TikTok’s TRADWIFE gets DRAGGED for UNREALISTIC lifestyle and being a MORMON…
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I wouldn't call her a tradwife, she's just a stay at home mom. She works as a model, she's also making money on her social media so her husband isn't the only provider in the family.
every trad wife on the internet makes money
@@isabear478staying home and making money is the important difference.
@@isabear478 Well.. Most of them. I don’t know who the person is but they don’t take the money from tiktok. They just do the whole, “Clean the home, take care of the kids, make the food,” and basically just that. Her husband is the only one that makes money. I’m not sure if they stopped doing this but yeah. :(
@@isabear478and that automatically should remove them from being a trad wife but everyone overlooks that.
@@isabear478 exactly 💯
It’s not their job to be relatable to make strangers feel comfortable. I’m so sick of that criticism. She just makes cooking vids and minds her business. 😑
Wrong!! Wrong!! Wrong!!! She’s only showing the hood part of her marriage. She’s not showing the abuse she has to deal with, which is just makes her like every fake person on social media except SHE is enticing other young girls into being trapped with predatory men. Understand men cannot not be predators, especially men with money. They Simply hide it which is why the keep your marriage private thing is even a thing. I don’t understand why you young girls refuse to hear the advice of older women who KNOW, who have had the experience that make them see behind all the glitz and glamour.
Mormons tend to spread propaganda and their beliefs far worse then Christians do and she tend to love to slip it into her videos sometimes even posting pop up links in the videos (that if you don’t hurry and pause you miss .. meaning she’s putting hidden messages in her videos .
she and her husband are morman propagandists and mormans literally believe that if you’re not born a yt person thats your punishment for having been a bad person in a previous life, if you try to be good then when you get to heaven you’re gifted with whiteness, and that native americans are fakes and that yt people are the real indigenous of americns
She makes vlogging stuff not just cooking. She does preach about the Mormon church and how she was converted.
Tradwives are just cosplaying as housewives. In reality they are social media influencers who are just grifting, they have a job while they are putting other working women down. That's why it's an issue to many. They will be selling people MLMs soon.
Her content is definitely her work. She's making money 😂
glad you pointed out the age gap between lucky and his first baby’s mother. i can tell you that as a 26 year old the idea of dating an 18 year old guy or girl (i’m bi lol) seriously makes me feel slightly ill, personally i just think they’re such different stages of life i don’t understand what i would have in common with someone who is only just entering legal adulthood
THIS.
It's like let the woman do whatever she wants! She's living the life!
I think it's a sad thing to aspire to be though, to grow up and have no skills and be entirely dependent on your guy. You just gotta hope they don't pull any shady stuff 5 to 10 years into the relationship because you can't leave if they do.
I refuse to get misled and believe these lies they hate her in this crazy amount just because shes mormon or a stay at home We know her husband Lucky had millions of fans he had tons of fanpages, invited to Ellen because of his popularity, and was a public proud mormon, theres tons of other mormons online who get 0 hate, lets be real the reason people hate this 1 girl is because shes married to the guy they obsessed over and have a crush on, its jealousy
Lucky or bucky doesn't look like someone that a women would have a crush on yeah
You have no idea what her life looks like. You know what her product looks like. And you are buying into her product.
@@jackeagleeye3453 Who says she's completely dependent on her guy? She's a model and an online influencer. She makes her own money.
Being 18 dating a 26 year old is crazy business. They were not age mates.
Like I know technically it's not a crime but I still think it's a little creepy because....... you're fw someone who most likely JUST finished High School or probably still in High School so they're still kind of childish. Let's be real, most 18 year olds, especially in this generation are still mentally and emotionally childish(which makes sense because their childhood wasn't too long ago)
he's 25 and shes 22, they did meet when they were young. lucky b also has a baby momma called stormi bree
Modern women have no issue with an 18yr old young woman doing OF, but dating a 26 year old man is creepy.
It is creepy?? Both are wrong grow up
@@g_slimthisssss
Honestly, people need to mind the business that pays them. 22 years old, mom of three, cooks from scratch, like bruh who cares? Are you paying her bills? Is she paying yours? Like dude, focus on what you’ve got going on. I know it’s social media and if she made her life public, people are gonna make it public-er, but still. Mind ya damn business sometimes and maybe we’d all be a bit happier. She’ll live her life and others will live theirs
She’s not 22. She lies about her age for modelling. The woman is 27/28
@@Imbored-wx8fjand why does it matter 😭
@@ZayabelDraga13 it matters because people are under the false impression that she’s very young and she’s not
@@Imbored-wx8fjhow’s it known she lies?
@@Imbored-wx8fj where did you even get that info from??
Let me make my initial comment: Her life isn't unrealistic. That's her life. It can be obtained. Literally besides the modeling, her life is completely realistic.
Yeah, all you would need is the time, money, and energy to do it and most don’t have that and that’s okay. I honestly think it’s just jealousy and they’re masking it by saying it’s unrealistic when it actually is
Real isn't always realistic
@aimemaggie Exactly, realistic refers to sustainability + sensibility + practicality + averageness, not actuality or obtainability. For example, something with a 1% chance of happening can be called unrealistic because it's unlikely.
Who said she needed to live a life realistic to you (people having a problem). It's realistic for her and she's chosen it and empowered it. Good on her! And actually making tiny changes in daily life consistently can change your life entirely of you really want it. I think the tiny steps ate never shown but I know plenty of people in there early 20s at so many disadvanges and hurdles who wanted a certain life and they got it in a variety of ways. Some took years, some a bit of luck or opportunity but all kept a consistent action going. Everyone's dreams look different and I'm happy seeing others happy regardless of what I currently believe I can or can't obtain and what that might look like ❤
It's is unrealistic and impossible to obtain *to those living below the poverty line and lower middle class.* In order for to be a traditional wife the spouse has to be earning double, maybe triple, to cover all the finances to afford the house, bills, healthcare, multiple insurance covers, retirement etc. and the economy fluctuates all the time and everything can double and triple over time and we're going through recession rn. There's nothing wrong with STAHM but to seriously class has nothing to do with it is naive and I'm against people hating on her for being a mom, that's low and dark.
I was born into the m0rm0n church and left when I turned 18 , never looked back. They are notoriously racist , in the past AND currently. I am also from Georgia , so I dealt with Southern m0rm0ns , but my mom was born and raised from Salt Lake City , Utah. I have a biracial daughter out of wedlock , and my family has never treated me the same. They have MANY prejudices against the black father of my child and it has tainted our relationships.
She's rich. Her lifestyle is realistic TO HER. It appears that she isn't trying to be relatable and just loves cooking.
Tiktok never stops making trends LMAOOO i'm glad that i never re-installed that app anymore until this day 💀🙏
Thank god I didn't have one to begin with 🤭
@@vanessarickford6260you are so fricking lucky
@@vanessarickford6260 God*
someone’s life is a trend ? 💀
People that are chronically online have nothing else to do
Her taking care of her family and making food from scratch is not a problem at all. People who have a problem are genuinely just jealous. Yes she's really young to be a mother, but she's healthy and some people always dream of being mothers and that's OK. She loves her family and they love her. The only issue I see people find with them that is valid (but might be blown out of proportion) is that they go to a church that promotes white (racial) purity. People suspect they want to "purify" this girl's bloodline by giving her white babies.
I do not understand what promoting racial purity means. Can you please explain to me?
@@Lien_AlMansouri whiteness is considered pure and "right" according to "god", blackness is considered dirty and "devilish".
@@Lien_AlMansouriwhite people should marry white people and give birth to white babies. No inter race marriage or babies
These is crazy , she is mixed and her husband is white so it’s not strange that her kids are light because sorry I still can see that they are mixed . Beside that lucky said that he recently converted so after they were together .
@Lien_AlMansouri basically the church has history of anti-blackness. Black people were considered demons and that rhetoric helped in maintaining slavery back in the day. They used the bible to justify it. Today they took the passages that demonized black people out of their Bible, but the sentiment is still there. They don't like black people and they're very problematic. Promoting white purity basically just means they only want white families in the church.
Social media became so toxic
They could never make me hate her. She minds her business and cooks food.
no one other than people who want her famous model husband will hate this girl
So
@@user-ij5sp4zv5hno one wants her husband he isn’t even cute lol
isnt feminism letting women do what they want 😩 she’s not complaining so why is everyone else? tf
That isn't feminism. What if a woman wants to suppress another or spread missinfo?
I dont see feminists say you can’t be a home maker, like yall made that up
Exactly.
Feminism hates women
super true.
Analysing tradwife content was a big trend on KZhead recently, you don't even have to leave this site to realise that Mara is NOT part of that movement just because she cooks on camera 🤦
My thoughts! I’ve watched too many videos on it and wasn’t sure if I was gonna watch this one but as I was staring at the thumbnail I realised I’ve never even seen this chick before! Not a tradwife
its for tiktok, like people get ready to film youtube videos, why cant she look good and cook on tiktok? people are jsut mad for no reason
@@RabiaSammy she can, but tradwifes don't just cook and look good, it's a fascist movement. this video massively represents its subject matter
@@thefelicits I don’t think Nara is guilty of it, for sure the others definitely have an agenda to push
@@RabiaSammy definitely not. That's why it was messed up to make this video and excuse all tradwives without understanding what the movement is about. Nara isn't a tradwife, she's just an influencer who happens to cook. She's done nothing wrong.
I love her I don’t watch her for relatability and I didn’t know she was Mormon until people said it. I watch her for the fantasy.
Girl me too! Her vids are so nice,the kids are soo cute,her&the hubby,the aesthetic etc her life looks Amazing but j don't watch her content because I find it relatable like no I don't wanna be married with 3kids before 25
Exactly 😭
As a 22 year old woman myself, I couldn't see myself with a child right now at all, but that doesn't mean I am not going to judge someone at my age having kids. Everyone has a different life, that is just how life is. I think people having this "set of rules" for life is ridiculous cause you can't predict your life.
there's a difference between being a tradwife and a stay at home parent. the tradwife movement is very right wing and insistent that all women should be this way to uphold traditional white wester gender roles. stay at home parents are just parents who stay at home. I would very much like to be a homemaker (no kids though). I set that as my goal in fourth grade and everyone got mad at me for it because apparently it wasn't a real goal. but like, that itself is sexist. claiming work that is traditionally woman's work is not real work is inherently misogynistic. plus, as a disabled person, there isn't a lot of work I can do, so having a partner work while I keep the home somewhat livable is just the most realistic option for me.
Agreed
Real question: how are you going to be a homemaker with no children? Without the children, there's not enough to do to require you to be home all the time. As a stay at home mom, I'm genuinely curious as to what you would do to keep your schedule full without kids...
@@lusciouslipslibra again, I am disabled. that kind of takes up most of my time.
It is real work. Saying otherwise is misogynistic. But it is unpaid and unrecognized, thereby putting the person who dedicates all of their time to it at risk in our society without universal safety nets. At risk of abuse (physical, emotional, s3xual, and financial), homelessness (in the event of death or divorce), and an uncertain retirement plan. There should be wariness about entering this lifestyle. And saying there is NOTHING wrong with it is only doing those who are considering it a disservice. You can do it, with a plan, only by being fully honest about all the risks.
@@emilyonizuka4698 ok sorry, there are lots of disabilities, I didn't want to assume you couldn't do something just because you are disabled
The kids names for aesthetics are killing me though like slim easy will the real slim easy please stand up 🤣
😂😂😂 fr
I wouldn’t want my kid to be called “easy” either 😂😂
Girl, that baby sound like a PIMP😭😭😭😭
FR LMAO
I honestly love Nara's content and I've been following her for a few years now. She doesn't even mention being mormon unless she's directly being asked about it. Were her videos about making cereal from scratch and peanut butter jelly sandwiches unreletable? Yes. But her content doesn't have to relatable at all. She seems like a really good mom and really good person so I don't understand why people suddenly felt the need to attack her. She's never showing off, she's always humble and grateful for everything she has so I can't do anything else but love and support her.
The pb&j was wild to me 😭 PB&J is supposed to be an easy, quick, and lazy snack for when you don’t want/ have time to cook something. But she made EVERYTHING - the bread, the jam, AND the peanut butter - from scratch, I was like NO WAY?!💀
@@michelle-agathenormil I know. 😆When I saw that video I had to stop for a minute
@@michelle-agathenormil And that's amazing. Takes skills!❤️
Not mentioning unless promted is part of the Mormon influencer strategy. Heck, they even run their own influencer programm.
Also the weird ahss names are most definitely his idea. Idc I wouldn't allow my child to be name "rumble honey" they gonna tease him and call him rumplestiltskin
This cracked me up! Now I can't unsee rumplestiltskin from Once upon the time series 😂😂😂
she said they decided they were gonna get married and their kids' names like the second day they met... also idk the age gap but she was 18 at the time.
She did a video discussing names and said she liked the name cherry but he didn’t 😂😂 I’m not sure it’s just him 😂😂
Why would it be definitely just his idea 🤣
As a feminist , let just remind that the goal is to give woman the choice . Second contrary to a lot of other woman she does not make content promoting a certain lifestyle.There is a different between showing your life and promoting something. She is cooking . She never said that she was a tradwife or talk about it or made a post about her religion people assume that all .
Choice feminism is problematic, I encourage you to Google this topic. The goal of feminism is not to give women individual choices but to dismantle the system of the patriarchy.
@@rebekahnewman3876I’m confused as to how the constant discussion surrounding women’s personal choices (which usually leads to some form of misogyny) is dismantling the patriarchy. It’s always “she’s working too much”/“mothering too much”/“cleaning too much”/“too much”, to the point where these women have to over explain themselves to strangers. To me, it’s too close to how men would questions and hold women to a certain standard and if they’re don’t meet it, they’re not a good woman.
@@jahneanjames8248 Honestly I think we agree with each other. You said that discussions of women's personal choices aren't dismantling the patriarchy, and I agree with you. Discussing a woman's personal choice does not dismantle the patriarchy, as well as an individual woman having free choice does not dismantle the patriarchy. Feminism is a bigger topic than if a woman should bake bread... I disagree with those saying Nara is antifeminist OR feminist. Her content is neutral.
If you think that that is her life you seriously need to have a look on how her content is shot, how labour and time consuming those shots are, and what 'stories' she is telling. There is no way she is doing this on her own. Shots like that take hours. Food is wasted because it spoils. You do not eat what you film most of the time. And then you edit, check the sound, upload, check comments... and then you write the script for the next video. That's a full time job. On top of that she does other work. She is running a business and what you see is not her life.
@@rebekahnewman3876Exactly. And there is always Popper's Toleranz-Paradox. As a trad-wife she is asking us to respect her choice to be the poster-girl for a culture that denies women an existence outside of their immidiate relationship with their husbands. There is no reason why we should not question that.
I don't mind whatever Nara is doing, but the namess?? That's just.... why?? Like sure Rumble Honey can be shortened to Honey, but Slim Easy will never be cute 😩
Maybe a nickname pronounced like zizi but it’s spelled like sysy?
Because anyone going by Slim is uncommon? (It’s not)
Slim Easy sounds like a pimp name or a nutritional bar aided to get slimmer. That's embarrassing 😭
@@YeNoYeezy??? How is it not uncommon??? Girl/boy who are you around where people are called slim??? The only slim I can think of is Eminem aka slim shady
@@yurionice1131 I have an uncle and a cousin named slim... It's really not that uncommon...
i think the romanticization/huge conversation of the tradwife lifestyle has absolutely everything to do with the economic state of the world right now. when working doesn’t get you anywhere of courseee it becomes easy to start fantasizing about being whisked away by a rich man that takes care of you and you can just bake all day and have a ton of babies and create cute online content. mormon women have BEEN portraying this lifestyle. mormons were the FIRST mommy/family vloggers. i think just because it’s more unattainable and unrealistic than ever right now people’s attention is just on it. also because perfectionism is being performed to a degree.
I agree. This is her job. These mommy vloggers families are their brand. They are selling this dream. If she was struggling there would be no way that she would be showing her life.
Big on that last sentence. It's all a performance.
@@ButterScotch_BabyDollno, you are being a hater. The fact that their life style bothers you is your own fault and it honestly makes you sound bitter. She cares for her children and thats all that matters. Its feminism until its something you dont agree with
@@kiiiirbzzz Facts!!!
@@ButterScotch_BabyDoll you're the one who's hating clearly because you can't take their lifestyle at all you're the one who's hating not us stop blaming us for hating on Nara when you're the one who's hating on her not us, you're just a bitter salty person
Not the people getting mad at her for making her food from scratch 😂😂😂 people really need to stop judging unproblematic s*it Girl is beautiful and looks like she is living her best life
Feminism is about giving women the right to choose what they want to do with their lives and do what makes them happy.
A few weeks ago I was on reddit and I found a subreddit dedicate to criticize and mock tradwives. There were THOUSANDS of members and the first post that I saw was a woman packing lunch for her husband, it literally didn't say anything else on the video. The comments where just plain crule, mostly fantasizing about her husband abusing her, leaving her or cheating on her with a younger and prettier "career woman". You cannot convince me the criticism stems from anything else but jealousy. In what world is it feminist to mock a random lady for her choice and literally wishing her harm?!
Girl you do know that reddit is niche and majority of the users there are men. Don't believe those feminist spaces are actually made up of women and not grown ass perverts that are pretending to be women to live out their disgusting abuse fetish online. Reddit is known for being the cesspit of degenerates and nearly every teenage, feminist and women only sub were exposed for being made up of majority of men. Reddit doesn't reflect reality.
They have mental issues, definitely an unhealthy amount of envy
Agreed. The bullying is completely out of control. I'm a homemaker and I had to cut off 3 friends since I got married because they started bullying me about it; one even called my situation "The handmaid's Tale" which was especially hurtful because I'm a survivor of SA and she knew that.😢 Now, I choose not to tell women this at ALL to avoid the cattiness.
@@doll.ov.poetrii4682 The fact that people now have female friends who don't like when other women get married or become homemakers is not surprising. These are part of the serious unintended consequences of feminism and post-industrialization.
I'm dating a man 3 years younger than me. I'm 28, he's 25. I wasn't aware that he was that much younger when we first started talking, but in a way I'm glad I didn't. I probably would've written him off as far too young at the time. But we've been together 3 years and it's the healthiest, happiest, most promising relationship i've ever been in. So to me, in that way age doesn't matter. It depends on where you are in life, what your emotional maturity is and how well you click. However, 18 and 26 is absolutely insane to me. It goes without saying that this gap is way too far. I'm not even sure how a grown woman in her mid to late twenties would be attracted enough to an 18 year old boy in the first place. Weird, so weird
Three years isn't much really but 18 and 26 is very different
@@orls9068 Yeah, 18 year olds need a little room to breathe and find their feet, it’s a little wild to jump into a marriage and parenthood at that age. I’m glad they’re successful and I hope they are emotionally healthy too, the Mormon church and other religions really set kids up for this “ideal” though.
28 and 25 isn't a big difference especially in your mid to late 20s but 18 and 26 is a huge age gap because when your 26 you most likely already graduated university and already working the job you wanted while when your 18 you could still be a senior in highschool and not even know how to basic adult things (pay bills, do taxes, etc).
I feel like a lot of people always forget that cooking from scratch is a lot more normalized in Europe, Im from Germany and my family and I make a lot from scratch maybe not cereal but definitely cake
Exactly! Cooking from scratch for those of outside of America or immigrants (and children of immigrants) to America is SO SO SO normal! That’s just what we do.
Sha was raised in Germany too
Yes! I grew up in the Netherlands and now live in the Middle East. Dutch apple pies or boterkoek are just amazing Most people I know cook everything from scratch including my mom and dad
It’s normal in the the US too. That’s like the standard way to cook all over the world. So idk what you’re talking about and why you brought up the America.
@@bellaxo1597it’s the way people in America cook as well though
Parents need to stop giving their children these stupid names. It’s not cute. You’re only doing your kids a disservice.
They're wealthy supermodels normal people rules don't apply for them Gwenyth Paltrows kids name is apple
Well, I hope they stay famous and wealthy because otherwise those names would make regular life hard
"RUMBLE, for a girlll?" Keisha had me laughing with that delivery 😂 Although, i definitely agree. Rumble Honey does not go together. Rumble could (and I mean could) be a nice name for a boy, maybe? You know like Rocky and Honey is a beautiful name for a girl. But, together....nah it doesn't work. I'm yet to hear the other two names as i had to pause to laugh and comment, but they are definitely an attractive couple and as long as they're all healthy and happy, let's mind our business. But only after Keisha's commentary. We are gathered here today to roast and celebrate people on the internet, and then we keep it moving. ❤
I lowkey think she’s just a big ad for the kitchen aid brand lol.
😂😂
jelly
@@msjulie3613 not me lol I wish I had her mixer though.
product placemment
I’ve been seeing her on my timelines, it’s cool to see that you did a video on her. I think she’s LOOKS pretty admirable. Not in a sense of “oh I’m jealous I want that” but rather, I’m glad for her, yk, she’s being her thing 🤷🏽♀️
what is this obsession with people nowadays needing everything to be relatable to them??
I’m not angry when I see her, but I do think it’s a part of the problematic TradWife niche on TikTok. I think marketing that type of lifestyle to young girls is very harmful. Those type of situations leaves so many women vulnerable to abuse. Is it her responsibility to be relatable? No. However, I do think we have to be careful about what we are promoting if we have a public social media profile.
But to play devils advocate with myself, it is not her job to raise somebody else’s children or be a role model.
Any young girl that sees her videos and immediately decides to mirror her life get married young have a bunch of kids and cooking all day...probably shouldn't be access to internet besides she's a model she works.
@theslayerofdustisback what does ho3 mean?
….. but she’s making her own income. She literally monetizes off the videos she posts about her lifestyle, just like ANY other influencer. Are the only influencers who get the praise or don’t get asked all the questions the ones with the fast, jet setting lives where all the women do is go to events, wear revealing clothing, have a new boyfriend every 2 weeks & promote products? Or the corporate girlies who promote hardcore capitalism? Not everyone wants that, and if you don’t like her content, then don’t watch it, but there are women out there that like it and that are attracted to the same lifestyle she has. She’s minding her own business and taking care of her family whilst doing what she likes. Just because it’s not the stuff you like doesn’t mean she’s a bad role model.
@theslayerofdustisback They quite literally never said that.
As a 26 year old stay at home mom who has always dreamed of being a wife and a mom (so I guess some could call that “tradwife” even though that’s just a TikTok term for a normal thing lol) it’s wild to me that people hate on others for living their own life. Like y’all chill- maybe be happy in your own life and you won’t have to drag other people for their happiness 😭
Amen
tradwife is more a term for a certain type of influencer. it’s not just that they’re stay at home moms, they’re usually pretty ideological
@@grasstastesbad imo even so- let them have their ideology and keep it stepping. If they believe it’s better for women to stay home- or whatever their ideology is- okay that’s their belief that doesn’t affect you. I know people on the opposite side who think all women should be at work. I don’t agree with either of these sides but I respect that they can hold their own beliefs that I don’t subscribe to. People can think things that are outside of the norm- I think it’s pretty weird still that people use that as a reason to drag them lol. Like everyone has some type of “out of the norm” belief- that’s what keeps life interesting. I don’t have to agree in order to respect that we can have differences in opinions. I hate this new weird movement where diversity of Opinion is frowned upon. I enjoy hearing other people’s beliefs- even if I fundamentally disagree with them.
@@LadyLaster No, ideologies aren't just innocent opinions, they have potential to cause a lot of harm, to hurt people. They affect how people vote.
@@mhm77887 Every tradwife page I’ve followed has just inspired me to want to cook a new recipe- not give up my voting rights lol. Y’all are bored and love a reason to attack successful women.
why did she delete the other video 😭😭
She’s a stay at home mom there’s nothing wrong with that. She doesn’t push her lifestyle on people who don’t prefer to live that way and she minds her business.
My thoughts exactly 💭
She makes videos about her lifestyle. That's her job. That's how she makes money. And do not kid yourself - that's a fulltime job. So, yes, she is pushing that. If she were not she would not be making money. And there are other people behind and next to that camera working with her. She is not a stay at home mom. She is a woman running her company from home.
Why does she have to be realistic tho ? She is living her life like she want. Can't people live their life without trying to be someone else ?
She claims she is filming her life. She is not. She is creating a mirage. And when your narrative is that your existence is to be under the eye of your husband... yeah, expect questions.
The you deleted eternal sunshine 😭
Good. Hopefully she realized that the video was dumb and wrong.
Another part of this is people finding it odd that someone of her colour or complexion living that kind of life cause even in the 50s wthnic women were working too its mainly white housewives that were at home. I personally dont care for Nara smiths life choices but majority of the women who nitpick her to death probably have that thought cause PLENTY of white and asian women make cooking at home content but Nara has gotten so much of the flack. I try not to make everything a race issue but ask yourself why is it so UNREALISTIC for a biracial black women cooking good food in nice clothing?
A biracial black woman? She's just biracial.
She is biracial. There is no such thing as biracial black than there is being called biracial white. Sick of explaining this to the remedial; black, white and biracial. Are you okay? Get educated & off of social media comment sections. Please and thank you.
Highly doubt its rcial, she looks mixed, slighty more wt to me in her videos, there are a lot of ppl who envy/don't like the lifestyle she's portraying, also most people on the internet are w, and bw might refrain from targeting her since she's part b.
relatability is overated. she makes aspirational content, if you are looking at her and thinking thats reality you probably need to log off the internet.
Relatability should not be ‘overrated’ we shouldn’t judge and put others down for not relating to this content instead.
@@sapphire8644err.. yeah. thats my point.
I love her content! She’s always making something that looks so good. Her kids names are cute and it’s normal for rich people to give their kids different names. Look at what Beyonce named her kids. Her life is relatable to other women in her tax bracket that got the time to do all of this from scratch while having children and a job. She has also never stated she was a trad wife but she’s lumped with them. Remember, trad wives online are not genuine trad wives. They are influencers. They make money for their content. So keep that in mind!
I refuse to get misled and believe these lies they hate her in this crazy amount just because shes mormon or a stay at home We know her husband Lucky had millions of fans he had tons of fanpages, invited to Ellen because of his popularity, and was a public proud mormon, theres tons of other mormons online who get 0 hate, lets be real the reason people hate this 1 girl is because shes married to the guy they obsessed over and have a crush on, its jealousy shes living her soft life with her attractive husband and theyre seething
I feel like everyone forgets that feminism is the belief that men and women are equals, I guess theres a lot of stigma around the word..
Men and women will never be equal; our biology does not support that.
Smh I been with my now wife since we were in college, her 18 and me 20. We are now in our 30’s and got married when I was 28, that being said my wife has always handled certain things around our lives especially cooking and washing our clothes etc, I handle cleaning the house and taking out the trash etc. My wife enjoys cooking, making stuff from scratch etc. I hate it and I’m a woman myself, I may not get it but I don’t take that from her or any wife doing what she loves to do for her family. The internet has given people the wrong ideal of what is realistic. Hell my wife has been cooking us full meals since our dorm room days on campus. Doing the grocery shopping etc, wives don’t even know how important they are to maintaining a household, the fact that she has figured it out for herself and her household at such a young age is amazing. Some people want families early, some people want to go experience life before all that. Regardless that’s her life and everything is not for everyone.
I appreciate your perspective as a 23 year old mom of 1 year old and another due in May. I am a stay at home mom. My husband works and I raise my child. I take care of the home thats my job. I wouldn't have it any other way and when im 40 years old my daughter will be off at college leaving me plenty of life to work or travel. I don't have instagram, facebook, or tiktok so I never post my life and I certainly am not dressing up and wearing makeup everyday but I live a very similar life to Nara and also find it so bizarre that people have such a problem with it.
Tradwife and housewife/stay at home mom are two entirely different things. Tradwife has the connotation that it’s tied to the alt right. And that might be why it seems people are overly concerned in this instance. I recommend videos from “feminist cat lady spinster”, here on KZhead about tradwives to get a good bit of digestible deep dive videos on the topic.
17:14 i completely agree. Saw someone say that ppl especially women (not just old wm but also women of all colours) in their 20s and some in their 30s are just envious. Many women want to give off an impression that they are happily single and doing their thing (which a lot of them are) but in reality they want a partner, someone to ”bag” them and possibly marry. And when they see someone young like Nara they feel some type of way. And instead of being happy for her they try to convince her/themselves that she’s unhappy/brainwashed. Edit: plus alot of these ppl like to throw in the ”manipulating young girls minds” thing but in reality it’s THEM that are feeling insecure and want to make it seem like it’s a collective emotion.
That’s because of societal pressure on them so if it’s true I don’t blame them, it’s the Patriarchy’s fault for valuing youth over personality
You hit the nail on the head !
That first name.. honestly, at least the saving grace of kids of parents who give them unusual names is that they usually give more relaxed middle names - if I was that girl I'd just me like "Hi, my name is honey." instead 😭
I've followed Nara aziza since she first had Rumble. I can't believe she's blown up in the wrong way. She's the least problematic person on the planet.
that poor boy is a victim omg? to be a father at 18 they were def talking when he was a minor. unless she met him after his 18th bday, got pregnant & gave birth all within his 18th year of life, they were talking before. smfh what do you have in common w a boy that young?
Saw the notification and 🏃♀🏃♀
People forget that lucky Smith is a Mormon Utahan. He was raised to have traditional values ext. if it works for them then it works for them. It’s so dumb to be so hyper critical about other people’s beliefs and relationships. Especially if it has no bearing on you or your life.
As a mom myself, a single mom in fact, my problem with Nara is that she calls I don't know how many hours of cooking "simple" and she clearly lies about her lifestyle. An example of this is when she lies about what time she makes her meals, as she has been caught several times telling one time and her stove showing another. But she's not the only one who often lies and sell a lifestyle she doesn't actually live online so perhaps it is a question of structural, even nuanced racism indeed.
You gave a really good take on this. 💗
I find her content calming and relaxing. Her voice and entire esthetic is just peaceful. I can’t relate to the from scratch cooking but it’s inspiring. I’m a fan of hers.
I haven’t seen your videos in forever 😅 but I just love your transparency and genuine honesty
Hii babes… I hope you’re feeling better from the heartbreak❤❤❤ you looked absolutely stunning in those videos, I wouldn’t have guessed you were going through ish till you said it… Love you😘😘😘
Probably as you said racism and jealousy could be why this specific influencer is receiving hate or the type of comment, I'm not familiar with this specific woman or her comment section. But I think people are also riled up about this topic because this rise of tradwife influencers in their 20's are influencing young girls to get into relationships where they can be financially abused. It's probably a mix of people being fed up with women romanticising things that might harm their young female viewers who they influence to want to become tradwives with no influencer income to back them up if the relationship fails. Jealousy certainly can play a part in the hate, that lifestyle is gatekept by beauty and youth, for those that don't have that it's not an accessible lifestyle. But that also means that these tradwives who are still in their 20's who depend on a man for a roof over their head do not know if their man will leave them once they run out of youth to replace them with someone younger. On a surface level I would love to be a housewife and not have to do the 9-5, but at the same time I'm not going to be young and beautiful forever. If I have a transactional relationship where a man is providing my lifestyle because he finds me attractive, I have no safety net if he stops finding me attractive or he wants a new 20 year old to take my place when I turn 40. Or if I'm unhappy, being cheated on or being financially abused I would also not have any money for a divorce, no money to provide for my children I had with him, a huge time gap since my last education or job experience. People need to keep in mind that a uni degree won't be valuable after 15 years with no industry experience because at that point what you learned in university is old and has been updated since and your degree is outdated, so getting a degree even and not working is not a good idea. For normal women who don't get money from being an influencer, becoming a tradwife can be a dangerous path. I saw someone say "I've never seen a woman over 40 become a tradwife influencer".
Oh my gosh! I was just watching her, and then this popped up on my page haha! Honestly, she doesn't deserve the hate she gets, her content is so calming and satisfying to watch even if I know I could never live that life as a regular mortal loll
Thank you so much for the real (authentic) response to the "tradwife"/this specific one. Once you leave a traditional mindset, it's so easy for you to villanize & criticize those who find comfort or even peace in it, but it's *vital* to realize that there's good in every perspective.
She’s not 22, she’s like 27 or 28. A article that came out when they got married quoted her and in that article she was 24 years old. She lies about her age
So from all of this, that's all you care about or can take from this video?? Srsly
@@aviannaislaclara3774 I’m pretty sure they’re just pointing it out 😭😭
@@Ahcension have you seen the comment section it's all everyone is talking about, is lying about her age such a big deal that you people forget about the hate train towards her because of her choice of living
She's 22 years old not 27 or 28 years old where the heck did you get that from 🙄😒🤦🏽♀️
Source?
Ngl, if I had the time, energy and money I’d do the same thing she is doing..
honestly i just think ppl are jealous
Honestly, I think it’s a combination of things. I think it’s people finding out that he is Mormon and so is she and then people knowing about the Mormon religion and learning about it that makes some people a bit uncomfortable because of the way that they tend to see and deem not non-white people. Then I think it is a combination of her being a model and a stay at home, mom and so young And the way that she like goes about things in the whole triad wife aesthetic and stuff. It’s one of those things where it’s like kind of complicated on one hand people should mind their own business on the other hand. I feel like whenever you see anyone who’s not white being Mormon or married into a Mormon family. It does always get a bit questionable just because of what people know who have had family members that married or were part of the Mormon lifestyle or people who watch Mormons talk about how absolutely racist and sexist and horrible Mormonism is and how it’s just deeply embedded in the religion so the way that they tend to treat non-white people and how they have to act makes people feel a bit uncomfortable or rub them the wrong way when they do come across this content and see certain people praising it to high heavenit’s just one of those oddities.
I don’t get why people are labelling her as a trad wife I like her videos and I personally thought her account was a cooking account 😭 Also we all know that people post the best of themselves and their lives on social media and that is ok she posts her lil aesthetic cooking videos and there is nothing wrong with that
They are definitely jealous. God bless her and her family
I have a feeling most people have a deep misconception on what feminism is. The original movement was for women and men to viewed as equal. Neither is better or worse than the other. A feminist would staunchly defend a Trads wife decision to not work outside the home. However a women (no one) shouldn’t be forced to be a stay at home mom if they don’t want to!
everytime i watch ur videos i remember why im subscribed. love the content xx
Aww thanks babe ily
hey keisha!! hope you're having a good day.
Its not uncommon i work at a scratch bakery for crap sakes! Homemade is not hard, its time consuming. If you have the time, energy then yeah, but if you don't have the time, energy doesn't mean you cant do it, just means you dont have the time, some breads take 3 and a half hours just to make.
this title is ABSOLUTELY wild and i love it
Honestly you can be a mom at any age. 22, 36, 48, etc. If she chooses this life, let her be. People being mad about it is insane. Sometimes it feels like people would rather judge and go after their own life so it doesn't make them look at the crap going on in their own. Just live however you live as long as its not harming anyone
genuinely have so much respect for you as a person man you're so authentically real and i completely agree, its no one elses business like why do you care? its giving jealousy and its giving envy and bitterness and that shit makes me feel sad for you lmao
honestly people should stop attaching themselves to situations that don't concern them. She's just living her life and you can tell that she feels good while doing it. Just because her life is different from yours does not mean that you should now drag her for it. We're all living our lives as individuals, be your own individual.
When we see the current social and political climate that is very controlling and judgemental of women (actually rolling back womens rights) plus the religious undertones and trad wife aesthetic/lifestyle you get a very polarizing issue. And for good reason. And women who even have the choice to be online, have any opinions, have any job at all or the choice to stay home need remember that this current pushback on feminist ideas is a problem. Many of the tradwives also have ties to white supremacist right wing politics. These ideas are permeating our political landscap as there are MANY who would love the US to be a theocracy, so yes one can and should critique and analyze this type of content. She may not specifically belive in or participate in this as im sure not all do, but we look at this critically because of the ideas in and what is perceived from a lot of this type of content. There is a lot of "holier than thou" highkey shade that comes with the idea that tradwife and tradwife adjacent influencers are pushing. There is also a classist element to the display because its not easily liveable on one income. It was also quite false throughout history as many women, especially poor and of color were always working outside the home and usually expected to maintain the home at the same time. And being able to film this content, do all this makeup and fancy dress is not wasy with small children. Very much so a wealth whispers aesthetic and a lot of well off women have childcare and cleaning staff employed. From what i have seen they do not usually believe in or push choice as lifestyle. Its either blatantly stated or otherwise implied that There is this one way to live and doing otherwise is somehow you lacking as a person or reprehensible. Im speaking as someone who was raised in a religion that pushed these ideals. A lot of these relationship dynamics are displays of control and unfair distribution of household chores whilst you're still supposed to remain beautiful. There are a lot of connotations recieved from the viewer and the unrealistic nature of this life at a time when people are struggling to work decent jobs and still living in their cars is going to rub someone the wrong way. Its not only her, many others are also critiqued for their content.
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Oh noooo, not another label 🤦🏾♀️! "Tradwife"? Wtf? This generation gotta have a label for everything 🙅🏾♀️.
You mean... like other generations? Dandy, Hippie, Mod, Abolitionists, Anarchists, Rockers, Punks, Football fans? And as trad-wives are part of a ultra-conservative cultural movement with ties to white supremacists and evangelical extremists (their agit-prop department, so to speak), of course there is a name. Just as there was a name when people 'had tea' at a certain harbour.
I can't toast a hot cross bun in my pjs without burning it, good on her. I think when people spend a lot of energy judging internet strangers they don't know or care about it screams 'get a real problem'
She's a young married mother who cooks, cleans and cares for her kids when she's not modeling. Sounds like a nice comfortable life for her. If it's not the lifestyle you want, then you're free to live your life differently. Whatever happened to "live and let live" or "to each their own"?
she's getting more backlash than the one with the 10+ rugrats on the farm 😭
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Kinda off topic but I love u Keisha!! I always listen to you and I feel like besties spilling tea with you! 🩷
I really like what I have seen of her and her content. Her videos are one of the calm moments that I have in a day and I really appreciate them. Honestly after watching her KZhead videos from when they were first married and their birthing story I liked them even more. In the short social media clips you can tell that they care about each other, but in the KZhead video you can really feel the adoration that they have for each other. I think people need to leather alone. She has brought an entirely different vibe and it's been a safe space for many people.
Who said she needed to live a life realistic to you (people having a problem). It's realistic for her and she's chosen it and empowered it. Good on her! And actually making tiny changes in daily life consistently can change your life entirely if you really want it. I think the tiny steps ate never shown but I know plenty of people in their early 20s at so many disadvanges and hurdles who wanted a certain life and they got it in a variety of ways. Some took years, some a bit of luck or opportunity but all kept a consistent action going. Everyone's dreams look different and I'm happy seeing others happy regardless of what I currently believe I can or can't obtain and what that might look like ❤
My mom used to make a lot of thing from scratch but we also had an older sibling. My biggest issue with this is I know men act like this is a realistic wife. She is literally a model and has access to millions. She is naturally thin and has babies back to back and her body snatches right back. I literally saw a video saying we hate her because we need to be better women but this guy pushed his wife back to work at a hospital right after having her baby and he thinks its realistic to for his wife who he expects to work to come home deal with their 2 kids and baby. It's not realistic that most women have this much time even as a stay at home mom.
She is not a tradwife she just love cooking , both her and her husband are models and she adressed the mormon thing plus for the kids she said that she always wanted to be a young mom
If I had money and had the option I’d totally be a sahm and cook from scratch but unfortunately that’s not possible for me but it doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing
I do think traditional marriage is better. And it's 100% realistic, but obviously how extravagantly you live will depend primarily on the money the husband makes. My wife and I have lived this way for 16 years (13 with a kid) and we're far from rich, so all the material possessions and environment around us look very different from Nara's! Lol. But everyone should be free to choose how they want to live in terms of that. I don't know of any tradwife or conservative who thinks it should be forced.
True. If she made that decision by herself without nobody forcing and she doesn't regret then people don't have to put their nasty noses in everyone business just because they jealous or cringed over a married woman posting cooking content ? Like there are more stuff that are way cringier
I agree.
Im sure jealousy has some to do with it but we’re also just over this kinda lifestyle shit tbh. People are struggling and we’re just over it. Their lifestyle isn’t realistic because the only way they can live that life is with nannies and maids. We criticize the Kardashians for their tone deaf shit so I think the criticism of this couple is valid. Beyond race all tradwives get the criticism.
She’s that age with three children already? Yikes. I really think people should experience themselves first before they have children
I’m a strong believer in Not everything has to be relatable. And also it’s 2024 let women live the life they want to live isn’t that’s the whole point of “feminism” if you don’t want a trad wife or want to be a trad wife simply don’t but there’s nothing wrong with it. And there’s nothing wrong with being young and wanting that life or living it people need to stop projecting not every women or girl is going to be abused in someway because they live that lifestyle it’s not like back then we have a choice.
Jealousy is a good motivator. Haters need to use their jealousy and envy to put that energy into helping themselves do the things they need to improve on Instead of misdirecting that energy into hate, because they’re only hurting themselves by doing that.
Thank you for bringing up Lucky and Stormi's weird relationship! To have a baby with an 18 year old was so STRANGE and it was all over instagram like it was normal
My only issue with them is that I happened upon them when I was looking for shorter man/same height woman or taller woman couples. People keep telling my short self to not give up on women, but I really just keep finding reasons to stay away on mating terms. Other than that, their age gap and when they first met is the only part concerning me about the couple in question.
people are so caught up in the "im a women, i don't need no husband and kids, i want to be successful in my career blah blah". but like... its actually okay to want those things. and people can very much have both. that's what some don't understand. she's doing just fine and people shouldn't judge the way SHE chooses to live HER life.
It is just that we live in a digital age where everyone is so constantly nosy and always looking or chasing for drama. They have nothing better to do in their actual lives or spare time to achieve anything. They’ll just take out their frustrations out on other women who are content creators online making content for people so they can be entertained (as I mean entertained, I am talking about the viewers being entertained. At least she is making some money, whilst bringing some income while her husband is the breadwinner. So her income supports their child and including her hubby Lucky. 🍀 of course, people are so hateful or jealous for no reason. Instead of congratulating her for being a mom influencer and being her mother. Of course some people aren’t very friendly or just plain rude and stupid for no reason..😐
I agree with you, But in general, Be careful after you say this that you won’t turn into a person who will start to demean and look down on women who choose to be single with no kids. Because I hear some people say the exact same thing you said and sadly went down a slippery slope of putting other women down. Because In the end it doesn’t matter how a woman lives her life, as long as she wanted her choices.
I think it's fair to call them out for those baby names. Her own name is Nara, a pretty name. And her kids are RUMBLE and SLIM EASY. That should be illegal. And white trad wives are getting lots of hate too, but I think Nara is more interesting and beautiful to look at and therefore gets more attention. People don't look at a woman baking bread and thinking "nice" if she's white, and "not nice" if she's black.
Her husband is definitely responsible for these name 😭
"Tradwives" are definitely a nuanced topic but I think the biggest difference between someone simply staying at home and living those "traditional gender roles" and a "tradwife" is a "tradwife" speaks out against modern feminism in a way that says it is about hating men and erasing all things feminine about women. For example, staying at home and being a mom in "tradwives" eyes is typically something that's "shunned" in modern feminism, which is a harmful message to be spreading to their audiences because it is simply not true. It leans to the radical conservative views of gender, misogyny and lack of representation of the LGBTQ+ community. A lot of them push harmful Christian ideology as well, like being submissive to your husband and that only heterosexual couples are good couples. Furthermore, this lifestyle is not one many can achieve because of their social economic status and can be harmful if it is portrayed as "the right way to live." They shame mothers who aren't staying home, but many simply can't afford to. This isn't to say staying at home is wrong, or posting about your life like Nara does is wrong, but acknowledging the issues surrounding the concept is important - this is also not to say Nara is a "tradwife" because like I said, "tradwives" typically follow a certain criteria but she seems to just be living her life and enjoying it.
Nora is drop dead gorgeous. I hope she is happy because she does so much for her husband and family.
I remember when Lucky Blue Smith was just popping off and people were interested in his mormon background and many many siblings. Crazy to see how his family's grown and changed in recent years. So sweet.