Why I have no friends (as a millionaire)
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very lonely on the top brother
As a millionaire
You are attempting to come off comical when you are being cynical but you can see the salt in your tone and attitude towards people generally. Why do people not make their own merchandise... Because some people simply do not want to lol, why are you not allowedd to complain... You do, publically to millions... I think you are trying to validate yourself by constantly bashing people now. After your hard moments in life, you started becoming very cynical and off putting. Yes you are successful and young, I love that, I am young and would like success someday as well. However, the way to do it is not to bash others, regardless of how you do it. Be fortunate you are so successful, be happy you have a strong mind, and get back to looking at everyone a little more kindly. Everyone has hardships and barriers, not everyone can overcome them but eventually your cynical way of looking at others will affect you if you continue to act like a toxin to the internet because you have a following and are successful. You will not be internally happy if you keep on this way, you can claim you are and you dont care but you know what I mean as an intellectual individual. Have a good one Tech Lead.
thats his style, i tried so hard to get one person use my referral link to webull, for the bonus stocks. Maybe I should make my own video too
What a corny dude...always telling people he is a millionaire. Prove it, show us your bank account.
instead of paying for therapist, smart man TechLead talks to camera. Frugality at its best
Lmao just about to be there too
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Then why are you not doing the same? Bullshit Talking. That are the ˋFriendsˋ who are the rEason he has no friends!
Lol!
he talking to almost 1 million subscibers. and get paid a lot
"What's better than friends? Money!" -Techlead (as a millionaire).
😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️
I have lot of money and even lot friends iam better😏😏
porn is better than friends
money wont stab you in the back
dead
Dude, you're killing me 😂. As a life long introvert, I can 100% relate.
Introverts are losers and dies with regrets
@@dudedude365 bro doesn’t even know what an introvert is
@@w...7035 introverts are ugly people who have alot insecurities and that is why they fear socialising.
@@dudedude365 exactly 😄 actually the guy with no talents who changes into introvert
@@dudedude365 Lol everyone dies with regrets. Regrets are due to having a finite time and virtually unlimited dreams
"And as for me, I haven't met anyone I consider better than me". That's heavy as fuc##kk!! 9:53😢
This guy's sense of humor is off the charts
Yeah.. I super like him
I wonder how many people get it
@@ThaidUp well he has 800+ subs
Totally agree 😂 never not laughed while watching
funnier @ x2 speed
This guy is hilarious... Not sure when he's being serious and when he's cynical. Brilliant
Don’t have friends for all the opposite reasons. 😂😂😂
I fear he is being serious :-)
Both.
When he goes on long tirades he's serious.
i would think he is 100% serious.
Good listen!
This was helpful. I have been lamenting for years that I don't have many friends but have recently been coming to terms with the fact that I'm just not that interested in friendship with folks I have nothing in common. There is a lot of pressure to have a huge social circle but it takes a huge amount of time to maintain that and frankly, unless you started out wealthy, it doesn't really get you anywhere. The victim mindset is all too real. I see it all the time.
What's better than friends? him: MONEY
Fax
Facts
Fuuny af
🤣🤣🤣
and that's true
I swear this guy needs a comedy special. His dry humor is just too good and he also mixes it elegantly with zingers out of left field lol
it’s his sheer brilliance that’s hiliarious and interesting to watch but he is mostly telling his true thoughts and opinions.
Watch Patrick Boyle if you like dry humor and quality financial advice.
@@mazzakumi hence a comedy special....great comedians are telling true thoughts and opinions through a hilarious art form lol
and the "guest=watcher=customer" is all coder@programmer@engineer
@@mohdfarid7765 don't forget memer, dreamer!
Man, listening to you is so validating. Thanks for speaking out and speaking your mind!
It's the second sentence for me....SUBSCRIBED!
"I don't need friends. They disappoint me" - The TechLead
Among 100 friends, you get 1 true friend is lucky
@@yuvoria.official - 100%
Ivan Ivanov oh some of the most disappointing people I know are my friends. I think they’re like family. Accept them for who they are, don’t have unrealistic expectations and you’ll be much happier, trust me.
@@imageisn0thing - You want us to accept " Thieves, Liars and Back Stabbers ". YOU BIPOLAR or something? LMFAO
Bipolar get a lot of friends when they are young... The only time they don't have any is when they die. My Mom was in the Hospital due to Mental Health... When her last stage, NO ONE CAME.... Bipolar and Schizo HATES to be in or near a Mental Hospital or Institution !!! 😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️
"Why I'm a millionaire" (as a millionaire)
Portgas D. Ace, watch out Akainu is behind you!
@@lillolallo4873 It's ok, fire won't lose to magma!
@TangoX chill fucker
The prediction is REAL ? The Techlead just uploaded a video called "Why I'm a millionaire" (as a millionaire)
You predicted the video!!!
thank you for sharing Senpai!
Love it!
He combines trolling and comedy quite elegantly
is he trolling though? is he?
@@PeterZeeke the fact that you can never be entirely sure is the genius in his act. (I'm fairly certain he's fully aware of how he is presenting himself - it's a caricature)
@@thealiusjones maybe he’s becoming the caricature he was portraying lol
@@PeterZeeke it's good advice mixed with serious trolling. It's your job to figure which is which
Lol well said !
“I’m not trying to one up anybody, it’s just how I live.” 👏🏾👏🏾
the very words i live by 🙄
Fantastic video. Thanks
No hand holding, no empathy, no participation trophies and I am here for all of it.
His troll-level is over 9000. Nothing can stop him now.
troll super saiyan
He's not trolling. He's joking. It's called dry humor. Trolling is something very different.
MIKAL ok cringelord
You FOOL! This isn't even my final form!
@@mikal That line is blurry, your brain is stupid, mom's spaghetti.
This guy doesnt give a damn (as a millionare)
Next vid: “why you don’t have to give a damn as a millionaire (as a millionaire)”
one of the few personalities (specially in tech) who sounds authentic
hes a savage!
Good video. I feel this video! Thanks
Great message
In practice, no one listens... Everyone is just waiting for their turn to talk.
So true. Listening is an art, and surprises people when you do it well.
😂😂
"Whats better than friends? Money" xD
@@superretro3907 Well, it's true.
Whatever, my turn.
Now I just need to become a millionaire to justify why I don't have friends.
Camilo Acosta OMG. Same here!!!!
Bro sameeeeeeee
It sounds like you're halfway there!
Friends are a joke
saganist can’t agree more
So much motivation. Thank you.
Great video. From my experience, I have little to no friends because the so-called ones I had were toxic. Lot of people these days are incredibly self absorbed and when you're in conversations with them, they only talk about themselves, their problems, their issues, etc. Never caring about the other person. Since I cut such people off last year, I'd noticed I'm WAY more focused on my goals, have more peace of mind and making more money.
Techlead: “I don’t have any friends at all” Joma: 😥
FOM Flavour joma is a business partner. Not friend.
Joma is super smart, and has friends... he is proof you don’t have to be a jerk to be intelligent 💭. Bill Gates and Warren Buffett are billionaires and have friends. What I’m seeing is someone creating an excuse for not being social. I think that’s okay, but it’s important to be honest with yourself.
Christopher Burgess I think it’s more like: what you are watching is comedy.
Dottie Beene yeah I guess that makes more sense.
@@christopherburgess4486 why do you think it is okay to compare people?! why can't people just be themselves- "warts and all"? some people have more patience for small talk than others. most people use a bit of fakery to keep their 'friends'. If their 'friends' really knew what they thought, they'd no longer be friends.
"I do like the idea of friendship. I think its interesting. I think it sounds great, in theory."
Hahahaha Agreed, the reality of it is completely different.
In theory, theory and practice is same. In practice, it's not
With the money he makes, he can afford top notch hookers.
Every word spoken is so much valuable
I'm agree with you!!
I feel so attacked yet motivated right now.
@tom young how? 👀
@tom young damn, you deserve to subscribe to me for that one chief
that's the whole point of this video
That’s the most brilliant comment on this thread! ♥️
Any person you see with his mindset has never lost it all. A lot of what leads to success is out of your control. You are have no control over if an invention you made was released at the right time. There are loads of historical stories of people who have died and became rich and successful posthumously. So timing is important, next is health. You could have a debilitating health condition, or you could be born in country with limited opportunities and no way to escape said country. The ONLY true things he stated is that MOST people are not successful due to things they CAN control like studying, organizing, planning, researching, diet, exercise, good sleep habits and communication. Also money doesn't equate to true success because true success is personal development or improving on yourself. Money is just the result if your improvement is something that can be monetized. For example.....Tech Lead comes across in his videos (I could be wrong as I don't know him) as lonely and bored. He says money is better than friends, yet he has been spending time uploading on a social media platform. Most people who comment, upload and share do so in response to deep seated social needs. On what those needs are you have to search yourself to discover what they are. I usually tell people, a clue to understanding what you or someone else is bothered by, is listen to what you talk or discuss the MOST about. Many times what people tell you they don't care about.. THEY CARE ABOUT THE MOST!!!
Me: *Reads bible* Techlead: Why are you consuming other people's content?
@Abulkhair Talapov you said. Peace! ☮️
That’s false. I am pretty sure he consumes porn too so he consume people’s contents, closely
Why you reading the Bible when your name is Mohammad.......
@@epicgameplaysbyej5829 come on now
LMAO
Super hilarious!! And great info
THATS WHY I ALWAYS SAY!!!! "you havent seen the news" or "you haven't seen ___show , you been under a rock" "i make my own shows! WHY ARE YOU NOT WATCHING MY shows??" and I stop talking to them.... (sometimes I wanna say "you watch tv that's why you're gonna stay broke") but I try to extend empathy. I've been there.
Ex-fb, ex-google, ex-husband. experience and wisdom ...
Ex-human
A millionaire indeed with a wife who left him. Not sure if that's living a "great" life. It sounds far more so to me, a series of tradeoffs. Worst part is, in one of his videos when he talked about her leaving him, it was pretty sad for sure, but sadder was how he didn't seem to understand WHY she left him. And none of this had to do with money, or his success.
Ex-friend
Hotel? trivago
@@d0k0night True I would leave if I had to live with in laws.that I didn't like ....just horrible he boasts how rich he is yet his son lives in Japan ....he csn afford to go live in japan
Socrates once said:"By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you’ll become happy; if you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher." This explains why techlead sounds like a philosopher now.
Q 😂😂😂
🤣🤣😂😂😭😭😭
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just don't marry and be free
Socrates argued with everyone but not with his wife.
You are so right on all points!
I am SO happy I subscribed to your channel.
top 10 actors who haven't received an oscar yet.
😂😂😂yes
Yes yes
Ben Benson hahahahahahaa
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TechLead for president!
"If u do a research on success mentality, my mentality "😂.. I love this man! ❤😂
Love your mindset bro.
Awesome show
Was feeling low, decided to watch one of your videos, and I just love this one!
He’s so emotionless that I’m not sure he’s being sarcastic or serious most of the time....
There’s a term in psychology for it bro you’ll learn about it more as u dive into the dating world Trust
@@pureislam1 can u recommend something
He is not emotionless. He grew up speaking a Mora timed language, so he struggles to convey emotion by switching up the timing of syllables.
That’s his genius
He is actually serious. Most of it was I got to where I got via merit. Usually that is not the case. They get a leg up, they have a preference and it just happens to make them money, etc.
Everything you said was on point
i'm 100% intovert, thankyou for this
> proceeds to blame not having friends on people who blame things on others. top tier humor
Get together to hustle! That's the best description of the team/friends we need to have! thank you!
Great vid brother
I know a lot of this is sarcastic but he really hit the nail on the head with the comments on consumption
consumeproduct.win
@@mgriffin113 I had to look that up but really like it so far, thanks
"Why are you out there consuming other people's stuff when you should be consuming my stuff."
Lmao xD
😄
Haha
Simps in a nutshell
I needed to hear this!!!! Thank you
Love this
This guy should have a cat Yo Techlead, get a cat and you will 10x your subscribers
So true
I agree lol
Call him NIO cat 😏
He should give you money for this idea...
Doesn't worth it, he would lose money and time feeding the cat, and his time is invaluable.
I've never heard someone before like this, spittin' facts for 10 minutes straight.
enjoy your content Thank you
Just suscribed after watching 3 of your videos... I love your dry sens of humour!
Techlead: I am stronger, faster, smarter and generally better than other people Also Techlead: Where was I? Oh ya why do I not have any friends? 🤣🤣
Well you dont have to be an alien with 1000 IQ to have at least some interests apart from the TV shows and gossips lel 99% of the people in my university/school were unable to talk about anything except the latest reality show or sports for more than 10 seconds And when you start talking about literally anything not connected to that, you become a nerd and a black sheep
That was priceless..lol
@@akshatkakade3124 lol
Most geniuses are...complicated...in personal relationships. They tend to be highly analytical, but lack understanding in human emotions.
So funny.
"I don't know if I've met anyone else who I consider better than me" LMAO lost it at that point
Great Videoas Always!
Well said
Watching your videos is game-changer. Honestly, I wish I had a friend like you in real life.
Wut ?
Yep, problem is that he doesn’t want you as a friend
You can't have him as a friend, only a casual acquaintance. He won't see his relationship with you as having any value.
The way he goes to the ad is incredibly smooth lol
😂😂😂
Yo, I didn't even blink yet 😂
(as a millionaire)
But not better than linus
He's certainly straight to the point in placing ads, which is more genuine than most youtube channels I see.
I’m following now, going to make my team check you out!
4:42 Love it! Hair looks great!
"I'm stronger, faster, smarter, better than other people. Where was I? Oh yeah why I don't have friends" I'm stumped.
It's called dry humor. Once you develop some social awareness hopefully you'll be able to recognize it then.
Maybe he is the avoidant type personality so as to avoid conflict/triggers? ( Dr. Kirk Honda. Psychology in Seattle channel )
That's the reason that u are a subscriber.
@@Cougarwolf where are the muscles
@@Cougarwolf Nah, it's called arrogance. No wonder he doesn't have friends, if he constantly thinks he's better than other people.
"If anybody has opportunities, it's probably that person who has nothing to do but watching KZhead videos right now" - that hits hard. 😰😂
hahahahaah
Foreal. Since I started my profession and the dough started rolling in, I looked back and thought about the time I used to watch KZhead vids. Although I do sneak in some corridor crew and some good old content on the downtime
Does no one see the irony that he makes KZhead videos for others to watch? So now you know what he thinks of you.
@@Martin-pb7ts May be he is the only one who made you realize this :)
Martin Coetzee I think we can learn a lot of things watching KZhead videos actually. Obviously, "binging" (uninteresting and non-educational) videos is a total loss of time and then, money. We can learn many diverse skills, strengthen the ones we have and discover new fields. And monetize skills we have thereafter by getting a raise, monetizing our knowledge.
This is exactly how I feel, just as unfiltered as you explain here. It's unfortunate that being forward about this topic or the fact that being successful/productive isn't necessarily difficult -- people just don't want to move away from their comfort/victimhood. I'm 27 and have felt this way for the last 5 or 6 years. I can't relate to any of my classmates, I have no friends because to them, I'm "trying too hard" but, truthfully, I just take action because I don't want to struggle and don't really have the time to worry about struggling.
Thanks for the reminder I was wondering there for a minute why? have a great day
I love how Tech Lead adds (as a millionaire) to everything 😂
I agree with his statement “I like the idea of friendship”. I’m an introvert but being a doctor and constantly working with people means I have very little time for myself. So I get off work feeling drained of social battery and while the idea of having friends around is delightful, in actual practice, it can become exhausting at times. I enjoy my personal space, my privacy, my productivity, as well as my procrastination. Society seems to find fault in people who need alone time and personal space. Like being single after 30 is weird or not really wishing to hangout because you’d rather work on your own craft or be a complete waste man simply because you want to. I am not a productive machine. But my mind is assured to know the time I waste is my own rather than having to owe the lost time to someone else. Lonely is a shitty feeling. But alone is freeing. We should normalise solitude. As much as other people may find healing in company, society should accomodate those that find freedom in your own company. P.s. I want to adopt your sense of humour but my jokes often don’t run in the same vein :’) I’ll need to work on it probably lol
Beautifully written. There are many people who're like you, including me, but probably because of our nature of just "keeping things by ourselves" (actually, i don't know how to phrase it), we become less apparent. So personally, i just ignore and learn to not feel guilty about it.
I am an introvert, but I think being introverted is a bad character trait and should be worked against. Too many introverts out there trying to pretend a bad habit is actually good and then they wonder why they're depressed all the time.
The difference is your an introvert he just think he’s “ faster smarter stronger and better “ than other people. In your case it’s understandable that you feel like that. If you don’t have friends because you find it freeing and comfortable then thats ok 👍 what not ok is thinking that your just inherently better than other people. Although as humans tend to be more social beings promoting solitude just because you enjoy it seems reckless and a sure fire way to increase rates of depression, loneliness and suicide as people would put isolation above finding people to talk to about their problems. But yh I definitely do get your point and I know many people who feel that way.
One of the things I had to contest with as a person was the fact that humans are by their very biology social animals and when we're under constant stress there's this need to find a sense of comfort and security in a group among other people. There's definitely a lot of things that can be done now to alleviate the need, joining a clan in an mmo, having work friends helps somewhat, having to see a therapist, or having a close family member. It's bad if you have too few avenues and it's horrible when you have none and while you may not notice it the absence of social interaction degrades your character and slowly erodes your will turning you into an anti social liability to yourself and maybe even people around you. I highly doubt TechLead doesn't have friends, he's too intelligent to not have realized the need for at least proxies, either paid escorts, therapists, gamer clans, family, various combinations of the latter etc. Anyway, I hope you find a friend or two out there or at least emulate a few.
I think I never read something more accurate. I want to regain my friends and my social life, but it's so boring talking about stuff like the old times, gossips and so on. My parents always wondering why I'm going to the basketball court alone, instead with my friends. It's just, I rather appreciate a competitive play with strangers, then to bullshit around
Love your videos 😎
I love this guy!!!! Def have you a new sub
"If you do a bit of research on success mentality, my mentality"🔥🔥😅
Someone had to say it! A voice of reason in modern day is like a breath of fresh air, thanks for being candid about your experience and philosophy. I'm on track for success and sometimes I think I'm the only person out there who feels this way, but it's great to see winners like us are out there. Hope all is well TL
Opportunity is EVERYTHING!
I am a loner myself, but I am not a millionaire yet. I probably won't be next either, but I am getting there. However, millionaire in my country does not mean the same as a dollar millionaire. It translates to about a hundred thousand dollars. But I expect to have saved up that amount in about one and a half year. The loner part is harder to do something about.
Friends will let you down or turn on you, but money keeps its promises.
Being let down and people turning on you is some of the best motivation for change and growth though...
With all the money printed recently? I don't think so.
I love his humor and how he keeps a straight face along with it
I agree with you I wish I knew you because you are interesting and relatable
I totally agree with you.
"I go around people and they feel this uncontrollable rage just start seething up from the bottom of their souls." Lol, I love this guy.
I believe in not just living a good life but a great life (c) => Wife leaves, no friends...
@joann Loves CountryLife he is basically numb and lack any human emotion. typical narcissists trait. he is not the extreme narcissists but close.
Wow. I can relate to everything 100%
“Celebrating the average”…qotd. Spot on my man.
It's funny how we all come here to watch the tech lead roast us!
I think I come back due to Stockholm Syndrome
He's not roasting me.
If you become more successful it's not really a roast is it
Fr😭😭
You'll only feel that way if you're unsuccessful with yourself
“How’s my hair?”🤣you are hilarious!
Haha that cracked me up too
ladies, ladies... do you find him attractive?
Raw content!
This video was just what I needed to hear.
This dude is getting crazy with the lockdown (as a millionaire)
Stop projecting
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@@dcwhitesnake8681 stop getting triggered
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These things are going to happen regardless of a financial situation. I guess you can add “billionaire” portion to attract attention. But being wealthy isn’t the answer to having friends. What if something happened to change your financial situation? Those “Friends” will disappear, as they weren’t sincere friends to begin with. 🤔
I am increasingly convinced that this channel is satire. Either way, it's AMAZING.
I'm hoping for a reveal of truth at one million
This would explain a lot
I think what you see is what you get! The satire is not all on purpose I am sure! LOL he is a little off. But in a good way mostly!
Monetizing loneliness
In a way it is in a way it isn't. He's earned it all through his dedication . People get way too easily offended. Even if he was full of himself it's none of anyone's business
I have learned a lot of information today. Thank you for this video.
This guy is so intelligent and knowledgeable with some arogance in there lol. Good stuff. "Ive never found anyone better than me"
In my experience talking to the average person is difficult because not many people want to have intellectual or creative conversations but would rather talk about celebrities, clubbing, and even gossiping. This is why my friendship circle is so small and why I prefer to stay indoors working on my own projects & enjoying my own company.
Solidarity is underrated in this social media era.
@@celiaferreira2028 I agree, (I think you mean "solitude".)
@@alrinaleroux9229 oh yes. Thanks
"You are the average of your five friends." "I have no friends." Uh oh.
😂👏🏻👍🏼
THEN AVERAGE IS 0/0 = INFINITY
@@venka4921 Undetermined, technically.
I think that would be 0/5 = 0
@@itayluh7228 Yes.
Thanks
My experience in collaboration has been as you've described it. It is a complete waste of time trying to draw people in, it doesn't matter if they are starving, their ego comes before their ability to accept help from an intellectual whom they do not see as "socially successful" ("cool") as themselves.