HI MOM, I'M THE WOMAN TODAY BECAUSE OF YOU!
HI MOM, I'M THE WOMAN TODAY BECAUSE OF YOU, Thank you!
The most valuable lessons in my life were the ones that caused me the most pain, to learn the lesson you must learn you can not change them or make them love you, they made a decision, so what's yours? you have power use it.
I love you 🤍decided today that you will learn the lessons, you deserve a wonderful life.
Rochelle and the Spoilers ( My friend Elle ) the one with the very wise Mom 💖
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Happy Momma’s Day! ❤ thank you for being my guide, my first girlfriend, my support, your love has never waivered. You have shown how to be strong, find strength, even when I have felt I was going to crumble, you have showed me to always find that window because everything happens for a reason. You showed me to "dance" to take that chance in life if nothing else it was a lesson in life. And to always smile, be kind You have supported me even when I was learning my own lessons and you knew there had to be easier path. Thank you mom... you are one of a kind. Being A mom is a selfless job... and not one that comes with instructions you have done an amazing job. You said you wonder what it would be like to be grow up in a family with love and support… you have to look no further than within your 3 kids you raised, you did that 💖 love you.
Thank you honey, I’m more than proud that I get to call you your sister and brother my incredible kids . This is the first time I’ve cried answering a comment. Never stop loving yourself first honey , it’s what will give you a heart to always make the right decision. Happy Mama day to you as well honey , see you tomorrow love ❤️❤️❤️🥰
@@liedyMcHappy Mothers day, we all have baggage. Now I understand why you understood me. My children are loved so much. I had attention I didn't want. We know how to do it right. Love to you ❤❤❤
@@angelajanelomax5540 happy Mother’s Day every single day my friend.. I put the baggage down no use dragging them along only to spoil the new ones I’m packing. Hugs 🌷💕
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Hi Liedy. Happy Mothers Day to YOU! I’m sorry you had such a horrible mother but I’m so proud of you for making your life a better place with your children. Yes you definitely should write a book about it.
Hi Patti to you as well have a wonderful day. chapter two 👌 kind of done 🌷
Words of wisdom. Than you Liedy! I am one of those that shared with you that I had a similar mom. We learned from them what NOT to do. It is evident in how much your children love you and it’s the same with me with my daughter. Have the happiest of Mother’s Day!💞
Have a fabulous Mothers Day Denise, we learned and we thrive, we learned some hard lessons that changed us forever , I’m grateful every day . Hugs 🌷💕
Happy Mother's Day Leidy. My Mom is Dutch too but she was an amazing Mom and i miss her dearly. Be proud of the woman you have become through all your trials.
I’m very proud that I am the woman I’am ( even with my moments) I was so fortunate to have incredible loving nurturing women in my life watching them and gave me an opportunity to take my power back . Have a wonderful Mother’s Day .🌷
Happy Mother's Day to you too 💐
Same to you Gaby 🌷
Oh Liedy, so sorry to hear that story about your mother. My 5 siblings and I had the most incredible mom, she passed away eleven years ago at the age of 95, she was healthy and vibrant and always ready to anything for anyone. Everyone loved her. To this day is so missed. We all get together on her birthday and the day she passed to reminisce. I wish you a very Happy Mother's Day. 🌷🌺
I’m sad for my Mom , I don’t think she ever lived in the moment. How wonderful it must be to be able to celebrate your Mom with your siblings, I hope that I can leave memories like that with my kids and grandkids. Happy Mother’s Day Maureen, hugs 🌷❤️
Great conversation, Liedy! Thank you for keeping it so real. I had a pretty tumultuous childhood but there were some good years too and I focus on those. I know your story will be helpful to others. 🌸🐦💐❤️
Happy Mother’s Day Vicki , have a wonderful day . I’m so happy you got to have some good years every child should experience them . Sharing I hope that we can see the power we have to change our todays and leave yesterday in the past . It’s ok to leave the ones that hurt you there as well ❤️🌷
This is a very valuable conversation. I am your age and whatever I have gone through as a child has been removed from my memory. I tried hypnosis to be able to recall my childhood, but I couldn’t do it. Something’s are better left alone and you move on.
Yes leave it in your past, as I say there is no future in your past take the lessons learned and all your wonderful memories .. I hope these conversations will help others 🌷
exactly, your body is try to protect you from something maybe harmful, move on and smile, it is a beautiful day today!
I get so so envious of my friends who enjoy spending time with their mums. Some of them even go on holidays with their mums !! My mum passed 3 years ago at 96 years old and in all that time i never had hugs or love talk. My siblings did and their children were showered with love and gifts but none for me and mine. My older sister has now taken over the hate thrown my way. loll i can't win. I have now left it all and moved to another country as im happier without my siblings too. All this was because i had a bad accident as a 2 year old and it disrupted the family for many years of being in and out of hospital !!
Lesley, I can so relate to what you are sharing.. I hope you find your power and leave it in your past you deserve a wonderful life and it’s not in your past 🌷
So beautiful sharing dear friend God BLESS you
Thank you 🌷
Hearing your experience with your mother helps those of us with mothers that were less than idyllic feel less alone. It’s been a journey for me too, but you are right, so many things to learn and mostly to reclaim our true self from it. Then, as you say, the blooming can happen whether they like it or not. It’s our life, it’s our choice! ❤️🙏
Emily yes it a journey some will never overcome, for years I thought it was me I was the root of all the problems and issues, until I learned I wasn’t. And as so eloquently write I started blooming and nurturing myself to a healthy life .. of course every now and then a few weeds would pop up there heads , but now I can say I got this ! Have a wonderful Mother’s Day 🌷
Ok Liedy, you did it again, you touched my heart ❤️ my mother lost her family when she was 12, nothing that I could complain about would be worse than that, she’s gone now, I miss her, she was quite a character. Happy Mother’s Day, dear Liedy.
I can’t even imagine what that must have been like , when I read your comment I take a moment and stare at the words ( I miss her ) I’ve never felt that yet , I wish I could utter those word. Hugs my friend have a wonderful Mother’s day 🌷💕
Hello beautiful 🥰 👋 Happy Mother's day 🌺
Have a way day with your boys Jamie , let them spoil you 🌷
Thank you.
You are welcome 🌷
Liedy, I am glad you can speak your truth. We are all here to listen, anytime. No mother is perfect but some women should never become a mother. And Happy Mother's Day to you. You are just lovely.
Thanks Kim , she was a good Mom to my two siblings. I reminded her of her mistake. Have a wonderful day tomorrow Kim 🌷
@@liedyMc it doesn't make up for the fact that she was not a good mother to you though. You were an innocent child. ♥️
@@kimhanback1302 I agree, but at some point letting go .. was my road to being free of her anger Every baby deserves to be loved.🌷 I missed out I know I wanted what my sister had but just got to watch.
I'm glad you overcame ❤️
It’s been a journey, I’m glad as well 🌷
Amezing mother day have a good day
Thank you CaChua 🌷
Having lost my son and my mother, Mother's Day is a sad day for me. No social media for me today, but I had to watch your video, Liedy. I'm sad about your childhood.😢
Oh Molly , I’m so sorry I can totally understand that this a terrible day for you . You know Molly deep down inside I knew I a good child I think it’s what somehow protected me .. we all have our journey here I’m grateful I learned to take my power back , love can’t conquer all but it sure start one to heal 🌷
Happy mother's day, it a vicious cycle... God bless you and your loved ones 🙏
Great lessons to learn and journeys to explore 🌷
@liedyMc yes it is, life is never perfect, But it was a lesson u would not repeat.. that's what made u appreciate ur children. Happy mother's day. U deserve it
My whole life I had a horrible relationship with my mom, she kicked me out when I was 14, and I always had a wall up for her....I also don't get along with my sister, we never talk...feels like I don't have a sister at all....when I went to my nieces wedding everyone said they didn't even know I existed, lol... But because of my childhood, it made me an amazing mother. ..my boys and I are incredibly close. ......
Hi Jamie, we can click our heels and say we came out of it alive .. I’m proud of us we decided to take our power back .. Have a wonderful Mother’s Day Jamie 🌷
I am so proud of you. To learn and grow from your experiences is a wonderful thing. One of the best Mother’s Days today. Kids phoned then we went canoeing
I’m proud of me as well Kathy , we just got home and had a wonderful and with all three of my kids and their partners and all the little grandkids, I got spoiled Mother’s Day and my Birthday.. What a spectacular day to have been canoeing, happy Mother’s Day Kathy 🌷
Happy Mother’s Day 🌹
Thank you Sherry, hope you had a wonderful Mother’s Day as well 🌷
I knew my mom loved me. BUT she was a single mom, very stressed, a screamer & hitter! She was always sick as I grew up. She also chose to raise me in a high control cult, which magnified everything. It was a stressful childhood, with absolutely no fun, no “outside” friends or activities. But the lessons I learned from her made me a better mom! I promised myself that my kids would never hear me yell, never have a hand layed on them, never be forced to live a cult life & I would pick a husband that would be a good dad! I will never complain about the parenting skill she didn’t have, because it made me a kinder, more loving & patient person! When Mother’s Day rolls around I only think of my own kids & now grandkids!! Lemons into lemonade 🍋
Thank you for sharing, sounds like you saw the lessons a lot sooner in life then I did , but I’m so grateful that i eventually understood the journey. I adore all three of my kids and I would never want to repeat history 🌷
Hi Liedy! Been away from my technology lately and wanted to be sure to wish you a HAPPY BIRTHDAY and HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY! Wish I could give you a BIG HUG! Thank you for sharing your story. You are a BEAUTIFUL LADY! I am so HAPPY she kept you! Sending you BUNCHES of LOVE your way!!!
Thank you Alysa , I had a fabulous Mother’s Day and Birthday got super spoiled on both days . No looking back , I’m so grateful for my today’s.. big hug coming your way as well 😘🌷
Greetings Liedy! Thank you so much for sharing the intimate details of your life with us. I had a very emotionally abusive childhood and I learned to take the blame for everything. There's still a part of me that does this and internally I beat myself up for everything. I've been healing from this for a long time, but there's more to do. I'm so grateful to have made it this far on my healing journey. Love you Liedy♥️🙏
We are not alone Jean, keep on going my friend it’s not your fault! Take your power back , you deserve the peace and calm in your heart ❤️
Thank you Liedy, for sharing this with us. Have a wonderful day.
Hope you had a wonderful Mother’s Day 🌷
Thank you for sharing your story Liedy! I love you and your mom missed out on the amazing woman you are.
Yes , we both missed out . I hope sharing will give other women the courage to see that they deserve love and that they are enough and worthy and walking away is ok🌷 ❤️you
Happy Mom’s Day Liety. Awesome video. You make my day. So inspiring.
Thank you Victoria, Happy Moms day to you as well 🌷
Today is a day I celebrate what wonderful Children I have, I don't even think about her, she cut ties with me many years ago and I went on, She got mad that she did not destroy me, so one who would get mad because someone is strong enough to move on and try to enjoy their life and did not need her is sad. So all I could say is Thank you for all the pain you gave me in the first part of my life, it made me the strong willed person I am today! I read the title and did not really want to watch this today but here I am, strong enough not to back down from this issue, learn from life lessons, life is short enjoy every minute of it! Bless you Liedy, Happy Mpther's day
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 we did it Denise , we took our power back , we are strong fierless passionate and have the most incredible love for those we love . Have a wonderful Mother’s Day Denise . We are strong beyond belief, hugs 🌷💕
Happy mothers day! 👍❤️
Thanks Steve 🌷
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Thank you Liedy. I am so sorry that you had a mother that did not show you love. At 40, I told my mom that I knew she didn’t love me as my older sisters as I was not wanted, but that it was ok as I loved her enough for both of us. She was speechless. As I got older, we became really close. I moved mom in with me and she lived with me the last 3-1/2 yrs and we were so so close and we had so much fun. The best 3-1/2 yrs of my life was with my mom. Iam just like her and looking more and more like her. I promised when I had children, they would be able to be a kid. And I did just that with my only child. So, on Mother’s Day, I dedicate it to my precious mom who did the best she could when I was growing up. All the responsibilities that was put on me has made me the woman I am today and for that I am so grateful to my Mom. God is so good.
My mother was a horrible monster who took joy in causing her children emotional pain. We HAD to be married by 16, she said that's all the time she wanted to spend on us. I married at 16 to someone she picked out because she thought he had money that SHE could get thru me!! He beat the hell out of me for the next 2 years. As the violence accelerated, after he broke my nose and kicked me so hard he paralyzed my diaphragm, I told her was going to kill me. She said "well, you had better stop making him mad because you're not coming home!" I am now 74 and remember it all like it was yesterday!! No, we weren't all blessed with a loving mother. Some will NEVER recover completely from the abuse!!
Oh Marshia , I have no words , I hope you can find some peace and leave it in your past don’t let them another peace of you, enjoy your life change course . Hugs 🌷
@@liedyMc thank you Liedy, most people have fabulous Mothers who love them, you and I and many others didn't!! Like you said, Mother's Day is hard, but, for the most part, she rarely crosses my mind! Thank you for your response, it means a lot to me!❤
I totally understand. My mom and dad were divorced three times. Just found out a month ago that she married someone else for 6 months and I was conceived. Found out my biological father and he passed away in 2015. I have a half sister and brother.
How sad you never got to meet your biological Dad , I don’t think my sister ever got to meet hers either. We can’t change our past , just learn from them . Have a wonderful day 🌷
I hope I got this right that today is your birthday 🤞 Happy Birthday Liedy ❤💐
Yes it is , thank you Helen a lovely dinner tonight with my hubby.. 🌷💕
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Liedy Happy Mother's day ❤️👋
Thanks Joey , hug to Cathy spoil her 😉🌷
Thank you for your story & journey pulling yourself up. I’m finally learning in my long life the lesson from my fathers absence & my mother’s physical & psychological abuse. Is to allow myself to accept & trust that I could sincerely be loved by another human being. It’s not easy by any stretch of the imagination, I just feel it’s crucial for my heart & soul to heal & evolve. Aloha & Peace to all “MAKUAHINE” Hawaiian for Mother💜
Once I learned I deserved love and kindness.. I learned to love myself I had to save me .. once I started that journey I started to allow myself to walk away.. you are so right it’s not easy but absolutely critical to your wellbeing.. you are enough 🌷💕 MAKUAHINE I love that thank you for sharing that
@@liedyMc My pleasure, again thank you..
I'm sorry that your journey started out so horribly unloved, sad and afraid. You have grown to be a wonderful woman with a beautiful soul! You share your life and things you have learned or products you love and it helps others. You are a good person! What you experienced made you a great mother and the very opposite of who your mom was. She was so cruel and I wish some adult relative in your life or teacher took notice. I think a sad and a child who is afraid always stands out. I am looking forward to hearing more of the story especially hearing where was your dad during that time. There is just no excuse for what your mother. My story isn't the same as yours but Mother's Day is the worst day of the year for me as well. I didn't grow up in a loving home and yet some how I too, had to learn to love because of the way I grew up. My mom has passed on and I have forgiven the many times I wish I could have been loved. Mother's Day is the saddest day for me because my three sons are in heaven. They made me a mom and I loved them with all of my heart. I was their biggest fan and and I miss them more than words can say. If you have lost a child you re-live the day you lost them over and over again. It always hurts but on Mother's Day it hurts a little bit more. Blessings to you Liedy.
Darlene I wish I could give you a huge hug , I can’t even imagine losing one child let alone 3 I’m so sorry for your loss. I can completely understand that Mother day is an extremely difficult day . We all figure out way to survive don’t we . My Dad well , I know he loved me but not enough to stand up to my Mom, it seems from stories shared by different family members many could not stand up to her , very sad 🌷
Mamah is old but she looks beautiful and sexy
That’s wonderful, Happy Mother’s Day to your beautiful Mom 🌷