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exes are like,your most familiar, strangers.
I’m a Whamen no sTrAnGeRs
The Strangest Stranger
how does this only have 161 likes
That’s meaningful 🤔
Omg trueee
“If you can’t be a good partner, at least be a good ex”
Blayne Kelley I feel that
Literally your profile pic was my reaction as I read that while the sound of all those guys shouting “ooooooooooh” was playing in my head
"If you can't be original, at least try not to copy others"
coincidentally i read this and felt it as soon as he said it
My ex's boyfriend youssef eltouby sent me friend request he wants us be friends after I dump him? I ain't going be his friend period I ain't going be giving them,him my blessing or supportive friend or be shoulder cry on their fighting or breaking up no I ain't going do that. I'm done I'm done with him 💯for him cheating on me with his 2 bisexual lover's. I'm just done I ain't going check see he texts me. He ghosted me too to be with them too. I'm just done. Crying over him. I'm confident enough say I'm moving on with my life 2ithout him .I had met someone else who value me,our time together.he is faithful and loyal asf so yea that's all I got say.
seeing the hurt in everyone’s eyes.. sucks
Lauren Alvarez let me introduce you to someone who can bring your ex back to you
@@johnmorrison3565 😐
I know. I know what they mighta been feeling, sucks
Yea :(
can't relate, i got no ex
The guy who cheated, on her birthday, a day that was her day is asking to go for coffee and explain. Wrong timing, wrong day. Wayyyy too manipulative.
He reminded me of my ex. He texted me a similar thing, asking me to go visit him. He lives in another country. I don’t understand what makes him think I’ll go buy an airplane ticket during a pandemic ( or any time) to go see him after he cheated on me 🤯
I mean at least he came clean, i respect that 🤷🏾♂️ and if he respected her wish of not talking to her than he is already a better man than he was when he cheated 🤔.
thats not manipulating
he has like a sly guilt trippy kinda look. idek. i don't trust him lol
@@Putomayowhore idk he just looks guiltridden to me
"If you can't be a good partner in a relationship at least be a good ex."
Been pondering on this. It's possibly why too optimistic.
@@kaylenejantjes8113 I guess it depends. Yeah, it's not that easy, but still, being a good ex could even mean being someone who doesn't bother the other one's current life, couldn't it be? I think "Being a good ex" is being someone who do what's good for the other one, could either be having a chat from time to time or giving total space!
If you really love someone, and they don’t love you, then you’d be willing to leave them be and cease communications with them because you want what’s best for them. That’s what I got from this. That’s what it means to be a good ex However much it may hurt to love them, but have to do the very thing which you don’t want to do, and that’s moving on.
I’m the one k like
glad that my ex has become my bestfriend now
The asian dude looked so heartbroken, poor thing 😔
That's how I feel see I just broke up 4 days ago. All those memories you made with your partner are tugging to your heart. It's so hard there so many things that rush through your head. I don't know whether we should talk or not
@@Thatcloudyea I'm so sorry I can't believe how you're feeling right now but know that some people just come and go and that doesn't mean you should give up on love.I promise your going to find your true love some day, it's going to take time but have hope 😥 best of luck and I hope you can get through this heart break 💞
The thing is I left her and I miss her so much but I recall arguing a lot and insults most.the time and it makes me cry because all the memories we formed together
It's almost been two years for me. I absolutely feel the first guy. But I gotta say, I kinda envy the terms they ended on. There are some people who you just can't get over. If the times were great, if you changed each other for the better, or in my case, they hit me where it hurts over and over again. My most recent ex girlfriend broke me hard, sent me a list of things she disliked about me, made me believe that the whole thing was my fault (and I still kinda believe it is), and her last words to me were "We can't be friends, and I hate you." It broke me, and pushed me to go into a massive reflection and reformation. I've been tackling everything bad about myself, and making myself a better man than I could have imagined myself being. I met my current closest friends, made connections with people who helped me excel in everything I do, and best of all, I'm feeling good again. I'm still not ready to date, I'm not healed, and I'm still afraid of getting close with someone in that way, but I'm definitely in a better place than I was. So, to my ex, if you read this, thanks for breaking my heart. It's the best thing, and the only good thing, you ever did to me.
THING?
The nicest thing my ex has ever done is never contact me again
Fvck. Yes definitely
Maidens And Monsters My ex just didn’t understand why I couldn’t handle talking to him or why I never sent him pictures. He just didn’t get my anxiety or depression and he wanted to talk every day, he was so naggy and clueless. Acted like he cares then yelled at me for being sad.
my ex just added me on facebook, my last message was, i hope it never gets well between us!, i blocked her after, but that comment arrived as soon as i accepted her friend request
Facts
Moral of the story... leave your ex alone 😂
Well said 😂
well you can’t when you have divorced parents :)
Rashaud Monroe exactly, youre exes for a reason.
I didn't get that because I suddenly forgot how to read
Good thing I’ve always been single
Some say its painful to wait for someone, some say it's painful to forget someone. But the worst pain comes when you dont know whether to wait or forget.
ReZounds ameeeeen
poetry..
This is it!
I feel you
That is when you choose to forget someone, if they don't make space for you in their life, you will again be cut off. Wait one week max, after that deciede to move on.
how selfish is it to text someone on their birthday that you cheated on
Yeah
So we're enemies now huh.
selfish?
What?
@@joeyaikman9736 they're saying not to text the person you cheated on, on their birthday
Its crazy how we feel during the first date compared to when we break up
Everything was still vivid!
ow
Break*
@@aishwariyaraikar5376 stfu
Just like when hitting gas vs breaking up with your so
"I care too much that's the kind of person I am" I felt that
JJ do you need help to get your ex back? I have someone who can help you get your ex back
I am the same way :(
@@johnmorrison3565 lol I don't want my ex back, i broke up with her but thank you
Same here..I care too much😔
Until he blocks them which is greatly childish.
"It's funny how we adjust.."
big oof
Samsx the shadeeee loll
bruh moment
Yeah we have to
Cold AF
To my Ex "Now you're just a stranger with all my secrets"
Soulmates who weren't meant to be
@@discogirl1386 a nice song indeed
Damn that hit me.
Like this so I can cone back please
TATE MCRAEEEE
I deleted all conversations with my exes. It’s too painful for me to read
Timothy Richard-Jackson trueee
True
Same here
Same here all photos too
I hope I'm strong enough to do that
"I'll love you forever" He passed away that night
❤❤❤
Damn
I felt the pain ma'am
Alexandra Mendes the person means that his/her ex text her and died that night .
I’m sorry. I hope that you’re doing okay and that your partner is at peace.
The Asian dude u can see the pain in his eyes
Adrian Rodriguez exactly...
Adrian Rodriguez you can’t see his eyes
@@DuckSongFan racist af. Hes hotter than you tho
@Hope Less cuz the asian dude is hot lol racists are usually not that hot hon both in and out😉
but he's genuinely sorry
The guy who cheated is so disgustingly manipulative. Reminds me of a lot of toxic people I’ve dated. I hope you never txt that girl again.
Same. The ex who cheated on me probably thinks the same way the guy in the video does.
Might be a narcissist. He seemed unashamed aswell
W8 who cheated though?
@@ventaga7478 the dude with the red hair
Bruh, imagine thinking that was manipulative.
My ex broke up with me saying "we need to split. I'm a loser and deserve the worst and you are way too good for me." In reality, he left me for a girl he was dating months before breaking up with me. He left me so he can make her public. She cheated on him and he called crying to me but I told him I would never take a guy back because that just tells me he's a joke.
Selena He’s deeply insecure. It’s better to let him sort that out for himself.
@Sarita Hsa agreed 100%
at least you got the satisfaction of seeing your toxic ex suffer the consequences of their actions
I'm literally going through this rn, idk if you'll see this but it feels comforting to know I'm not alone in this.
The audacity right.
Oof. The “stop texting me” ones are the worst. Physically hurts to read.
The word oof grinds my gear
Yeah and worst way to break up with someone but people don't know how to talk to each other anymore so they just use it to cut them out.
I love sending those
yup, it hurts. Specially if you still love the person who sent it.
What if they say that because you texting them brings back painful memories?
"it's funny how we adjust" Damn bruh
That was cooold but also so perfect to convey the message across
I felt that
That hit me hard
Ouch.
She was adjusted all right
Being friends with your ex is highly overrated. Move forward and never look back.
Its impossible to be friends with someone who did you wrong
@@blacklyfe5543 im best friends with my ex, while we are both in a relationships of our own, nobody did each other wrong, and we talk very often, you can be friends with anyone if you are emotionally mature...
@@markobalazevic9057 if you're not in love with them
They're called an 'EX' for a reason.....there's no grey area. I don't get people sometimes.
Wow. The black girl is gorgeous. Her hair, her skin, her eyes. 🦋🦋🦋
Asha Bryant thank you. I thought I was the only one.
Meh
Meh
Antoinette Williams It isn’t racist to say a black girl is unattractive, lmao.
Thats she broke up via text makes her so unattractive lol
My last text to my ex was simply, "stfu". It's crazy how it can go from amazing euphoria and happiness to absolutely nothing.
It is crazy man, that's what I question myself all the time..
Consistency loosing the honeymoon phase and straight to breakups.... Do that 15 more times and you turn into a tinder date with no honesty. Learn what you did wrong and don't pigeon hole a sex(man=don't hate women/woman=don't hate men) ... Your salvation rests with you. Happy trails :)
adrenaline same
Love is an illusion.. and doesn't and won't last forever. Very very lucky souls get to have together forever fairy tales... People change.. like emotions. Like weather. It's sad but that's the truth. Hard pill to swallow
@@janakiramana3050 people live the longest if they know they have people they trust in their lives. Love isn't an illusion but a bi-product of trust. It does come and go but its always there in some form when there's trust.
I feel the Asian guy. Especially when he said “there are better things ahead.” And how he didn’t believe it.
Ha you can tell he didn't believe it 😢
He was the saddest one!
@@smileyfacewithsunglasses7613 I'm really feeling it for him, you can tell he still loves her and wants to be with her again😔😥🙏
Fr. He looked sad as fuck, god damm
he's still hurting
"Sorry for the long text, I won't bother you anymore." following a long, heartbreaking text full of love and pain. I loved him so much, but we weren't made for each other. He was my first "real" relationship, the first person I said "I love you" to and really meaning it every single time, and that's why it kills me to let it go. I know it was the best decision, but deep down a part of me will always be wondering what could have been if we only tried a little harder... the same part of me that will forever belong to him.
@@Ruffles729 I'm so sorry 😞 hope it will get better soon!
@@Ruffles729 oh gosh. Girl you're strong, and definitely worth way more than this. I can tell you're hurt, but you really don't deserve this pain. Keep going because amazing things are on their way to you, I'm sure 💙
How can you be so Sure you werent made for each other? Dont go swimming if you are too afraid of water...
@@thomasengel9802 after one year and many nights where you don't have much to say something just starts to peek out you know...
No old couple in a hanhing swing talkes there all day. The couple has much nights of endless talking in memory, also of argueing but most oft love. They have earnt much more than that. As long as the Interest in each other is the highest, everything can be repaired. More than showing this highest interest can nobody do. But a relationship contains of two persons. Sorry for Bad english Best luck. Hope you find what you search.
It’s crazy how it can go from having immense feelings for each other, to strangers with a part of each other.
This was more depressing than I thought it would be.
Yes ....It was...
Iv been in that situation and it hurts like hell
@@tacocat2005 hmmm
Fr😥
what else were u expecting lol
jokes on you i got no exes
bakoupin my man ahhahaha
hahahahaha same
Thats because all 3 of you never had a girl friend yet. Now thats sad. Sorry?
@@aoi5170 How's that sad? Look how broken the people in the video look. Relationships don't last nowadays and people end up being hurt. Might as well not be in a relationship at all. Improve yourself in terms of health and wealth and you'll be much happier. Edit: I know a girl who is just like these people in the video, she constantly suffers but doesn't give up. At a point, I wonder if it's just delusion or resilience to keep it going. Though if it's resilience, I admire that.
Sorry i couldn't help my self.
The guy who says “ I blocked everyone.” Is literally me. You have to blocked those from your past just for you to grow and not to fall into their toxicities sometimes.
I'm still friends wiht my ex thzo he wanted to stay friends so yeah Deep inside I htink of him as a friend but somehow hate him
Its to simple to always blame your ex maybe you were also a bit toxic.
That is me tbh
Not everyone ends their relationships in toxicity. A lot of exes remain friends...
As I spoke to my Ex, and split up with him, I let him time to message me again. But after that message and my respond, I blocked him. But only on the main messenger. It's a kind of self protecting. He had my phone numbers and could message through fb. But I'm glad he didn't, because I don't want to be his friend. There happened to much stuff that still triggers my anxiety and causes bad memories. Still trying to let go of these, after now almost two years.
“When a good thing goes bad , it’s not the end of a world, just the end of a world, that you had with one girl....”
Drake
Did you date drake?
@@hms___ 😭
“I block everyone that does me wrong.” saaaaaame 🤣 my block game on 1,000
Toni B me too on my phone my block list is long.
MadDilla ATCQstarr you sound like a misogynistic prick AND to top it all off you’re ignorant and judgmental
@MadDilla ATCQstarr lmao, everything okay at home?
Toni B i wish i was strong and wise enough to do that. My problem is that i hold on to hope 😞
@MadDilla ATCQstarr 😂good one
Asian dudes heart is broken... it’s breaking me and idek him
Everybody affected me except for that cheater.
"I text my ex whom I cheated on, on her Birthday" me: "Yiiiikes dude"
He texted her on her birthday, didn't cheat on her on her birthday
@@zombiedietitian Yeah pretty sure OP got that, but that's still shitty talking to someone on their birthday when they clearly have no reason to want to hear from you.
Well the cheater deserved that. Atleast he apologized and she forgave him and moved on.
What does forgiving even mean in this context, if you still want to avoid any contact with the other person, where's the difference in not forgiving.
@@TokaroGmbH People don't forgive for the sake of the other person. People forgive for themselves, for the stability of their mental health and their overall outlook.
@@Sigyd I think you interpreted my sentence wrong. It does not matter for whose sake is forgiven, the act of forgiving in my understanding is to accept and forget what has happened and to not bear any kind of grudge or other negative feelings towards the forgiven person, whoever's sake the act of forgiveness does not matter at all (might be both or just one side). But in this case, forgiving but still not wanting to stay in contact with a person does not reflect in any kind of way what I understand of forgiveness.
TokaroGmbH you can forgive someone and still think you guys aren’t compatible enough to keep a friendship going.
@@TokaroGmbH The phrase forgive and forget has them as different phases. I understand forgiveness to be not being angry any more, not holding on to the emotions anymore. But it doesn't mean that goodwill is restored or that trust is regained.
"it's funny how we adjust" Let that sit
Jemimah Ndi I loved that one too
Jemimah Ndi my heart sank at that.
Right 😥
I thought I was the only one tat catches that
Jemimah Ndi can someone explain this i don’t get it.
My ex: i know it hurts but i cant do this anymore. Me: (didnt reply) I walked away and never look back. No point of forcing. Thats how the 10 years of relationship ends. Im in the healing process now. It hurts like hell.
Stay strong.
@@alissaj8975 😔 thnks.
Stay strong dear
You are so much more, x I hope you find somebody else and live a happy life, focus on what makes you happy at the moment and spend a lot of time with your family
Same as mine.but I didn’t walk away till today
The last text I got from my ex was, “Take care in life, bye.” Made me feel hundreds of emotions at one but in shock for the most part. How someone could be that way.
I understand, I just broke up with my bf yesterday, we both at the same time, decided it wasn't working anymore, the last thing he said to me was, I said "I hope your life is filled with happiness and joy" his last words to me was "I hope you love yourself more" it hit me hard but I knew he was right, it's hard to move on but it's possible, love and light to you freind
'It's okay to let go of things in your life, because there's better things ahead'
Wendy Gonzalez Read yours as he said it. 👻
Gives me hope..
True and much better and healthier relationships out there
then why should u ever settle, if theres always sth better ahead?
It's a good attitude to have but unfortunately untrue.
"It's funny how we adjust.." That was deep.
it really was and i don't think people caught on.
I didn’t really understand . Explain ?
@@ameyaaa9260 adjusting to new things (indirectly she spoke about not being in a relationship anymore with the person and adjusting living with out them)
Yeah....💔
"Did you change the netflix password?"
OML 💀 what’d you sayyy
🤣🤣🤣
Lmaooooo👀😭😭
“I actually block everyone that does me wrong “ Felt that
“Don’t contact me again” man I felt that in my soul. That cuts deep.
People are so heartless nowadays lol.
Well the guy did cheat on her!!
Bro im in tears
Jordi I would’ve sent the same thing if someone cheated on me.
Deeper than any blade
It's funny how we adjust....... 🙃
Queency Rachel Yeah, she was talking about more than just the weather with that one.
I don't get it 🤔
That was a brutal one liner. So much in five words
@@simbast9726 on the surface she's saying "it's funny how we adjust to the weather" but reading between the lines she's clearly talking about how she's already moved on and adjusted to her new life while the ex bf clearly has not adjusted well.
i felt that
This was really sad. You can see how technology doesn’t allow for us to see the person we’re speaking to and know the kind of impact we’re making. There’s a lot of unresolved pain here. If you work through your pain, you can come out of the other side understanding your ex, you don’t have to be with them, but you can speak to them and be a good ex, regardless of what happened. Just lots of inner work that everyone avoids.
if you break up through text the relationship ain't worth it.
That's what most people do nowadays. Technology... 🥀
Agreed. That’s very cowardly. But life has a way of paying us back when we least expect it though….
I cant even listen to some songs now because of exes😭
same sad times bro
I can't watch the Notebook
same here
It'll pass eventually. I never thought i could listen to artists again, but it's all good now. More the nostalgic good time memories, its weird i forgot any of the bad time memories which where the ones that led to breaking up.
Lmao my bf cant even listen to songs that we used to hear before our first break up it was like 6 months we didnt contact each other and now we are here almost 4 years and he still is hurt because of the first break up and hate those songs i mean why? I AM HERE lmao it makes me laugh but at the same time is kinda sad
You can see the pain in their face.. 😔
Shouldn't of cheated!! Imagine the pain they put on the other person
Harshil Patel well he cheated on her so who cares
🥺
clare x exactly! When I saw his face after he read her response, I thought “you don’t feel bad for what you did. You feel bad that she found out and doesn’t want to talk to you or see you again and you miss her company”
And you can hear it in their voices
The pain in everyones eyes… crazy how love fucks everyone up
I hate it
Without the risk of pain it would have no meaning or value. That’s really what love is giving someone the power to hurt you if you knew they couldn’t that what be control
"I'm always here for you" common text from all exes.
yeh
i mean it’s true. sometimes people aren’t good as partners but still genuinely love and care about the person. i’ve always told him this.
@@juliet9670 f*ck no
@@jahleelx9270 mind explaining?
@@juliet9670 meaning f*ck no. I'd never be friends or cordial with any ex. U leave me we're Done for life. We ain't friends. We ain't cool. And idgaf if u got hit by a bus tomorrow and died.
This dude really wrote her a poem and she broke up with him over text...
its sad
Just because he wrote a poem doesn’t mean she owes him anything.
aberdeen but that fact that she did it over text
This is discussible, you don't know how he was in the relationship, maybe he deserved it, you know, might have been someone who makes a positive gesture after a really bad one
Hypergamy in a nutshell.
*I block everyone who does me wrong* This is me literally ;)
Pawan Sharma sameeee
Me too-he's my hero!
Unfortunately I learned this a little too late.
I block everyone before they even have the chance to do me wrong.
@@MaskedViolinist07 That's DOPE😂
I said “Come talk to me when you've actually changed, because I'm not mothering you anymore. Goodbye for now.”
'we tried to reconnect as friends but it's just so hard, we have so much history' I can relate... Sometimes no matter how much you wanna stay connected with the person (because you really loved him/her), it can be so painful that it is better not to stay in contact at all. So sad..
Same here
The guy with the olive green tshirt (asian guy) seems reaally heartbroken 💔💔💔
💔💔💔
I feel for him
Made me cry
mop gang 3:10
Ik 😭
i wanna give that Asian guy a hug
Rohit Kumar legit
Keeper Of The Reaper no U
me to
Rohit Kumar me too
@Keeper Of The Reaper Hugging someone that has the same gender as you is gay now? Wow I didn't know that...
I'm so proud of people who can chose themeselves and not fall back into a toxic person
It’s so depressing how people try and laugh over their feelings..
Welcome to life as a sociopath
yeh
Exes don't realize how much they hurt people and it makes people so toxic.
No, people make their self toxic. I've been cheated on and beat. I don't go around cheating on my mate and I def don't physically harm them. You can't blame people for your actions.
Satanist you need a hug and we hate you too 🤦🏿♀️😂😂
@Satanist dude, no you don't. In all seriousness, we don't hate you. I don't hate you. And PS, I think it's cool to be open about who and what you are. I'm straight and I envy you lol
@Satanist I hope you find Jesus someday and he heals all your hurt
Some Exes do realize how much they hurt you... just like my ex.. and they have fun with hurting you. It's extremely toxic.
"If you can't be a good partner in a relationship, at least be a good ex." I loved what he said at 04:35
Shamima Akter me too, it felt really raw and beautiful, and it’s very true
Lol I read your comment exactly when he said it
I immediately see my ex's last message and it was: 'Take care, and sorry. I really did love you.'
Did...hmm...pass tense
It’s really hard to forget someone you loved but if the relationship is so toxic you need to let it go for sake of your health
it’s so crazy how you can love someone so much and then just lose them. wth?..
emma ccp one of the craziest things you can go through. It’s close to death of you truly loved them.
@@kierrathreats4862 it is a competely different style of pain but still very equal at the same time, weird and not weird
I used to think like that but I realised that love is overrated. It is so easy to fall in love with someone but building and maintaning a relationship is much harder. Most of us fail eventually...
Love is just a word until someone gives it a meaning. We never know what will happend when we accept the fact that we love someone, in the end love always makes us cry either in the happy way or in the bad way. It will hurt no matter what
Yeah especially a friend... who you don’t even know who is alive
The death of a relationship is just that, a death. All the same emotions, just the death of a relationship is a voluntary one. That person has chosen to be dead to you, my God how it aches
Made me fall in love with sunsets. The poetic changing of colors in the sky as the Sun hits the horizon. Within a few moments the sun is out of sight on the horizon and the sky changes colors once again. Then the slow Fade Into Darkness. 🌄💕👀
@H Flores no no this is actually true! See when someone dies physically, they go into ground and you can actually put it behind you and move on. When a relationship that actually meant something to you, doesn't work out, it's like death, only worse. They don't go into the ground, you bump into them again and the pain and the hurt come right back up. Try your best to heal from the pain and the hurt, it's possible! :)
No, you get over it
@@adamchapman3358 but if you keep waiting eventually another sunrise begins
@@blackspiderman1887 my man, you know it) The sunrise is the opening of a new chapter. Infinite possibilities 🏔🌄👣🐣🐦
"I need time. Thanks." My ex a year ago in January
That what my ex texted me last month 💔
I'm so sorry
"i think we should stay as friends. that way we both wont go through any of this pain anymore" haven't talked to him since.
I deleted every text thread and moved on with life 👌🏾
AseaMae same here :)
AseaMae same same! 💪
Same 😂
AseaMae samee
👍
Break ups suck so much
When you are emotionally attached to the person, yes it does. Luckily for me, I’m not like that.
Toxic relationships suck so much more.
@@avamasquerade it sucks even more when you know you should end it but you're in love with your toxic partner
honestly they do .
I know the braike ups will always be bad will always hurt some people get hurt more than others but you still have to look on the bright side and try to move on even if it's very difficult
The last thing my ex said to me is "Please leave me alone" Hahahahah after paying his medical bills, electric bills, food and anything else he needed. Never contacted him again. Don't need to be told twice.
Well the last text from my ex was, “what you doing?” 😂
Did she respond
At 2am half cut? 😂
Around 3:11 after he says "it's okay to let things go in your life. Because there are better things ahead." You can tell he was feeling so many different emotions. We've all be there before. The feeling of regret, sadness, pain, and knowing you hurt someone else and yourself. Not knowing if you did the right thing or if the future holds better things ahead, like he said.
That just hit rock bottom 💔 I couldn't relate more... even 4 months later I'm still insecure about my decision.
wow preach tf huch
Not gonna lie. I had a break up a while back that was both great and horrible. It turned my life around (mostly) but it also led to so many insecurities and lots of sadness and depression. I’ll never be whole, but it doesn’t mean I have to be broken.
Basically described my love life. Felt it in my soul
I felt that too
Much RESPECT to the woman who actually left when her herboyfriebd cheated. So many women forgive AND take guys back while guys hardly ever do if the scenario was reversed
This..
@@asha_vere is true
R J why are do you want women to become less forgiving, and not men to be more forgiving?
@@lucar6897 plus you're twisting the person's words.
Phoebe Sanchez what did they mean?
I’m crying still miss and love my ex
It hurts SO bad💔
How are you now?
Really hope you ok
Dang. This hit me deep. I could’ve been on this episode. If you’ve never experienced this, good for you, cuz this is something that really does stay in your conscience😞
Breaking up through text is so cowardly.
Amy Duong but some how it hurts the most. The fact that they don’t even care enough to talk in person or even just call is what breaks people the most.
Facts bro facts
Amy Duong I always thought that, one of my exes did that
Hec the mother heccing wheat for me idk but breaking up face to face is more hurtful..
I cant do it in any other way as my bf lives across the ocean so i gotta text him dat.....
I like texts from my exes when they want a second chance
Cold. but yeah lowkey 😂
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I think that's a lyric from Cardi's song "I like it like that" 😂😂😂😂😂
Yep, received one about two months ago. I'm in a new relationship. I pretty much screenshot it. It was pretty pathetic. He said that he needed to talk to me and that he hasn't been able to stop thinking about me after we broken up and that he misses my kisses and me. I show it to my now boyfriend. We just posted pictures kissing each other. I know that's cruel but this dude cheated on me. It seems that he have me on his phone cause I can see him checking out my pics.
hop out the stu, jump in the coupe, big dipper on top of the roof
my last ex asked me after 8 months: Hey do you remember me... and i was like are you for real
I messaged my ex the other day after he ended things horribly a year ago. I never got over him and haven't been able to move on since, and I wanted to apologise for any of my mishaps. He replied saying he was sorry too, began asking how I was and it ended in a two hour FaceTime call where we spoke about how we are doing in life and what's happened since. The ending to the call was very solum, and now I don't know where to go from here because it felt like nothing had changed, he told me he still misses my family and thinks about me and them. I really do still love him, it's really difficult.
it's better to express ur feelings to someone. Never feel bad for having a heart that loves
Wow 🥺😳! You could be each other's soulmates.
@@rnbsteenstar that's rubbish
@@Ljounieh if we need to agree to disagree, okay.
I just don’t understand how it’s so easy for people just to cut ties with someone you were so in love with. And the worst part is knowing that nothing will ever be the same with them no matter how hard you try.
because staying will only make it worse
Allert Futon it’s not easy to cut ties but it’s necessary for a lot of people to move on with no contact.
Boundaries are necessary. Some people require more boundaries than others, but it isn't easy. In my experience it is quite difficult because you have to hold yourself accountable in the weaker moments. Loving someone is not the standard, it's the treatment you receive and give to the people you love, and when that has flopped...you do what you have to do. As for romantic relationships, I have yet to be with someone where contact and friendship were possible afterwards, but it would be nice to do so with someone.
because they who cut ties don't actualy understand what love is in the first place, they just ask someone out without commitment, and they always broke up in the end
Dimas January very true. I agree. If someone was truly in love with you they wouldn’t put themselves in a position as to where they lose you.
for those heartbroken people who broke up: 1. delete all chats and photos of your ex 2. break up 3. its okay to cry 4. keep telling yourself "you broke up because you wanted this! otherwise you wouldn't have done it" 5. do things with other people 6. move on...
DeadManRising thanks i’m cured
Things ain't easy when you have a child with your ex. Life can be hard 😒😒
Neuza Vaz your fault for being careless
@@sirius9108 who told you take I have a child because I was careless? Smh I guess your mom was careless too 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
DeadManRising My mom still has all pics of her ex husband’s. That was almost a year ago
its ok to let things go there are better things ahead :) its a great line and really needed to here this right now :)
Mine was, "Thank you for letting me be a part of your life. And thank you for showing me love in its full capacity."
"I block everyone that does me wrong" me too sis, me too
@Zephyr "sis" has become a gender-neutral term these days. Same with "bro". I'm a girl, but people call me "bro" all the time.
Professional Blackpink and Little Mix enthusiast Thank you, was gonna say the exact same thing x
Zephyr oh I call everyone sis, didn't mean anything by it :)
Zephyr ok sis
That's a man
Don’t you ever have that feeling, when you go back and read your old messages with your ex and you get that anxious feeling for some reason? Edit: oh wow.. I thought I was the only one.. my ex broke up with me the day before thanksgiving.. I’ve been so distant, and pushing people away, i feel so numb. I miss him.. but he seems happy without me 💔
Yes... I sometimes start overthinking things and get very anxious bc I just never really replied back. I saw no point to reply. I just hope I am not remembered in a bad way. This person wanted me to go away and as hard it was I just had to accept it. I guess I did the right thing. It still makes me anxious to think what if I could have done something differently. I have stopped myself from reading old messages. It hurts too much. Based on how the last convos were, you could tell he didn't want to talk to me anymore... So I guess he is happier now that I am gone. But yeah... the last texts still haunt me to this day and give bad anxiety.
Princess Cherry1 I get really anxious when I’m about to read there messages, idk I just feel like there response will be like “leave me alone” or “don’t talk to me anymore”
Princess Cherry1 i just delete the messages so i can move on. it’s hard to move on when you keep dwelling on the past, reading those old messages.
Which is why you clear the messages and delete the number!!!!!
You're not alone on that cause I recently had a break up and Every time and I know shouldn't be doing this but I reread our older conversations and start thinking about her a lot but I catch myself and just have that anxious feeling and then cry at times
In case nobody knew, when a relationship ends, delete the number, forget the address. No contacting ever. Move on.
Thank you!! Idk why more people don’t do this! Also why are you torturing yourself by stalking their social media?
@@Fit_pharmacist not everyone ends their relationship in a bad way. Many choose to become friends...
@@Fit_pharmacist soul ties keep people holding on when it’s time to let go…
"Those feelings will fade away eventually"
Was he/she right?
The black girl is soo pretty
She has a lovely smile
Just like you😄
MadDilla ATCQstarr ?
@MadDilla ATCQstarr why
MadDilla ATCQstarr you are disgusting
They should do a video about people who cheat/are cheating on their partners and their reasons behind it. It would be interesting.
YES
They did. It’s called Hurt Bae but it’s on a channel called Iris.
No one knows why they cheat tho..they don’t even have a reason behind it they just do it..assholes being assholes
There is only one reason people cheat, so it would be a very boring video.
There's no reason to cheat... so... 🤷♀️😂 There's your video. People like this shouldn't get the chance to explain themselves
I was so much in love with my ex when we was together.. Now that actually hurts me... i don't love him anymore but i lost the capability of loving someone... Cause it feels like no one will stay with me...
Same here. I just can't connect with anyone. I lost the ability to be open and caring.
Same here, i feel like i never I will be able to love someone again
“it’s okay to let things go in your life , there’s better things ahead” well said
The guy that cheated, it’s heartbroken to see the regret on his face but we all learn from our own mistakes right!?
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I strongly disagree, cheaters have a tendency to repeat their behavior.
Ali Reyes : not entirely true but to an extent yes.. some cheaters learn some don’t.. I know a handful of people who have cheated and learned from their mistakes and have never wanted to feel that guilt and regret ever again, I know some who didn’t care.. I guess it varies but not all cheaters go back to their ways :3
Not everyone does.. do you even how it feels to be cheated on ? His ex must feel terrible and insecure now so really the best she could do is cut off ties with him , he fucked up and I hope that he learned to never do that again
Lol I love how your feeling bad for a man that cheated on a women on her birthday. Seriously, f you too. You obviously have no clue what that feeling is like to be cheated on, let alone on your special day.
You cheat on her then ask her if she wants to meet up for coffee on her birthday? I would've kept it at 'stop texting me'.
Mak@5 thats assuming youve had a relationship yes?
Damn, you make it sound bad. It’s obvious he’s a good guy with a regret.
MelMSP facts.
@@Mel-rt9pm "It's obvious he's a good guy with a regret" is it though? I mean, you can't really judge a person's character based on a 5 minute video. Who knows, he's probably a jackass in real life 😕 (I mean, texting your gf after you cheated on her on her BIRTHDAY definitely seems like what a jackass would do, but that's just my opinion)
Professional Blackpink and Little Mix enthusiast well he remembered her birthday and cared so much bout her to actually make a fool of him self and put himself out there just to be rejected that seems good to me🙂
Randomly opened this video out of curiosity, it’s nice to know that we all go through things like this, but at the same time, it feels a bit strange that any private message you send to someone can end up on a youtube channel.... strange times we live in...!
I felt that when he said "i care too much"
Isn't it just... crazy? One day you are so close. The person means everything to you. And then maybe a year after you barely think about them. Sometimes it may be very painful to have a future which never happened in the heart, but also these rare thoughts about that person are sad in a light, beautiful way. What a world we live in!
It took me wayyy longer than a year lol. I think it depends on how serious the relationship was.
@@Crystalbomb321 it was just an example, I said "maybe".
@@gloriaregali9090 When she broke up with me. She told me that I think we should remain friends, cuz i still care about u, i dont wanna waste our 2 years of friendship, I still wanna protect each other even if we r not a couple.
@@Amatersuful oh. My comment was just an example of really common scenario. Most of people cannot be friends with exes. I can't, too.
Kösem Sultan your comments seem passive aggressive lmao
I block everyone who does me wrong . Can relate !
Weakling
Weak pussy
*blocks everyone* lol
Me too! It’s not weak like these idiots are saying. It’s healthy to block people because they are in the past, they’ve done us wrong, we forgive but that doesnt mean what they did was erased, it doesnt mean someone is not toxic anymore, we can forgive knowing this person is toxic but we move on with our lives meeting new and better people and leaving who wronged us in the past were they belong.
feebeci same
When it comes to most of my exes, even though we don't get in touch often, it's usually civil and we still interact okay whenever the situation permits. I've only cut off ties completely with ONE ex whom I had to break up with because he got very aggressive and verbally attacked me on my beliefs; called me a hypocrite when all I did was answering his questions.
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2:58 can relate. I am in the same spot right now. We were studying at the same courses at university and both of us were trying to manage seeing each other all the time and having the same friends. She recently dropped out and I couldnt even reach out to her about it. Half a year has gone by and I still feel grief about the breakup.
I prefer to delete all our messages with my ex and I never talk to him anymore. Keeping his messages will make you sad and would make it hard for you to move on.
A True Love Official or she.
When it comes to a hard breakup, it’s always best to not look back especially if it hurts you every time
You're wise. Remain so, for your own sake.
A True Love Official It's almost been 2years since the day my 1st girlfriend dumped me! And i really thought she was the one like we have the same interest and hobbies! Anime, games, Sports and etc. but we are kind of polar opposite when it comes to personality while i'm sensitive she's quite insensitive also i'm a extrovert while she's a introvert but still she lied to me :/ and you knoe whats funny? damn i still miss her even though i know she used me i still can't hate her and still love her up until now! :( my minds keep telling me i dont want to see her but my stubborn heart misses her damn it! Now i'm quite scared to engage for a new relationship because i'm still not over her i don't want someone to exp the same thing that happen to me tsk! :((((( i really hate my clingy emotional side of mine while my looks is kinda opposite lol.
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