3 reasons you should never chase women

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There are things that separate boys from men. This is one of them. In this video, Jessica highlights 3 reasons you should never chase women.
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00:00 - Intro
00:43 - 2 reasons why women make you chase them
02:40 - 3 reasons men should not chase
02:51 - Reason 1
03:51 - Reason 2
06:25 - Reason 3

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    @JessicaOS@JessicaOS2 жыл бұрын
    • nice, just seen this, anymore videos on this matter thanks

      @LW-ny7vl@LW-ny7vl2 жыл бұрын
    • I appreciate your concerns on us men best advice so far on the internet

      @fredrickegiebor8990@fredrickegiebor8990 Жыл бұрын
    • right so all I have to do is become rich and successful so worthless gold diggers will come chasing my money (not me)... what kind of advice is that? For both men and women?

      @SA80TAGE@SA80TAGE Жыл бұрын
    • Another one, will, they will keep killing you guys and all you will good for is make Americans great for others and you here, it a sad day on Black Wall Street. Will they try hahah 😂🤣😂

      @augustismynight3457@augustismynight3457 Жыл бұрын
    • I probably need an advice the girl I've been chasing for almost a few days...it's she who confessed to me and started a relationship...(everything was alright)in the middle she just wanna break up for no reason and when I asked her to think again,she said me to wait till she's ready to accept me again,she probably wants me to chase after her...I really don't like this,and the fact that all her feelings just dissolved into thin air... just makes me think like I've been used like a toy/dog and thrown away after she became bored of me... The fact that this is my first love hurts me even more.. I really don't know what to do at this point.

      @akhil_1210@akhil_1210 Жыл бұрын
  • "You lose money chasing women but you never lose women chasing money"

    @Damola247@Damola2472 жыл бұрын
    • Facts my dumbass falls for everytime. I think I can give them something that they never got with all the past relationships. I could of had cash to buy a 200000 house

      @JustinLeon423@JustinLeon4232 жыл бұрын
    • @Damola Adenola Right✊🏾

      @waynesworld90@waynesworld902 жыл бұрын
    • I think I love my wife.

      @MrSnow-dx1pr@MrSnow-dx1pr2 жыл бұрын
    • faaaaax.....the only aphorism u need to know on god

      @elliottsmith7530@elliottsmith75302 жыл бұрын
    • Yes and alot of them are a big waste of money..and most time you chase a woman at times when you finally get them your not as interested anymore she probably done do so many things to make you change your mind

      @karlen5550@karlen55502 жыл бұрын
  • Make her chase you!!! How??? The answer is: Focus on your dreams/goals. This is exactly what I'm doing. No more chasing women! Thank you sister! You're my favorite on this! Love you!

    @dennisokoi8234@dennisokoi82342 жыл бұрын
    • Exactly my brother

      @trapkidvoke6145@trapkidvoke61452 жыл бұрын
    • I was once chasing my girlfriend and I realised I was being stupid”so I move back and she’s now chasing me!! And am also chasing my dreams for now ..

      @ofosuappiahpage1701@ofosuappiahpage17012 жыл бұрын
    • Lol so they what you have become if that’s it so then I’ll will her dawg if she come to Me after 🤣 the fact

      @jasonyoung1608@jasonyoung16082 жыл бұрын
    • Amen to that! She's right.

      @Fn7_ACTUAL@Fn7_ACTUAL2 жыл бұрын
    • And always great advice

      @Fn7_ACTUAL@Fn7_ACTUAL2 жыл бұрын
  • I spent my 20’s chasing relationships. My last relationship were fucked me up. Depressed & not eating. I ended up getting a gig & got back chasing my goals. I’ve been traveling & working ever since. Chase your goals fellas. If y’all aren’t chasing each other then stop. You deserve love & effort too.

    @jordanwest43@jordanwest43 Жыл бұрын
    • I wish you were there in the 70s. You would have been the greatest ❤️! Case closed. It's ok. Before your time. Love you Jessica.

      @jessemartinez2127@jessemartinez212711 ай бұрын
  • We need women that can advice men genuinely like you do now than ever ❤️

    @phillnelsonifeadi3307@phillnelsonifeadi3307 Жыл бұрын
  • I’ve wasted years after chasing and it never hit me until I lost my dreams, I put all my effort into the relationship and all I did was to complete her goal and not mine, hope all men see this and learn, I learn the hard way.

    @calvinthompson2590@calvinthompson25902 жыл бұрын
    • Thank you for this ❤

      @InfluencerKhiz@InfluencerKhiz Жыл бұрын
    • Thank you

      @InfluencerKhiz@InfluencerKhiz Жыл бұрын
    • I had to learn the hard way as well but glady I stop chasing and starting working on my goals

      @Colonfuego@Colonfuego Жыл бұрын
    • Never too late to get back to your goals.

      @kenchino0161@kenchino0161 Жыл бұрын
    • @jade azeem 💪🏽💪🏽

      @Josue-zm9iu@Josue-zm9iu Жыл бұрын
  • As a 19 years old, I really felt like you're my older sister and wanna give me some advice and life lessons. Thanks to KZhead for recommending me this.

    @omartamer1334@omartamer1334 Жыл бұрын
    • How sad for a 19year old to be getting LIFE lessons in KZhead. I pity anyone under 40 years old nowadays. CLEARLY Lost AS WHAT WE SEE HERE.

      @jt.8144@jt.81448 ай бұрын
    • I'm over 50 and still learn from KZhead @@jt.8144. There is definitely a lot of bunk here too but in that mess of bunk, there are nuggets of gold. This lady gives good advice and there is A LOT of good advice on KZhead. It's the world we live in; to draw from others and their experiences but in this generation, it's times 1000. You just have to separate the wheat from the chaff.

      @foodetc.@foodetc.8 ай бұрын
    • @@jt.8144 how is it a bad thing for someone to obtain advice and knowledge from KZhead? Isn't that the whole point of these channels and the internet itself? There are people who don't have a figure in their life to give them guidance or personal experience to help reflect. These types of videos aid so many ppl to feel a little less alone and lost and im grateful for this video Jessica made 💙

      @g-man8023@g-man80235 ай бұрын
  • As a woman a man chasing me, repulses me. It makes me feel like he's desperate. It makes me cringe. Trust a man I want, will never have to chase me, if I'm into man I speak up, or if he pursues me I'll agree. But nothing makes a woman want you more, than a man working on his goals. It let's woman know your mindful about your life, and possibly those in it. It makes a woman feel safe, & secure with you. As much as I love being important to a man I love, but if his dreams, and goals aren't just as important I feel like he's weak, & is a ticking time bomb bcus in return he will be looking for me to satisfy, his lack of care for his goals, he will take until there's nothing left. Bcus he's not giving to himself. In return leaves a woman feeling drained, and him feeling like a failure.

    @shadowgarden6053@shadowgarden6053 Жыл бұрын
  • This is exactly what I needed to hear. Just started dating this year after a 4 year hiatus and it’s been mostly a disappointing experience. I also immediately started slacking in the Gym as soon as I began dating. Going to just focus on myself for a while and keep leveling up my career.

    @dennisbarros8818@dennisbarros8818 Жыл бұрын
  • No dating apps no social media no chasing women. Focusing on myself. Living alone doesn’t make it easy especially when get inside your head feel needy and lonely but just have to push through the mental stuff. One day at a time

    @jimmyfritz8240@jimmyfritz82402 жыл бұрын
    • Dude it’s the same with me. I’m happy being alone and focusing on my stuff but it does get challenging when you see all these couples everywhere you sometimes wonder what am I doing… but it only lasts for a couple of minutes haha then I’m back to liking myself

      @neo5973@neo5973 Жыл бұрын
    • Alone? Its time you guys start dating abroad. Brazil etc, better women in every possible way with significantly less the effort. That loneliness and depression is not healthy for us regardless of what anyone says. We have needs and we just cant get them in this country which is weird as hell.

      @-TheMaskedMan-@-TheMaskedMan- Жыл бұрын
    • Bro you’re not the only one. Focus always on yourself my King. I went tru many sh*** in life with girls I loved, and trust me, you’re doing good. Work, learn always something new, set goals, buy a house, etc.. The right person will come to ya at the right time. I’ve been alone for 8 years and I still am. You play games, go to bar, talk to your friends when you have the time, money is not an issue, life is beautiful, and I most importantly, I don’t focus on these so called beautiful woman from the outside but rotten on the inside. Waiting for you to break, so they can squeeze you in every sense possible. Mostly monetary.

      @brolysmash9333@brolysmash9333 Жыл бұрын
    • @@neo5973 bro facts. I saw this dude having a hard time with his girl, she was being rude and disrespectful. I felt bad for him but at the same time I was like yo I’m happy I’m not living that life. I always say, the right person will come to ya. Just give it time. I rather whack of*** than having a chick that after giving you some pus*** start taking dominance in certain ways.

      @brolysmash9333@brolysmash9333 Жыл бұрын
    • Keep pushing brother. It is all about quality over quantity, it applied for relationships and friendships. I deleted all my social media and freed myself from so much waste of energy and curated alternatives realities.

      @lhcoco94@lhcoco94 Жыл бұрын
  • Never ever have I chased any woman. My dad taught me early on never to go running behind any woman because another one would come along in a few minutes...chasing only makes you look like you're less than someone else's equal and so forth. I've taught my sons the exact same thing! NEVER CHASE ANY WOMAN! PERIOD.

    @otiss3213@otiss32132 жыл бұрын
    • Hmmmm

      @thehistorylab9316@thehistorylab93162 жыл бұрын
    • Never chased!? And you have sons!? Right…🤔🤣🤣

      @frankeydaniels@frankeydaniels2 жыл бұрын
    • @@frankeydaniels Pursuing is different from chasing

      @NK-nh4vo@NK-nh4vo2 жыл бұрын
    • @Water_Mysol I'm still a Student [College]. Not married yet😊

      @thehistorylab9316@thehistorylab93162 жыл бұрын
    • @@NK-nh4vo Hmmm

      @thehistorylab9316@thehistorylab93162 жыл бұрын
  • As a now 50-year-old man who has experienced the results of chasing women and from what I've seen from countless men who have chased women is, even if you hook up with them after the chase the relationship doesn't last long.

    @UnholyByChoice@UnholyByChoice8 ай бұрын
  • Can confirm this. I had a crush on a girl and “chased” her for over a year. It was during highschool. I noticed that I was being rejected and just stopped giving her every sort of attention in just an instant. Summer break was over and she suddenly began chasing me. Like having a conversation with me whenever she saw an opportunity, starting lots of nonsene small talk and or taking a seat near me

    @sdk7367@sdk7367 Жыл бұрын
    • 👀

      @Say_King77@Say_King77 Жыл бұрын
    • 🤭

      @jam4678@jam4678 Жыл бұрын
  • Why do people think u can't chase women and work on ur success at the same time? If u would really stop improving yourself or giving 100% in ur job/business just because u're chasing a girl, then u have a different problem. If u ignore girls until u have money, then u attract more golddiggers than honest ones and u'd be too inexperienced to know the difference. The golden rule is: don't be needy, have standards, value ur time, learn to let go when u're not appreciated.

    @webexpert247@webexpert2472 жыл бұрын
    • You said it all! There are a lot of rich men with bad women!

      @alhassanfirrdous7292@alhassanfirrdous72922 жыл бұрын
    • Even by doing what you said doesn't escape you from chasing gold diggers but how experienced enough are you relating to females will determine how far you can go with your point. And it's in both ways. In my opinion Jessica points are okay for me based on my experienced with female. Less stress if you're switched on in your head.

      @koalsam1494@koalsam14942 жыл бұрын
    • Now your post is realistic thank you.

      @jsnow07grad@jsnow07grad2 жыл бұрын
    • Your comment is pure gold

      @danielgitau7213@danielgitau72132 жыл бұрын
    • Facts hustle and grind.

      @MaJeSTiCz0@MaJeSTiCz02 жыл бұрын
  • Jessica is a typical example of someone who has really worked on her craft. She’s so professional! Great work!

    @bobstone8446@bobstone84462 жыл бұрын
    • She is world class. Now where is the video tell black women how to conduct themselves to get black men to show them more respect, there must be a code of conduct for black women. I See so many video putting down black women concerned there additude.

      @larryshenault8107@larryshenault81072 жыл бұрын
    • I concur.

      @AbubakarSeif@AbubakarSeif2 жыл бұрын
    • That's true

      @jonathanbanda2869@jonathanbanda28692 жыл бұрын
    • She is a woman so she knows how they work kkkk

      @klausmakaneta6890@klausmakaneta68902 жыл бұрын
    • Absolute Class!

      @vicdoesfitness@vicdoesfitness2 жыл бұрын
  • Found this video randomly and I must admit I found you very eloquent, well put and straight to the point. You've earned a new sub

    @gamzaify@gamzaify Жыл бұрын
  • Totally agreed. Men shouldn't be chasing after women. Here are my reasons: 1) Chasing implies desperation 2) A woman already knows which guy she is going to "surrender" to. And THAT guy is usually the one who didn't put in much effort at all. 3) The dynamic is unbalanced. This woman you are chasing is not just benefiting from your time and resources, but from multiple other guys with minimal to no effort at all. Meanwhile you are wasting resources on something that is more than likely never going to happen. 4) When a woman is interested in a guy and actually WANTS his attention, SHE'LL make every effort to get it. So if a woman is not vying for your time and attention, don't just give it to her.

    @goodlife2456@goodlife2456 Жыл бұрын
  • That's what I've been doing and women think I'm proud because I don't chase or beg. I court, you decline, I walk away. Or you accept, we date Thank you Jessica

    @mophemewapitori3747@mophemewapitori37472 жыл бұрын
    • Way to go my brother

      @yourlandladysson6395@yourlandladysson63952 жыл бұрын
    • Facts !!

      @emmanuelasamoah3168@emmanuelasamoah3168 Жыл бұрын
    • Nothing can stop you ur all d way up

      @believekings7130@believekings7130 Жыл бұрын
  • 1. Ignore her words focus on her actions 2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue 3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman 4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man 5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger 6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge 7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP 8. Stay away from single mothers 9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s 10. Never fully commit 11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut 12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you 13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment 14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust 15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf

    @mwanzafitalpha9827@mwanzafitalpha98272 жыл бұрын
    • Excellent but I can't agree with few points ...

      @gauravkumartailor@gauravkumartailor2 жыл бұрын
    • No. If a woman pursues you it is based on WHAT you have (assets) not that the other women that are chasing you. Not all women considers other women their competitions. Let's face it. Women want different things. Some women only want a man who is good in bed... not all women are motivated bye sex. I know no woman that thinks about marriage as only one day lols. Never fully commit. Really? Only an uneducated, masochistic uninitiated woman comes backs for psychological mind games.

      @graceyanderson6010@graceyanderson60102 жыл бұрын
    • Facts!! 💯💯

      @infinitesupply8035@infinitesupply80352 жыл бұрын
    • You're red pilled brother 🤒

      @forgivemakwena6252@forgivemakwena62522 жыл бұрын
    • Taaalllllkkkkk... 🎯🔥🔥🔥

      @cashrhodes2296@cashrhodes22962 жыл бұрын
  • I love listening to you. Very insightful, calm, and solid.

    @BudoReflex@BudoReflex Жыл бұрын
  • Thanks, Jessica. Very informative for these tips. You're indeed helping a lot of guys out there. You just won my subscription to your channel. Cheers!

    @yassanwilliam3153@yassanwilliam315314 күн бұрын
  • If someone has a pattern of continually “misunderstanding” you, there’s a good chance you’re getting manipulated. You could end up talking yourself in circles which will be draining, harm your mental health, and make you too emotional so that you can’t think clearly. Many people like this are no different at their core than people who are OPENLY verbally and physically abusive, they’re just more sneaky about it, and there’s a good chance that the physical and/or verbal (aka overt) abuse is on its way. Covert abuse is very hard to spot

    @gregorybush1403@gregorybush14032 жыл бұрын
    • THNAK YOU BRIANHACKSONLINE ON WEB

      @gregorybush1403@gregorybush14032 жыл бұрын
    • This is one of the best description to my recent experience. I've never had the right words to describe it but this sums it up! A painful place to be in. FYI, just came across this channel and great content.

      @javaailon2802@javaailon28022 жыл бұрын
    • Bro this is excalty what I had, she kept lying about things, hiding things for me and when I was asking something about why some things are like that she couldnt tell me truth. And one day believe I had a bad feeling that she was cheating! And boommm i caught her

      @likeitornot8027@likeitornot80272 жыл бұрын
    • So accurate!

      @thabangtaukobong1040@thabangtaukobong10402 жыл бұрын
    • It’s called covert narcissist

      @tailsthefox6568@tailsthefox6568 Жыл бұрын
  • Agreed. Imagine begging someone to love you. If we vibe and we are both looking for a relationship, we should start determining if we are compatible. It's a 2-way street. No one is doing the other a favor.

    @mandlamgwenya382@mandlamgwenya3822 жыл бұрын
    • Right I disagree with chasing anyone. If you do so ... it will be ultimately to your detriment and not benefit, Relationships should be mutually beneficial. No one person should be doing all of the emotional labor.This sends the signal that you want a caretaker/parent child relations with ultimately diminished sexual activity, Unfortunately, many women buy into the belief that they are responsible for their mates ' emotional upkeep and well being. I don't like that relationship model. It is for those that seek to use a person for their own self aggrandizement. To engage in this type of relationship only brings about heartache and exhaustion.

      @graceyanderson6010@graceyanderson60102 жыл бұрын
    • Ùù

      @harneksingh8296@harneksingh82962 жыл бұрын
  • Thanks for sharing this video ,it's very helpful I had been through this type of path before.

    @user-jl7kz9zy1w@user-jl7kz9zy1w15 күн бұрын
  • Thanks for sharing this outstanding pointers ❤

    @joseabad2552@joseabad2552 Жыл бұрын
  • As soon as I decided to stop chasing women and started focusing on my dreams...she came to me. we immediately connected...2 years later... we still together.

    @hvppy_world@hvppy_world2 жыл бұрын
    • i stopped chasing a girl i was trying to get with for almost 8 months, we spoke regularly if i did'nt call or texted her she would contact me, we went to bed a few time in the 7th month which after another week she started to show some pulling away and some bad vibe, in a late night convo she told me she had taken sex off her mind, me seeing she was still going thru a break-up she says had'nt fully gotten over. so i shut down the engine no calls no texts, she was the one texting cause i told myself and her if she was interested i'm here waiting. after a week she stopped texting first and when she saw me around she looked at me like i did her wrong. even tried to call me friend (must be out your mind) behind, why she was upset i don't know know. i've been getting a lot of flack "bad mouthing" and bad puffed up lips stare down looks that should cause an argument but i'm not letting her have it her way.

      @HDMIOT@HDMIOT2 жыл бұрын
  • Truth be told Jess, you hit the nail on the head in this video. I always tell my gender "Chase your dreams, the women will come later" no woman wants to be with an unsuccessful man. Also she will respect you even more when she sees that you're operating on a certain frequency. Thanks for this piece ✌️

    @amirprime44@amirprime442 жыл бұрын
    • I've been doing this shit bit not I promise I won't do it anymore. Thanks a lot dear Jessica

      @bradiepoa3409@bradiepoa3409 Жыл бұрын
  • The message you cut across very helpful ☺️

    @leonardgithua7014@leonardgithua7014 Жыл бұрын
  • Keep them coming Jennifer. You're opening the eyes of men. Glad that I found this channel; so real and practical that I cannot ask for more

    @drkips4757@drkips4757 Жыл бұрын
  • Never chased women, never will. Thanks for making my thoughts more plain and coherent Jessica.

    @ojimaochuma3971@ojimaochuma39712 жыл бұрын
  • I’m married already, but this is dope. In a sense, that was my mind set. I had things I wanted to try to achieve in my own life. My wife came to me🤷🏽‍♂️. 17 years together now with two kids. It pays to not chase. Less problems I think🤔.

    @RILLAMAN84@RILLAMAN842 жыл бұрын
    • Good for you bro

      @yourlandladysson6395@yourlandladysson63952 жыл бұрын
    • If I may ask, How did ur wife come to u?

      @dillyselad1170@dillyselad11702 жыл бұрын
  • Great video! Straight to the point and I didn’t get bored watching..

    @Foreign_Royal@Foreign_Royal Жыл бұрын
  • Beautiful. I totally agree with you. I love your voice. Thanks!

    @tonytonex@tonytonex Жыл бұрын
  • I’ve been doing this all throughout my high school career, no more. Don’t care how beautiful the girl is, I’m not bending over backwards over another human again, especially one that’s not giving me the same attention, treat a female or a male like a celebrity and he or she will treat you like a fan.

    @user-cc8fe3pe4p@user-cc8fe3pe4p2 жыл бұрын
    • I know of a strong spiritual man who can help you bring back your soulmate I am a living testimony of his work and I know that he can also do yours ❤️❤️

      @eseigbepablo6109@eseigbepablo61092 жыл бұрын
    • 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

      @norman9541@norman95412 жыл бұрын
    • @@norman9541 Something to say, Norman?

      @user-cc8fe3pe4p@user-cc8fe3pe4p2 жыл бұрын
    • Hoodville fam

      @elliotwall5664@elliotwall56642 жыл бұрын
    • Been there so many time bruh! I regret my past choices I have made. I bend over backwards for females when I was younger. The results were not good. Make your own self happy. These females will not acknowledge you until they have child(ren) , no eyes problems. In short you will be there back up plan when things turn sour for them. I learned alot.

      @tajdyer2803@tajdyer28032 жыл бұрын
  • When a Woman gives you game on Woman, YOU LISTEN 🎧 💯🤷🏽‍♂️

    @ItBeFactsThou6669@ItBeFactsThou66692 жыл бұрын
    • Great, this is called wisdom👌

      @sphiwekancube908@sphiwekancube908 Жыл бұрын
    • nahbro all they care about is money she telling us to be more selfish but we have to sacrifice for family and cover them with love. this advice is realistic but not romantic or lasting

      @abcde9867@abcde9867 Жыл бұрын
  • Really nice video. Thank you for your thoughts!

    @shawnpunchdrawingandphotog7113@shawnpunchdrawingandphotog7113 Жыл бұрын
  • Thank you so much Jessica,I never knew about this and I think you are so much right about it.....Thank you once more

    @brianlungu5747@brianlungu5747 Жыл бұрын
  • Hearing a Woman say this from a genuine perspective is very pleasing, alot of men need this so they can make their necessary adjustments..

    @TRuffin@TRuffin2 жыл бұрын
    • It's just one woman's view.

      @DC-qv6gq@DC-qv6gq2 жыл бұрын
    • Means nothing. This is called a logical fallacy. Many black enslaved persons also believed in slavery. So your reasoning is just because a woman says so, therefore she is more credible?

      @graceyanderson6010@graceyanderson60102 жыл бұрын
    • @@graceyanderson6010 complete fallacy. It's a shame so many men have fallen for this message . May they receive sense.

      @DC-qv6gq@DC-qv6gq2 жыл бұрын
  • You're absolutely right Jessica. I have been a victim of relationships for years. However, your videos transform my life completely because I have experienced most of those things with women. Thanks a lot for this wonderful job 💞💞💞.

    @josephvenant7577@josephvenant75772 жыл бұрын
  • Stumbled on one of your videos that was suggested and am already liking it here. Everything you are sharing is soo informative and now am a subscriber☺ 2:51 really hit me good coz that's be happening to me a lot recently. Thanks for the videos, Keep coaching us little champs.

    @MissoyKE@MissoyKE Жыл бұрын
    • Welcome to the family

      @JessicaOS@JessicaOS Жыл бұрын
  • This is gold. Thank you ❤

    @Juan_M19@Juan_M197 ай бұрын
  • ive come across a plethora of female dating advice in my lifetime but this right here is the most to the point, factual and no bs advice ive ever seen.. definitely great video

    @ronwilli684@ronwilli6842 жыл бұрын
  • This is what has gotten me girls in the past. Staying dedicated to my goals and myself. Constantly visualizing myself in the driver seat of my life, and crushing all of my goals. Now it’s time to get back to that after a deep heat break. I claim it! The power is within all of us.. dig deep 💥

    @tyreeperkins968@tyreeperkins9682 жыл бұрын
    • You got this bro!💪

      @briankiprono3853@briankiprono3853 Жыл бұрын
  • I'm currently going through this and the videos are helping.I just hope to get to a safe conclusion of everything. Thanks Jessica.

    @gibsonchama5207@gibsonchama52077 ай бұрын
  • Thank you for this video❤️❤️🙏🏽

    @rashiqchowdhury-0039@rashiqchowdhury-0039 Жыл бұрын
  • Dennis Okoi said it perfectly! Please my brothers I know its hard to hear but trust us on this. Focus on you, your goals, your purpose, and your legacy and the right woman will appear without much effort at all. The ones we chase, most of the time are not the right women for us. I found my Queen the minute I had given up on chasing. I was enjoying life with my friends, my professional career took off, and my community activism was through the roof! All of a sudden my bride to be appeared!

    @MrKnjwhite@MrKnjwhite2 жыл бұрын
    • Your situation is kind of similar to what happened to me. Once I stopped looking or chasing...then low and behold there she was. I was running late for a doctors appointment when I ran into my wife to be. Just imagine if I was on time for the appointment, we probably wouldn't have met each other. Lol.

      @tylowe78@tylowe782 жыл бұрын
  • This video randomly came up on my feed, but I’m happy I watched till the end. I’ve been chasing the same girl since HS and everything you said in this video was spot on. I put her on a high pedestal and forgot that I matter.

    @malikmartin481@malikmartin4812 жыл бұрын
    • 😂 Sorry bro.. We have all been victims of our hearts..

      @emmamilescakes6300@emmamilescakes63002 жыл бұрын
    • You don’t matter

      @antoniomitchell1883@antoniomitchell18832 жыл бұрын
    • @@antoniomitchell1883 wtf!!!

      @victoronwukwe8181@victoronwukwe81812 жыл бұрын
    • @@victoronwukwe8181 I don’t like seeing men bowing down or being weak to women.

      @antoniomitchell1883@antoniomitchell18832 жыл бұрын
  • Thanks for your idea

    @aikponkhaleaprecious8007@aikponkhaleaprecious8007 Жыл бұрын
  • Thank you for the advice! Great vid!

    @bobbyward24@bobbyward24 Жыл бұрын
  • For me, the problem with women is they have too many signs to read, if you should be persistent and patient with her, or is she giving the signs that it's time for you to move on. Then again, as men, we do tend to chase the one woman who is not really looking for what we are looking for. If you are looking for someone to introduce to your mom, the club is not necessarily the best place to look.

    @xolanivanda185@xolanivanda1852 жыл бұрын
  • The sound of your voice is so soothing. I Like your choice of words too. Great video straight to the point and simple. I believe every guy has chased a chick at some point in their lives but personally I always knew no one should be chasing be it a man or a woman. If you’re going to chase them, let them go!

    @clidenjei9270@clidenjei92702 жыл бұрын
  • This was really helpful! Thank you!

    @RiceNoodle757@RiceNoodle757 Жыл бұрын
  • Thanx DR these are powerful points

    @carmimweemba1907@carmimweemba1907 Жыл бұрын
  • The key is to develop a social network and lifestyle where you have repeated interactions with wife/gf level single women. It's much easier to resist the urge to chase when you know you will be interacting with attractive women on a regular basis and developing relationships where they can see your better qualities. If you only rely on online dating or picking up women in bars, then the first time a woman you are strongly attracted to shows a tad of interest the urge will be there to do whatever it takes to get her and that can lead to chasing or simping. Women know what they want at that particular time, but their agenda changes frequently as well. Instead of trying to force her to change her agenda, have several attractive women that you interact with on a regular basis (via organizations or peer groups) and you might end up being in the right place at the right time. My dad did not meet my mom's requirements when they met, but they bumped into each other a year later and it was a different story.

    @kenstevens7855@kenstevens78552 жыл бұрын
    • You are so on point, but sadly not evey has that has that circle/connection with the opposite sex.

      @olajuwontokunbo7979@olajuwontokunbo79792 жыл бұрын
    • Or just be on your purpose always. Have hobbies and life goals, etc. that way you don’t become relationship focused when you meet a girl you like.

      @javo10ful@javo10ful2 жыл бұрын
  • Wow, this is really helpful. I needed someone to tell me that honestly. Been doing exactly what I'm not supposed to. My thoughts and intentions have changed right now. Thank you Jessica.

    @bonnymb1_official597@bonnymb1_official5972 жыл бұрын
    • 🙌🏼

      @godsgirl7201@godsgirl72012 жыл бұрын
  • Awesome!!! Great video

    @englishlearningcenter1470@englishlearningcenter1470 Жыл бұрын
  • Thank you so much for such a valuable advice.

    @Handsome8032@Handsome8032 Жыл бұрын
  • A+ advice... AND from a WOMAN. THANK YOU... I think that movies, books and media have duped us for so long to believe the storybook romance is real life, when it's not. YOU speak the truth!

    @jcmoneyman@jcmoneyman2 жыл бұрын
    • Well said bro 👏👍

      @markoivanmarelic@markoivanmarelic2 жыл бұрын
    • Thank you Jessica, your teaching is really helping many men worldwide. I was one of those men who are chasing women but since I started watching your videos, I learned a lot and I can assure you I'm totally change the way of proposing or act toward a woman.

      @korneliustalenikapofi6146@korneliustalenikapofi61462 жыл бұрын
  • “Everything that needs to be said has already been said. But since no one was listening, Jessica has to say it again” - Andre Gide

    @aabusang@aabusang2 жыл бұрын
  • You’re good at this. I learned from this too. Thanks!

    @lanremadibarealestate@lanremadibarealestate Жыл бұрын
  • Great advice!!!

    @alexbethke611@alexbethke6113 ай бұрын
  • My relationship has evolved ever since I started watching your videos Jess. Thank you alot.

    @melisizwengcobo1170@melisizwengcobo11702 жыл бұрын
  • Thanks a million.! Got my heart broken and presently couldn't piece myself together cause I have been trying harder to get her attention... she's independent and got me through all kinds of motions and desolations... honestly I'm drained and fed up of chasing her... I completely retreated...if she returns, good! On the contrary I'm moving on.! Thanks Jessica, you now have a new subscriber to your channel...❤️

    @afleyao8545@afleyao85452 жыл бұрын
    • Love your wisdom & knowledge about relationships. You are Gorgeous as well.

      @christianjoseph4784@christianjoseph47842 жыл бұрын
    • @@christianjoseph4784 Nhmmm

      @DC-qv6gq@DC-qv6gq2 жыл бұрын
  • Thanks for this great knowledge 👏👏

    @anthonydefirst1450@anthonydefirst1450 Жыл бұрын
  • Good video thank you Jessica

    @colorlord98@colorlord9811 ай бұрын
  • I already stopped chasing "them" and this video even gives me more reasons why I should. Focusing on my dreams and goals is my prime prioty right now. The only problem though is I don't if I make it, I'll still be interested in "them" who I had chased before

    @saintmearl8518@saintmearl85182 жыл бұрын
    • Make sure you don't have any "if" when you're trying to achieve a goal...rather than "if", always remember yourself that "you can do it" "if" brings this negative thought about getting things done.

      @salamiganiuolatunji1033@salamiganiuolatunji10332 жыл бұрын
    • True talk

      @mwanekwa1588@mwanekwa15882 жыл бұрын
    • Nope !! You going have women on your level of dreams chasing you

      @iharris3466@iharris34662 жыл бұрын
    • You won’t make it.

      @antoniomitchell1883@antoniomitchell18832 жыл бұрын
  • I can testify. I asked a girl out several times. She finally accepted. Everything went on well until I discovered that I had to struggle for us to meet even when she had the time. I started questioning my approach from the start to where we were(more than 2 years in a relationship without any clear progress).

    @hysonapeugongaziseh5570@hysonapeugongaziseh5570 Жыл бұрын
    • Let her go

      @madahmed7454@madahmed7454 Жыл бұрын
    • Atleast you got a girl....

      @salmendramodi7703@salmendramodi7703 Жыл бұрын
    • Are you in high school?

      @Realcordy@Realcordy Жыл бұрын
    • Bro, Let her go

      @planetsai@planetsai Жыл бұрын
    • @@salmendramodi7703 at least he has a girl? Yeah she's most likely talking to other guys too.. all that free time she has she's spending it with someone else

      @PalmdalesAdonis@PalmdalesAdonis Жыл бұрын
  • Thank you Jessica!! These all seem common sense but ppl forget in the moment. It’s wonderful hearing it and I can testify this 💯 have girls chasing me that I used to chase specially during lockdowns when I wasn’t in the right mindset. Thank you

    @idris170@idris170 Жыл бұрын
  • You hit all points on the head. Great job.

    @Jburneyjr@Jburneyjr Жыл бұрын
  • Yep 3:38 This is exactly my current mindset. Keep focusing on fine tuning yourself physically, spiritually and financially.

    @njoysuccessnow@njoysuccessnow2 жыл бұрын
  • Have always believed that in the things of life pursuit; one has to keep trying(chasing)having the no giving up attitude, but on this video tips I realized it is not applicable to women(chasing one woman). One has to bring in balance in the affairs of women. Jessica your tips are fascinating, keep up the good work

    @neyodiaries@neyodiaries2 жыл бұрын
    • It doesn't ! It's a dance with women and dating isn't a chore !

      @Ben256MB@Ben256MB2 жыл бұрын
  • Your channel is very educative/ helpful.

    @josiahosewo9725@josiahosewo97257 ай бұрын
  • Great video and great advice. Love the deliverance also.

    @teacope@teacope Жыл бұрын
  • Ooh thank you Jessica!!! There's tears in my eyes right now, I wish I had known this all these years, I have been chasing women and working hard to get their attention and even if I got some of them but things never really worked well coz I still had to work hard to keep them engaged, eventually they just leave for better successful guys. I did all that at the expense of my dreams, thanks to you it stops now!

    @collinmorudi5242@collinmorudi52422 жыл бұрын
  • Very helpful content. I once almost fell into depression because of someone, used to buy her expensive gifts but thankfully I learned the hard way. Wish I saw this earlier.

    @nderitusistem4606@nderitusistem46062 жыл бұрын
    • Sometimes or most, they wouldn't even let u know they're not interested

      @ekwenemceekay8264@ekwenemceekay82642 жыл бұрын
    • You are not the only one.

      @drock577@drock5772 жыл бұрын
    • Me too recently was going out with this girl bro and got her a teddy bear 🧸 and more took her out was agreeing to dates but this weekend she canceled plans with me it hurt for a day but then the next I Was like fuck it, it is what it is 💯

      @doejohn7548@doejohn75482 жыл бұрын
    • I’ve been thru some big heart break too. Not all women are after gifts. You will find the right one.

      @gailfroelich9633@gailfroelich9633Ай бұрын
    • Been there Jessica…..hard to let the wrong ones down easy.

      @gailfroelich9633@gailfroelich9633Ай бұрын
  • Thank you Jessica. I've been inspired.

    @edikanedem4453@edikanedem4453 Жыл бұрын
  • Very valuable information 👌 Thanks Jessica 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    @angelocrisostomo7477@angelocrisostomo7477 Жыл бұрын
  • It’s crazy. Things are so messed up out here. I’m done chasing. Definitely focusing on goals, but there’s something I don’t like about me achieving my goals, then being chased. I don’t want it. It’s become a game of chess.

    @michaelmerritt9657@michaelmerritt96572 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you sis for this 🙌🙏 your words have even pushed me to focus more on my dreams/goals

    @alinanisimwanza4544@alinanisimwanza45442 жыл бұрын
  • Great piece

    @wisdomnation3252@wisdomnation3252 Жыл бұрын
  • Love this Sis. I also think having chased my dreams, I cannot allow anyone who chases after me in my sacred space, Love. We better meet chasing things bigger than ourselves, and thereby fall in love because of our common goal/s. That way I envisage longevity and continued fulfilment in individuality hence capable of enjoying companionship. My thoughts.

    @godfreymckay@godfreymckay Жыл бұрын
  • Thank you for your advice sister Jessica, this is exactly what am going through with my marriage but as from today, I will put myself and my dreams first.

    @activistbabahjanneh926@activistbabahjanneh9262 жыл бұрын
  • Spending your time and money on videos like these is a great great investment! God bless you Jessy. You're solving problems!

    @isaacboakye967@isaacboakye9672 жыл бұрын
    • I know of a strong spiritual man who can help you bring back your soulmate I am a living testimony of his work and I know that he can also do yours ❤️❤️

      @eseigbepablo6109@eseigbepablo61092 жыл бұрын
    • @@eseigbepablo6109 get out

      @fridayblessed9742@fridayblessed97422 жыл бұрын
    • She did not have to spend money to pull out her camera and record but she is investing her time

      @christianwright1775@christianwright17752 жыл бұрын
    • @@fridayblessed9742 Lmao, you said that 🤣

      @Roestradd@Roestradd2 жыл бұрын
  • Many thanks for sharing 👍.

    @oghenetegaisrael2889@oghenetegaisrael2889 Жыл бұрын
  • Loving your content, confidence, and consistency. Keep it up. Thanks.

    @effiya_ephya@effiya_ephya2 жыл бұрын
    • ❤️

      @godsgirl7201@godsgirl72012 жыл бұрын
    • @@Pita1148 love this isn't the place for that

      @godsgirl7201@godsgirl72012 жыл бұрын
  • Jessica's voice is jus therapy for me, a lot of times I play her videos jus for that amazing voice

    @pedromilanzi9654@pedromilanzi96542 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you so much for your unending advices . May God bless you

    @alexalia9797@alexalia97976 ай бұрын
  • You are simply amazing Jessica...!!! Thanks a million for your transformational thoughts. This is so direct, honest, sincere, genuine, creative and brilliant. Waohhhhhhh....! I'm sharing, maybe all your amazing videos. Once again, THANK YOU!

    @princexcellent@princexcellent Жыл бұрын
  • Am here as always to learn from your teachings jessica, thanks for opening our thinking, hearts and mind

    @kimulijohn1157@kimulijohn11572 жыл бұрын
  • I always enjoy your critical thinking about the subject matter at hand.

    @albertappiah4494@albertappiah44942 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you so much Jessica.

    @MegaKarume@MegaKarume Жыл бұрын
  • Really very important clue to note.

    @thomasdalebabu2538@thomasdalebabu253810 ай бұрын
  • This is arguably the best solid advice I have ever encountered. Very collected and informed advice that impacts directly in our lives.

    @tacticalhuddy3614@tacticalhuddy36142 жыл бұрын
  • I'm subscribing right away. You're just so straight to the point, no beating about the bush. Everything you mentioned is so profound and thanks for sharing.

    @oluwaseundavid3819@oluwaseundavid38192 жыл бұрын
  • Listing to this video.. I felt something walked out of my body to really know myself better.. the video is heart toughing thank you

    @adebayo1297@adebayo1297 Жыл бұрын
  • Thank you for this!!

    @zikomodonaldson5322@zikomodonaldson5322 Жыл бұрын
  • I love Jessica's mindset. Very intelligent and truthful. Experience, honest.

    @corneliusallen1777@corneliusallen17772 жыл бұрын
  • I can't go a day without listen to you. Always on fact and you have helped me so much, and I feel good when you speak😘😘🙏🙏

    @enockoppong9950@enockoppong99502 жыл бұрын
  • I really appreciate what you are doing. Keep up the good job, I am blessed by your videos.

    @IAMICEBERGS@IAMICEBERGS Жыл бұрын
  • This is the 1st ever KZhead Channel I subscribed too. Thank you! thank you!

    @akbarcnlegacy5586@akbarcnlegacy5586 Жыл бұрын
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