Why South Korea’s suicide rate is so high
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South Korea has rapidly developed into a cultural and economic powerhouse that is the envy of many other countries around the world. But the nation is far less admired for its suicide rate - the highest in the developed world. South Korean government data indicates that about every 40 minutes, one person takes their own life. The Post spoke to several experts to try and understand why suicide is so common in South Korea.
If you have suicidal thoughts or know someone who is experiencing them, help is available. In Hong Kong, dial +852 2896 0000 for The Samaritans or +852 2382 0000 for Suicide Prevention Services. In South Korea, dial 1393 for the national suicide prevention hotline. In the US, call or text 988 or chat at 988lifeline.org for the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. For a list of other nations’ helplines, see this page.
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I just don't get it. Korea has the highest percentage of Christians population among Asian countries, and yet the gospel did not transform them that Jesus only is enough and sufficient for their happiness. It is possible that the gospel does not have enough power to provide this happiness or maybe, nobody is really a Christian. If so, it is probably the same in the United States as well.
Suicide is not as significant in terms of numbers compared to illegal drug and alcohol abuse. There are more than one way to die. If we compare the illegal drug deaths, I believe Korea's death rate is still lower.
the reason is that society pressure push them to commit suicide. especially in kpop toxic industry
Why South Korea’s suicide rate is so high? Because: #LifeIsAGift #GodIsGood #LifeIsBrilliant
Western influence
We are the rare asian parents who refuse to push kids to excel in school. I accept them if they're an "average Asian" with B grades because mental health is the most important for us. My first child, after obtaining a degree in software engineering, he decided to work as a bartender, my Asian friends mocked at us. My son told me that he was happy, he met people from all levels of society. His smile was enough for me.
That’s brave of you to defy your peers mocking and not put pressure on your child.
Very very very very wise.
What more do you want as a parent? Smile and happiness is the best.
Bartending… out of all things?
@@burrrrr8525Why not?
When society becomes more superficial and materialistic, those who don't meet the standard feels completely abandoned and hopeless.
Existentialism raises important questions about the human condition. When someone feels disconnected from others or trapped in a life that lacks purpose or fulfillment, they might contemplate suicide as a means of escape from their suffering. However, it is crucial to note that this explanation does not account for the unique circumstances and experiences of each individual.
Parents will beat or abuse their kids for not achieving academic excellence or will openly mock their looks like a highschool bully if they don't look a certain way. In many case it's more worse than other asian countries. No surprise a lot of these kids abandon their parents when they grow. Many of these abandoned parents don't save for retirement and therefore also make up a large portion of these numbers.
@justicewillprevail1106 It's disheartening to witness the toll that societal pressures can take on individuals. Your observation about the impact of superficiality and materialism on people's sense of belonging resonates deeply. It's crucial for us, as a society, to foster a more inclusive environment that values each person for who they are, beyond external standards. Creating a supportive community where everyone feels seen and accepted could play a significant role in addressing the feelings of abandonment and hopelessness that some may experience. @angeltruth4311 Your insights into existentialism and its connection to the human condition add a thoughtful layer to this discussion. Understanding the complexities of why someone might contemplate suicide is indeed a crucial step. Each person's journey is unique, shaped by their individual circumstances and experiences. Recognizing this diversity is essential as we work towards providing meaningful support and interventions. Let's continue the conversation about fostering empathy and understanding for those struggling with the complexities of life.
Neoliberalism.
Literally all society is like that.
My opnion after living in SK for over 4 years and being married to a SK native: 1. Extreme toxic "family" culture 2. Society that relies purely on appearance 3. Young generation getting in debt because are desperate to "look cool" (part of point 2) 4. Older generation have extremely bad behavior and believes everyone must obey & worship them 5. Lack of purpose on a whole generation, everyone is just living to get a cool Instagram picture (part of point 2 & 3)
It appears that you have some concerns about certain aspects of South Korean culture and society based on your experiences. It's important to remember that these observations may not apply universally to all individuals or reflect the entire population of South Korea. Cultural perspectives can vary greatly, and it's important to avoid making sweeping generalizations. 1. Family culture: Every culture has its unique family dynamics and values. While some may see certain aspects of South Korean family culture as toxic, others may view it as a strong emphasis on maintaining strong family ties and respecting elders. It is worth noting that opinions on family culture can differ, and it is important to understand the context and perspective of various individuals. 2. Appearance-focused society: South Korea is known for its beauty industry, which has had a significant influence on society's emphasis on appearance. While appearance can be important in many societies, it is essential to recognize that not everyone in South Korea or any other country solely values appearance. People have diverse perspectives, and many South Koreans prioritize other aspects such as education, personal growth, and career success. 3. Generation debt and consumerism: The pressure to keep up with societal expectations and maintain a certain lifestyle can sometimes lead individuals, particularly the younger generation, to accumulate debt. While some may prioritize material possessions and "looking cool," it's important to remember that this may not be true for every individual in South Korea. Many young people also prioritize education, career development, and personal growth. 4. Generational differences: It is not uncommon to encounter generational gaps and differing values between older and younger generations. While some older individuals may have traditional beliefs and expect obedience and respect, it's important to recognize that this is not representative of every elder or the entire older generation. Shifting societal trends and increasing individualism can also contribute to generational differences. 5. Lack of purpose: Finding purpose and meaning in life is a challenge faced by individuals of various generations and in different societies around the world. While some may feel that certain individuals prioritize superficial aspects like Instagram pictures, it doesn't mean that the entire generation lacks purpose. Many individuals in South Korea or any other country actively pursue personal goals, meaningful relationships, and contribute positively to their communities. It's crucial to approach cultural, societal, and generational observations with nuance and avoid generalizations. Every society has diverse perspectives, and individual experiences can greatly vary. Engaging in conversations with people from various backgrounds and open-mindedness can provide a more comprehensive understanding of the culture and society you are experiencing.
@@PoisonelleMisty4311 I agree with you on some points and disagree with others. As I said, this is my opinion based on what I've seen in South Korea, though I'm not saying this applies to everyone, only to what I've experienced. Other people experiencing the same situations could have another perspective on it, but this is mine. Overall, I thank you for sharing your opinion as well
Thanks chatgpt... really appreciate your AI generated input.@@PoisonelleMisty4311
@@eev4489 I appreciate your perspective and respect the experiences that have shaped your opinion. It's important to recognize that our individual experiences can significantly influence how we perceive certain situations and topics. It's also valuable to have open and respectful discussions with others who may have different perspectives, as it can lead to greater understanding and empathy. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, and I'm glad we can have this respectful exchange of ideas.
@@PoisonelleMisty4311 just out of curiosity, what is your relation to Korea? Have you lived or currently living there? you don't seem to be korean in your profile picture.
I’m a teenage girl who is Korean and has lived here my whole life. Few month ago, a boy who I knew from my school had passed away for the reason mentioned in the video. Many people including the police, teachers and students thought the reason he committed it was because of academic stress and unfortunately many of the students including me couldn’t have related to it better. The pressure to exceed in academic areas is very high and real and overwhelming to young people. When the incident first happened I remember a lot of the teachers were wearing black and some of them were crying. Some students were making rumors of the boy’s sudden disappearance. Soon enough the story was told and we had one period of just sitting in silence, wishing the poor boy to be happy up there. A lot of people such as my friends who knew him very well cried. May he rest in peace
This is because people in your country really like to exaggerate things, when they praise someone they praise very excessively and when they insult someone they insult very cruelly.
yet nothing would have chnged...pressure of studies still continue....
you are not korean nor are you a teenage girl
100% agree ,we are not fooled .
I’m sorry you had to see that. There is hope that we who are righteous by God’s grace will have eternal life. No one can take that from us. I hope and pray that you have hope in that.
As an older gentleman near me in his 80’s who lives alone said to me, “I ask myself what am I living for? I sometimes think taking a gun and ending it all. But it’s friends like you Jim that keep me going. And junking. Picking up scrap gives me a purpose.” Yep….he said that.
Makes you worry about the many young men and women in the West who chose their carreer instead of family and friends. Only the future will tell :(.
yo man i have a smth if ur up to it, ask Jesus to show himself to you whether you belive in him or not then read the book of John nkjv
@@houseplant1016Family and friends can be toxic for some.
life without friends is no life @@12MRJERSEY
@@12MRJERSEY yes true but you can choose the friends, agree on the family part tho
As a Korean American who was born in the US, I am soooooo glad I didn't grow up in that environment.
Yeah, because the ignorant, violent, gun-toting, self-serving culture of the USA society is sooooo much better.
I'm Chinese American and I feel the same way. All the toxic culture that South Korea deals with happens in China as well.
@@mynamesjeff.f Now kith.
Actually aged people in China live a much Happier life than seniors in most western countries if not all. go to see yourself in China, aged people sing and dance in the parks, and are being taken care of by their family, even the children work in another city or even country, they communicate very often, the family tie are still very strong, while aged people in the Individualist West usually are living alone and isolated. South Korea abandoned the confuscious tradition and westernized, but they are, one hand, still clinging to some part of Northeast Asian "you need to to do your best" mindset and exhausting themselves , at other hand following the western Individualist way of living, being left struggle alone.....
@@mynamesjeff.f en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_suicide_rate The suicide rate in China is less than USA, don't be too much ignorant. Look for some data before you talk.
I'm from Germany and there's hardly anyone in my generation who doesn't have mental illnesses. In our country, the school system was tightened and changed enormously. It was never as bad as in Korea, but the pressure still had a big impact on many. Our parents told us we had to be better than them, but they didn't understand that it wasn't as easy as it was in their day. After graduating from high school, many of my friends had burnout or depression, including me. Nevertheless, we were all supposed to go to university straight away and pursue a career. I couldn't do that and my parents didn't understand. Now we're all in the middle of our 20s. The job market wants us for a pittance, the housing market is a disaster for us and the older generation calls us lazy and ungrateful. We're just tired and want some peace.
I'm sorry to hear that you and many of your peers have been experiencing mental health challenges in Germany. It's important to acknowledge the impact that societal pressures and changes in the education system can have on individuals. Mental health issues can arise due to a combination of factors, including societal expectations, academic pressures, and the demands of transitioning into adulthood. It's unfortunate that the pressure to excel and the expectation to follow a specific path has had such a negative impact on your generation's well-being. Finding a balance between personal well-being and societal expectations can be challenging. It's important to prioritize self-care, mental health, and seek support when needed. Connecting with mental health professionals, support groups, or counseling services can provide guidance and assistance during difficult times. Regarding the job market and housing market challenges, many individuals in your generation have faced similar struggles worldwide. Economic conditions and market trends can create difficult circumstances for young professionals. It's important to remember that these challenges are not a reflection of personal failure or laziness, but rather systemic issues beyond individual control. Having open conversations and bridging the generation gap can help foster understanding and empathy between different age groups. It's unfortunate that some members of the older generation label your generation as lazy or ungrateful without fully understanding the difficulties you face. Encouraging dialogue and discussing these issues openly can help create a more supportive and understanding atmosphere. Remember, it's okay to prioritize your own well-being and seek peace. Taking time for self-care and finding activities that bring you joy and relaxation can be beneficial. Surrounding yourself with support and finding a sense of community among peers who have shared experiences can also be helpful.
The more I see vids like this the more I see comments like this, and I'm really coming to the belief that this problem is a world wide one. Here in the UK it's the same, and in france, american, china, japan, and Australia I've seen commend, posts, articles on all of them. It's all the same, no one feels like they have a purpose or a future, the cost of living is to high for people to even think of starting a family, and yet there's still so much pressure. Capitalism might actually be the end of us..
The older generation is incredibly selfish because they’re the reason people have mental illnesses. And now they bully younger generations and drive them to suicide.
"we were all supposed to go to university straight away" I'm from Iraq and I relate to this. I've never experienced depretion before university. I say let's try to make the best of what's left of our life and raise our children better.
I understand. I’m an “underachiever” of the parental generation, but found my niche in being the only caregiver for my parents. My affluent sibling has money. My other sibling has manipulated her family to reject me. My daughter has contempt for me, having done better than me, with education and employment. When my last parent is gone, I wonder if I can help others like me in a similar situation…. Wait until today’s grandchildren need help. They’ll probably just get an injection instead.
I grew up in a korean household. it was very hard because so much focus is put on "success" in the eyes of privilege. there is no celebration of life. only "success."
It is the definition of success that is the trap. It all seems to be material success. The degree from the top university to get into the top company is so you can show your success with designer clothes and expensive car. There are other kinds of success but they don't count. Too bad.
I'm sorry to hear that you had a difficult experience growing up in a Korean household, where success was emphasized at the expense of celebrating life. The societal pressure that prioritizes achievement can create a challenging environment, especially for individuals who may have different aspirations or interests. It's crucial to recognize that success can take on multiple forms and should be defined by individual values and happiness rather than societal expectations alone. Emphasizing personal growth, well-being, and finding fulfillment in one's own passions and interests can be equally valuable. Cultural norms and expectations can be deeply ingrained, but it is essential to have open conversations and discussions about the broader definition of success and the importance of personal happiness and well-being. Encouraging a more balanced approach, where personal fulfillment is considered alongside achievements, can help create a healthier and more supportive environment. Remember that you are not alone in your experiences, and seeking support from understanding friends, family members, or mental health professionals can be beneficial.
Isn’t it the same as in other places? The Philippines, the US, etc -material success is the definition of success.
@@auriculares02 While material success is often valued and celebrated in many cultures around the world, it's important to recognize that not everyone defines success solely based on material wealth. Different societies may place varying degrees of importance on factors such as personal relationships, well-being, community involvement, or personal growth and fulfillment. While financial success can bring certain benefits and opportunities, it's important to remember that it is not the sole determinant of one's fulfillment and happiness. People's goals, aspirations, and definitions of success can vary greatly, and it's essential to find meaning and purpose in a way that aligns with your own values and desires. Ultimately, success is a subjective and personal concept. It's important to define success for yourself based on what truly brings you joy, fulfillment, and a sense of purpose in life.
@@PoisonelleMisty4311why does it feel like this comment was ai generated
Who would want to grow up and live in a society like that? There is competition but no winners
I wonder if this connects to the very low birth rate. 😢 People look around and say no to bringing a child into such a world. It's all so tragic.
They can always come to India.
@@misterbig9025 Seriously, you should not make people chuckle over such a serious subject. By all accounts SK is a very xenophobic nation and I suspect mass emigration to India is not an option. The solution will have to be found internally.
@@user-xf2vf9wn5jBut but but capitalism saves right 😂😂😂
I like the way you said that.
I feel like bullying also plays a key factor both school and work builles. I've seen many cases severe bullying in SK and the absolute injustice of it all.
Unfortunately, the bullying here actually begins at home (then brought into school + work) -- sad, but honest truth.
Koreans are well known for their violent temper, domestic abuse, violence againts women, hazings in the military, rude behavior, high alcohol consumption & obsession with outward appearance (plastic surgery & flaunting expensive brands).
And army bullying?
I'm glad you wrote this comment. I'm always shocked by the totally out of date, backwards type of bullying and childish cruelty and brutality in so many areas of South Korean society & culture. It's so normalised there. Bluntness is not the same a cruelty and bullying, just to clarify that I'm aware of the distinction. Some K dramas are impossible to enjoy as I'm so disgusted, wondering 'do these thousands of programs actually speak to South Koreans about a reality they live, relate to and see in real life as 'normal'? Do bosses in the work place really scream at employees in communal areas, slap them around the head? Surely not. I'm in denial, yet why would these shows keep having scenes like this over and over and over if it's all a laughable cartoon-version of reality? I wish a South Korean (or someone just living in SK) could tell me if K dramas show somewhat accurate scenarios/language/behaviour when it comes to this casual cruelty, unkindness and savage bullying in all the different social contexts. No Western dramas or movies would feature behaviours and scenarios that the audience cannot connect with and relate to; unless it's an arty film, comedy skit or in the sci-fi genre. Otherwise they try to show REAL human interactions in a creative, insightful way. I've never had anybody shed light on this confusion for me.
@@ciganyweaverandherperiwink6293: It’s inhumane to treat your friends at school, your employees at work such cruelty. I have the same questions whether it happens in real life or not. Look at how the rich would gotten away with anything they’re done. I don’t live in SK nor been there. But I think the drama and movies have been playing about the poor who got bullied at schools and works which were accurate. There are so many of this type of dramas and movies. The Directors are telling us something about this.
I used to live in korea for 7 years. I can say from experience that living there is extremely stressful. Long work hours, unpaid overtime and always striving for perfection. I can go on and on about why I'm not surprised it's this high. It is however very sad because there is no sign of it changing anytime soon. The government trying to make a 60 plus hour work week legal for example.
that word perfection is the culprit. expecting perfection from a human being can never be attained.
One concept that can help us understand this situation is social alienation. In South Korea, there is a strong emphasis on conformity and maintaining a certain image or reputation within society. This pressure to conform and succeed can lead individuals to feel alienated and disconnected from their authentic selves. When people feel this profound sense of social alienation, they may experience a deep sense of hopelessness or despair, contributing to the high suicide rate.
One just can’t have it all, can’t one? The same as a nation. Strive plus stress, or being left behind. Northern Europeans have it nice. But it is the results of decades of strive. If you read the stories of Viking, the poor potato tenant farmer youd see parallel with today’s striving East Asian countries.
@@michellhong726 While it's true that achieving success and prosperity often requires hard work and perseverance, it's also important to recognize that there are structural and historical factors that contribute to a country's economic and social outcomes. The success of Northern European countries is not solely due to individual effort, but also the result of policies, institutions, and historical legacies that have facilitated their development. Similarly, the challenges faced by other countries may be due to a combination of factors, including political instability, resource constraints, and historical injustices. It's essential to address these underlying issues through policies that promote equality, social justice, and economic opportunity for all.
If anything, the suicide rate in Korea is low considering how hellish it is.
I'm a Mexican American born in the US. I met my Korean gf in Korea and I always try to reassure her that it's okay to make mistakes and fail. That's the biggest part about learning in life. I am always subconsciously thinking about the stressful life of Koreans so I try to brind her back down to earth.
Poverty rate among elderly people in South Korea is also a big factor for the high suicide rate among the age groups. They have one of the highest elderly poverty rate among OECD countries.
they should live with children and help with grandchildren
In fact, it's false statistic cited for a long time. The elderly mainly own real estate assets and sometimes have less liquidity.
In my country Bharat we are so poor. Poor people go to temples.
But but but usa is allied to korea 😂
@@zacksmith5963 🥱 Finally something slightly different from you .
I know two people in Korea who took their own lives in their 80s. For them, it wasn't the loneliness but realizing that their bodies were falling apart and did not want to live with failing bodies. This scenario must be universal; I certainly do not want to live lying in a hospital bed.
When they live in a society that has become so much capital-oriented, lives turns into statistic and cost. Late stage capitalism. No safety nets. No family. Only work.
True. Why don't they ever cover that. Your body gives out. Just facts. You still have a little control at the end so exercise it. And have control of your own end. Whats all this hand wringing over suicide. Geez. That's the problem. Grow up people.😮
@@ey67😲
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It's self compassionate suicide
Competition kills a culture, cooperation nurishes a culture
Before it starts from government or other people, it first starts from the parent who holds you in hand when you are born, - "my child will become the scientist/engineer/doctor etc etc etc. sad 😞 .NO CHILD EVER ASKED TO BE BORN. REMEMBER THAT. AND even 300 IQ points won't give you the rebuttal of this statement.
Perfectly said
Have you watched Game Theory? A KZheadr named MattPatt, known for his videos about theories in video games, aired his last episode about a real study case where people have cooperated and won together, whereas there were others that actively competed against each other, and either stagnated or failed. My oversimplified synopsis can't do it justice, go give it a watch.
Here in the US being equal is punishment for about half of the population. One must think they are better than everyone even if the facts don't support it.
I am 43 years old Indonesian. I only know ONE person that I knew personally who took his own life (my far neighbour, a father of my friend), it was more than 30 years ago when I was in elementary school. He was ill for years, could not work to provide for his family, probably felt ashamed.
I live in the Philippines, a country that many consider as lower middle class or even poor. And yet our suicide rate is low and we Filipinos have been considered as a happy people. Our society is not uber competitive and family ties remain strong. This despite of 10 million Filipinos working abroad as overseas contract workers. We are more laidback in attitude which sometimes frustrate a lot of foreigners but maybe in some way it contributes to better mental health. I just feel sad that inspite of their country's economic success South Korean citizens are being challenged by so many societal and economic factors which lead them to end their lives.
Indonesian here, I guess we are the same. Our suicide cases is considered low (no more than 1,000 yearly). Our poor people are a lot worse condition compare to Korea and Japan but we are hanging on. I guess religion plays important part to our mental health too. I want Indonesia to be an advanced economy but in our term/ pace and not to put too much pressure to children/ society.
Yes Alot of phipleno woekres in my coumtry israle
Sarawak Malaysian here, it's same for my state as well, relative low though.
Developement have a huge cost. South korea paid its cost and developed really fast. Phillippines and Indonesia will take a really long time to develop since they are very slow paced, laid back style.
It is slowly changing. The younger generation are more pressured since their lives are intertwined with social media. They compare themselves to each other, their self-esteem is low because of "influencers" and seeing that are better than them selves. Also the that nagging notion of being watched and criticized where they are one viral video away to being ostracized and bullied by the internet people. OTH, at least they have awareness, most of them, regarding mental health. So there's a glimmer there. The problem is just the access to these professionals that will help the youth navigating this fast-paced adulthood that we have right now. As for elders, boomers will be fine. But us Millenials and onwards will likely have the same issue as with Japan and Korea since we are shifting from the family traditional values to self-living. Many of us are deciding to just live alone, or live with someone but not have kids. And down 15-30 years down the line, many of us will be alone, weak, fragile and vulnerable. But it up to us to setup the foundation for that future, so there is still hope.
tbh I can relate to this story. the pressure to have a successful life, to find a lover, and to have a house.
Most of us do.
That is the old school thinking. I used to value getting married and having kids, but not anymore. Some of my brothers are single and like it that way as life is so hard now with wife and kids.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Very true. You are smart to realize this.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Raising a family gives you purpose though, the opposite end of the spectrum is literally just existing for no reason which is way worse for everyone involved.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjwait untill you get old and sick. You will regret not having a fsmily.
Bro I am South Korean and this almost broke my heart. I was thinking about life and saying who cares if I suicide, we only live around 80 years. If your life is miserable you should have the choice to end it. After this video I dont want to think like this because I dont want to be part of the statistics. I will never end my own life now. But honestly who really cares you have 20 years at best. Seems like living those best years and going doesn't sound so bad but when you talk about stats, it sounds bad so I wont do it lol. I was starting to become depressed but not anymore lol.
stay strong.. and live your life to the full
@@Hanvvn but what's the point. If my life is just full of misery why bother going on. I'm not saying my life is like that but I see why some people want to take their own life. I don't disagree with them either.. it's your own life and if you don't want to live anymore you should be able to choose. I don't think there is anything wrong woth these people besides the fact they were born with bad luck or bad experiences.
@@lingling21100but its because you live in a society that wants to be perfect. Move. Come to America, where we don’t value perfectionism. Adults value freedom and happiness. That’s the main goal I have as a 25 year old. Make money, live happy. If you don’t like your life, CHANGE it. Nothing is ever permanent. Nothing. It’s never ending. You can move. America, Canada, there are many options.
There are options for you. The people around you, the environment you are in does not represent the world. You don't have to confine yourself. You don't need to live your life by any other person's standards but by yourself .
I suffer from mental issues my self, trust me it is extremely hard to live in a pressured society when expectations are unrealistically high. We have it some areas of the UK (especially in London) where everything is almost fast pace sometimes. Some times it feels like there is no room for us young people to be human. I remember when my youngself felt useless and it knocked my confidence so badly, i felt like giving up my life for years because i couldn't meet the expectations my family and friends and society expected of me. It led me down a very dark path where i was very close to ending my life. Somehow my mother sensed that i wasnt my self and she reached out, she knows me better than my self (honestly). Thank goodness, my mum and my lil brother sensed it. Otherwise i would not be on this earth at all.
Family is really the biggest factor in these situations ❤️
Happy to know you have moved on from that feeling. More power to you brother. Praying for you 🤲🌸
So...u crazy. Allright...
Crippling debt and overwork = depression = suicide
Society pressure to get married , support parents , etc expensive too just like Japan ...so weird that two different countries but yet act the same 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Have they thought of becoming a religious profession?
@@zacksmith5963but socialism does??
Abusing your kids, mocking their looks, not saving for retirement and treating your kids like a retirement plan, being abandoned when you get old = shame = suicide There are a lot of old abandoned people in these numbers too.
Yes, but what about fear of causing a worse afterlife? What do most Koreans think of an afterlife? Do they believe that a person who ends their life will be reincarnated, like maybe happy next time? My, limited, understanding is that Koreans do believe in afterlife judgement and reward/punishment of some sort, right?
Suicide isn't the problem; it's the existence of conditions bad enough to overcome a person's survival instinct that is.
But but but capitalism saves right 😂😂😂
@@zacksmith5963wow someone has mental issues in this chat..
@@stephaniemathurin473 u describing your mom . Great m
@@zacksmith5963 You're commenting this on a platform built under capitalism, I guess it didn't save you from hiding your stupidity though.
It's a symptom
I can relate. As a suicide survivor I greatly contributed the attempt based on chronic loneliness, pressures to become successful and not failing myself and my family name. Asian life.
I pray you find hope in Christ alone. He provides eternal life and abundance. I am from the poorest part in Kenya but Christ gives people joy.
@@johnnykilonzo2103 That's enough.
@@xr2kid what's enough? Christ is enough. People here are dying but hope brings strength not in humanity but in Christ. Come and see for yourself why hope in Christ defeats Suicide, depression and death
i'm glad you're still here with us *virtual hug*
happy to have you around. you can never please all and you can never be perfect. count your blessings and don't focus on what you do not have. stay strong in all aspects of life. Fighting!💪🙏
The stigma of mental health needs to be removed/changed. They can open up therapist centers and whatnot but it won’t change if people are ashamed of seeking help. You can lose your job, be ostracized and be shamed for having depression or any other mental health problem. I lived in Korea and suffered with depression but was too scared of doing anything about it because I knew it’d jeopardize my teaching career
Older generations had the concept of "crazy" which has no medical or scientific content.
therapy is for dorks
@Alisha.10 Thanks, interesting info and hope you're doing better now 👍
Pronatalists and Breeders are the main reason all of this Suffering exists!
@@addy1294 go play your mine craft and roblox you little dork, reality gonna slap you in the face once you get out from your mama's basement
Suicide has becoming an alarming issue not only in Korea but other parts of the world as human has become more individualistic, as the world is evolving into a more challenging place to live.
Very true and it is happening everywhere, not just Korea.
Its not a natural selection? To keep the number?
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj only in developed countries.
Frankly, I don't believe this is new. More people, more reporting, less stigma and hiding the fact. In the past, unless they were discovered by a family member and that person was blunt, it was covered up and another reason was given. To much shame to be truthful. You especially didn't want to tell kids someone chose death over them.
These issues are directly related to overpopulation imo - more competition for jobs and housing (difficulty with finding affordable housing can be seen in cities worldwide), also we can expect societal and economical problems getting worse in the future because of the climate crisis - also related to too many humans consuming too much resources.
Thank you for exploring this topic. I was proud to be part of it.
What about bullying at school? It seems that this is a serious problem there and it must cause lots of trauma in adult life. So, I think the basic step is to combat bullying at school, reduce study hours and help the eldest. Also, if I had to work 50 hours a week, I would never get married nor have childrem.
Wow that's brutal. The evolution of their society as it relates to identity, further coalescing down to the individual. The change is within adjacent generations where one side really is left in a precarious predicament.
🇯🇵 and 🇰🇷 are suffering from late stage capitalism 😎
Degradation of their society. An evolving society would not be facing all these issues.
Nice google translate
Korean life is so hectic and frustating, primarily for younger people. Those who don't have money need a loan to get a high degree, and then they spent their younger days after graduation to paid that loan, heck, even to get a job is a steep competition. There is a little of what the society could do to relieve their stress, as in hedonistic life style. Their mental health are so fragile under constant pressure, from their peers, from their parents, from the debt, etc. Hence, Korean government need to ease their life, by applying 4 days work and 3 days off work. And to look for an alternative for the younger people to get a job.
What's so brutal?
It is not an isolated fact, rich and poor countries currently have high suicide rates. It's the face of our modern people, people with no perspective on anything. I know what it's like to fight this thought every day, every moment of the day for years, it's not easy to stay alive or go away. Just pray for myself and others like me. Keep alive...fight...🙏🙏🙏🇧🇷
Praying for you❤ You got this❤
Sending love and strength 🙏🏽❤️
Yup, it is a worldwide phenomenon and some of the reasons why less people are having kids.
I know what you mean… i feel the same…
People do suicide because they have depression. The cause is unknown.
I think the video was well-rounded. Lived there for many years. Adults abandoning the concept of taking care of elderly, the work culture, and the culture forcing people to conform is all contributing to suicide. Its stressful there
sometimes is not the adult abandon the care of elderly, is the adult can't even take care of themselves. in singapore,i know of many cases where the elderly is still taking care of the adults, in usa too.
That's why soo many S Koreans traveler in the world, maybe to relieve the Stressful lifestyle they have etc. 🙁
Thank you for sharing your perspective and adding to the discussion. It's unfortunate to hear that the challenges you mentioned, such as the lack of support for the elderly, intense work culture, and pressure to conform, can contribute to the overall stress and mental health issues in South Korea. The societal emphasis on productivity and success, paired with the competitive environment, can create high levels of stress and anxiety for individuals. This can have a detrimental impact on their mental well-being. Addressing these issues requires a multifaceted approach. It involves promoting a more compassionate and inclusive society that values the well-being of all its members, including the elderly. It also entails implementing policies that prioritize work-life balance, offer mental health support in the workplace, and challenge the notion that productivity should supersede personal well-being. Cultural change is a gradual process that requires the involvement of various stakeholders, including individuals, families, communities, and the government. Encouraging open conversations about mental health, challenging traditional beliefs, and promoting self-care and self-expression can all play a part in reducing the stress and contributing to a healthier and more supportive society. It's important to continue raising awareness, advocating for change, and supporting those who are struggling with their mental health. Remember, seeking help and support is a sign of strength, and there are resources available for those in need.
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There needs to be an adaptation between family values and changing times, in the sense that you identify the connection between the two and the social determinants which are being ignored then focus on creating a process that bridges it together. I have been doing this with Indigenous Australia and I believe it can be achieved.
One of the most modern country yet it’s one of the most depressing countries out there. It’s a constant battle between having a perfect image and other social factors
It’s truly sad to know so many ppl are suffering world wide.
Not getting penetrated is not suffering...Im sorry but people in middle east and Africa are really suffering with no food, water and electricity. These are spoiled kids with too many options
K dramas helped me through quarantine and with my depression. It hurts me to see people of this wonderful country take their lives. It is very hard to live in this world anymore but I just wanted to express my admiration and sympathy to Korean people. Please be strong, the world is not the same without you.
dramas are depict a very different picture...sad but true...
@@priyv8710 Kdrama depict a picture from a certain point of view. AKA the view point of "imaginary chaebol" princes and princesses that is about the inherit family fortune/empire. it doesnt show anything about the fate of the people that has nothing to their name, working their soul off to be able to one day "work for the chaebol"
It is important to note that suicide rates are influenced by a complex interplay of factors and may vary across different regions and demographic groups. Addressing this issue requires a multifaceted approach, including increasing mental health support and awareness, reducing stigma, improving economic stability, and creating a more supportive and inclusive society.
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@@tungvudang9414 I know how it is, I come from a country that is struggling as well. I don't like royals either but the stories are so romantic and so well made that they make me smile and dream. Sure, every day Korean people struggle and work a lot.
this video is so sad. praying for all those going through hard times right now. i hope things get better for everyone
We live in a world where we constantly compare ourselves with others. If you are content, and you observe someone who appears to be happier, your contentment may begin to deteriorate. It's all in your head. If you can let go and focus on improving yourself, rather than worrying about how others perceive you, you will have happiness, and the thought of harming yourself will likely not cross your mind. Remember, happiness is the journey you undertake; it is not a destination you pursue.
Yet some lunatics call africa back ward when greed takes over a society the results becomes fatal
@@michellekabanga3612 🤣
@@michellekabanga3612 I think you mean backwards. Also as of 2023 South Africa and it's two landlocked countries Lesotho and Eswatiri, along with Zimbabwe, Mozambique and the CAR both ranked higher than South Korea. People say Africa is backwards as many countries in Africa have very poor infrastructure and a mostly agricultural output. Mixed this with very traditionalist old world views, and the lingering high probability of another military coup or civil war, means that many people describe things as 'backwards'. Lowering the rates of self-die isn't just about making people poor so they're glad with what they've got. That is backwards thinking.
@@327legoman Keep pushing your negative narrative, you’re the only one talking and listening.
@@sandman.38 Evidently not.
I can relate... I live in the US and work 2 full time jobs... I dont make enough 😢😢😢
I do not go a day without thinking about doing it, but I always remind myself to keep going. What keeps me going is my wonderful parents and also hope for the future, if I didn't have both I would not be writing this comment.
South Korea and India both top the list of suicide rates in Asia. Pressure to succeed in South Korea and high levels of debt among farmers in India are the main causes
No their is no comparison of suicide rates,and it's crucial issue for South korea since their population is less than India, India has billion of population.
SK and JP are both suffering from the effects of late stage capitalism while Yeendia suicides are attributed to jealousy and misery.
@@HoldMyCowsberg Meanwhile china is suffering from corona virus
India is no where near Japan and South Korea in case of suicide rate.
No comparison between both ...huge difference between population... South Korea has highest number of suicide rate .
Corporatocracy is the main reason for that. the poverty of the elderly, terrible competition and lifetime employment, unbearable social demands, low social investment by the government, high prices, terrible corporate conditions, pressure and overwork, social pressure on individuals, and that's just the first thing that comes to mind. One of my best friends was from South Korea. She's dead now. The reason was the crisis of transition to "adulthood" and problems with university enrollment.
Thank you. Someone had to address the elephants in the room. This is late stage capitalism at his best. I'm sorry for your loss.
I feel like the west is becoming just like South Korea, unhealthy competitiveness, getting stuck on 9-5, corrupt governments and politicians, societal norms and expectations, high inflation, wars, major distrust in the government from it’s citizens , most Americans are failing at work-life balance, to many taxes on everything and they keep raising prices on taxes and these are just a few problems
exactly. korea couldn't overcome this for centuries.
@@ecoista1373 An economic system can't reach late stage capitalism without being a free market in the first place. Capitalism isn't even a thing, it was a bad word invented by Karl Marx referring to the free market, however no society has had a proper free market structure in probably hundreds of years, the last one being the US before the establishment of the National Bank. IF all economic power is centralized within the elites entertwined with governing powers, it doesn't qualify as a free market, and is more centrist/socialist in nature. Therefore you can't blame "capitalism", it's just a dumb word used by people who want to blame rich people for economic issues not fully understood.
@@queuedjar4578Cope
Very sad, but very informative. Thank you.
This hearts my heart in such a deeply profound & painful way.
It must've hurt when they see their precious persons, whom the sacrificed so much for, just fly away and never looked back
I chose to not get married. I have money, and I am not interested of taking care of anybody else but myself. I still care for others, but not on a personal level. I am living with my mother right now, no loneliness due to my choice. I think I am doing great. Maybe changing our mindset and keeping an open mind in choosing an unorthodox life choice does have to do with being able to live happily even when it is not a ‘desirable’ choice for a lot of people.
As long as you pay enough taxes to help raise future generations whose taxes will be used to take care of you (e.g., social security, Medicare, all other benefits) when you are old, I have no objection to your decision.
@@lizijian1212 Actually I have more than enough to take care of than just myself. I am a businessperson, and a successful one at that so I don’t live off from tax money, even though I deserve it since I am paying a lot of it. But thank you.
@@alimichalkan8046 Hope you stay this way and aging and health conditions do not affect your capacity to manage your life and finances in any way, such that the society does not have to spend a single penny on you. Best of luck to you.
Praying that you, your mom, families, and loved ones are doing well❤
Nothing is permanent. Our happiness tend to go with if we are happy with current present and such might change in the future. It is a gamble because each person try to arrange their life such a way they think to have or keep being happy. No one knows results until the future become reality. Like you, I am blessed with having parents, but they are older now and I know that happiness is clock ticking. Some parents think having children will bring them happiness during old age. Some kids will neglect or not love their parents who worked hard to raise them. Some fortunate to have great kids whom would give them happy memories during old age. We never know. Hope you keep this happiness in the future.
The system there has a lot of flaws. Instead of focusing on themselves as individuals, they're forced to compete and end up mentally broken.
I am from Nigeria Africa in my entire life this is my first time of hearing elderly people commit suicide.
My Sister, No be only you o... E shock me too
This is uncommon even here in Tanzania. The difference for us in Africa is that we care for our elderly, even if they don't have children, neighbours will take care of them, we respect the elderly and family culture is everything...ujamaa, ubuntu is deep
I feel like, in developing countries, since we're more other centered, it prevents the reasons for pushing one to suicide. Like loneliness.
We humans all have problems to deal with. In Nigeria, we have been facing all the bad things that poor leadership brings. But we go out to work everyday, earn a liitle ( my annual pay as a teacher is not upto $500), we socialise with friends. We don't throw away our elderly (they live with us till death), we eat the food available to us, and receive the education we can afford. We don't think of ending our lives, its never an option for any of us. I hope you people live longer than the things that worry you.
The capitalistic model is not natural for us. The constant stress among the middle and lower class is just unbearable. It's too individualistic. Self interest is not aligned with common interest. We used to live in tribes and communities that worked together. Now we are all looking out for ourselves only, because if we don't no one else will. No one has your back.
Exactly. Probably works best for a 7 billion strong population but in essence, its hollowing and incredibly alienating
Tribalism isn’t the answer as there is non. Every system is doomed to fail it doesn’t matter if it’s capitalism, communism or tribalism. The only thing that matters is that nothing matters as everything will be meaningless in the span of this universe. The only advice I have is to disregard everything and embrace how absurd everything is.
When you have high grading system and high expectations from children, with that kind of pressures that's definitely going to lead to depressions. Especially nowadays where just being alive is hard enough and people don't like to physically relate to each other anymore cos of phones or care about helping each other when they are all facing their own societal issues
At its core, existentialism emphasizes individual existence, rather than abstract or universal concepts. It explores questions like "Who am I?" and "What is the purpose of my life?" The approach to answering these questions varies amongst existentialist philosophers, but they share some common themes.
This was a really well made video. Thank you.
This is only my opinion, for me one of the main reason why Korea has the highest suicide rate in the world is because of their culture especially the "ppali ppali culture" People forget to pause and take a breath for a while. It feels like they need to live just to work and meet the standard of society instead of living in a simple yet contented life. Time in Korea hits different like a typical "Time is Gold" motto. The rapid changes of trend and phasing stage in Korea is also the reason.
I'm not surprised about this. In so many places, the cost of living has risen, there is unemployment, housing prices are unaffordable. It is expensive to live. I'm in my 40s, married but have no kids and we will likely revert to multi generational living to keep costs done as housing is unaffordable (in Australia)
Australians should demand deprivatization of land
Some reasons stem from unrealistic standards and the mentality that individuals need to be perfect in their appearance, possess higher salaries and positions, and push their children to excel in specific areas-traits often deeply ingrained in Asian culture. While having higher standards and bigger dreams is not inherently wrong, they should not cause mental breakdowns to the extent that they hinder a person's ability to function normally or cope with life's imperfections, such as failure, uncertainties, and life struggles. Another reason is is the "shame culture" prevalent in Asian societies, where individuals face shame for not meeting minimum standards of social acceptability. This shame culture is evident in various aspects of Asian culture and even portrayed in media, famous individuals, and dramas. In China, there are a lot of influencers who fake their identity as rich people in order to have fame and be accepted of the society standards. Even in Korean dramas and Korean idols are portrayed that so perfect. Also, internal shame arises when individuals fail to adhere to the community's established rules and expectations. This internal shame serves to foster group harmony and unity but can also have negative consequences on individuals' mental well-being.
Unattainable desires and unrealistic demands exert pressure on individuals to attain success, driven by a desire to be part of something significant or revolutionary. In other cases, some elders experience abandonment by children living and working far away, resulting in feelings of isolation and poverty. Bullying has also become a concerning norm, contributing to the complexities and toxicity within Asian culture. The Asian cultural landscape is intricate, encompassing varying perspectives on mental health, hierarchy, discipline that sometimes escalates to abuse, shame cultures, and other societal issues. There exists a pervasive mentality that compels Asian children to mature early, requiring them to swiftly determine their future selves. Parents often dictate their aspirations onto them, leading to the development of indecisive, people-pleasing adults perpetually anxious about meeting high standards. Coping mechanisms and avenues for personal breakthroughs are not always prioritized, leaving individuals to navigate the physical and emotional stresses independently. The perpetuation of generational traumas further compounds these challenges.Addressing these challenges requires a balance between setting high standards and fostering a supportive environment that acknowledges and accepts the inherent imperfections of life, including failure and struggles.
Addressing the issue of high suicide rates in South Korea requires a comprehensive approach. It involves spreading awareness and reducing the stigma associated with mental health, fostering a supportive environment for seeking help, implementing educational reforms that ease academic pressure, and promoting overall well-being. This issue requires not only societal changes but also individual and collective efforts to prioritize mental health and create a more compassionate, understanding society.
Filipinos don't see therapists, too, because the fees are too much. There are also a lot of people living below the poverty line, but we are one of the countries that has the lowest suicide rate in the world. Religion plays an important role for it. We believe that religion can provide comfort and support during difficult times, offering a source of hope and strength. Also, religion can provide a moral compass and a set of guidelines for ethical behavior, which can help to promote a more just and equitable society.
Rrr that's sick society values present in industrialized countries with an extreme in south korea..but sooner or later that will change maybe in 150 years. I do not see any difference with 19th century America as people worked themselves to death then also.
vietnam and thailand dont have high suicide either.
There are several factors that contribute to South Korea's high suicide rate, but it is important to note that suicide rates are influenced by a complex combination of social, cultural, economic, and psychological factors. Some of the reasons why South Korea's suicide rate can be considered dangerous are: 1. Pressure and competition: South Korean society places immense pressure on individuals to succeed academically and professionally. This highly competitive environment, especially for students, can lead to high levels of stress and anxiety. The fear of failure and the pressure to meet societal expectations can contribute to feelings of hopelessness and despair. 2. Stigma and shame: Mental health issues, including depression and other psychiatric disorders, are often stigmatized in South Korean society. People may be reluctant to seek help for fear of being judged or ostracized. This stigma can prevent individuals from receiving the necessary support and treatment, leading to an increased risk of suicide. 3. High work demands and long working hours: South Korea has a strong work culture with long working hours and limited work-life balance. This can lead to stress, burnout, and feelings of isolation. The demanding work environment can contribute to mental health issues and increase the risk of suicide. 4. Elderly population: South Korea has a rapidly aging population, and elderly individuals often face social isolation, financial difficulties, and lack of support. The elderly suicide rate in South Korea is among the highest in the world. 5. Access to lethal means: South Korea has a high availability of lethal means, particularly pesticides and carbon monoxide. Easy access to these means increases the risk of impulsive suicide attempts. Efforts are being made to address these issues, such as implementing suicide prevention programs, increasing mental health awareness, and promoting work-life balance. However, addressing the complex factors contributing to the high suicide rate in South Korea requires a multi-faceted approach involving government, society, and individuals.
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Stressfull school life and work life, too crowded, less resources, expensive houses, etc. All the same problems as any highly developing countries. That's why i left to south east asia to relax and enjoy slow life pace here. Plus, the toxic society (the korean beauty standard is very toxic and it's very influential to what kind of jobs and how ones treated in society),
Where r u now?
Who cares right? People thought living in developed country is such a sought after. Well not for me. There needs to be balanced. Doesn't matter if it's developing countries , that's so much better. Don't be pressured being top of the world. People who crave materialistic won't even understand.
That's why a lot of Koreans go to Vietnam.
Rest in peace to Jonghyun, Sulli, Goo Hara, and Moonbin 😢
And Lee Sun Kyun a few days ago. In my opinion he was murdered by media, police and K-netizens.
@@_.borahaecan you guys not turn off your kboo brain cell for a minute
I'm sorry to hear about the loss of Jonghyun, Sulli, Goo Hara, and Moonbin. Their deaths are undoubtedly tragic and deeply saddening. It is important to remember that mental health struggles can affect anyone, regardless of their fame or success. Their untimely deaths highlight the importance of raising awareness about mental health and providing support for those who are struggling. It is vital to cultivate a compassionate and supportive environment where individuals feel comfortable seeking help and can access the necessary resources. If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, please remember that reaching out for support is incredibly important. Numerous helplines and resources are available in many countries to offer assistance.
I think this is a very useful article to read. Keep it up !
Korean life is so hectic and frustating, primarily for younger people. Those who don't have money need a loan to get a high degree, and then they spent their younger days after graduation to paid that loan, heck, even to get a job is a steep competition. There is a little of what the society could do to relieve their stress, as in hedonistic life style. Their mental health are so fragile under constant pressure, from their peers, from their parents, from the debt, etc. Hence, Korean government need to ease their life, by applying 4 days work and 3 days off work. And to look for an alternative for the younger people to get a job.
Koreans can come to India
not that easy when india has so much skilled labour and the difficulty of getting a visa overseas. most indians even go to places like the UK to work so the grass may not always be easier on the other side, especially when you consider even cultural assimilability?@@misterbig9025
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It's a complex issue that requires introspection, open discussions, and efforts towards societal change. By questioning these norms and advocating for a more caring and supportive environment, we can work towards breaking this paradox and nurturing healthier societies.
koreans are too racist to goto india.@@misterbig9025
High suicide rate. Low birth rate. All symptoms of despair in SK society. They're not feeling any hope or comfort.
Meanwhile in Africa...Highest birthrate, suicide they know about from the news..lol.... Population getting ready to breed all over the world... Here's to the future of all those countries...
They competing to Japan for world record
when you have so much.. you'll become more unappreciative of simple things.. if you invert those words, it goes to see that poor people are probably feel more happiness than those on the top
Pressuring your kids for education is the number one killer. Sri Lanka is another country which has one of the highest suicide rates which no one is talking about.
Didn`t know that. Guess suicide stats for poor countries are considered too uninteresting to be mentioned.
Because sri lanka isn’t as developed, modern, and publicized as SK is.
@@SeudXe no. It is the tuition culture!
I lived in Sri Lanka for a year in 1980. It wasn’t developed then and the suicide rate was out of sight. It’s a complicated situation. It was a devastatingly beautiful country, but everyone longed for a VCR.
SL government took everything... It has to be very difficult to live there.
1) too much pressure 2) military conscription for young men 3) misogyny and ill treatment of females 4) not enough support for working parents 5) unrelieved bullying at school, work, or unline
I couldn't agree more.
I couldn't agree less.
I'm not South Korean, still Asian tho. My dad push me to became either MD, Dentist, or an Architect. Endep up being a Dentist, but I have to paid it with my happiness, loss of my golden year's as teenage, and permanent mental health 😮💨. On progress to build my life again with my long time partner. 😊
Bless every being suffering. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
It’s a high pressure society. Not just in one sector and aspect. And this is deeply rooted to the history of the country and its people. Korea was a poor country. Devastated by war and conflicts. They worked hard to where they are now. One of the fastest country to rise from being a third world country. Therefore it’s ingrained in the society that they need to work hard and achieve something. Even from a young age, children are expected to do crazy hours in school and cram schools. The society sets high expectations on each individual.
Same in India
It's important for societies to strive for a more balanced approach, valuing and supporting individuals throughout their lives, rather than solely prioritizing external markers of success. Recognizing and appreciating the worth of individuals, fostering strong social support systems, and promoting well-being can contribute to a more compassionate and holistic society.
Praying for everyone in korea and the world❤ hope they all get the help that they need, going to therapy nor counselling is not weak, we all need help. And Praying that the suicide rates in korea and all over the world decrease and becomes 0% one day❤
Why?
@@brianflynn5355 Because he learned sypathy unlike you 🤣
SK is a very well-developed country, however, the looks & education competition there are scary. I will just stay where I am right now Phils. Although we are struggling economically but don't have that type of competition. Poverty is the main problem in my country bec. of the corrupt govt. officials.
This is devastating...South Korea is a real life Cyberpunk hellscspe. Style over substance, crippling work-to-death culture, extreme individualism. Its truly sad 😞
It's not surprising to me. I've always thought of Koreans as the Irishmen of Asia. Hot tempered and driven people. Having grown up in the 70s and 80s, the news in Asia back then was always filled with reports of Korean workers or students holding protests daily against the government. Photos and footages of students setting themselves on fire and jumping off a university building in protest became frequent. Seeing how fast and far they've come in terms of cultural and economic progress today, I've always wondered at what price those great leap in achievements came.
The higher the flight, the harder the fall.
No one is speaking about their 3rd class work culture. There is almost no holiday in South Korea except sundays! Only 9 days of national holiday in a year! Mad society, bound to fail.
I have one of my korean friends who took his own life 2 years ago. Sadly, he has had everything, but suffering from bad depression i tried hard to help him, but he decided to leave this world 😞
While north korea suffers isolation, the south suffers severe capitalism.
Move out young people of South Korea..The world is open to you!! There are several countries that need bright young minds which aren't plagued with social pressure and a lack of human compassion.
HK suicidal is also high, but SCMO won't focus on that😢. Too much competition and pressure forced ppl to move abroad, mostly to UK.
This is the most SPOT-ON video that I have ever seen. I lived there for four years, 2019-2023; as an outsider, I could see ALL the issues listed within this video-the other part of this video that was not mentioned. The Society does NOT speak to one another. If you do not know the other person, you do not even say hello while passing or acknowledge they exist-no wonder the country is so lonely.
Same here in Austria, probably worldwide - just older people maybe still talk to each other.
I lived in Korea in the mid 70's. It was literally a different world. I have watched as they sacrificed everything collectively and individually to rebuild the country. All the kinds of social contact I experienced are gone. I spoke and read Korean and traveled a lot. The Korean Gen X was pushed and pushed and grew up with a blend of Confucian thought and demand to perfection and then they raised their kids to it. I am glad I saw Korea before they sold their souls for worldly prosperity,
As far as your statement “Society does not speak to one another…”. This is not true. It may seem like it because Koreans don’t say hello and be expressive and small talk compared to western cultures at first. But Koreans are easier to really get close after you get to know them. They treat you like family. Western cultures seem more friendly at first, but it’s harder to form a real relationship..
@@angelachouinard4581 "I am glad I saw Korea before they sold their souls for worldly prosperity" That hit different. It seems only the older generations have stories to tell or at least ones filled with beauty and hardship. Your comment stands out to me. ❤
@@TwinklingWatermelon32 I talked to a lot of old people. I was so glad I learned Korean easily. They had amazing stories and I learned so much from them. But watch some interviews with North Korean escapees. The difference in outlook is eye opening.
Why living simple life so difficult? Don't marry, dont have kids.... Life will automatically ease struggle.
Japan is fairly similar to South Korea in many things SCMP says out here. Many kids commit a suicide: bullying or too much competition. But not many kids don’t killed like kids in the USA. There still are not many drugs related crimes even though drug usage cases are gradually on the rise in both nations. Statistics talk about something about its national trait, which i’m not so sure about. But too much competition or divisiveness in society appears to have been making more people take‘extreme choice’. Thank you. 😢
Democracy, freedom of speech, freedom of press and every other Western idea is the problem North Korea having an ultra low suicide rate proves it
Especially Japanese culture is kinda like hold your thoughts to yourself. Japanese should never say their thoughts or it will be branded as impolite. There is very limited ocassion to express your thoughts, how stress full is that!
not many kids get killed with a gun either Korea or Japan
It's sad 😢
Its cuz , every country is eliminating christianity .
It is difficult to survive these days than live.
Young people gives priority to physical appearance, government and society teaches kids that beauty is everything.
Thanks SCMP for real life story , hope to see you explore all around the globe, especially those countries with recent strong economic growth 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
Based on news, documentary,story from a Korean and drama/movie that i watch, mostly because of 'Standard'. In Korea everything has a high standard (Beauty, education, life style, job, income,sosial).For 'Standard', They don't care about their Mental and physical situation until 'suicide' becomes an option.
I noticed that in the k-dramas. Everyone has to be perfect. All the time.
@@sallyjune4109 True!!
Japan also has a high suicide rate. A Japanese friend told me that Japanese think they will be ashamed if they fail in their career or do not achieve much. I think this might be a big problem for Korea too. You have to be among the people to know how they feel, not just read books and talk like that foreign expert.
Well, I live in a cave and am happy as ever... Keep your ultra modern unhappy world.lol
@@sallyjune4109 K drama is corporate marketing strategy to sell high value laxuary goods to people. One who aware will know. Our modern education don't teach kids to raise their awareness rather make them information filled Zombies.
This happens in my country Japan too 😢
Take care of yourself yuto-kun.. problems can be solve.
this breaks my heart.
Sad to hear this
To say the least, there are so many factors that are somewhat related to each other and contributing to high number of suicides as well as low birth rates in South Korea. The country is a victim of both the turbulent political history and very rapid industrialization after WW2 + Korean War ended decades ago. You have a whole population suffering from generational trauma and subsequently huge mental stress from having to conform to traditional values that have existed for centuries and post-war societal expectations. It's also no wonder why so many South Koreans are considering migrating to and residing in other countries to escape the intense pressure of living in their own country, even if that also mean some South Korean men will find ways to cheat and escape from doing mandatory military service while they are living overseas.
This is incredibly sad. The 21st Century has forged a world of isolation and depression, unfortunately. I wish anyone who sees this with a happy, health and meaningful future because you are important and you matter to this world.
Blind copying of western lifestyles and industrialization are the main reasons.
A couple of days ago I saw a documentary related to this problem in Japan. Even in that country they have the same issue, a lot people in order to escape stress and social pressure go away, they are called '' the evaporated'' because all of the sudden they disappear without explanation and it's forever. They rather live in the absolute anonymity than dealing with the Japan society. Their families look for them all around the country sometimes for years until they give up because they are exahusted and they lose hope. There are even agencies which work for those ''evaporated'' and they do all they can in order for them not to be found.
Japan is horrible to live in with all pressures & young women living homeless in internet cafes supporting themselves as freelance workers. & that problem actually exists in the US too! Americans disappearing & don`t want to be found.
Regardless of one's personal stance on end-of-life decisions, promoting open conversations, access to palliative care, and providing support for individuals facing serious illness or the end of life are important in delivering compassionate care. These discussions should always prioritize the well-being and respect the autonomy of those involved, while considering the legal and moral frameworks in place.
Strange that a society which does not value its people when they are alive mournes them so much when they are dead.
You raise an interesting point. It is indeed a paradoxical situation when a society places significant emphasis on success and achievement during individuals' lives, but fails to prioritize their well-being and support them adequately. Unfortunately, this phenomenon is not unique to any specific society and can be observed in various cultures worldwide.
@@PoisonelleMisty4311 Your acknowledgment of the paradoxical nature of societies, which often prioritize success and achievement over the well-being of individuals, is thought-provoking. It's disheartening to witness a situation where the value placed on individuals during their lives may not align with the support and care provided. This disconnect highlights the need for a more holistic approach to societal values-one that recognizes the intrinsic worth of every person beyond external measures of success. Initiatives that emphasize mental health, community support, and overall well-being could contribute to closing this gap and fostering a more compassionate society.
@@MixMastaCopyCat Thank you for your insightful comment. I completely agree that the disconnect between societal values and the support provided to individuals is disheartening. It is crucial for societies to prioritize the well-being of individuals over societal expectations of success and achievement. A holistic approach to societal values that recognizes the intrinsic worth of every person is indeed needed. By promoting mental health initiatives, we can create an environment where individuals feel supported and encouraged to seek help when needed. Additionally, community support plays a vital role in fostering a compassionate society. When communities come together to provide support and care for one another, individuals feel a sense of belonging and connection that goes beyond external measures of success. Overall well-being should be a priority for society, and this can be achieved by placing importance on factors such as work-life balance, access to healthcare, and quality education. By shifting the focus from solely achievement to the overall well-being of individuals, we can create a society that values and supports each person's journey and experiences. It is through these initiatives and a shift in societal values that we can bridge the gap between the importance placed on individuals and the care provided. By fostering a more compassionate and holistic society, we can strive for a world where the well-being of individuals is at the forefront.
(sorry guys I'm playing along with the chatGPT meme)
Life is very simple but there is no limit to human madness. I never understood the point of aggressive competition
I really like ur documentaries so much scmp thanks for sharing i didnt know this was a thing 😢❤🎉
Feeling you don’t belong with no significant purpose brings on thoughts of death to escape these miserable emotions. However, seeing others in similar or worse situations and spending time with them helps to stop suicide as you don’t feel so different from others. This is where family and community activities with non-judgmental people can make a huge impact on mental health. Sadly, these are often few and far between nowadays.
watched a lot of kdramas and no I dont believe everything I saw but you can see a glimpse of their culture, like perfectionist, always worried what other people will think 😢
All because of Stress 😭😭
Both North and South Korea are hard to live in.
This is truly shocking how a lot of people in south Korea are taking their lives because of parents forcing their children to excel in schools and don't get me started in the kpop industry either I've had an 67 year old neighbor from south Korea tell me the horrors of watching their family commit suicide I'm literally shocked and horrified and yet feeling sad for my neighbor who lost their family to suicide a lot of these older and younger people are killing themselves because of depression and other stuff they are seriously going through I'd never thought I'd say this but this is sad and heartbreaking to see south Korea go down like this i seriously hope something happens soon to prevent these suicide rates
I understand your shock and concern about the high rates of suicide in South Korea. It is heartbreaking to hear about the numerous cases, and the impact it has on families and communities is profound. The pressure to excel in academics and societal expectations can contribute to the immense stress and mental health challenges faced by individuals, particularly students. The intense competition and demanding educational system often place a significant burden on young people, which can lead to feelings of despair and hopelessness. In addition, the entertainment industry, including the K-pop industry, has its own set of challenges and pressures. The standards and scrutiny placed on artists can take a toll on their mental health. It is essential for South Korea, as well as other countries facing similar issues, to prioritize mental health support services and raise awareness about the importance of seeking help. Implementing policies that address the root causes and provide adequate resources for mental health care and support can make a significant difference. Collective efforts from families, communities, educational institutions, and the government are crucial in creating a supportive environment and reducing the stigma surrounding mental health. Open and honest conversations, as well as campaigns promoting mental health awareness, can help destigmatize seeking help and encourage individuals to reach out. It's important to remember that change takes time, but by working together, we can strive towards a society that prioritizes mental well-being and supports those who are struggling.
blessings to the sad and lost. light to s. korea
Statistics show they are more obsessed on looks and skin color rather than reality and what really matters.