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She's 100 % the type of mother to see her young daughter as "competition" and is resentful towards her for that. It's disgusting.
She definitely is, imagine saying pretty ain't shit yet she clearly cares about her appearance. Her daughter is so pretty she probably felt insecure and wanted to make her feel ugly by cutting her hair off.
@@brittsmitt701 she def did it because she knows her daughter is prettier than her
This right here 😓
I came here to say the same thing. Going on about how “pretty isn’t shit” and yet she’s heavily filtering herself in videos..
That’s so sad if that’s true, I’m the mother of a beautiful teenage daughter and I can’t imagine competing with her or feeling threatened by her beauty.
The irony of this woman publicly humiliating her daughter because "looks don't matter" all while using a BEAUTY FILTER is absolutely baffling to me.
Right! Super crazy
The way she hugs her daughter and says, “this is me right here” She’s straight up love bombing her and manipulating her.
Fr tho this is really sad
Yes, Narcissists always believe that their children are their property, or just an extension of themselves. There are a lot of Narcissistic Red Flags here.
She keeps calling herself a good mom but keeps saying her daughter has an extensive wrap sheet. This woman seems UNHINGED
She said being pretty is not shit but only post heavily filtered videos of herself even in this serious situation.
I wonder what that mother would do if someone cut /her/ hair. 😂
I think she has some jealousy towards her daughter.
I literally just posted the exact same thing!!
The way the daughter just disassociates during shows how much this is scaring her and upsetting her.
Even worse, she might even be used to this kind of thing and has already mastered it as a coping mechanism.
She doesn’t look scared she looks used to it
@@priyamanobal yeah
100% disassociating
This is a norm in this house, you can tell.
The fact that the daughter didn’t even flinch when she was cutting her hair just tells me that this was a light punishment. She’s obviously done much worse things because the daughter barely responded, if someone cut my hair right now as an adult I would be crying and fighting back.
I'd take the scissors and stab thee fawk out of someone if they did it to me 😂
i would be running around, screaming n all
As a mixed person, hacking off hair (a source of power to a lot of people) is one of the MOST traumatizing things someone could ever do. I'd NEVER associate with that woman again if I was her daughter, smh
I was taught hair is sacred
why did you mention being mixed? in a lot of cultures hair is sacred
Being mixed has nothing to do with it.
@@TriciaTakanawa_in Irish culture it's considered bad luck to cut a child's hair before a certain age. When my son's father cut off his curls I literally cried I was so upset. My son is mixed and his father is Mexican so he didn't understand why I was so upset. He thought I was making a big deal out of nothing. He didn't even ask me, he just cut it all off. It broke my heart. To some people on the outside these old traditions may seem pointless but to us it means so much.
@@megatronmacek race has nothing to do with it. Some people are superstitious others aren't.
"I'm better than my parents were" is an abusers FAVORITE. To them, it makes it allllll ok.
dam i wonder how she was raised
Yes! Or "Oh no! I'm turning into my *abusive pos parent*!" With tears streaming down their face, sobbing, after they abuse you. Bleugh, gross people.
@@haileyt857 my mom did that after she slapped me and gave me a bloody nose lmaoooooooooooo memories
@@salemccc thats horrible im so sorry. she IS as bad as her abusive parents. shes an adult. not a scared child lashing out from abuse. she had chance to get therapy and help, she had the money to do it before she had children which cost money too, so theres no excuse for not having the money to get therapy. Im so sorry she hit you. there is no excuse for being hit especially across the face. Imagine if an adult did that to another adult? Thats assault
That's not how reality works lmao. In a perfect world, everyone gets that opportunity, sure, but not in this world. Therapy is balls to the wall expensive and not everyone can talk to a therapist in a useful way that'll help fix their issue. Just stop lmao.
The fact the daughter has very little reaction tells me she's probably abused more than just having her hair cut off.
ur prolly right :(
@@Repzilla I think I would have been running away from her or at least trying to get away from the camera.
@@sourceandflip1139 some parents are not as lenient and that’s who’s supposed to be there for you so you don’t really think about going against them because you don’t want to piss them off or they will make their life harder
@@sourceandflip1139 Thats how you get beat
Or doing it for views!!! Like all the fake paranormal going on.
You can really tell how sorry she is in that apology video with her Instagram filter on. 🙄 cares more about looking good than what she’s actually talking about.
This is not just physical abuse it’s emotional and mental abuse, it's shocking and scarring to the mind. The mother is also jealous of her daughter, that's the real reason she chopped off her daughter's hair like a crazed lunatic🤔
“i told you to do good in school”, it’s not always that easy. if you have a kid struggling in school you can’t just tell them to do better, you need to help them.
Maybe there's a good reason why she's not doing good at School
It’s not that hard to do your assignments and study so you can do well on tests
@@tuvalu636 True
@@tuvalu636 it’s hard for a lot of people
@@raenaprottengeier yeah and maybe she might have a learning disability, dyslexia or else.
This woman is the type of mom who would accuse her daughter of “stealing” her boyfriend. She’s clearly jealous of her daughter’s natural beauty & felt the need to knock her down by publicly humiliating her and abusing her. I wouldn’t even be surprised if her daughter didn’t actually do anything except share a compliment she got or something. 🙄 I sincerely hope the daughter is able to get away to a SAFE & LOVING home asap.
yeah the type to say her daughter "stole" her bf when the daughter is Being SAd
I had my mother ask me that about a boyfriend of hers
Okay I just said that I think the mother is jealous of her daughter
If the bf ended up being a creep, she’d blame her daughter.
The fact that both mom and daughter are POC makes this a even deeper. We already get box into stereotypes and are often up against euro centric beauty standards and she just chopped off all her hair on camera. Humiliating, traumatizing and absolutely disgusting.
Race doesn't make anyone's abuse deeper. It hurts, period.
I read that as “pieces of crap” and I was like…what did the daughter do?!
The mom is not black, she is mixed race, practically white passing as others stated. Don't be fooled by them collagen filled lips. We are not the same, she doesn't have the same life experiences as no black woman on earth.
@nene8482 True, but there is no denying the added dimension to this humiliation.
@boganshazz821 there's no "but". Every child feels pain, humiliation, shame, rejection etc. Color don't have a single to do with it. Please stop adding further division
As a child, and teen, I was very mentally and physically treated horribly. I had lip gloss slapped off my face, I was drug around by my hair for not getting a chore done, and much, much more. And you know what? I took up for my mother at every turn. I would defend her actions to the death, and it took many years of therapy to find out why. It's only now, as an adult and mother myself, that I share things that happened to me, and I still can't share it all. I will never treat my son the way I was treated, the way this girl was treated by her mother, bc I know what happens to you mentally. I know how you carry these things with you FOREVER. Don't be surprised that she turned off comments, or that she acts beligerant when people react to what she has done, bc my mother would have any reason in the world for what she did and it was all valid in her mind. That was simply how you raised a child, and she was right and everyone else had no say bc I was HER child not theirs. That girl smiled and said she was fine because her mother gave her a wig, and if she didn't, she wouldn't even have that little comfort to wear out in public. This is abuse. Period, end stop, done. She needs parenting classes STAT.
Me too. Same. But my mom is quick to criticize my parenting.
My mom is 63 and when she was 8 her mom shaved her head as a punishment, she is literally still traumatized today and it wasn’t in front of the entire world. I’m the only person in the world she even let’s trim her split ends. I can’t imagine the struggle this beautiful baby girl is going to have because of this treatment and I hope she has other women in her life who will teach her better and help heal her. Even if her relationship with her mom lasts into adulthood and the mom learns to be actually better, this will never leave her.
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God, that's awful
Ugh my heart goes out to your mom I can’t even imagine how traumatizing that must have been! Such a wrong punishment
The mom ain’t learning shit come on now we gotta stop seein good where there is none. Sometimes people truly choose to be evil all day everyday they choose to deny, make excuses and continue to traumatize until the day they die and no they have no guilt or remorse. Hopefully the girl learns about narcissistic personality disorder and sociopathy and psychopathy and cuts contact with her mom for LIFE it’s the only chance she has to have a good one. Trust me as someone who came from an abusive family, mom, dad, grandmother, aunts, siblings, evil does NOT discriminate on who it lays dorment inside
Yeah well I love my long hair and I'll let it grow and grow because my parents we had the same haircut every time they cut her hair not until it was old enough and on my own I just let my hair grow
I'd like to point out, if CPS already knows about your kids, has you on file or whatever, that's not a sign that you're a good parent. As someone who's parents shaved their head bc I was "misbehaving" a few times throughout my childhood, I'm sure that child is gonna go no-contact. That mom is gonna end up in a nursing home wondering why no one ever comes to visit her
If she’s lucky
All 3 agencies she listed including the cops should not know about her child. This is sooooo sad
Literally, "cps knows my kid!" is something my dad would say since he's had CPS called on him multiple times for emotional abuse. it's not a thing to be proud of. Edit: yup he brags about it lmao
Homeless cuz fuck paying her nursing home bill
as she should..... if not worse. I just can't believe how people think recording this abusive dominating form of parenting is ok?? In what world is this ok.... I hope not ours. I hope that this woman gets all her kids taken and they choose to stay away from her.
I've only ever seen bad parents say things like "I'm a great parent". I really hope the daughter cuts contact and moves far far away from her toxic abusive mother as soon as she's of age.
I’ve got some bad news for the mom.. most kids who act like they aren’t hurt by the actions of their parents become the adults who go no contact with their parents. Pretending to not be bothered by the actions of a parent is an extremely common survival tactic with kids who are abused.
Yea, CPS and the cops KNOWING her kids is not the flex she thought it was 😂😂
I was so thinking this!
That's horrible. You don't harm your daughter in such a degrading way. Yes, she went along with her mom, she had no choice. Smh.
Exactly and then go live with it to humiliate her how does she even have custody still
You can see her start to react and then realize she has to accept the humiliation and defeat. Makes me wonder what would have happened if she tried to get away…..
@@RealJahjah That girl disassociated, it's all over her shocked face. That usually only ever happens when the abuse is extreme (I disassociated for eight months straight after shit my family did to me). Who knows what else is going on if her brain is having that severe of a reaction. She is definitely battling trauma.
@@busyflyer7599 it's not snitching if you're reporting your abuser tf is with this snitch mentality nowadays. "I'm not gonna report a crime because I'm a good person and I want people to like me" how does that make any sense?
I had a friend whose mom cut their hair off like this. She was the most beautiful girl I’ve ever met to this day. And she felt so ugly when her mom shaved her hair, it’s still amazes me that a parent is able to do something like that their children.
Gotta love how she actually shamed the parents of KIDNAPPED CHILDREN. Jesus. I think she managed to offend every group imaginable.
she says being pretty doesn't mean anything yet she puts beauty filters on her daughter while she humiliates her
the hypocrisy is painful isn't it
Literally 😂😑
Same thing I thought . The mom is mad her daughter is pretty and she not
I was literally about to say she looks like her mom. that B needs to take a look in the mirror because her kids mimicking what she see’s!!!
The mom put the filter on for herself
Ironic that she’s so hypocritical. Because she literally showerd the entire world that she’s an awful mother. 😭😭😭
i know lol
Most of these types of “mothers” are the biggest hypocrites of all
Love how people like this get to keep their kids but a lot of good parents get their children put in the foster system and get a case opened over BS reasons
It’s the absurdness the mother has to EVEN cut off her daughters braids, THEN say that she doesn’t like physical abuse even though this is physical. She acts delusional saying, “I can’t believe nobody is standing up to me!” That teen most likely had no consent and got threatened if she didn’t agree to her mothers deal she would cut ALL of her hair off.
That is a fake smile. I perfected it myself when I a teen. My mom used to lift my arms up to show everyone my armpit hair when I was going through a no shower/depression phase...she's in survival mode. She's just saying things to make her mom happy. Her friends probably have messages of her crying her heart out. I can't imagine cutting my daughter's hair as a punishment. I've only cut it once without asking her first and that's cause she was a baby and was eating it and I had to find some way to keep her from eating it.
That's terrible , i hope you are okay and well.
Question. After she did that to you, which i'm sooo sorry you had to go through, did you keep in contact with her later in your life? I hope you're well, no one deserves abuse.
I was a hairstylist for a while and saw a few times where you can tell the mother was having her daughter's hair cut because they were jealous. More common than you'd think
😃😃😃this world…what is it
I didn’t think hairstylists noticed this, been through this way too many times
What?!! No way. That is like scary to know there’s that many more ‘hers’ out here🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
My THOUGHTS EXACTLY
I am curious, how would you go about handling those types of customers? I'd imagine it'd be pretty difficult to deal with them.
I'm coming right out with it...if that "mother" continues to traumatize her daughter in that manner she will come to regret it. The shock of her realizing her horrible mother has very cruel intentions will turn into resentment. The built up resentment towards her mother will turn into anger. There will be that one last "lesson" that sends her into a rage. That mother will possibly be fighting for her life no less than her hair because the lifelong abuse she inflicted on her daughter will cause a snap.
that’s the first thing I thought with the beauty filter bs! someone so vain like her is a hypocrite when it comes to her daughter and she’s 100% jealous!
Forcing her daughter to say that she's fine isn't going to convince anyone. My abusive parent absolutely HATED any time I tried to reach out -- they're so invested in the fiction that they are a "good" parent that they will lash out at anyone who says otherwise. The child will learn that it's too dangerous to tell the truth, and learns to lie and appease the abuser. I recognize the tone of voice from the daughter when she says "yeah" to whatever bullshit story her mother is weaving... it's the "I'll say whatever you want so that you don't hurt me again" voice.
YES!!!!! 🙌🏽 You explained this perfectly!!
I can relate to this
Same. Ive been told not to tell anyone about anything that happens at home and that Im a liar and a faker."that never happened" or "that doesnt hurt" or "youre being a crybaby (if its the mental aspect and not physical".
@@lonely_saturn ikr the gaslighting is insane
Update, things have been getting better with him going to rehab. Not perfect, but less abuse to gaslight me about, at least.
I think the mom wanted to bring her daughter down because she is jealous of her.
Ironically her child is even gorgeous without her braids. I’m sure she’s smart too & the only reason I can see her falling behind is from going into “freeze mode” whenever her mom traumatizes her under “good will” & expects her to excel in school.. That’s a vile “mom”. God bless that beautiful young woman. I wish I could hug her & give her some positive reinforcement 😢 I hope she has her daddy in her life & he’s there to be there for her because her mom is a piece of “work”… Praying for her 🩵 The mom is so gross… 🤮 This young lady needs a real positive role model.. she’s more mature than her p.o.s. Egg donor 🪺 & what does the mom do for work that’s so admirable & honorable?! If it were that great / high on the totem pole then how does she have time to be so narcisssitic on her own social media & humiliating her daughter.. & nothing worse than when someone takes something away from you, shames you, *publicly for that matter* 🙄 then makes you happy, gives you more “love” & says “see I told you I did the right thing!!” & takes credit for your sudden happiness after they tormented you- So disgusting!
I remember this, and I was so disgusted by what she did to her daughter. I have a 17 year old and she doesn't always do what she's told, and all she cares about is being pretty. Typical teenager, I would never cut her hair. She has beautiful hair. Would never do anything to take away from her feeling good about what she saw while looking in the mirror. Why not take away from her phone or privileges? She's a teenager this is what they do. There's no such thing as a perfect teenager.
Biggest gaslighter "You're fine right? I warned you right? You were just shocked I did it" My mother has gaslighted me my entire life. I have one word for this child-when you're an adult and on your on grind.. RUN
Something tells me the mom doesn't let her work or if she does isn't allowed to have her own account. Even more levels of abuse.
@@deltasaves oh exactly, I'm also kinda worried because of her exposing herself she'll probably not allow her to even work when she gets older
As a hairstylist, this is why we have the term "Angel cut". It means for whatever reason, the client is being pressured to get a cut they do not want, and we come up with a reason as to why we can't service it. Stop the service, possibly call the cops if needed. This whole situation however is just so sad, it's 100% abuse to make someone feel like crap about themselves. For men and women their hair is a symbol of who they are or how they wanna express themselves. Even if she only cut off an inch, that's still abuse imo. Wow this got wayy more popular than I intended, but I just wanna reiterate no hair stylist wants to be involved in your personal family business, but do not bring your family business and punishments to a salon, we don't care for it. Angel cut may be something that "started" on tiktok but I'm pretty sure we all had brains before that to know that if someone brings in a screaming kid, I understand autism and other situations are a little different but still, if the child is in extreme distress, I myself wouldn't be comfortable doing it. Never said I'd called the cops over this specific situation.
so how does it work? does the kid or whoever ask for an angel cut in front of their parents, or what? Id like to know more
You can call the cops all you want but emotional abuse in this manner you describe isn't a prosecutable offense.
That's kind of crazy if you ask me. Parents bring their uncooperative kids to get their hair cut all the time, and it's not abuse. Little kids often beg for haircuts and then change their mind, or they don't take care of their hair and need it cut. There's plenty of reasons why a kid would not want to sit through a haircut without it being abusive. Even if it were a situation like this, where it's for a punishment, it's not illegal and the cops can't do anything about it. What's the point of wasting time and recourses on making a redundant call to the cops? I really don't understand. Unless you mean that it's a hostage situation or something lol. If it's just a parent making the kid get a haircut at a salon, I don't understand why you'd take it to that extreme without knowing anything about the situation. Just tell them no and go about your day...
@@ReitanaViscera definitely not, this isn't a commonly known code word, and it's really a pointless exercise because the cops can't do anything about a parent taking their uncooperative kid to get their hair cut. It's not illegal, so the hairdresser would just be getting into other people's business without knowing the circumstances, making a false report, and, in the event that there happens to be actual abuse going on behind the scenes, you'd have just made that ten times worse for that kid when they get home. Don't do this, please
@Bēla-Sofia no, but the most you can do is notify the authorities in hopes they'll investigate it.
“you thought being pretty was so much better” she says while the filter she put on the video to make her look pretty is on her abused daughters face
right, it wasn’t even js the fake hair in the braids it was HER REAL HAIR. and it’s not even like she’s getting pregnant, she’s getting in trouble like a normal kid would
What makes me the saddest is that she basically made her daughter go on a video with her and say she deserved that shit.
The fact that that girl didn't throw a fit and start crying when her mom cut her hair, says to me that she is afraid of her mom. If I ever did that to my 17 year old daughter, (I never would, but...), she would be in tears and probably screaming for me to stop. This girl did nothing, she is definitely very afraid of her mom.
No, the daughter is just shock that the mom actually carried out her threat, she's not scared just shock
@@dawnmatthews6424 She's just used to it.
@Shelly Liban A mother would not go this far for fame to get her kid taken away lol
@Shelly Liban I truly was wondering if it was box braids, it did look real though
You guys do understand that braids don’t just end at your scalp? He hair could’ve been at any length in those braids and she cut them SHORT as f*ck 💯
My dad did this to me and forced a stylist to shave my head while I cried and begged them not to. It’s why I became a hairdresser you’d be surprised how often this happens and I always pick the kids side and refuse. It’s disgusting
In my entire hairdressing career I've never had a parent ask me to shave their kids hair for any reason. It seems unbelievable that this happens often to you. Nice story.
@@elenawilliams32 I’m glad you haven’t had to deal with this but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen and to just dismiss the possibility of it is ignorant.
@@cornbutts I didn't say it couldn't ever happen. I am however very perplexed that your claim of "you'd be surprised how often this happens and I always pick the kids side and refuse." Just how often does this happen to you? How long have you been hairdressing?
@@elenawilliams32 if you’re really going to sit there and say that it isn’t common for parents to force kids into haircuts they don’t want you’re not very in tune with your clients. Sorry about that for you
@@cornbutts Wasn't the subject shaving kids heads as punishment? Don't worry, you must be 'the' hairdresser who saves all the kids regularly having their parents ask you to shave their kids heads as punishment. I see you, good intentions but at best you exaggerated massively. At worst, you are an attention seeking liar. Cheers for the laughs. Bye.
She's repeating "no physical discipline" because CPS had already had to intervene before and they told her she can't physically discipline her (hitting). She's so slow that she didn't realize what she was doing was still abuse. Where is CPS. This is way worse, she did it online. She's so jealous of that girl, its pathetic.
As a parent (daughter just became an official teen❤, son is a pre-teen), I’m NOT the authority on telling any loving, invested parent what the “right” way of parenting is, but I definitely can’t help but have something to say when I see an abusive or harmful parent. Personally, this is how I would have handled it: I would have explained early on that while I proudly support my daughter’s hobbies and looking nice, there are some extras attached to those interests that I am financially supporting (subscriptions to streaming apps, Audible, beauty treatments/tools). Things like her grades and chores are important foundations of her future, and those have to be highly prioritized. If she gets distracted and isn’t putting in the time for those things, I can’t continue to reward her by financially supporting some of her other interests. I would still continue to make sure she has clean, nice clothes to wear, but I’m not going to buy new stuff if she doesn’t truly need it. We would be hiring a tutor to work with her, and if emotions or confrontation were issues we would start meeting with a therapist to work on those issues. I would remind her of all of this in a heart-to-heart talk if grades and chores had fallen behind, remind her that I love her, and that I just want to do my best as a parent to teach her healthy ways to have a stable, happy future as an adult. It’s okay be interested in beauty, but we have to put in the time+work on education AND emotional wellness/strength so that when the time comes for her to be on her own, facing a challenge, she will know she has to make good financial decisions so she can support her passions. Under no circumstances should you grab your child, cut up ANYTHING of theirs even if you paid for it, or punish when angry. Getting angry is OKAY, but you have to immediately excuse yourself and take some time until you can think it through and respond calmly/accordingly! Otherwise you’re just teaching your child to respond to stressful situations with aggression and vindictiveness!
Removing someone’s hair against their will is an actual form of **TORTURE** she was **TORTURING HER CHILD ON TIKTOK**. I hope she loses her children and *rots* in prison for this. I hope the daughter is able to get some genuine help this is horrifically traumatizing for ANYONE to experience
Facts so evil
I’m a mother and I couldn’t imagine torturing my kid, recording it, record me asking her redundant questions, then POST IT ONLINE. I hope the daughter gets away as soon as she can and remains safe, her mother doesn’t deserve the title
Cant believe shes not doxxed :l
TRUE STATEMENT
The way the daughter disassociated during that event was extremely disturbing
This is why Dads are so important.
When you’re a good Mom you don’t have to keep reminding people that you are. It shows in your actions.
Growing up in a old school black household meant I was subjugated to always getting bad relaxers and it was torture to always having my hair fried off and no control over how I wanted to look. It was torture and I hated how I looked and often went to school embarrassed because I dreamed of being natural. The amount of emotional distress and humiliation this girl is probably facing is sickening, not to mention the lack of control she probably feels on top of a list of other things.
I felt so sad reading this. Thank you for sharing. I have heard stories on curly hair/low porosity reddit from women who have gone through similar things with relaxers and hot tools. I feel like it's really important it's talked about because that seems like a very hard and traumatic thing to deal with as a young girl that a lot of white people just wouldn't even think of without reading something like this. I remember growing up in the Midwest, there were only a couple black girls in my school, all with their hair how you describe and it wasn't until I got older and learned what relaxers even are that I realized these little girls hair wasn't just like that, someone was burning it off. Nowadays seeing all the little girls with their curl cream and curls bouncing all over and their cute little twists, it's really heartbreaking thinking there were little girls feeling bad about their hair and having it constantly fried. Even though I can assume why, I'd rather just ask, why do you think your family wouldn't let you just have natural hair? Sorry if that's a stupid question, but you don't gotta reply if you don't want to. I was just curious.
They actually linked the chemical relaxers and straightening agents to types of reproductive harm. You should do some research regarding the long term side effects, from your perspective. I'm so sorry that our disgusting culture made your mother feel y'all had to have straight looking, "white people's" hair. I've never been more jealous and in awe over someone's beautiful head of hair more than a natural head of curls. My niece is mixed and she's got the most beautiful afro, absolutely beautiful. Sending prayers your way ❤️
How does a relaxer compare ?
Children die on the watch of CPS all the time because they don't follow up on cases of obvious physical abuse until said kids are dead. I highly doubt they would take the time to call her and commend her on her _"great parenting."_
Her asking her if she’s happy while standing next to her is just unfair. Like, of course she’s gonna agree. That mother is horrifying, I can’t imagine what would happen if she disagreed with her.
She physically cut a part off of her body, without her consent. That's physical abuse.
This public humiliation shit just makes the parents look like absolutely insecure, abusive and pure stupid. Ps…..you be looking fiiiine with the beard my man. 💁🏻♀️
thanks for the compliment, I agree with what you said here, it's very obvious
That mother is stone JEALOUS of her daughter , how sad 😔 that baby is so beautiful her mother should be PROUD she had hand in making something so perfect
What a hero! Made me LOL. I just found you a few days ago & your videos are amazing I really appreciate you!
Her bragging that the police and CPS know her daughter is straight insanity. "When you're a good mom" they aren't known to CPS and police at such a young age. Did she really name Epstein, too?! 😂 She's really sad. Thank you for bringing attention to this. My heart breaks for the girl.
Right?? When she was bragging about "when you're a good mom," I was thinking "I'm *pretty sure* that when you're a good mom, CPS doesn't have a file about your child"
Holy Hell, what a gross, hypocritical, poor excuse for a mother. That girl had/has absolutely no choice but to do and say what momma wants. Don’t get me started on that filter either. Thinks she can gaslight literally everyone. 😂
I salute you for making this video! I have been wondering about this woman even without knowing all the details of the situation... it's worse than I thought. Monsters like this have to be stopped and at the moment the internet is the greatest weapon when fighting against these kind of people...
Videos like these make me super grateful to have a wonderful mother who thinks she's failed her kids when she in fact has done so much for us. Most good parents are constantly questioning if they're a good parent not bragging that they are.
With the mother's reaction to all this and her pattern of lying... I'm skeptical that the daughter actually did anything. I hope when she turns 18 she gets out of there as quick as she can. Possibly going nc for a while.
For someone like this mother, it could be the slightest of "insults". A boy or boys giving her daughter attention bmwell before the mother got any at the same age. Mom kept bringing up the daughter caring about being cute... Like your daughter is just cute, calm down.
I wonder if jealousy had anything to do with it :/
@@whims6278Definitely
@@whims6278 it's for sure part of it. The "mother" forgot what it's like to be a teenager. At that age I wasn't boy crazy, but I enjoyed when i got attention
I hope the girl goes all the way no contact. This witch she was borne from is insane.
the fact that she’s describing herself as a sort of savior, saying that she “saved” her child by emotionally and physically abusing her is proof that she sees herself as better than everyone else, including her daughter and that her ignorance has to do with her insanely inflated ego
My heart breaks for her daughter. Her mom definitely sees her own daughter as “ competition “. I had a mother exactly like this who did everything she could to sabotage any opportunity I had. I ask to go out with friends she makes an excuse why I can’t. I asked her if i could go to prom with a guy I knew since sophomore year she told me I was being “ fast “ and forbid me from going to my own prom. These women are the worst and don’t deserve children. If they have a daughter they sabotage her if they have a son they force him to play the father role in their household or be the “ man “ instead of acting like a kid.
I remember when the video of cutting her hair came on my tt fyp. That absolutely broke my heart to see her go through. I had an adhd I’ve dad. And watching the way the daughter acts, it’s a trauma response to make their abuser happy by validating her moms actions
I saw a TikTok where these parents gave their children coal for Christmas and nothing else. It was heartbreaking, not only that it happened but that they felt it was good to post it on the internet.
Wtaf that is so sad. Teaching their kids that they're "bad" rather than putting the work in as parents. I mean idk the situation, but it seems pretty cruel 😕
I always think wow if they think it’s good to post I can’t imagine what they do they don’t share or post for everyone to see .. ):
it gives me so much hope that even that is considered bad for a parent to do. when i turned 12 i never got anymore gifts. when i was 12 i got one expensive gift and that counted for all my christmas;s in the future too. my parents would hit me and then gaslight me, and even coal as a present gets people upset. the world is changing, and that makes me so happy
My granddad was given coal in his Christmas stocking as a child. So weird to think if it was in the social media age, and they recorded it, that I as his grandchild would be able to find it one day. It’s crazy doing it and posting it so that it’s potentially out there forever
She is the type to see her daughter as competition. Her daughter is allot prettier then her, and so she decided to beat her down. Discusting. Just can't wait for the "my daughter was removed from the home and she blocked me on everything! Now I can't abuse her :( " Update. Truly hope the daughter never has to return. She deserves way better.
Remove her daughter for what?
@@chelsiemilstead7329 presumably CPS or foster care taking her away
Omg I cannot believe she did this to her daughter what person in their right mind would think this is ok to do on or off camera. She’s awful. I don’t understand why parents try to embarrass the kids on the internet when they are only embarrassing themselves. This is just awful.
In 20 years, this girl is not talking to her mother again.
"And I'm the wrong mom to ever play with" Ma'am I'm pretty sure even her father regrets _playing_ with you. Judging from her behavior after the fact, her narcissistic behavior, and the hesitance from her daughter (plus having lived with an abusive parent myself), I'm convinced that the abuse doesn't stop at cutting off her hair. This is only what she knows is mild enough that she can use to publicly embarrass her daughter without getting in trouble with the authorities.
She doesn’t play nice or fair, that’s for sure.
Another sickening thing is that the mother seems to love bomb her after, “oh I got you a new wig-“ “you weren’t surprised! You’re okay right?” Like no. She wasn’t ok, she was literally set off. And as someone with an abusive mother who is just like this, who also cut my hair off when I wasn’t able to “properly care for it” which was just me not wearing it how she wanted, I know the fear and shock of having that happen to you. I can say with certainty, this isn’t the worst she’s been through.
That made my stomach turn!! Poor babygirl, hope she finds a much more loving and deserving parent…
No child deserves what you or she went through. I hope you are doing well now.
@@Zealot__ thank you, healing is a long journey but we can do our best. ❤️🩹🖤
Y’all are beyond dramatic
@@MrAjking808 I hope you find inner peace. :)
Maternal narcissism is an insidiously complex and under recognized form of trauma. Victums are gaslit, shamed, blamed, and left to to figure it out alone.
The gaslighting at the end. I hope the poor daughter leaves and never looks back. Narcissistic parents act like their kids are extensions of themselves. I'm so thankful u called this out. This is abusive and covert abuse is even worse than physical abuse because it makes u feel like you're crazy. My parents did this shit to me too and noone believed they were evil! At least when I got hit there was evidence to show! Otherwise they act like THEYRE the victim
Notice how the mom put on a “cute” face filter on while she cuts her daughters hair because “being cute ain’t it”
That "mother" shouldn't have children! That's abuse. Literally cutting off all her child's hair for struggling with grades? That's part of the mother's fault. It was also her responsibility to help her child study and work on grades! NOT do this traumatizing thing to her own child. That child is gunna grow up resenting her mother and the mother is gunna be like "why doesn't my child talk to me". Smh.
This is so sickening! The fact that her mom thinks this is normal. Her daughter doesn’t even look like she wants to say anything or disagree with her…. She doesn’t know what will be her repercussion. So sad. I doubt CPS called and told you your a great mom. The Tom foolery 🤦🏽♀️
My heart goes out to this girl wtf , the shock and disbelief on her face. 😢
It's not only physical but emotional as well. I remember seeing my sister have all her long hair chopped off aa punishment. It was just as scarring for her as she was in high school. The act leaves trauma for sure.
Not everything is trauma 😂 it’s like y’all don’t even know what it means .. someone can get stung & y’all will scream traumatizing
@MrAjking808 that's what someone that has not experienced trauma or come to terms with their own trauma would say. Trauma is subjective to each individual. For example, I have PTSD. I learned through therapy sessions how the brain deems a traumatic event. Memories are stored by the brain based on emotion. Therefore if someone has such a negative emotion in an event, the memory stored in the brain becomes negative. Every time that memory is "triggered" or remembered, the brain releases the same negative emotion and feelings as a traumatic response. This is also applied to phobias. It's not people being "dramatic" or easily "triggered". While there are some people that do fake mental illness for attention, not all of them do. Just because you don't react to an incident the same way another person does, doesn't mean their feelings are invalid. That's like if you lost a loved one and someone replies with "that's just life, it's not a big deal, people die every day.". We acknowledge what they say but most would agree that the person who said that is an insensitive jerk. An emotional bond with a loved one that's passed is one that others may relate too but won't fully understand your loss.
I’m in literal TEARS. Why would ANYONE, LET ALONE A MOTHER, do such a thing to another human being, let alone HER OWN CHILD?! My heart is literally broken for that girl. 😢
I’m crying too
Yess this hurts my heart too..... This mother is crazy
There is no way on this Earth that someone has commended you for what you did unless they are exactly like you
OMFG cutting off all my hair would scar me more than any physical abuse could. I feel so bad for that poor girl 😢
Loving this tiktok series. I feel these awful tiktokers are often overlooked. When I first saw that video, that little girl looked so humiliated. She knows how important hair is to little girls especially. Gross.
thanks, i'll keep them coming
There was a girl recently who pulled the wig off another girl who had alopecia at school in front of everyone & the punishment from the parents was to shave the girls head or give up all electronics & they ended up shaving her head. I agree with it completely in THAT situation. Kids have literally killed them selves over that exact same situation where the little girl was bullied & her hair snatched off by a bully at school.
Yeah that’s about the only example of when cutting off your child’s hair is a reasonable punishment
I agree the only example I would agree with
And still in that case, to snatch and pull her by the head repeatedly and tell her it isn't physical punishment is absurd. Then to post it on tik tok, beyond disgusting.
Are you saying the punishment was the child's choice?
The parents in the situation you are talking about were teaching their child about how to not treat people and flip the script on the child so they can have a taste of how the child they’ve been bullying actually feels. I applaud them. I bet their child learned a valuable lesson from the punishment.
This is a majorly traumatizing moment in her child’s life, she’s going to carry this with her with the feeling of being helpless in that moment and it is going to effect her future relationships, behavior, and even her future parenting one day and it is so disgusting that the one person she should trust more than anyone would do that to her in front of the world and then convince her that that was just her being a good mother
This girl will always be afraid of her mother, when she is in trouble she will never tell her mother about it because her mother will just cut off her hair for it instead of helping her
It’s funny that she pretends that TikTok doesn’t mean anything to her, yet she keeps coming back, lamely trying to defend herself.
This IS physical discipline & public humiliation. This will be on the internet forever and this little girl has to relive that traumatizing experience over and over again. And let’s not even get started on how cruel kids are now and days, they will taunt her because of this. I can’t.
Abuse is an understatement.
That poor girl made to smile and nod and say yah … while her mom records and basically teaches her daughter that abuse is ok. is even more traumatizing.
When I was a kid, my mother threatened to take ✂️ to my knee length blonde hair. I don't remember much in my life, but the crying and trauma of that fear literally led me to cut my own hair short- (before she did, I guess) so messed up that this kid went through this, and that it is on 👏 the 👏 internet 👏 for all to see
Wow. heartbreaking to hear how commonplace this type of abuse is. I'm sorry you had to go through that :( hope you're well
@@kroxilpiv thank you for your kind words and concern. I'm getting by, like always 😀 🖤
My stepmom had my hair cut every month when she KNEW that culturally, long hair was the norm, that I WANTED long hair. She did it because she hated me. I left home at 18 & went no contact for decades. My father only recently (65) is coming to understand the harm his spouse did. Since NONE of his 3 children talk to him. I'm only considering returning home to help him in his later years when it's confirmed she has dementia. I can find it in my heart to help them then. Otherwise her venomous ways are too treacherous to be near. The hair was only one of many, many horrid things she did. I've never forgotten it though.
Trauma is learned and shared it takes a strong person to break the chain
Loving this channel. New sub
She's going on a public campaign defending herself..and putting the daughter on again...🙄🙄🙄🙄 The mother has a social media obsession
I find it interesting that the mothers that do this are usually beautiful. My stepmother did this to me when I was seven. She cut my hair to less than two inches long. The mothers that do this either have no idea how deeply this affects the child or are sadists who enjoy the torment. It sounds silly, but it is something that some might consider a minor issue because it grows back, but for a young girl it means a lot more. It’s hard to explain, but it’s almost like taking a child’s confidence and ripping it away. Decades later, it still bothers me, so I feel for this girl. ✌️😀
Reminds me of the Evil Queen being jealous of Snow White because of her youth and beauty.
I agree, they’re stripping a child’s dignity away so that they stay weak and easy to control
That lady is extremely jealous of her daughter. I randomly came across that video like a day or 2 after it happened and I was horrified. The fact that she’s trying to make it seem like she doesn’t care about beauty or tik tok when she’s posting on that app daily while consistently using that same “beauty” filter in every video is insane. She’s not okay in the head.
OMG that's so messed up. I wonder who she got it from, thinking pretty was important. That is absolutely physical abuse. Jesus. I can't believe she just did that!
CPS commended her?? Thanks for letting us know the system is failing another child 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
"Being pretty ain't shit" yet she uses filters and make up to go on film. Yeah, she totally see's her daughter as competition
This has happened to me twice, once at the age of 4 a woman my dad dated decided to cut my hair with a knife, her excuse to my dad when he got home was "she has lice" (now I don't doubt that I did, I was daily placed in a cold basement day in and day out as punishment) second time was when I was 13-14 another female my dad dated chopped of my long hair, her excuse "she sheds too much" Grown ass women being jealous of younger women or little girls is absolutely disgusting and disturbing.
Children are so precious and fragile to what we do to them, this is upsetting to watch