The Price Of Winning & Why It's Worth It: Truth About Kobe Bryant & Michael Jordan | Tim Grover
As you reflect on your business, career, and personal life; where are you winning, and where have you been losing lately? Whether you choose to see the pursuit of success and greatness as a game or not, the reality is there is a cost to play. In this episode, I’m joined by the legendary and iconic trainer, Tim Grover. He authored one of my favorite books, Relentless, and is releasing another book that will change your life called, Winning. He redefines winning in a way that embraces the discomfort of sitting with your losses. If you’re in it to win it, the hard truths Tim drops here about embracing the dark side and making sure your mind is stronger than your feelings will leave you supercharged and ready to attack winning with a new perspective.
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SHOW NOTES:
Winning | Tim dispels what winning is and why you need to know how to lose to win [2:09]
Seeing Inside | Tim on looking internally for the truth stopping your wins [6:07]
Winning Flaws | Tim reveals the difference between flaws and weaknesses [7:27]
Weakness | Tim on how to leverage and identify your weaknesses to get better [10:38]
The Process | Time on why the process is not about emotion, it’s about getting it done [14:41]
Pursue the Win | Tim on why not pursuing or seeing the wins every day is an illness [19:49]
Confidence | Tim breaks down how winning plays a role in increasing confidence [23:43]
Dark Side | Tim explains how using every tool available includes using the dark side [30:54]
Fear of Success | Tim on what happens when your feelings are stronger than your mind [42:02]
Cost of Great | Tim reveals the pain that playing to win can cost you and loved ones [45:45]
Becoming Great | Tim’s tips for finding your own path to winning and trusting yourself [51:45]
QUOTES:
Winning is not about the trophy and the accolades. It's about the grind. It's about the obstacles. It's about the challenges. It's about the pain that you endure along the way. “ [2:10]
“Everybody wants to win, but in order to know how to win, you got to know how to lose because you're going to lose more than you're going to win.” [3:40]
“Your flaws are your gift and people are so busy trying to deal with their flaws and change their flaws when their flaws are actually what allows them to stay in that race.” [7:46]
“These are the things that allow me to be different. It's what allows me to be unique because winning wants you to be different.” [9:22]
“You got to love the process. I agree with that, but I also kind of disagree with that because to me, you have to do the process. The process is non-negotiable.” [14:46]
“The process is a non-negotiable thing. The end result is not always there. That win isn't always there” [15:42]
“...if a new day starts in the dark, why are you afraid to use your dark side for your new beginnings?” [33:26]
“Your mind will make a decision. [....] Your feelings always make suggestions.” [44:39]
“You have too many individuals out there that are not writing their own story. They're letting other people write those stories for them.” [50:30]
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What area of your life are you trying to be the Kobe Bryant or the Michael Jordan of? What are you going to take from Tim Grover's insights to make that happen?
Every area. Specifically my personal discipline with money, diet, and also my performance at the job.
Process
When you said "If someone attacked someone you love, are you going to tap into the light or dark energy?" And yall went into the benefits of controlled rage 💎💎 first instinct in most of us is to go into the dark side and attack back.
His encouraging speech only concerns with people who belong to some kind of sport profession which requires winning strategies which he explained intelligently. Thanks for bringing him on your show... Yet, i would request you to help us with someone who could praise ideas related to strategies for common man related to their conducting of daily lives...Every common man is not in the race of winning.
Well for most of us, education is the arena of battle. As a student what is the mindset I must acquire to learn to the best of my abilities and retain the information for a long time? Unfortunately I am able to find only a few guidelines in the show which I am able to apply in the educational sphere of my life. Could you help me? Thank you
“Confidence is the ultimate drug...and Winning is the dealer. “ Love it!
LOVE IT
"Winning requires you to be different." "The process is nonnegotiable. "
Tim Grover's book-Relentless is not for the faint of hearts. No bullshitting. It gave me a glimpse into the minds of legends like Michael Jordan, Late Kobe Bryant, Dwyane Wade. Thanks for inviting him Tom.
What’s the best advice u got from the book?
@@MindNow "There'll never be another Michael Jordan, and Kobe and Dwayne will be the first to tell you that".. it reminded me to be yourself while developing a relentless mentality, not to be like someone else
@@yeawhatever3622 very well said. When I was younger I always wanted to be like someone else and as a result, I actually injured my vocal cords...It's a lesson, but now I fully embrace who I am
They r not legends. They are 'Icons' " - Tim Grover
Feels like this is a cut & paste from an Amazon review on his book 🤨
*Growth and change is painful, but nothing is painful as being stuck where you don't belong.* Love from a small youtuber 🖤
Keep going with your channel bro. Subscribed 💪🏼
You have a good channel! Saved some of your vids for Watch Later!
🙌🏾
_“All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them.”_ ~ Walt Disney
“I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life and that is why I succeed.” - Michael Jordan
Winning is seeing the little improvements each and every day when you put in the work to get to greatness
Thank you
Love the heart of this man
“The process is non-negotiable.”
100%
That’s what it’s about! Forget about the massive goal. Just focus on the little goals in between. It builds confidence and you get stronger 💪🏾
"A new day begins at midnight."
Any new day begins with the darkness
Don't think I've clicked a video faster than this. Knowing the work MJ and Kobe put in, there's bound to be some incredible insight here
Exactly my thought. Hope you get what you need.
@@Zill10 thanks, you too!
Same for me
Tom, all your videos are mental nourishment... listened to you for 5 years now. Keep it going!
Mental nourishment - love that!
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As much as a boss as he is, he is not afraid of being emotional or getting choked up. It’s because he puts his heart and soul into everything he does. That’s a winner.
IT'S THE PASSION THAT'S DEEP INSIDE OF HIM.
@@vitaliscalixtrato 💯
TO PRODUCE GREATNESS, YOU NEED PASSIONATE PEOPLE & THEY FIT UNDER THE CSTEGORY OF CLEANERS.
My husband worked for his family and he is a very nice guy, very simple, seemed very down to earth.
I love “ you don’t have to love the process, you have to do it”
The process is neutral. It's non-negotiable. It just has to be done. 🔥
Absolutely We give way too much importance to our feelings Once we decide what to do, we must stick by it no matter what
I have never shed tears listening to any podcast this episode put an end to that streak (Tim Grover blew me away)
“Leaders can let you fail and yet not let you be a failure.” Have a good day everyone
Min @33:20 - mind blowing!!! “The new day starts at midnight, when it’s dark”
20:00 To his point I totally agree. When others would tell me I was too militant or too serious about how I believed I should go about my life, I stayed in a depression that was difficult to get out of, not realizing I had internalized those words and I allowed them to make me weak. What was "militant" was discipline and what was "too serious" was focus.
Did it strike anyone how calm Tim spoke. This is a man that coached, trianed, conditioned and lead men to their greatness... his patient and calm manner of speaking really stood out. So many takes form this. As usual @tombilyeu excellent content.
calm indeed. gotta say i would not i'd want to piss him off tho.
Great observation Vanisia
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The more challenges you overcome the better you get at it. It is like progressive overload in lifting weights. The same pattern applies everywhere!
Very well said brotherhood! 🙏❤️
Tom, I’ve seen dozens and dozens of your interviews and there are ones that are simply majestic but this one is a piece of art. Totally opened and change my view on winning Thank you
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3:30 made me cry. “ the reason I know so much about winning is because I’ve had to deal with so much loosing”. Mistakes, past regrets all of that can just be used to learn important lessons that make you different. WOW ❤️🙏🏽✨
nothing have that loss-burn seared into your psyche. brings about a good strong "oh hell fucking no" that sticks with you for life. where you'll never dork about on that again.
@@Numantino312 YES !!!
This guy is a legend. Always great to hear from the people behind the top performers in the world
Tim G; The reason I know how to win is coz I have lost a lot. People say when u have lost, u have to jump right back in. I disagree. Stay down there for a minute, an hour, a day, a week. When I stood up, I was different, I was smarter. The unforgiving part of winning is the losing.
Never forget that anything is possible. We live in an infinite Universe with limitless possibilities ✨🕊
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And i believe it's possible to date a girl like you 😏👍
@@thalessilva1 stop.
Discipline and Dedication are the Foundation, the Soil and Framework of Success
This guy is the mirror of greatness.
So in love with this interview. It reminds me David Goggin's process. Thank you Tom🙏
Tell me more about David Goggin's process...please..
Tim G; when does a new day begin? At midnight. Is it dark or light? Dark. So if a new day starts in the dark, why are u afraid to use your dark side for your new beginnings. Tom; wow!
Tim Grover opened my eyes to many things in 'Relentless' and 'Winning'. He is my go-to guy for a motivation mindset.
winning is a language that only people with growth mindset can understand. humble or be humbled by life.
I was lucky enough to meet Coach Grover in 2015 at an intimate conference in Atlanta. One of the greatest mindset coaches in the world. No bullshit, just real talk kind of a guy.
Iam just reading relentless now.... It's so breath taking
The way he explains and puts things into his own words resonates with me in so many ways.
OMG!! First Ed, now Tom!!! Thank you for bringing Tim back!!! He's beyond the beast!!
Winning is everything. Nothing encapsulates Kobe and Tim more than that. Unreal amounts of value from this interview!
46:15. Man... What an incredible shift in the interview. The silence in the room is almost cinematic.
Yeah, it was a wonderful moment in the interview. Very touching !
Winning is having justice, being in a state of abundance. Winning validates having success.
I’ve listened to his book Relentless several times after being introduced to him here, it pumps me up and focuses me… but this interview really resonates with me… taking the emotion out of the process is where I’ve learned to live, it’s harder, but it’s made me harder. I really appreciate this one. It’s the depth, not the muscle or the grind.
Relentless is one of my favorite books ! He is the baddest of badasses !
This guy has an extremely off the charts IQ on winning and being a champion.. I see its not a coincidence his clients have so many championships. They simply understand the nature on a level that most people don't. 🏆
This Episode is one of the best i have ever watched. Thank you Tom 🙏🏽💯
"If I eat less, would you stay at home more?" Crazy quote, that quote is where the path really splits on how bad do you want it.
To me it comes down to values. What do you value more.. I would always choose my child over personal gains. Maybe that's a flaw, good I don't have children so won't find out xD
"If I eat less will you be home more" goddamn that hurt geez .____.
I cried like a baby when he said that
@@qmakesithappen yes but pattrick from vaulentainment said the same story .. So who is lying?
@@igorivanovic4784 that's a good question, I'm not sure but people quote others often. What interview did Pat say that? Regardless who said it it pulled my heartstrings.
@@igorivanovic4784 I thought the same thing at first to but Pat actually quoted his book
Dear Tom, I am deeply grateful for this presentation on the 77th Anniversary of D-Day. I was deeply challenged and in fear as I prayed for help this morning. My prayers have been answered with the instructions and insights I will take from your interview. God Bless your Impact Theory Team and You from the West of Ireland. Dermot JM
16 min gems over and over dropping
From every little win comes a little more confidence! The feeling is incredible. If humans can understand what a “win” looks like we could definitely understand the “illness” as well. Thank you Tom for inviting Tim Grover. We need more conversations like this. 💯
"Why are you afraid to use your dark sides for your new beginnings?" => Mic drop moment.
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42:12 That's the definition of: "Pay'in the prize" It's not literally a prize, it's much more than that I know how it feels But if u >REALLY< want that thing u pursue, it's part of the game Don't wait to be ready for that, u never be Can't priorize everything JUMP to the next LVL...
This was more than just the interview. To me this was the therapeutic interview I needed to watch. Thank you guys.
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Thank you Tom, for providing such a great guest.. with so much knowledge and insight. So much to take away... Stay Golden
Excellent stuff! Thank you. There's a proverb 13:12 which says: Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but desire fulfilled is a tree of life.
Grover is the “If Michael Jordan and Kobe Bryant had a baby” of trainers. True greatness and inspirational!
Andy frisella recommended relentless as must read book. That's how I found this interview. Tim is legend. So much respect for the guy
"Winning is everything"
He is a LEGEND!
Thank you Tom, you are litteraly THE best. I CAN'T get enough of your shared perspectives.
Thank you thank you thank you, Tom for this upload. What you do is life changing for many. Thank you. ✊🏾
I’m slowing but surely learning the important lessons from Tim Grover’s teachings of winning. A inside preview of the mindset I need to have in order to achieve long term success and greatness in my life!
Money doesn't go to people who need it. It goes to people who can multiply it :-)
quote i heard not too long ago "money goes where it's treated best"
This has been the most inspiring talk I have seen in a very long time. It's just what I needed to hear. I had literally forgotten how much I like to win because it's been a while. The inner 🔥 is stoked and I know who I need to be and what I need to do. Thank you 🙏
I just finished watching this interview and I immediately wanted to rewatch it!❤️ So many gems!
Wow. WOW. WOW. The travel story with his daughter. Wow- such vulnerability, bravery and personal leadership- just Wow
Tim Grover keeps blowing my mind, i am out of words
Phenomenally loaded discussion. Thank you Mr. Grover for the transformational vulnerability you displayed, sir.💯
this is the most powerful interview EVER made. unreal. best. hands down.
i don't know why this episode has so much low viewer.... Tim is Thee GOAT
Tom, this is by far the best interview you have done! Incredible!!❤
There's always a FEAR but you never have any DOUBT to get the result you want! POWERFUL So much wisdom words, as always, Tom, an hour of your show is always filled with great nuggets. My KZhead channel only has 6 zeros less than yours, but I'll take this SECRET: I will NOT QUIT!
wowzer, the story he shared about his daughter. thanks for sharing this tom!
putting in the work and to see yielding the results of all your efforts hits dopamine...and goes on
Thank you so much Tom, you’re the best . Wonderful interview 🙏!!
POWERFUL!!! Thank you and Mr. Grover.
What a man! Never heard of this dude before. That part when he talked about his daughter about missing him must have provided the storyline in Adam Sandlers film I watched just last night "Hustle". Love from South London all. Let's all be legendary 🙌
Fantastic Episode, this is the best SHOW in the world. Thank you for doing this Tom, one day we'll meet and I'll tell you this myself
Thanks Tom! Great episode. Winning takes doing the things others won't. That's great!
Thx Tom.! Read his books, love him and how he speaks of his father! Tim is an icon. If I feel sick or sore, I read Tim's quotes and I'm ready to go!!
"My ending of a fairy tale is different than somebody else's. It's my story." 🔥🔥🔥
Thanks for this. RIP Kobe.
I was looking forward to this episode been dreaming about it been following Tim Grover for a while one of the best human beings on this earth thank you so much for your amazing work looking forward to David goggins second book keep up the amazing work the world's a better place because of you both Tom and tim grover.😁👍🏽🙏🏽💪🏾💯
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I am so intrigued by this interview! It is causing me to rethink what it means to be a nice person…a good person…how I have been limiting myself by not allowing myself to operate in “controlled rage”. I’m going to take a good look in the mirror. Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤
I love it! "some ppl feelings are stronger then their mind" so true its scary
Great interview. I've read both Relentless and Winning plus I'm a huge fan of both MJ and Kobe due to their work ethics. I've always loved the "take no s$#%" approach to success! What Tim said about sitting in your failure was so on point💯 as well
This conversation is GOLD!
Thank you so much for this !! Amazing interview!
New Shirt - You just gave me the chills
I believe that nothing in life can stop you, until and unless you empower other things to stop you. e.g. We empower this pain to hurt us more and more.
This is one of "Thee" best impact theory episodes have ever had a privilege to listen to, loads and lot 9f gems and Nuggets, thanks @Tom and ma main and favorite man @Tim God bless... 🙏
Love your book so much Mr. Grover! THANK YOU!
I am being Inlightened about Winning in fact to me Winning is the day to day process toward your Goal.
This is great. One of my favorites. Thanks to both of you .
Powerful podcast! Thank you!!! God bless!!
Some really great insights in this interview! I can really relate to many of the concepts and the importance of meaning and purpose and this has been my experience as well. Looking forward to reading Tim Grover's book. Love the material shared so far. Thank you both as well as your teams for putting this content together. Very grateful for it.
Amazing interview..thank you Tom as always for such insightful questions
wow just WOW! Thank you Tim and Tom, this was amazing!
Tim is so dramatic, love it 👊🏼♥️😁 true legend
Wow he is the master of the master.....thank you so much for sharing.......love and peace!!
I like this guy. This is how i act with all of my relationships