Former FBI Agent Explains How to Negotiate | WIRED

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Former FBI agent and body language expert Joe Navarro breaks down how to approach high-pressure negotiations using examples from his time with the bureau. Joe goes through the arenal of tactics used by himself and the FBI explaining what to leverage and when to achieve the desired outcome.
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  • “Oh come on, how bad can meeting the family be?” Her dad:

    @f-35alightningii79@f-35alightningii792 жыл бұрын
    • Bring your lawyer.

      @mark-ish@mark-ish2 жыл бұрын
    • Her dad: F-22 @65,000

      @warpartyattheoutpost4987@warpartyattheoutpost49872 жыл бұрын
    • 11:48

      @aagantuk7370@aagantuk73702 жыл бұрын
    • Not if my your family is narcissistic like mine

      @GirishVenkatachalam@GirishVenkatachalam2 жыл бұрын
    • “I voted for Brandon”

      @pleiadesluciernaga8877@pleiadesluciernaga88772 жыл бұрын
  • This is the only man that knows where his girlfriend wants to eat at

    @curse4384@curse43842 жыл бұрын
    • Under rated comment

      @jacobgordon2707@jacobgordon27072 жыл бұрын
    • 😂😂😂

      @bokiNYC@bokiNYC2 жыл бұрын
    • Funny 😆

      @sandy89107@sandy891072 жыл бұрын
    • He is married .

      @DLCS-2@DLCS-22 жыл бұрын
    • @@DLCS-2 ok but we are talking about his girlfriend

      @JiihaaS@JiihaaS2 жыл бұрын
  • I've heard therapists also use silence a lot, because if they remain silent while you think you're "done" telling a story, by seeing they remain silent it makes you nervous and you keep talking, adding to the story, to fill the silence. It's a very clever thing, and I've heard it also works with kids/adults if they're trying to lie or omit parts of a story. So basically if you want them to keep talking, stay silent.

    @semoremo9548@semoremo95482 жыл бұрын
    • Lol, if i find myself talking to someone who does that I'll just throw question to get him to talk.

      @mystery6411@mystery64112 жыл бұрын
    • @@mystery6411 or just go away. What a boring person.

      @arodvaz1870@arodvaz1870 Жыл бұрын
    • Lawyers do that also

      @jlt2693@jlt2693 Жыл бұрын
    • ive had doctors do that. alot of them do. i also go silent lol.

      @colonelradec5956@colonelradec5956 Жыл бұрын
    • @@mystery6411 sameeee.

      @sakuranovaryan9261@sakuranovaryan9261 Жыл бұрын
  • The lenses of his glasses are *so* clean and pristine. Not a single scratch on them.

    @garymc1105@garymc11052 жыл бұрын
    • He has enough money/care to wear good glasses... So?

      @katacutie@katacutie2 жыл бұрын
    • Guy is probably rich. He also cares about his image. He does what he preaches... it was actually his job to do what he preaches about

      @ClaudioBOsorio@ClaudioBOsorio2 жыл бұрын
    • @@katacutie take your negativity away and go sit in the corner alone like you do in school.

      @unknownuser-fv2lq@unknownuser-fv2lq2 жыл бұрын
    • I imagine it's standard procedure to thoroughly clean their glasses before the interview just as it's common for someone to come over and dust off your clothes before an interview like this. But I don't actually know, pure speculation

      @sucyshi@sucyshi2 жыл бұрын
    • @@unknownuser-fv2lq you can sit in the other corner and reflect on your rude comment.

      @mark-ish@mark-ish2 жыл бұрын
  • Wired please keep bringing Joe. He's very good. We could sit and hear this man for days.

    @ClaudioBOsorio@ClaudioBOsorio2 жыл бұрын
    • Joe mama

      @tehpuglord4006@tehpuglord40062 жыл бұрын
    • yes

      @wilfredv1930@wilfredv19302 жыл бұрын
    • @Jon Esser shh

      @ClaudioBOsorio@ClaudioBOsorio2 жыл бұрын
    • He has a book "What Every Body is Saying" he narrates it on audible

      @LunaELugo@LunaELugo2 жыл бұрын
    • Agreed!

      @ClevelandLeah@ClevelandLeah2 жыл бұрын
  • big fan of this magical bald man and his wizard words

    @ItsJoKeZ@ItsJoKeZ2 жыл бұрын
    • I'm just here before this comment blows up

      @MrKhan-gs8cw@MrKhan-gs8cw2 жыл бұрын
    • @@MrKhan-gs8cw +1

      @obyx8044@obyx80442 жыл бұрын
    • How about we call him 'Joe Navarro.'

      @kaymarham5486@kaymarham54862 жыл бұрын
    • @@MrKhan-gs8cw Kirk: KHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAN (Sorry couldn't help it)

      @Arachnoid_of_the_underverse@Arachnoid_of_the_underverse2 жыл бұрын
    • @@Arachnoid_of_the_underverse I understood that reference.

      @thatcrowkiddraws@thatcrowkiddraws2 жыл бұрын
  • Chronocity and silence. I wish we had more of this in actual classes about negotiations and dealing with toxic people. That's a great way to deal with aggressive and toxic people.

    @MythopoeicNavid@MythopoeicNavid2 жыл бұрын
    • "Observe don't absorb" - Ross Rosenberg, addictions counsellor with a KZhead channel about narcissistic abuse

      @ilyaibrahimovic9842@ilyaibrahimovic98422 жыл бұрын
    • *Chronicity

      @robertr510@robertr5102 жыл бұрын
    • @Mithilesh M maybe a well timed bathroom break might interrupt just enuf to feel like silence. I know how irritating it is when someone can't finish the talk bc they have to pee.

      @drawingmomentum@drawingmomentum Жыл бұрын
    • @@ilyaibrahimovic9842 perfect!

      @itsalorikatpnw@itsalorikatpnw Жыл бұрын
    • No its not. Manipulators regularly pass right by this kind of scrutiny because its hogwash. Meanwhile, FBI agents like this put people with tourettes away in prison for... having tourettes. They don't know what they are talking about. It's a literal scam, it was thrown out of psychology by Popper's Criteria, (alongside Freud, Jung, and any number of other subpar disciplines,) and it's why so many people the US put in Guantanamo Bay were innocent, (and probably why the US had so much bad intel that they were dropping bombs on hospitals and weddings. Turns out, wearing people down is a great way to get innocent people *to lie to you* in order to get you to stop.) (Also, contracts made using this tactic are leonine by nature, they should be void by default, because they impair best judgment, preventing a true meeting of the minds.)

      @peppermintgal4302@peppermintgal4302 Жыл бұрын
  • the fbi, cia and secret service guys are so interesting to listen to

    @carminemartino1197@carminemartino11972 жыл бұрын
    • I'm just here before this comment blows up

      @MrKhan-gs8cw@MrKhan-gs8cw2 жыл бұрын
    • So interesting , but i really would hate having knoledge that someone i know is an fbi agent , u never know when they tell the truth

      @jeserthe9402@jeserthe94022 жыл бұрын
    • yas these are my favourite terrorist groups 😍😍

      @mftmss7086@mftmss70862 жыл бұрын
    • Yes to listen to, so interesting to listen. Listen...

      @sunimod1895@sunimod18952 жыл бұрын
    • @@sunimod1895 yes, listen

      @carminemartino1197@carminemartino11972 жыл бұрын
  • 1.Plan to succeed 2.Negotiating allegiance(engagement & transaction phase) 3.Chronicity & silencity 4.Entropy (let them vent) 5.Negotiations

    @sachinardao3777@sachinardao3777 Жыл бұрын
    • Thanks

      @tadiafoster4460@tadiafoster4460 Жыл бұрын
    • Also talking over the person works, blaming them, passive aggressive language and behavior, excessive nonrepetitive persuasion. Sometimes entropy sometimes the other.

      @malachite072@malachite0728 ай бұрын
  • Joe Navarro always gets what he wants for dinner. Car dealers give him *his* best price. Highway patrol offers him a refund for speeding.

    @ScottMurrayBestFamilyCars@ScottMurrayBestFamilyCars2 жыл бұрын
    • He will never be Jimenez though!

      @RogueAtom_1@RogueAtom_12 жыл бұрын
    • 🤣

      @sandy89107@sandy891072 жыл бұрын
    • Never be PUTIN tho

      @yourplaylist4538@yourplaylist45382 жыл бұрын
    • YES HE IS THE WORLDS "MOST INTERESTING MAN" 🤣🤣

      @craigmiller45@craigmiller45 Жыл бұрын
    • He has the speech and charisma maxxed out

      @Max_G43@Max_G43 Жыл бұрын
  • i just reading his book '3 min to doomsday' this old man is legend in his profession and have a lot of knowledge which can be learnt...big fan

    @anonymous-kv3vg@anonymous-kv3vg2 жыл бұрын
    • I was going to leave this comment that whether he has written a book yet? But thanks... you answered.

      @vesper9547@vesper95472 жыл бұрын
  • Not surprising that planning and engaging with the individual are the most important parts to negotiation. These tactics remind me of the same principles used for a successful presentation in front of peers.

    @TheMarriedSouthernPeaches@TheMarriedSouthernPeaches2 жыл бұрын
    • I'm just here before this comment blows up

      @MrKhan-gs8cw@MrKhan-gs8cw2 жыл бұрын
    • This video is pretty much comm 101 summed in 13 minutes.

      @johaunusguttenburg3846@johaunusguttenburg38462 жыл бұрын
    • I'm just here before this comment doesn't blow up.

      @haydencassidy9536@haydencassidy95362 жыл бұрын
    • @@MrKhan-gs8cw lad. Get a grip

      @unknownuser-fv2lq@unknownuser-fv2lq2 жыл бұрын
    • @@MrKhan-gs8cw more chance of you blowing up if you ask me.

      @unknownuser-fv2lq@unknownuser-fv2lq2 жыл бұрын
  • Imagine having this guy as your father-in-law?

    @Chainsaw-ASMR@Chainsaw-ASMR2 жыл бұрын
    • That is the one dinner I wouldn't want to be at

      @jimmyhwang9687@jimmyhwang96872 жыл бұрын
    • negotiate my way out

      @1Live2Love3Thrive@1Live2Love3Thrive2 жыл бұрын
    • Just imagine you taken the omerta oath

      @centurion756@centurion7562 жыл бұрын
    • That would make a good movie.

      @ChuckFarlieSeesAll@ChuckFarlieSeesAll2 жыл бұрын
    • @@ChuckFarlieSeesAll yeah, ‘Meet the Fockers.’

      @user-tq3rr8vy2w@user-tq3rr8vy2w2 жыл бұрын
  • Imagine being his kid and trying to lie to him about your mischief "Let's go through this one more time. You say when you got here the cookie boxes were already open and the dog was eating the very last one..."

    @traildoggy@traildoggy2 жыл бұрын
    • 😂👍

      @Lyrielonwind@Lyrielonwind Жыл бұрын
    • All are bu!llcr!ap what he says. Watch "NewYork 2009" Indian movie, about USA Interrogation tactics. You'll get the real face of them 💩😂.++.

      @prtygrl5077@prtygrl5077 Жыл бұрын
  • I am a high-school teacher, this man is the best teacher I have ever come across. If he were a teacher he would compel students to behave and learn by his demure, logic , professionalism, preparation and command of the subject. No student would successfully be able to undermine his presence and control of the environment.

    @dondon-wg9ft@dondon-wg9ft Жыл бұрын
  • How to out-negotiate the FBI: " I want to speak to an attorney"

    @williamthompson7829@williamthompson78292 жыл бұрын
    • Then hope they don't have scientific or other evidence. Very rarely are confessions the only form of evidence submitted to prove a crime.

      @yes2day100@yes2day1002 жыл бұрын
    • @@yes2day100 you can still ask for an attorney tho, even if you're clearly guilty

      @YoureRightIThink@YoureRightIThink2 жыл бұрын
    • @@YoureRightIThink Of course they can. In fact, if you're clearly guilty you should ask for an attorney. If I were innocent and was in an interrogation room being questioned about a crime, however, I would only ask for an attorney if it became clear to me that I was the target of the investigation as opposed to a witness. And I'm a lawyer myself. Because the minute you ask for one, the interrogators are going to strongly suspect that you're guilty and will double their efforts to prove it. My comment was to point out that good circumstantial evidence is often the strongest evidence in a criminal case, because confessions can be half truths, non-truths, or even coerced. They are almost always, at the very least, self-serving.

      @yes2day100@yes2day1002 жыл бұрын
    • @@yes2day100 "If you're clearly guilty..." Nah, if you're in an interrogation period, ask for a lawyer. If you haven't done it, you'll want to make sure you don't say anything that gets you falsely convicted, which is much more common than you'd think (It's believed upwards of 10% of convictions are false). If you have done it, you'll want to make sure you get treated fairly and actually get charged under whatever it is you did (For example, if you shoplifted, you'll want a lawyer around so you don't accidentally say anything that pushes it to a burglary or robbery charge). To get convicted, all the court needs to see are a minimum of two pieces of evidence. Something you say during an interview can easily be 1 of them - Then all it takes is a shady witness and you're going to prison.

      @TheMartyandy@TheMartyandy2 жыл бұрын
    • BRRROOOOOO.....THEN start humming really loud until they leave.

      @melanatedone8655@melanatedone86552 жыл бұрын
  • Wow what an incredible amount of control! To sit there face to face with someone who hurts kids in that way, and to maintain control enough to even speak to him at all let alone in a calm and strategic way... AND succeed! wow wow wow so impressive!!

    @Forgiven313@Forgiven3132 жыл бұрын
    • Remains me of Criminal Minds or The Closer.

      @Lyrielonwind@Lyrielonwind Жыл бұрын
  • I like the evidence based reasoning for why it’s not good to get too angry or emotional during negotiations. It tires you out and reduces your ability to process information (which is critical for that engagement phase).

    @anonymousvine4105@anonymousvine4105 Жыл бұрын
    • Well that's true, but if you try to apply that principal to manipulate others, you will get false confessions much more often than true ones, in part because any real manipulator will apply these principals, and most innocent people will, after enough stress, try anything to get rid of the stressor.

      @peppermintgal4302@peppermintgal4302 Жыл бұрын
  • This in combination to JCS channel is just perfect. You can see all Joe is talking about in practice.

    @loiaunbelievable9634@loiaunbelievable96342 жыл бұрын
    • I enjoy JCS and I totally agree! If anyone likes seeing interrogation techniques broken down and put in action, his channel is one to view.

      @MinorKey135@MinorKey1352 жыл бұрын
    • JCS is amazing. Have you found his second channel?

      @elisa.r.g@elisa.r.g2 жыл бұрын
    • @@elisa.r.g I didn’t know he had a second one! What’s it called?

      @MinorKey135@MinorKey1352 жыл бұрын
    • @@MinorKey135 J C S Profile pic is a cat!

      @elisa.r.g@elisa.r.g2 жыл бұрын
    • @@elisa.r.g Thanks!

      @MinorKey135@MinorKey1352 жыл бұрын
  • Joe Navarro is brilliant. As a therapist I have recommended his lectures and videos to so many people.

    @barbararipani1331@barbararipani1331 Жыл бұрын
  • This dude reminds me alot of my theatre days. Action: is your job on stage... what are you trying to get them to do, or trying to convince them? That's your job? Tactics/ tools: plan/ tools. Conversation/ battle: engaging the scene. How you assess, engage and process each.... you connect and understand. Hardly difficult if you can think well on your toes and are quick witted

    @fleetwood7538@fleetwood75382 жыл бұрын
  • I knew someone who was involved in criminal activity, small time stuff, and he told me never talk to the cops not even when they want to engage you in innocent conversation.

    @petechau9616@petechau96162 жыл бұрын
  • As the lawyer in the viral video states again and again: “Don’t talk to police!”

    @alexblaze8878@alexblaze88782 жыл бұрын
    • And yet, so many do. Very often the arrogance of narcissism takes over and they think they can outsmart everyone.

      @yes2day100@yes2day1002 жыл бұрын
    • @@yes2day100 I agree. And maybe you can outsmart Det. A. But they have a whole alphabet of detectives, and only one has to be a little smarter than you, then it’s time to buy a harmonica and start learning some old Jesus songs.

      @keithjohnston5936@keithjohnston59362 жыл бұрын
    • @@keithjohnston5936 I know. I've seen dozens of episodes of 48 Hours and I am always amazed at how they rehearse their interrogations, and send in the detectives according to who they're dealing with, and switching up detectives when one detective's style isn't working. It's truly inspiring. And I'm glad they can do this, because on that show they're dealing with homicide, and they need to get these people off the street.

      @yes2day100@yes2day1002 жыл бұрын
    • SAY IT AGAIN for the one's in the back.

      @melanatedone8655@melanatedone86552 жыл бұрын
    • Don’t commit crime

      @halogod0298@halogod02982 жыл бұрын
  • Best training i had in the military were situational awareness courses taught by agents or prior LEO'S. Learned a TON about singling out leaders and subordinates, tactical questioning, body language and attentiveness and surveillance methods and key points. I find mimicry to be threatening outside of a close friend or well known associate. It tells me one of two things is going on, either nothing at all, or that person is paying more attention to me than I am comfortable with, and I need to figure out why. It is the same situation as the car in front of you or behind you moving across the lane in the same manner as you. They are paying a lot of attention to the back of your vehicle so unintentionally they will move around the lane as you do. Same thing g for idiots who scoot towards the center line when you pass them, they are paying attention to you and not the road, and anything in their control gravitates in your direction. Abnormal movements and such show that someone's attention is either off key or stuck on something as well. CELL PHONES WHILE DRIVING prove this as idiots swerve across lanes to see if Karen wore her red dress last night. It is hard to divide your thoughts between observing an individual and ensuring you act natural. So, when someone is watching someone closely, they often mimic their movements. Leg crossing, hand placement, direction of the feet...all signs that show what a person is paying attention to, especially when a leader is around.

    @gl3618@gl36182 жыл бұрын
    • @Gen Isis aw thanks

      @gl3618@gl3618 Жыл бұрын
    • you can have fun with mimicry if you have a manager who uses that technique with you - see if you can make him/her do a very slow macarena

      @bobbrian6526@bobbrian6526 Жыл бұрын
  • This is pure gold. These methods can be applied to almost any type of disagreement.

    @stevelenores5637@stevelenores56372 жыл бұрын
    • no, it doesn't...it cant...maybe 30%...people are not rational all the time... mentally ill people, some sociopaths, and most psychopaths are not... if you have an average IQ criminal, it can not apply... negotiation is a two-way street - it's a reason that most low-ranking criminals get a full pardon to testify against the boss...

      @mariojanaf5474@mariojanaf5474 Жыл бұрын
    • @@mariojanaf5474 Nothing works 100% when it comes to human behavior. I suggest Chris Voss's book "Never Split the Difference" for a complete treatment of FBI negotiation techniques and how to apply them in real life situations. The more you know the better your results will be. Still don't look for guarantees when it comes to human beings. If you get it 70-80% right you are by far way ahead of others who get it wrong most of the time.

      @stevelenores5637@stevelenores5637 Жыл бұрын
    • @@stevelenores5637 Please do know that these negotiations are often by legal teams... Usually, they trade something for something. Those kinds of cases are nothing to all crimes dealt. Here they glorify something hard to get. Like all cops, real crime fighters, they picture something that does not happen or is rare.. If no evidence, or with evidence, the defense will instruct not to talk. Coz you can't tell anything it will help you as the prime suspect. One is a book, other is real life.

      @mariojanaf5474@mariojanaf5474 Жыл бұрын
  • Ah, yes, the negotiator.

    @ilyaalexandrovich917@ilyaalexandrovich9172 жыл бұрын
    • I was searching for this comment

      @RH-uf9il@RH-uf9il2 жыл бұрын
    • You answered improperly, dew it in right way. (not the Jedi or human way)

      @ilyaalexandrovich917@ilyaalexandrovich9172 жыл бұрын
    • @@ilyaalexandrovich917 ruined

      @rockstahh5708@rockstahh57082 жыл бұрын
    • @@ilyaalexandrovich917 A BATTLE DROID walks to GENERAL GRIEVOUS and hands him the JEDI'S lightsabers.

      @somegenericscpnu-7soldier270@somegenericscpnu-7soldier2702 жыл бұрын
    • You’re shorter than I expected.

      @salt_factory7566@salt_factory75662 жыл бұрын
  • Very informative , thanks to Mr.Navarro sharing his knowledge!!!

    @acacsstudyinchina2814@acacsstudyinchina2814 Жыл бұрын
  • You worked to heal a nation of hearts!! Thank you for both lessons!!

    @aMaeChicdoParquinho@aMaeChicdoParquinho2 жыл бұрын
  • "... so it's about proceeding incrementally, assessing him, watching his breathing rate, watching his blink rate... were his knees weak, were his palms sweaty? Was there vomit on his sweater already, mom's spaghetti? And after an hour, I'm understanding him better."

    @gradypicinich2404@gradypicinich24042 жыл бұрын
    • Word!

      @ronin123958@ronin1239582 жыл бұрын
    • I knew someone would made the joke but this works too good

      @zaidnava7200@zaidnava72002 жыл бұрын
    • @@zaidnava7200 you have good taste, my friend

      @gradypicinich2404@gradypicinich24042 жыл бұрын
    • ....approximately @ 10:48 you paraphrased what he was saying and added a tidbit but I was just there.... How many times did you rewind to get this right? Have a meeting now do I'm going to see if I learned anything.

      @TheRhythmOfLife1972@TheRhythmOfLife19722 жыл бұрын
    • @@TheRhythmOfLife1972 lol I just rewinded it once and paused at various increments. I am making a reference to Eminem's "Lose Yourself," which is common in meme culture

      @gradypicinich2404@gradypicinich24042 жыл бұрын
  • Mr.Joe you are really incredible inspired teacher. I've been enjoying each of your videos.

    @enpi2128@enpi21282 жыл бұрын
  • As someone who is still learning the finer parts of linguistics (and often teaching the less finer parts), I confess this guy can teach and train discourse analysis.

    @MythopoeicNavid@MythopoeicNavid2 жыл бұрын
    • Science and Sanity by Alfred Korzybski (1933)

      @duewhit310@duewhit310 Жыл бұрын
  • I need more of him!! Please!

    @Meekahel@Meekahel2 жыл бұрын
  • The entropy tactic, letting the extremist person vent out over and over and over again? That... sounds like a life hack in conflict management. Not just for therapy but in everyday scenarios with family members. Letting the other person vent and vent and vent and still sticking to what you want out of it.

    @MythopoeicNavid@MythopoeicNavid2 жыл бұрын
    • It sure works for buying a car

      @tangogrrl@tangogrrl2 жыл бұрын
    • Yes! Let them talk and do not interrupt, this way you are in a position of power.

      @elenircezimbra5153@elenircezimbra5153 Жыл бұрын
    • @Gen Isis Sounds like those people have unresolved problems and/or are just being plain toxic and gaslighting. No one should accept abuse and if there is no healthy adult communication then that needs to be addressed in more mature and adult ways. Frighteningly true but CHILDREN sometimes display more emotional maturity in communicating their emotional needs than adults do: "I'm scared! Help me!" Something adults should admit more. "It's okay if you feel angry, just don't hurt anyone." Both things said by actual kids i've heard and who have their basic human decencies still intact.

      @MythopoeicNavid@MythopoeicNavid Жыл бұрын
    • You may underestimate the afflicted person's stamina most severely. I was subjected to a colleague's rancorous anger in a small workspace - generally the topic was a despised former spouse - for five years. I left nearly two decades ago, but I reckon she's still going.

      @williamlee0@williamlee0 Жыл бұрын
    • All are bu!llcr!ap what he says. Watch "NewYork 2009" Indian movie, about USA Interrogation tactics. You'll get the real face of them 💩😂+.+.+.

      @prtygrl5077@prtygrl5077 Жыл бұрын
  • If you end up on the wrong side of an interrogation, DO NOT ATTEMPT TO NEGOTIATE BY YOURSELF! Give only your name and address (which you legally have to give) & then say "I am going to remain silent and would like to speak to a lawyer." AND THEN SAY NOTHING ELSE. Per Edwards v. Arizona (1981), questioning must STOP upon request for a lawyer & cannot resume until one is provided.

    @litkeys3497@litkeys34972 жыл бұрын
    • It's the same where I live. Name and address only. You don't have to tell them if someone else lives with you, your date of birth, if you have bond money or anything else they might ask you. Name and address only. In addition to, "I am going to remain silent and would like to speak to a lawyer." it is also useful to memorize the phrase, "I'm not resisting but I do not consent to any searches." and "Are you detaining me or am I free to go?" Protip: If they threaten to get the drug dog do NOT say 'Fine." or "Okay." That could be construed as you willingly waiting for the dog. Instead ask if they are detaining you. It lets them know that the clock is ticking. If it takes too long for the dog to arrive your lawyer might be able to get it thrown out. Also, if they are going to search you (legally or illegally) and you have something on your person that could harm them while conducting the search, for example something sharp that could poke or cut them if they grab it, you do have to warn them.

      @studentofsmith@studentofsmith Жыл бұрын
    • It’s one thing if you commit a petty crime, but it’s another if you commit a felony and think you can out interrogate a interrogator. Seen so many interrogation vids where they simply could’ve just gone with the lawyer but instead decide they think they can lie their way out. Majority of times, if you are sitting down with an detective in the police station in a small room, and they read your Miranda, they most likely have the evidence against you, they just want you to admit for an easy court case.

      @alphonsusho8962@alphonsusho8962 Жыл бұрын
  • It's amazing what showing some decency to indecent people can do.

    @dillonseals6574@dillonseals65742 жыл бұрын
  • This was incredibly informative

    @gauravgill2008@gauravgill20082 жыл бұрын
  • 7:08 After going for over a year writing a dystopian story with one part added every 2 weeks or so, that experience led me to believe comic relief doesn't exist just for the sake of the reader: without it a story can become extremely draining to write if the material is too heavy (mine dealt intensely with themes of slavery)! I really think one major part of comic relief is just so the writers can avoid burning out. This seems to add credence to that belief.

    @101jir@101jir2 жыл бұрын
    • Link when you’re done with it yeah 👍

      @__-lj3cj@__-lj3cj2 жыл бұрын
    • Okay... each time I come back to this comment, the post with the link isn't there. I think it is being misidentified as spam.

      @101jir@101jir2 жыл бұрын
    • @@101jir :(0)

      @__-lj3cj@__-lj3cj2 жыл бұрын
    • @@__-lj3cj I'll see what I can do, maybe I can add some spaces to get it to post.

      @101jir@101jir2 жыл бұрын
    • Watch handmaid's tale women held captive to make babies for the elite and traded like cattle and publically hanged and reading is illegal. That show made the bridge that connects diff cultures so everyone understands the layers psychological, submissive roles, stolkholm syndrome etc handmaid's tale shows how it would feel to have everything you know id values stolen and left alone after every move is made strategically to oppress and take your power. Read 100 books on topic before writing one as and use words of power. I leave my writing for a few years and reread to hate what once sounded amazing we need writers to change the direction and first we need a good audience to receive our stories. Young ppl today are so obsessed with material and status they often want to read something that captivated the hyper brains we have write your topic in a way it's never been written in a way that the reader feels excitement desire malice misery and make a dent in the universe of literature. Send me what you got!!!

      @jordanalexandra7678@jordanalexandra76782 жыл бұрын
  • Extremely helpful, thank you!

    @lifetools-help8017@lifetools-help80172 жыл бұрын
  • 8:30...Joe picks apart a suspect...brilliant! 👏👏👏

    @sandrasandymanning4354@sandrasandymanning43542 жыл бұрын
  • It’s 4am here and I’m listening this mighty man’s wise words just in case if I ever get to interview by an fbi agent...

    @usagithebunny@usagithebunny2 жыл бұрын
  • We need a JSC/Joe Navarro collab stat

    @kvetch23@kvetch232 жыл бұрын
    • you mean jcs??

      @panagiotisbotonakis2349@panagiotisbotonakis23492 жыл бұрын
    • @@panagiotisbotonakis2349 exactly!

      @kvetch23@kvetch232 жыл бұрын
  • my favorite recurring guest, Wired!

    @savethedandelions@savethedandelions2 жыл бұрын
  • Joe Nevarro to his superior back in the day: *You were right about one thing, master: THE NEGOTIATIONS WERE SHORT.*

    @princetonchia1285@princetonchia12852 жыл бұрын
  • I almost confessed to my crimes just by listening to him lmao

    @samlava3026@samlava30262 жыл бұрын
    • 😂😂

      @haxxter@haxxter2 жыл бұрын
    • What crimes? Want to tell me more about them?

      @simonfox_8559@simonfox_85592 жыл бұрын
    • Please deliver yourself to the nearest FIB office because we can't get your location

      @sazidrahman5825@sazidrahman58252 жыл бұрын
    • Look the entire comment section hates you right now for not telling the crimes, But not me I'm the only one who tries to understand you, so could you help me out too? What where these so called crimes?

      @Yum_Yum_Delicious_Cum@Yum_Yum_Delicious_Cum Жыл бұрын
    • All are bu!llcr!ap what he says. Watch "NewYork 2009" Indian movie, about USA Interrogation tactics. You'll get the real face of them 💩😂+.++.

      @prtygrl5077@prtygrl5077 Жыл бұрын
  • 7:18 Very smart. That's a great way to tell if somebody is sus.

    @arches_aviation8584@arches_aviation85842 жыл бұрын
  • He's brilliant. Thanks for sharing your knowledge !

    @-Lindy60@-Lindy608 ай бұрын
  • I’ll use the negotiation preps as my framework for papers this school year, they seem effective, I hope😅

    @legom8149@legom81492 жыл бұрын
  • A big factor in negotiation is recurring occasions, none of these can be implemented where you need to constantly negotiate for bigger or better concessions during the course of time. Then you need to come up with a plan that respects fairness and long-term relationships.

    @mason7028@mason7028 Жыл бұрын
  • These interviews are fascinating.

    @canadajim@canadajim2 жыл бұрын
    • And, test of time. When they have done these patient, predictive techniques …it works. Easier on everybody. Less stress. Fascinating material, should be better known. Should be "required reading" for police officers, too.

      @audraeden8923@audraeden89232 жыл бұрын
  • Always enjoy his videos and analyses.

    @TasZ06@TasZ06 Жыл бұрын
  • Thanks for the tips!

    @MoroccanNationalDebateTeam@MoroccanNationalDebateTeam2 жыл бұрын
  • What if you have an ongoing relationship with the person you're negotiating with? It changes things. Usually the relationship is more important than the particular issue.

    @BartAnderson_writer@BartAnderson_writer2 жыл бұрын
    • It depends what you are negotiating?

      @paolagrando5079@paolagrando50792 жыл бұрын
    • Is it more important to the person you're negotiating with? If not, then you shouldn't have to give in. They would be willing to give up. If it isn't, then you need to be willing to be as single minded on the issue at hand as the person you're negotiating with.

      @samanthachurch@samanthachurch Жыл бұрын
  • Joe: Where were you? Son: I was smoking joint. J: Listen son. Before I'm your father, I'm an agent. I want you to help me to help you. S: *sobbing* sorry dad. I was studying in the library.

    @nikhilv2207@nikhilv22072 жыл бұрын
  • Love listening to this guy, so interesting 👍

    @barbaraoconnor7038@barbaraoconnor70382 жыл бұрын
  • You are amazing, Joe. Lots of people know more because of you ❤️🎉

    @GG69BLIN@GG69BLIN Жыл бұрын
  • We need a "Joe Navarro Explains..." Channel!! This guy is fascinating!

    @Rubiastraify@Rubiastraify2 жыл бұрын
  • I love this man! If he interviewed me I would probably admit to things I didn’t do.

    @loisenolp4746@loisenolp47462 жыл бұрын
    • You realize that's not a good thing, right? People have been imprisoned wrongfully for just that.

      @taylorbledsoe6090@taylorbledsoe60902 жыл бұрын
    • 😂👍

      @Lyrielonwind@Lyrielonwind Жыл бұрын
  • Most valuable video I’ve seen in years.

    @randyzeitman1354@randyzeitman13542 жыл бұрын
  • This was amazing!

    @icreatedanaccountforthis1852@icreatedanaccountforthis1852 Жыл бұрын
  • Give this man his own Masterclass so he could teach us his tricks and moves about negotiating.

    @parsaautomatica@parsaautomatica2 жыл бұрын
    • There’s a good MasterClass about negotiating, taught by a former hostage negotiator.

      @zackklapman3569@zackklapman35692 жыл бұрын
  • When is he starting his KZhead channel we all need it

    @mokshaggarwal1022@mokshaggarwal10222 жыл бұрын
    • Have you checked out The Behavior Panel? Highly recommend

      @citizenblue@citizenblue2 жыл бұрын
  • Joe Navarro is awesome :)

    @NateCrownwell@NateCrownwell2 жыл бұрын
  • Life itself is a negotiable funnel of marathon! Body language is super useful since people that talks with their hands tends to be intelligent. This gentleman is a great storyteller.

    @Aiyan777@Aiyan7772 жыл бұрын
  • This works, people. One time I negotiated a free sub sammich in exchange for my girlfriend’s dog. Transaction game on point!

    @Sanjovalentine@Sanjovalentine2 жыл бұрын
    • Brilliant, gonna take a note for later use!

      @marko3254@marko32542 жыл бұрын
    • 😂😂😂

      @bokiNYC@bokiNYC2 жыл бұрын
    • Did the exchange happen at the same time or you gave the dog first? 🤣

      @yuris6125@yuris6125 Жыл бұрын
    • Brilliant! I’m gonna do the same with my boyfriends ps5

      @NN-fz4pd@NN-fz4pd Жыл бұрын
  • Wired. I LOVE Joe. This topic is incredible.

    @ellyvandalen9793@ellyvandalen9793 Жыл бұрын
  • I feel like being at a lesson in intelligence techniques and strategies. Very very interesting. Thanks

    @relaxationmusicsanctuary3664@relaxationmusicsanctuary3664 Жыл бұрын
  • I taught sales training for 20 years. Specifically how to handle the customers objections. Same principles apply.

    @markoraimius4339@markoraimius43392 жыл бұрын
  • i wonder how he asks for a glass of water or random simple stuff, jokes apart.... this was amazing!

    @vinayakpraveen2980@vinayakpraveen29802 жыл бұрын
  • Fascinating.

    @rosavito1@rosavito17 ай бұрын
  • This is really good.

    @okn3297@okn32972 жыл бұрын
  • I would love to see a movie based on this man's life. He's epic.

    @angelinak.4868@angelinak.4868 Жыл бұрын
  • Please do how to do "advanced interrogation" techniques next ;)

    @toasty6570@toasty65702 жыл бұрын
  • When JN described meeting the person and mirroring the activity….I immediately thought of Monty Robert’s…he joins up with the horse. He’s been elected to be boss just that quick. Robert’s says what the horse is going to do next….never fails.

    @audraeden8923@audraeden89232 жыл бұрын
    • wow l haven't thought of him in years thank you l will want go back and re-read him, a old horse lover

      @d1c186@d1c1862 жыл бұрын
    • @@d1c186 See his entries on YT. He is amazing.

      @audraeden8923@audraeden89232 жыл бұрын
  • Operation "Mom buy me a the new PS5" is a go

    @gynt5938@gynt59382 жыл бұрын
  • His boss know he's a master negotiator. Just thinking how his boss would deal with a salary hike negotiation with this person as every point may seem correct or said to manipulate psychology.

    @ar2_@ar2_2 жыл бұрын
  • I think that getting through to anyone requires intelligence & most of all patience. I'm always amazed that people fall for the good cop bad cop thing. Joe here is charming I could see where he could do good cop very well. In all seriousness he seems a man of integrity. 😁

    @Cookie-kk9dc@Cookie-kk9dc Жыл бұрын
  • Like to hear frm him. He's so informative

    @LucasTOrz@LucasTOrz2 жыл бұрын
  • I used his tactics for a raise and now I’m the CEO of the company

    @rohanbatra69@rohanbatra69 Жыл бұрын
  • I like how he explained around min 4 about the engagement phase before cooperation will take place in the transactional phase. That's exactly what many people are doing wrong by being too hostile and dominant. You have to come across as confident, not hostile nor dominant. Just let them vent, so true. Works well with Professors as well. I always let them vent until they grew tired. Let them vent until entropy takes over. And then say "this is what I can offer, that's all". I did this intuitively in my job and it's nice to see that there's a method to this madness 😂. Now I know why my boss picked me for the job.. And I can definitely say YES to the planning/preparation part and being prepared which words to say and which to avoid. Because they will judge every sloppy mistake and either tear you apart or shut down. I had to interview people on very emotional and personal matters for my research and you try to have them cooperate to open up and help me what I want to know..

    @katja6332@katja6332 Жыл бұрын
  • Something about this guy, I feel like I could sit down and listen to him speak for days.

    @90sretrokid@90sretrokid Жыл бұрын
  • Thanksssss! I love it.

    @Shamuto7@Shamuto72 жыл бұрын
  • I once negotiated hard and got to keep my life, In return for feeding the person a life time worth of food and a place to sleep every night in max security.

    @vspatmx7458@vspatmx74582 жыл бұрын
    • Nice one, Daddy VSPA!

      @qwertyrobin869@qwertyrobin8692 жыл бұрын
    • I’m kind of dumb because I don’t get it the riddle. Please explain?

      @2triangles@2triangles2 жыл бұрын
    • @@2triangles basically he arrested him after getting him to confess

      @markramos4795@markramos47952 жыл бұрын
    • @@markramos4795 ah. Thank you!

      @2triangles@2triangles2 жыл бұрын
    • Marriage?

      @imho2278@imho22782 жыл бұрын
  • Public service announcement: the second law of thermodynamics only applies to closed energy systems. Anger dissipating might mimic the second law of thermodynamics but this effect is not caused by it.

    @jeffrooow@jeffrooow2 жыл бұрын
    • You are so smart!

      @simplifik@simplifik2 жыл бұрын
    • @@simplifik not really but it's being misuesed enough as it is. No need to add to it.

      @jeffrooow@jeffrooow2 жыл бұрын
    • @@jeffrooow Misuse? Your comment is the first and only time the second law of thermodynamics is brought up

      @simplifik@simplifik2 жыл бұрын
    • @@simplifik It's literally being used in this video. Also it frequently gets used in apologetics and in pop-psychology.

      @jeffrooow@jeffrooow2 жыл бұрын
    • @@jeffrooowI’m confused. Can the concept of entropy not exist outside of thermodynamics? I want to understand your point of view.

      @simplifik@simplifik2 жыл бұрын
  • I LOVE this guys knowledge

    @zhrajsm_11@zhrajsm_113 ай бұрын
  • Thank you

    @maryrichardson6029@maryrichardson60292 жыл бұрын
  • Joe, during this year I took my Team to perform presentation based on your short videos...they love it and enjoy it so much....they are learning a lot of tips for effectiveness in communications and more.....great job....

    @marcopicado1135@marcopicado1135 Жыл бұрын
  • It bothers me that he sat down without unbuttoning his suit. And then I discovered that later on he unbuttoned it yet the clips are mixed together!

    @colinstu@colinstu2 жыл бұрын
    • My Yes oplol

      @Millerguy@Millerguy2 жыл бұрын
    • I wouldn't put it past him to do it on purpose if he could read a person by their reaction to it

      @Kuraushi@Kuraushi2 жыл бұрын
    • Underrated comment.

      @Iksvomid@Iksvomid2 жыл бұрын
    • Go outside

      @unknownuser-fv2lq@unknownuser-fv2lq2 жыл бұрын
    • @@unknownuser-fv2lq you're a sad lil individual. Make a nice comment for a change.

      @mark-ish@mark-ish2 жыл бұрын
  • The best way to interrogate people is not to be cruel but try to understand the person you're interrogating gain their trust if you can. And like you say just keep chipping away at them until they eventually crumble

    @jonathanjollimore4794@jonathanjollimore47942 жыл бұрын
  • i really like videos with this guy in them

    @ci3xx@ci3xx2 жыл бұрын
  • Joe Navvaro my fav

    @nuzzilaaviany2648@nuzzilaaviany26482 жыл бұрын
  • This is how I feel every time I go to a car dealership.

    @franku5099@franku50992 жыл бұрын
  • His daughter must be lucky to have dad like this💖

    @joytalledo790@joytalledo790 Жыл бұрын
    • All are bu!llcr!ap what he says. Watch "NewYork 2009" Indian movie, about USA Interrogation tactics. You'll get the real face of them 💩😂.+..++

      @prtygrl5077@prtygrl5077 Жыл бұрын
  • Thank you ☺️

    @Amitdas-gk2it@Amitdas-gk2it2 жыл бұрын
  • I own his 2 books👏👏 This man is one of my saviors!!!!!

    @choosun-hui2683@choosun-hui26834 ай бұрын
  • Ah, this might be the smartest person I've met.. Great Respect for Mr. Navarro. Great man. Great Books. Highly intelligent. I'm actually honnored to watch him here for free..

    @ATGG@ATGG2 жыл бұрын
  • This guy need to react to interrogation footage, may be make a colab with jcs criminal psychology

    @waywardsamurai667@waywardsamurai6672 жыл бұрын
  • Slams the table!!! 🕵🏼‍♂️

    @TracksideViews@TracksideViews2 жыл бұрын
  • Could someone please post a summary/cliff notes version?

    @TheQuangBang@TheQuangBang2 жыл бұрын
  • I've met this guy four times at three separate jobs. He must have seen half the world by now.

    @stevenhorton8604@stevenhorton86042 жыл бұрын
    • Or he's on to you...

      @ericssmith2014@ericssmith20142 жыл бұрын
  • These fbi, secret service, cia guy was really interesting to listen to. They're pouring all these valuable knowledge they have. Theyre so good at manipulation.. wait... What

    @muhammadamirasyraf5728@muhammadamirasyraf57282 жыл бұрын
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