Answering The Big Question That's Been Ignored - Chateau Life 🏰 EP 317
So time to answer the question that has been asked a lot and been ignored....
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Your kindness is epic. Yes, I wondered. No, I would never have asked. You both have a right to your privacy.
Same, it’s not our lives. We are just lucky enough to be part of it. ❤️🙏
I agree that your private life is just that. Best wishes to you both. Continued success
Absolutely. I had wondered, hoped I was reading too much into the absence but would never have asked. I figured as much after your birthday video. Sorry
Totally agree with your privacy stand Phil. It could be easier for you if Angelina was removed from the chateau life general vlogg banner and info pages.
Well said, phil !! Good luck for your future ❤ xx
It is nobody else's business, no need to apologise!! Good luck for the future 😘
Absolutely Phil. Your business is your business. No apologies needed I wish the best for both of you going forward. However, that looks. Sending loads of love from California.🤟🏻💜😎🐬🇺🇸
Don't complain, don't explain. Your private life is your business. We love you and wish you all the best. The channel is called Chateau Life, which is all we need to know about. Keep on rockin', buddy! You are doing great.
well said.
Crack On
I think most of us had worked it out. 'Nuff said. Subject closed. Take care.
I'm sorry that you had to go public with your private life!! Wishing you better days ahead!!
Hey Phil fix your house fix your car that’s enough. Don’t read the nasty comments!! If someone has the bad manners to inquire about your private life thats on them!! We are all just living life taking chances. Ok all my mom wants to see is the Range Rover up and running 🏃♀️
The elephant has left the room. Good of you to show it out. Onward.
I made the assumption long ago. Best to both of you and you certainly do not have to justify your approach with the matter. Rock on.
Dear Phil, Angelina many months ago on her Instagram stated that she would not be returning to France. You are not alone. Enjoy your new life and hopefully you will be able to continue looking after your fabulous castle.
Yes, I remember.
What is her insta? Is she still doing crafts?
none of our business what your private life is, all you need to do is be happy in life for you xx
Elephants always make so much noise leaving the room and the clean up can be monumental. All the best to you both and really, it's no ones business but your own.
Tell me you’re going through a divorce without telling me you’re going through a divorce… you aced it Phil this last year. I’m sorry you’ve had to be this transparent. Like the legend you are, you smashed this completely awkward and unnecessary video. It was painful to watch tbh. I hope you’re ok. To the stalker, shame on you!! Said with peace and love 🤬
Sorry this was painful for you. But truthfully, your channel was a collab with Angelina and you and she was a big part of everything. So naturally we were concerned. Most of us could “read the room” and not ask intrusive questions. You’re a gem, Phil. Thanks for sharing shit that is really none of our business. Now back to those man-eating bees. Yikes.
Thank you, Phil! It was obvious and none of our business.🇨🇦❤️
Wishing you, and Angelina, all the best. You're both great people...
Misplaced love is not a concept I had ever considered. Thank you for giving me something very important to meditate on. You are an incredibly kind man, Phil.
Angelina posted on Instagram over a year ago that she had left France,left the chateau and left Phillip. It's your business and no one else's. Look forward to seeing what you do with the range Rover.xx
I don't Insta but I did feel that it was a split when she wasn't back after a month. But I'll just keep watching for the house content & to Anyone else who watches it should just be a blip in someone Else's Personal life! I imagine she's been asked often, to have made it like an announcement. Or maybe is starting to date. Still nobody's business but theirs. Even when you ask "how are you" it's kind of a surprise if they answer with something other than "fine". People on this social think they deserve Everything, including information you just don't want to address😢! Then they give their opinions!!! Just hope they're doing good!❤
Phil, I'm sorry that you felt you had to share. Although it's sad, it happens. I was married for 20 years and it all fell apart. It took me a good 5 years to recover and another 15 years before I found my true love. Live is a journey. You are a loving and caring person. Hang in there. I love watching your vlogs !❤
Because I care, I would not ask. However, I want to say that you have done very well managing the channel, and the chateau, despite the change in circumstances. That is what I notice. Bravo!
we rather you be not so anxious and not faint or have a heart attack while you give your answer to such a difficult thing or process that people go through. Love to you both. very brave...take a deep breath, it is out in the universe now and everyone can get on.
My statement to a tee.
Don’t be sad about the past it’s Gone..Don’t stress about the future it hasn’t arrived..live in the present and make it Beautiful 💕 Bless you for keeping going with you tube …you’re thoughtfulness shines best wishes Phil 😊
Three years ago, I watched you restore the Swan House. It is heartbreaking to see it covered in pea soup. Hopefully the water level will go down soon.
Sticky pads work really well for the hornets..😊👍💗
And what do you do with the ANGRY hornets when they are stuck to the sticky pads?
Your private life should stay private. You are a very kind person, always stay positive! Love watching you helping Billy, and helping Simon with the roof, looking after you beautiful château! Good luck going forward, you deserve the best!
How unfortunate that you felt pressure to divulge your private life. So disgusting that strangers feel they have a right to know and get into your business. Big hugs Phil - you are a good man and I respect that you kept it personal until now. Now let's move on! DO BETTER PEOPLE! Now leave it be!
Wishing you well and safety through the storm. The rest is, as you say, none of our business.
It boggles my mind that some people hadn't figured this out already...you've handled this with class Phil.
I just assumed she didn't want to be in the videos anymore
thanks Phil for your openness on what i can only imagine is a delicate subject and i hope others are satisfied and leave that door to your private life closed
It truly must be difficult being a KZheadr. Yes, it's insane how people feel that they have the right to be so personal with you. May you and Angelina have blessed and happy life, and deserve to have a private life. 🙏🤗
I had figured out Angelina wasn't coming back & would never have asked such a personal question. Love to both yourself & Angelina.
You're right, Phil, people sometimes just grow apart despite good intentions. Hang in there, you have our support. ❤ to Angelina, as well. Wish her all the best.
You are such a generous person. Always believing everyone has good meanings! You definitely have the right to a private life! But thank you for sharing. Love to you from USA and prayers for you and Angelina to have happy futures! ❤❤❤
Phil, I taught my children years ago that life has many roads. There will always be ups and downs with many turns. You are kind and generous. I enjoy your videos because of that.
Good luck to you both for the future! Most people had realised what had happened and didn’t want to invade your private lives.
Deep breath, Phil! In...out...go on, breathe deep. You did it. Looking forward to seeing you more upbeat and at ease, now that the elephant has trudged on down the lane. Life goes onward! Um, dare I ask...where is Lightning?? I hope he's ok!
You’d have to be thick as a plank not to realise that you have separated from Angelina. I have the theory that the people that keep asking where she is are perfectly well aware of what’s happened, they just want you to go into all the reasons and spill the beans on what is none of their business, its like rubber necking a road accident. Hopefully they will now shut up. You are a lovely man and an incredible friend to so many, may you find happiness again in your personal life, you deserve it.
Ditto ❤
Don't be so judgy, not everyone watches every single video. They might just be thinking she decided to step away from the camera for a while, or even worry that she's unwell. Did you know Billy Petherick has a "mystery" brother who lives there but doesn't want to be shown on camera? Anything is possible.....folks can think of lots of less dire reasons....I just did, and I hadn't even thought about her not being around until now. I wouldn't assume folks are trolling....Phil certainly is giving them the benefit of the doubt, so let him be positive about it if that's what he wants.
@@Billkwando, she called you 'vile' , I don't think so. ; )
@@phyllisburrell8661and I wouldn't have mentioned it if Billy hadn't mentioned it in his own videos first. He just mentions it once, IIRC, but it's not a "secret", that's why I put it in quotes.
@@Billkwando, I know, I remember him saying it. Billy blocked me from comments awhile back, not sure what it was that I said, but I am curious. He had liked and responded to lots of my comments,so I was surprised. I 'think' it was because I left a comment on their friend Darcy taking a apartment there. Even though it was obvious to me, he hadn't announced it or maybe still hasn't, I'm not sure. Didn't take a genius to figure it out though. I have never considered your comments anything other than funny and upbeat.
What a generous soul you are. I’m sorry that you’ve had to share so much, but you’ve certainly done it with class. ❤
Understood, Phil. As a recently divorced person I empathise. Life definitely goes on. Courage.
Hey Phil, Thankyou for being real. In the words of the late & great John Lennon, “Life is what happens when you’re busy making other plans.” Blessings, Lynn
I understood from a year ago Phil. I feel for you I have been there myself. God will help you heal!
I just want to say, thank u for allowing us into your life. To share the home u live in, an how u work on it. Thank u. U don't have to say any thing more. I've learned more carpenter ins an out. Stay safe with the storm coming.😊😊😊
Your story is your story and you don't need to say anything. You both have my most sincere blessings on your lives as you move forward. Thank you for understanding that there are so many of us that do care about you both! Hugs and prayers for healing.
I am sorry to hear that things did not work out the way you might have hoped. I do hope that you and Angelina are both happy and at peace with your lives.
You're a good man Phil. I wish nothing but the best for you.
You 2 people are beautiful and i wish nothing but happiness and love for yous both ❤❤
Good luck to you Phil, you are a wonderful person❤️🇦🇺
We had a problem with a hornet invasion. It began slowly but within a couple days it was unmanageable. Turned out the old chimney we had blocked off had a very large nest in it. Check your chimney! Take care and look after yourself.
I thought it was obvious that you were no longer with Angelina. I would never dare to ask. You are such a gentleman Phil. Thank you for being you. May you please take care and stay safe. Louisa. 👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️🤩🤩🤩
Respect to you for handling this delicate subject so well Phil. Not easy to do but you did it with class and kindness. Hope that storm passes by quickly and that everyone stays safe.
What a classy guy you are Phil. Thanks for the clarification. On another note, I really love what you did to that room! It looks so cozy!
We love you Phil and are behind you 100%! You’re an amazing man with a good heart. We wish you both healing, happiness and peace. 😘
Such a massive undertaking is a make or break. I did wonder but as you say it is your private life. I am always commenting to Ms Jarvis that she does not have to say everything or justify herself. We do not own you. Wishing you all the best in both your lives. Hugs xxx
Love ya Phil, these things happen but no judgment here🎉 carry on, love your honesty❤
Thank you for your honesty. I pray for you both to find peace.
You are absolutely correct that this issue is nobody else’s bussines but yours & Angelinas.
Hey Phil! ... I just remembered something that I think you should make a note of ... in your "about" section of your channel, it clearly mentions Angelina's name ... as if the channel would also be featuring her. So, you might want to make some edits there & rewrite it a bit!
That must’ve taken a lot of courage Phil, but well done for talking about it so openly. You have many supporters and great friends, so I’m sure you’ll knuckle down to work like you always do..👍🏻
One of the interesting things about youtube is that when you follow channels for long enough you realise that the couples that are portrayed do not live some life that is charmed in a way the the rest of us aren’t. I’ve seen multiple relationship splits, deaths through covid , successful channels just vaporising , if anything I think the pressure of KZhead puts much more strain on relationships than most of us appreciate .
Thank you Phil. Best of luck and love to you and Angelina.
I’m glad you told us Phil. We have all felt your sadness. Lots of us have gone trough divorce, and it is SO hard. You are a really good guy and in the future someone will throw their big love at you and spoil you like crazy, and my God you deserve it ❤❤❤
Praying the storm does not cause damage to your château and the gardens. You’re a wonderful caring man, you are doing a great job on your property and have wonderful friends. Life moves on for all of us. Wishing you every happiness Phil. I enjoy your channel’s and looking forward to seeing the Range Rover back on the road for Billy. See you tomorrow or when you feel up to posting. Enjoy your time at the pub. Cheers 🍻
Thank you, Phil. It was a bit confusing and concerning when Angelina suddenly wasn't in any videos anymore after seeing her so much. So I think it was proper for you to address it without going into detail. You didn't say anything but seemed okay and kept making videos, so I kept thinking she was coming back. I am sad for both of you and for Lightning. I was concerned about you having to manage everything at the chateau yourself, but it seems you are managing it just fine. Plus, you are constantly helping others. Plus, working on the car. I don't know how you do it. Again, thank you for letting us all know the situation.
You've done it respectfully.
I hope you get a handle on that pea soup soon. Anything else is no ones business. Sending hugs and prayers for peace about each step to your restoration.
I am sorry that people keep asking.
I'm so sorry to hear that, but remember, once one door closes another one opens.❤
I am so sorry Phil that you have had to make this video. It was obvious to all but the most insensitive what had happened , yet every flipping week someone would ask the questions , poking the wound. Personally l don’t think it all came from a place of love. Perhaps now people will leave it alone and we all wish both you and Angelina the very best in the future.
Phil you are the same age as my son and all i really want to do is give you a motherly hug. Anyhow, you have a beautiful chateau and a gorgeous puppy dog and wonderful friends. Keep on smiling and carry on being you.
Maybe an update of your channel header image and description, will be a way to show a new identity of Chateau Live
Phil keep up the great work
I had figured it out, but have to say I am glad to hear you have been able to maintain your friendship. Your choice to understand “misplaced loved” is gracious and I think healthy for you. Even though it should have been private, I’m glad you got it off your chest and no longer have to deal with the awkwardness of avoiding the topic. Well done. Carry on. ❤
Phil, I didn't start following your channel until very recently. I had a feeling you were going to be on your own. I wish you all the best. ❤
yep life happens.
Blessings to you both. I wish you both much happiness. 🙏🦋
Phil, we wish you all the best. It is none of our business, we just wish you happiness.
Good luck to you both, I wish you well. I think subscribers get attached to seeing their KZhead people and wonder if they haven't seen them for awhile. On the Pethericks people will ask where has Rick been, where is Yanis? They just get used to seeing them. But of course you all deserve your personal space.
Best wishes to you both ❤
Haha! I just saw Yanis rocking out at the Petherick’s Halloween party! It was epic.
We never know what turns our lives can take. Best to both of you.
Philly I figured that out a long time ago. Her loss, your a great guy with such a kind heart. You don’t owe anyone any explanation. The more you explain the more people want. It’s ok to keep some things private! Love from Vermont, USA
I wish both of you the very best ❤
I am glad that you got to the point that you can share this. The one thing that keeps us coming back, more than the house or the cars is the people. You seem to be a great guy. Best wishes.
Phil, I kinda figured out that you and Angelina separated. It really is none of our business. I do wish you both all the very best. I admire you for your approach to answering this. I do hope that now everyone can move past this and enjoy your videos as much as I do.❤
Integrity and kindness shining through yet again. I hope getting that said and done has you feeling the better for it 💕
Thank you for the explanation, sorry you had to do it. Hope this means you can now move on.
There are some really rude, ignorant people in this world please just ignore them xx
Wishing both of you love, happiness and a fulfilling life ahead.
That took a lot for you to open up like that .I see changes ,your growing😇💕🙏
Best wishes to you both. Thank you for sharing ❤
I feel ya. I’m single for one year as of today actually. I’m not a KZhead personality, and even I have well meaning strangers stop by and ask me what happened to my man. 🙄Small towns lol. I figured as much what you were going through but I would never have asked either. As they say the healing path is never linear. Always here rooting for you!
Phil, I have enjoyed watching you and your endeavors for well over a year. It took a lot of strength to talk even a little bit about your personal life. You wear your heart on your sleeve. I enjoy watching the comradery you share with your friend Billy and others. My wife and I have ventured to the south of France and plan on returning next year. One of the things on my list is to stay at a chateau . I will continue to watch your channels with great interest. Thanks for all you do to make these great videos!
I'm here to support the channel and for the garden 😊 it's intriguing and you're an intelligent guy who is, from what I've seen, very kind, caring, and supportive 👏😉
We all care Phil…….I came back to your channel after a break and found you were in a different Chateau to when I last saw you so obviously I wondered where Angelina was ……especially when her name was still on your videos…….all that was needed was for you to say you and Angelina are no longer together …….no need for an in depth explanation as it is a private matter but when you put yourself out there into the public domain people are going to be curious ….! I can see it was difficult for you to speak about it so love to you both and I hope you both find happiness again …! Meanwhile it’s great to see you have friends around you and to see you with Billy and the gang ….!xx
It is done, dusted and It is nobody else's business and I would never have asked. You both are entitled to your privacy. Good luck to you both and still love your videos Phil. Have a lovely day.
Your in my thoughts and prayers. I'm sorry you had to explain. We love you and your candor. Always open , kind and honest. Take care, be safe, hope the storm passes you . Must be a big one, Billy mentioned it too.
All my best♥️♥️♥️ Your life is “Private” with the exception what you choose to share. Thank you for allowing us along your Journey. 💕🇨🇦👍🏻
Just started watching a couple of months ago and never thought of it. Just figured this was your thing and not hers. Thanks for your courage and commitment to truth. Yes private means private. Life will knock you down sometimes, but just get up and keep moving forward. Much love and prayers.
I KNEW PHIL But it your business. Enough said ❤ enjoy your pint🎉
I figured you would talk about it if you wanted too.
I always wondered why it was just you there, so good you cleared that up. Good luck to you both and these things happen for a reason that we don't always see at the time.
Hats of the head for you two is not easy talk about that respect and best wishes for you.
We have your back Phil!!!!! We are not going anywhere…