7 things women do when they genuinely love you
Sometimes it's hard to tell if the woman in your life genuinely loves you. This video seeks to highlight all the things women do when they genuinely love you. Happy Viewing!
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0:00 - Intro
1:34 - She tries to be seen by your friends and family
2:36 - She sacrifices for your happiness
4:15 - She cares about your loved ones
5:26 - She accepts the rhythm of your life
6:49 - She is proud of your accomplishments
7:52 - She fights for you as a couple
8:42 - She listens with attention
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Very much encouraging woow very educative
Hi, how about letting go of a woman. I mean baby mama.
No one needs to have your telephone number. Continue to tap and or type comments and replies to your listening audience. You cannot entertain the whole world at once.
Your husband is definitely lucky to have you
OK luv
My wife did every one of these seven things (and I did for her, as best I could too), then she tragically passed away from a medical procedure at only 51 years old, but thank you for reminding me how much she really loved me ( it makes me happy and sad at the same time).
May her sould RIP. Thanks for sharing.
I'm sorry bou yo wife but I'm glad u appreciate her evn in her absence. Some ppl like me feel like such ppl don't exist,u r lucky to hv experienced that. I always love and try my best but I hv neva in my life met my match,at 38yrs now I hv decided to jus give up on love and focus on my 2 kids. To us,hvn such a person wl always b a dream
Sorry about your lost
Pole sana
MHSRIP. By doing her best faithfully, she completed her mission on earth. Stay strong cause she went in peace after showing you genuine love
This video made me realize that there's not a single woman that genuinely liked me in my 28 years of life. I think I'm going to focus on my dreams instead.
Same here. I was once engaged to one that absolutely didn't love me. I just focus on work and keep moving. I've been stress free.
55ys and 3 children later (and a pleathora of "casual encounters" that were just women that needed $$$) FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS and enjoy life
Webster Ideris - You say LIKE rather than LOVE
@@followme3035 wow
Damn, you made me laugh so hard
A man who meets such a genuine woman is really lucky in life coz I've been dealing with a woman who didn't even show up any of these clues almost for a couple of years
A Woman who speaks and makes Absolute sense, the world needs more Women like Jessica 👍
A lot of people dont love you... they only love what you can do for them.
waaaa?
False
Women can't love men and only understand attraction. They can only love what you do for them and how you make them feel about themselves. It shifts. They try to impress you then over time the roles reverse.
@@bobbyscalchi4013 ... you are correct. And men can be in relationships with women, but they need to understand female psychology. A lot of men are crushed when they realize that most women never TRULY love you... well at lease they dont love men the way that men love them.
@@akson3342 ... do you want to expand on that with reasons or logic. You know, it is not that hard to debate with logic... you should try it-- if you can.
Jessica: I was married for 28 years to my wife whom I lost her to breast cancer. You brought me to an uncontrollable tears when you listed the 7 things to prove that a woman genuinely loves you. It’s over six years now that I’m still a widower. I don’t think I can find any other woman like her. I have decided to stay a widower. I always watch your show, because of your high level of intelligence and reasoning. I live in US. Thank you so much.
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Much the same for me , Donald . Married for 36 yrs , Together for 38 yrs cancer took her . She was the love of my live , staying single now .
@@patkinder6632 she's waiting patiently for you up in heaven, my friend.. trust me on that..
Waste of air time blah blah blah!!!.
Love your advice
When people compromise, no one gets what they want. When they cooperate, everyone gets what they want. I know that message would resonate with me. Giving up too much of what makes you, you, destroys people. Acceptance and contribution will build people up.
This was a good reminder on some things, and few I never thought about at all. especially number 5. Number 6 is why i pushed a woman away about 7 years ago when life got well complicated and i saw what was coming. and she just kinda let it go, which now reflecting and seeing this. makes sense even more now. I've been single and alone about 97% of my life and handful of these things are why, too many woman looking for a better guy and situation. so they'd just jump ship before actually breaking up and taking time to reflect, before next relationship. I'm clueless when it comes to a good woman flirting especially in subtle and respectful manner. I'll have to check out your other videos out.
Be friends first, every other thing will flow in naturally. This relationship thing is like starting a business, you have to start small then grow.
Exactly ❤️
At the beginning of every year, many of us create New Year’s resolutions. We think about what we did or didn’t accomplish last year, and create new hopes and dreams for the coming year. Unfortunately, not everyone knows the difference between a resolution and a goal, and few people understand how to set goals and achieve them successfully.
What if it’s been like 5 years
When a woman wants to be with you she makes it extremely clear that she doesn't want to be friends with you. Once a woman tries to friend zone you best believe you getting played and will be kept around as a contingency plan when her original plans blow in her face.
Its a business now lol
I’ve been happily married to the same woman for 47 years. Your points are spot on and it goes both ways.
Right on! 👍
And how old are u??
@@thompsonstephen5581 we are both 70. Met in high school.
@@georgefulton7012 That's so awesome. Thanks for sharing
@George Fulton you're very fortunate, the girl I loved most was a girl I was head over heels for in high school, and I found out her feelings were mutual but I'm 28 now, well done to you on 70, you lived in a very great moment and time.
Thank you so much for your teachings. Even though I gave her all the things you describe on this video, I never saw a two way street. I was patient and did not want to give up because of the hope of love. But I guess, and as painful as it may be, you have to let some time pass before you are certain that you gave it your best. Her loss,not mine.
I really appreciate how people noted that your points were spot on . . . But that love goes both ways!
Jessica, You are the Most intelligent, Constructive and articulated relationship expert I've ever Met On Social media.
I agree with you
Yep...she knows what she is doing and it shows in her delivery and conviction.
I'm a woman and...I approve this message! Each point was accurate.
Thanks for confirming....,
Good
Seriously
thanks for approving
I am truly Blessed my wife has done these 7 things and more,26 years and going strong ❤
WOOW ! FKN BEYOND BEAUTIFUL
as someone who watches a lot of these types of vids, this is by far one of the best i have watched, it is soooooooo refreshing that there are women like you putting out the truth regarding how not only women should act but how both parties should act with one another, it is like the ying and yang, both must be in balance or things go crazy, i will definetely be watching more of your vids.
This is so accurate Jessica. If a woman really loves you; she won't be too demanding, that is, she won't let you spend your money extravagantly. She helps you save and manage your money.
Strongly agrer
Hmm sounds like a way for women to control income and mens money.
Just love it how she clarify her points and makes you fall in love with them ❤️
i’ve just listen to this and realised my GF does every one of these things but i fall short on a few myself.. i really needed this to see that i’m a very very lucky man and step my game up a whole lot more because she deserves better that what i am giving her at the moment.. appreciate the video and THANK YOU
Jessica, you are so talented. Your man must be so proud of you. Your content reflects real life scenarios. I love almost everything you express/explain to we the audience.
You hit the mark Jess. Your earnestness and care for the topic comes through
Thanks Jessica. Great tool to check up the health of a relationship. Some people don't really love you but love you for what you can provide for them or what your relationship can afford afford them.
I like the way you talk, your tonation, the choice of your words and all.. It is just perfect... I watch the video first time enjoying your talking without paying attention to the point so had to watch one more time fighting with that but picking what's important... Thanks for this
Delighted to see Ghana stepping out here on YT. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us here in California.
Wow!! Am loving this. It gives me hope there's a genuine lady out there for me. Thanks Jess.🙏
This is very impactful. One of the best, and short message I have ever listen to on relationship. You're doing a great job. Keep giving your best.
THANK YOU. you have dispelled the little doubts that were creeping up. she's every positive that you mentioned. It's reopened my eyes n will appreciate her more. Lucky husband
On point Jessica, Thanks for doing this! Really educative. And I like your way of presenting, the flow and the video technically - well lit and composed! Continue doing this!
This video brings joyfull and comfortable mindset, thanks Jessica, genuine, the way this was presented is warm and supportive for many of us i guess and a lesson to many wich struggle in relationships or even those who ignore the right way of being together works in both ways, respectfull and loyal. Greetings, België
Beautiful, all these are qualities of the girl I'm seeing right now. I was watching other videos talking about what they do when they don't love you. But this video stopped me from second guessing and now i can focus more on having fun with the lady rather than questioning her loyalty and trust. Thanks, I really appreciate this!
My late wife had done all these points raised. Thank you very true! Great conversation
Hi Jessica. I am a new subscriber and just entered into a new relationship in November of 2023 after getting out of a toxic marriage. My new partner does do all that you say in this video and she is genuinely a keeper!!! I tell her every day how much I love her and I can not wait for the relationship to grow even more!! Thank you for being so spot on!!!
This video deserves 1 billion likes. U are just the best KZheadr on earth. U said it all, I saw all this 7 signs on the toxic relationship I once witness, she will always tell me i shouldn't be in hurry to meet her family. Thanks so much for this, 🙌🙌
Your videos are becoming better. The intros, picture quality, content, editing etc. We appreciate the growth. And we're also learning.
Very true. We noticed too. The growth is impressive
Thanks for the feedback Kobby
A very kind feedback, this is! Thank you. 🤝🤝🤝
Looking very good y
Hi Kenrick Jamaica
Tbh, this is my last relationship where it was quite the opposite but I stayed in it trying to make it work but it never did.Thank you Os.
Thanks, Jessica! I had a 2 1/2 yr+ phone relationship with Ms Melissa from Evansville Indiana! Everything you mentioned is targeting Melissa: she'd overtalk me intentionally, to voice opinions about bs meaning nothing! It'll be 3 yrs this upcoming Christmas, as we parted ways!!
I needed to double like this video 👍🏾👍🏾… I like the background of this video sis! Overall bomb presentation. She’s definitely a keeper if she does these especially paying any attention to you and the people you care about🥰! Thanks again Jess.
Well said! Men and women have to avoid at all costs the “me, myself, and I” types of personality when they are looking for a mate. In a good relationship, one must be loving and caring… but not self-seeking, and neglecting.
What if yoh leave when he cheats isnt that selfish????
@@sakuraesther6309 leaving when he cheats is self- protecting not selfishness… when a third person is involved in a marriage relationship, anything bad can happen to the people involved.
As I watched this I kept two checklists in my mind. The first one was my parents to see how they do. And the second one was me and my girlfriend to see how we do. Both of my parents are phenomenal at all seven of these points and they laid out a good example for me. Me and my girlfriend still need a little work but I can tell that most of the signs are there. I just hope that we can keep progressing and eventually work it out.
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I just want to say jessica i love you, even in my saddest and emotional moment when seeing your videos it keeps me going, your like the big sister i never had, thanks for all your powerful videos.
This lovely women is talking about the virtues of love, and how a woman should behave when she loves you. However there are many women who love a man but do not know how to love.
You're absolutely right ✅
I agree
Hmmm. I think I know exactly how you feel. 🙏🏽🙌🏼🤗
Well put... though my Indonesian lover in '89 said money is love, and she was a lovely, loving woman.
@@AlanRobb1 she understood the art of how to love, this can exist exclusive from the emotion.
Jessica you among the people who have made KZhead a conducive place to learn. Keep doing what you know how to do. I love you dear.
C zzx
Hi!
First of all, after a long career in television news and production, I really appreciate the positive images of black couples depicted during your segments! Keep going! ❤
to be honest i hardly see black couples depicted in a positive light in any media be it tv or internet.
Wow all the things you discuss are things I was going through in my 21 year marriage . I should have left years ago. I’m single now and learning to love me better.
I've been watching this since morning, it's very lovely i can't get enough of your knowledge. May the good lord continue blessing you with more knowledge and wisdom
..while you were speaking i started creating this ideal woman in my mind,then i realised i had to be the ideal man first,she will only reflect what she sees in me....thanks
Apt!
My wife did every one of this seven things and I did the best for her to... Lastly thank you so much Jessica Os, love to hear more from your channel....thanks...
Nice one Jessica. I believe every reasonable man should also do same (this 7 things you talked about) for the woman they genuinely love to have a balance and good relationship. Thank you for putting this together.
Thank you Jessica. I have learned a great deal here although married for more than 15 years. Now this speaks and reveal a lot to me now. Thanks so much.
You are on the MONEY.. Jessica all 7 things are so ACCURATE. Its the first time that I viewed your channel. Both men and women should learn from This RELATIONSHIP WISDOM !!! Continued Success. Lennox Bristol
Thank you so much for letting me know all this things. God bless you Jessica
Blessings... Thanks for sharing. Would look out for these things when it's time.
I think you're going to make someone's life a very happy and proud one indeed Jessica. Stay blessed.
She didn’t do any of these 😭💔😭
Lol
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Then she wasn't the woman for you
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Valid points Jessica. I know #'s 5, 6 and 7 to be very true. That was truly sentimental.
You’ve described the woman I’m married to now in my third marriage, the best one. I respond to her in the same manner, never been happier.
Do you have mistresses????
You abandoned your first wife who struggle with you when you reach your goals to marry something New and shiny ... You thought that things will always be Nice, no arguments, then when the shit started you jump and marry the third one. Lol by the way you are getting old so you take things how they come. But the bitter truth is that you are paying what you did to your first wife cause karma is a bi**tch.... Someone need to tell you this. 👌
@@sakuraesther6309 you Want to be his mistress. Ashawo
What happen to your first two?
pls guide us how you have found gold
Your content are always so rich, resourceful and accurate. Keep up the good work. With love from 237 🇨🇲
I have to say everything you said, sounds exactly correct. Thank you!
Thank you for your post, through your explanation, I think I've found her, she's doing all the seven and am proud of her 🙏
She is so Beautiful, and her voice is very soothing. Could listen to this Queen talk all day, gotta luv the Blackwoman!!! Peace & luv ase...
, a zzz's
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@@malachimmordechaibanyamyan6565 lol abi ooooo
My 1st time here. By accident actually . However You caught my attention. I listened, and I believe you are absolutely correct. The man must also make those same commitments. If he does ,his life will be so much sweeter. I am such a lucky man. I know my wife loves me and I know she knows I love her above all else. I swore before God & witnesses that I would put no one before her. I have lived up to that oath. We have been together 39 yrs. Married 36 of those yrs. 2015 I had a massive Coronary. I technically died. She would not give up on me. 33 min. Later they got my heart started again and the rest is history. She was honored by US Congress and recoeved an award. My life insurance would've paid her 800 grand. She told me she wanted me, not my money. Incredible. When someone really loves you , you are fortunate. Reciprocate the sacrifices and the rewards will be more than you can imagine Thanks for letting me tell you about her & her sacrifices. I know I found a winner..
Wow! What a great message. Thanks for sharing Edward
Lovely , thank you for sharing.
Well I have recently met a woman that checks off all boxes you mention. I kinda already knew that she really loved me ,but I wanted to hear your thoughts as well to confirm! Thank you and I am blessed to be with the woman I have met!!
You just opened my eyes she never cared at all! Thank you for opening my eyes
You are 101% correct...A fantastically brilliant analysis and synopsis. When you are fortunate enough to meet someone that special while travelling through the journey called Life...then you become "A Success"!!! You have found True LOVE!!!
Jessica, you are wise beyond your years, dear lady! You obviously grew up in a home full of love and are a loving person with fine values. I'm nearly 68 and haven't found the right woman, and maybe God didn't intend marriage for me. Everything you said about what a woman does for a man she loves, a man should do and much more. Most people today don't want that much responsibility for another person. One thing you didn't mention. If someone loves you, when you try and fail, they never throw it up to you, they give you their support and sympathy, and will work to make things better. Peace and love.
Wow Rick Earp. That's dope....rt. I figure now matter what's going you work through everything with the leading and guiding of the holyspirit
Thanks very much
Killed that video and a big question I've been wondering about subconsciously has been answered or confirmed so thank you very much i agree 100% and look forward to the next one take care
I actually like this video alot. It makes me reflect on my relationship alot; with this I am convinced I have a keeper. Thanks Jess
I really love this message... it speaks volumes in my life about not willing to seek after a woman but first pursue my dreams and aspirations and goals.. I thank God for you Jessica Os for your transparency and honesty about relationships.. Blessings..
Blessed sister; Those 7 points are excellent 👌 and should be used to evaluate where one stands in a relationship. I think that they are for both parties. Just meeting you and I'm so proud of you. Keep up the excellence. Blessed 🙏.
Your honestly an angel making videos helping many men Your extremely appreciated And good intentions
This resonates, and it goes for both men and women. It's hard to find good genuine company now days.
I've watched this twice already. It's so pleasing, real and lovely to watch a black woman talk about relationships. I feel a certain kind of connection tbh and your contents hits the mark! Thank you. Love from Nigeria 🇳🇬 ❤️
Awww thanks.
@@JessicaOS 💕💕💕
I really and totally agree with you. You are truly beautiful to me. You are very knowledgeable about woman. Please keep in touch with me.
I really enjoyed that really enjoyed that that's awesome keep doing what you doing and I have a friend you know and everything that you said that's how he feels about me his name is Frederick and his wife passed away years ago like my husband and we really got to connection going there thank you God bless you continue your good work
Jessica, you are he best at what you do. I was dating a woman and ended it with her but felt badly because she tried to make me feel guilty of breaking her spirit. But after hearing the seven thing that a woman does if she genuinely loves you, I was convinced that I did the right thing. There were more red flags than I realized on my own, and even her pluses now look self serving. I appreciate your calm and direct instructions that are more instructional, less entertaining.
good for you. definitely sounds like you did the right thing.
Hmmm. nicely put. For me, knowing what they are passionate about and actually being passionate about their passion. Do that, you got me forever.
Besides your reasoning and understanding of matters, I love your English and how you express your views Jessica!
You said that this conversation was simple. It was simple, but it was deep. It's nice to hear a conversation like this, because we have the tendency to make things a lot more complicated than they have to be. Thank you Jessica for another great video.
1. Try to meet you with her family , friends (open her inner circle to you ) 2. Ready for many sacrifices to ensure your happiness 3. cares about your loved ones like your family 4. Accept the reasons of your life 5. Proud of your accomplishments 6. Fights for you as a couple , 7. Listens to you with attention
Slight correction…”rhythm” not “reason” for #4.
Women can do this while virtue signaling. Ain’t no guarantees.
@@MD-xb1qw very true. however, I don't think what you're saying applies to number 6.
My girl is the opposite of this whole list, pray for my strength to develop a non-chaotic exit plan.
Thanks so much for the short version
This is what iwant in the woman iwant to spend the rest of my life with....thank you so much for this channel jessica im so greatfull
Love the way how you have made us know of those signs it has helped me alot
Honestly i couldn't agree more,. Everything you said is on point. Thank u for this vid cus i can now overlook an offense and give room for wrongs. After all we are all not perfect
Thanks so much for your advice. Especially when it comes to relationships issues. How to make a rightful choice in life. even though i had made up my mind when it came to better relationships. But you've really re-education my memory. lots of people when on the wrong side of life in marriage. Thanks Jessica
Jessica, you're really doing great work here. Thanks!
Your all points are absolutely correct that you explained in this video.
Thank you Jessica for this video. From everything you said in this video, I must say that I am very luck to have a beautiful lady in my life who encompass everything you said. Once again, thank you for sharing.
Thank you. After years of being alone I have met the love of my life. We have only known each other for a few months and there is a slight language barrier but she has done all 7. I will continue to work on myself for our relationship to grow.
Great revelations. I believe from experience that you have the right stuff. Kudos. Keep it up !!!!
Thank u J Os am so blessed hearing this ....
At the beginning of every year, many of us create New Year’s resolutions. We think about what we did or didn’t accomplish last year, and create new hopes and dreams for the coming year. Unfortunately, not everyone knows the difference between a resolution and a goal, and few people understand how to set goals and achieve them successfully.
Wow. This vid really touched my heard. I'm in a relationship for the past 4 months. I put up so much blocks to puch him away because I was afraid to love again. But he kept coming stronger n harder. Something happen in the 4 weeks I pushed him away but we are closer than ever. Will share this with him later. Thanks
Thank you for this info, I think I may have found the one. Much Love.
World class J,you brought the subject and you touchd everyone soul,there is power on truth
The listening part is always important..., enjoyed the content still waiting for more en more Jessi ☺
We're learning a lot from your videos Jess. Thank you. The most of all the seven is "She listens you with full attention". This means a lot in a mutual relationship.
Wow, u are doing a good job madam
It sure as fuck does It's like the main thing The whole basis.......
You are so wise dear......all you are saying is the reality of life
You can always tell when someone loves you or a person, they simply show it. Love is an action word. We are human and can only fill up so much fulfillment to make others happy, but love will try its best to be there for you and will go deep, to the point where they will not intentionally hurt you, nor hide stuff from you. The care will show. Everything will be done sincere
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She really speaking facts here… it’s hard to find a genuine woman that does all that. Glad that my girl is one of them and really fit into this category🙏🏽
But you've got to be an amazing man yourself to acknowledge that you have a woman like that in your life. Most guys wont acknowledge
Don't leave her what ever cause
@@ujangr.4672Thank you 🙏🏽
Bless the man whose with you Not only you beautiful but u sound kind and a full package ❤ Things u said I’ve experienced them in the past but nicely settled now
Just love how she clarify her points this makes me fall in love with her and her constructive advices, Woow!! I just wonder aloud how some dude is so lucky to have her, Jessica you just amazing much ❤️ from Nairobi Kenya
Thanks for advising people it's really helpful
Hi Jess, words of wisdom thank you. I have been in a loveless marriage for the past 14 years.