Robert Greene: How To Seduce Anyone, Build Confidence & Become Powerful
Robert Greene is the best-selling author of 7 books. In this enlightening conversation Robert discusses his life’s work, from the rules of power and seduction, to mastery and human nature. Robert explores how we can use the lessons of history to succeed in all areas of life.
Topics:
00:00 Intro
02:14 Your book & its international success
11:44 What is power?
22:18 Learn how to use your enemies
24:53 Conceal your intentions & be a strategist
33:42 Is it being a narcissist good or bad?
42:10 The power of seduction
45:24 What makes you anti-seductive?
51:18 Best dating advice for single people
01:02:48 Your body language betrays you
01:11:26 Learn the art of mastery
01:26:16 Ads
01:27:17 A stroke changed my life
01:34:23 My struggles and how to overcome them
01:39:14 What have you learnt about happiness?
01:48:02 Last guest’s question
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Thanks for a beautiful piece of podcast, love Robert specially when he is addressing big audience in a conference!
Dont measure your success just be proud of all that u accomplish
i know how getting bad advice from ppl with good intentions , ppl that love u have a habit in putting their limitations on u but i think to myself who in this world do u really have to live up to or what you suppose to be its like most ppl feel like they have to pray to some social god lol
I wrote my novel at 61, a screenplay at 71. Nothing I did before that was wasted. Now at 72, I am reinventing myself again. It’s never too late.
That’s because the choices were yours. They weren’t forced on you. Everything was organic. The people who interacted with you weren’t pretending but being themselves. You cut off people you didn’t like and no one bat an eye. You talked to people who you liked back and both of you reciprocated. You met people you liked and had genuine long lasting friendships, who were there for you, never too busy to see you and supported you. People let you LIVE and flourish, while they lived and flourished themselves. You were surrounded by WHOLE and lovely people. Not broken, traumatised and flawed people, who never attain happiness, fail to find happiness, ruin every second of every day, know how to put you off in seconds and can’t see you happy or successful. You were safe from traumatised, cynical, pessimistic and broken people. Surrounded by WHOLE and lovely people. Of course, that will make you happy.
According to research, one of the factors that makes people happy is to be able to control most aspects of their lives.
agree
Narcissism
NO YOU are wrong 🤔 The TOP people in Business today are not HAPPY(THE DARK SIDE IN THE WEE SMALL HOURS 4am) 🏴🤪
As a control freak, I 100% agree. I sometimes let complete go and just go with the natural flow though. But there has to be some balance. You need to control yourself and your own environment and let go of external environments that you can't control.
@@True38 great way to think about it learning to leave your metaphorical hand open at certain times and other times clench and steer yourself into situations that make sense long term
With the way he speaks and words he chooses, you can tell he's been dragged through the sewers of life. Every time he opens his mouth is a wealth of knowledge
Ikr? He really shows success coming from pain and suffering. I believe he almost loses his life at the brink of reaching his goal.
I agree
So well said 👍
more like a wealth of psychopathic manure
Lol the sewers of life? An LA Jewish kid who went to Berkeley and then traveled Europe working odd jobs and writing poetry (probably heavily subsidized by his parents) until he came home to get a job at esquire and then Hollywood? Until hitting it big on bombastic self help books black dudes like to read in prison. Those are some nice sewers
Mom: You need to get your shit together. Me: I’m fine mom! Robert Greene: You need to get your shit together. Me: Yes Sensei.
This is accurate
Right!!!
Some people bring out move
there is something to be said for which person one hears something from
@@chesterullrich2525 i love if we
Anyone else on a binge of Robert lol what a legend
As a quiet person he is incredibly inspiring to me
He looks and sounds better than last year. He is healing himself. Amazing
Ya, I totally agree. It makes me happy to see him look so well
What was wrong with him?
Amazing! What a great man, he is like one of those historical figures he is writing about.
He had a strock
@@bambinoruth348 he had a stroke
Robert Green is a realist. There are few realists in the world. I admire his courage and personal conviction.
Not quite ‘the realist’, if i may. Sounding a pragmatist with an inner drive or force to break away fm the general mode.
That glass table is working overtime.
Lol true
Astute observation. More interesting is the fact that you made at least 50 people scroll up and look at Robert Greens table.
@@GeorgeDrippyyeah okay
When you self- validate you realize you are okay exactly the way you are. It's radical.
Agree. There is a lot of psychology in the interview
I am so glad I found this interview with Robert. I am a 77 years young serial entrepreneur with THREE reinventions of myself - radio/TV investigative reporter for Post Newsweek TV Group; public relations consultant to the Original Marlboro Man and other celebs; 23 years writing about in eight books and teaching preparedness and survival skills and now pursuing interior design for my Raptor Domes™.
Hey YOU, incredible person reading this...The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! - Love, Nat ❤️
I love you
Same to you lovely lady ❤
Wow, i need this today. Love you, Nat! I wish the same for you❣️
Thank you
What u write here is gibberish. It means u are not actually where u are and stop spreading nonsense
Robert Greene never disappoints! His lucid style of talking! Beautiful!
thanks
Perfectly said.
completely agree, I could listen to him all day. I only wish the interviewer would have spoken less here
@@deborahjackwl5631 omg i was thinking the sameee!
@@deborahjackwl5631 Must be an American thing, where hosts constantly interrupt and talk too much. The interviewer kept comparing his experiences etc. and that's not why we're here. I like Diary of a CEO where the British guy asks brief questions to move it along then sits back and lets the guest talk.
Being an introvert is NOT equal to social anxiety/self esteem. They are two different things but can present the same. It time people stop grouping the traits from either as one.
But remember from a technical standpoint extraversion is associated with positive mood and assertiveness so the lack of it I.e introversion , is often associated with lack of assertiveness and at least a perceived lack of amiability
Interesting
Yep, while there is correlation with shyness (for obvious reasons: less social experience and, thus, less social skills) a.k.a. neurosis, they are different things.
@@davyroger3773 I'm an introvert and assertive as hell. Too assertive actually as I tend to scare people away. This society has become so soft and fragile, in order to get a job these days, do the least amount of work and the worst job getting it... If you're highly ambitious like me, screw everyone else and just start your own business. At least that way you can maintain a high-quality standard and you don't need to be worried about living up to others' expectations. Because I can literally just stand completely still and still leave up to most of them.
@@True38 what does assertive exactly mean? Speak your mind no matter what?
I’ve followed every interview he’s done. He looks so handsome and healthy, and I can only imagine him being so stubborn to get stronger and stronger every day. What an inspiration. Absolutely my hero.
100% Agreed!!!
Was he sick with something?
@@wicomms stroke
@@domo_willson ohh nooo
Would you hook up with him?
It's very interesting and somewhat comforting, that someone as successful as Robert had such a hard time in his early career, met a lot of horrible bosses, but made it in spite of that. As a young guy trying to find his future career, and that had similar encounters, that really puts you down.
Good luck with the career myth.
It's because he experienced these problems that he was able to identify then solve these obstacles.
Anthony Bourdain had a similar life
What I loved about this interview is Robert seems so humble. Although a genuis in his own craft, it’s refreshing to hear that he can put his ego aside and lean/trust his woman for advice on his work. I love men like this.
I bought that book 48 Laws of Power 25 years ago and it made such a difference in my life. It taught me what it means to have power, how those with power can loose it, and who has had the power throughout history and how it shapes our lives today.Thank you 🙏
Totally agree!
Maybe one day the power to spell Lose. Jp. Agreed
@@oculusprime536 grammar police here 🚨
@@oculusprime536 Perhaps, Champloo, TrevorthetherapisT was, consciously or subconsciously, using the power to make people (aka you) come to him by making a spelling error. And here I am, too, in the thrall of both of you.
Which one? He has several books.
As a young man trying to become wealthy, successful and powerful. This has really taught me the importance of patience, perseverance and staying grounded in present reality. Thank you.
thanks Kane
The fact that Robert Greene said get rich or die trying after collaborating with 50 just made this the greatest interview on earth
thanks Nate
The most natural interview i have ever seen like 2 friends to be fair
The quote from DaVinci that he forgot: "Just as a well filled day brings blessed sleep, so a well employed life brings blessed death."
39 he began his journey! Reminds me of JK Rowling!! It’s never too late!!’
RG is a legend
I'm 31 and I tell myself exactly that. There may be someone who thinks the same and she is 29 or 26. It's funny we got to let go of the age thing. Focus on what interests you.
I’m turning 39 in February… I feel like I’m alittle out of control bc I’m trying to micro manage and not focus on my purpose, marriage and child. I know it’s never to late to start things going..
Really... Wow gives me hope
I'm 45 and just starting my new life and new career. Why is age an issue?
Great interview as a 35 year old man, I can start to feel that mentality, Im not in the worst place, but I feel I need that step up, and also to hear the true self. Very inspiring, thank you.
Thank you sir, anytime I see a long content video about Robert Greene I always gain tremendous insight. Not only about human nature but about myself.
Great talk. Such powerful points. One of the best interviews you have done. Keep it going.
I’m reading the Laws of Human Nature and his writing style is so effortless and easy to understand and interpret. I like listening to him talk too
thanks for watching Julia!
I had the pleasure of interviewing Robert for my podcast. Such a pleasant guy. So polite and humble.
This interview didn’t feel like 52:15 minutes. Felt shorter because of how valuable and enlightening this interview was with Robert Green. Thank you for giving this man an outlet
I am enamored by Greene and his ideas. Excellent interview! The interviewer didn’t waste a question or any time!
This is speaking directly to my soul as a writer. Thank you Mr. Greene, thank you Behind the Brand.
What a fantastic and encouraging talk. I am a woman in my forties that has changed careers several times, I've lived in several countries and most definitely haven't walked the traditional path. I get so disheartened sometimes as in the eyes of our society I'm a 'failure' but what if bigger things are meant for me? What if I have an entrepreneurial brain rather than the inability to commit? I know a lot of this was geared towards young people making life choices but this really resonated with me. Thank you for a renewed sense of enthusiasm.
I can't believe anyone would view being able to survive in several different countries and being able to start several carriers a failure. From what I can gather from your short comment, I think you're doing amazing! 😅
@@francookie9353 oh that's so lovely of you to say. Thank you X
@@m.e.l9482 I'm almost thirty and my life is going ✨nowhere✨ - I have hope I'll figure something out.
@@francookie9353 30 can be a difficult age, I remember feeling like I hadn't achieved anything and I was running so behind in life. Actually I'd done so much by that age, I just didn't acknowledge it. Perhaps write a list of all your achievements and that doesn't need to be awards and accolades necessarily but even overcoming a fear you may have had or having a difficult conversation with someone that went well, sticking out a job or even leaving a job etc. Once you've written them all down, you start to see things differently. Really hope that's useful. I'm sure you've got lots going for you and if you don't have much to write down, maybe think of some things you would like to do in the next few years, wishing you all the best 💖
Your never a failure-sometimes the plans dont go ahead as a person wishes-the most important project you work on is yourself.Good on you for being positive and its your life and your responsible to make yourself happy and content-its your life and your story.
Thank you a lot Mr Greene for all your work. I have just completed reading the law of nature book, i am re- reading the 48 laws of power , and mastery. I am becoming reacher and better with these materials. Thanks a lot for making your work easily accessible. May you be spared longevity for more materials to come out of your life
Yoh have no idea Robert how much difference you have created in my life. I will always be indebted to you for the wisdom you have shared through your books.
Such an inspiration. I have been listening to all his interviews. Love love this man! " One day"! I'm gonna write my own book as well. Thank you!
For a couple years now, whenever I’m in a crisis in my life, somehow my path crosses Robert Greene’s books and talks. And now I’m at a point in my life that I understand his points about power with every fibre of my existence and it gives me a strong assurance that what I’ve learnt are very aligned with his lessons and also, the confidence and the hope that I can change my life for the better. He’s talking and it feels as if I’m talking, with the difference that I’m still have a long way to go to get out of the woods to some extent. This was such an honest interview. Awesome work, both of you.
Been that way since 2016 , same !
This is, to me, the most special interview I've ever seen on KZhead, and I discovered it on the exact day I was think about myself and my interpersonal struggles I feel. Perfect example of synchronistic experience. Thank you.
thank you Fredrick
Agreed. My wife shared this video with me. I love writing but I was on the verge of giving up because I saw no results. Then I heard Robert say he knew he was a writer aind needed to find what kind of writing he was good at. That statement resonated with me. I reworked a humorous story from our marriage I had previously written and submitted it to a podcast looking for guests. The host contacted me and asked us to be her guests. I am finding my niche! BTW...You were an awesome interviwer who asked the right questions to get answers persons like me needed to hear.
same bro
Omg I swear today I was writing and questioning my reality and life and then I descovered this amazing human being and the weird and beautiful part is that he answers to the exact same things I was contemplating about … magical
agreed
48 laws of power is so important for everyone to read once and when you feel abit of a dip in life and you are looking for an answer again re read it or parts you need from it, you may find that something you were missing or failing to understand in how to play your next move and to make it one of your best
Oh boy is that the truth about ENVY being the biggest danger…. You don’t see it until it’s too late …… ENVY…. made my life a total misery… but at the time I didn’t know and was not aware that was the reason why I was being persecuted… I was oblivious.. …I am soo grateful to Robert Greene ..and his books… also for these videos they are very much appreciated Thank you 🙏 💛🌻🏴🇦🇺
Thanks so much , very enlightening
Excellent interview I really enjoyed how this was a little different to what I’ve seen before.
Thank you! I really enjoy the full-length interviews on your channel.
a 50 Cent collab book to end this whole video is CRAZY
9:24 I like the story of the clueless editor, just goes to show you. As the saying goes: "No" doesn"t mean you can't. It just means you can't with that person.
Amen to that
Robert Greene's perspective is gold ✨ I want to hear more from him! 💛
I like that your way of interviewing has provided a chance to hear Robert's words in a sort of spontaneous chat. I could clearly hear what he had to say about different things- which is incredibly helpful.
The mindset that you're on the right station, you're just dialing in the frequency is perfect! That's a really helpful way to look at finding your Life's task!
I can just listen Robert Greene speaking and never get bored! Amazed by the wisdom, charisma and power in a kind way he exudes.
I love Robert Greene’s books I am obsessed with this man, he’s so down to earth and so humble. ❤❤❤
Starting at the fact that the self is transitory, discovering ourselves is an always calibrating and endless journey. Outstanding interview, your interviewing skills are simply amazing!
thanks!
Love how Greene travelled around the world, taking low paying jobs in inspirational cities just to have that inspiration to write books. Crazy good.
Contrived.
I think that's just how it was back in the day before technology Mike
same
@@mikewallis2987 I'm confused why you believe so. There are so many people that do this actually. Travel the world, discover cultures/experiences, and increase networking probability for success. Not made for everyone, but I can see someone like Greene doing this.
@Michael Smith right. So Privileged
Robert Greene the 50 cent story is pure gold. If one is going to "fail" along this path, what better story than that! ROFL!!!
I am so glad that I came across this video. Mesmerised by Robert. The man is Epic 🎉
However, I love listening to him. Super honest and one can truly learn from him.
There are no shortcuts in life indeed. Thank you for this wonderful statement !
hearing those of your setbacks makes me feel im long way up to my life to be depresed about in my own situation right now. this makes me feel so great and motivated.
kind of relating too
I love Robert Greene!
I love Robert Greene!!!
Greene is a mentor of mine, even if he is not personally aware of it 🙏💕✌️
Amazing interview. We need more minds like Robert Greene in this crazy insane fake world we are living in
I agree
the world is fake but Robert is the insane one,by trying to be authentic.
Obviously you haven't read his books 🤣
I agree he is amazing 😍
Deflect envy...my god if l wrote all these books with all that cash no one would get a look in...l would love it.. Don't appear to perfect l am still learning at 64 You can also learn from your haters..
I love Robert's style! I love this room
Beautiful interview. Thanks to all envolved.
Great to see Robert looking well. We need you 🚀🙌🏾
thanks
Such a great interview. I love hearing Robert’s story.
thanks Tim!
A true realist! My mindset always. I adore Robert!!
I'm so amazed at how Robert is so humble and modest even with the amount of fame and popularity he received in the last 20 years, it's so rare these days. I'm sure a lot of people can relate to his life, I know I am relating to it (also had dozens of different jobs while knowing exactly the few things that I am passionate about...but didn't listen to that inner voice of becoming an entrepreneur with those skills and interests). Listening to how he explains things and how we must approach life destroys all the hundreds of "motivational gurus/salesmen" we see online.
Loved this interview. What great perspective.
Went to high school - NCSSM 1989-1991; was likely the dumbest kid in the whole school. It was very tough but I acceptable that I cannot compete in life in certain fields/areas. Since high school, failed many times, rejected many times. Allowed me to rethink what I can be good at and help me develop persistence and the habit of work hard. Now, I am part of a happy family and a "relatively" successful nephrologist.
KZhead recommended this video. I decided to watch it because the title captivated me. I guess we gravitate towards things that we resonate with. I've always felt like my life is a mess; it has no direction. So, yeah. Why not give the vid a shot? In the course of the video, there was a mention of "Nothing goes to waste" which has always been my motto in trying to justify all the seemingly useless stuff that I did in my life. I felt validated. But the truth is, it's only when I look back that then I could connect the dots. Truly nothing is wasted. I think as long as we are moving forward and just striving to do things that matter to us, there will be a reason for it in the future and only then will we realize that the thing we did was not a waste. But, of course, when we know for certain that what we're doing now is not useless, it does help ease the anxiety. But life is full of unknowns. I guess we just have to trust that what we're doing right now is what's meant to be.
Amazing interview with the one and only Robert Greene 👏
What a tremendous success story. I’m surprised he lived over seas for so long! As a lost 22 year old, Robert’s story inspires me to expand on my experience and really ask my self what it is I am good at, and what it is that I can offer.
thanks for watching!
I love Robert Greene's books and his interviews are just as captivating and informative; thank you, great show!!!
This is such a heartfelt, beautiful conversation. Thanks a lot for sharing.
I have been listening to this interview so many times, maybe more than 50 times, now I get It 🥰🥰🥰 I already get What my talent is, just take times to improve it many years
True success = BEing yourself 💯
Thought this was an old upload he’s so healthy I’m glad we collectively can raise RG up.. what are tremendous author of pouring it out for all is to read. 🙌🏼🙌🏼
RG is a legend
I love the story of how Robert's life changed. I've been a fan for a while and have never heard it
Thank you for these great questions
What an amazing interview! I learned so much. Had a false judgement of Robert Greene before even reading his books or watching his interviews. You are an incredible interviewer!
What was ur judgement?
I know I’m not the typical reader of Roberts work, but I have so enjoyed his perspectives on life, power, and mastery. Great interview!
thanks
this is a great talk! Thank you for sharing this
May Robert greene live long!
Quite enjoyed this interview of one of my favorite authors. Kudos to the intelligent interviewer too. It was a very pleasant and enlightening conversation.
thank you
One of the best writers of all time (modern day and past) and the best interview of him I’ve seen yet; THANK YOU for this great talk.
wow thanks
@@BehindtheBrand Yes, thank you! I love the natural conversational style in Robert’s home.
Robert Greene is great for inspiration and grounding, sensing where you're lacking in your discernment of how your view of the world could be improved.
What is a fantastic conversation! Great watching two masters or champions interact.
Such a great interview. Thank you! The title of this video just doesn't do it justice. Thirty-five thumbs down? Sounds like envy to me.
Great interview. Very inspiring for this moment of my life.
thanks Luis
Am same vintage as Mr Greene. I was introduced to Kafka as a result of studying a foreign language. So not voluntarily but glad I was!
Robert Greene, please write your autobiography with photos and memories of your writing phases it would be amazing!
That would make a great movie 🎥
Robert Greene is still going strong! Still hungry. I love this man🌹
thanks!
That was the best interview ever with Robert, ty!
My favorite philosopher of all time...🤗 author among and outstanding others
So happy Mr. Greene is doing better🙏🏻
thanks Chris!
wow, your personality's really complemented each other, in the sense that you really listened and timed your questions rightfully so as he was speaking about the right topic and Robert greene answered every question with an amazing level of clarity and honesty whilst still managing to be contextual and using science and experimental studies as evidence. I`m embarrassed to have honestly written an entire paragraph but I`m literally so impressed.
Well said :) Yeh- Wish we could all have conversations like this lol
Absolutely. I’m impressed
wow by far the most interesting interview Ive seen of robert greene, great job!!!!
Beautiful interview. The interviewed did an amazing job on pinpointing on specific areas to bring out pertinent information. Lovely work!
This man looks like he’s been through hell and back and has the scars to prove it. A real example of pain becoming power. I salute you.
So true 48 is so powerful
A must-listen interview. Thanks.
Tremendous interview. I appreciate the authentic flow and lack of interruptions.