Iyanla Vanzant heads to Pennsylvania to do the work with a desperate wife and her husband who says he's lied, cheated and led a double life for 20 years. (Original Air Date: June 7, 2024) Watch more of Iyanla Fix My Life on the WatchOWN app and visit: www.oprah.com/app/iyanla-fix-...
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5 mins in i feel like pastor is 🌈
Likely. I also think he's been watching illegal things
OMG me to and I wish he would just be honest because you can tell he's not telling the real truth and that's that you like Men
😂😂😂
Definitely viewing some illegal shyt because why can’t you say what it is
I was waiting on him to say it!!
Men really can be with you and not even like you. Scary.
You missed the part that the wife also was with him out of convenience
Both was looking for something
Men r disgusting 🤢
Yes. It is called using people
@@blackout9519it's called "trying to paint a perfect picture" so people won't judge you
A pastor saying he doesn't believe ppl can change....get out of the pulpit ASAP
Crazy right! Smh
He definitely needs to get out of ministry though
My thoughts too. He doesn't even believe in the power he supposedly preaches about. Hurts my soul.
My same response... Crazy
@@shenise1294 what has this man been up there doing this entire time
He ALMOST CAME OUT.... that longest look he gave auntie Iyanla was telling
Almost!
I was thinking the same & he feels so ashamed
@@lisamareepritchard6375 That's why he said to his wife he married her because "he wanted to feel NORMAL"! That was his confession right there that he is into men not necessarily women!
Like he said too much at risk to tell the truth.. but I’m sure he did of camera
@@lisamareepritchard6375same😢
Pastor is definitely in the DL
@@tinajackson6875same
Or he could just be a soft talker
@@meghanmisaliar no. It's all in the verbiage and tone. He uses the words "people" and "friends" which are a dead giveaway. He chooses those words very carefully versus using pronoun that of a woman... "she, her" or referring to them as women or terms for women specifically...vwey evasive when speaking around Thai entire situation. Then his emotions regarding the entire situation... His demeanor toward his wife. He interacts with her like a good buddy. No spark, no interest. Yea, his eye may turn for a drop dead gorgeous woman but for how long & because he's actually attracted or he knows he *supposed* to be. You can tell that he's a good manipulator, the soft speach is purposeful. It's meant to disarm. He's very calculated.
@meek2312 you're reading way too much into it. You have no proof.
Most church pastors are especially youth pastors haven’t met one that wasn’t gay
Iyanla Asked her "with another Woman" and she responded "I don't know"....... She knows, and has ALWAYS known, that he is attracted to men. She kept quiet and dismissed it because she too is hiding her own secret. She sympathizes with him, which is why she stayed with him... Iyanla didn't stay long because she saw right through him. She knew that he is not going to tell the real reason and they both wasted her time.
Hmm... Now there's a thought. I figured it out about him, but didn't consider maybe she's gay too. I can see it
Definitely so
If he truly is gay. Experiencing molestation as a child and then the brother blaming it on "how he is" is truely painful and probably the reason he can't be honest with himself.
Why do i feel that everyone including Iyanla knows what his real 'secret' is but they dont want to say it out loud
Because he needs to own it and speak his own truth.
@@pheoliasmith4325yup!
Because it's not Iyanla’s place or his wife's to “out” him, but trust me, they know.
Purrrr is all imma say!!!!.. Moms gotta pray heal &Self love ..God rewards to her is aTrue Love
Because thats for him to say, not anyone else
God I miss this show so badly. She was soooooo good at this. I think he was promiscuous with men and Iyanla needs him to be honest with her, with his wife and w himself.
I myself believe the same as well
I think the wife knows it was men. I think she saw something for herself or he didn’t admit it but didn’t deny it either. I think it is a bigger slap in the face for others to know.
@@tinajackson6875 exactly…. I was just left feeling like the true story still was left unsaid. And until everything is out on table and spoken about out loud and in honesty .. there will be no healing and as they posted at the end of the episode …. The divorce will drag on and on and there won’t be a conclusion. That woman won’t be free to get therapy and move on to find a true relationship with someone who desires and respects her in all ways. And the husband will continue with his double life and his lies and his shame and guilt all just to protect this false picture of who he thinks he is supposed to be. I think Iyanla can only push people as far as they are willing to go. But it’s a real shame because they almost got to honest truth but I feel stopped short. And perhaps they did uncover everything with Iyanla but then decided they couldn’t/wouldn’t go public with it and declined to allow the whole truth to be part of the show … maybe trying to protect his pastoral position. Which is why the church is so messed up because there are all these people on power living double lives while preaching what is ‘moral’ to others and everyone knows it’s all a big sham.
Yeah, I feel the same way. That is what I was feeling in my spirit, he needs to be up front
Agree
As much as my heart breaks for his childhood trauma it doesn't give him a hall pass to lie, decieve and cheat on her for all those years. That's not love.
But his wife was too afraid to walk away which enabled him to continue living the lie. He was not only cheating but was/is on the downlow and too afraid to speak that to his sons who are collateral damage from their broken parents. I pray they all continue with counseling to heal, especially the younger son. It looked as if a part of his soul disappeared because of the profound hurt. My heart breaks for everyone in this family as I can somewhat relate. The only difference is I left when my husband was unfaithful and abusive because I wanted my son to not have to witness the dangerous dysfunction of living in a household full of demons. His father went on to marry someone else and had two more kids along with the one his second wife already had. His kids have suffered and ask my son why he's different from them and he tells them because my mother left and was willing to be a single parent struggling and sacrificing for him than to remain in an unhealthy marriage. Now his father wants him to reach out to his two kids and help them because he still has not become the father needed to pour into their lives. He does what he can to provide them with wise counsel, but their father checked out a long time ago. His father was never there for him and instead of "doing the work" on himself he would rather delegate that to our son. It's so very unfortunate and sad because he had so many gifts that God gave him, and he has squandered them all for nought. Now he is ill from a stroke and unable to do for himself and now his kids and wife now treat him very unkind!
Kharma
It didn’t seem like he was excusing it… it’s an explanation… that a LOT of people who may be going through this right now need to hear
"I haven't heard the love story yet" oop 🙃
lol bc I was waiting for it too😭🌚
And it never came, I'm still waiting
Lack of sexual discipline and selfishness will ALWAYS break up a family.
Unhealed trauma almost always manifests itself as lack of sexual discipline and selfishness. And yes, it does usually break or cause great strife in a family FOR GENERATIONS.
@@variousJnames Agreed
Exactly! As soon as I know a man has an appetite for sleeping with everyone who wants him I cut off everything with him
30 days after marriage he cheats. My mouth fell open after hearing that
Some folks cheat within 48-72 hours
@@helena3631 At the wedding
A man who married a childhood friend told me he first cheated on their honeymoon. The fkn first night they married.
How is it that we can see it. But wifey cannot. Or can she?
Men dont use us for cover. Srop putting us in danger. If you are not into women. Go getchu a dude. We CAN REPLACE YOU. AND WULL.
i get that he has his problems but at the end of the day hes lied to this woman, wasted her time and energy just because hes scared
The only thing good that came from their marriage are their son’s 🙏🏾
She's his beard
Also used her body for kids she could have had with a husband that was into her.
Yeah I really feel that he is still being selfish, using her as a shield for his misdeeds and who he really is. Like at the end they wrote he asked her to put her wedding rings back on etc etc like why is he sending these mixed messages as if they’re a normal couple when they’re clearly not?
He's an imposter...cruel, selfish and he should be let off the hook just like that. LIAR😢😢
When he said he slept with another person instead of another woman I knew why it was so hard for him to tell the truth I hope they’re both feeling better and free.
he’s tried to fight against his sexuality with all these women and tbh i think he’s been with men. he’s cruel. he knew he never wanted her and chose to hurt her. I don’t fell bad for him.
I agree. Broken people love to see other innocent people feel crushing pain. He enjoyed leading her on and making her believe he could change and return home. He enjoyed building her up to let her down. And NO, he can't blame that behavior on being molested. He intentionally and deliberately did her dirty...... knowing she just wanted to be loved. That is EVIL.
@jacquelinespalding3767 that's the part! He likes her in this position, feeds his ego
ON POINT 🎯‼️
I think those women were men.....
He is a coward. He is hiding who he really is by playing the victim and hiding behind his family to do it. He is a vicious predator.
The symbolism of her placing his removed ring on a chain around her neck speaks volumes.
Oohh girll
@@angelstarfelix29 She don't even know! I think we all know what his secret is even a blind person can hear it.
It did smh!
It's strange that when he first met her he asked her would she love him if he was overweight, now he let it all hang loose.
If he sits on that family dog by mistake, it's all over Jack.
I want to tell the bank that ten years ago I lied about wanting a house. I don't wanna pay the mortgage anymore...like they care..
Hahahahaha if you succeed, let me know,they need to come this Mercedes Benz car back.
😂🙈🙈🙈
😂🤣
Tell the US Dept of Education they can come get these loans, and Experian can have this credit score. Bring me my 25 year old score back!
@@kamariaspeakslifestyle5771 haha...well, that's how this husband sounds. I guess he can go and apologize to his kids and tell them I never meant to marry 20 years ago and I'm sorry I had you ...
Iyanla is so good at her work
Very good 👍 👏 👌
He is only trying to keep her around to continue to toy with her. What a selfish man. I hope she divorced him and moved on with her life.
Sadly she didn't. They both continue in this crazy charade!
^^^ *This* brought me to the comments!!!!!
@@sawolaja65😮😮 staaahhhhppp. He CLEARLY don't want her!
@@sawolaja65no way! After all of this?!
God bless Jennifer and give her the strength to love herself first
We really need to love ourselves first. In fact, they way you love yourself will teach others how to love you.
The boys love their mother, and the father will have to answer to them for mistreating her once they grow to understand what’s really occurred…
This comment is truth and the realest.... cause at the end of the day the two sons will have to stand up and grow into men and not mirror their father.. that's the challenge..
adults see this as both need to be held accountable...his energy gave he didn't want her and she chose to stay for 20 yrs just like he did....
He married her to cover up a lot of lies😢
He admitted much of it was a lie but not all of it. He wanted to be normal
I think he's gey
That’s crazy 😢
I reeeaaally believe that he is attempting to cover up his sexuality.
@@Beatrix_Ditto yea this is sick and becoming a pastor too
i felt her rage when they had that conversation. men really do not take marriage or anything seriously. they will waste your life until you have nothing left & end it with “just friends” it was definitely more information that he was holding back.
Not all men
@@meghanmisaliar did i ask? oh okay. & plus did i say all men or do you have a hard time reading? i said “men” not “all men” lets be smart :)
@hungrycarrot5614 you dont have to ask. Welcome to social media!
@@meghanmisaliar and like i said, next time read before you talk & speak. you need to be welcomed into some comprehension skills, js. good day luv!
Say that louder... No need to defend the truth... It's not ALL.... It's MOST....📍📌‼️@hungrycarrot5614
He was joking about his proposal…and confesses 30 years later
I was shook at that part
And then decided to have kids with her? Hes crazy for that!
Not a funny joke
It’s mind boggling.
Tf
Be normal, u know what that means.
He’s a manipulator through and through. Told Iyanla what she wanted to hear then manipulated his wife into the same exact situation. Living apart, he doesn’t wear a ring, she has hers, not divorced. Scary guy.
I don’t even think the “corn” he watches is legal!! It could be gay “corn” and he’s a evil person
Even in his confession he’s still playing the pulpit role.
🎯
He is still not saying the whole truth. He is sleeping with men and we all know it
Ok, so a few of us noticed
HES LYING = My intuition. He's talking in circles.
My intuition is going off too. My spirit says this men has an agenda since day one. I don’t think he ever wanted to love this woman.
Yea there was no resolution in this case because he’s still lying.
What a coward he is
He wants to remain Pastor and will lose his job if he comes out. Sad
Much went unsaid
The homosexuality or the sexual desire for children
It was the unsaid that said a lot, I was wondering how he ended up in ministry? Bc if you know the word, what kind of power did you have to execute it and help others. His priorities were wrong. Jen didn't want to come out of her nest. He was her stability and functioning in dysfunction.
I'm not buying it. No man breaks down like that over JUST "Corn". What TYPE of corn was it? Was it legal? Plus, there's also the elephant in the room that he may not just be into women, especially in light of what happened to him as a child
I completely agree. This man has done awful things. He spoke of hatred when speaking on his past trauma and he is very evasive. Idk his vibe is so dark to me he's crying but his eyes are not sad.
Oh so I'm not the only one
Right?! In the beginning, he said there was no bounds to what he would watch, that's what made me think. The way he was saying his life would be over...like, sir, Over basic 'corn' 🧐 and you're so right. It all felt manipulative to me. Bless his wife and kids for real.@@j.g.3719
Maybe it has to do with children. God help us all.
@@j.g.3719right, there are tears but his eyes are empty
Men were truly cooked from hell, 20 wasted yrs , she could have been happy elsewhere 😮 life ain't fair
20 years is a lot of time. Yes, I hear you!!!!!! I think Iyanla helped her to see that she played a big part in that 20 year Lie. Jennifer made excuses for 1+1 equalling 13. But, now Jennifer can take authentic control over her life. Tough lessons like this help us to gain DEEP wisdom and discernment. And Truth!
Ay yo 😂😂 that’s soo funny I’ve never heard that term before
She said yes! And chose to stay even when her own intuition was screaming at her to get out! She bears some responsibility for those twenty wasted years!
No she couldn’t. Something in her is severely broken to stay as long as she did so unhappy. But I get what you’re saying
Cooked from where ??😂😂😂
11 minutes in and I know the 🍵 no shade
Most of us do
@@CallmeQuayZ 🤣🤣🤣
11 seconds
@@CallmeQuayZfacts 😂
bigggg facts 😂
I feel so sorry for her. Living a lie for 20 years😖😢🙏🏾
What a total waste of 20 years.
She has her children snd she loves them. For her, that’s probably not a waste.
But the tragedy continues. 🤷🏽
She is still living a lie. My heart breaks for her. He has already told her that he does not want her as a wife, yet she does not have the strength to love her herself enough.
@@queenadventures4258 what do u mean? Are they still living together as a married couple? I know the husband said he wanted to be friends.
Iyanla is like FREE therapy 😍🥰💚
It is for me 😂😂😂
Very handsome sons. What a tragedy of the outcome.
I dnt think so both of the parents are free now
@@tinajackson6875alot of pastors are hypocrites. Living double lives but judging others.
@@takingitonedayatatime7851❤
The Sons Look Like Twins 🥰 .
I feel for the sons shame, especially the younger one 😢 He's just gutted! Hopefully, their dad's actions haven't destroyed their manhood and that they can continue to be good, upstanding men in the society they live in! As parents, we really do hurt our children yati, so sad 😞 😔
David wants Jennifer to continue to be his beard. Jennifer wants to cling to her fairy tale belief that she is still in a marriage. Sorry Iyanla, nothing changed with the two of them.
😂😂
You right. I reckon once he tells her his actually 🌈 that's when her brain will click.
They are Enables for each other
When a man takes off his wedding ring, that means that the marriage is officially over. Don't hold on to a sinking ship. She was in denial the whole time,scared of the unknown. I hope she recovers for those 20yrs of lies.
I like what iylana stated sometimes 2 ppl are brought together to make beautiful sons. That's so true God dnt make no mistakes.
That doesn't make sense to me at allll
@@brittany.381agree
The oldest one jaw actual flex when he lookec at his father talk and seeing his mother crying. The youngest one is going to need help later on. Jennifer should take time to enjoy her life and cut contact with him.
His weight of what he’s holding in speaks volumes
I thought so too.Its sad. I actually feel sad on both of them.
My thoughts exactly after I saw that picture of them from back in the day.
Forgive me, but I just let out a heinous laugh.
The truth is in his eyebrows.... cause they laid!
😂😂😂
Omg ..... I just this minute said the same thing..... are u a cancerian like me????
Chile lol
😂
Lol I see what ur tryna get at but his so are his son's eyebrows so I'm sure that's just how he looks. But you still right though. Lol
Don't be shy. Keep uploading more episodes.
Please😊😅 lol
This is the type of love that took Wendy Williams out. But they both have to be accountable. She knew that man didn’t want her.
Whew that's a word. This is the kind of love that actually hates you
Once she realized it and accepted it, that's the moment when she gave him the rings back.I understand. Once I get it through my head that a man doesn't want me, that's it. But 20 years later, whew. I'm sure that was very difficult.
That big queen, he is trying to blame her!
Lol he outside bottoming and voguing and wants a wife waiting for him when he gets home
😂😂😂 not big queen
Lol
We really need guest updates with all these reuploads smh 🤦🏿♀️
Heard they still married
Fear paralyzes people. Fear begets anger, begets guilt,begets fear, begets anger, begets guilt, over and over again. Geez! 20 years of this because of a joke?
Saaaaadddd!!!!
He looks like exactly what everyone thinks. So someone did that to his brother, and his brother did it to him. Sad
Is there a such thing as a faithful man with integrity anymore?
Nope
No
Yes ❤ Absolutely. You have to kiss a few frogs to understand what you don’t want sometimes. I promise, there are really amazing humans out there. I promise❤
I’ve been with my husband since we were 11 years old! We are about to celebrate 21 years married so that’s 32 years all together. I was abandoned by my parents and I think I was always looking for “family” to depend on. I’m happy that our 3 teenagers have had what I didn’t. I have a neurological disorder that has left me disabled, needing a cane or walker at times and with constant tremors and double vision. I couldn’t go through this without him- it sounds strange to say but we laugh all the time. I’m so blessed to have him in my life ❤
Yes i know plenty and i am married to one
She still trying to hold on to him and her marriage.🤔 Should have been divorced him and find her happiness .
Iyanla let him off the hook Big time.
He didn’t want to talk about his sexuality on national tv and that’s okay
Not the purpose of her job to make him disclose his sexuality to the world if that's it.
@@JayE425 so explain why she tried to do it?
@Knizzle28 I think it can be assumed she was, and none of us would ever know. However, she was holding him accountable for owning why she was there and stating the problem.
@@JayE425 which is her purpose and she let him off the hook lol. Compared to how hard she went on people the last couple seasons of her show.
If he moved out we’re done ✔️ sleep with and be with whom ever. I would never beg a man for nothing.
He Was Playing Crazy! Iyanla Knew The Truth When She Said " You Don't Have To Lose Your Dignity, You Just Have To Tell The Truth! The Truth Will Set You Free"!
Some rainbow 🌈 is in her too
Their Sons Are Really Handsome Young Men So The Union Of Their Marriage Wasn’t All For Nothing
But imagine how broken they must be, so a young lady is going to see the outer beauty and be totally unaware of what’s on the inside. Not saying they are terrible people, but people who grow up in broken homes tend to have toxic unhealthy relationships. Because hurt people, hurt people! I know! I grew up in a toxic environment.
Right
“With another person” = with a man
He’s beyond selfish. To request her friendship after telling her the last 20 years was a lie is insane he’s looking for absolution not real forgiveness
They should remain close friends/coparents but they need to divorce. She deserves to find someone who will love her and be as devoted to her as she was to him for 20 years!
I had forgotten how riveting these true life stories were. I think the demise of this show came when they started to bring on more reality tv “stars”. I think many were there for another “moment” and the paycheck.
These pastor let me stop attending church , the last time was 2018 , you don't have to enter a building to be a Christian i read my bible and pray at home.
This right here!!! They wonder why people aren't going to church like they used to, we see past the bs our elders couldn't
And you are the very person we need present in fellowship -a truth teller. We are Jesus' body His Church. When you're not present, we can't do everything we're called to do. I pray you will bring your gifts forward and allow us to encourage and strengthen you which is Jesus' commandments to us.
You must be guided by God to find a true pastor of God.
Word❤
Honey EVERYONE knows when to let go. They just don’t.
AHH this was sad She felt she was abandoned as a child, then he basically lied to her and abandoned her all over again. Just wow😢
I hope she was able to come back from this bc being lied to for 20 years about the same thing as your core wound is a doozy.
Ummm... I'm 10 minutes in and wondering why they are having these conversations in front of their children 😒?
Same
Same omg lol
Trama bonds has to be one of the worst things a person could go threw especially when you realize you’ve helped in doing so but your to hurt and scared to even address it 😢 give her guidance
Pastor on DL and don’t wanna face the truth.
I miss Iyanla and her show soooo much. I would loveee to have her back on TV ❤
The younger brother made me cry so hard. This is so heartbreaking
Seem like the husband and wife both done dipped and dabbled in the rainbow 🌈
The wife gives butch they both might be into their respective genders
facts ! the wife seems …a tiny bit masculine in my opinion
yes
I am watching this and he keeps saying that other person? Something tells me by his reference that it ma be a man.
It’s men that’s why he’s not stating the gender that’s the elephant in the room
If he's gay just say that. My goodness.
Exactly like Gawd Damn it!! Just say it and go get yourself some bussy
I don’t know you but I felt that “my goodness.” 😂😂
@@nqobilezondi4314screamingggg🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Even though he could not confess his truth to his wife, I commend him for not perpetuating abuse on to his sons as some stories horribly turn out. I pray they all continue to get the healing they need to thrive and love self and one another.
Right
Amen. ❤
"If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness". James 5:16
Yes IF we confess our sins
The correct scripture is actually in 1 John
Poor lady; her childhood trauma is what makes her want to stay with a man who clearly doesn't like/want her. He's only coming home for “weekly dinners”! For some damn food!!!!! I pray this beautiful lady heals.
I know a couple in this exact process right now today. Raising a family that he doesn't want, working his way up through the church.
I love her name, beautiful just like her love. You can tell she really wants to help people heal.
Iyanla Vanzant the world needs you! Prophetess! Healer! The world needs you!
Jennifer is so beautiful , loving and kind I hope she realized it and loved herself the way she deserved to be love.
Iyanla is such a beautiful soul. I can't imagine running head long into the worst storms of life and quieting them with great love and care. ❤
I think he doesnt want to admit there was illegality with what hes holding. He keeps saying his life is gonna he over, and i dont think it was sexuality, i think it was an underage situation
No it was a gay 😮 situation
I believe he's speaking on his leadership as a Pastor
Underage boys, I was saying I hope that's not it in my mind smh😢
Yeah it is giving more to the story
He keeps saying he cheated with a person most men say women he’s leaving it vague because it’s a man he’s not ready to come out the closet
Lawdddddd these SO CALLED " PASTORS" 😮😮🙄🙄😬😬😬 Smh .
I feel this was too short, they needed more help
Definitely
That’s why this is an old clip it would be nice how they are today in 2024
IS IT ME? OR IS HE SLEEPING WITH MEN?
Of course
Most definitely!!!
It's definitely implied though I don't think he ever admitted it
When he said "I slept with another PERSON" I knew he was gay. No man talks like that, they would say there's another "woman"
The very second he moved out. Locks change. I change. He woulda needed two jobs to pay my mortage, and his child support.
He's not telling the Truth. He's holding back. I believe he's 🏳🌈
Ashamed, Afraid and Loss. She experienced foster care, many express the same feelings through the foster process and displacement. She was young and my guess, seeking unconditional love that stays and doesn't abandoned her. He was sending mixed signals as a young confused man, not knowing how to navigate.
DL DL DL…why would she still want him?! He is not a prize!!!He is a cautionary tail of what can happen when you don’t do your research and don’t follow your gut instinct!
Run away from the Narc
What a slap in the face, Who ask someone to get married as a joke?
I hope she did not be-friend him, this level of manipulation and lies is unconscionable, even though she knew deep down, the fact he wants her to be his friend after he played her for over 20 years… The kids are grown, the door would be closed 💯
Keep them coming 🙏🙏 thankyou OWN network watching from Kenya 🇰🇪 and learning a lot.. much appreciated
Hello am Kenyan too
I remember this episode. I hope she moved and found whatever it was she desired. He desired men.
"I Need for you to forgive me" is crazy
Exactly. How about "I did you wrong, and I hope you can forgive, not for me, but for yourself" .EDIT: "I was joking when I asked you to marry me". WOW.
No fr he never admitted to anything she didn’t already know. And she knew he was sweet well before they wrote iyalna
I respect that iyanla wanted to encourage him to be honest rather than “out” him I love that she seeks to see people whole, prepared and with their dignity in tact makes for something truly transformational. I miss her but she has earned her beach lilo and cocktails for life!
The saddest thing to me is that he's a false shepherd... he's lying to himself about so many things! He should have just gone to work in a store or an office instead of standing behind a pulpit lying to the congregation. His poor wife.... and children.... 😞
What type of heart these men have to bring there messy self and mess up women life without having no remorse at all
This lady deserves so much more ,this us aweful
The fact he’s never wanted to be married is insane. I could only imagine how many people are living this life
He says it all by refusing to say it all If he was only cheating with women he could’ve and would’ve just said it. It’s either men or children period
Looks like he is closeted and didn’t want the church or the world to know. He used her to cover up his mess. I feel bad for her but she knew all along she was holding on to something that wasn’t there. Beautiful children though.
Every time I watch episodes like this one,no one ever mentions diseases, and it being unsafe.
...all that and he still couldn’t admit his attraction to men. What’s understood sometimes STILL needs to be explained.