10 ROYAL Rules on Wearing a TIARA (if only this Viscountess had known!)
Who doesn’t love a tiara! I was quite shocked when I found out that I had the option to wear one at my wedding when I became a Viscountess. But more on the history of the tiara I wore later on in this vlog.
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Rule #7 exception: For the 1967 State Opening of Parliament, 17 year old Princess Anne worn the Cartier Halo tiara.
Our daughter mowed our lawn as a nine year old so she could earn enough money to buy a tiara. Once she bought it, she even wore it the next time she mowed! She was an adorable child!
I LOVE her style!😂💕
Awe, just goes to show every little girl is a princess in their right! 🥰😘
that is so adorable, Becky
Ah the mowing tiara.A rare beast indeed.🙃😉
Goals. She knew she was a Princess.
I love the fact that the family tiara has brooches and necklaces added on, it’s like a transformer tiara 😂
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My mother in law gave me a ring that has been in the family for a few generations. She knows that I don’t wear jewelry but tradition is tradition and I cherish it. You know what , I should wear that ring more often.
You know what? You should, and enjoy it. How lovely to be the recipient of a family piece, just think of all the history that is attached to it. How exciting - have you done any family research, looked into the lives of those who have gone before? We most of us know the names of our recent ancestors, but those from longer ago are often just names on the family tree _ Research, photographs, visits to where they were born and lived, handed down possessions, all these things will give life to those names. Best wishes.
I love your podcasts. I’m not your typical viewer of your channel, I’m a big guy disabled veteran than would have never thought of watching this kind of shows. But your shows are informative and shows us from American point of view. I hope you continue this channel for years to come.
Thank you so much!!
Please forgive me for being so forward but I might be in love with you from afar. Lol. The idea of a big burly man loving history enough to also listen to girly stuff is impressive! I too love English and Irish history especially. My ancestors were from both places and I love genealogy. You can’t or shouldn’t ever study genealogy without knowing and loving history!
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That was very informative. Say Julie, perhaps ,especially an eye out I your Italy travels for some velvet yardage to redo the chair. You do have an eye for just the right thi gs at the right price.
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Bring a former professional Ballerina, I have worn tiaras ( rhinestone ones) since my teens for solos. On my 21st birthday, I was given a vintage one from an estate sale. The tiara stones were zircons ( not cz zirconias!) & White topaz stones set in sterling silver. As, I became a principal soloist, I was allowed to wear it, & it became even more dear to me. Many decades later, retired from active dancing & as an Artistic Director of my own troupe, how precious it is to me & I do wear it on occasions!
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How wonderful for you! Many stories linked that you can tell young dancers.
My favorite British royal tiara is the Queen Mary Lover's knot tiara (the diamond bows and the teardrop pearls) that Diana often wore.
that's the Cambridge Lover's knot right?
Yep!
@@OnLifeandLove No, it is not the Cambridge Lovers Knot, Queen Mary loved the original and had a copy made. The original is still around, but not with the BRF. In 1913, Queen Mary decided to add a new tiara to her already-extensive collection of diadems. For inspiration, she turned to a tiara she’d long admired: the Cambridge Lover’s Knot Tiara, worn for years by her aunt, the Grand Duchess of Mecklenburg-Strelitz. Since Mary wasn’t able to inherit or buy the original tiara, she went for the next best thing: she commissioned Garrard to make a copy of it. The new lover’s knot tiara was created in 1913. Originally it was topped with a row of upright pearls, making it even taller and grander than the present version. The tiara arrived in the jewelry collection of the current Queen in 1953, when she inherited Queen Mary’s jewels after her death. Elizabeth II wore the tiara, sans upright pearls, for many years. In 1981, she chose this tiara to give to her new daughter-in-law, Diana Spencer. Read about the Cambridge Lovers Knot here. www.thecourtjeweller.com/2016/12/the-cambridge-lovers-knot-tiara.html
That is one of my favorites! As a green eyed lady, I love emeralds and peridots, which are also my children’s birthstones.
The family tiara is absolutely lovely. It was perfect with your wedding dress and actually fits your personality beautifully.
I love the flower motif in it... diamond leaves also and buds. When Julie said the tiara is composed of several elements, I was surprised but delighted that one could take pieces from it to wear individually. The tiara as a whole actually does look like a crown of flowers (meant to be made as one integral piece) ...similar to the roses I wove together for the crowning of Mary in May that Catholics celebrate. Julie absolutely looked like the Queen of May ...or even a Midsummer's Eve Fairy Queen for her wedding day. I think it (and Julie wearing it) is one of the most beautiful things I've seen. That diamonds could be made to look so 'organic' and made for Springtime celebrations and still sparkle like the sun is truly a rare feat. I wonder if the flowers are meant to be wild roses, apple blossoms, or even dogwood flowers ...that would be interesting to know.
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Rule #1 didn't apply to many royal ladies. In 1837 Victoria became Queen Regnant and was wearing tiaras before her 1840 marriage. Princess Elizabeth (later QEII) and' princesses from Norway, Netherlands, Sweden, Denmark were given 18th birthday tiaras long before they were wed. Princesses Anne and Margaret owned and wore tiara before their marriages. Current heiresses to the Belgian & Dutch thrones are unmarried young ladies who wore tiaras to the Jordan's recent royal wedding.
I think the 18th birthday is pretty big, actually. Saw an article about a young man who had a ball for his 18th birthday and all the girls were wearing these dainty tiaras. It was all very cute, and none of those girls was married, so not a hard and fast rule.
I was the Vermont Maple Queen in 2001- I understand if you're envious. It was a very prestigious accomplishment within the Maple industry. The title came with a tiara and sash to wear during public appearances. Not everyone can look natural in a tiara, but it was exactly what was missing from my wardrobe. I now have a rather large tiara collection that I love dipping into as often as occasion permits.
As a commoner I knew almost none of these rules but the one that stuck with me was that once the tiara is loaned it’s for the entire life of that person! I never realized I never saw royals “mixing and matching” tiaras. Cool!
That rule is only for the British, Belgian and Danish royal families, in the Swedish, Spanish, Luxembourg, Norwegian or Dutch royal families you see them being worn by several members, with the bigger ones being worn only by the queen.
Selene Soto - I didn’t know of this rule either, and it’s a ‘loan’ for life and not a gift for keepsake.
I wore a tiara when I turn 15. When you turn 15 there is a celebration in the Hispanic culture which is called a Quintaniata. My tiara was made out of glass and only to be worn during church services. This has been very educational. 😄
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where in brazil we have os quinzes anos
Quintaniata? Not having ever herd this word before, I searched for its meaning, but Dr Google doesn’t know the existence of this word either. Did you mean ‘Quinceañera’.
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We call this a quinceañera where I’m from which is rich in Mexican culture and tradition. I am Hispanic but I didn’t have one, sadly.…I’ve never heard the terminology you used but maybe it’s called different things in different places?
Julie, you make all of us Americans proud. I do love the Royals and their history, as you seem to. It's nice to hear someone that talks so highly of them and not bash them. Thank you for your channel.
I have seen pics of Princess Margaret and Princess Anne wearing tiaras before they were married, after they had turned 18.
I just noticed. I like the fact that you don't feel the need to wear makeup all of the time. Natural is also beautiful.
As a mere male, I found this interesting. Many of the rules are really traditions, and, as you pointed out with Margaret, they do get broken. An example is the tiara worn by Anne at her wedding, which had also been worn by her grandmother and others. In different circumstances, a bride was expected to wear her family tiara on the day, hence several brides will wear the same one, such as at Anne's first wedding. After the wedding she would then wear her husband's family tiara. As many of the brides marrying into the Royal Family are not aristocratic, they do not have family tiaras, so this is why the Queen loans them one. Another major event when tiaras will be seen is the State Opening of Parliament. Some commentators have not apparently understood that Julie married into the British aristocracy, and she is talking about the British Royal Family, so rules, or lack thereof, amongst European royal are totally irrelevant. I'm also unhappy to see that some people find it necessary to be rude to Julie in their comments. May I politely suggest that if you do not like this channel, then slip away quietly, those of us who are subscribed will happily cope without you and your aggression.
Never knew anything about the "ten rules of wearing a Tiera". I wore one at my wedding with my Veils! But I got married at noon. So that would be a no ,no Right away! But a little safe *almost*. Well I do not need to worry buI am notb a Royal LOL LEARNED SO MUCH Butnyet my husband's family on his moms side are related to the royals and it is a straight line since King Henry the 3rd.! I tease my husband and often say " You would have put me in the dungeon by now had your family gone in another direction and stayed in Britain. " We have been marriedbalmostb54byrs. I am still kicking! Think.he.msy keep me? His mom and I got along famou,famous, and his dad as well They have passed now. I absolutly love your vlogs and it means so much to be able to watch. I will pass my wedding Tiera and veil. To a future grand dsughter. Or daughter in law as we have two sons and no daughters. This helped even an American to take these ten rules in order to help the next one in our family to do this properly when getting married and being crowned with the tiera,of mine. The commoner really. as some one moved to AMERICA and ruined the generational line you might say. Thank you for sharing what a wonderful and very exciting journey you have been and are on!
I agree with you 1 million percent. Stop being rude to Julie. Just leave the channel. As an American also from the Chicago area I find her comments very interesting and since I majored in Early Modern British History I find her research to be thorough impeccable.
Well said!
Well said!!
And Diana wore the Spencer family tiara. at her wedding. Not sure if other female Spencers have worn it since?
First rule: It's usually on your wedding day, right. But there are exceptions when you are of royal blood. You are allowed to wear a tiara in that case from your 18th birthday onwards given the occasion! Best example: The recent 18th birthday celebrations of the Norwegian Princess Ingrid Alexandra. She (and other European fellow princesses like Elisabeth, Duchess of Brabant, or Catharina Amalia, The Princess of Orange) was wearing a tiara for that event. The reason why we have not seen Princesses Beatrice and Eugenie of York in a tiara before their respective weddings was simply lack of occasion.
Yes I agree and I think Princess Anne also wore a tiara from 18.
I was going to comment something like this. It's probably slightly different rules for different royal families. I love that we got to see all three of the princesses make their tiara debut together. Even little Estelle from Sweden got to sort of participate with her adorable headband!
Yes! The Queen's own sister, Princess Margaret, wore the Poltimore tiara before she was even engaged. She wore it to a state dinner with the Shah of Iran in May 1959. Maybe it was because she bought the tiara herself!
Both Princess Margaret and Princess Anne wore the halo tiara before they were married. In fact, Margaret wore it at the Queen's coronation.
We are talking about the British royal family not european, they will have different rules or lack of
My favorite tiara is from the Danish Royal Family, the Danish Ruby Tiara. My favorite British tiara is Greville Emerald Kokoshnik tiara that Princess Eugenie wore for her wedding.
"How Consuelo VANDERBILT, the American Heiress, SAVED Blenheim Palace" This was one of my favorite videos that you presented, WELL DONE!! I Loved it!!
I love watching you because you’re so “plain folks ” and not acting like you are so privileged or above others, but down to earth and highlighting your responsibility to maintain the family land and legacy!
I love the way they rub along together. Love is wonderful, but it's friendship that sees a marriage through the long haul...and you are so gosh-darned cute together.
She is plain folks. There is exactly zero special about people with titles. If anything, they are worth less than ordinary people because ordinary people actually earn what they have.
@@pjaypender1009and these two don't work hard to maintain a vast estate? And do good by employing many people that have families? You see it every time you watch these channels that they don't sit around throwing parties. There are many ordinary people as you say the just sit on their behinds and do nothing to better themselves or bless another person by employing them. They would rather be on the dole. I find the term worth less than ordinary people so insulting. I would say these two are extraordinary.
@@gailpeczkis5292 Eat the rich.
She is American that is why she is "down to earth" and relatable.
I'd love to see a photo of Luke's mother at her wedding wearing the family tiara. Love your vlogs. From Iowa with 💖.
My favorite is of course the hereditary Montegue family Tiara! Its gorgeous!What a wonderful surprise to give you on your Wedding day! The Tiara went perfectly with your gown, you looked stunning!
Thank you so much!!
It is gorgeous and I do like it better than the all the other tiaras except one--the Russian tiara that Meghan lusted for. It's just exquisite. The Queen is supposed to have an aquamarine tiara that I also love the picture of.
Yes you’re quite right ❤️
Sorry, I got this flash of a silly image….Lisa Douglas wearing all her diamond jewelry with a maribu feather embellished peignoir while doing her housework on “Green Acres.” Thank you for such a lovely look into your experiences. Your husband acquired a rare gem when you joined his family!
And then dropping the dishes in the dishwasher to smash into pieces! Dahlink!
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I am just so sorry we don’t see tiaras at grand receptions and dinners, state affairs - we just don’t see these grand tiaras anymore. I remember Diana on so many tours turned out in the most beautiful gowns and tiaras everywhere around the world she went. No more. No more ground state dinners. What a boring time we live in. The wokeries would absolutely not stand for any tiaras. We are absolute hostages to the times thank you for this reminder of beautiful times gone by.
A few years before COVID, I went to the Cartier jewellery exhibit they had here in Australia. They had the Queen's Cartier Halo tiara (the one worn by Catherine Middleton at her wedding) as part of that exhibit. It is beautiful.
My then teenaged daughter and I went to see it as well: we are both jewelry mad. And we saw the wedding tiara was there but what we found really wonderful was the articulated pieces a former Mexican movie star once owned.
Very interesting to know! The Montagu tiara that you got to wear upon your marriage to Luke was exquisite!! So very delicate and looked stunning with the dress you wore. Loved getting to see the throw back pictures of you & Luke on your wedding day.
Julie, I love that your mother in law offered the family tiara to you, and I love that you agreed to wear it. You obviously loved the tiara itself as well as the feeling that you were being welcomed and accepted into the family. But it's also a lovely gift that you gave to your new family in accepting the wearing of their family heirloom. What a wonderful story. My absolute favorite tiara of the Queen's is the Girls of Great Britain and Ireland tiara. Its shape with all those extraordinary diamonds is, to me, a classic style of tiara for a princess and queen.
I love tiaras... It's the little girl in me ❤️
You are so sweet and such a genuine person. I always love watching your videos- they are so informative and you have such a great point of view. Very relatable for Americans that aren’t as familiar with all of the traditions.
Sarah Ferguson when she married Prince Andrew , had flowers as her headpiece , and after signing the register appeared back out in the church now as a royal with a Tiara upon her head .
I don't care how regal Sarah Ferguson is - pedophiles are disgusting.
I have always been fascinated by the idea of tiaras. My friend, whose mother is Swedish aristocracy, wore one at her wedding, and her sister did, as well. Just borrowed, I assume, but the ‘princess for a day’ on your wedding day, and the beautiful gems just add to the most special effect.
History of jewelry is exceedingly important to her majesty. Every time she makes an official visit or has an official reception for foreign dignitaries she always wears jewelry specific for the occasion. When the king of Spain visited she wore pieces with Spanish history, gifts, I think from a prior Spanish monarch. She has a huge collection of important brooches and each one has a story and she ALWAYS chooses one appropriate to the occasion. When she visits Scotland she wears brooches specifically related to Scottish history. When she inspects a particular military unit she wears a brooch related to the history of that unit. When she attends a wedding of a close family member she wears a brooch related to that family member's title or related to the person they are marrying. I believe she wore a brooch related to the country of birth of one new member of the family upon their wedding. If someone gives her a brooch then she visits them she almost always wears that brooch. Sometimes on state visits she will wear jewelry in colors matching the national colors of that country. With such a huge collection she has almost any piece she would need to honor a specific person, nation or group. Nothing, when it comes to royal jewelry, is ever random or chosen simply to match an outfit.
So interesting. I love the British tradition of honoring the past while embracing the future that adds to the appeal
And we in Canada appreciate it when Her Majesty (and Diana and Catherine) have come to visit, they always wear her large diamond maple leaf brooch. So beautiful.
@@maryokeefe5351 I didn't know the Duchess wore that brooch when she visited Canada. How appropriate. I think it is akin to when you visit a relative you've not seen in a while and you see prominently displayed in their home a gift you gave them that you put a lot of effort into seeking out and choosing for them. It makes one feel appreciated all the more. I am sure that is why they do such things.
This was such an interesting video! I can't even imagine finding out on my wedding day that there was a family tiara dripping in diamonds for me to wear - for the rest of my life! 😮
The Montagu family tiara, just like the Spencer family tiara that Diana wore at her wedding, are kept in the family to be worn by all female members at different occasions like weddings. So Luke's sister and sister(s) in law probably all wore it. Fergie, Kate and Meghan didn't have any family tiaras, so they borrowed from the Queen. Anybody with the money can go buy a tiara and wear it any time they like, of course. Princess Margaret's estate auctioned off her wedding tiara, as her kids didn't feel the need for it anymore and reportedly had to pay a lot of estate taxes and educations for grandkids. When I saw it at the pre-auction display, it was the only piece of jewelry they wouldn't bring out of the case to let you handle it or try on because they said it was very fragile. It had been bought for Margaret in 1959, even though she could have borrowed a family tiara, from the Poltimore family for £5500. It sold in 2006 for £926,400.
Princess Margatet bought the Politimore Tiara herself at auction, it wasn't bought for her.
Whether she bought it for herself with her family money (since she didn't have a job), or her family bought it for her, which is uncertain, it was bought for her personal use. I mentioned it this way to emphasize that it was new to the family, not a tiara that had been bought or made for anybody else in the family and passed down to her.
@@CallieMasters5000 it isn't uncertain in any way shape or form she bought it herself from the auction with her own money. That's why her kids had no problem selling it as it was not a gift or a family heirloom
The "loaning" of tiara, jewelry, works of art to successive members of the family keeps the wealth in the family...but the family retains ownership. When Diana and Charles divorced her loaned tiaras, jewelry, art works, etc were returned to the monarchy. When she died the Spencer tiara was returned to Earl Spencer. Charles kept her personal jewelry for William and Harry's wives...allowing the boys to choose one piece each as a memento. Catherine has some of the iconic pieces, the sapphires, pearl drop earrings and diamond bracelets, she will pass them to George's wife.
Fergie did not borrow a Tiara from the Queen, The Queen had The York Tiara made for her. No idea why neither of her daughters borrowed it for their weddings.
If I had a tiara like that, I don’t care what the rules are. I would wear that thing!
Princess Anne wore tiaras as a teenager
Oh Tiaras, I wore them twice in my life! They were diamonds of paste naturally. Once during my dance recital when I was 6. The next time I wore it was Halloween when I was 7. Same costume same Tiara 👸 😂😂
Don't let HM find out.
While I'm definitely not royal, I have worn a tiara for my wedding. It's a special day when you can wear anything you want, so why not be a princess in your own love story....lol Thanks for all the history in this video. I really enjoyed it.
Tiaras are more accessible than people think. Real diamond tiara’s sell for as little as several hundred dollars. I will definitely be wearing one on my wedding day
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Hats before 5pm, Tiara's after 5pm. Unless u are at an evening event or afternoon wedding that has an evening meal. An example of this is The Earl and Countess of Wessex attended a European Royal wedding that started at 3pm, all ladies were in Tiaras and evening wear
I'm pretty sure Anne, the Princess Royal, wore tiaras way before she got married to her first husband. Especially for state dinners and when she'd accompany her mother for state visits.
And the name says it all.: Princess Royal. She is entitled by birth. Frankly, I think QEII got more strict as time went on about a lot of things.
Your Family tiara is stunning. It suits you perfectly----hope you have occasion to wear it many times in the years to come!! ENJOY IT!!
Thank you so much!
I saw an interview with Queen Silvia of Sweden where she talked about how painful the 9 Prong Diamond tiara was when she first wore it. It is a bit tall and has an inflexible base and the hairdresser put lots and lots of hairpins in it and Silvia said it was like all of them sticking into her at once. Later, she had the base altered to better fit her head and distribute the weight more evenly. Queen Silvia can wear even the largest tiaras with great aplomb.
The Montague tiara is probably the most beautiful tiara I've ever seen. The Royal Family may have grander, more expensive tiaras but your family tiara is by far the loveliest. It has a fairy-like quality that is very special. It looked stunning on you at your wedding!
Yes! It is like a fairy princess' tiara...oh how loverly it would twinkle in the moonlight on a Midsummer night.
Not sure if already commented below but I haven’t seen Princess Louise of Wessex wear her tiara yet. She will be lovely. She has a ethereal beauty.
Sarah Ferguson was unique in that she wore a floral halo during her wedding procession at Westminster abbey in 1986 and after signing the registry in the vestibule, she emerged with Prince Andrew wearing the York Diamond Tiara during the wedding recessional.
Yes, I noticed that and wondered why. Does anyone know the reason for it? I loved it.
@@vickidickinson2888 I read that she did it to symbolize going into the wedding day as a commoner and emerging as a royal.
in the UK 18 is the age of majority. the day you legally become an adult. legal for signing forms, voting, legal for drinking, but driving is 17. age of majority used to be 21 but changed in 1969. i love the Cambridge lovers knot. its abs beautiful. I wore a tiara when I was married but alas not a diamond one!
Can you also talk a bit about your children? That would be interesting too for us. We are very interested in everything, thats going on! Great informative video. Thank you
Wearing another vintage dress - love seeing Julie in them!
Julie is always a delight! Very personable, very entertaining! Loved hearing the history of tiaras and especially seeing Julie wearing her tiara at her wedding! Loved the photos of Julie and Luke !
Glad you enjoyed it!
I wore my mother’s wedding day tiara when I got married, hopefully, my daughter will wear it one day. Such an interesting video, thank you!
Rule #3 - not always the case. The Cartier Halo was owned by the Queen and loaned to Margaret who wore it in the 1960s. It was then loaned to Anne who wore it in the 1970s while Margaret was alive, then loaned to Duchess of Cambridge who wore it for her 2011 wedding where Anne was a guest. The ladies of Luxembourg, Sweden and Norway wear tiaras drawn for a shared collection.
18 is when you can VOTE, Marry & drink, etc., driving can be done from 17 after successfully passing the Tests! Fascinating - Megan should have watched this, eh?!! Thanks for such an interesting piece - always love a tiara.
First time I wore a tiara was at my wedding . It was at my wedding and it's a family heirloom. It's pearl and swarovski crystal. It's very delicate. My sister wore it too. Broke a rule . But it was gorgeous on her too.
Really, how cool so interesting, if u don't mind me asking (just say no) were u born an heiress or married into nobility, can u tell I'm frm US 😆i just love all this history and what an honor 👸🏻
I'm American but from a very very very old Irish Family. Tittle included. Traditions, exc, doesn't mean anything to people out side the family here but we still keep some of the old traditions. Like the tiara! It's fun. 😀 mom is the Air apairent. ( Or how ever you spell it! ) her family is in the top 10 oldest Clans (families) and we're direct line. From Ireland So we're green Irish meaning they go back to the Neolithic times! We have fun with it! Lol. Thanks for asking! In Ireland I'd be considered one of the nobility. Have the title Lady. My folks would be Barron and Baroness. Henry the 8th and Elizabeth the 1st knighted my ancestors and bestowed land or gave them land in Ireland. Exc. It goes on but that's how it started. Coarse like many Irish we ended up here.
@@kathyk479 thanx Kathy how interesting so much Irish Royalty i lovit Kathy, im (South) Boston born & raised i totally appreciate, love our Irish heritage, so cool, wonderful history thanx for sharing & replying that was sweet 🍀♥️ So excited the Cambridges coming to Boston, i live 5 minutes away JFK Library & Seaport District so I'm hoping to get a glimpse, been bribing my son a BPD Detective Sargeant to help me get into (hopefully) one event, he'll b working EarthShot, connections sometimes work but security will b tight🤷🏼♀️ Maybe my Irish luck will be with me on this one Kathy 🍀🤞🏻😘
It is fun and I get it from both sides ! 3 sides if you count the bad knees! Lolol. I have fun with it! I told my cousin my knees were giving me trouble! She said oh that because of the in breeding! Lolol. Great I said! Don't share the wealth give future generations grief! They just were n't thinking of us! Hahaha! I hope you get to see them! I really adored his mother and was devastated when she passed . She was the Princess of the world and deserved a good life! Have a great time I'll say a prayer that it works out! Are you on Face book
I have a beautiful coffe table book on Tiaras … I wish they wore tiara’s more often, so many beautiful ones that Prince Albert had made for Queen Victoria.
Very interesting video but I’ve noticed a fault. Megan was denied the tiara not because of the Russian ties but because it was already promised to princess Eugine for her wedding. (Sorry if I butchered that name) But yeah i believe that was the reasin.
Wonderful Video… living in the USA, I bought a tiara for myself, It was Beautiful. When I was sad or upset I would wear the tiara because, a woman can’t be sad while wearing a Beautiful tiara …. ❤️🥰❤️🥰❤️🥰
Thanks for sharing!
I hadn't realized I'd been making a faux pas all these years!....I'd been wearing my tiara at breakfast! 😉
Princess Margaret would approve!👍👸❤️😂
When I was kid, mother had a "tiara".It was a circular metal band that could change diameter by pushing and pulling it. It had "diamonds" at the points along the zigzagging points. It was probably from my mom's hairdressing shop. My sister and I would play with it all the time. I think we wanted to be regal.
The colour and style of your hair was gorgeous on your wedding day. You looked beautiful.
As an AMERICAN I will wear my tiara when and where I wanna You really do learn something new everyday
I have been following you for several months. I learn so much every time I watch. Your family tiara is stunning. Your commitment to restoring your home is heartwarming. I know it has been a ton of work and so costly too. It is important to preserve these historic homes. Perhaps one day I can hope over the great pond and do a tour of the many historical homes you have shared. Hats off to you and Luke! Jane Wyen, Rio Vista, California
Thank you so much!
Julie, You are Sweetness and Grace, personified !!! I see such kindness and love in both you and Luke's eyes. You give American's a good look. It's so obvious why Luke fell in love with you. Many blessing's to you and your family. From Calabasas California @@AmericanViscountess
So if there was a formal event where all the women wear tiaras that was attended by both Julie and her mother in law, wouldn't the Countess wear the family tiara and Julie would have to wear something else? I doubt this happens very often.
There are exceptions to every rule. HRH The Princess Anne, currently better known as HRH The Princess Royal was only 17 and single when she wore her first tiara to the 1967 State Opening of Parliament. Which tiara did she wear? The Cartier Halo Tiara which was clearly not loaned to Princess Anne on a lifetime loan as we saw HRH The Duchess of Cambridge wear it to her own wedding in April 2011.
An exception as the occasion required it.
I'm glad you brought up princess Anne because I remember seeing her wear it too.
I was curious about why the Duchess of Cambridge only wore a few tiaras, but not so curious as to look it up lol. So thanks for the info! I know that each royal house has their own rules for a reason, but I like the more lenient rules of the Swedish Royal family in this case where the ladies can borrow more of the tiaras from the royal family to go with their outfits. I have never worn a tiara, but one o my favorites is Princess Sofia of Sweden's Palmette Tiara. I love that her in-laws gifted her this for her wedding. I also adore that in the subsequent years she has adapted it and added different stones at the top for different occasions.
That was an amazing lesson in Tiara etiquette. Thanks for the education! Your dresses are always so beautiful😊
Thank you!
I think the tiara you were given to wear is the most beautiful that I have seen. I also like the Cambridge tiara that Kate now uses. Hello from Bartlett,IL, really enjoy your channel!
Tiaras are pinnacle of the jewel maker's art-exquisite and a marvel to behold. I have 2 with faux gemstones; I wish I could wear a tiara every time I leave the house! People may look askance, but now in old age I will treat myself as a royal
"18 is a big birthday over here. 18 is when you can drive and 18 is when you can drink." Lol Julie, did you forget that 18 is also when you can vote... Luv u xoxo.
Love that Diana chose to wear the Spencer tiara for her wedding. Of course she looked stunning in that particular tiara, but Diana could have worn a flour sack that day and looked equally as beautiful.
Though many appear(comments) not to revere tradition and historical protocols - I like them and the meaning of keeping them - something this channel helps with, so thank you!
Tiara travel overseas. Sadly you forgot about the Realm countries. For State opening of parliaments and official dinners the Queen will wear tiaras in her capacity as the sovereign of those nations. These are not diplomatic exercises, but her duty as the head of state.
I am American and have learned so much from your videos.. I am married to a Brit and do know how to use my fork upside down and how to place my knife and fork on my plate, we eat that way every day, but you have given me so much information about things a woman would like to know. Thank you, Viscountess.
THE DOUBLE CHAISE SOFA AND OTTOMAN- so damn gorgeous.
Stunning. 👑 Seeing the royal jewels in person takes one's breath away. Thanks for sharing history, protocol, and your personal experience.
Midwest American here! Although neither I nor my husband were any sort of royal, I desperately wanted to wear a beautiful crystal tiara at my wedding. Well, Mama said, "Absolutely not! You will be taller than your fiance!" Um, he was nine inches taller than me. But, yes, I listened to my Mom.🙄
Wow. I found your video very interesting. Not only the tiaras but the fact you're an American. You don't come off as entitled...which really makes me inquisitive about you..lol...not in a stalker kind of way. Oh geez..now I do sound nuts. No...i find it refreshing...that one can marry into aristocracy and not become an idiot! You seem like a well educated woman that is in love with your husband first and foremost...not the entitlements that may offer you. God bless!
Thanks for another wonderful video, Julie! I really appreciated the information about the Montague family tiara, which is not only stunning, but versatile. I love tiaras that "transform" into other pieces of jewelry. A lot of the aristocratic families are very smart with their jewels that way. (The two side bouquets on the Montague tiara would look AMAZING as dress clips on either side of a slinky, 1930's décolletage!) My tiara heroine is Queen Mary, who really surpassed anyone else in the versatility of her jewels (not to mention the quantity).
Thank you!!! And loved reading what you wrote 🥰
It is entirely different for born Princesses. Anne *also* wore a tiara before she was married. And there *are* "one time" loans; both Princess Anne & Princess Beatrice wore the *same* fringe tiara that HM did for her wedding (& THANK YOU for getting the Lover's Knot name CORRECT!
I need to connect w. you. I have hand made buttons, several sets. I have never put them on anything I have sewn because I think tht they should go on something of authentic vintage and appropriate. Don't know how to get them to such person as yourself.
You were so kind and delightful to a German couple, Kirstin & Joerg, on their YT channel, that I came over here to subscribe.
Julie, you kept interchanging loan and lend, they are not interchangeable as they are different parts of speech. Loan is a noun and the object being borrowed is the loan. Lend is a verd and the interaction / process of borrowing is lending. Hence the tiara, money, book, etc is a loan, it or they have not been "loaned" but they have been lent and the process of borrowing is lending, the receiver is the lendee and the giver in the lender. Having said that, loan as a verb has become popular in informal English in parts of the world.
When I was in high school in Lexington some of us wore tiaras to formal dances, of which there were roughly 8 per year! Boy have times changed. It was great fun, and I still had it until 5 years ago when our house was broken into and 98% of my jewelry was stolen...
Oh, that's so sad. Sorry for your loss.
Love the content , love the green shoes
I’m from Illinois too! I hear that English accent creeping into some of your words. You’re lovely ❤️
I’ve worked as a professional makeup artist for top CEOS in the Silicon Valley and visiting Hollywood celebrities. I would just absolutely love to style you and do your hair and makeup!!
Love your channel
My dearest Viscountess, might I add just a few exeptions.... It depends on the country you're in. At Royal weddings in Sweden and Denmark, tiaras are worn by most certainly all royal lady guests, at whatever time the wedding takes place. But also by princesses before they are married, like in Sweden, Denmark, Norway, The Netherlands, Belgium, Spain, Luxemburg, Liechtenstein. In the UK tiaras are also worn in daytime before 5 PM on occassions like The State Opening of Parliament.
I thought Julie mentioned the exceptions you itemize. Maybe I just knew because tabloids were ever present at the doctor’s or hairdresser’s.
I love the Strathmore Rose tiara. It's stunning on the Princess of Wales. I did see that now Queen Mary of Denmark wore the Danish ruby parure at the dinner prior to her wedding day.
My favorite has been the Cambridge Lover’s knot. I can only dream of wearing one.
I’m in the process of having a family tiara made, being Native American we don’t have royalty, however we do have vary skilled artists and I know I’m not the only female member of my family who loves tiaras Edit: she gave me a ❤️ ☺️☺️ not me fan gurling
Thank you for this extremely informative video, Julie; I have really learned something today, such as all of the 10 rules! ❤
I feel like Margaret's approach was best. Your family tiara is appropriate for you, the most down to earth person of any of the royals. 👸
Hi Julie👋🏻I’m an American from Ohio and I loved your previous series and the fact that you’re from Illinois (Chicago area?) and seem to have assimilated very well into the British aristocracy. Yes. I have just subscribed to your channel and as I am retired I have plenty of time to watch. Thanks and see you down the road‼️🇺🇸👩🏻🦰
Really loved this story! Luke had such a cute baby face and you looked like a movie star at your wedding! My sister and I wore my mom's rhinestone tiara when we dressed up to play princess! 😄
Absolutely love your tiara, Julie, and the fascinating history and rules pertaining to tiara's in general. There's always so much to learn and enjoy in all of your video's. Thank you for the time, and hard work that goes into making them; greatly appreciated by all of us.
The Infantas of Spain wore tiaras before they were married, back in the 80s, and recently the princesses Amalia of the Netherlands, Ingrid of Norway and Elizabeth of Belgium wore them too… so it’s not an universal rule 🤔
Both sides of my family are scottish and fought the english in the revolutionary war. Im obsessed with my family history (clan baird and clan cuming). My wife was clam campbell, where we live in Arkansas most of us are of scot descent. Just found your channel because I love time team and it got suggested. I adore these behind the scenes you and Luke do on all your channels. You both seem like down to earth people that if I bumped into you we could talk like "normal" people. I would love to sit down and annoy you with questions one day.
Loved this episode, yours and Alberta’s story are so fascinating to me!
You looked stunning on your wedding day, and with the family tiara…💕
Have you considered one day if this will be the tiara you may wear at a future coronation. How does it feel to think that one day you will possibly have that opportunity to see in all its glory. Is there more family jewellery you can show :)
Your tiara is simply stunning!!! It is very different from anything I had seen, even the queen’s collection doesn’t have that type of design. So exquisite and fluid, with beautiful, flowing organic, and very delicate flowers. ❤️😊
Hello my name is Brandon Washington. I have been watching your KZhead. I really think u are responsible and respectfully adding a great light to the. If u don't mind me sayn softer more common side of the royal aristocrats I ready appreciate listening and learning how it works and the knowledge u provide about the history of your Family..... The Earl of Sandwich is so down to earth and his wife is very knowledgeable, and interesting to watch because she very out spoken with her views on pictures family, and lifestyle. I was a History major at my HighSchool, went to college but don't finish. But I love History especially British, old Roman, and African history as well and Chinese and India valley history. .... Sorry I'm going overboard....... I just wanted wanted to say I love in Millen Georgia. United States of America. And I appreciate your loyalty to home, and also your responsibility to new life abroad...... You are amazing to watch.... Keep being a blessing to the family. Respectfully Viscountess of the U.k. Sincerely Brandon Washington