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being queer on reality tv with Kyra Green

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2024 ж. 9 Қаң.
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Reality TV veteran Kyra Green talks about navigating the heteronormative world of reality tv dating shows and creating representation where it didn't exist.
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  • “What’s your type?” *describes each other*

    @Kennedichris@Kennedichris3 ай бұрын

  • the way they described their types and it's just one another... y'all better shoot ur shot, the chemistry doesn't lie

    @th-bx6bq@th-bx6bq3 ай бұрын

    • That’s what I was thinking 😂 they literally described the other 🤨

      @leelee92022@leelee920223 ай бұрын

    • Shannon said she wants to enjoy being single in her previous episodes though

      @rpmmoth712@rpmmoth7123 ай бұрын

    • @@rpmmoth712 and that’s cool! Not because they both like women means they have to date lol. It was just interesting. And the flirtatious talk was fun to watch.

      @leelee92022@leelee920223 ай бұрын

    • Definitely do more episodes with her 🫶

      @yeseniacastillo39@yeseniacastillo393 ай бұрын

  • This is so flirty and I love it.

    @alexandralecce2517@alexandralecce25173 ай бұрын

  • I love that the demographic actually shows a bit older audience, it feels like we've grown together ❤

    @zairamacias5515@zairamacias55153 ай бұрын

    • 100% this!

      @tbarrios47@tbarrios473 ай бұрын

  • this friendship to lovers arc is going to hit

    @remmogopalagangwe3582@remmogopalagangwe35823 ай бұрын

  • I know Shannon needs to be single but they have killer chemistry together. Js. Really funny episode and banter. Shannon is adorable.

    @3Oh3metrostation@3Oh3metrostation3 ай бұрын

  • i have never ever heard someone say their dad is bisexual and has inspired them in their own journey. Like wow. You dad's truly a legend Kyra

    @movsess@movsess2 ай бұрын

  • I am 58. I wish there would have been something like this 40 years ago. Thank you for what you do.

    @amydavis6454@amydavis64543 ай бұрын

    • me too same

      @rosaguzzo1772@rosaguzzo17723 ай бұрын

  • You two have so much chemistry! & You seem similar to each other's type.... :)

    @rachaelrogers-stewart8158@rachaelrogers-stewart81583 ай бұрын

    • I thought the same! 😂

      @twenty2fire790@twenty2fire7903 ай бұрын

  • Why did I feel the butterflies in my stomach watching these two

    @elleking5657@elleking56573 ай бұрын

  • The current of electricity between the two of you is palpable. Stellar chemistry ❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥

    @aliay92@aliay923 ай бұрын

  • I absolutely loved this flirty vibe lol like we love this “older” lgbtq podcast. I love it sm

    @michellerbn@michellerbn3 ай бұрын

  • The amount of flirting 👀👀👀👀

    @meganaltieri1129@meganaltieri11293 ай бұрын

  • I love Shannon’s whole vibe.. she’s lowkey, confident and emotionally intelligent (of course beautiful too) ❤️🔥

    @mybrainismagiccity@mybrainismagiccity3 ай бұрын

  • I'm 62 and I, too, wish there was something like this when I was growing up. You are fantastic! Keep it up!

    @luannlouch9524@luannlouch95243 ай бұрын

  • You can say "totally " as many times as you need to. You are amazing and doing a wonderful job .

    @ashleylucas5877@ashleylucas58773 ай бұрын

  • I like your conversations with your guests. I also don't think you need to worry about how you talk (i.e., saying like, or totally) because you're still finding your rhythm with the podcast - so I hope you're not too hard on yourself. Besides - I think it makes it more casual and authentic. The format of your podcast (to me) makes me feel as a listener like I'm out for coffee with friends and I love it. I have ADHD and I'm often told I need to speak more 'eloquently', and sometimes that's fair but also I think that it can feel hurtful and encourages masking. Perhaps that's not your experience, but I just wanted to say that as a fan of the podcast, I don't need you to be 'eloquent', I just appreciate you for your authenticity

    @catherinechase9517@catherinechase95173 ай бұрын

  • It's been 10 years and we're still here. Just do your thing.

    @joe_now_here_@joe_now_here_3 ай бұрын

  • If you saw yourself thru our eyes you'd be less critical of yourself, you're talented and impressive, a lovely personality and a gorgeous voice to listen to. Always I joy to see your content, it's been so many years I've been following you now, and your content has always been quality.

    @Rikki.64@Rikki.643 ай бұрын

    • agreed

      @LewTurysta@LewTurysta3 ай бұрын

  • This was very fun! 🤣 and the chemistry was palpable! ⚡️😏

    @twenty2fire790@twenty2fire7903 ай бұрын

  • You do you, Shannon. You’re doing great! Love you!😘

    @debbiebeveridge1883@debbiebeveridge18833 ай бұрын

  • i was going to watch this anyway but kept procrastinating (bc that’s just me) and then i saw how people kept saying they had so much chemistry…so i just had to watch immediately. THEY WERE RIGHT. i loved this one. it was all over the place but in a good way. it was so cute and so much fun and yes there was A LOT of chemistry ✨

    @dizxbxdatazngrl@dizxbxdatazngrl3 ай бұрын

  • I love that Shannon had a whole format of questions prepared. She's doing so good!

    @3Oh3metrostation@3Oh3metrostation3 ай бұрын

  • Ya'll are freaking adorable together I really hope you went on a date after this ❤

    @electra424@electra4243 ай бұрын

  • Yooo this epi gave me such giggles, I love seeing this more open and goofy side of you Shannon!! + kyra’s vibe was infectious. The conversation flow did not disappoint. Ya doin marveloussss

    @meganbohlander9886@meganbohlander98863 ай бұрын

  • In Germany we have queer versions of the bachelor called 'Prince Charming' and 'Princess Charming'. Only issue they have there is that because the contestants spend more time in the villa with all the other queer men or women, they have to film the whole show faster than the Bachelor so that not too many couples form between the contestants. Despite that, there is always one couple forming between contestants and everyone is always rooting for them the most. So happy to live at a time, where there is representation in mainstream media

    @Kim-nn8jo@Kim-nn8jo3 ай бұрын

  • Need part 2.. i keep rewatching this

    @AbeerMitchell99@AbeerMitchell993 ай бұрын

  • i love love seeing notifications from you. it’s amazing to have you back shan

    @ang9832@ang98323 ай бұрын

  • Been following since tumblr days, 26 now been out for 6 years and I will always thank you for giving me the courage to come out when I did. I dont know if I would have done it without the support of your videos. Thank you for being you Shannon! So cool to see you continuing to kill it!

    @jadegalle1358@jadegalle13583 ай бұрын

  • i would love to hear some solo episodes mixed in with guests! :)

    @daniellepasekoff7331@daniellepasekoff73313 ай бұрын

    • yes!!!

      @tiliaevm@tiliaevm3 ай бұрын

  • I love the solo content but I think we’ve learned so much about you, having real conversations with another person these past few podcasts!!

    @courtneykril225@courtneykril2253 ай бұрын

  • It cuts of at 39:25 until 40:00. It spooked me

    @valentinalamotacruz9277@valentinalamotacruz92773 ай бұрын

  • OMG this is probably my favorite episode yet❤️

    @isabeauhvitstein2820@isabeauhvitstein28203 ай бұрын

  • I absolutely love this episode! Shannon I love your personality and love that you’re yourself and not pretending to be someone else. Keeping on doing what you’re doing.

    @sheenastevens1230@sheenastevens12303 ай бұрын

  • Great conversation and love y’all’s dynamic 🥰

    @hmmcms1@hmmcms13 ай бұрын

  • I am 62 and I love your show! As an earlier comment, I wish we had this type of knowledge so many years ago! Thanks for being a role model for all the young queer women😊

    @mollywhaley9676@mollywhaley96763 ай бұрын

  • Okay but I love the energy you both share with each other ??? It's insane 😍

    @frangipaneee3715@frangipaneee37153 ай бұрын

  • This episode was really interesting, I loved the chemistry you two have, good job!!🫶🏻

    @leylaali3635@leylaali36353 ай бұрын

  • I haven’t finished this episode just the first few minutes and I just wanted to say you seem very kind and thoughtful. Keep doing what you’re doing. Love the podcast! Thanks for sharing.

    @melaniem1702@melaniem17023 ай бұрын

  • omg I thought I was a total freak for almost exclusively watching gay male porn as a bisexual woman. Lesbian porn is a close second, but straight porn just doesn't do it for me for some reason even though I enjoy having sex with men. I thought there was something wrong with me!! Thank you Shannon for saying that and not editing it out I feel sooo much better about it now!!!

    @electra424@electra4243 ай бұрын

    • Very normal actually which I don't necessarily understand totally but I used to watch it for а bit and I'm so gay love women, only want to be w women. I find men physically attractive but don't want to sleep ш them. But yeah idk if it was just the taboo of it or the fact that I'd never seen two men together but it was а turn on.. I felt weird and confused about it but yeah found out it wasn't uncommon!

      @LaLaLaLaLa8237@LaLaLaLaLa82373 ай бұрын

    • Watching gay porn does seem to be a thing that women who love women enjoy. I am as gay as could be, but there was a long period when I almost exclusively watched gay porn. I think queer women look for authenticity and two men doing it seems more believable since their passion appears very genuine and oftentimes, quite palpable and intense. I believe so much of lesbian porn is made for the male gaze, directed by men, and feels too staged. Not to say that's always the case, but it feels true most of the time. Plus, my arousal was always increased for feeling sorta "wrong" for liking it. So yeah, I think women are much quicker to see performative porn and be turned off, hence why it's a common thing for us to watch guy on guy porn.

      @Toni-cm2dv@Toni-cm2dv3 ай бұрын

    • Lesbian here that also only likes gay male porn! I cannot believe how many of us are out there. I feel sooooo much less weird hahahah

      @whodis2792@whodis27923 ай бұрын

    • ​@@Toni-cm2dvYou just described my experience with porn. I just can't watch people fake having sex, and it's common that it feels more natural with two men.

      @s.r.3738@s.r.37383 ай бұрын

    • @@s.r.3738 Exactly! I always turn it off and am turned off when it looks and sounds staged and/or fake.

      @Toni-cm2dv@Toni-cm2dv3 ай бұрын

  • No complaints. This is exactly what I needed. Its so nice to have more representation and queer topics explored.

    @breannakrippner5992@breannakrippner59923 ай бұрын

  • This episode is soo good!! I enjoyed watching you

    @pauline5694@pauline56943 ай бұрын

  • Shannon you’re doing an amazing job. I’m loving each episode more and more. My personal opinion is you don’t need to have any of your ex’s on. This is your story to tell and your guests stories to tell and that’s interesting enough. All of your guest’s have been very intriguing and you’re really good at getting the stories and keeping a great conversation flow with the questions you ask. No need to messy it up because it’s perfect just the way it is. This is your own thing and you’ve found your voice again and do it in a respectful way. Nothing you have said has been disrespectful so keep your head up and don’t let anyone dim your light ever again. Proud of you and you should be proud of yourself. Thank you for all that you have done for hundreds of thousands of us through the years. Can’t wait for the next one 🤍

    @nicolette329@nicolette3293 ай бұрын

  • Watching u and your following grow has been unreal! Best episode so far, and not to sound cliche but there’s something there whether u act on it or not 😍

    @anoceanaway6194@anoceanaway61943 ай бұрын

  • First day back in the office after wfh for a couple weeks, was waiting for this!!

    @hmmcms1@hmmcms13 ай бұрын

  • I love this ❤ !!! I’m really enjoying this podcast. Keep it going 🎉

    @ToriAlainaGonzales@ToriAlainaGonzales3 ай бұрын

  • I always had a "no virgins" kind of rule because I didn't want the pressure of being someone's first time and then them being like "jk. girls aren't for me" so I kind of get not wanting to be with someone who isn't super confident in their sexuality. I did however, realize about 2 months after having sex w/ my gf that I was her first *everything* and we're still together 5 years later, so I guess it worked out

    @smkilmer95@smkilmer953 ай бұрын

  • SHANNON, you’re doing great sweetie. i’m learning a shit ton from you & it’s so real how open you are already. that being said, don’t change what you are not comfortable sharing just for other people’s sake.

    @oliviaalongi8294@oliviaalongi82943 ай бұрын

  • Thanks for another great podcast! Heads up, it freezes for a little bit at the 39 minute mark.

    @lizwolter560@lizwolter5603 ай бұрын

  • I think so far this episode has been my fav structure wise, like every conversation felt adequately explored and it all flowed well! Side note you look so good in gray

    @tenzero5274@tenzero52743 ай бұрын

    • Couldn’t agree more

      @saramcke@saramcke3 ай бұрын

  • Great as usual Shannon!!😊 Kyra I loved you on the Challenge❤ So interesting to hear about your dad, Kyra. My parents actually divorced when I was 3 because my dad realized, or at least felt able to be true to himself and his feelings. Not the same, I know, but I love the relationship you two have, and I think he seems pretty amazing! Oh yeah and as for you two, Y'all really do have some awesome flirty chemistry!!

    @megshogie6123@megshogie61233 ай бұрын

  • I'm in my early 40's & I LOVE your videos! I'm what you call "a Late in life Lesbian".(I was raised in a very small religious community) I LOVE your honesty & how down to earth you are on your topics. My problem is where to meet friends or a potential girlfriend if you live in a small town & everyone is straight.

    @carmeliaoquinn2441@carmeliaoquinn24413 ай бұрын

  • Loving the content

    @lmRed-@lmRed-3 ай бұрын

  • Shannon this podcast is so good!! Having so much fun listening to it. I know many people have already said it in the comments, but you're doing a great job and some people were too harsh in their feedback, so don't listen to them. Looking forward to the next episode!

    @CassidyQuinn@CassidyQuinn3 ай бұрын

  • Such a giggly episode haha. Loved this one.

    @I_Couldnt_Think_Of_A_Username@I_Couldnt_Think_Of_A_Username3 ай бұрын

  • You are doing a great job so far. It has been really entertaining and I find myself waiting for the next episode. I love that you have other queer people on, I love hearing other perspectives, and super happy you are doing this. I love an all queer podcast. Super interesting topics! I appreciate you doing this :)

    @33mand@33mand3 ай бұрын

    • Agreed. I was really excited when I realized it was Wednesday! The guests so far have been super interesting and Shannon is doing so well at hosting.

      @3Oh3metrostation@3Oh3metrostation3 ай бұрын

  • Love this episode ❤️

    @natashamw@natashamw3 ай бұрын

  • This was my fave so far!! I saw that avalon young won in her jubilee skateboard video ;) you should interview her next

    @qtlas992@qtlas9923 ай бұрын

  • I love this episode sooo much!

    @emmahudson4931@emmahudson49312 ай бұрын

  • okay but the way Shannon slowly starts to turn more towards Kyra throughout the episode 👀 loved watching this one, y’all have great chemistry together!

    @jessicachillihitzia2651@jessicachillihitzia2651Ай бұрын

  • THE CHEMISTRY….favorite episode so far. flow is the best part of conversation & u also kept it on track perfect with the questions. i felt the sexual tension.

    @oliviaalongi8294@oliviaalongi82943 ай бұрын

  • In the UK there's a gay love island called I kissed a boy (it was so good THE LOVE TRIANGLES WERE INSANE and so many interesting convos about coming out with religious families or having girlfriends in the past e.g. one guy was mormon and had his first kiss on the show). This year they're releasing I kissed a girl and I'm SO EXCITED!!!

    @gabriellastern3382@gabriellastern33822 ай бұрын

    • AAAHHh I need to get a vpn in what this!!!

      @Raddiebaddie@RaddiebaddieАй бұрын

  • ✨ manifesting that they will collab again✨

    @XXWINX397@XXWINX3973 ай бұрын

  • Another awesome interview! I love how easily you vibe together 😊There is a bisexual bachelorette Australia from 2021 that was pretty great 😊 would be happy to have many more with Kyra being in it or hosting and you being in it or hosting too Shannon 🤗💙

    @gemmalittle6206@gemmalittle62063 ай бұрын

  • I hope you can find peace in not placing too much pressure on yourself. It always helps to remember that this podcast should provide as much enrichment for you as it does for us. Have an adventure with it, as I can't imagine the courage it must takes to host, grateful to be included as viewer :)

    @intrepid_astronaut@intrepid_astronaut3 ай бұрын

  • It's ok to take your time into figuring things out, it's a learning process. Sometimes I think you've been saying this in your videos for a long time, but you still have trouble in applying it to yourself. A thing I love about what you do is that you keep the quirks of working things out and dealing with stuff in the videos and don't keep them hidden. I heard your voice crack up in the beginning a few times. Some hugs felt required. Don't worry about getting things perfectly. Sometimes those imperfections hit a chord much more that a "perfect" version would. You mirror a lot of shit in us about simply being human even before you even start debating a topic.

    @andreeaadn@andreeaadn3 ай бұрын

  • I always support you! It doesn't matter what you do or how you do it Let go of the burden and do whatever you want comfortably. All I want to see is you happy in the video.❤

    @Alisonkim_ju@Alisonkim_ju3 ай бұрын

  • Great episode!

    @user-vo3ou6bh9s@user-vo3ou6bh9s3 ай бұрын

  • 40:06 "I want whatever you want" lmao true ppl pleaser 😂😂

    @3Oh3metrostation@3Oh3metrostation3 ай бұрын

  • pooor i hear like your voice is shaking, you are doing good!! love your podcast

    @sanwyp221@sanwyp2213 ай бұрын

  • Lmao I loved the “do you know think I’m bald”😂 I laughed so hard

    @mskhloe2ukg@mskhloe2ukg3 ай бұрын

  • You mentioned editing 1.5hrs of footage down to 1 hour for the podcast, but please don't feel the need to over-edit it! I can definitely see the youtube editing mindset in the way you're editing these videos, but don't worry about editing every pause or "um" "like" etc.! Even in your opening I noticed so many quick jump cuts within a single sentence, but this is a podcast! It doesn't need to be fast-paced or pithy, and we WANT to hear the conversations as they happen (with the exception of anything you don't want on the internet, of course). You could release the videos without any edits at all and most of us would be perfectly happy. Love the podcast!!

    @LlamaLlamaRedPajamas@LlamaLlamaRedPajamas3 ай бұрын

  • Loveeeeee Kyra and Shannon 🎉🎉

    @nanaekuasomuah5140@nanaekuasomuah51403 ай бұрын

  • Good episode ❤

    @Julie_ao@Julie_ao3 ай бұрын

  • Keep doing what brings you joy Shannon! Don't listen too much to what other people say or want. You can't please everyone so you might as well please yourself. No puns intended 😂 I've been here since the 'beginning' (I basically realized I was gay because of you and Cammie 😂) and yes this is different but our lives are also different. I love these different stages and you don't have to keep making the same content just because people expect you to. You grew during these years and this is who you are now and that is 100% okay! Love to see you back on youtube ❤️

    @michelleengelberts@michelleengelberts3 ай бұрын

    • This is such a great advice! I wholeheartedly second this!

      @user-yt5cd7bd5s@user-yt5cd7bd5s3 ай бұрын

  • This episode is just 66 minutes and 39 seconds of flirty banter. I love queer women 😂

    @marimar4756@marimar47563 ай бұрын

  • Yeees longer episodes!! :D

    @LewTurysta@LewTurysta3 ай бұрын

  • Omg Shannon your amazing & just keep being you ❤️you & whatever you do👏👏👏💯❣️ and love this episode so good you both were so funny and can’t wait to follow KYRA and listen to her podcast💯❣️🫶🫶

    @Amy-zp1qf@Amy-zp1qf3 ай бұрын

  • Shannon I love you. You have the right to say whatever you want, You have the right to say all you want, you stood in silence for years while songs were written about you

    @pottertardis9706@pottertardis97063 ай бұрын

  • We have something like a queer/lesbian bachelor TV Show in Germany, it´s called "Princess Charming" and I can absolutly recommend it! It even got the German Television Price (category : Entertainment). So much representation and also deep talks and subjects - and many love stories, not only with the Princess... :D Hope that it will find it´s way to the US! Btw love this episode!

    @alinaehm5753@alinaehm57533 ай бұрын

  • the roses next pls and thank you

    @Slaytron69@Slaytron693 ай бұрын

  • Shannon not knowing jubilee has shocked me lol. Shannon you could go on it girly pop!!!!

    @kokoschultz@kokoschultz3 ай бұрын

  • Yasss diversity! We love to see queer POC

    @1412souki@1412souki3 ай бұрын

  • Shannon, Shannon, Shannon! I’m making my way slowly through your podcast eps. & when I tell ya, this ep was smoooth 😏 the energy you both bring is 💯 & it’s still great seeing a queer woman of colour. Don’t see women of colour enough

    @asha7085@asha708513 күн бұрын

  • loved this :) Kyra is definitely my type lol

    @gingersnapppp@gingersnapppp3 ай бұрын

  • The sound quality etc doesn’t bother me at all. Something I absolutely love though is that this podcast is obviously aimed more towards grown women, which isn’t something that is easy to find imo. I’m 35 and really enjoying it. Thanks for the effort you put in ❤

    @Sparky34258@Sparky342583 ай бұрын

  • are you aware of the german show "princess charming"? It's basically the lesbian bachelorette.

    @aprilayres3027@aprilayres30273 ай бұрын

    • The girl from the first season ( irina) looks exactly like her

      @reeseandrea5726@reeseandrea57263 ай бұрын

    • Germany is accepting like that?🥹 as someone with German heritage that makes my heart sing.

      @cq9722@cq97223 ай бұрын

  • Omg this podcast is so helpful you are so good and wonderful at this thank you for doing this 🫶🏻

    @ariadnik222@ariadnik2223 ай бұрын

  • I keep saying to every episode….. I love this one….and then the next….and the next….and the next! Keep doing what you feel cause it is definitely working! Faneffingtastic!

    @user-hg4js6uk7e@user-hg4js6uk7e3 ай бұрын

  • love to see the Brockton Haunt rep

    @wanttogotoengland@wanttogotoengland3 ай бұрын

  • 🕯*Gay dating show with Shannon as the producer and Kyra as the host* 🕯

    @3Oh3metrostation@3Oh3metrostation3 ай бұрын

  • Love the chemistry! Also we do have a dating show just for the queers in Germany. Princess Charming and Prince Charming, would be great for the US, too.

    @MyAnika92@MyAnika923 ай бұрын

  • watch the german sapphic dating show Princess Charming, the first season was really good

    @ninreck5121@ninreck51212 ай бұрын

  • at 39:24 the video is frozen until 39:59!!!! Just to let you know. Very happy for your podcast (:

    @delciajule@delciajule3 ай бұрын

  • I love you Shannon ❤❤❤

    @amycitrus5769@amycitrus57693 ай бұрын

  • This one was so funny!

    @LucyLeigut@LucyLeigut3 ай бұрын

  • this had me giggling and kicking my feet pls do more videos together until you inevitably fall in love

    @simma264@simma2643 ай бұрын

  • WHO CARES IF YOU SAY “TOTALLY” OR “LIKE”. It’s just how you speak, that’s not valid criticism.

    @Startwearingblack@Startwearingblack3 ай бұрын

  • 🙏manifesting that they will collab again🙏

    @XXWINX397@XXWINX3973 ай бұрын

  • I ABSOLUTELY want a lesbian bachelor show!!! I’ve never cared to watch a single episode before, but I wouldn’t miss an episode if it was all women! 😍

    @cq9722@cq97223 ай бұрын
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