30 Truths I Know at 30 But Wish I Knew at 20

2024 ж. 20 Мам.
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In this video, I share 30 lessons that I know in my 30s that I wish I knew in my 20s
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Intro
00:08 It is far more fun to be the person being discussed than the other way around
00:22 Stop complaining
00:33 You get what you pay for
00:49 Don't take things personally
00:58 Work in days not weeks
01:11 Outwork your imposter syndrome
01:27 You playing small doesn't benefit anyone
01:39 Success is personal
01:59 Have regular check-ins
02:19 Getting to work early isn't going to get you promoted
02:31 Fail fast and Fail forward
02:47 Don't expect other people to do your work
03:06 It is never too late to start something new
03:28 Define what you want
03:40 Do the thing that you need to do to get what you want
04:48 There is no such thing as overnight success
05:06 Don't take advice from someone who hasn't done what you are trying to do
05:17 Other people are rarely your competition
05:29 Mornings are important
05:43 Focus on one thing at a time
05:56 Don't rush to find your niche
06:13 No one is coming to save you
06:26 Pick your battle with your relationships
06:43 Cut out anyone who belittles you
07:00 Never keep a tally
07:12 Find something to occupy yourself with
07:29 There is no need to stay late "just because"
07:47 Don't expect other people to read your mind
07:57 Make hitting rock bottom a good thing
08:09 Learn to find joy in working out
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    @nischa@nischaАй бұрын
    • Hey could you do a video on fashion and money, like spending on more versatile items with examples for a woman, I find myself spending my money more than I should, I end up seeing sales on the item previously bought but if I wait it goes out of stock. I genuinely have a shopping addiction Im 21. :( Overdraft using my SFE to pay it off

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    • Read the Quran. You will thank me in the hereafter..

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    • @@Naksu.. umm no thank you I will if i want to

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      @pavan9620@pavan96209 күн бұрын
  • 1. It is far more fun to be the person being discussed than the other way around 2. Stop complaining 3. You get what you pay for 4. Don't take things personally 5. Work in days not weeks 6. Outwork your imposter syndrome 7. You playing small doesn't benefit anyone 8. Success is personal 9. Have regular check-ins 10.Getting into work early isn't going to get you promoted 11. Fail fast and Fail forward 12. Don't expect other people to do your work 13. It is never too late to start something new 14. Define what you want 15. Do the thing that you need to do to get what you want 16. There is no such thing as overnight success 17. Don 't take advice from someone who hasn' t done what you are trying to do 18. Other people are rarely your competition 19. Mornings are important 20. Focus on one thing at a time 21. Don't rush to find your niche 22. No one is coming to save you 23. Pick your battle with your relationships 24. Cut out anyone who belittles you 25. Never keep a tally 26. Find something to occupy yourself with 27. They is no need to stay late "just because" 28. Don't expect other people to read your mind 29. Make hitting rock bottom a good thing 30. Learn to find joy in working out

    @arnabchatterjee694@arnabchatterjee694Ай бұрын
    • thanks!

      @dev.osiatech@dev.osiatechАй бұрын
    • thxx

      @BhaiRayyanKiDuniya@BhaiRayyanKiDuniyaАй бұрын
    • Thanks

      @naestudios0826@naestudios0826Ай бұрын
    • Thanks

      @themars5452@themars5452Ай бұрын
    • Thanks a lot, now we don't have to actually watch the video, it's not like anyone wanted to do that, right? *Very* helpful and considerate of you 😂

      @12Daniel34@12Daniel3413 күн бұрын
  • I love these!! I’m 25 and I already have regrets, the main one is how much time I spent trying to help people who didn’t want my help, instead of helping me!

    @millie9814@millie9814Ай бұрын
    • You eventually learn friendships are mutually beneficial as we contribute to each other's growth,we learn from one another and progress forward so rather take the good than bad . . .

      @potentialsomebody2615@potentialsomebody2615Ай бұрын
    • I'M 25 TOOOO

      @k3zani265@k3zani265Ай бұрын
    • 💯same situation

      @rocker1631@rocker1631Ай бұрын
    • @@potentialsomebody2615 your point of view is lovely, but I learned that certain friendships are only harmful

      @millie9814@millie9814Ай бұрын
    • Hi 25 from another 25!

      @moonbun690@moonbun690Ай бұрын
  • "No one is coming to save you," I agree completely with this statement. Thank you for your video. As always you do an amazing job!!!

    @erikachiao3704@erikachiao3704Ай бұрын
    • I saved my self. Could not end University. But found a job. Paid all my debts back. For 3 years i almost did buy nothing for myself, build a emergency fund. Did not use it. Found a way to keep my expensives low. And i was on holiday last year. My boyfriend helped me. We cooked together and helped esch other

      @can1687@can1687Ай бұрын
    • There is a great, very short poem by Stephen Crane on this topic: A Man Said to the Universe A man said to the universe: "Sir, I exist!" "However," replied the universe, "The fact has not created in me a sense of Obligation."

      @kh884488@kh884488Ай бұрын
  • Bit off topic, but I love the way that you record your videos, the lighting, mood, colour tones, minimalist but interesting aesthetics. You do a really superb job with presentation!

    @kevinbrook7033@kevinbrook7033Ай бұрын
  • 40 is the new 30 30 is the new 20 Thank you nischa for the financial insights! I follow all your suggestions and being from an accounting background helps me understand it better!!

    @_rohitbagde_@_rohitbagde_Ай бұрын
    • 20 is the new 10 10 is the new non born. 🎉

      @amalia4519@amalia4519Ай бұрын
    • No it's not blud, 30 is 30 and 40 is 40.

      @ssc3360@ssc3360Ай бұрын
    • This could not be further from the truth, your 20s are the most defining decade of your life - I suggest you read Meg Jay's book on this. Your 20s matter and you must make the most of the years you cannot afford to miss, because in all aspects; work, love, the brain and the body; 80% of life's most signifcant moments happen before the age of 35. Consequential moments slow down, 30 is NOT the new 20

      @jeevansingh4353@jeevansingh4353Ай бұрын
    • I’m 25 now, never did I imagine I would still feel so young 😂 I’m in better shape than I was as a teen.

      @WaveManMike@WaveManMikeАй бұрын
    • @@WaveManMike I'm 40 and I'm feeling greater than ever, my mind and thoughts are in a much better place.♥️

      @amalia4519@amalia4519Ай бұрын
  • These are very important reminders. You playing small doesn't serve anyone hits home. It is a people pleasing tendency which will eventually make people walk all over you. This point connects to the 24th point mentioned. Once you realise and grow as a person, cut off people who try to belittle you.

    @sirikolanu@sirikolanuАй бұрын
  • I truly appreciate how fast and straight to the point these were, fantastic work, thanks! 😊

    @ezisbertakachiungo7043@ezisbertakachiungo7043Ай бұрын
  • You are literally one of the most beautiful people that exist. Thanks for this Nischa 🤗. I'll be turning 30 next year and like I can't even believe it. I've also learnt so much that I'll be sharing with people.

    @ehimareadedoyin3683@ehimareadedoyin3683Ай бұрын
  • I'm 27 and realising certain things about life thank you for these videos. I know that I need to be the person to ask myself the hard questions.

    @ttmoore8750@ttmoore8750Ай бұрын
  • I am in my early 70’s. Nischa’s Truths applies for all ages. Good job Nischa‼️

    @als7132@als7132Ай бұрын
  • Thank you Nischa. I'm trying to figure out whether to work abroad or study here in the U.K. This is really helpful. Also it's lovely to see more British content creators. KZhead is saturated with content that tends to be geared only towards America & the financial lifestyle & system there. Keep it up X

    @kristinapaxton9686@kristinapaxton9686Ай бұрын
  • I remember the first time someone told me that people care much more about themselves than they do about you was very freeing

    @3xAudio@3xAudioАй бұрын
  • 1 Million d'abonnés ! Bravo Nischa ! C'est le juste fruit de la qualité de vos vidéos.

    @corinned7528@corinned7528Ай бұрын
  • I respect you more for going straight to the point, no long intro You simply thanked your sponsor and started the video, thank you so much

    @snwyn@snwynАй бұрын
  • Congrats on 1m subs, Nischa - you are an inspiration!

    @PeteMatthew@PeteMatthewАй бұрын
  • What a treasure of a post. As someone in thier mid 30s, absolutely everything here is relatable. Thank you, I am book marking and sharing with everyone

    @senatemona5402@senatemona5402Ай бұрын
  • Love the content of this video! , thank you Nischa, will definitely listen to it again.

    @user-st2xb1dd4g@user-st2xb1dd4gАй бұрын
  • Well done on a million subs, you deserve it!

    @user-se4kd1vz5v@user-se4kd1vz5vАй бұрын
  • Eye opening and fruitful . . . When you navigate life's challenges and create your own path based on experiences so hopefully other's have awareness . . . 💐

    @potentialsomebody2615@potentialsomebody2615Ай бұрын
  • This was great! Great in content, great in format, great in execution! Congrats, Nischa 🎉

    @manuelnovella39@manuelnovella39Ай бұрын
  • Firstly, congrats on hitting 1M subs 2nd great simply to process content. 🙏🏾

    @peterlloydworld@peterlloydworldАй бұрын
  • Good job, Nischa. On #3, I generally agree, but there are exceptions. Today I wore a business suit which new, would cost at least $200, but I bought at Goodwill for $15. I wore shoes that would be $100 new, but $12. And a dress shirt which would be $50 new, but $6. These are hard to find, but are out there with some patient searching.

    @jeffandsherriefranzwa8970@jeffandsherriefranzwa8970Ай бұрын
  • Thank you so much! Everything you’ve said is invaluable advice!

    @user-xe3yd7fn3c@user-xe3yd7fn3cАй бұрын
  • Awesome Nischa Thanks for all the golden words !!

    @Captain_Cool_007@Captain_Cool_00722 күн бұрын
  • Wow, Nischa! You have 1M subscribers now! Congratulations! Please keep posting videos. I love your contents! Very helpful! I always share your videos to my daughter and my family! 👏🎉😊❤️🤗👍

    @carolquezada30609@carolquezada30609Ай бұрын
  • Congrats on reaching 1M!!

    @opietwoep1247@opietwoep1247Ай бұрын
  • I deeply appreciate the presence of this KZhead channel for its unparalleled authenticity and the sincere, genuine content it delivers.

    @deepapatel2374@deepapatel2374Ай бұрын
  • I’m truly inspired by this video in order to reach my finance goals as much as I can. Thanks Nischa!

    @LorenzoSenzaniOfficial@LorenzoSenzaniOfficialАй бұрын
  • Very good content, and one of the very best way to insert sponsors. Completely seamless integration of the product inside the narrative. Great job.

    @jackiphone3g@jackiphone3gАй бұрын
  • "Outwork your imposter syndrome." Similarly, extreme effort can overcome depressive self-doubts. Good concepts. Subscribed!

    @salmanuel4053@salmanuel4053Ай бұрын
  • gosh to have an mindset and aura like yours, hope grow into my thirties with a attitude like you ma’am.

    @meoe00n@meoe00nАй бұрын
  • Nischa - outstanding as always

    @martywilliard@martywilliardАй бұрын
  • Been waiting for your video❤

    @zenakaur9947@zenakaur9947Ай бұрын
  • Even though this video's coming from a business/financial advice channel, this is actually great and valuable life advice. Everyone should watch this video at least once in their lifetime

    @eduardoribas7733@eduardoribas7733Ай бұрын
  • Being a small part-time youtuber, I was super happy to see that under YT analytics, my video was suggested along with Nischa's video🤩 Small joys of life 😀

    @DrSamreenAshraf@DrSamreenAshrafАй бұрын
  • Such an awesome video and great insights, Nischa, right up there with Mark Manson's video on 40 lessons.

    @personalfinanceabundance@personalfinanceabundanceАй бұрын
  • Love the authenticity

    @elab4187@elab4187Ай бұрын
  • Congratulations on reaching 1M Subscribers Nisha well done 🙂

    @DeclanHiggins-YoutubeChannel@DeclanHiggins-YoutubeChannelАй бұрын
  • Thanks for sharing this and the whole get into work early is TRUTH!!!!! Literally Me the person who arrived early and stayed late !

    @PatriciaAppelquist@PatriciaAppelquistАй бұрын
  • Fantastic video so many valid and simple points I can apply to everyday life 👍

    @ComradeBozzey@ComradeBozzeyАй бұрын
  • Great content watching since you started!

    @PropertyReview@PropertyReviewАй бұрын
  • Incredible content. Thank you.. Keep it up 🎉

    @fortuneeeeeeeeeee5220@fortuneeeeeeeeeee5220Ай бұрын
  • Nice one. You have given me more than I expected. Thank you so much.

    @aniopara@anioparaАй бұрын
  • Thanks Nischa! Just what i needed today. Greetz from the Holland

    @thomaskingaby4407@thomaskingaby4407Ай бұрын
  • Love you Nischa!!!

    @13ankur@13ankurАй бұрын
  • Congrats on 1m 😎 🔥

    @FMJ777@FMJ777Ай бұрын
  • Wow! Great video & info, bless you 🙏🏾 💯🙌🏾

    @djboombee1722@djboombee1722Ай бұрын
  • Been following you for a while but damn you're spitting in this video BARS after BARS!

    @Ashleycreates_content@Ashleycreates_contentАй бұрын
  • Nischa ! Great work ! (Happy to 1st comment) I just created notion page to collect my life lessons at 21, this is spot on ! LY

    @thetrueproductivity@thetrueproductivityАй бұрын
    • tu kyon yahan aaya hai hum sab ko pata hai bhai...hila le aur... nikaal ..chal...chal

      @user-gx8bc6ry3y@user-gx8bc6ry3yАй бұрын
  • Focusing on value makes you indispensable, highly agree!

    @billiondollarbella@billiondollarbellaАй бұрын
  • You have a really crisp voice, I love that!!!!!

    @2pac1307@2pac1307Ай бұрын
  • Can you do a video on finances in marriage? Also would you marry for money - assuming all things are relatively well in relationship? Lastly money and dating? would be great to hear your take

    @khari83637@khari83637Ай бұрын
  • So much value. Thank you!

    @quintenquet@quintenquetАй бұрын
  • Go ahead more and more, Good luck🤩

    @scinopad@scinopadАй бұрын
  • Dear I'm really proud that I have u as my mentor..... I hardly have people that got my mindset .... But I really include u in "5 people" who surround me .... And I'm proud that I have a person whom I genuinely admire and learn from ..... Thanks UNIVERSE FOR GIVING ME A VERY NICE MENTOR.....❤ U UNIVERSE :D

    @khushijatarya11@khushijatarya11Ай бұрын
  • That was a geat video with good tips. Thanks for the sharing :)

    @coachzandi7990@coachzandi7990Ай бұрын
  • This video is gold ⭐️⭐️

    @thecode_red1825@thecode_red182520 күн бұрын
  • very useful, and congrats on the 1M subscribers!!!!!!

    @CL-ut6uu@CL-ut6uuАй бұрын
  • Hi, you changed my life. I have been watching your videos for 10 months and I have organize my finances in a way I never expected doing. Saved a very good amount so far. Thanks ❤

    @coulirunning@coulirunningАй бұрын
    • Can I borrow some quids? ;p

      @michawalczyk5242@michawalczyk5242Ай бұрын
  • Great advises! Thanks for sharing

    @Fuadstar55@Fuadstar5516 күн бұрын
  • I made notes- to each of your tip, 3 action points to take for me personally. Gold! Btw approaching my 40’s very soon 😅

    @inkap5824@inkap5824Ай бұрын
  • Solid advice. Thank you

    @WeBeClubbin@WeBeClubbinАй бұрын
  • 22 is a conversation I had recently with my nana. She was offering to help me out of a financial situation that I got myself into but I had already found a solution. She has limited income as well and I needed the lesson.

    @adorimonroe1@adorimonroe1Ай бұрын
  • As a 34 year old I approve of this list and how straight forward you are with it. It's a breathe of fresh air.

    @nokronis@nokronis24 күн бұрын
  • Gurl you are snatched!!

    @Kbarboza94@Kbarboza94Ай бұрын
  • You are good adviser I respect people like you

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  • Really glad that I subscribed to this channel

    @mayanksharma6622@mayanksharma662226 күн бұрын
  • Another thing that I learnt is you can't save/help someone if the person doesn't want to help themselves. They are the one that need to put effort to improves their life.

    @afifikhwan6403@afifikhwan6403Ай бұрын
  • I wasn't ready to be called out so hard with number 2 on your list. I don't usually complain but I did yesterday about something that is giving me a lot of anxiety but I need to take action anyway despite the anxiety.

    @SilverHawk214@SilverHawk214Ай бұрын
  • Model looks explaining finances, a winning combo!

    @M896@M896Ай бұрын
  • Nischa keeps going right after hitting 1 million subscribers. So happy for you. Imposter syndrome is real… I always wonder what if my friends found out that I am a KZheadr. They probably poke fun and then would care less 😏

    @hunterandchavy@hunterandchavyАй бұрын
  • Tack!

    @jonasbauer3942@jonasbauer3942Ай бұрын
  • Great tips! Loved this!

    @pointdex007@pointdex007Ай бұрын
  • And cheers to 1 Million subbies😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍🎉

    @moitse_@moitse_Ай бұрын
  • This is an excellent video. Thank you

    @suntharrajan3216@suntharrajan3216Ай бұрын
  • Wow Your ideas are super special

    @YawJnr@YawJnrАй бұрын
  • Wow all amazing advice. Lessons for all.

    @quattropower34@quattropower34Ай бұрын
  • There is basically only one thing I wanted to know. And that’s stopping worrying and overthinking and start to have fun. I was pushed into legal problems in my middle teens resulting in some expensive trials agains my father. Basically all divorce arguments fought against me. I went into huge debts and the problems coming from them. It took a long time and a lot of energy to get out. I made mistakes but I don’t see how I should have known better. Some mistakes I made on purpose. Kind of choosing between two mistakes hoping the chosen one is the smaller mistake. - I learned a lot. But I never learned how to enjoy live. How to have fun. And now? I start learning to do that. But my friends got „old“ and have different life’s. All is about children, paying rent and their jobs. I am like others in their 20ies. First time in my life having control over my money. Having money to spend. I see the big bright future and want to have fun. Just, I don’t know how to do that and I don’t have someone around me who can teach me XD.

    @MathieuDeVinois@MathieuDeVinoisАй бұрын
    • Im latina and I can teach u 😂

      @Lagatitavlogs@LagatitavlogsАй бұрын
  • Great pearls of wisdom

    @awantamta@awantamtaАй бұрын
  • Great advise!

    @overloadM@overloadMАй бұрын
  • In my early 50s - I totally agree with you! Do You No Matter What. At my age, we don’t care what others think - we have proved ourselves already in experience and skill sets. 🇨🇦🙌🏾

    @sserton2839@sserton2839Ай бұрын
  • #2 has been a huge pet peeve of mine. I get annoyed when people act like they don't have a choice to change their situation when they absolutely do

    @veronicavids@veronicavidsАй бұрын
  • thank you. very insightful

    @ronnysvelazquez9848@ronnysvelazquez9848Ай бұрын
  • Aside a channel about financial tips, you can also have a channel about beauty tips. You are very good looking. Woman here.

    @daniellefournier978@daniellefournier97827 күн бұрын
  • Great advice!

    @veesvoyages@veesvoyagesАй бұрын
  • Life is a sine curve. It's very hard to stay at the top all the time. Be patient and content as well as challenge the present.

    @Maazyazdani1@Maazyazdani1Ай бұрын
  • YES NOBODY WILL SAVE YOU ❤. First and same time last truth ! All best.

    @jerry-mind-sky@jerry-mind-skyАй бұрын
  • Brilliant brilliant brilliant 🎉

    @drnicolebeaumont7884@drnicolebeaumont7884Ай бұрын
  • In my late 20's was searching and seeking for knowledge about investment and how to go about it. I was seeking books and information, visited investment houses to seek knowledge and my goal was financial freedom and currently, I feel comfortable and pushing for more now in my 40's

    @MoneySense.@MoneySense.Ай бұрын
  • Great video! Thanks

    @liam_harman@liam_harmanАй бұрын
  • I am 43 and can say it all still makes sense so hurry up to benefit frome the tips 🏝☀️🥂

    @SveGuacamole@SveGuacamoleАй бұрын
  • Yoo, congrats nischa abla for 1mil

    @ELOZIGINAL@ELOZIGINALАй бұрын
  • Thanks sooooooo much ❤🎉😊

    @Atika-vb7gq@Atika-vb7gqАй бұрын
  • Spot on 🏆

    @shawnhazel4110@shawnhazel4110Ай бұрын
  • 👏🏼 he to ya 🍸 “ONE MILLION “ Nischa , 31) NO ONE GETS THERE ALONE. , to bad that DeLorean doesn’t exist to take us back in time, “Dear younger me , If I could tell you things that I have learned so far “ …… well they do say “ enjoy the journey “. I was just wondering, way do you want to get off this roller coaster 🎢 of what we call life, for in our lifetime what story’s would be there to tell!!!! Very interesting topic you mentioned Nischa , once again outstanding, and your inner circle are very fortunate, too call you their friend. Till next time 💐

    @robwaz1547@robwaz1547Ай бұрын
  • I’m struggling with overthinking. I actually think it’s a sickness. Thanks for the advice!

    @dalac_93@dalac_93Ай бұрын
  • so good!

    @marketacomorkova9944@marketacomorkova9944Ай бұрын
  • My beautiful Queen. You are the best

    @g_factking@g_factkingАй бұрын
  • Good job Nischa

    @padmakumar3803@padmakumar3803Ай бұрын
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