Maybe Stop Doing This...
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I think comparing yourself to others is a wrong way of thinking; I've done it myself most of my life and I'm trying to learn to stop. Now seeing somebody's success and being proud of them and using it as a driving force to improve yourself is totally different. Jocko thank you for reminding me of this
I have experienced so much of this in my life that it has changed me permanently. I don't share much with anyone anymore.
Exactly, it's sad when sometimes it's your own family . Smh
@@mattmorrison9379 My own family is included in my statement, among others. and you're right, it sucks.
Yep.
yep!! that's why I stopped telling my goals as well, just in silent and accomplish silently "do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing" mathew 6:3
"you're mad cause I'm not jealous" 🤣
"Check your self you got issues" 💯
You need to come to my home town 😔
Jealousy is the outward reflection of the inner sense of failure at something related. Greetings from Austria 🇦🇹 😊
Being jealous or envious of someone else's car is what God calls breaking the 10th commandment, You shall not covet. So it's not as much of a competition issue as it is a heart (sin) issue.. Love you Jocko, just keeping it real...
People who are ruled by envy will do evil things. I can remember 2 times where I felt a brief moment of envy. The goal is to reach contentment. Cain didn't give his first fruit. We are supposed to lift each other up, higher than ourselves. And you are doing the same.
What about thou shall not kill, it’s fucked up how people try to say it means thou shall not murder
Of all the things I’ve done (or maybe still do) wrong in my life, being jealous of someone else’s stuff or life has not been one of them. Maybe mildly as in when driving by the big houses and being like man, how do people afford these places.. but it doesn’t eat at me. I’ve been blessed.
Yes, Echo. Gratitude is powerful and it can be nurtured.
"Dude I payed cash for this thing." Had me rolling
When I was young. I always wanted to be the person I was not. When I became busy and found success. Contentment removed the jealous mind games. If a friend is jealous or downgrades your new car or whatever. They are not really your friend. But they are just an aquentance.
Life has blessed us with more than we need. By comparison, we take the difference of our position and someone else's position and decide we are poor by that difference.
Jealousy would be an ugly trait to possess.
"You should be happy when other people win" Jocko quote
Just don't ask him for a quote on what Task Force Bruiser was up to in '06
I've known quite a few rich older individuals. I've always asked what was the key to their success. Why not celebrate success instead of tearing it down.
As I always say, "Haters gonna hate. Let 'em. Keep on grinding." Keep on rockin'! 🤘
I’m not even mad this is a re-run, great message that I needed before I start my ball season
Thank you. I find myself watching these videos because sometimes there’s so much shit u have to undig all the dirt off the gold
Spoke to me word for word man, appreciate what you guys do
Jocko out here looking like an A.I. colorized photograph
What a powerful message!
Very true, I'm super jealous of any nation receiving our military aid.
Firm believer in celebrating others success! There is an amount of self sacrifice in celebrating others until it becomes who you are versus having to fabricate genuine joy for others success
Had two so called buddies (I thought at the time) that had no change in expression or response and were just stoic at a personal success they knew was big for me
Hey Hi my 6 yo read your warrior kid and rather than being afraid from Maths and trying new things at park he leans into it. One year since he read the book he is a changed little guy. The amazing thing is it's not that he likes all the things he does especially his language class and pinao but he does it , he shows up. Even adults can't do that. With tears in my eyes , I want to thank you from the core of my heart . Thanks for writing the book.
people that want bigger n better,I their opinion they're often verry unhappy to start,less is more for happy people iv found❤
I’m 60 years old, my IQ was tested at 10 and again at 16, I scored 130 and 132 respectively. I thought this meant I was smarter than most and lived my life that way for many years and you know what happened, I became a loser, I’m still a loser. IQ represents your ability to learn at a little higher level, but only if you apply yourself and work hard, I did neither. I’ve read Extreme Ownership, and I own the fact that I’m a loser, I’m not proud of it but it is unmistakable. I’ve read Discipline=Freedom, it didn’t take, I struggle everyday to be more disciplined. Have I gotten better, maybe, it’s hard for me to gauge at this point, I hope so. I’m a decent father to my almost 18 year old son, his work ethic and determination inspire me, he is everything I’m not. He’s much smarter and better than I am, thank God! I’m jealous of no one and celebrate my family and friends accomplishments. I used to blame the early testing, I thought I would be successful because it said I was able to learn difficult things, but if not applied correctly it means nothing. I’m a loser, Good, it’s never too late for change. God Bless all!
Sir. In my opinion, based on your brief above, is that you are in fact NOT a loser. You've managed to raise a son, which is no easy task. I congratulate you. I ask you, to no longer speak of yourself as a loser. this can not be good. It is " I think - therefore I am" Think something more positive of yourself. Find it. Anything. I am sure you have done at more great things other than raise a son with good principles. Success does not have to be based on wealth and possessions. Success for some is just being able to walk, or run again. God bless to you, mate.
@@mayceblack2563 I appreciate your encouragement, I am not saying I haven’t done some things I am proud/grateful for. When I was 8 I saved my 2 year old sister from drowning in a lake, it’s a foggy memory but my Mother, Grandmother and Grandfather witnessed it, my sister has gone on to receive a double masters degree and has two daughters who have each had 4 and 3 children each, I suppose I’m directly responsible for 11, counting my son as well, souls being on the Earth that would not be here had I not saved her. It’s still a hard thing to understand 52 years later. I don’t say that to be some kind of hero, it was my baby sister and an action based on instinct and love as best I can conclude. It’s probably more accurate to say in my own mind I’m a loser because I haven’t lived up to my expectations for myself. I’ve helped some other people along the way, but rarely myself. I am a great believer in God and complete honesty especially when viewing myself, so maybe my point is unclear and sounds stupid, but loser does seem to fit. I love myself and every soul, the humans not so much lol, but each soul is pure some are just not connected to it, I feel very connected to my soul. I must judge myself as I see it and that’s how I see it, I may/hope I’m wrong, but I wish I could see it differently. Cheers mate!
Very cool , Jocko and Echo
I can only get what I want by helping you get what you want. If I am secure in myself why wouldn’t I want better for you. If I am not then I compare and I start to begrudge another’s good tidings. I am fearfully contemplating what you get that I won’t. I have done this and it’s only as I have become more assured that I embrace another’s success. Thus, increasing my chances for good things to happen in my life.
I can see why Jocko can rub other vets the wrong way. He's very successful, his confidence is off the charts, and his motivation level is super human. Vets are just regular people, with all kinds of personalities. A lot of SOF guys are very different from Jocko. Most of the ones I've met are very humble and unassuming. I've met guys who did crazy things during their service and to me they just came off as a typical "Dad." I think Jocko's personality can be grating to some. A lot truly believe in the old "quiet professional" lifestyle. They did their thing and don't want to talk about it. They want to grow their hair and beard out, ride their motorcycle, and live their post-military life away from military rules and Jocko type personalities.
Jocko did that shit lol
In Finland we have this saying: "A Finn is willing to pay 100 bucks for his neighbour not getting 50 bucks." That´s how deep we go in this... :P
Damn.
sometimes its not that simple. your soul gives you powerful feelings and strong urges that are VERY hard to resist
This is what, the 3rd video at attempting to do damage control inside your echo chamber? Jocko doing everything but be face to face with Eric 🤣
That’s it !
100% yes.....
Good luck 🥰🌸
The jonses 😂 phenomenal
Re: Cain and Abel, I think Abel offered a blood sacrifice, which was what the Old Testament instituted later, and was a precursor or a symbol of Jesus' sacrificial death. The story doesn't mention whether Cain knew that.
great workout background. stay hard!
Scarcity Mindset vs. Abundance Mindset One is always helpful. One is always harmful. Figure that out, and your life will improve. Guaranteed.
Jacko passive aggressively saying Eric demming is jealous.
"u jelly, haterz"
@@playlist9980 I bet you hang off every one of his words like if they where his nuts though
100%
TR and Twain…be a good friend, it’s a Helluva good morning.
The ending was savagery 😂
Jack reacher would call this a “look here not there tactic” Others call this a “redirect” But some call it “gaslighting”
I'm just here for the comments about accusations against Jocko. I didn't even look at the comments before I typed this, let's see.
I'm just waiting for your three daughters to write a tell-all book,"Sexist Parenting:We Were Forced to Share a Bedroom, Whilst Our Brother Had His Own."
They are not talking about a new car. It is about women, perhaps - over a women. Fine if there is resolution. Yet sometimes the fish is on the hook and they play - not good to play with emotion. What happened to Twain and Teddy? It is not about the other person's or peoples success. This we should rejoice in - if they are happy and well paired. Nor is it sad, what we may have missed, if our decisions are for the right reasons. We get up to bat and can strike out, go down swinging, or take a walk, there is also the chance to get a hit - ( run ) - this is the game. We may get another chance at bat, you never know. I learned in my life from auto accidents - Steel is cheap - it is the human factor our flesh our selves, children in the car, our friends - riding with us - the people take a beating and carry the scars forever - or yes we might catch a wave - be happy when that happens. Don't worry about the car or house - it really is hard to live with mistakes of the heart - especially when unknowingly hurt others, have the jealousy or missed our queue. Time flows in one directions. We live with our decisions - make the best ones we can - given the situation. I would rather have pain and honesty than false hope. That is just me. I make lots of mistakes especially with the women in my life. When we are gifted in one way or another we are sometimes kind of ignorant in others - could be just me but I doubt it - the realm of the human heart is ( all over the map) sometimes challenging. Mark Twain said "I gave my Mother a hard time, but she loved it" Roosevelt - idk "He charged San Juan Hill" No guts no glory. I trust God - if it was meant to be it will come to pass. It takes two to build a strong relationship - if it is them then good, if it is us then even better. If not then there must be more to it then I will ever know, sad - being 65 years old and back in Junior High School. Everything changed when I witnessed about, kittens giving birth in a box in the closet. Innocence lost ...
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I’ve had guys like this at work.. it’s also lead to them attempting to sabotage someone because they felt they “deserved” it. Even though that had zero qualifications.
Don't compare yourself with others. Figure out where you are and focus on making progress.
The indirect response to Eric Deming. Nice.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
JOCKO AND ECHO ARE GOING OFF!!!!!
Passive aggressively going off on Eric demming instead of doing what they preach and taking the problem on
Jocko has always given me the impression that his ego is whats important and that makes me completely believe that he has unnecessarily cost america lives, for his own ego.
When feeling jelous, one should think of how they can improve themselves and not try to trip the one they are jelous with, and if possible you can approach them and get some tips or techniques on how they do it. Then you take that, learn from it, then implement it. Competitiveness is ok as it drives one to do better, but jealousy should be kept and swallowed. Now If it's material objects, prioritize your savings and plans, before luxury items. It's ok to spend on something you like, but do consider if it will affect your saving or plans.
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I hope the people of LinkedIn forget about me
If someone I care for got a new car I'm celebrating with him/her, if someone I hate got a new car he/she still No Factor to me 😂
Jocko more of the bible please
I don’t even understand it from a psychological point of view because I’ve never had those feelings. I don’t understand at all being mad because someone’s wealth or because decisions a female makes. Like that’s going to change anything.
(Ya don't say...) GOOD Morning ☀
This dude says a lot of good things. I haven't listened to enough of his videos but he really makes some positive, productive, confidence, and passion.
I stopped being jealous years ago. I could care less about other's "success" things aren't always what they seem on the surface.
I always think "Who the fuck so you think we send to do the things, most won't? Don't complain about the prep and cook, after you have eaten. And be done with the whole debacle. I get why they thought. They just didn't think for long enough. Have a nice day.
Is it fair to ask if Eric Deming has seeked mental health doctors
I'm jealous of my younger self's youth and uninjured body, and I'm jealous of my older self's wisdom, experience, and smart investment money that paid off Both of them are jealous of me now, I bet As for everyone else? Who cares? Gratitude is the cure to jealousy
The worst is when you are jealous of something you could never have or be. That will just eat you from inside.
Everyone has their set of problems, I couldn't imagine wanting someone else's life.
And if you think you have it your wrong 🤡🤡
Keep yo mouf shut and move in silence
i want to squat this abandoned house next to charcoal st ....i know if they find me there they will kick me out...i need friends i need support ...noone has been in this place for over sevreal years and it needs work..if i put flowers in the yard I can claim it? Please help me....
People really need to watch his videos before commenting. Hes already addressed the alligations im his last 2 podcasts.
Day 47 of jocko let’s get John Stryker Meyer on Joe Rogans podcast before he’s gone he wants to go on
If the people around you are winning = you associate with winners =you win as well
I think Eric Deming is in Jockos head
I thought this was in response to the infighting
Does giving praise for unearned rewards do harm? I suspect it does not lead to posive results in most cases. Or is this about not being inclined toward a negative reaction if anyone gets some thing deserved or not? Sort of a warning about making jealousy your default setting? Although I can think of times I have seen it, being unnecessarily negative about positive results for others seems like it would be negative for all involved unless other mitigating factors were present. If somone earned something legitimately, being jealous just shows a profound lack of character in my opinion. It doesn't really cost you anything to congratulate someone for a job well done if they actually did one, and to be jealous of one's friends just seems odd and counterproductive. If you desire something work for it diligently and as I beleive Jordan Peterson asserts, if you make the proper sacrifice you will likely gain what you seek. But I suppose I may be overthinking things.
When do you open again.
i think when they put someone in a job that is less qualified than you are is upsetting ...there are people who just want to sabatoge my life!
Who murdered Kindra Nelson? Joe Dietz?
I’m glad Jocko addressed the false allegations that came out the last couple of weeks. It was crazy to see jealous haters pop up everywhere trying to disparage him and task unit Bruiser.
It was crazy, anyone who didn’t like Jocko, but couldn’t find a reason to bash him immediately threw their weight wholeheartedly behind extremely thin dubious allegations
I wish our species didn't put so much stock into material shit... it's not like we can take any of this stuff with us anyways.. js I personally put stock in experiences and not the trash/shit I accumulate. Tbf it's been one of the hardest lessons I've been trying to teach to my daughters.
You can’t hook a U-haul to your casket…
Actually there are rewards that you can earn on earth and take to heaven with you. The crown of life is rewarded when you demonstrate integrity. They are known as the heavenly crowns. And they basically rewarded to people who care for other people.
Actually Cane sacrificed rotten fruit and vegetables. Able sacrificed his best lamb.
Thats when I realized my " friend" was not my friend. Car jealousy even though she recommended that brand and when she sprinked food on my nice clothes at a restaurant. Apparently, she only liked me when I was down and going through a horrible divorce.
Oh man...
Recently there are some content creators going after Jocko for things that happened in Iraq while he was at Taskforce Bruiser. Basically saying that he was poor leader, his guys were out of control and some people died as result. None of the accusers where actually there. They are just clout chasing hoping jocko will have some type of interaction that will get a bunch attention so they can sell merch...
Throating jocko
If you ever hear yourself saying, "it must be nice." Time to check yourself.
EVIL TREASON
Okay Caine
2021
I thought Jiu Jitsu was an elaborate form of competitive hugging?
Christ is risen
This is ref: Anti-Hero Podcast.
i cant live in my car forever! I did find a studio ...perhaos that is the answer....please give me my children BenJacob and Ardelia!
Read the Wisdom of Ben Sir…
Bro, I have to share this quick story because you started mentioning new cars. I am so completely non-materialistic and i'm not a car guy. My friend came to pick me up to go to a Yankee game I got tickets for, he drove a 4 door black sedan. like a 80K car, So I go outside when he arrives and get in the car and we start talking and after about 10 minutes id driving, my friend foes "Bro, you didn't even realize this is not the same car?" He fell on hard times and had to give up the nice car for a lesser one, say a 30K car, another black 4 door sedan, same color interior. I reply "Oh yeah, hey congrats man"
God bless friends like you 😂
@@animula6908 true story lol
I Saw The War Crimes Video I Know You Did The Best To Mitigate All Cruelty This Is Not An Easy Task Your Mission Was Given To You You Did Your Jobs Breath Easy Its A Hard Position To Be Under Attack From Indirect Fire On The Homefront Trust Me i lived With Secrets That Where My Ears Only And. Things Need To Be Done They Are Putting The Whole Command Structure On You And Well Even Tops Were Being Tool'd Most Of Them Abandoned Post Due Too Brenon The Men We Know What Had To Be Done To Clean Up There Shit Show. There's A Disclosure Movement On With Some High End Parameters The Troops That Were And Are Thrown Into The Suck Will Be Protected When The Hammer Comes Down I know Because i Was Put In The Know. Know No Servicemen Will Take The Fall For The Cowards Who Set Us Up For The Stranger I Don't Thank Servicemen AnyMore I Just Let Them Know Not On Our Watch. Not Like This I Know Whats On The Way And We Stay Small Quiet And Kind And We Keep Them Safe When The Bell Sounds Do What U Know is Right
i get jealous when people get new cars...i am not jealous per say..i would like a new car ...i amhappy they have a new car..i am grateful for what i have it would be nice to have a nicer car.....yet i am thankful...they want to tow away my car .....i am praying they stop hunting me down
Competing is different to comparing. Like comparing yourself you 90s Brad Pitt isn’t going to help you. Comparing your bank account to Elon Musk’s isn’t helpful.
i could use a good car...they just want me to walk.....i am happy for others.....i am not ungrateful but i dont like people taking my property away...i dont like people trying to stoke me to jealousy cuz they are insecure
People are people. Everybody farts and shits.
I hear jacko was a loose cannon in Iraq and got other soldiers killed by bad decisions
Sad how jackoo be resorting to high school drama of " they're just jealous" Instead of being accountable and bringing his accuser on his show and setting the issue straight. His accuser insists they talk about it. Jacko keeps avoiding it and passive aggressively hinting who it is.
Your friends don't need an explanation and your enemies will never believe you.
@@wannabecarguy bullshit. Your friends more then anyone need an explanation. In that case Eric was right, Jack o sending troops in with no explanations
He addressed the accusations on "Jocko Podcast 434.5". Why would he have someone on who he believes is spreading ridiculous lies without evidence? Use your brain.
@@JHopkins because he claims to tackle problems head on. This is jacko wackos time to shine. If he's right he would have no problem shutting Eric demming down live on his show.
@@elpanchosancho2 he actually teaches not to go at things head on like a bull, you should listen to him more you would know this
Jealousy and hating is what America has become. Most of these people are the laziest, moral lacking individuals you will ever come across. Roll solo never back down and never adapt to the haters.
Jocko if you want our respect have Eric Deming on face to face. He’s game. Are you?
What makes you think that Jocko is seeking your espect?
In Islam, the story goes Cain’s sacrifice was of poor quality that he intentionally chosen to give God, but Abel chose nicest of his produce for God. Also, Abel was assigned to marry Cain’s female twin which Cain perceive to be prettier than Abel’s female twin which was married to him. So Cain’s jealousy is actually of his own doing. Definitely a simple but really significant lesson for envious people to learn, but they will never. They got that inherently evil Cain genes in them. 😂
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