Why Sigma Males Have Few or No Friends (The Bitter Truth)
Why Sigma Males Have Few or No Friends (The Bitter Truth).
You might not admit it, but if you're a Sigma male, chances are you don't have many real friends. You might be wondering why this is, especially when you know you're an intelligent and capable person.
While it's normal to feel that moment when you really want that friend who thinks like you, not everyone has the same opinion about friendship.
Many people believe that Sigma men don't have many friends because they refuse to follow the crowd. While this can be true in some cases, it's not always the reason. There are also some deeper psychological reasons why Sigma men have few or no friends. Let's take a look at twelve of the most important ones.
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Please do a few of these on sigma fathers please .. How they are in the father role ...
I Do Concur.
I really appreciate your efforts of clarifying who were coz we don't know ourselves as we are different from most people and wonder why we are like that 😊 thanks a lot for your wise and great intelligence are you sigma as well
9 ? sigma feels uncomfortable 😄👍 ...sigma male SHOULD be comfortable in ANY situation because he know his power, Skills!
@@Highvoltage-ml6wl Power and skills have nothing to do with it. You can feel confident in yourself, but being surrounded by a bunch of people that are not aligned is quantity over quality. I go to concerts to see the band, not to be in the crowd. I focus on the stage and I might say something to a person next to me. I don't need anybody else there. If I could see the same show and share the experience with just one person I care about that is going to be preferable (although not plausible). Too much confidence is not a good thing, either.
Sigmas don't lie. We prefer to live in truth and not delusions. Hard to trust even your own family
Facts 👍🏼💯
Family can be the worst.
Yup
Yeah, my relatives are suing each other. The say what ever they want to make themselves superior to the other. They try the same thing on me. It is very strange. I stay away.
Roger that.
Everyone is sucked into the matrix. My dog is more genuine than anyone I've ever known
At least you can trust your dog.
Every guy I know is under the thumb of a woman, and a social media zombie
TRUE THAT ✌️
@@beereaucrat3233😂😂 don't be such a weakling bro.
@@rhodesboyson1700??
Others say I have no friends. I say I have exactly the right amount of friends.
In younger days, I tended to have a few close friends. Now I have none. No social media, not even watching news. All the stress evaporated. Some people are meant to be alone.
Same here bro I like the way we used to be. Stay strong and proud.
I get what you're saying, but it doesn't mean we should stop seeking like-minded people.
Yes sir; my wife died almost 21 years ago, and I think I've had about three dates. I just found Miss Right. It was worth the wait.
My only friends are 5 from high school back in the 80’s we are close still call and keep in touch. I know absolutely nobody in my state I live in now though.
You are here. 🎉
If you're a Sigma, you don't wonder why you don't have many friends. You already know why. Supreme loyalty and trustworthiness are the two qualities a Sigma male looks for in a true friend, because he is that type of person himself. Very few people possess these qualities, so that is why Sigma males have few friends. If you're a Sigma, you couldn't care less if you have few to no friends. In fact, you prefer it that way, because people tends to run into troubles in their life, so as a true friend, a Sigma would not have enough time, energy or assets to offer genuine help to a large group of friends.
Very true, a sigma values his time and I thing he thinks it's priceless....!??
You spoke my mind 👍
So you’re saying these call signs are selfish turds?
Extremely well articulated.
@@maxsparks5183 If NOT lying to every one you meet and pretending to be their friend only to leave them in the lurch is being selfish then Webster needs to update their definition.
Sigmas can befriend many people but the term "friend" has a massive meaning and we don't brand others as friends easily
Yes, Words like (friend, love, happy, lonely, relationship, spiritual), have emotional charges and baggage that can twist meaning. Unless you have the time to qualify and or explain what you mean by any of them, it's best to avoid using them.
@@lukula2934 Unless you are autistic there shouldnt be any problem using these words in a proper context. You can say: "I love donuts" without needing to "qualify" or explain what you mean with the word "love".
I'm aware of the risks involved when stating my opinions and observations. But I'll only say that if you equate your love of donuts with your love of another person....Well to me, the meaning of that word and one's ability to fully comprehend it, is reduced to some shallow version of itself. But hey! Perhaps you really do look at your confections with the same depth and consciousness as your significant other(s).......Who am I to judge?@@nostalji75
@@lukula2934if you mean what you say and say what you mean, then definition and action behind it is universal. You can’t twist words or make them carry “baggage” unless you are a liar or a manipulator. That’s just the truth, not subjective.
With due respect, The need to qualify is more or less dependent on one's desire to be a good communicator. In other words, whether or not one places importance in communicating with quality and/or accuracy. I think we can all agree that whatever feelings a donut may invoke are not the same as those towards your mom. While you may be inferring that you simply enjoy donuts, using a word that better describes your feeling shows a desire to be more authentic and accurate in speech. Examining our language requires examining our thoughts, feelings, beliefs and desires, not to mention our history and depth of experience. It is, of course, conceivable that the word "love" is not particularly meaningful to you. But I doubt this to be the case... @@nostalji75
I had one true friend, trusted him implicitly, friends for 47 years, was always there for me through all my trials and tribulations, sadly he succumbed to pancreatic cancer. Have to say this video describes me to a tee
I'm sorry for your loss. I've never had a friend like that. That type of friend is once in a lifetime.
I lost my only best friend of 30 plus years to cancer but I didn’t stop being his friend when he died. I visit the grave site an I keep in touch with his mom, sisters, an kids thru out the year an visit when we can all get together as were spread across different states.
This made me tear up as I lost my life long best friend to bowel cancer.
Sorry for your loss. Tell me about him. I love to hear the story of people's lives..
This was my younger brother, he was like the only real family I've had, lost him to non-hodgkins lymphoma 2 years ago. I see your pain. I'm sorry for your hurting
when you find someone you can trust with your life you are blessed. the loss of a soulmate for a sigma is especially difficult ...
...as well as, especially devastating. Changes everything.
My father always warned me to watch the quiet one in the corner. I ended up being the quiet one in the corner. My father was right!
The one that you don't mess with is always the one that tells you the absolute truth
I ALWAYS wondered why I was the quiet one anywhere I went, also,my big brother always said, the quiet one is the most dangerous one, also, it's not hard to figure out a person, just shut up and let them talk🤔🤭
It means you are an introvert that lacks self confidence. Why speak up if no one cares?
Bitter truth❤❤❤
People use talking as a substitute for doing. I also can't stand excuse making behavior. It's deception. Some people are incapable of being honest with themselves. They fuck up everything they touch.
I can’t stand small talk, I’d rather sit with you in silence and only speak when it’s interesting or funny.
You nailed it. The world is currently under the influence of a mass induced psychosis. I started really wondering what the hell is wrong with everyone and I just went my own way when I hit 25 yo. It worked out for me. I have a productive farm and run my tractor and work with my animals and nurture my land everyday...I'm basically retired at 50. Turn off the TV. Go your own way.
Man, I heard that! I’ve got 150 acres but don’t run cattle anymore. I was diagnosed w/a disease of the spine so things I “used to do”, are growing smaller & smaller as I age & my disease progresses. You are right on track with the people of the world today. I used to call cities like Springfield, MO., New York, NY., or Los Angeles, CA., “Freak-Show Central”, but it’s like it’s taken over EVERY major city & even some not so major. Where I live in SW Missouri, through Covid-19? Nobody wore masks here, we weren’t made to stay home, school wasn’t canceled. I’ll be 50 my next birthday & I still have our youngest son in school 8th Grade, then I have an almost 28yr old with a 6yr old son himself, then our middle son is 25 w/a 1 1/2yr old daughter, and yes being a “Grandpa”, is AWESOME! I’ve come to a point where I’ve devoted my life to the Mrs., my youngest & his sports, Football, Baseball & Soccer. As for the grandkids, I just took my grandson camping for his 1st time last weekend, roasted hot dogs on the open fire & made him “S’mores. He was an absolute joy to be with ALL NIGHT. His name is “Lyle Scott”, after my Paternal Grandfather & me! I told my boy (Missouri Dept. Of Corrections-yes he’s a big lad! Benches 375lbs, 230lbs 35” waist), I wouldn’t have done that to him!! Lol My youngest is “Parker Scott”, again, NOT my doing but rather my wife’s and I told him the same thing “Blame your Mother”!! My middle son was a D-1 Baseball prospect but decided NOT to go to college as my wife was unpacking his clothes in the dorm. Now, he’s a Supervisor at a local manufacturing plant & Assist. Coach of the Varsity High School Baseball team. An exciting day for me is seeing a mama doe & her fawn grazing in the yard! Driving the SxS down to the creek & just listenen’ to the water! People do not realize the joy to be had in the simple life as the busy world is passing them by. I don’t need a “buddy”, here at the house everyday to keep me company. I’ve got my acoustic & electric guitars, my dobros I can play during the day. Music is & always has been as constant companion for me. I like to read as well & learning about the world around me can no value be placed upon it. It sounds like you’ve figured things out for yourself! It’s like if you & I could just get the world to listen I think they’d be better off? Right? The way things are now? I don’t think you can reach very many people w/reason & logic these days. You & I know where the people will come when things get real bad, don’t we? You know what? I’ve got no sympathy for them & I won’t have open arms for them either! Best of luck to you & all the happiness you deserve. We all deserve some peaceful years & I don’t mean when were 80! It’s nice knowing we found it long before we were at the end of of lives, right? Take care my friend!
Yessss. This.
And in 5 years the new sigma create by Mondialvison, the Zeta Male.
You are exactly right about the mass psychosis
Same here. Did you marry and have kids?
I have no friends I only have acquaintance I don’t rely on anyone to do anything for me I do it myself because when you start to rely on other people, they’ll just disappoint you so don’t even ask and you’ll find your life so peaceful, so quiet, and as you get older Nobody will ask you to go to a party because you have turned them down so many times they finally get it you don’t like to be around people
To all Sigma Males out there, I Salute You. A Sigma Male in heart and soul.
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Always wondered what sigma males is... according to this... I am one.
Hahaha welcome!
Amen, brother.
Facts we don't chase the we attract!
If you always tell the truth then you don't need to have a good memory.
True, but even truth can benefit from discretion.
Why did you just quote with mark twains quotes 😂
...and you never have to apologize.
So true
@@acidcharon "Being Thug means never having to say you're sorry." lmao, hadn't thought of that quote in yrs.
There’s another word for me besides a “loner.” This video was quite enlightening.
There’s another word for loner an it’s “Smart” ✌️
@@gobigorangethe actual scientific word is: narcissist 😂 alha and sigma are terms from a science fiction novel and have nothing to do with humans whatsoever. The fact that guys choose to describe themselves as wolves and lions is just revealing of how insecure they are. I'm Mr rabbit brother, I will eat every sigma in this jungle ;)
@@rhodesboyson1700 the monitoring spirit reveals itself
being alone is the best way to hear what the universe is saying....
@@wiz823 That's not what I would call him.
It baffles me sometimes when I read some people envy Sigmas. People call me mysterious and a lone wolf all the time. It's not an easy path but it's my own. I too have a hard time making friends. Most days I'm ok with it, some days I really hate it. I don't go out often and certainly not to crowdy places with crappy music. I hate small talk, so I steer away from it, even if a gorgeous women approaches me. It's just so meaningless. I do have hobbies though but most of them are solitary activities like reading, hiking or writing and playing music. I used to have a few close friends but they betrayed me, so I turned my back on them and walked away. It's better to stay true to yourself and your principles than to let people walk over you!
People call you lone wolf as an insult.
@@jesse75 It's only an insult if you take it that way and my answer to anyone attempting to insult me in that way is... "well it's better to be a lone wolf than a sheep!"
Zero friends. Too many questionable self centered types. Suddenly. Having more free time to do my things and not be pulled away for stupidity. Now focused on my goals and actually achieving them without others around to derail
And notice how those people require you to be a real friend when they themselves weren't real from the beginning.
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Fuck yeah!! Go broda!!
PREACH !!🎉🎉👍🏻
That's why, its all about them.
Respect, Trust and Loyalty are hard to gain but easy to lose.
arrives on foot, leaves on horseback!
They are earned my friend not given
@@StevenMcLaren-zi6kt absolutely, but a certain amount of polite respect is given, what they do with it is up to them
ALL three are EARNED.....never freely given. I say that now- at 67; in my teens thru 40's I trusted near everybody. THEN I learned....about Life. WISED up. And Reality. MAKE then earn it.
@@tommynikon2283 when initially meeting someone, a bit of respect is given, because that is just being polite, but what they do with it is up to them.
I've never really wondered what a sigma was, I just assumed it was a negative, but after watching this video, I have 99% of the traits, all of a sudden, things have now made sense, amazing 😊
I just assumed it was a negative - amen
I always have the best conversations with people in silence. I then get to know their true worth...
If i cant trust you your not in my life simple as that. Im a lone wolf and thats the way i like it
Bruh what the hell brah💀
@@ramennudes4704bruh why do you want people in your life you can’t trust bruh?!?
@@ramennudes4704 if you need people around you to make you feel good then good luck to you
@@mark1975legend amgonnacum
@@ramennudes4704 with comments like this no wonder i dont want people around me
Loyalty is paramount.
It’s mandatory. Without loyalty you have nothing.
Loyalty is everything. Nothing else matters.
Sadly, not many people get that these days.
Loyalty can get you in trouble.
My grandmother used to always say “ you march to the beat of a different drummer .” Boy was she right …
👍 Where was this video 66 years ago! Had I heard all this growing up I could have spent less time trying to figure out who I was in life. Even though I figured it out on my own… like, at 28. One of the things I hated most in life was trying to figure out who I was, takes too much time and effort. When I did figure it out I never looked back. That was forty some years ago and I haven’t changed since. I love who I am AND who I never became because of “someone” else’s desire. I own me, not thee, and vice versa. To this day finding the perfect female companionship has eluded me so I must be one in ten million. Maybe I’ll find my mate the next tyme around. If I ever find her she will think she’s a Princess! She will make me her Prince. But that fairytale is for another time. Great video!
With humanity on an obvious downward slide the pool of potential friends is so shallow that you can't even wet your ankles.
Or your toenails.
You have to be a shallow narcissist to get along with most humans today
So fuckin true
Once bitten twice shy. I don't trust anyone.
Growing up I always heard about Alpha and Beta males. I never really cared to lead unless I had to so I thought I must be beta. But there so many times also I had problems with Alphas. Seeing these explanations of Sigma males feels like someone is reading my life behaviors right back to me word for word lol.
How some people can live their lives putting on a costume in order to be accepted, is beyond all reason. The stress of doing that day after day has got to be draining. Sigma men hate stress and therefore will not only avoid doing that themselves, but avoid others that pretend to be something they're not.
I don't claim or have never claimed to be any particular personality types but every video I've watched about sigma males describes me to perfection. These videos have helped me understand myself. Wowww
Me too.. so amazing
Sounds like me too.
I am that.
Literally, especially when I see myself as the complete opposite of what I personally thought “sigma male” actually is
Guess there are more of us than they think. :)
Love this comment section. I'm a full on red pill monk sigma male. No turning back , can't think of one friend that offered me any true value or comradeship without ulterior motives
Monk Sigma here too 👊🏽 much respect
@@matteoferrari33 same here...i mean right from school, most people are fake,
Not one- Only a grandfather.
Fake people are why I’m a lone wolf
If you call yourself a Sigma then you are NOT a Sigma. Everyone knows that. Only Fake sigmas call themselves a Sigma.. smfh.. 🙄
After learning about this personality, it explains so much! I’m just more comfortable doing my own thing. I’m social but at a distance except for a few exceptions. Cool with most but trust few..
My grand father said I was a lone runner, not a follower. I learned young that loyalty isn't given back and trust is easily broken. I consider people around me to be an acquaintance only there because of circumstances at the time I.e work etc.
A lesson given to me nearly 30yrs ago, by a wise man; " If it doesn't feel right, it isn't right"......Addendum; look after those who need you, human or animal.....
So you base your life on your feelings?
My dad taught me: "When in doubt...... rule it out"
@@pjreynoldsa1 Doubt isn't necessarily the product of emotional thinking. It may very well be based in rational thought.
All laws are based on feelings. Nietzsche, genealogy of morals
We prefer doing everything alone, friendly but not sociably.
Being Sigma is the simple reason I don’t understand cults or any type of organized religion. I’ve lost friends over the years because of that nonsense.
The worst thing about being a Sigma is the inability to Find people who deserve your Friendship, your Loyalty. To the contrary you find that, more people deserve,..to be left out of your life. It's even worse when you realize,.That most of your Family are like the most of the people and they too just fade away. Which, leads me to ask why is this world so shitty?
You never lied
Sigma Males are the best. Prove me wrong. 💪🏾🏆💥
That wasn't even a term used to label anybody until the last few years unless it was used in certain circles like psychologists, which I never had a use for
Alpha enters the chat👨 Sigma rolls over belly up🤐 Sigma runs away to be alone😬😮💨
@@MikeJones-mf2fw In your dreams.
@@ricksg777 You mean in all our dreams?
@@MikeJones-mf2fw interesting comment.
We’re just in a higher frequency vibration. Our circles are small so if we let you in, it’s special.
Facts facts
Happiness comes when you don't compare yourself to others. Sigmas learn this early and can be content being alone, even enjoying it.
I can't believe I finally found someone who explains me almost to a tee!! Thank you. It says and tells a lot, gives me reasons, and explains the why... I am truly a Sigma guy.
Friends, you meet them along the way. Many appear and disappear. Some are with you for many years, until they sadly disappoint you, or betray you, and you have no choice, but to let them go.
The one truly love you is your Lord God Almighty in heaven, he truly care about you because you are his creature and servent after is your parents love their children but the humans are always against you.
@@Mrgreen2558 Thank God I'm an atheist!
Friends aren't what they're cracked up to be. At the end of the day it's you and your family.
Only you
OMG, this is me, yesterday I realized I have no friends at work, I hate to follow the crowd, tell the truth always, even though I know it often offends or hurts people. I am not perfect, but do relate to women, a whole lot better. At 58 I no longer care what other people think, I can now watch this video.
Well this explains a lot. If I’d only known years ago. I just thought there was something wrong with me thinking I was someone who withdrawals from society. Now, I’m just me and with this explanation I feel much better. So glad I clicked even though as a sigma I really didn’t care much. Thanks!
Every single trait mentioned in this video lines up flawlessly with my personality. I used to think that I was just weird or different from most people. Maybe I was just antisocial, but I actually fit into the sigma male category that makes complete sense. I have made countless friends throughout my lifetime but through school changes, job changes or life changes I always lose contact eventually. Sometimes they may do something that leads me to not trust them anymore. It might seem shallow, but I tend to make calculated decisions about people by observing their behaviors with others as much as possible before I categorize them as to where they would fit, or if they would fit into my life. I just see it as only letting trustworthy people into my inner circle. Why bother dealing with someone who you can't trust? Sadly these days there are not many people left that you can trust anymore so needless to say my circle has become very small.
Purposely choosing to judge people by their actions is the most shallow thing I have ever heard. Except for every other way. Joking aside, choosing your company wisely is of vast importance. Life is too short to waste any of it on bad company.
People like to say we're sociopaths for not socializing with everyone.... they don't get that we just don't like them....
You ARE weird and different than most everyone else. But that's not a character flaw
I feel the same exact way. My wife doesn't understand why it's so hard for me to lie even if its a small lie. It just is.
@@aubreysanders1613 Had a similar experience with an employer. She would go on and on about how white lies are necessary for good relationships, how not being willing to lie could be hurtful and unproductive. Two years I worked at her store, that came to an end when I decided to test her theories and told a small lie that I knew she would be able to bust me on with minimal effort. She went ballistic, I put in my notice right then while she was ranting. Afterwards, she apologized and tried to get me to stay... /shrug.
I could never figure out my oldest son til I learned about sigma male. It's nice to hear he fits there. Just an example of his personality I recently ask him if he had friends from work? He responded "honestly I have to remember to make time for people," other than his wife he just doesn't need people. But he's so friendly and gets along with others. He does have friends, but few. And they are pretty much the same as him. So thanks for helping me to understand my son.
I can count on one hand the number of friends I have, and I'll have change left over. I ALWAYS tell my wife that I value honesty and loyalty over all else. I'm also able to walk away in 30 seconds flat if I ever need to. Being alone is solitude for me. It took a very long time before I let my wife in. This video nails it for me.
Hit the nail on the head. Thanks for this!!!!
I don't have any friends I have associates.
Bro ur just lonely admit it bro
@@lilpiggylukepower2837 Being alone does not mean you’re lonely.
@@Freedom-Fighter1 it literally does because if you don’t have anyone u have no one to talk to so that’s not being a sigma male that’s just you being a loner and just trying to make ur self feel better about being lonely
@@lilpiggylukepower2837 if you feel lonely get some dogs and occasionally go out to eat. You can have conversations with your waitress for interactions with people. I do all the time and then I like my alone time doing hobbies and with my dogs.
It was odd. I took a psych profile test in application for a sales job with a big insurance company. They said I wasn't aggressive enough. 6 months after an honorable discharge from an elite unit. It also explains why I was able to mix with all those alpha males without getting my ass kicked.
Free opinion here--You didnt "pass the test" because you would actually help people above all else. The cooperate machine is looking for marshmallows that when faced with the choice , would choose money over ethics. They did you a favor.
Thats right!!!@@jumpstart9473
Funny i found myself much faster and stronger then the alfa males. They no longer talk to me. Im great with it alpha males are the worst people.
@@jumpstart9473 You're 100% right
This is me I always knew I did not fit in I sensed I was coming across as arrogant, I certainly don't trust anyone , over the last year I have purchased several books on body language as I thought it may be my fault for having no true friends, but now know that's not the case great video thanks for sharing.
Its crazy (in a funny way) how well I feel and think I fit into these patterns. This is just from my yesterdays readings: "It is better for you to be defeated while speaking the truth, than to be victourious through deceit" - The sentences of Sextus Kind regads and best wishes!
I found solitude, with my studies, games, pets, movies, hobbies, walking around town, etc... Is always better than spending any type of time around "other people."
You forgot one. 13: when sigmas play rpg video games, they always aim for the "good choices". They find it difficult to even test the "bad choices" for entertainment purposes, as it is naturally against their character values.
absolutly correct!
Wow, mind blown here thank you!
Is that why I chose Bulbasaur rather than Charmander in Pokemon Blue?
Renegade 4 life 😆
I don’t play many video games, but I do pride myself on my honor code…and it’s not fake, I have a really hard time doing dishonorable things even when no one else will find out. It will nag and bother me for a long time if I consciously make an immoral move that isn’t absolutely necessary.
I thought I was this way because I’m former Military. Apparently it goes a tad deeper than that. Great information and this explains a lot to many of us.
The main reason we have few friends is because we don't need them, and it usually takes effort to maintain friendships. Effort we could spend on other things as well.
Today I've learned that I'm Sigma. I run on this video accidentally... Honestly, all the points described me very accurate. I am much grateful for this video because I saw that I'm bit different from most of people and friends in my life. Thanks again and have a great day 👍
"Accidentally" - I don't think so. YT algos must have profiled us all as sigmas! :D
sigma's trustworthy behavior we always address people in an honest way without deception .. we don't want an uncomfortable situation . we always do things in FAQs .
this is so corny omg
I'm a sigma but what's a FAQ????
@@PeachyCattyit's just sigma things
@@Ryu_Kage. "Frequently Asked Questions".
@@Ryu_Kage. indeed .. some people just dnt know how sigma maintains its cool personality 💪
I laughed at every point, especially 4. Right on point. Thanks for the video.
An ex co worker wanted to be friends with me. I always helped him at work when he had problems at the job, just like I help everyone doing his job, so he stayed near me all the time. He was the one talking most of the time, and I had to say "Uh huh" or "Yup" occasionally. He got another job, but kept contacting me, but that is less and less. He always calls me. I never call him. People exhaust me, so I don't mind at all.
I have become what I always strived to be: "the crazy quiet old man down the road with the cool cars nobody knows about". Only my true friends know what I have and what I'm capable of. But once you're in, sit down and enjoy the ride.
You just described me, have a great day
@@robscudder789 I knew of such a man when I was a kid and wanted to be like him. Now I am and it feels good.
❤ im the crazy bike guy all self built that plays with whips n nunchucks at 40. Our intrests are a part of who we are.
I am Sigma, but honestly I choose not to drink or do drugs which severely limits my friendships lol...95 percent of men are still choosing to poison themselves etc, and I can't be around it...I joined an MMA gym and have found a healthy positive circle to be around...alot of Sigmas in the gyms
Me too have same problems.
Wow. This is amazing stuff. This describes my personality pretty accurately. It definitely helps to understand myself and others like me better.
Learning about sigma males made a lot of sense to me. Most of friends, family, and associates would describe me as an alpha male, however I suspect that is mainly due to my appearance rather than my attitude. But I never identified with the alpha male persona. Now it makes much more sense, as I identify greatly with the sigma male persona.
Boy these videos, including this one which is as always so spot on about me, have been very helpful. I can see my whole life story played out by these descriptions. People are different of course, but these archetype descriptions are mindblowingly accurate, which is so surprising for someone who always thought that he didn't fit into any mold.
Thanks! Glad you like them!
You might also be an INFJ. It's the rarest of the 16 Meyers Briggs personality types. 😊
@@staciehaneline9533I read some of your comments. Very interesting. I never heard of a sigma female before.
@@Freedom-Fighter1 Yeah, we can be kind of difficult. 😅 I, personally, am very opposed to group-think because people will do things that are unethical to protect their group. I won't. I'll speak out against it and then end up being excommunicated from the group. The weakness of the Alpha male or female is the need for external validation. Alphas are afraid of Sigmas because they see that we don't need people to follow us in order to be strong. We don't really even want people to follow us. We'd rather they think for themselves. We want to help all of the Betas out there become Sigmas. I'm sure you can see why this is problematic for society. 😁
@@staciehaneline9533What's that?
I like burning bridges when someone lies to me, tries to manipulate me or does some other form of betrayal. Finding quality friends is definitely difficult.
It wasn't you who burnt the bridge
Never heard of this, but it might be spot on. I'm in CA, and finding trustworthy, honest folks is more difficult than winning the lottery. Liars, flakes, selfish, narcissists. Every relationship is transient and superficial, I always figured others are just more accommodating. I'm very articulate and conversational, but lost count of how many times I flat out say, 'I don't believe that.' or give a reason that I know they are exaggerating or lying, without calling them a liar. Piqued my interest to look more.
When I listened to this i felt like someone was explaining my mentality & character. I feel sometimes.. that most of the people Miss understand or it's Hard to understand like my character & mindset. I really feel good listening to your podcast.
I realized that I have more in common with people who work at book stores and old ranchers who saw Elvis in concert.
Trust is earned ..but I dnt trust people
For the longest time I had tte feeling that I was crazy or even antisocial. Glad to know I'm not the only one
Right on the spot. Thanks for this excellent video.
You described me. I'm a millionaire and don't make friends easily.
Can I be your friend 👍😁
Hard to make real friends when people are hard to trust and people are so fake nowadays.
@FloridamanStud yes, everyone asks for favors and money ultimately 😫
@@chadmagnifici2347 you probably would too if you weren't so fortunate there buddy you don't have to play life by the same rules
Can you couch me on how to make money??
I'm a woman and these traits apply to me too ♀️
Then you are a sigma female
Really? You avoid drama ? I've never met a woman that didn't like drama or was not dramatic herself.
Well put together 💯🙏
WOW! This is me to a tee. This really does explain a lot. I am so picky about my friends, They feel like I blow them off. You know what, they're right. Supreme loyalty and trustworthiness are the two qualities I must have in any friend. Since America don't make them like that anymore, I guess I am on my own.
Its easy . I would rather have 4 solid quarters then 100 penny's that do little on their own .I've had friend get into big trouble and I've done things the law would frown on to help those friend out . I've had friends do the same for me . Maybe I should just say that I will go all in for a friend and I expect the same . It would be too difficult and time consuming to get a deep understanding of a whole bunch different people .
I intentionally shrinked my circle, I regret that I haven t done it sooner
I have walked this earth for 74 years and just now realised that I am a Sigma male! This is why I did very well in the military and had a 30 year career. Learn something every day, if you pay attention.
👍Soooo true, It is not easy to find like-minded honest friends who have the same interests. Also difficult to work with careless people😊
I hit the like. This is one of the few videos about Sigma people that is fairly accurate. 😊 However, each Sigma individual is different in their own way and choosing.
I appreciate!
Am sigma empath and I hate when I see manipulative people, liers, and arrogant ones am I different?
I’m finding the “Sigma”, label topic to be very interesting as I’d never knew that I was one & now know why others often don’t understand me. It’s been a lifelong question for myself but thanks to these videos I know exactly why my life has unfolded the way that it has. Thanks for the video content!
Same here
Same 😊
If you are very kind and true sigma like me we can be friends 😊
I’m in the same boat bro. It’s nice to be able to put a name to the type we are.
Wow. This spells me out exactly. Been fighting this nature all my life bc I have been told that there is something wrong with me my whole life. I’m my experience many female personalities tend to get frustrated by a sigma seemingly antisocial traits and alphas don’t like it that we aren’t part of the boys club. I finally realized, you can’t fight your own spirit.
For many years I wondered what was so different about me and why I was the way I am, now I know. These videos really do nail it.
Great videos. I am enjoying that listening to them is helping my expand my understanding of myself and my life. (I am 74) I do have only a very few and close friends. The simple truth is almost no-one perceives the world at the level of inter-relationship I experience. I was lucky enough to have my father tell me when I was 14 that I am very different from others. Neither better nor worse, simply very different. He advised I put my energies and attention into understanding myself with only a little energy going to noticing how others perceive their world. By the time I was 16 I was very aware my perception of life was vastly different than others, far more complex and inter-related than others perceived. I grinned realizing most people find my views of life as utter nonsense. It was obvious that my earlier expectations of others 'understanding' me was unrealistic. As an example... Someone would complain about another person lying. When viewed from the perceptive fields of the complaining person what the other person said certainly was a lie. Yet within the perceptive fields of the person 'lying' what they said certainly was 'truth'.
Crazy how i just found out i was a Sigma male less then 2 years ago. I appreciate the making of all you're videos. 🍷🍾
WISE THINKER. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING THIS VALUABLE TRUTH, ENORMOUSLY HELPFUL! Since being injured in a car crash in Perth Australia quite some time ago, my life and character was Completely changed, so I have had to build a Whole new me. I was told in 2016 by a Neurologist, Don’t try keep looking for the YOU of the past, HE’s gone you won’t find him! Phew! I had lost Most memory Prior the car crash due to a head injury. Your Valuable WISE THINKER words have helped me today 17 April 2024. ENORMOUSLY to NOW understanding myself A LOT more! Now I know that I am a Sigma man! I have just Posted your Great video to Close friends so they can Understand me Far better, as I have said to them in the past, I KNOW that I am Complicated. So hopefully those close friends will understand me much much better. Thank You once again WISE THINKER. All of The Very very BEST to you and your family. And may your needs and prayers be granted to you. Amen. JB. Surrey. UK.
Nothing described here sounds like a bad thing to me. You actually just described me to the letter. I don't think of myself as anything other than me though. Alpha, Beta, Sigma, idc. Those are just labels people put on other people. I'm just me. Take me as I am or piss off, it's truly that simple.
Im tired of not meeting people who know how to make theselves happy
Me too, so many people don't understand that happiness is a choice
... or people who think they need to be happy.
I’ve only recently realised I’m a 51yo sigma, and damn, I’m proud. I’m a CEO of a public US company, have three life friends, raised my son alone and been single 10yrs. We are the natural leaders in an apocalypse. I’ve rarely been the top social dog, but in a crisis, I always am, and even saved lives, but feel no ego with it. Never be afraid of an Alfa, but the very rare intelligent Alphas will use you to elevate him - I support these Alphas, as it can become an amazing pairing.
Do more research. You will find that a true Sigma will NEVER call themselves a Sigma.. figure yourself out. You are not a Sigma.
Alphas, Sigmas, Betas...All needed to make this human "casserole". All have something to give and to take. To learn and to teach. And all are equally dangerous when lacking self-awareness and authenticity.
I support no alfas they fear me. Only because they dont realize i can not stand confrontation. I only stand up for other people not myself. This destroys people not that im a fan. I would rather build people up and make them better no were it leaves me. But im tired of seeing people bullied. That is what an alfa male is a bully. Unfortunately its whats wrong with the police in this country. We are definitely the leaders of the apocalypse. I have seen it in my dreams and have lead hundreds to safety. God bless. Too bad none of us want to be president. Lol
GREAT TALKING POINTS SIR AS USUAL 👍🏾💯 ..
I truly appreciate this video. I am a Sigma all the way. Glad others are out there
It's not that we have no friends. It's that we're only interested in real friends and they're harder to come by. What most people call "friends" these days are, at the very most acquaintances or people that comment on their social media. We tend to find those people are just not worth investing in. We sigmas may not have a lot of friends, but we tend to be the truest friends people will ever have.
Maybe I'm a Sigma female, if there is such a thing. Quality over quantity, loyalty, straight shooter, introverted, devoted, dog lover, private, in the background, get the job done, selective, With the exception of debate 😁. Not fighting, but constructive debate. I guess maybe a Sigma man might be my type! ❤
You can rest assured that sigma females exist. In fact, while there is now a surplus on videos on the sigma male, there seems to be a serious shortage of those on the sigma female profile.
These videos help me better understand who and what I'm all about. Thank you for creating these very informative videos.
My only friend as a kid was my dog. A dog will never let you down. A good dog will die for you.😢
Dont want to be famous but make an impact damn accurate
I much prefer conversing with others, though I generally find it more rewarding to read and reflect on my own. I can't get past, and have difficulty connecting with, others bias and inability to be genuine. I'm generally seen as shy while I'm more accurately reticent and reserved. I value communication in its quality while others seem to value its quantity and nonsensical/tangential playfulness. I find that tiring and immature. I don't fit anyone's mold. Justified confidence makes others feel inadequate and uncomfortable, while false confidence makes others feel secure. *Regardless of tactful approach and delivery* The few people I've developed long/close relations with all share the same feedback - I'm a completely different person than they thought the day we met. I believe it's fair to extrapolate that to the general publics perception. To be fair, i have a proclivity to observe human behavior. It's habitual and instinctual. People are fake and dishonest. So, I'm not inclined to be more transparent about my character.
This is 100% true! I always wondered why I’m like this.