Alan Watts - The Principle Of Not Forcing

2018 ж. 16 Шіл.
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Philosopher Alan Watts on the topic of Wu Wei; or "the principle of not forcing anything in life".

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  • Alan watts has actually saved me from suicide

    @squidthekid955@squidthekid955 Жыл бұрын
    • A year later seeing your comment. Hope you’re doing great still😊

      @Mmmmmmmmmnmnn@Mmmmmmmmmnmnn4 ай бұрын
    • I hope life has become better for you. Don't despair, don't withdraw, open yourself up. I'm glad you listen to Alan Watts.

      @jakespivey3716@jakespivey37162 ай бұрын
    • definitley been a lifesaver for many of us, maybe not here but alan watts has dug me and many others out of despair. truly a gift from God. i remember the low part of my life without a dollar to my name and listening to alan watts words as i stared at the ceiling made me laugh and keep living.

      @bigmoneymoose4644@bigmoneymoose46447 күн бұрын
  • Thank god a Allan watts video with no background music. Thank you

    @phoenician7157@phoenician71574 жыл бұрын
    • True!

      @minichanz@minichanz4 жыл бұрын
    • The longer lectures on YT have no music. His audio books also don’t. Good luck and enjoy your journey.

      @nickkopelgaming@nickkopelgaming4 жыл бұрын
    • But aren't you 'forcing' this feeling! Shouldn't you just go with the music :) Hehe

      @AshleyCowanMusic@AshleyCowanMusic4 жыл бұрын
    • @@AshleyCowanMusic maybe they're just too entranced by the music they can't focus on the concepts ;P

      @stephenjohnson2345@stephenjohnson23454 жыл бұрын
    • I know, music always ruins it for me!

      @nimatonthebeat@nimatonthebeat4 жыл бұрын
  • “No need to force when the force is with you...” - Yoda Watts

    @zarathustraspeaks7586@zarathustraspeaks75864 жыл бұрын
    • This gave me an unexpected chuckle while reading these comments. Hats off to you.

      @foyo5497@foyo54974 жыл бұрын
    • Zarathustra Says thats the problem man. Its never with me. NEVER

      @Ray2311us@Ray2311us4 жыл бұрын
    • No matter how many time I FUCK myself and dream of a girl

      @Ray2311us@Ray2311us4 жыл бұрын
    • No matter how many times I tune all my chi to the third eye

      @Ray2311us@Ray2311us4 жыл бұрын
    • No matter if I used every ritual on the planet to do exchange chi for a wish

      @Ray2311us@Ray2311us4 жыл бұрын
  • Words my martial arts master told me I will always live by: When you’re feeling you cannot force, when you’re forcing you cannot feel.”

    @alyriatutoring5697@alyriatutoring56974 жыл бұрын
    • Mahalo.

      @ouidatrahan1518@ouidatrahan15184 жыл бұрын
    • That is some deep shit and that hits close to home

      @whodini2067@whodini20674 жыл бұрын
    • Makes a lot of sense!

      @betauser6233@betauser62334 жыл бұрын
    • Abe yede

      @kruthika3607@kruthika36074 жыл бұрын
    • Honestly i dnt get it... someone explain?

      @nunyabiz9969@nunyabiz99694 жыл бұрын
  • I let my entire life slip into a bottomless hole and then I tried to put it back together by force. I ended up even more depressed and anxious. Couldn't take the pressure of having to try three times as hard to make it up for all the time I had wasted to be where I thought I was ''supposed'' to be in life at that time and eventually burned out. Remember this... No matter how hard it is for you right now things will get better. I used to think that you have to just keep moving but now I've learned that all you have to be is yourself. Let go, allow yourself to go wherever you need. And only when I stopped I saw things for what they really were. It's simply not true that those who don't work hard don't 'make it'. You will make it either way. Hard work should only and only come if it's a natural part of being in a state of Dao. All you have to be is simply yourself and you will make it.

    @user-zm5sk4ht9c@user-zm5sk4ht9c4 жыл бұрын
    • W711 Thank You for this comment I needed to see this

      @metadata5638@metadata56384 жыл бұрын
    • W711 sounded like I was reading my life bio...got the chills

      @AprilEwell@AprilEwell4 жыл бұрын
    • Interesting, thank you for sharing. Myself in the beginning of something similar.

      @camilamr@camilamr4 жыл бұрын
    • @@metadata5638 ​ @Camila Vanilla You are really welcome! :) I'm glad it helped anyone in any way.

      @user-zm5sk4ht9c@user-zm5sk4ht9c4 жыл бұрын
    • Thanks for Sharing

      @reallyreal9030@reallyreal90304 жыл бұрын
  • “Wu Wei is the art of sailing rather than the art of rowing.”

    @solebro1780@solebro17804 жыл бұрын
    • I found canoeing easier then sailing

      @colingoddard6537@colingoddard65374 жыл бұрын
    • Those both require effort. More like an inner tube in a stream...

      @williamgeier6810@williamgeier68104 жыл бұрын
    • How about this. Fate whispers to the warrior. You cannot withstand the storm and the warrior whispers back I am the storm!

      @colingoddard6537@colingoddard65374 жыл бұрын
    • @Bored Af don't study me you won't graduate

      @colingoddard6537@colingoddard65374 жыл бұрын
    • @Bored Af Fate and Free Will, do not necessarily exclude one another, they could work together, just Fate knows what your choice will be, it is simple notion, yes?

      @Sanmayce@Sanmayce4 жыл бұрын
  • Always unlearn something everyday

    @EpicKalypze@EpicKalypze4 жыл бұрын
    • Best comment iv seen in along time

      @B-anonymous@B-anonymous4 жыл бұрын
    • This deserves more likes

      @truthway971@truthway9713 жыл бұрын
    • Is that why my grandpa has alzheimers?

      @UkuleleVillain@UkuleleVillain3 жыл бұрын
    • Ukulele Villain the real prophet

      @daboe2035@daboe20353 жыл бұрын
    • @@UkuleleVillain No.

      @fitnessabdul6811@fitnessabdul68113 жыл бұрын
  • I’ve always tried forcing friendships with people that I can’t relate to...now I’ve fully accepted and am patient when it comes to finding real tangible relationships. Love this principle, have to stay true to ones self! 🙏

    @pickles435@pickles4354 жыл бұрын
    • Wherever we are at in our lives can only attract to us the people we need to grow so being a good place see you in end up with someone has to teach you a lesson but better yet someone that Flo's with you and your life by having a flowing life

      @thesidewalksaint6236@thesidewalksaint62364 жыл бұрын
    • Same here. I've tried to force old friendships when I'm a completely different person and no longer relate to them. I've had to allow myself to let them go so that people I do relate to can show up. Patience.

      @BigManTate7364@BigManTate73644 жыл бұрын
    • I don't even have friendship with someone that I can relate to, or anyone for that matter.

      @iliveinsideyourhouse3943@iliveinsideyourhouse39433 жыл бұрын
    • @@iliveinsideyourhouse3943 yeh i can relate to that Im alone. But I understand Alan.Its destiny for Alan destiny for me, but things are always changing, are we big enough to watch the changes and not argue about them?

      @cduby1424@cduby14242 жыл бұрын
    • Fuck yeah pickles let’s go 🤌🏻

      @nikolaspmcauliffe@nikolaspmcauliffe2 жыл бұрын
  • Without any expectations of finding anthing, synchronicity just happens.

    @cprotagonist8375@cprotagonist83754 жыл бұрын
    • @Jair Shantianatta Spiritual Awakening I'm unsure what your reply post is as its not in english

      @cprotagonist8375@cprotagonist83753 жыл бұрын
    • This is the truth.

      @nonexistenceisbliss9528@nonexistenceisbliss95283 жыл бұрын
    • it might be true of simply existing . but for synchronicity to happen with goals its not the case. to make a goal you need some vision of what it is what the end is

      @aarongottfried5595@aarongottfried55952 жыл бұрын
    • Until it doesn't

      @jdt8983@jdt89832 жыл бұрын
  • This is why so many relationships either fail or are broken. Far too many people think they have to rush to get married or start a family when they’re still very young. We compare ourselves to others which is dangerous. Next thing you know you have two people basically forcing a relationship that turns ugly in the long run. People have affairs, get divorced, or check out mentally from the relationship altogether. True love doesn’t work that way. True love hits you naturally when you least expect it

    @lanenelson8040@lanenelson80404 жыл бұрын
    • Exactly 🙏

      @fharhunachoudhury2434@fharhunachoudhury24343 жыл бұрын
    • Beautifully Said♥️

      @akshayborgaonkar1581@akshayborgaonkar15813 жыл бұрын
    • Wow 🤌🏻

      @DEO374@DEO3743 жыл бұрын
    • Well, if they have a shared life goal, e.g. a religious goal and incentive to have children etc, it may still work out, and the love may come after the marriage

      @MotorStorm66@MotorStorm663 жыл бұрын
    • But what is "true love" and who defines it? Being mentally checked out could be part of it. And if it "fails" there are still things you learn about yourself from the other. Was it a failure?

      @SC-ut2dn@SC-ut2dn2 жыл бұрын
  • I’d like to think this is how wild animals experience life. No titles, no names, just this sensual outreach.

    @matthewshaffner2992@matthewshaffner29924 жыл бұрын
    • It is a good explanation after only watching this video. May you also think about Wu Wei as a way to present your life with calm wisdom and knowledge of various logic. In another word, a human with ultimate wisdom and behave with no influence from outside. People may see you as doing nothing, but you have done much by doing less.

      @jessechen2013@jessechen20134 жыл бұрын
    • and survival of the fittest.

      @carissecraton9974@carissecraton99744 жыл бұрын
    • Pure instinct

      @Myriadmusics@Myriadmusics4 жыл бұрын
    • @@venusbonjour9303oh what is the natural processes of a baby coming out? I thought giving birth would naturally demand a great amount of work considering the size and pain of the child coming out. Dont hospitals ask the woman to keep calm and slow her down?

      @abz4852@abz48524 жыл бұрын
    • @@jessechen2013 Meditate. Do less to do more

      @edstafford1392@edstafford13924 жыл бұрын
  • I usually end up ending my day listening to one of his lectures. It comforts me and helps me balance out conflicts I had through the day

    @alchemist786@alchemist7864 жыл бұрын
    • That's a great technique

      @veliem3935@veliem39354 жыл бұрын
    • Samee

      @tairyperreira7992@tairyperreira79923 жыл бұрын
    • It's good stuff.

      @mylittlekittens@mylittlekittens2 жыл бұрын
    • Beautifully observed

      @chrispalmer2312@chrispalmer23122 жыл бұрын
    • I do this, too... nice to see this comment.

      @caseysharpe5907@caseysharpe59072 жыл бұрын
  • can we just get a shout out for the quality of this audio version? its wierdly high quality

    @Gudnazon@Gudnazon4 жыл бұрын
    • 👏🏼✨

      @NikkoYM@NikkoYM4 жыл бұрын
    • plus without annoying music

      @Alex-ox1fq@Alex-ox1fq4 жыл бұрын
    • can we just stop doing "can we", speak for yourself

      @Alistair@Alistair4 жыл бұрын
    • Good quality and -music like was mentioned is a HUGE plus

      @johannesa.5646@johannesa.56464 жыл бұрын
    • It made me uncomfortable at first, like whoa he's a little too close to real

      @rush2795@rush27954 жыл бұрын
  • thank you so much for not adding background music. it seems people cant stand silence anymore

    @A.T._FIELD@A.T._FIELD Жыл бұрын
  • As Alan says the children are inquisitive, my 5 year old asked me "daddy where does the dark go when you switch on the lights" and he also asked if a person is born blind and deaf what language do they think in,

    @GordonBrooks37@GordonBrooks374 жыл бұрын
    • Helen Keller would be a good example of a person born blind and deaf making great accomplishments communicating language .

      @peglegnoid6139@peglegnoid61394 жыл бұрын
    • Lovely❤❤❤

      @lvoeart4710@lvoeart47103 жыл бұрын
    • Wowwwwwwwwwwwwww

      @vintageMIC4000@vintageMIC40003 жыл бұрын
    • @@peglegnoid6139 she actually wasn’t born blind or deaf... she got sick when she was a baby and her memory of the word water was what helped her learn to make connections to language.

      @Monica-fj5jz@Monica-fj5jz3 жыл бұрын
    • sounds like me after a joint or a tab. lol

      @mkaykaykayy@mkaykaykayy3 жыл бұрын
  • Be still like a mountain and flow like a great river. - Lao Tzu

    @Kyllei@Kyllei4 жыл бұрын
    • That sounds like a waterfall.

      @shumeister1059@shumeister10594 жыл бұрын
    • @@shumeister1059 sounds more like lava

      @kcflick6132@kcflick61323 жыл бұрын
    • Nice words but doesn’t mean anything

      @theodoreroosevelt7471@theodoreroosevelt74713 жыл бұрын
    • Thats why its not forced?

      @cduby1424@cduby14242 жыл бұрын
    • @@theodoreroosevelt7471 lol 😂

      @weilunkang@weilunkang2 жыл бұрын
  • I have “let go” and been enjoying my days with my wife during COVID-19 shut down. “Not forcing” or “working hard”, gave me more joy and restful than following the old method taught to us - work really hard to get what you want. Don’t force the nature to do its duties. Nature/God/Universe knows what to do for us better than we know ourselves..

    @lovelove9108@lovelove91084 жыл бұрын
    • Good for you. Thankyou for sharing. It was a beautiful time in its own way.

      @rupowell2821@rupowell28213 жыл бұрын
    • A quote that really put this all into perspective for me when I was younger that I read in some book on Buddhism goes something to the effect of "The tree that learns to sway in the storm survives; while the stern tree that resists the winds breaks over and dies."

      @Sanguivore@Sanguivore2 жыл бұрын
    • Try telling that to the “climate change” people!

      @robertcristando8007@robertcristando80072 жыл бұрын
    • @@robertcristando8007 sad that all the "climate change" is FAKE, and all the REAL DESTRUCTION on the earth is IGNORED.

      @nightmarerex2035@nightmarerex20359 ай бұрын
    • @@rupowell2821Not really not at all

      @timchavis9420@timchavis94209 ай бұрын
  • I've been trying to improve myself, working on myself. But in the end, I was the same person but more mentally tired. So I stopped. I awaited for the right timing. Nothing happened, not a thin ray of improvement I saw. Then I let go, and then everything I wanted started happening, out of nowhere. Little did I know that it had been with me the whole time. I was already the best version of myself. The self-help, improvement is the greatest lie. Do not compare yourself to others.

    @uncleusuh@uncleusuh2 жыл бұрын
    • The most wildest things you find happening to you, you want the world to see, THEY WONT

      @cduby1424@cduby14242 жыл бұрын
    • It's interesting, because by not trying to improve yourself, you still end up doing things that 'improve' you as a person. But you do them because it makes sense to do them, not out of some dogmatic idea about you must always be improving yourself otherwise you're wasting your life or whatever. And this way you also end up being more of an individual rather than another clone of those intolerable and uptight self- improvement obsessed types lol.

      @stephenhughes5156@stephenhughes5156 Жыл бұрын
    • @@stephenhughes5156 couldn’t have said it better

      @myrtila@myrtila Жыл бұрын
    • This is one of the most beautiful comments I've ever seen on here.

      @katashley1031@katashley1031 Жыл бұрын
  • We are so bombarded with concepts, the five principles of this or that, the idea of being empty, the many 'good books', that we end up totally confused. Living today as curious childlike beings, yes. 🤗

    @user-qz5gi4uh6x@user-qz5gi4uh6x Жыл бұрын
  • 11:09 “View what is as if you didn’t even know how to talk.” That is beautifully said about how words get in the way.

    @ARichardP@ARichardP4 жыл бұрын
    • Language is powerful like that.

      @Badi101@Badi1014 жыл бұрын
    • Words yes, they can truly obscure things even when they intend to say them. However, there's something about words spoken.. such as in this A. Watts lecture, that communicate something else beyond "words". He helps make this clear, when at the end, he suggests to let go and listen. Must've been a mesmerist too 😏

      @1JWL@1JWL4 жыл бұрын
    • Read "Good Old Neon" by David Foster Wallace...one of the themes deals with language and its limitations

      @dannyc9559@dannyc95594 жыл бұрын
  • Never forced a thing in my life, since I was ostracized from my family , who tried to entice me back with money. After meeting a sidhu/ holy man in India , he touched me as I gave him a few rupees, he touched my arm and said , ‘let it go, it will all be ok’. Looking back 25 years since then , it’s all been good, I met my ‘Swan’ , married her and have had a child . All this after drifting and just not forcing anything, what will be , will be. Look at it this way, in a 100 years no one will even remember you. Your just passing through, enjoy every moment.

    @paulsingh9043@paulsingh90433 жыл бұрын
    • Supercar Qatar thank you for this sharing of you...

      @letitia4423@letitia44233 жыл бұрын
    • You gave me the chills 🙏

      @Blackridy@Blackridy3 жыл бұрын
    • Many blessings to you and your family. Thank you for sharing.

      @jkstubbington@jkstubbington Жыл бұрын
  • That's why facebook is awful....it was forced and unnatural to reconnect with people I flowed away from quite naturally before!

    @katydrew5274@katydrew52744 жыл бұрын
    • YA ITS LIKE A BAD CARACATURE. SOMEONE NEEDS TO DO A MOVIE CALLED FACEBOOK PEOPLE AND SKEW IT PROPERLY.

      @markorendas1790@markorendas17904 жыл бұрын
    • So true. And there's this "web manners guide" sort of, which doesn't let you unfriend them on time or fast enough at least.

      @BikiniBanana@BikiniBanana4 жыл бұрын
    • I agree. I’ve stopped posting on FB and rarely look. It was boring.

      @ARichardP@ARichardP4 жыл бұрын
    • Ya just my feeling. It's childish silly

      @mgsa5722@mgsa57224 жыл бұрын
    • These are no mere words.

      @isaaconyeleonu2533@isaaconyeleonu25334 жыл бұрын
  • If anyone is searching for the orignal, full lecture, as I was, you will find it by searching "Alan Watts ~ Close Your Eyes". That lecture is the last of a four part series you can access all of from the description of the video I just titled. Cheers!

    @spencerstephens7594@spencerstephens75944 жыл бұрын
    • Thank you

      @breyantmarshall379@breyantmarshall3794 жыл бұрын
    • Thank you

      @bridgetb5582@bridgetb55824 жыл бұрын
    • Thanks a milli 💛

      @leratopotgieter7826@leratopotgieter78263 жыл бұрын
    • Thanks🥰

      @madwrld973@madwrld9733 жыл бұрын
    • Thank you so much. This clip ended so abruptly had to come down here to find ouy more 🙏🏾

      @bilalshaikh613@bilalshaikh6133 жыл бұрын
  • I love how he laughs at his own statements , I wish I could’ve met him

    @tiffanythames9820@tiffanythames98204 жыл бұрын
    • Somebody liked this at the exact same time as me , who are you ?

      @emiliohernandez187@emiliohernandez1874 жыл бұрын
    • Me too

      @acolenespot@acolenespot4 жыл бұрын
    • You just did, it's you!

      @baptm727@baptm7273 жыл бұрын
    • ♥️♥️♥️

      @avesatanas666@avesatanas6663 жыл бұрын
    • @@emiliohernandez187 aha what do you mean ?

      @tiffanythames9820@tiffanythames98203 жыл бұрын
  • Who are all feeling that comments are very intellectual and worth reading

    @targetssc6557@targetssc65574 жыл бұрын
    • So true omg

      @llnoche@llnoche4 жыл бұрын
    • Yes!

      @Darkch4o5@Darkch4o53 жыл бұрын
    • damn right

      @avesatanas666@avesatanas6663 жыл бұрын
    • I love coming to the comments to see the beauty and wonderous thinking of other people's mind it's turely connecting for sure

      @tairyperreira7992@tairyperreira79923 жыл бұрын
    • yea same

      @68plus1.@68plus1.3 жыл бұрын
  • "The way, cannot be forced." I remind myself of this often. I try to implement this philosophy into my every day life. Nothing good comes from anything that is forced. There is only one way. One true way. There is only 'The' way. Everything in life should be allowed to happen at it's own pace, and at the right moment, naturally, and without force. This is something which governments and politicians will never, ever truly understand.

    @chrisgilling543@chrisgilling5432 жыл бұрын
    • Why is it that “nothing good comes from anything that is forced”?

      @KatyVLOGS12@KatyVLOGS12 Жыл бұрын
    • @@KatyVLOGS12 because you don’t know what you want, neither what’s good for you, because you don’t even know your self

      @CesarMartinez-gi9de@CesarMartinez-gi9de Жыл бұрын
    • @@KatyVLOGS12 literally EVERYTHING good in this world came from something forced. People struglling against the 'impossible'. This is just someone trying to find a niche for thier bs.

      @jebes909090@jebes909090 Жыл бұрын
    • Ali once said that he hated every moment of training in his life. But that training and suffering is what made him a world champ. Most of the worlds best athletes say similar things... Taoism has nice perspectives on some stuff in life, but people just take it too literally. You don't have to agree with something 100%, you can still argue against some of the outdated stuff while accepting what inspires you in it

      @matedespot1480@matedespot148010 ай бұрын
  • Anyone notice his space? It's funny, he speaks so much about the many concepts surrounding wu-wei and of wu-wei itself, but all the while he is demonstrating it. Every word is thought not too hard but not too light, all natural, but with as much space as is needed or is not needed. Without knowing the language he is speaking, you could get a takeaway message. I love that.

    @brianrandall3795@brianrandall37954 жыл бұрын
    • Brian Randall I just complained about those gaps lol I get he’s thinking because he’s a prophet and can’t say something wrong but come on man spit it out like twista and nos lol!

      @lostandfound2329@lostandfound23294 жыл бұрын
    • Lost And found you’re right, he is thinking, and being careful with his words. Be patient, my friend.

      @keelanesquivel3854@keelanesquivel38544 жыл бұрын
    • Lost And found the gaps weren’t intentional but they were actually kinda the point to what he was saying lol

      @daboe2035@daboe20353 жыл бұрын
    • at that He took his computer and started writing upon it as if it were a notebook

      @ModernTao@ModernTao3 жыл бұрын
    • @@lostandfound2329 you are obviously so woke you really don't need to listen to these recordings.

      @crouchingwombathiddenquoll5641@crouchingwombathiddenquoll56413 жыл бұрын
  • Yes. "not forcing" is the best translation for wu wei 无为. "Not forcing" requires a great deal of discernment, judgment, and action-taking. It is not for the lazy and unthinking. You still must make the effort while not forcing your way.

    @JamesChan1983@JamesChan19833 жыл бұрын
    • thanks James, what do you mean action taking... as in trying to be a passive observer, continuing your activities without thinking? Placing no opposition?

      @julieferrone1311@julieferrone1311 Жыл бұрын
    • @@julieferrone1311 I could be wrong but let me give an example. Do you think a great wood carver or sculptist forces as he makes his cuts? Maybe he applies more or less force at times, but most certainly many or most of his movements will be very very refined, skilled, careful, discerned. You can't un-carve a piece of wood. So you don't force, but you go with the flow, the grain of the wood as you carve. You don't carve passively, or lazily. That's how you end up with a total mess and a horrible work. You can apply effort without forcing. Maybe you should look into a martial art like jiu jitsu or judo, sometimes applying something physically can help you understand the philosophical elements behind it.

      @midgetmafia9451@midgetmafia9451 Жыл бұрын
  • It’s really as if we know everything - everything we need to know- the moment we are born, and then the “teachings” of the material world blind us, because they mean nothing

    @bobmarleyownz@bobmarleyownz4 жыл бұрын
    • Rather than meaning nothing, they really are just distraction from the truth, and then we think we know more and more, when we are really going farther and farther from the truth

      @bobmarleyownz@bobmarleyownz4 жыл бұрын
    • Yes and then we need to spend part of our lives unlearning and trying to get back to our original childlike selves.

      @stargazer5797@stargazer57974 жыл бұрын
    • @@bobmarleyownz yooo b smith

      @chadretrofilms7824@chadretrofilms78243 жыл бұрын
  • the Source manifests itself through this man in such a unique way.... it is a true gift to be able to listen to his thought processes... I Am truly Grateful...

    @thrive-like-a-viking@thrive-like-a-viking4 жыл бұрын
    • Great man.

      @cduby1424@cduby14242 жыл бұрын
    • How wonderful we can use this technology to hear all his speeches at will!

      @aandromeda7724@aandromeda77242 жыл бұрын
    • We are all reincarnated beings continually helping eachother in our journey of peace

      @lacischultz9832@lacischultz9832 Жыл бұрын
    • ofcos he had the sauce😉

      @nathangacha4318@nathangacha4318 Жыл бұрын
    • You're gonna have.to answer.for.this nate.

      @hurtlocker34-fb2st@hurtlocker34-fb2st Жыл бұрын
  • the title is relevant to the video and no background music. 10/10

    @hashmat9467@hashmat94673 жыл бұрын
  • Listen as if you don’t know how to talk is some of the beat damn advice I’ve ever heard

    @coleedwards557@coleedwards5574 жыл бұрын
    • if its not necessary to say, its necessary not to say it. sales mantra. "speech is silver, silence is golden, sanity is silent"

      @servantprince@servantprince4 жыл бұрын
    • Cole Edwards Very powerful thought!!!!

      @Vicky_ana@Vicky_ana3 жыл бұрын
  • “Don’t try” - Bukowski

    @jcsaito4780@jcsaito47804 жыл бұрын
    • "Try not. Do." - Yoda. In all seriousness, this is the truth, no matter who said it. A co-worker tries SO HARD to be "the funny guy", but he's just so annoying.

      @davelanciani-dimaensionx@davelanciani-dimaensionx4 жыл бұрын
    • Great words from a great author

      @thesidewalksaint6236@thesidewalksaint62364 жыл бұрын
    • That is chiseled on his gravestone.

      @777ter@777ter3 жыл бұрын
  • "The art of sailing rather than rowing" I needed to hear this. Its a wonderful phrase... thank you!

    @lionesss06@lionesss063 жыл бұрын
    • Great saying

      @tortoisetamer486@tortoisetamer4862 жыл бұрын
    • After seven months, I'm back to hear it again because I still need it 🖤

      @lionesss06@lionesss062 жыл бұрын
  • love the silence behind this - makes Alan's message louder. Thankyou

    @thehiddenhandproject1075@thehiddenhandproject10754 жыл бұрын
  • This is AMAZING ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ I find this very helpful, for as a once celebrated visual artist , now a senior citizen who moved from LA to a small farm town in the Midwest to an inherited home. EARTHQUAKE I am in the “not doing “ stage. I force and fail. I’ve always said “ I live my life like a leaf on the wind”. It’s always worked before, but it’s in the damned waiting that anxiety hits and our brains are off and going, and depression can set in. I say now to my situation “This too, shall pass” Namaste

    @joemonroeartistvloger7990@joemonroeartistvloger7990 Жыл бұрын
  • Taking cold showers has helped me understand this practice. To have your nerves be overwhelmed with stimulation and then just letting go. It is one of the hardest things to do in the morning. But each time i do it, i become one with the river, and i become wider and deeper each time. I can now relax by remembering the cold shock and letting go, only with more practice will i make this an involutary habit. But i let go of any goal associated. I let go of any "reward". Becausr its all here. The reward is all here in the moment. That elusive omnipotent silent creature that overlays my experience is always present. It takes only practicing nothing to reveal its raw wiggle. It is constant, and to be with it always you must constantly be aware of that joker. That serious and not serious little game.

    @chikewaa@chikewaa4 жыл бұрын
    • Real shit. Cold showers did the same for me as well. The cold is the greatest teacher. Learning to surrender to the cold and the sensations it brings translates to life directly. By not trying to force to breathe a certain way or to fight the cold, you can do what is natural and breathe how we are supposed to and surrender to the cold (life) .

      @connernolan@connernolan4 жыл бұрын
    • I like cold showers in the summer but during the winter man idk if that’s even healthy. Definitely warm showers in the winter are great for your body. Cold showers in the winter make me so tense and tight. It does calm inflammation for sure always good to finish a shower with cold water

      @welhynole4082@welhynole40824 жыл бұрын
    • Welhy Nole try alternating warm and cold. Start of warm to wash and cold to finish the last 2-3 mins. Better for your hair skin and immune system

      @connernolan@connernolan4 жыл бұрын
    • conner Nolan I agree but I work outside in the cold so I don’t know. I go home and take a really hot shower on my body and warm and cold water on my face and hair. The hot seriously helps my muscles from cramping from the cold but it really dries out my skin. Also hot water absorbs better and there’s a bunch of chemicals in tap water

      @welhynole4082@welhynole40824 жыл бұрын
    • @@welhynole4082 depending on how much your water bill is, taking a hot bath and a cold shower to rinse is a good option too lol

      @connernolan@connernolan4 жыл бұрын
  • This is a concept that I've felt my entire life and have struggled but failed to put into words that others could understand. It feels nice to discover that there are others on the same page.

    @tjwoosta@tjwoosta3 жыл бұрын
  • Had my eyes closed for a good five minutes before I realized that the video was over 🤷‍♂️

    @khwezibuthelezi3968@khwezibuthelezi39683 жыл бұрын
  • one of our most brilliant philosophers, thank you Alan. sail with the wind, to sail into the wind, tack. he knew how to tell us what we need to hear.

    @kerryshrode@kerryshrode4 жыл бұрын
  • what arises in me as I watch this video is just how much pain I'm in... suicidal grief and homicidal rage. nothing to live for. it all seems devastatingly hopeless. the past rapes and haunts me... the future paralyzes me with fear. and I only feel overwhelming shame in the present.

    @radicalhonesty3628@radicalhonesty36282 жыл бұрын
    • I feel you. The only solution i know is to live (or go) in a place that is surrounded by nature or is in nature. Your surroundings form you. Learn survival or become selfsufficient. This is the only way out of this sick society and can be a goal in live as there are probably really bad times ahead of us (if we are not already in them), you'll learn beautifull things and become aware of many things as nature is the basis of everything. Wild animals and flora can teach more things than humans ever will...

      @WildBoy4FunTime@WildBoy4FunTime2 жыл бұрын
    • kzhead.info/sun/rcekf82JmpuOfIE/bejne.html

      @excelsior8682@excelsior8682 Жыл бұрын
    • At least you can write pretty good poetry about it haha. I don't buy the 'nothing to live for' bit though. You're telling me that there is nothing in life at all that you enjoy even just a little bit? Music? TV shows? Video games? Sex? Good food? The sound of the birds? You're telling me that there isn't any skill that you like to learn? Martial arts? Guitar? Drums? You might not realise it, but being in a suicidal state (assuming you actually are) can be super liberating. Because now you are free to live the life you want, without giving a F what anyone else thinks. Just try not to be too much of a dick to those other people.

      @stephenhughes5156@stephenhughes5156 Жыл бұрын
  • Go with the flow, take advantage of the flow, maintain balance and tranquility. One of the very few chinese cultural teachings i still keep with myself.

    @Unconcerned_Orange@Unconcerned_Orange2 жыл бұрын
  • Beautiful time to be alive and have these words available within a few clicks!

    @steadystoicsteve@steadystoicsteve5 ай бұрын
  • Since Covid lockdown in the UK two years ago, my wife and I have stayed in our village, St. Keverne in Cornwall, and feel we have discovered true contentment.

    @tonybrown3705@tonybrown3705 Жыл бұрын
    • how are you doing now in Cornwall? It looks like a beautiful village

      @julieferrone1311@julieferrone1311 Жыл бұрын
  • 9:46 was very deep and really spoke to me.

    @Cha4k@Cha4k4 жыл бұрын
    • Cha4k lmao

      @vcello6450@vcello64504 жыл бұрын
  • "Life is the result of the struggle between dynamic opposites. Form and chaos, light and dark, substance and oblivion, and all the infinite variations of Yin and Yang. When the pendulum swings in favor of one, eventually it will swing back in favor of its opposite - and thus the balance of the Universe is maintained."

    @jimson9297@jimson92974 жыл бұрын
    • When one push wall, wall pushes back.

      @mike-ue4wy@mike-ue4wy4 жыл бұрын
    • Well, make the pendulum in meddle, one can see the both side..

      @Brancaalice@Brancaalice3 жыл бұрын
    • A bunch of knowledge well orchestrated is a genius, A bunch of knowledge all jumbled is a crazy person?

      @cduby1424@cduby14242 жыл бұрын
  • Not to force, Bruce lee would say “I do not hit, it hits all by itself” *looks down at his clenched fist* He says this because he has gone through disciplined technique & training, just as the archer goes through learning to draw and fire a bow, only to get to a point where he no longer needs to think about doing the action, when you transcend beyond your technique, you open yourself to action without action, wu wei, not forcing, I LOVE this life principle

    @providedperspective@providedperspective2 жыл бұрын
  • Not resisting reality brings inner peace, and inner peace transforms reality.

    @chaitanyaparamkusam5157@chaitanyaparamkusam51573 жыл бұрын
  • I'm so proud of myself because I understand exactly what he is saying and I am blessed to have already know this. It's deep inside me. Lady Judith

    @judysherry3122@judysherry31224 жыл бұрын
    • Me too, I'm not blowing my own horn but everything Alan says makes complete sense to me. It's how I've thought and been since I had a near death experience as a child. Alan is far better at putting it into words but I'm proud to say I have a lot in common with this man

      @cheymcloughlin6366@cheymcloughlin63664 жыл бұрын
    • you're one of those try-hards, aren't you?

      @gundabalf@gundabalf4 жыл бұрын
    • what comes before the fall ? PRIDE, noun 1. Inordinate self-esteem; an unreasonable conceit of one's own superiority in talents, beauty, wealth, accomplishments, rank or elevation in office, which manifests itself in lofty airs, distance, reserve, and often in contempt of others. webstersdictionary1828.com/Dictionary/pride#

      @servantprince@servantprince4 жыл бұрын
    • @@servantprince can't say I agree with that explanation of what pride means. If I'm proud of myself for reacting a certain way to a situation I am really just happy with myself, there is no superiority or contempt of others at all... maybe some use the word a little differently to the dictionary definition. I'm proud of my daughter being brave during her treatments in hospital but that doesn't fit the dictionary at all

      @cheymcloughlin6366@cheymcloughlin63664 жыл бұрын
    • Human male #3985696311 vanity, all is vanity. look how many times you use the word 'i' and 'my-self', it's all about you. galatians6:3 For if a man think himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself.

      @servantprince@servantprince4 жыл бұрын
  • This is exactly what I’ve had an enlightenment on when trying to understand the true meaning of life and true nature of reality. The powerful energy of love that every living thing on earth puts out has been mankind’s key to evolution since the beginning. The compassion in connection with all things through love and understanding that one is no different from 2, giving a specific meaning to every thing, meaning I am just as equal, just as priceless as any tree or plant in the jungle. In true reality, seeing past the vanity seeming superior, when the only difference between them and us, is choice and ignorance. That is not superior. That is a confused state of things, leaving most wandering off their true path early early on, making it very difficult to find later on when trying to fulfill your meaning in life. The perceived state of reality in which most have, I hope will change soon. Give thought to the true meaning of life, with no aspects of religion, government, or knowledge given. Listen to knowledge experienced and try to find the lesson and true meaning in the action. In doing so, you find an almost perfect reaction to what you have done. Finding true meaning to actions and sounds around you can you then start to perceive, I believe the true nature in reality, with every piece of enlightenment gained changing the whole meaning of the knowledge your trying to understand, seeming like a never ending puzzle of equations. Still, the more you think, the less you judge, the more you think outside the box, the faster and faster the puzzle pieces come together.

    @michaelkeith7183@michaelkeith71834 жыл бұрын
    • Real talk

      @polodon3575@polodon3575 Жыл бұрын
  • I just remind myself there is no more I need to be doing, unless I am inspired to do so. Otherwise I just be 💕

    @EricaAnneOfficial@EricaAnneOfficial4 жыл бұрын
    • being is the hardest action- no judgment, no criticism just the moment

      @julieferrone1311@julieferrone1311 Жыл бұрын
    • @@julieferrone1311 ain’t that the truth

      @EricaAnneOfficial@EricaAnneOfficial Жыл бұрын
  • His laugh is what makes me feel the most comforted sometimes

    @christiansaravia7865@christiansaravia78652 жыл бұрын
  • "there is a tide in the affairs of men which taken at its flood leads on to fortune" - Yup. Learning to feel those tides on all its levels of frequency comes with great duty and responsibility.

    @kenknudsen7478@kenknudsen74784 жыл бұрын
  • Mr. Watts is part of that which we are and inspire. Knowing we are that, which is without having to achieve anything. We are already there. ✅💜

    @danieltedesco7284@danieltedesco72842 жыл бұрын
  • This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my KZhead channel 5 months ago about self development. Now I have 301 subs and almost > 100 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.

    @nathananderson8720@nathananderson87209 ай бұрын
  • I literally hit the like button in the beginning during the long pause because I already knew it was gonna be good.

    @ymv001@ymv0012 жыл бұрын
  • Go with the flow as I was told recently , make it happen and stand out of the way and let it happen, Alan was so perfect 👌 at explaining these amazing concepts if you are ready to receive the meaning

    @samandjanesbubble3354@samandjanesbubble33544 жыл бұрын
  • Some birds fly high up in the sky ! Some Birds never leave the ground ! Nature is perfect !

    @smashhimmungo5798@smashhimmungo57983 жыл бұрын
  • I let go of all the titles I had and I started learning about WU WEI & Tao and am finding real happiness and success.

    @guitargrader9094@guitargrader90943 жыл бұрын
  • This is pure gem...made me feel light hearted after going through a challenging time...🙏

    @vermarishav@vermarishav3 жыл бұрын
  • "You never use muscle at the wrong moment."

    @lonewolf278@lonewolf2784 жыл бұрын
  • One of the best short Alan Watts video segments I've ever heard on KZhead! Thank you so much for uploading this

    @chriswalsh8567@chriswalsh85674 жыл бұрын
    • Felt the same way after listening

      @beban7PFC@beban7PFC4 жыл бұрын
    • Just fabulous do see the meaning of life by Gabriel Ng for an amazing Alan watts video

      @samandjanesbubble3354@samandjanesbubble33544 жыл бұрын
  • Best explanation of Wuwei ever!

    @linlinwu8360@linlinwu8360Ай бұрын
  • Dear Watts... these past few years have been so strange. Many experiences have unfolded in my life, and with them came waves of nostalgic warmth.. And I now understand that the greatest blessings are experiences... which feel so dream like sometimes, that one may confuse them with an actual dream.

    @smackskurd@smackskurd4 жыл бұрын
    • I felt this on another level ..

      @llnoche@llnoche4 жыл бұрын
  • After finishing it. I feel like a dot inside a dark ocean.. nothingness Soo relaxing

    @Lillz-33@Lillz-332 жыл бұрын
  • This is something that is easier said than done for most, but this is the ultimate test of our human self. Can we allow and not force? Can we just be instead of control? Always channeling and connecting to the frequency of Alan Watts

    @thespiritualroom@thespiritualroom2 жыл бұрын
  • His laughter is very sincere

    @jariss19@jariss194 жыл бұрын
  • Alan you make me challenge my mind and question my inner soul. Since my first listen to right now, I felt your words and wisdom move my mind into a more pleasurable place...

    @ChristianHoyle@ChristianHoyle3 жыл бұрын
  • This is beautiful. So grateful to Alan Watts for his gift of relaying this wisdom to us so clearly

    @alexekeli7301@alexekeli73014 жыл бұрын
  • Not forcing is wise

    @tonypeter8209@tonypeter82094 жыл бұрын
  • It’s great to hear this because all I do is force. Even when I’m not consciously forcing, I know I’m forcing something. Forcing is fear. You’re afraid of what’s going to happen if you don’t take action. Meanwhile all you do is row, when you could be sailing. It’s also like treading water when you could be surfing. You’re fighting against the current.

    @NemeanLion-@NemeanLion- Жыл бұрын
    • Perfectly said "Forcing is fear". I love it. I've definitely fallen into this trap: "You’re afraid of what’s going to happen if you don’t take action."

      @fury_uri@fury_uri Жыл бұрын
    • @@fury_uri thanks. My only problem is I can’t seem to turn it off. I hope we figure it out someday 👍

      @NemeanLion-@NemeanLion- Жыл бұрын
    • Monkey Carbon units, teaching an ape to be conscious, nice try Alan. 😅😂

      @user-lj9hv3zz9u@user-lj9hv3zz9u3 ай бұрын
  • After learning from Lao Zi when he said “practice doing nothing and everything will fall into place “ “with a mind that is still the universe will surrender” I did nothing and effortlessly, i was calm and my wife returned home after she left me and my daughter alone 🧘🏿‍♂️

    @kundaimusonza6617@kundaimusonza66174 жыл бұрын
    • Y

      @wutface2845@wutface28454 жыл бұрын
    • I’m happy for you, I hope everything works out ✌🏻🙂✌🏻🌹🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇬🇧

      @scarletpimpernelagain9124@scarletpimpernelagain91244 жыл бұрын
    • horrrible mindset practicing nothing is acheiving nothing

      @yourfriendlysniper5g140@yourfriendlysniper5g1404 жыл бұрын
    • Elated Edd You clearly didn’t get the point of this lecture.

      @bubbyskittles4802@bubbyskittles48024 жыл бұрын
    • amazing

      @renerosales5206@renerosales52064 жыл бұрын
  • You are amazing and you have helped me get threw not losing my heart,my love of life,my love for ppl.your a blessing I'm glad you have to know you.god blesd

    @raychill4599@raychill45994 жыл бұрын
  • Do what really love to do, so there is a natural rhythm in the whole process right from the beginning to end , the true Wu Wei !

    @thesunilsun@thesunilsun4 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you Alan Watts Amitabha 🙏

    @jasonkok1372@jasonkok1372Ай бұрын
  • Just discovered this 2021. Unreal.

    @Te_Enzo_@Te_Enzo_3 жыл бұрын
  • Spiritual is space and Material is matter. ☯️ The Tao is the path and you are the Tao. Be the path and you will find your compass just as the river stream flows from the mountain peak. By doing nothing, we can be like the glacier that with time even seeps into the desert. We are like the endless beginning watching the play of the end of each day with wonder and wishing for what tomorrow may bring. Even though I speak this magically melody into existence, it has lost its purpose because that is wu wei of the Tao.

    @AAreta@AAreta3 жыл бұрын
  • Somehow I knew that all the time, but I was thinking that was because of my passive nature. And then I tried to compensate by forcing things. I just felt guilty for not being proactive. But whenever I tried to force things, they never yielded satisfying results and they always turned into something no one really wanted. Then I realized I was trying to live someone else's life and to compare myself by someone else's standards. And today, I met Taoism and Wu Wei.

    @damyr@damyr4 жыл бұрын
    • damyr..... You are telling my Beautiful story, thank you for sharing..

      @letitia4423@letitia44233 жыл бұрын
  • This is so important. So good. Allan was a visionary and a poet.

    @stevenstuckey5571@stevenstuckey55713 жыл бұрын
  • Ace; a refreshing talk much needed in these over saturated times!

    @fredphipps9452@fredphipps9452 Жыл бұрын
  • Its all about flowing with everything...if being pushed.. We must pull.. If being pulled.. We must push. We must move with grace while under any circumstance difficult or easy..

    @ceo3691@ceo36914 жыл бұрын
  • I wish all the other AW KZhead entries had the phenomenal audio quality that this one does.

    @teresathomley3703@teresathomley37034 жыл бұрын
  • OMG! This is amazing! I am so happy I found it. I could listen a million times and it would be different every time.

    @SuesOriginals@SuesOriginals4 жыл бұрын
  • when you don't force it, that's the time when you have all the power got back to you.

    @self-realization9911@self-realization99112 жыл бұрын
  • We all need room to grow, therefore all the space.

    @smokeclouds8@smokeclouds84 жыл бұрын
  • please everybody keep uploading these with no music or wack effects thank you

    @lorenzobenitezbarboza@lorenzobenitezbarboza4 жыл бұрын
  • I love this man's teachings

    @flipcoin5327@flipcoin5327 Жыл бұрын
  • The world needs more watts...

    @vikingawake4@vikingawake42 жыл бұрын
  • You do not need to leave your room. Remain sitting at your table and listen. Do not even listen, simply wait, be quiet, still and solitary. The world will freely offer itself to you to be unmasked, it has no choice, it will roll in ecstasy at your feet. Franz Kafka

    @tpe54@tpe544 жыл бұрын
    • Wow, where did you find this?

      @davidjonathan6713@davidjonathan67132 жыл бұрын
    • Kafka was very unhappy person all his Life. He desired to live a Life in a country and he never moved a finger to Do It, he Just stayed sitting on his chair in the office of an insurance Company which he hated. It's a nice frase anyway, ironicly he was stucked in an unhappy existence, being blocked by his fears.

      @vitamia9113@vitamia91132 жыл бұрын
    • @@davidjonathan6713 Kafka

      @tpe54@tpe5426 күн бұрын
  • Amazing information. I have never heard of this aspect, but it makes so much sense. Thank you!

    @WellBalancedWallet@WellBalancedWallet4 жыл бұрын
  • He saying everything you’re taught is what you think you know but the world is much more complex than what we have made it out to be

    @Grafic@Grafic Жыл бұрын
  • Ive searched around where is it, its here with Alan Watts!

    @cduby1424@cduby14242 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you so much for posting this in its original format.

    @NikkoYM@NikkoYM4 жыл бұрын
  • Be well all. I miss Alan.

    @-the-light@-the-light4 жыл бұрын
  • The ending was amazing

    @nicholasoregel315@nicholasoregel3152 жыл бұрын
  • Powerful method of changing yourself, Just learned a similar lesson, "Do less accomplish more."

    @marlonmitchell1143@marlonmitchell11433 жыл бұрын
  • Great philosopher with a beautiful clean English accent, very enlightening to hear 😊👍

    @realworldambience9728@realworldambience97283 жыл бұрын
  • from the OITNB theme song: "taking steps is easy; standing still is hard"

    @jilliam09@jilliam094 жыл бұрын
  • Oh man, isn’t Alan Watt’s chuckle just so intoxicating?

    @RomeoTheOracle@RomeoTheOracle2 жыл бұрын
  • It brought tears to my eyes

    @WhatIsThisAllAbout@WhatIsThisAllAbout4 жыл бұрын
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