How to waste your life and be miserable. (or how to live and be happy)
There are literally thousands of videos and books written about how to obtain happiness... But not today. Not us. Today we will take a different approach. We will be heading the opposite way. Heading straight to misery.
In the video we will go over 5 tactics that you can use to become as miserable as you possibly can, so buckle up and get ready for a journey into the dark lands, if you so desire.
But maybe you don't want to be miserable, maybe you want to know how to live happy, maybe you want to know how to avoid depression and misery.. Well then, you can also use this video as a anti-guide. A anti-guide that can help you identify and remove some of the habits and rituals you are already doing, some which are making you miserable even though you try your best to live fulfilled and satisfied.
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this is a five minute roast for me
Same here..ouch
Same here...
Same
Yup same here
LMAO
I just wanted to check if im doing it right..
im glad i satisfy all the points, so proud!
Hahahahah
Indeed ha ha ha
Daayum same dude. It seems that I do it perfectly
I am in the same queue as you🤣
_"You wanna learn how to waste your life and be as miserable as you can?"_ Nah. I've perfected it already
Why does life suck ?
@@geetown3485 It's a sorrowful state of affairs.
I already Mastered this 🤣
I always feel sad;(
@@geetown3485 it doesn't. Approximately 3 million people wished they had a life like u. Don't say life it sucks. Grow up!
I have never felt so personally attacked by one single video
Well i was fine with that, but the paralysis of fear and the keeping in the comfort zone.. oh boi.. the anger rose
Finally, I'm succeeding in something
Same here
🥳
Here we are
Same
yea yea 😂
This video is pretty accurate how I’m currently living. Feels like hell.
Same
yup! while thinking about the fastest, least painful ways to die! got to love creativity!
Welcome in the club mate. :D
Me too =(
Same here, very deadly life
I wasn't expecting this video to literally list EVERYTHING I do, I think I need to just go to sleep now this has actually made me die a little inside
Me either
Same
Детерминизм это Свобода 🤙 🤙
So...did you stop doing the stuff yet? Like yeah life sucks, but typically you just need to put in a shot ton of effort To make it better. Worked great for me so far.
it's 2 years later now, hope you're dealing with things better now :)
I have been doing every single thing for years ......no wonder why I am so successful .... At destroying my life
Same but i have excuses. Mental stuff! Who else got a psychosis last year? Nobody? Well, then i'm actually good at something
Детерминизм это Свобода 🤙 🤙 🤙
@@cobalius hey are you better now?
For the first time I've actually mastered everything suggested in one of your videos.
Haha, that's kinda good but also kinda bad....
The exact video that i wanted to see thanks a lot.This an Epitome for me and i have all that kind of mentality.
Welcome brother
Same
I was just typing something similar and thought "there's no way this comment isn't written already", lol.
This motivated my depression.
Exactly
It cured mine
I just exactly discover why am I in a depression
Eric the Viking Bullshit, real depression can’t just be cured by some shitty video miss understanding complex issues
then you’re* better off being depressed
Be social, build relationships Don't take things seriously or personally Don't complain, be positive and optimistic Live in the present moment and feel how peaceful it is Go to sleep happy, with good positive thoughts Set SMART goals (specific, measurable, actionable, time-defined) Go out of your comfort zone, realize fear is just an illusion don't let it dictate your life, take risks, don't wait for the perfect moment
We only have one life, we must live it to the fullest. We can’t dwell on the past and we can’t be regretful. We must learn to move on and move forward. We are all only one decision away from bettering or ruining our lives. I choose to try and to be the best version I can possibly become. If I fail, at least I try. And trying is better than doing nothing at all.
>have a goal >live in the moment Literally pick one or the other
@@mooganify this
Thank you ❤️
@@mooganify lmao ikr
How to be miserable in 5 steps: 1 Isolate yourself 2 Take things seriously, judge everyone, keep your distance and complain alot 3 Live in the past or future 4 Never set goals, if you do ignore the small steps 5 Let fear paralize you and stay in your comfort zone.
I love the ending, "maybe you 'll do better in the next life."
Buddists be like
We do not exist even we live our lives.
There is only ONE life and after that ETERNITY with Lord Jesus Christ in Heaven or Hell depart from God.. this is NO JOKE!! Repent and believe in Lord Jesus Christ!
@@snicfeelthelove2069 yawn
Haklısınız kardeşimmm
Oh boy, I sure don't want to kill myself right now.
Moises Soto i see youre trying hard to become miserable, good job !
Attaboy.
Why not?!?
Damn, u failed
What is wrong with you? why wasting time to live when can die and be done with it
I feel like this is a 5 min roast session for all of us INFPs out there...
This video is just the worst of all IxxPs rolled into one, especially when paired with enneagram types 4 or 6.
as an infp, i agree.
As an INTP i have to agree, too.
INFP Problems. 😫
INFJ too. We have goals but they are often so big we lose hope and motivation 😞
I don’t think enjoying my Own Presence can’t make me miserable???? Just the opposite I feel miserable around how rude, nasty society (other people) are behaving and are now a days! No Thanks nothing good to add to my Life! I hope all of you agreed!
yh this comment is top im telling you 👏
Agreed
I don't enjoy myself or the company of others.
@@GhostSamaritan ok that’s a problem now when u mentioned you don’t enjoy yourself ? Why?
@@darkbionic1044 because he knows he is miserable and antisocial and dont have strenght and happines inside of himself.
Nothing to learn here. I already do all these things
@@cringe_shattles69 then be my friend 😢
@@infinitybeyond4577 I can be your friendo
@@infinitybeyond4577 urhm sure dude
@@kostas9006 No County For Old Mendo
Your profile pic says it all
I already know how to waste my life I don't need advice thanks
Czqhn 87 same 😂😂
Czqhn 87 well depends on what you want out of life what isn't a waste for someone might be for someone else
lmao
Damn, I see you’re using the advice
Wasting my time and my life, lol that's why I'm here haha
I literally don’t care, I don’t want to live my life with this perfectionist self improvement attitude. That sounds exausting. I think it’s really unhealthy to chase happiness like that and it’s better to be grateful for what you have in the present moment. This video is good for the most part but I don’t think it’s necessary to set all those goals because it’s just too much. You shouldn’t have to do that much to be happy.
It amazes me , yesterday I said that “I want to die and I don’t enjoy things like always...” and unsurprisingly all things said in this video were me .
1. Use social media less 2.talk people 3.don t take all things seriously 4.never complain 5.never over think about your past and future 6.do new things and improve your self 7.set your goals ,which are clear Have a good day, friend 😊😊😊😊
not that easy
Its not easy to do for sure but, i didnt have a list so thanks mate
Naaaahhh
Thank you soo much for list
Thanks
This video saved my life, I was becoming too successful and happy. Thank you very much🙏🏽
Sensei Mattto wow.. Keep on going!
😂😂😂😂😂
Go down you will get dizzy up there with low O2
lol
this sounds like the most sarcastic mom lecture ever
Wow according to your guide I have literally already mastered misery and I have been honing my skills for such a long time that maximizing misery has become my default state. I SEE THAT NOW THERE IS NOTHING MORE I CAN DO
Socializing is good but with the right people and they are hard to find.
True, but you just find them by socializing :)
trust in Lord Jesus Christ to guide you and you will find the right people.
socializing isnt that hard, just say more good morning to someone and then they will be friendly, is like magic!! socializing isnt party with your friends, socializing is be a part of that social world, living in society, this will grow you and your mental health
I used to be someone with that kind of thoughts and wanting to kill everyone. Now I have a lot of good friends in school, family, etc. Just don't make enemies, be nice even with horrible people, and be friends with the ones you like
Even though they are hard to find, it doesn't change the fact that it is miserable not having someone there for you.
I just saw the reflection of my everyday life in here. Thanks for the video.
We r on the same page then
I'm doing most of the things in this video, I don't know what bring it...but I know that I want to change
Same 😞😥😢
yea, just dont forget to keep complaining and do nothing about it! proud of ya ma boys!
I succeed in the described stages of misery mostly because of subconscious decisions - I'm superintroverted and suffer from BPD, feeling threatened by everything and driving on a hellish roller-coaster- God, what have I done to you to be this way????????? 😱😱
I can’t be happy because I keep remembering that I’m gonna have to work my whole life until I retire. What am I gonna be doing for fun at 60. My mom might be dead by then and I’d be getting closer to death. I dropped out of high school due to social anxiety and depression. I’m 18 and need to get a ged to become an electrician or go into a police academy. I promised my mom i wouldn’t be a failure so those jobs are some of the options I have. Also the only 2 friends I have don’t ever wanna hang out with me or at least text. Nature is the only thing that makes me happy. I might just save up a lot of money and live the van life
Sorry to hear that. But what i'm gonna say it might be... I don't know. But all engineer says that "there is no problem but a challenge to be solved." And work is something i don't know.. But there is no work when you are working with things that you love to do. We all hate doing things that we hate. Pessimism is not be a "dumb. Pessimism is: all house there is a door and i just need to find it." Apologize for my english. I hope you have a good one.
kzhead.info/sun/irSJgKqpqnd5rWg/bejne.html
It might be helpful
it's easy to everybody saying ''do this or that or your life is miserable'' but people know what they live and have to deal everyday of course we have to try our best but c'mon, we'll work till we die on a job we probably will hate at some point and life is becoming more and more unbearable, and no video will change it
@@kazzy8819 you're right. That's why we should pick a job that we love to do. It's kind of a culture where people say "pick a job that will give you more money!" Honestly we all are working right now When we play videogames or make a music or write. Then , why working is bad ? Indeed when we work with something that we hate doing is the best way to waste our life.
for some reason my brain kept being like: *hm yes lets take notes here*
2020 pandemic: "Iscolate yourself, isolation is one of the biggest forms of misery" Quarentine: CHECK
I didn't need quarentine for this step though :)
@@neptunimidie267 me too bro
@John Jr Derbyshire neurosis
I isolated my self even before covid
I legitimately want to die at this point I can’t take it
I don't remember when I actually had a goal in my life.
what is goals?
Goala is something which you want deep inside and suceeding to get it. But how can have goals if not perception and pure happines inside of yourself.
Thats my problem
And I think drugs and lifestyle ruined my life
@@sapnupuas7451 dont stop that from pulling you back from your goals though. You were in a bad place and you didnt know it then but what matters is that you know now, dont give up sapnu puas i bet you can achieve your goals!
this was actually so useful on everything I'm doing wrong
I kept laughing at this LMAO , I don’t know wy
my life has come to a point where if I start making plans for tomorrow they start to go wrong today.
Same
Maybe ask your butler Maeda. Jk but wdym by going wrong today?
@@CryingoverDazaicomau i mean,if i plan something for tomorrow,things won't go as i planned y'know, and then bam my plans are ruined(srry if i'm confusing u, english is not my first language)
@@gizmo0 no no your english is fine, i just wanted you to elaborate so i could help in some way. i used to be on the same boat . i used plan so much for the next day but the next day would come and i'd look at the plan list and go 'oh no it's too much i'll do it in the next hour '-- and then an hour passed and i ended up doing nothing. i watched lots of videos on how to stop this and i thought i could share some videos you can watch to feel inspired. kzhead.info/sun/lKx9pqmeoIWfo6c/bejne.html kzhead.info/sun/oayem7mKgXSIY6c/bejne.html the first video was a great help to me. i decided that instead of trying to do 2 hours of study a day for one subject (i have 6 subjects) i decided to break it down into 20 minutes and spread it across the whole week. so far, it's working for me because it's more manageable. so what i do now is write a checklist of all the things i have to do but only spend 20 minutes on it. if i have enough time, i'd spend another 20 minutes. (i do things in chunks of 20 minutes now. because i realised that when i focussed too much on big tasks i'd be like meh i can do it tomorrow or feel overwhelmed and be scared to start. it's a pretty good trick i use to trick my brain into doing work. i tell myself okay just spend twenty minutes. it gets me in the flow and i work productively too.) the second video is good too but i don't really use it cause i don't like scheduling but it might be for you. sorry for the long post, have a nice day.
@@CryingoverDazaicomau ur so sweet,thanks😔✊🏻♥️✨🌻
I feel attacked
Alienh Hel hahahaha😂😂
Same 😂
True though
lol
Ikr 🤣 somehow me too a bit
Funny and true all at the same time. May I have the island all to myself? I'd be happy that way ;)
When you realise youre making your life miserable 😐
I'll be right back, my toaster says it wants to take a bath with me
GAGANDEEP SINGH 😆😆
hahaha!!!
Ki hoya prawa🤣
Auch my stomach =D
Make sure to plug it in first
All these issues are symptoms of traumatized brain-not the root problem. Most people who are stuck in this really don't want to be there and have tried repeatedly to get out of this cycle! They have pains and sadness that they can't rid themselves of and thus their brain is focused on protective measures; isolation, judgment of any threat, anger which gives instantaneous energy, passimissm to avoid further disappointment and loss of hope or as Victor Frankel put it, loss of meaning/purpose for life. Empathy and support by an equipped person be it a wise friend or a trained counselor can help re-adjust a scared brain into a healthy brain willing to explore and grow or, as Freud put it, actualize. All these issues are a symptom and most of the time aren't a choice at all!
Finally, the right answer 🖒👌
This deserves a thousand likes.
@CUTIE SANA Sure but I'm a gynaecologist.
@@Guerrilla727 loooooooooooool
@@redrosey7829 ;)
"Wait for the perfect time". You got me there dude
"Heaven knows I'm more miserable now..." I can't be happy if I don't want to exist in this world. I have become awoken, and it's driven me mad. I've gone insane with despair.
Maybe thats why they woke us,,,
Oh my god SAME
@o. t. i means you were sleeping beforehand
@@songwriterscove4515 you sir need Jesus, not the fake fabricated one you succumb to foolishly, seek help from the purest of the pure, or just try attempting a backflip off the bank of america! (i'd prefer you do the second option however)
@@offbrandfiji6487 evidently your religion thinks it's okay to suggest that people commit suicide, no thanks. You sir, are of your father the devil.
Did already all scenarios... Is there some Kind of DLC for this game?
chase hot women bro
drugs can also improve, or, ehm, worsen your life :D They can cause you psychosis, you can become a neurothic and very compulsive/impulsive :DDDD yaaaaaaaaay, have a blast!
This made me laugh.. out loud
Yea, it's called Free Roam: Do what makes you happy
Thank yall this is by far my favorite thread btw👍🏾
1. Being isolated 2. Complaining 3. Think past & future 4. Not concentrating on small steps 5. Keep comfort zone opposite!!!
I have all those and i am 17
Me too... it is been worse for a couple of year... and im 20
Same... I'm 23 and fucked up my whole life just becausd of my own mindset...
This is me =__
@@senseinuuh same
1. Isolate yourself 2. Take things very seriously/personally and complain about everything 3. Live in the past and worry about the future 4. Give up on your goals all together 5. Let fear paralyze you, and don’t ever leave your comfort zone Here you go😊
Oh there is no future, not one I want to live in, while some the comments to this video are funny the path to suicide isn't, the opposites of all you wrote is fit in, obey do what you are told be controlled.
Damn! I didn't even watched this video and I was already making more then half of the progress!! TALENT...
so... being unsocial... check. being negative and complain... check.. next is getting anxiety... shouldn't be too hard.
haha! I'm ahead of you! I winnnn!...oh wait... >.
I don't need anxiety it makes me plan out what I have to do, to lazy to do that man.
ANGRY SPACE MARINE just turn into a dickhead. Honestly i’ma just give people a reason to hate me
Trauma from an last year incident check
CRINGE
I've been doing this for 22 years and I can confirm that it works
*people with miserabe life could react to the worst problem better than people with a happy life. Simply put, people with many problems can deal with their problems more better because they used to it, but people with no problems in their life never feel how it's like to be a loser and struggle with their problems, they always gonna rely to the others. Basically it's just about experience. If you always alone it'll feel good if do everything yourself and proof it to others that even a loner have something that everyone doesn't know about.*
Ik this comment is old af but being happy doesn't equal no problems
This was the reminder I needed today. Thank you!
Ugh..... I can’t believe I’m not supposed to complain.
WHERE'S THE MANAGER OF MY LIFE?! I WANNA TALK TO HIM!
Potato lol
The ironyyy
I dont mind complainers once or twice then they get off their butts to do something about it. I dont know about you but I personally cant stand complainers but does nothing about it. I dont do that too coz that is annoying asf to tje people around me.
lmao the irony
This video is actually scary
Because it makes one realize, where they are heading.
it's very unconfortable to watch because it's describe very accurately what led a lot of people to be miserable, me included. It isn't a comforting video, it's kind of a wake-up call, it's disgusting and it makes you react strongly
Wow now I see why I tried suciced attempt yesterday. 🤔
@@luckycharm1395 You are not alone who tried it at 6th dicember 2018.
No it is not
As for now I'm 29 years old and I been living like this for 12 years. I'm ashamed of myself. Just recently I wanted to make a serious change, but I don't know it feels like it's too late for me and this video hits me so hard and deep.
Nice bro, but make a change and to the better
These kinds of videos are more effective than the normal ones. Saying the opposite makes the people realizing how bad they are turning in an ironic way, while saying in the normal way can not change someone because that person who's watching may have such a ego that he thinks he doesn't need it or he's already doing it. Keep going with this idea. Probably it might change people's minds.
Well shit, no wonder I'm lonely and miserable.
You blame government
you may think your life is in shambles and that you feel robbed the promises of a fruitful life, that is wrong. I see you as unworthy of the life you have desperately clinged onto for the past years and made no attempts to make amends, so i am going to simply advise you to find an appealing car going full speed and plunge forward as it will be your last time crossing the road. when in doubt, only the devil will help you out!
This video just tore me apart. Who else watched this in horror
Me. This video is like a mirror
let's build each other up, we can do it! let's get out of this rut we are in!
@@theBakinNoob yeah, when we feel like it
But we can do something about it, can´t we ?
@@wladynosz1565 yes
well , Good to see people are taking inspiration from my life and writing books about it.
OMG, you sure did get me with this video 😮 Especially the ending.
"To maximise your misery, think about all that before bed, then go to sleep. *Good luck with that.* " 🤣😆
😂😂😂😂
It works
Jesus the Messiah blesd you! Living Waters youtube channel
“Improve yourself, stop being average” um by definition if everyone improved themselves everyone would still be average
This is meme worthy, well done.
yeah but there’s always dat motivation to strive and improve yo self
ight you can stay the same then
@Doodle Noodle Everyone faces their own challenges, and it's not fair to compare them is what i've gathered from this.
Oh well that means the average would be raised, which would be better for everyone?
I really love this. When I decided to become happy, I removed all of this. I never watched any videos like this before so I didnt have any idea what are my steps to be happy. I started doing small steps, first was taking risks. Anyways, I still have a long way to go to be really happy again, I would not say I am unhappy, however I was better before I met my ex.
How it was for me: - normal life - *gets cancer* - 80% of your previous normal life people can't deal/cope with the situation they grow distant and vanish - *you feel miserable* - the remaining 20% people try to help but they got their(normal) lives to live so it's unluckily not enough, at least theyre here to talk. - i'd like to grow out of the "miserable" state but cancer left his marks and i feel like i used most of my resiliance to get through that, i just lack the strenght to push myself out of the rabbit hole alone.
To be honest, if you've got a life you wouldn't be watching this video. Blissful unreflectiveness is the way to go.
Same thing you can say about the guy who made the video you watched
Is it worst if it was on my recommandation lol
@@neptunimidie267 relatable to the max and true dat we dont have a life hahahah i lost it and couldnt find it not even in the trashcan imagine the sewers 😂😂😂
now during covid-19 and quarantine its not possible to get a life lol
Yeah I also think I'll do better in my next life.
so i can kill everyone at school nice
This is my "next life"
oh.... SamE.....
@@goldenarchangel4262 sadist. That is what you are.
Ohhh, finally, I have been waiting this tutorial for years
If only shorten 20 years from your life was part of it, lol.
I LOVE this video! So well done!! Yes, me too a tee on many days!
2. Take everything veeery seriously THIS VIDEO
nice point
You got it right lol
Man, you just slapped me so freaking hard
So much so for me brutalized. I come here to the comment section just to have some relief. Commentators did fabulous job and I must say so did the WHIPPER...
With a piece of ham
thank you for the advice i was feeling too happy lately
wow this video is awesome...helped me realize what I was doing wrong...love your animations too!
You know. Most of these things aren't decisions we make. A lot of them just happen slowly. Like becoming more and more socially isolated to the point of not coming back. Becoming depressed. Whatever. It's not that black and white.
RCmies true... But at the same time, neither is the decision to change them.
That's right, but if you keep reminding yourself to move towards the right direction, this "slow change" will start happening for the best, and not towards unhappiness
This video made me depressed as fuck because I'm terrified that I'm doing all of these things. I'm so scared
Andres Noriega good luck with that.
naturally, we humans do everything the wrong way before we find out that's wrong
I mastered all of them. Thanks for the reminder
you didn't ask to be born
@@orerecise6540 🙃🙃 true
Aww you're do pretty ❤🌸
@@AlbertJaron thank you😊❤
This may be the best video I have seen on youtube
Wow, what an eye opener....thank you!
tl;dr - the lesson of this video: 1) Socialize with other people. It is not a problem if you spend time in front of your PC, you can play or do some work, whatever, just remember to socialize from time to time, even if that means going to the store to buy some milk. 2) Don't take things seriously. A lot of things may happen to you, but never be stressed out about things, try to be ignorant, try to care less about other people. Why would YOU worry about OTHER people's problems? 3) Having goals is a good idea. Even small goals can help, like wanting to improve your health by going for a run once or twice a week. 4) You are scared? Good. Be scared, but turn your fear into motivation. You are scared that you will fail an important exam? Use that fear to motivate you to study harder. Unfortunately I already failed life, I am stuck on an island with my PC, but it's not too late for you, so good luck.
Bada Bing Bada Boom t
It is never too late. Where there is life, there is hope
' It's never too late. Oh, unless your dead! ' - exurb1a
Hence why I said where there is life there is hope. If you’re dead you are fucked alright.
You forget one important factor, never give up.
Seriously, though, this is EXACTLY how I've been living :(
Same 😅
Dude most people are like that so that video is not helping at all. Everybody know self isolation is shit, living in the past too etc. this video should rather tell us how to overcome these barriers that depression
@@TranceMatzl15 welll I get your point but I see this as a wake up call
@@nibbax7772 yeah I didn't consider that but you make a good point
Thank you so Kuch I needed this .
I feel so attacked especially with the "waiting for the perfect moment"
This is the epitome of reverse psychology.
Yes.
not really, since I don't see anything wrong with the "advice" in the video
this is actually really sad because I never even thought that I was living a miserable life.
Well if you’re happy with who you are then don’t let some KZhead video tell you otherwise
@mooganify,you should also define what type of "happiness" too. If it is coming from progress towards your goals and accomplishing them or fake happiness in the form of impulsive pleasures and which make you feel good in a short term but are making you miserable in the medium to long term life.
@@menghao4576 i completely agree. There's a difference between being happy and being comfortable
Yo , I needed this so much thanks a lot . My life sucks and I know I am not capable of anything and I know I will fail , I already have multiple times . Thanks this help me make my life worse . And now with no irony , literally , thanks
This is such a great video, thank you!
😅 so true! Now let's try to do the opposite!
Hahah same
no thank you.
i just come here to see what i am not going to do.
Good point 🤘
That’s what I was thinking! My thoughts: Finally, someone who is smart and wants to enjoy life.
wow so anxiety really is ruining all aspects of my life huh
Nith 😑 Me too It's much worse now. I never thought I'd have social anxiety Could you please suggest me something in case you know ? Once consulted a doctor. Didn't help . Sessions were expensive
It has ruined my life I just want to be like any other person . Life for me has become hell 😑
Please let me know if you know any effective solution
Me too. Man, I'm done, If I even have to fight with myself...
@@user-et6hc3rv7n when you have done it tell me, I'm next
thanks for the guide dude!
Why am I watching this??? I have freaking exam tomorrow
person How as it lmao ??
😂😂😂😂
Lol😂😂
How'd it go?
Fucking me too
why would you make a video about me man not cool i'm sueing you
I guess we will settle this in court.
warmaxxx you kinda look like Prince when he was a teenager.
Abhay Sharma you talking to me?
that was for warmaxx
"CAN WE COPYSTRIKE PROJECT BETTER SELF?!"
This video is what I was looking for years
I've realised that I've already perfected everything in this video!
Any one else with social anxiety? 😐
@Treble Gibbs Yes. Get a psychologist and get out there. Baby steps. I don't want you to solve this problem tomorrow, I want you to solve it in a year or two or five, if that's what it takes, cause five years is better than twenty. But to do that you need to take physical steps forwards.
I may have some Social Anxiety. It sucks :/
I sure do. I think it has to do with fapping.
@@NGEternal Psychologist doesn't help. Go exercise, eat healthy, meditate and do exposure therapy.
Yes i guess
This video is exactly the kind of kick up the backside I needed
:)
Same lol
Naw you're ready to be even more miserable
Same goes for me
re-kick!
Wow, I didn't think I was good at anything before watching this video but now I know I'm the best at wasting my life and being miserable! I've become a pro at this!
Great video! I like to watch these "how to be miserable" videos from time to time, even tho i dont wanna change most of the bad things, its kind of weird.
Being alone and spend time with yourself is not so bad, you start to know yourself and connect with yourself when you can enjoy being with yourself...Being with other people is not always enjoyable
Solitude is good as long as it is a choice, when your social life is already well developed and you consciously choose to take time alone, even if you could see people. If solitude is unvoluntary, then it can be harmful
At least you need “best friend” or family. Yes you can be introvert and stay alone but not all the time. Spend some time with others maybe one or two hours.
This video just reminded me about how I'll be miserable forever because its just who I am. I don't know what I was expecting.
you gotta level up to advanced miserable.
Better than being who you are is being whoever you want to be. I used to be extremely miserable as well but I crawled my way out of that abyss. It's hard, but possible.
CommentBot You're only miserable if you think you are. You probably have this idea of this amazing life you don't have and the things you're missing out on. The key is to realise what your life looks likes now and try to see something good. After you found it you'll start seeing more good things and eventually you'll realise your life isn't that bad at all. Also stop comparing yourself to others.
Life is teaching us about life and life is wasting everything everyday.
This video almost just almost reaches the sarcasm level of my mom
Tutorial: How to create anxiety and depression *_applause_*
How to: start defending yourself when a simple video points out your resposability for your own actions that turned into long term habits.
@@viktorijajan9877 yea true
@@viktorijajan9877 When most of the comments are pointing out the same thing, probably it's the author that needs to approach things in a different manner. This dude looks like he hates his life. Since he seems pretty self-aware of it, he shares tips so that he can help us getting better. But this is like someone helping to take out a spine from my eye when he has a timber in his. Take out yours first, and then pass to the others. Or else just share negativity. But I agree on a thing. Even if something looks stupid and nonsense and your instincts tell you to stop, do the opposite. It feels liberating. Just make sure you're not throwing your efforts to the wind and that you're actually talking to someone and not a precasted set of morals.
oh my god... its like he described my life... I feel so naked lmfao
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Anonymous Thanks for the video 😊 I'll keep what he said in mind.
Lucre Bem - Empreendedorismo I know... it just felt rude not to say something so yeah...
Imfao means
Thank a lot for this!!!
Regarding the first point: this is a lie. When I was wasting my time in the company of people, I was unhappy. Now I spend most of my time at the computer, developing and learning new things for myself. Now I'm happy.
This was so depressing to me.. felt he was narrating my life story 🙂🙂🙂