Marrying an Italian, language barriers & living with my parents w/ Carlo & Sarah | Ep. 59
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@CarloandSarah join us to discuss their unique marriage between an American and an Italian. They share the language barriers they've encountered in their relationship and the humorous awkwardness of living with their parents after getting married. Join us for a candid and entertaining conversation!
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Chapters:
00:00 - Episode 59
10:02 - Accidentally friend-zoning my Italian boyfriends
12:31 - Women in Italy don’t take their husband’s last name
19:18 - The biggest cultural difference between Italy & the US
23:03 - Real Italians don’t move their wrist
34:46 - Italians put hot dogs and fries on pizza
40:09 - Google translating my husband in an argument
43:59 - I didn’t wait until marriage
53:12 - Why marriage is so hard
1:08:06 - Why so many creators are quitting
1:11:05 - Losing my hair from birth control
1:19:16 - Raising kids to be bilingual
1:26:39 - My dad heard us making love
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Carlo's personality is pure honey
What a creepy thing to say
@@swissmiss116no it’s not
@@swissmiss116smh, you don’t know how to understand figurative speech?
@swissmiss116what is wrong with you?
Carlo pretends on camera to make you fools
Omg I never expected this collab.
Same! But I’m so glad we got it!
But I all so excited for it!!!
Yaaasss👏🏼👏🏼
Nor did I, but I am so here for it!
Bro Matt and Abby are the best couple period, Soo if you Collab with them it's never bad for you and it's better for them too like their audience may find Matt cool and check out their channel Abby not soo cool by the way 😅
Never expected Carlo and Sarah to be on this pod cast. I absolutely love them. So funny and pure love. Genuine
Why not? If you watch them you watch the others....it's just patterning
Matt playing with Abby's hair... 🫶🏼 So sweet! On another note, Carlos and Sarah make me giggle so much! Such a match made in Heaven!
I'm italian and I've gotta say that i love how Carlo maintained certain italian words like ma. It just comes naturally to him. Also, his English improved a LOT. Fiera di te 💪🏻
Learning the language of the person you love is such a loving thing , i remember learning Romanian for my ex and he learning english for me , and then when i would share smart words with him id say this is a special word so he would really take it in , because one thing i could not stand is that ny partner was very smart and people would treat him stupid or less than human and more of a pet because his language is very simplified so translation can be very simple so once his special words were learned he finally was given the respect he deserved , im so happy he now gets to travel the world using his english that he learned through love , love is great even when a relationship ends we always remember great things we learn from who we have loved , im so glad i met him in my life , and hope hes happy where he is now ❤
Why ex? What kind of love is this in which people leave?
@@adnanahmed316It's life. Not all things last. There can be a hundred reasons why things can go south. But that doesn't mean we have to hate the person we once loved even though they did nothing wrong to us. We can remember them in our fond memories. But when it's stressing either or both the people in the relationship it's better to move on from it.
This is beautiful 🥹 wish you the best
It's strange that you found a person who didn't speak English in Romania... At least basically almost everybody knows it. Dar mă bucur că ai învățat română, este o limbă care se învață greu. Felicitări.
@@smarandadominte he never spoke great English he spoke limited
Carlo seems so naturally soft-spoken, I never would’ve guessed he’s secretly a LOUD talker!
He's probably more comfortable talking in his first language, and it's easier to be loud when you don't have to focus so much to translate and make sure you're pronouncing words correctly.
If you know 2 or more languages you will have 2 different personalities when you speak one language or the other. Not necessarily you'll be more confident (personality wise because of course for the mere speaking act you'll be) while speaking your native language. Some people become more shy or more outspoken when they switch languages
Right?! He's so soft-spoken 😊
Believe me when I say that us italians are very loud, we always try to one up each other with our speaking volume when talking and talking this softly probably took him conscious effort
My boyfriends from Italy and he’s quiet until he’s speaking Italian
I LOVE MATT ASKING QUESTIONS! He gets down and asks what we want to hear! I love it, he's great with the podcast!
It is so heartwarming to see how much Carlo's English has improved ❤ He is also really brave to have such a long conversation with all native speakers
Hear me out. It is a HUGE compliment that his family owns a beach thing, and of all the ladies that came, he was memorized by her. Wow, wow. Awesome story!
Actually my favorite episode so far. Matt & Abby have gotten better as interviewers, and Carlo and Sarah seem so grounded and genuine 😊
Carlo saying "ceh" all the time makes me smile thinking it must be weird hearing it often while he is speaking for non-Italian speakers
Doesn’t sound weird at all. Sounds Italian and many of us love it!😁(I don’t know Italian at all).
Sorry if I correct you. Carlo says "cioè" in italian, that means "I mean" 😊
Sounds like Spanish “que” which can mean “that”, “what”, “meaning” in a sentence! So cool!
Bro si chiama alice la tipa penso che lo sappia@@maurofanton7349
@@manaona3730do you know the great Argentinian revolutionary Ernesto Guevara aka "Che"? It was his nickname just for this reason.
I always thought Sarah's hair was all real! I'm so sad to hear about her hair loss. Hair for anyone is a big part of their identity, and to lose control of what happens to your hair is honestly devastating. Really loved this interview. Sarah and Carlo are great!
I love seeing Carlo's personality here. And not just being made fun of. So refreshing to finally see him shine. Not just pranks of his english
"no ma completaly" mi hai uccisa Carlo 😂😂 uno di noi sicuro
Li sono morta ahahahaha
Esactly = esatto+exactly 🤘
@@teyataom 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Poi pero' non lamentiamoci quando ci prendono in giro imitando l'accento italiano stile Mario e Luigi....
Gosh. Breaking up with the person you really like, but don't feel is the right person for you... that is sooo hard. Takes a lot of courage. Glad you did!
So cute how Matt plays with Abby’s hair through the entire episode ❤️🥰
It's the cutest thing! My husband plays with my hair a lot and I love it ❤
It’s just for the show….
Sarah & Carlo are a match made in heaven! What a love story! They are a great couple! 😊❤
They sure are!
I’m loving this collaboration. Carlo is so funny, he’s the textbook Italian man. My family is from Calabria, Italy. I grew up very close to my nana and she was 100% Italian and let me tell you…Proud Of It! I miss her and everything about her. This is so endearing and it’s filling my heart with joy. Thank you all so much 🇮🇹❤️
Even Carlo is from Calabria. Soverato
Carlo to the core is such a good guy!!! He is so sweet to Sarah how he didn’t want her to move after such an expensive degree 😭 Despite english not being his first language, he still relays his empathy so well! Esp the train ticket story 🥹🥹🥹
Im 100 percent Italian and I absolutely love this couple.
I love how we never know who is going to pop up here! Dr. Mike? Sarah and Carlo? I'm loving it all!
I've been stalking you guys waiting for this IV! Thank you for the collab. My 2 favorite couples!
I just want to say that it is very refreshing seeing people like you guys on the internet. Y’all are real and genuine that I can watch when I need positivity. You also get me excited to get married one day. Love you guys!💕
Never been more excited for a collab I love Carlo & Sarah sm 🥹.
This collab honestly made my week and probably month. I’m so excited to finish this episode but I want it to not be over.
Ive been waiting for this. This made me so happy. Thank you to both couples for opening up and sharing your life experience. It means a lot. Y’all are amazing and thank you for giving me a great experience every time
YES THIS IS A COLLAB WE NEEDED!
MY 2 FAVORITE COUPLES ! ! ! Can’t tell you how much I enjoyed this ! ! ! Matt/Abby, I was waiting for you ask Carlo to speak without using his hands like Sarah did in one of their episodes ! ! THANK-YOU for posting this one ! Much love and continued success !
When they talked about the soulmate part I totally agree with them. When you know you know-it feels different you connect differently and everything just falls into place so perfectly.
This is 10000% my favorite episode so far! This is the combo of personalities I never knew I needed. Gold!
I'm so excited yall picked them to be on the pod cast... I absolutely love them and their story.
Yay! I just finished your last podcast so I’m stoked to workout while I watch this one! Love both couples 💜
YESSS! Finally, this collab 🙌🏼 It's such a great episode 👏🏼
Immediately liked this because Carlo & Sarah are just a wonder - what a precious crossover! 🥹✨
Matt and Abby with Carlo and Sarah was something I never dreamed of, and what a treat! I have depression and very thin hair so thanks for being vulnerable it helps to know I’m not alone. Not that I want that for anyone else. Love to all 4 of y’all! ❤
LOVED this!! Such good, natural chemistry! 🤌🏼🤌🏼🤌🏼
@carloandsarah are one of my favourite couples on youtube, so genuine and so fun. loved this episode and the free flowing conversation! really good mix of knowledge and entertainment.
Awe! I love this guy! He's so innocent and genuine
I really enjoyed this podcast! My husband and i used to have online dates when we were living two different countries. It was wholesome
THIS NEEDS TO BE A MOVIE ♥️😍♥️ Love this episode!
Carlo's English improved so much since the first i followed them on Tiktok way back. Im so proud of them❤❤
This got me excited! I did not expect them to come on the unplanned podcast! Can wait till I get back home to watch this episode!
You guys have got me through such hard times with your videos so thank you so much I really mean it ❤you guys have the best podcast and I hope u keep on making videos❤❤❤
Carlo is a dual national treasure!! I love them both!
You guys never disappoint with your conversations!
The collab I didn’t know I didn’t know I wanted ❤
Two of my favorite couples! Carlo is so sweet. My husband and I love their videos. I definitely didn’t expect to see them here. Such a great episode!
Love the conversation about mental health that took place. 👏🏼❤
our souls literally needed this
YAYYYYY IM SO HAPPY ITS CARLO AND SARAH!!!!❤
I LOVE THIS COLLAB!!!!
I’m Greek and my fiancé is British. I can so relate to these two! Even the facial expressions and the talking loudly and the food culture being a huge thing is the same in Greece. It’s so interesting to see the similarities and differences with other cultures. P.S. The Brits really don’t curse compared to Italians/Greeks. I’d say they’re a lot more similar to Americans (although a lot quieter/less expressive).
There's a direct correlation between swearing and good food.
Depends which part in Great Britian. I think the Americans are very similar with the Dutch, they curse on television but swear words there also are more sensitive to use than Italians or Spaniards does.
@@Ama94947coming from a culture that curses alot too, my husband is american and when i travelled to the UK it felt like they curse alot more over there than in the US
I absolutely LOVE this couple! So glad you interviewed them. ❤ They have the sweetest relationship.
this podcast is chaotic and I love this vibe HAHAHAH 😂😂😂😂
Carlo and Sarah are the best!! So excited for this episode!
I never thought I needed this collab!!!! They’re my fav so can’t wait to watch thissss! ❤
Omg no wayyyy!!!! You guys are my favourite couples❤❤❤
You all have the BEST people on this podcast!! I don’t think I’ve missed one interview
The collab I didn’t know I needed
LOVE this episode!! Saw it uploaded this morning & wanted to watch it so bad lol but had to go to work but watching it now 😊
I look forward to this podcast every week. It’s so good!!
Omg I love this couple!! You guys are growing so much and I loved the segment about you talking about your mental health Matt. It’s important to hear. And I’m sorry! I hope you are doing okay!
I love this interview! I’m Italian and I miss my Uncle’s ‘arguing’ conversations. They are all passed away now.
One of my favorite videos that Carlo and Sarah made was about Carol's disappointment , when nobody in the neighborhood brought him a cake 😆 I really appreciate this relationship and though our story is slightly different my fiancé and I have the same dynamic , down to the challenges of different cultures and the loud Italian background. I love this couple, and this collab!
i did not expect this !! i love them🥹🥹
Turning pain into a beautiful thing is my favorite thing!! I love the song.
Carlo is so pure man...love his personality...Carlo and Sarah match made in heaven.....Matt and Abhy doing great job ...awesome couple👍👍
These two melt my heart.
Is your heart that soft???😂
I love this WHOLE PODCAST! MY FAVORITE! I love Carlo and Sara, being so open and honest. Matt and Abby relating, and asking open and honest questions. And the laughter is enlightening! Love this! Talking about mental health, the whole thing was great. Cherry on top, Matt constantly playing with Abby's hair, not even realizing it, it was like his calming thing, and I know I love my hair being played with, so it probably calmed Abby too. BELICIMO!
This podcast is going to be amazing!
This was probably top 3 episode for me I love it!!!
Best podcast they have done so far ,love this couple .
OMG I could listen to Carlo talk ALL day
OMG CAN WE PLEASE GET A ROUND 2!!! SO SO GOOD
Love how honest and positive this episode is! Thank you all for your humanity and for people true to yourselves.
How fun! I love Carlo and Sarah. Jessie and Alessio next, please 😊💜
This collaboration is perfect !
Omg omg Omggggg I legit gasped when I saw this new video pop up!!! I love Carlo and Sarah!!! One of these best couples along with Matt n Abby of course ❤
i love both of these couples so much!!❤ my family is really loud too, but we’re mexican. when we were young we all learned to just speak louder because you wouldn’t be heard over the family banter if you didn’t yell 😂😂😂
This was a great podcast!! I am so glad the younger generation is embracing mental health!
YES!!!! I would have never expected but this is perfect!
Oh my goodness, this was my one of my favorite episodes ever! Sarah and Carlo are amazing! Especially Carlo because he is a gem. ❤
One of your best ones yet!
Thank you Matt for bringing up men's mental health. For both men and women there doesn't have to be a true psychological reason for depression or sadness. Depression and severe sadness can also be brought on by chemical reactions in your body that are just simply out of your control. You can have all your needs met and still find yourself needing help. Again thank you.
The world is sooooo small! Seeing this makes a subscriber (to both channels) happy!
Loved the pod cast...I had so many laughs, you guys have the best guest. What a great show❤😂
Carlo is so amazing learning English so fast and well.
Omg! I literally was thinking about if y’all saw my suggestion to COLAB with Carlo & Sarah!!! I absolutely LOVE them! 😊❤
He learned English for her. Ladies, if he wanted to he would. I hope Sarah also learns her native language.
Her native language is English
The way Sarah looks at Carlo when he talks ❤ so in love
46:58 the fact I also thought they were actually talking about cars too, and I just realized😭
You guys are amazing love your vlogs from the beginning and love seeing you grow and have a beautiful family ❤❤❤
It's so cute that Matt and abby have matching cups
My favorite couple!!! So glad you all had them on!!!
I LOVE for this collab
Omg i love both of the couples and today i randomly opened youtube and saw you guys together❤ how funnn ☺️☺️
Love this!❤ Carlo is just darling! Best collab with my 2 fav couples!!
This was my favorite interview!
I absolutely love this couple. They are lucky to have found each other