from 6 years old and i left to find him when i was 17 my mom told me if i went to find my dad i was no longer allowed to come back to her house so i told her good bye. So i came to South Carolina to find him it was the best feeling when i found him. He is still your dad. My step father was all for me finding my dad matter a fact my biological dad is the one that gave me away when i got married

      @denisecollins4768@denisecollins4768 Жыл бұрын
  • Much respect to Rich for keeping his cool. Dude seems a little off. All he wanted to do was fight instead of talk. I went through the same thing with one of my mom's ex's and my Dad. It didn't turn out well for the other guy. He shouldn't be doing all of that. Rich is about that life. If you don't know what I'm talking about, you see he was waiting on old dude to swing. You can do all of the talking that you want to, just don't swing cause that would be the wrong move.

    @Kenwesttheartist@Kenwesttheartist Жыл бұрын
    • FACTS RICH WAS READY FOR HIS ASS TO SWING

      @shaihunter5182@shaihunter5182 Жыл бұрын
    • I don't get this man why come for Richie Angelika is a grown woman who can make her own decisions ,all Richie did was to go with her like it should be like damn old man here needs to chill ..he kinda looks high tho this old man ..😠😠😠

      @janekitenye399@janekitenye399 Жыл бұрын
    • @@shaihunter5182 he was definitely waiting. One thing you don't do is keep talking sideways to people who are laughing at the whole situation, when they're right there in front of you. Those are the crazy people. I'm one of them. Lol. That's what I do. I don't argue. I just wait for the wrong move to be made by the other person.

      @Kenwesttheartist@Kenwesttheartist Жыл бұрын
    • @@janekitenye399 something is definitely wrong with him.

      @Kenwesttheartist@Kenwesttheartist Жыл бұрын
    • @@Kenwesttheartist fr fr .

      @janekitenye399@janekitenye399 Жыл бұрын
  • Her step dad went really out of line here, it’s none of his business wether she wants to connect with her biological father or not it’s her life. I don’t know why Angelica’s mom would just give out an address like that as well.. 🤦🏻‍♀️the guy was so disrespectful I’m so sorry you guys had to go through that 😣

    @stephanievillegas6011@stephanievillegas6011 Жыл бұрын
    • Can you imagine the nerve of him telling her he gonna disappear again ?huh!! Is he GOD to know tomorrow ?

      @janekitenye399@janekitenye399 Жыл бұрын
  • Honestly I’m pretty sure Angelika’s biological father wasn’t perfect, but seeing how her step father was acting shows that he had a big role in Angelika not being able to have a relationship with her biological father

    @katarinamasaniai9496@katarinamasaniai9496 Жыл бұрын
  • He's abusive you can tell he forbade his wife from coming she is choosing the step dad over her daughter fuck that i been in that situation and never again this is crazy how is he going to tell her she is stupid for reaching out to her father it's her Choice not his I'm praying for you guys y'all don't need this toxic stuff

    @taimaisonet2395@taimaisonet2395 Жыл бұрын
    • I was gonna say that really thank you for speaking my mind.. he looks very toxic to begin with and he looks like he been the one that put a bridge between aAngel and bio dad never to meet again until today!? I’m sorry but she needs to look her past truth with her mom and her toxic step-d cuz seems a lot they hav to tell!! I wouldn’t bother to even question my bio dad in this case ever!! The mom has so mch to say!

      @aminaosman1490@aminaosman1490 Жыл бұрын
  • Another thing, who cares what the mom or dad says about the other. Its what Angelica feels and thinks. If she was happy seeing her dad and the aftermath of it, good for her. The same for how she feels about her mother. Ignore the drama that they say about each other and go by what you experience from here on out and build on that. People screw up and the best thing to do is learn from it and move on. An ex will always say bad about the other to make themselves look good. So ignore all that nonsense and go by what YOU experience. Wish you the best Angelica and Rich.

    @terrysgamingzone1390@terrysgamingzone1390 Жыл бұрын
    • He makes it look it like she is not old enough to think for herself he is sooo used to controlling everything he is mad she is starting to think for herself n act on her own ...sad either way he is supposed to be the father but here is acting a fool .

      @janekitenye399@janekitenye399 Жыл бұрын
    • In the first place she is grown he ain't got nothing to do with nothing. He need to mine his business her father is her father she has that bond from birth I went thru that same. Thing with my mom and stepdad but when my stepdad said something to me I told him iove him but I had to no who I am.and that separation between my parents that was between my mom and my dad it didn't have nothing to do with break up but I was 3yrz old but I had remembered my grandparents and I was eighteen when found my real dad so her stepdad need to stay his ass out of thst

      @barbarabeasley364@barbarabeasley364 Жыл бұрын
  • I understand why you said your step dad is toxic, he was being so disrespectful, props to Richie for staying calm. Gel, like you said your a grown woman, keep making choices that bring you peace and happiness. 🖤LTRW🖤

    @bibireza5242@bibireza5242 Жыл бұрын
  • The disrespect this man is giving to rich just proves he was right about her mom and dad treating him like shit the whole time. I give him props for being so mature in this situation and hope that gel can stick up for her man to her parents. That's her man, her future husband and the future father to her children...he needs to be respected. That's your family now gel. Not that punk old man Trina start stuff like he's 12.

    @misskmeltsawaytrent8470@misskmeltsawaytrent8470 Жыл бұрын
  • Smh he has no right to tell you what to do with your life that’s so messed up just know I love your mindset and you guys both are amazing a inspiration it’s things like this that makes you stronger 💯

    @gabbydiaz3776@gabbydiaz3776 Жыл бұрын
  • I love you guys!!!!!!! You guys need so much love right now…honestly jel I don’t know how your doing mentally but just keep your head up!!!! And Richie you are genuinely a great significant other to jel. Always having her back during hard times like these…props to you for keeping your composure!!!!! MAD RESPECT BRO!!! Again love you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    @gracediaz328@gracediaz328 Жыл бұрын
  • I think he’s upset with rich because maybe he didn’t ask him to marry his step daughter. He might of felt some type of way

    @samanthaabreu27@samanthaabreu27 Жыл бұрын
  • Props to Rich for keeping his cool. Step-Dad would have been sent on his way if it was my step-dad. He's nothing but trouble. He's lucky he was dealing with Rich not alot of other men. He wouldn't have walked away the same way he walked up. I think Angelica should have stood up for Rich the way he did her when he was calling him names. I was a little disappointed. I love you guys though ❤

    @craftypetgroomer267@craftypetgroomer267 Жыл бұрын
  • Omg he’s so aggressive.. seems like he jealous, of course he is going to have Angelica’s back that’s his girl he is going to support her 100% , things in life don’t go as planned I feel like there is 2 sides to this story I feel her stepdad played a part of Angelica not having a relationship with her dad he seems jealous & very defensive like something is going to come to light that he is afraid of

    @illusiondiaz8571@illusiondiaz8571 Жыл бұрын
    • Angelika's dad said he left when her mom got married n we can all see why I bet he is the reason why gels mom doesn't get along with Richie like look at him he is the adult but acting a fool ..

      @janekitenye399@janekitenye399 Жыл бұрын
  • Much respect to Richie for keeping his claim and protecting Angelica

    @El-Nino-@El-Nino- Жыл бұрын
  • Respect to Richie, may God bless him for always acting with a heart

    @emilia800_@emilia800_ Жыл бұрын
  • Props to Richie, he could've easily handled that a different way.

    @quilesfielder5270@quilesfielder5270 Жыл бұрын
  • I'm 51 y/o... I finally got to meet my real dad in my early 30's and I had him for only 7... I heard horrible stories as you did, from my mom... those 7 years were the best... he died from an aneurysm... keep the relationship with your biological father.. it's a blessing...

    @im7957@im7957 Жыл бұрын
  • Angelika as a supporter who really cares about your feelings and your heart and understand you don't need share these experiences am so proud of Richy he was amazing boyfriend today but your mum is your mum she was very respectful understand loving your dad he was loving but something about lying is no settled with me but step dad yes grateful for stepping in bringing you up but his approach was rude was introduding then blaming rich for you growing up thinking and wanna find out stuff yourself every child want know where they came from and wanna figure out truth there's 2 stories truth lays in middle that's for you to figure out but him not allowing your mum to come then he comes screams conteollin step dad and is he scared you cut him out because I would he didn't need blame rich or come nasty there's ways to approach stuff and coming angry isn't the answer

    @kimberly3664@kimberly3664 Жыл бұрын
  • Ay Richie You a real one for sticking to your morals and being the bigger person here!! #TEAMRICH4L

    @yobbygirldrea9594@yobbygirldrea9594 Жыл бұрын
  • The step dad have no rights. Shout out to Richie for keeping his cool eventhough he was being disrespected

    @shiera444@shiera444 Жыл бұрын
  • We can see who is really wrong ? Why moms are allowing stepdads to mistreat their children. Who is really the abusive one? I see mothers put their children out just for their boyfriends

    @kestonsmith1354@kestonsmith1354 Жыл бұрын
    • Thiss!!! Thank you im starting to see more now who was really the abusive one and its making me feel like theu just kept her away from her dad but i pray this gets better for her and i wish her and her biological dad the best when moving foward with a relationship!!🙏💜

      @ambergarcia9520@ambergarcia9520 Жыл бұрын
    • Yesss exactly smh her mom talks so bad about her biological dad but she allowed the step dad to kick her own daughter out? That just doesn't sit well with me, seems like the step dad has control over her mom, why else would he fly out and have her stay back at home smh just wierd......

      @sierracortes2206@sierracortes2206 Жыл бұрын
    • @@sierracortes2206 exactly i agree 100%!!

      @ambergarcia9520@ambergarcia9520 Жыл бұрын
    • Exactly like why would you even give this man your child's address like why he toxic as hell .

      @janekitenye399@janekitenye399 Жыл бұрын
    • You've nailed it dearest, and I have dicided to not allow that's noncesnce. Girl you keep doing what you think is best for you. Following your story, it looks like your step dad kinda make this journey somehow.....

      @candidtalkswithlauvena1835@candidtalkswithlauvena1835 Жыл бұрын
  • That's VERY Wrong Of This Man To Try To Keep You Away From Your Father

    @destineycarrera@destineycarrera Жыл бұрын
  • It’s sad that her own mother is letting him do what he’s doing

    @shauntelgarcia604@shauntelgarcia604 Жыл бұрын
    • And it's sad that Angelica is letting him do the same thing to her boyfriend and future husband future husband without defending him

      @iwontrespond4039@iwontrespond4039 Жыл бұрын
  • The step dad is an abuser, not sure whether physically or emotionally..... he manipulates and controls the mom so if Gel doesnt listen and obey him he feels trigered🙌

    @iammissvee9302@iammissvee9302 Жыл бұрын
    • Sounds like coerce control behavior to me

      @drewbranch7700@drewbranch7700 Жыл бұрын
  • Props to rich for keeping calm first of all he has no right to do a pop up with some smoke second if she wants to have her father in her life she grown they want a family and she would want the children to get to know their grandfather to enjoy him and create greater memories for the future it's up to her father to want it but I applaud both for keeping it cool and defend yourself as a grown woman and be open to a relationship with her father and forgetting the past go ahead I give y'all my respect

    @jhanalidysalvarado2979@jhanalidysalvarado2979 Жыл бұрын
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      @lakersin4latenightconvo@lakersin4latenightconvo Жыл бұрын
  • shout out to your boyfriend he really has your back and the only honest person who truly wants good things for you… and please know your biological dad is telling the truth .. seems like your mom is hiding or telling lies about your dad #coronaQueens

    @sdotbro347@sdotbro347 Жыл бұрын
  • That confrontation and the way the step dad is shows the exact reason why her biological dad stayed away fr!

    @salraygoza5124@salraygoza5124 Жыл бұрын
  • Your stepdad has no right to anything you have every right to have a relationship with your dad because he’s the blood that runs they your veins. Don’t let nothing stop you, if you have to be away from your family do it. Don’t miss out on having a father and daughter relationship. Trust me I tell you from experience. I’m cheering for you 💜

    @monam1965@monam1965 Жыл бұрын
  • I would tell the " so called (step father) 2 take his "step" self back 2 his car & have fun wasting his money on a room & flight ✈️ back home. And be thankful Rich didn't make him spend more money on a ER visit. No wonder Gel don't want 2 see him. Praying 4 U Gel🙏 & Thank u Rich 4 letting Gel know how a Real Man should treat her.💯💙

    @paulatouchton7822@paulatouchton7822 Жыл бұрын
  • Just stay strong, I know this situation is hard but stay positive don’t let this put you down. Just smile and keep your head up high ❤️

    @evangelistashannelyzhernan7658@evangelistashannelyzhernan7658 Жыл бұрын
  • This step dad, needs a LOT OF BIT of WISDOM.

    @alvinsmith4288@alvinsmith4288 Жыл бұрын
  • Mad respect to your man for holding back. Cause if was me he'd be picking his face off the floor. That was the best way to handle the situation and show who if the bigger person

    @otonielcamacho2006@otonielcamacho2006 Жыл бұрын
  • You are being strong Gel I love you and you’ll get through this sending love to you and Richie ❤️

    @alisonclarke1127@alisonclarke1127 Жыл бұрын
  • I said this in the last vid, seems like Gel’s mom is hiding something. I wish nothing but the best to both Gel and Richy 🙏🏽💯

    @luism.carrillo@luism.carrillo Жыл бұрын
    • Exactly, she is hiding something.

      @chikitostv3466@chikitostv3466 Жыл бұрын
    • Let me tell you something her mum's a fraud mate and has lied to gel for along time about her dad that's why the stepdad is out there acting like a fake gangster because they don't want her to know the truth

      @aysheahulton5835@aysheahulton5835 Жыл бұрын
  • That’s crazy!! I was just waiting for popz to swing 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Made respect for Rich for keeping it cool 🥶🧊 lol Gel you have every right to build a relationship with your biological father 💯

    @derrickguillen3182@derrickguillen3182 Жыл бұрын
  • Wow respect to richie for keeping his composure your love for angelica must mean alot if your expressing restraint

    @robertmurray2843@robertmurray2843 Жыл бұрын
  • Praying for you gel we all hear for u guys stay positive an good luck

    @jamesyorgensen7472@jamesyorgensen7472 Жыл бұрын
  • you did the right thing richie from a Thai fighters perspective to another fighter that man didn’t want the smoke respectfully 😭✊🏼

    @javieresparza6154@javieresparza6154 Жыл бұрын
  • Gel you got this beautiful 😍 🤩 keep ur head held high. Rich is a good dude and he's got ur back for sure. I love yall and ur videos and content. Keep up the 🔥 videos guys. Love yall. ❤️

    @kimberlypuckett6995@kimberlypuckett6995 Жыл бұрын
  • Richie is so funny😂😂 I know I'm not supposed to find this as a joke . Gel is so beautiful OMG😊😊😊

    @lwethu_bashman03@lwethu_bashman03 Жыл бұрын
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      @thekiaries4039@thekiaries4039 Жыл бұрын
  • Ok why was it ok for him to go but he didnt want your mom to come it just dont make sense your mom and step dad is hiding something i believe your when ur dad said he never saw you because he didnt want to cause problems with your step dad and now we see why why is your mom allowing him to do that.. to me your mom is not telling you everything im sorry you have to deal with a step dad like that but i wish you the best!! 🙏💜

    @ambergarcia9520@ambergarcia9520 Жыл бұрын
  • Richi was about to put them cloves to work and i respect that he didn't do it i mean as old as the step daddy is he needs to know how to approach richie. My man im out here from south africa capetown following the rich way all the way you guys inspire me i hope everthing gets sorted out and that step dad he need to come fresh he a rude boy

    @javacalstarlson7176@javacalstarlson7176 Жыл бұрын
  • Honey,people can be good people and be addicted to drugs and alcohol. Doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you but it can make you do things you would not do if you were sober. I believe your dad loves you and wishes his life had of been different.

    @lynnwiggins6120@lynnwiggins6120 Жыл бұрын
  • Much respect bro.i respect you keeping your cool

    @kennethpangelinan8343@kennethpangelinan8343 Жыл бұрын
  • Step dad is a narcissist he controlled that hole family he feels he own her and her mom thats how i look at it 🙄🙄🙄

    @sweet906@sweet906 Жыл бұрын
  • My mom n dad broke up when I was 3 then my mom married to another guy. I love my step dad but ofc he’s on my moms side and always negatively say something bad about my dad. My mom n dad were so toxic at the time a lot of abuse n all went on n my mom still til this day has the nerve to lie about my dad about the past but there’s nothing I can do to know the truth n it’s frustrating asf!!!😩Usually in this case both parents don’t tell truth or one lies n they are very manipulative n good at it🤦🏻‍♀️

    @oksaunnaoberg3365@oksaunnaoberg3365 Жыл бұрын
  • that man is crazy been your step dad i never what that kinda person on my life but keep your head up you already meet your real dad and thats another chanse that you got right there, respect to your man '

    @joselozano1262@joselozano1262 Жыл бұрын
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      @lakersin4latenightconvo@lakersin4latenightconvo Жыл бұрын
  • That's wild🤧 Stay Strong RichWay💯

    @FALL2002@FALL2002 Жыл бұрын
  • He’s just a step dad forget him if he was a good stepfather he wouldn’t do the things he did in this video. Respect to Rich for not taking to first move. I would wait until that step dad make the first move so Rich can call it self defense.

    @carguyslifestyle8578@carguyslifestyle8578 Жыл бұрын
  • At the end of the day if you want a relationship with your real father it's totally up to you and it's none of your "step father's" business, do what makes you happy it's your life you are grown enough to make your own decisions 🤍

    @S.Gaming293@S.Gaming293 Жыл бұрын
  • If I may say, at the end of the day Gel is a grown woman now. She is 100% allowed to make her own decisions about everything in her life. Everything from the clothes she wears to whomever she wants to be a part of her life is HER decision & hers only. She should not be guilt tripped by anyone about her decisions that she makes for her own life. Honestly, that makes me so upset that anyone who thinks doing that to her is ok. So many people grow up without one or even both of their biological parents & no matter how many times they're told of all the bad things about them, the child in them still wants to find out for themselves. Which is 100 percent ok. Because sometimes, what they've been told all their life isn't 100% true. Sometimes it's the other person's grudge against them that fuels what they tell about them. Not always the case, but sometimes. Although I don't understand why anyone would feel betrayed, if your mom wants to be upset about you wanting to meet your biological father then that's fine. But that's on her to deal with within herself. It's not okay for her or your stepdad to guilt you & try to make you feel shitty for wanting to & taking the step to meet your biological dad. You being curious & wanting to do that is perfectly normal & okay. I don't know how you truly feel about your meeting with him, but what i heard him tell you lined up with a lot of what your mom told you when you called her to tell her about it. He said he had a drinking problem & that he wasn't the best person back then. He said he did try & come see you. He said he did call and check on you. As often as your mom thought he should have been, no. But not enough isn't the same as not at all. Maybe I could see it differently it you were like 13 running away to live with him & then switching up on your mom & your stepdad. But that's not what you did. You, in your 20s, with the support of one of the people you love most in your life, decided to contact, track down & meet your father. There's a HUGE difference between the two situations. I noticed when you were on the phone with your mom, & brought a couple things up about your mom that didn't maybe show her in the best light, she even said herself that she wasn't perfect & it wasn't a perfect marriage. But he didn't trash talk your mom. He said so many good things about her. Yes, maybe he only did minimal things for you when you were younger. But not very many people even get that. But the fact that he did make some effort & that he has pictures of you hanging up in his house should speak volumes. That, in my opinion, reflects someone who knew they weren't capable, at that time, to be who you needed them to be. But he still loved you & thought about you often. And maybe he didn't put in more effort because he didn't think he was worthy of your time & affection after all these years. But, I think like richie said, the past is the past. All that matters now is whether or not he maintains an effort to be in your life from here on out, if you want him to be. And I feel like it is incredibly disrespectful for your stepdad to show up unannounced to further guilt trip you about your decision & then blatantly disrespect your significant other. Especially when in the conversation you had with your mom about all of this, she said it was your decision. And that she would never keep you from your dad. I just want you to know Gel that, you are not wrong or disrespectful or spiteful or hateful for wanting to meet & get to know your biological father. ❤

    @hnlafferty20116@hnlafferty20116 Жыл бұрын
  • He has no right to stop you from seeing your father do what your tells you and your boyfriend seams like a good man god bless you

    @adolfolopez4571@adolfolopez4571 Жыл бұрын
  • Be strong girl you have a loving man by your side just continue to love and cherish each other

    @landaelliott1630@landaelliott1630 Жыл бұрын
  • Things are getting out of control here! don't let that old dude get to your head bro!!

    @itsyaboysaber784@itsyaboysaber784 Жыл бұрын
  • Honestly Richy took that pretty well...the stepdad needs to calm down and see no one's trying to get between them...they both have something in common,Angelica.

    @oliviaogbe9518@oliviaogbe9518 Жыл бұрын
  • Good job Richie you handled yourself correctly thank you for being the man you are to your girl and society

    @theeverything00@theeverything00 Жыл бұрын
  • Pops almost got rocked bro, that's some mad ass restraint Richie 💪 unless the step dad is like the old dude in that 1 boxing video that destroys the younger guy 😄 🤣 😂

    @ryancastle20@ryancastle20 Жыл бұрын
  • I support yall for RICH way all the way 💯 💛❤💘💗💖💝

    @kingtisyoung7232@kingtisyoung7232 Жыл бұрын
  • I really hope everything gets better 💗

    @karlatellez1275@karlatellez1275 Жыл бұрын
  • Woah woah woah like I’m sorry your dealing with this first of all gel, like idk how your mom is not coming with her man like df who knows what this man is capable of doing!! Again I’m so proud of you for bringing this to your relationship. I’m just watching the beginning and I’m nervous for you. Stay safe and keep your head up beautiful 🤗🤗🤗🤗

    @r3m3dysoul44@r3m3dysoul44 Жыл бұрын
  • Woah!! Props to Richie. Angelica I'm so sorry you are going through this. I had a very similar situation. It hurts plus some💖

    @DRealJessica@DRealJessica Жыл бұрын
  • I could only imagine what’s Gel’s mom has to go through with this guy, omg.

    @Mw2killaboii@Mw2killaboii Жыл бұрын
    • Frankly,,, till tomorrow, I say her biological father is better and if this is the man that got married to her mum, meeeeee i understand why her biological dad left.

      @comfort5172@comfort5172 Жыл бұрын
  • Richie takes good care of Gel, he needs to respect him.

    @britanyh99611@britanyh99611 Жыл бұрын
  • Rich you have every right to be upset with that man he and old man that think that to hard In his head you smarter than him he mad he even said it he don't like you because u better good vibes And always Team Gel you got this head up and don't let no one bring you down true family got your back!! Much love to all and who ever read this also hope you remember you are a blessing in this world don't let anyone tell you otherwise and you never alone!!!

    @Zolo-Saint@Zolo-Saint Жыл бұрын
  • Rich your showing the step dad so much respect and he's being so disrespectful to the both of you I'm glad you stayed so calm ❤

    @TheLisa4693@TheLisa4693 Жыл бұрын
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      @lakersin4latenightconvo@lakersin4latenightconvo Жыл бұрын
  • This is like a reality show or some shit…WILD. But Richie is definitely doing a great job keeping his composure, couldn’t be me.

    @kadreyaphillip5983@kadreyaphillip5983 Жыл бұрын
    • That dude is like 65 years old I'm going to walk away as soon as he called me a name if it upset me that bad I wouldn't have sat there and entertained it Richie's Young but the old man go

      @br-dj2ti@br-dj2ti Жыл бұрын
    • @@br-dj2ti Nah old man was hostile from the start. He barely let Richie get two words out before he came with the disrespect. Letting disrespect slide because someone is older than you is a tired mentality. Richie was able to hold his ground and defend himself and his girl without crossing any lines in my opinion.

      @kadreyaphillip5983@kadreyaphillip5983 Жыл бұрын
    • @@kadreyaphillip5983 no I understand what you're saying definitely but he wasn't going to hit the old man I hope I'm 39 I would never hit an old man never unless it was something horrible he did names ain't nothing Richie should have just walked away that's just my opinion why sat there and entertain an old man like that

      @br-dj2ti@br-dj2ti Жыл бұрын
    • @@kadreyaphillip5983 I'll tell you what though from your picture you are beautiful God bless stay safe honey

      @br-dj2ti@br-dj2ti Жыл бұрын
  • I feel like ya step dad just really strongly hates rich! There’s nothing he could do or say that would of made that any better. Your step dad thinks rich is in your head bc he can’t except the fact that your grown now and can make your own decision! It’s a control thing and that’s so fucked I’m sorry you have to go through that gel

    @marilyng7457@marilyng7457 Жыл бұрын
    • You can tell he is super controlling and abusive towards the mother and Angelica that’s why Angelica left and has been with Richie ever since

      @jessicaparra9929@jessicaparra9929 Жыл бұрын
  • So now I know why your Mom's had that negative energy towards Richie when he called her to ask for your hand in marriage. Your Step-dad couldn't be more wrong for the way he is acting and about Richie! He seems to be very controlling and has a very skewed outlook on the situation. Not even your Mom had a problem with you seeing your Dad. The only one that seems to have a problem is him and that is a very telling fact. Richie, kudos to you for keeping your cool, you showed more maturity than him and he has to have you by like 30-40yrs. Bruh!🤦🏾‍♀🤦🏾‍♀🤦🏾‍♀

    @thejandoshow@thejandoshow Жыл бұрын
  • Pops still has that street in him! He wanted to throw hands 🤣

    @coffeetalk924@coffeetalk924 Жыл бұрын
  • Just forgive your dad even if he left you just forgive coz your lucky to have your father alive give it a chance

    @justval3847@justval3847 Жыл бұрын
  • Her step dad is mad because he knows what he’s done to Gel and feels so much guilt that bringing her biological dad back into her life is going to be a big competition

    @Serenity.Stephi@Serenity.Stephi Жыл бұрын
  • After watching your story I definitely think 🤔 that your mother told you some untrue facts! If he is her representative she clearly has a type of man she loves. Get to know your dad’s family I feel your gonna experience a New ❤️ for family. This was crazy 😜! Also I ❤️ the way y’all ❤️ each other.

    @beautifulsmiley9706@beautifulsmiley9706 Жыл бұрын
  • We love y’all both so much and hope that y’all get thoughts this together 😢

    @myahorton9455@myahorton9455 Жыл бұрын
  • Hi Gel I’m not saying that your mom is lying but your mom and step dad acting that way is because they are hiding something that they don’t want you to find out. If you want to have a relationship with your bio dad do it for you and because you want to. Don’t let those toxic and negative thoughts get in the way. Love you and I hope you do what’s best for you not them

    @princesswendy061@princesswendy061 Жыл бұрын
  • Lol stepdad doesn't know Richie got boxing skills.😂😂😂 Seems to me like he's manipulative and controlling, hence why he wanted to speak to Gel alone. Tries to intimidate when he doesn't get his way but, Richie ain't having none of that. 👊🏼

    @mcknight6308@mcknight6308 Жыл бұрын
  • Rich going Wild bro i love to see it🤩🤩Big mann

    @Tino-ri2zy@Tino-ri2zy Жыл бұрын
  • Omg got me heated so disrespectful, Gel im so sorry you have to go through this Rich props for having your girls back. The only thing i see is jealousy Gel he thought when he locked you out the house you were going to suffer you of course are human and hurt etc... But you didn't let him dim your light your still shining bright you keep forward at the end of the day Gel you have to be HAPPY 1ST 2ND AND 3RD God bless continue your journey to get closure you need please believe me im 41yrs old and still trying to get closure from childhood it's not a great feeling i hope you read this comment i feel for you please get the closure you need sending a virtual hug. Rich continue to be her strength it will be an emotional rollercoaster hold her when she needs to be held give her space when she needs it always let her know your there when she wants to talk or be silence when she wants to laugh or just cry

    @oliviacruz1675@oliviacruz1675 Жыл бұрын
  • I have to say beautiful as always Angelica but like I said I'm in one of my messages you shouldn't question your mother about what happened in her past you know what I mean cuz they both have their own stories they both feel it went this way or that way you know and I think trying to get to the bottom of something that you know nothing about might be more harmful to your mom and dad and I don't mean this in any kind of bad way at all I'm just simply giving my advice I was raised by a single mother myself and when I went digging about my dad shit came up that nobody wanted to hear cuz my dad committed suicide but I was told one thing and I started digging and asking questions and found something else out and I didn't want to know and it hurt my mom in the long run so just be careful that's all I'm saying good luck babe

    @jessicagallo3631@jessicagallo3631 Жыл бұрын
    • Any child who has one or 2 absent parents deserve to get answers and will search for answers. Alot of children face lifelong trauma because they didn't get to meet their mother or father. My grandmother is 84 and not being able to see her mother in her entire life still affects her today, because she has no pictures of her, don't know what she looks like and can't because she passed away decades ago. So I say live life with no regrets .

      @kestonsmith1354@kestonsmith1354 Жыл бұрын
  • I honestly think that he was just more pissed off at the fact that Richie had asked her actual biological father for her hand in marriage instead of her stepfathers permission. He has no place to be pissed off and he had no place at all to show up in Florida to defend somebody that has a mouth and the capability to defend her self and that’s my opinion if anybody has anything else to say let me know

    @Gigi_1108@Gigi_1108 Жыл бұрын
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      @lakersin4latenightconvo@lakersin4latenightconvo Жыл бұрын
  • Props for Richie and Gel for taking the high way instead of stooping to his level

    @berlandejean-baptiste9613@berlandejean-baptiste9613 Жыл бұрын
  • Respect for Richie💯🤞🏾

    @trchaserlife@trchaserlife Жыл бұрын
  • So your mom couldn’t defend herself? Like why is your step dad coming over and not your mom smh 🤦🏻‍♀️ ridiculous

    @Mikaylafit28@Mikaylafit28 Жыл бұрын
    • That's is a point, her mom couldn't defend herself, which mean what her magical biological father about her mom is ture!

      @chikitostv3466@chikitostv3466 Жыл бұрын
    • @@chikitostv3466 exactly

      @Mikaylafit28@Mikaylafit28 Жыл бұрын
  • Gel, if they’re not gonna understand you wanting your biological dad in your life, the hell with them, I know they’re your parents, but they are just trippin’.

    @maxthomas4751@maxthomas4751 Жыл бұрын
  • Angelica she's doing the right thing by trying to create a good relationship with her biological father after so many years because honestly what she went through with her stepfather wasn't good for her ,the worse part is that she was only 18😩😩. The fact that Angelica's mother doesn't want her to connect with her biological father after so many years it really shows that she doesn't even care about her ,she only cares about how she wants things to be . Angelica she's a grown person now,she can decide what's best for her and what Richie did was very supportive ❤. Do what's best for you Gel and gravitate towards the things that brings happiness into your life 🙂. It's a good thing that Richie has Gel's back at all times ,Keep it up bro y'all are doing fine ,Love y'all ❤All the way from South Africa 🇿🇦❤

    @elizabethonkarabile1587@elizabethonkarabile1587 Жыл бұрын
  • Respect for you rich the way you handle it but boy he hold ALOT of your self for not being knock out with all my respect he just hurt because gel went to see his real dad and he fell like he will be left over I live the in my mom's he just hurt after yrs he was there for gel and now her real dad it's on the pic rich keep it up love you guys 💕🙏🙏

    @ivonne550@ivonne550 Жыл бұрын
  • To be honest, the step dad needs to back up and let that "machoness" go. Hes a old ass man trying to act stiff.. anyways, I understand he's defending your mom especially since he's been more in the picture then your biological dad, but this is not his business. Dont think you did wrong by going to see your dad. At the end of the day, he's still your dad and if you wanna build that bond with him despite the past, then do it regardless of how it may make anyone else feel. Hopefully you get this handled because yall don't need that drama. What you choose is your choice 😉

    @faithsworld9299@faithsworld9299 Жыл бұрын
    • I definitely agreee with that

      @dominicanqueen_2938@dominicanqueen_2938 Жыл бұрын
    • Richy has patience like alot with him he loves Angelika so much to take that rude ish a mean he is talking about Richy putting stuff in her head he is wrong because he won't even listen to how she feels

      @kimberly3664@kimberly3664 Жыл бұрын
    • @@kimberly3664 right away they wanna jump the gun and assume shit when this was Angelika's idea and he's just by her side through it all. He had no place doing this!

      @faithsworld9299@faithsworld9299 Жыл бұрын
    • Yess im sorry but a dtep dad who really cared about his step daughter would never take things this way just for her growing up wanting to meet her biological dad i do deep down believe he is the reason she never saw her biological dad i believe he stopped her from seeing him and now that she met him he feels"betrayed" because he knows now the truth is coming out but i wish her the best!! And i pray she continues to see her biological dad like she deserves!!💜💐🙏

      @ambergarcia9520@ambergarcia9520 Жыл бұрын
    • @@ambergarcia9520 agree much! I feel like he's just mad more on a personal level. He's just hating that she wants her dad in the picture.

      @faithsworld9299@faithsworld9299 Жыл бұрын
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