Jon Bernthal Reflects on Interviewing Shia Labeouf

got chills i scrolled down and got to your comment and started reading it at the exact time he said it in the video

Sometimes no matter how much you try to help someone, it's useless unless they are willing to change.

@@boingo388 Well depends, sure most americans have this weird take not to protect or care for their family and friends. But in other parts of the world such as in my culture we don't have that.

@@XenagarD because most Americans don’t have real problems, and so all their problems are continuously self-inflicted, and it is hard to stand by someone after so many times, even family

@@garrettbaratheon567 Americans don't have real problems? No real jobs that pay a living wage. No jobs with reasonable work hours and benefits? Can't get access to healthcare, education, affordable housing, etc... Police murdering people on the streets. Politicians fighting to make women second class citizens again. Plenty of real problems.

For someone who comes across as a decent, down-to-earth guy, he is really great at playing arseholes.

That's almost always the case. All the villains from breaking bad are sweethearts irl as well.

He seems like a calm and responsible person.

They failed so many times trying to make the Punisher. And this chill dude freaking nailed it!

@@invisigaming357that’s crazy it’s like their jobs as actors is to be good portraying other people

Yeah, I do praise him for that because there’s so many guys that would do what he did and not own up to it. That tells me that you know he knows his mistake. He regrets it he’s really showing remorse. You know that he knows he probably I need to help, and that is refreshing because again that some guys I’ll do that stuff and try to sit there and act like they did nothing wrong. At least he’s only up to what he did. I mean I’ve seen some stories I’m happy people are not giving them a hard time because I’ve seen some celebrities apologize for things they made mistakes for and they still get punished for it and still sit there and bash and I think that’s fucked up. They say apologize I mean I know some slow is apologize and I don’t really mean it I understand that, but my thing is this you need to realize how hard it is to apologize to the world, I’m not perfect. They do the same things as we do they make mistakes. Yeah but it was Larry Owens up to the mistakes and apologize for the Julisa bashing them they shouldn’t have to. You know make it when they make mistakes should have a room in their life for a career.

He stil bullied, harassed people. He's a woman beater.

He's also a psycho trying to convince people he's gonna do better. Someone like him will never do better. It's the wife beater mentality. It's a manipulation tactic. It never actually gets better.

Best interview I’ve ever seen

It was pathetic.... Le bouff came across as a perpetual spoiled entiteled Hollywood bratt and punisher was just a psychophant enabler

I saw it’s true

I 100% agree bro ! I think the 2 of them should make some more movies together

Nothing’s wrong with Shia, there’s no man in the world that just hits or knocks around his woman. Women do or say a lot of nasty stuff to men but always men’s actions or words highlighted. No one even asks Shia why he did that and what was the reason

@@TM-MDX stupid comment. Shia said in the interview multiple times that there was and is something wrong with him and that he was in the wrong. In part that’s what made the interview special. Why would you justify abusive behaviour when the abuser themselves don’t?

Too bad his show is only for apple drones

He's an ACTOR. His whole life is him lying to your faces. People hate those that tell the truth and shatter their worldviews. This guy is playing a role right in front of your faces.

Shia is lost in his own mind still

there better be "he will not divide us" fiasco in that or im not watching it.

I agree feel the same way

I have also been in a few emotionally/physically abusive relationships, one of which was really bad and ended up with them being arrested. I stayed with that person for a while afterwards (generally not the right decision) but I ended up losing all the trust I initially carried for them and diving into a brutal depression that forced me to end it. I am still friends with this person. Why? Because they made an effort to be better and while it wasn’t enough to save the relationship, this is still a human being I care for. People who know this criticize me but they’re just a product of the colorless, grayscale-less world we live in. Everybody can be evil. And why we should definitely call out when someone is doing wrong, we should also permit them the ability to understand what they’ve done wrong and allow them to change. It’s kind of how screaming at a dog and kicking it out of the house isn’t going to train it to not jump on guests. Canceling people isn’t going to address the problem, it just promotes fear and gives people an excuse to witch hunt any person they don’t like. Abuse is obviously not okay. But instead of permanently excommunicating abusers from society, we should be more adamant on rehabilitation so that they improve. Sure, there’s some people who are always going to be problematic. But most people act in ways they have seen demonstrated to them as okay and society should work on conditioning those people to become better. Does Hollywood actually give a shit about abuse or rape? Obviously not. It’s all extra credit performative bullshit.

This guy loves to talk but he seems to be a decent guy.

Lmao stop the cap you liked it

@@godhasabandonedme1643☹️ what the

All thanks to Christ

Absolutely.

It's called respect for your guests. Not alot of interviewers have it. They tend to cut you off during the answer to their questions which pisses me off. If I was being interviewed If they interrupted me 2 times I'd stop em and say do you want to hear this or not? They do it again I'd walk off. As an interviewer show respect to those who take their time to do the interview. And respect the person asking you the questions. It's not rocket science.

Except when he’s fucked up, then it goes too shit

He's one of my tier interviewers!

His interviewing skills are so far beyond most "professional" interviewers out there. There's not a mainstream journalist who comes close.

He is Hollywood, numbnuts.

He said that "acting" was necessary to his friend's survival. Nothing more pretentious and less "solid' has ever been uttered... Hollywood is full of themselves and out of touch. "Acting" isn't necessary to anyone's survival. Hell, it's not even necessary at all.

He's acting. This guy is just another rich kid who became famous because of his parents nepotism. Don't fall for the act. People hate reading the truth.

And he has, like, 'no ego.' lmao

Hollywood doesn't deserve Jon

Sometimes

Quit glazing bruh

@@jayjones2017I don’t this it’s glazing at all. He has the biggest platform for podcasts. & if most other ppl that had the chance to sit down with half the ppl he has on his show they would be cutting those guests off all the time, mid sentence to ask something the public would wanna hear the second the guest starts saying anything controversial or related to anything that would make a headline or thumbnail. He’s one of the only people with limelight & power for the most part that ( US )-the PEOPLE should respect & honestly be grateful that we have. Because there’s some important guests he has on that shed light on topics that aren’t getting media attention correctly or ppl that are having backlash in the media sometimes, that are getting blackmailed by the ppl running those corporations & ALL the information & media in the country. He’s literally like the only platform where ppl can talk about REAL Shit going on in the world. & he’s the only one that’s SO BIG & has push.. so much so that the government is tight & max about it because he’s the only platform that they can’t really cancel… which is fuckin scary. Because if it was up the them.. they would have been canceled him already but they can’t. We should ALL be concerned about how ALL of us have phones on on us 24/7 to the point that they’re practically APART of OUR BODY & IDENTITY. Which nobody thinks about bc it’s been programmed in our daily lives now for over a decade. So now u & me & everyone else feels like we’re naked or a part of us is missing when u can’t find your phone.. right? So then think about how since it’s pretty much apart of our body & everyday life like we have our own individual mind & then your phone as well. BUT … “THEY” control everything on your phone. There not much in the media that’s not being controlled by the elites. If they cancel Rogan, then they can cancel anything else they u can think of. When you’re as big as he is & they shut u down, then I truly believe NWO is REALLY right around the corner dawg

@@THEUNOSLOTTwow

@@THEUNOSLOTTyou need a hobby

No thanks

Nah fam, The world just need to be better to one-another.

A friend that hears a rumor and stops talking to you for two years without asking your side? Lol good luck with that friend.

@@ericpeterson1000amen to this^ - bailing on someone based on an accusation… “I want to show you what a real friend is” well you totally fucking failed dude 😂

Most people see people like this as annoying or arrogant and push them away. I try to help people all the time with mindset because I broke through a lot on my own, and many people just say I think i'm better than them. Majority of people don't want to change and are stubborn as hell with any advice.

He now IS the Punisher

how would he fuck up ? his face fits a spartan helmet.

Right. Can't Invision anyone else from now on

I did the same thing! I thought he would ruin it and went in skeptical. Watched episode 1 and binged watched the rest of the season in 2 days. He absolutely killed it and owned that role!

Ya, the Punisher show he was in was ruined by the bad writing.

Amen to that

Yeah like having a cold sore being an std!!!!! 😄

I’m going to go find it and watch it💙

calm the fuck down, its two celebrities talking

I saw that Conan and Joey Diaz and now Jon Bernthal and everyone irrelevant has a podcast now and thought it's just band wagon fodder, but I respect Jon for risking something

That’s very mature and forgiving of you too find that perspective.

Respect to you for saying this! Its easy to assign a victim and a perpetrator but what many fail to realize is that both parties are usually in need of some help. So easy to forget that we're all human here and a lot of us are dealing with some pretty serious internal conflicts.

Yes many times there is abuse both ways. Women get off way too easy. It's damaging everything in western cultures.

Many focus on the perceived lack of justice around these types of issues, and while that should definitely be a major concern, I sometimes feel like we should also consider the virtue of mercy as well, and how in many ways it can be forgotten about in these scenarios. Obviously mercy isn't something that should come cheaply or automatically, it is something that should be offered to those willing to open themselves to it if they are truly striving to turn from their wrongful ways. I read something somewhere that went like this: justice and mercy are two parts of one whole. Justice without mercy can become injustice in the same way that mercy without justice can.

@Noran Micholas I agree with the idea that both parties are in need of help. We saw that most recently with the Depp and Heard trials. Both parties were guilty of a lot of unkindness and poor behaviour towards each other. I don't get that vibe from Shia's story (but will accept the info we have is very limited). Sometimes there IS a victim and a perpetrator. Perpetrators still need help, but in a very different way. And it's generally true that they only seem interested in help once they are caught/exposed, which isn't true for victims.

Annnd then there's NDT lol

No hes selective on whom he interrupts😂

It’s our job to do this with others too

Imagine how many times Stern would have interrupted him.

Do you people take ecstasy before making comments like this? Y’all are corny.

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@@FartInYourFace234 lmfao I know!!!

Incredibly impressive how Jon interviewed him and his patience.

It was interesting to listen to, partly because it was impossible to tell what was bullshit. Shia saying something to the effect of "I was seeing everything in life as an opportunity for performance, but I'm not doing that any more" while delivering what could easily just be another performance made it very difficult to believe anything he said. A bit of a boy who cried wolf situation he's put himself in with his constant bullshit. I'm not even sure I believe his accent is real.

​@@LightninLew the reason for his evolution was because of him becoming a father and finding religion. It's just a natural part of growing up, i don't think he was being pretentious at all.

That's so awesome.🥺 Keep that person around.

Big respect Ma man x

You're friend sounds ride or die. I don't know how do losing only one. Do you believe in God? What's your mind? Just so when have deal with it, don't want to be useless.

No idea what that’s like lol

If you have "mental health" issues shouldn't you book an counseling session? I believe that everyone should go see a counselor at least once a year for a mental tune-up. This should be part of your yearly physical. People also should book an appointment for a massage and chiropractor each year.

The world needs less rich people pretending to be blue collar.

What in the world is with the heavy bootlicking, are most these comment sections AI generated? Y’all are just saying the same shit. This whole comment section is just an echo chamber

Balance is not needed, you gotta overcome ,surpass, exceed .dont stop at a balance

@@malinko35 no, world needs less judgmental pricks like you, less hate and jealousy towards other people successes

Looks like you dont understand "Gender rolls"

That IS how friends act. Anything less is not a friend. I used to have a ton of "friends", but i realised i really only had a few.

Every couple of months I have mini panic attacks. I think it’s because I don’t feel free enough. Constantly working. Drinking too much, barley spending time on things I like. I forget about it until one day it hits me and I damn near start crying

While women should be “believed” & have zero accountability & are encouraged to ruin men’s lives.

@@kiezersosay49 People seem to use the word "friend" to mean everything from casual acquaintance to platonic soulmate 🤔 Aristotle said that a friend was someone who wanted the best for you--and acted on said good will.

Females are not being held accountable for their actions and receives help from every direction while some of these males are being instilled the behaviors of a female when young but are getting punished for them when they make the same mistakes. Now these females have another weapon against males and not having accountability with this "Believe ALL Women". Jon quickly cut off Shia without hearing information from both sides first. The powers that be have done a number on societal brainwashing.

Wrong,that raw emotiin was depression

@@lawlessfarming9878 yeah...... sure, that doesn't mean it's not raw emotion

@@lawlessfarming9878 what are you on about?

I know I cried toward the end of it the emotion was just so real & raw

@@lawlessfarming9878 do you even know what depression is like?

It was weak and a very beta thing to do. But thats what Shia is a lunatic beta

agree; i think about that interview often. And of course I recommended it to my parents both old tymers in the program; Shia’s raw emotion was : It’s not about quitting drinking, it’s that you want to live more than you want to drink. I feel sorry that Shia like a lot of us, don’t see our sensitivity as a strength and try and find ways to cope with that soft heart; It is actually his (our) strength-

@@lessdatesmoreonmyplates1457 man child

@@NeroZenith dude is a troll lmfao

and a testament to Joe's interviewing skills.

That is called good weed. Trust me. Helps you listen more and focus more on one person.

@@rodion1911 Yes

@@dertythegrower It legitimately has the opposite effect on me. I'm all in my own head and just tune people out.

Because Joe doesn't listen to just retort, he listens to try and actually understand someone.

Disagree. Neil Tyson would be a better interviewer

You literally just explained anyone having a conversation

@@Lasciviousness have you ever seen any of the Jimmy's doing interviews because joe rogan is level above them they just interrupt constantly

You mean how a conversation should go

Jon interviews that same way I love these two their pod casts are superb

Holy you must want some Jon D don’t care either way he had him on for views he’s no friend like he told joe he hear accusations and didn’t talk to him for two years and instead of going to dinner with him or hang out he brings him on podcast for “real” friend how much money did he make off that podcast such great guy how much did he give to womens shelters or causes hmmm $0 tell me it’s not in it for money 💵 lmfao 👍

I'm sure he will take great comfort from your kind words

rEaL pEoPlE SUpOrt yOU 100%

Dude is fake af...LMFAO. Hilarious/sad how many naïve people there are...

Lmao clownshow

He was great on the walking dead!

Thomas Jane is THE punisher

He brings such intensity to every role he takes.

He’s even acting this whole interview. Just listen.

@@ClickClan100 he wasn't as good.

Same here, got to meet him at motor city comicon just prior to him filming season 1 of the Punisher. Super nice guy and humble. Told him I was looking forward to him playing Frank Castle and he said his goal was to not let the fans down.

A commenter named 'DARTHN3WS' with 5.1k likes in this video kzhead.info/sun/fd6mhdOirpacmmg/bejne.html typed... "I met him at comic con during his first year as punisher, NOBODY was in his line, so I took a photo and spent 5 minutes talking with him. Such a real dude"

I spent 15 minutes with him waiting for a podcast to start and he is okay

me too. but i lose respect after he did not press shia about what he did , this interview with rogan prove that he is just like the other hollywood creature . birds of feather flock together. 1 sec he said that he cant forgive woman beater. next he give platform so that scum can make a full use of his acting skill/exp so he can make a comeback.. i hope jon understand that if shia beat up another woman. its his fault as much as shia fault

I spent 30 seconds with him in an elevator. It was super awkward because I had just ripped a huge fart before he got in.

I want to hear him say that as Frank Castle right before emptying his friend's skull. 💥

@@XiaolinDraconis chill dude

Sure you did

@@alexha2884 sure you didn't

@@alexha2884 why not believe him?

@@bbgames908 why believe him?

Nice try Shia

Even before joe was rich, he listened! It's like he is on edge just waiting for you to get it off your chest. He perfect in his facial expressions too. I've noticed Joe can give them a look and they can jus go straight back into the story with more passion.

Because Joe is high 🥴

@@fonainfinity5964 we are all high

@@101rwd1943 nah, a high person would be obnoxious or ask what they said repeatedly. Respect the serious conversation.

Night time? Why you gotta make it sound all creepy?! When are these ever released at night?

I suppose. It depends. On circumstance

@@ClaudiusFranz When was the last time an absolute actually applied to everything

@@ClaudiusFranz I get where you're coming from and that we should strive for a world where everyone should be allowed a second chance because no one should be irredeemable but it is a slippery slope. History has shown that often times people have been given far too many chances and will abuse that forever until finally cut off. I would say we should try to err on the side of caution but recognize that society would in fact be better off without some people being allowed to stay in the lime light as well.

@nate19 100%

Well your lack of understanding is your problem isn’t it. You have an opinion big deal

You know that Shia is completely full of ish, right? The guy is one of the biggest scumbags in Hollywood, and that's not easy to accomplish. He thinks black people deserve to go to hell for their skin tone, and the hatred in his voice and eyes when he said that tells me that's how he truly feels. If a Conservative had ever made comments even remotely similar to what Shia has made over the years they would be rightfully cancelled. Shia gets a second, third, fourth, fifth, and sixth chance for whatever reason. We're all on a journey, sure, and some of us lie our way through it. Shia is one of those people...

Shia is u think the best actor alive at the moment. He is immensely talented. Most artists are imperfect, & have been in trouble. It’s not a hanging offence. Christianity forgives! Looking forward to seeing him in new movies soon

@@nathanweeks6509 fr

Shia did the interview to try and get back in the game. You all drank the coolaide. “He’s the best actor…” dude is a lunatic and should be in prison.

Same

I think what he did was deplorable. I also think shutting him away from society would do no good, the same goes for anyone. Rehabilitation and re-education will do a hell of a lot more good than harsh punishment will.

It would help if women can take accountability for their actions as well a lot of the times women are pushing men to these limits Not saying he’s absolved of his transgressions but women need to understand they are a big part in mens attitudes and bad doings Constantly testing the man then when they break you wonder why but don’t take the accountability that you might have had a part in the shift

​@Imnottherealswtheory there's no reason for abuse either gender.

@@Wakuppeopletheywanttocontrolus or men can just break up with women they feel they have to be physically violent with, that’ll also work. Or the woman can leave the 1st time her man shows signs of violence. Both of these things make more sense than what you said. You are responsible for your actions, including anyone you hit. Bar none

@@kj7682 too bad women do that before that could happen lol this is what I mean no accountability lol

This is what other real men (not little boys who got older) discussing things should be. This is real manly behavior. Not rude bravado and toxic anger. Ths strength is stronger ther lifting stregth. Cant get that at the gym. Work your minds and bodys. Be well rounded. Be understanding. Be compassionate.

@@sm-fl4vx❤spot on

EDITING.

he did a great chat with guys in prison who are never to be parrolled so literally they will die in prison it was astounding one of the most moving things I have ever listened to makes you realise that everyone is redeemable if given the right chances .......what these men have learnt about themselves should be taught to everyone at school why do they have to get to a place like prison to be granted the grace to be human

@@helen9289 I mean a high chance of dying in prison but there's always retrials.

Oh yes. Great friend, exiled one of his friends because of what the media said. Didn't bother asking his friend what happened and instead judged his friend based on news stories. Then, when his ratings didn't increase, he decided to get said friend on his podcast for views. Great guy! So thoughtful

@@jenniferp4612 i mean if half the world is saying you done something, you probably did it lol

Have you seen Elon Musk meets Post Malone 😆 it’s hilarious!! 👽

Relationships? Plural? Instead being a victim maybe try taking accountability and chose better partners for one. Two, what are YOU doing that multiple men are physically/emotionally abusing you. most ppl don’t start hitting ppl for no reason. Not saying it’s right or deserved but sometimes you can learn from your own actions. I don’t believe your completely innocent.

@@ZukMyZikwomen will do anything but be accountable 🤦‍♂️

@@boosterstephanie5700 they love victimhood. They scream victim from the rooftops. That’s why #metoo happened. These women willingly slept with nasty men like Weinstein to get roles. They gave away their pussy for roles and money then acted like victims like they were taken advantage of but true is the victims are the women who got morals and said no to ppl like Weinstein and didn’t get the roles. Crazy fucking world we live in.

@@ZukMyZik hmm interesting response to my comment. I commented on the interview and my appreciation for the raw and vulnerable conversation. No where in my comments did I say I was a victim, did I place blame or point a finger. Maybe look at what my comment brought up in you? 🤔🤷🏼‍♀️ While the interview is specifically speaking to romantic relationships, my comment was non specific. Family and friends can be abusive as well, just for the record. There’s a lot of assumption in your comment. Assuming I haven’t done any self work, healing work, etc. when in fact you have no idea what I may or may not have done/worked on in this regard. For the sake of anyone else reading this, yes responsibility needs to be taken for the situations and relationships we accept/put ourselves in, stay in. And, the only persons actions I can control are my own. In as much as I accept responsibility for staying in situations/relationships that were abusive…, they have their own responsibility in accepting they choose to respond how they did. I do believe those responses were based on their own trauma and issues around them, just as me staying was a response to my own unhealed traumas at that time…and it’s their responsibility to do their own healing around that and not put it on another. Similar to your comment now. Something I said triggered something in you in such a way you felt it necessary to respond to a stranger on KZhead. And comment in such a way that assumes you know anything about me. No questions were asked of me, no inquiry into anything. It sounds like you jumped to some conclusions, without any real knowledge of me or my relationships, and commented as though your thoughts are accurate in some way. Perhaps that’s something you want to examine more within yourself? 🤷🏼‍♀️Perhaps not? Either way, best to you.

@@nativeca7356 again proven my point. No accountability. It’s a women’s kryptonite.

He's also very aware of where he is. Takes balls to talk about these things on the biggest podcast on the planet.

😂😂😂😂😂

These people are weird. All of them. Who even talks like this? He thinks being friends with people saves them. These people are socially awkward and Absolutely nuts and so are you lot for making out this is normal.

Is he Jesus

He's an actor.

Interesting statement. What if Shia slept with Bernthal's wife?

@@glp.1337 he shouldn't be forgiven? The fuck is your point

@@nottheoriginalhandle How about you answer that single question first before you pose 2 new ones.

Amen! The way he said that, really made me think about all the “friends” that turned their back on me if I made poor decisions & the very few that didn’t & always try to help me be better.

Have you seen "Joe Rogan asks Elon Musk HARD Questions About Cobalt Mining For TESLA Batteries"

Anybody can do it. Kairos prison ministry has been doing this for a long time. Its great to hear a rich jewish kid like Jon out acting like a christian. Maybe he could get his billionaire family to donate to the cause?

Wow. Well said. Thank you for this 👍

Have you seen Elon Musk meets Post Malone 😆 it’s hilarious!! 👽

What did Shia do to these women ?

This this this !!!

@@sumstuff6956 look it up, Shia LeBoef and FKA Twigs. He admitted that he abused her. Jon is saying "he may have done those things" etc but he has admitted it. He strangled her, he threatened her, he knowingly infected her with an STD, he violently attacked her and he drove around at night shooting stray dogs to "get into character". This isn't a he said she said situation, he 100% did it.

@@islabee94 what a piece of shit I knew by the way rogan was saying “right” etc that joe wasn’t feelin what he was saying I’ve followed joe for many years became obsessive at one point love joe and know when he thinks a guest is full of shit I’m guessing rogan wasn’t buying his bullshit when he said “I can’t roll wiv women abusers or child abusers “ then went on to try and pull the wool over joes eyes an explain how he made an exception for this particular woman abuser I’ve always thought Jon is full of shit he was on rogans befire trying to make out like he was some kind of tuff guy gangster WHILST he was still acting and joe was giving the same kinda reaction that Jon berandal has confirmed with this that he’s full of shit and spineless typical actor can tell joe ain’t buying his justification

You CANNOT help people in need of help UNLESS THEY accept, seek, welcome help. This is from my experience over 4+ decades. Only if they are WILLING to get better, learn, change, whatever you coin the phrase, nothing changes. Heart breaking feeling to be helpless witnessing self destruction.

@@SrAntonio301 that's not the only thing Shia has ever done in his life. Jesus Christ

@@SrAntonio301 If somebody makes a mistake, does that mean we can’t learn from them?

Same it was great it showed a lot of growth in Shia

@@SrAntonio301 why, are you coming from the perspective of someone that's never listened to over two hours of conversation that they had? Clearly you didn't watch/listen to the podcast. Also, get your facts straight before you run your self righteous mouth please sir. Huge difference between abuse and assault.

@@SrAntonio301 You win the award for the stupidest thing said 🏆 Judge someone all you want, but never condemn them. Everybody deserves an opportunity to change, nobody should be defined by who they were, or maybe even who they are right now, every person on the planet can be better, don't take the right to be better away by trying to condemn, that's not your place.

everyone deserves the chances to redeem themselves if we are truely to be a compassionate society we need to help people see the good in themselves so that they can grow & become a better human but they need to want to do that first. Jon's conversations with people on his pod cast are very much like Joe Rogan's more about the guest than the interviewer ...they are all important conversations & I find I learn lots from them all

That’s what real MF are about!!

Brought u to tears ? Jesus Christ u need therapy it sounds like

Didnt he lie about honey boy ? I swear on the shiea in an interview said he made honeyboy up…look it up

😭😭😭😭

A guy who avoids you because of a rumor for 2 years, then suddenly wants to get you on a podcast?

Like Shia, he's all about craft. Prime example.

This actor has a podcast called "the real ones". That tells me all I want to know about him

@@maddux_ true lol

It is only by the grace of God that abusive behaviour can be erased. Punishment and isolation from others only produces shame and more self loathing, which only produces more anger. Abusive people, including myself, need God to show them mercy. I will pray for your family.

I don’t if anyone has told you yet - but I’m proud of you.

Glad it helped you too man, and that your lady is sticking with you. I've treated my wife poorly and it's hard to get over the shame. Ive blown up all my relationships but I'm still married somehow. Like you said I pushed people away with hate. Had anger issues and severe bipolar that I wasn't medicated for. Gotten a lot of help and have dedicated to changing the last two years. Which I think I have. Wish you well on your path to healing!

What medication helped?

@@skprincess725 Alexapro and ceraquill . i cant spell at all sorry.

@@nilbognatas7385 Thank you i can never hear it enough/

I agree

He did, for 2 years, until he changed his mind. That's something.

@@yutro213 IMO he did not want to get cancelled by association himself. Yes that's the sad world we are living in today.

Nah, only cowardly fggits abuse others, even if they've been abused Prepare for beatings if you can't control yourself- male or female

As men, we have to help each other because no one really gives a shit about what we go through.

Such a true statement. I’ve been stuck in a abusive relationship for 17 years. Half of my life. I constantly have to make up lies to to cover the black eyes, busted lips, and scratches. It’s a lonely world when you are a men being abused by a woman. No resources, no help, and everyone thinks it’s a big joke. But if the roles were reversed it wouldn’t be a joke to anyone. I’m so scared to leave because my kids are the only family I have. I grew up in state custody and I can’t lose them. But both of my in laws are well known attorneys with unlimited resources. So it’s a tough battle. In my area courts almost always side with the female. So I tough it out so I can be with my kids.

@@johnnycash2238 you’re going to live a life full of regret and be miserable in your older years. I understand where you’re coming from but no one is this world will ever care but YOU and no one can change it but you. Get away from that witch, be copacetic enough for the kids but the day they are 18 never speak to the woman again. Your life is going to be ruined you already will have 17 years of deep shame and regret just allowing it, don’t stand for it any more. WAKE UP PLEASE

@@johnnycash223807Josh is right. You’re doing the right thing by putting your relationship with your kids first. But you’ll have to stand up for you, and them when they’re all old enough. They’ll see it and wonder why you’re not doing anything about it. If you leave too early, they won’t understand why you put your desires and comfort over your relationship with them.

#1 actor is entirely subjective. He's pretty good, but there's so many I couldn't imagine somehow narrowing it down to a single one

More men who go on and on loving the sound of his own voice I guess.

Honestly I was like this shit is 2hrs long I’m not watching this….. ended up watching it more than once

@@EastSide-qc5oy u dickriding everywhere