Esther Perel on the Art of Relationship Expectations
2024 ж. 22 Мам.
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"You need a space for belonging, and a space for becoming." Wow! So simply put yet profound.
This needs more views. Esther Perel is such a gift. I looooove her work. I recommend to all my clients her books, talks, a podcast. Thank yo u for all the work you do.
Listening to Esther fills me with pleasure. She articulates a philosophy of love and relationships with depth and insight. She is an agile and original intellectual thinker, skilled with ideas, precise with vocabulary, and a keen observer of human nature. Her enormous cultural capital and broad cross-cultural experience, including fluency in many languages other than English, enhance the perspective with which she expresses herself.
Cycles of relationships Harmony-Disharmony-Repair Passion-Dissolution-Reconnection
Ok, so I feel like there are layers upon layers of text and sub-text to everything she says. I mean, it's just so DENSE, what comes out of her mouth! Many people have one layer of context filled with a lot of "like", "I mean", "you know", interjected with another context, etc. Her words are often concise and on singular theme. When she moves on to another theme, it often doesn't deviate from it, and this I find refreshing and inspiring. I can't even carry on a conversation in that fashion let alone give a talk in front of people.
35 years in 1 profession, she’s written books, she keynotes, and consults for major organizations. When she reminded the host of the cofounders topic, it becomes obvious that they had a list of topics to discuss so she’s well-rehearsed and an expert in her art form.
Brililant as ever 🙌
Awesome as always. Love her.
Esther is the best! X
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Esther is Dynamic ✨✨✨a priceless gift of insight, clarity and knowledge. One of my top Talks I’ve listened to, I’m going to share this with many, it’s so important, I want my sons to hear this……This wisdom brings tears for all that I did not understand nor know…hits your core when you lost your marriage for not knowing or having this insight, not lack of desire or like, not having the tools and knowledge, no excuses I can own every ounce of my ugly part, certainly accountable , 100% have worked on myself and grown to understand things I did not, even in this talk…. it’s given me more compassion and love strange enough…. I believed in us, in him still do….. Your Podcast is a brilliant way to help others….it’s real life… my reality is just keep growing, it never ends, certainly never grow up, there’s to much fun to have in life, even the simplicity in your day, you nailed so much in this talk, it’s amazing….Esther your a Jewel…….Thank you both so much for sharing🌸🙏Extremely Grateful
Thank you so much. We all need more of this.
Esther always helps me understand 🙌🏽💛
Awesome!
wonderful energy info and realisation , Esther is a wonderful experienced channel
Queen
I honour Esther
I can’t believe the interviewer asked how we can talk about emotions, admittedly she said in the work place, but is it not universal... If there was any tell tale sign as to where we are on the communication scale in society, in any type of relationship, that was it.
(thank you)
I believe there would be more views/comments if the audio were better
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The interviewer is quite bad, she is only reading the checklist of the questions, doesnt show any reflect feedback or just some of human sympathy =))
So agree with you there. She seems unprepared
Totally agree.. I’ve seen so many other amazing interviewers who actually engage the guest and *connect* with them through feedback and validation etc. in fact, Esther had to ask “does that make sense?” Just to get some feedback! How sad.. :(
I disagree.
Where did they even get her from? Its like they pulled her off the street and said hey, wana do an interview. What a waste of Esthers time.
Maybe she’s just starting out. I don’t think she’s terrible, just nervous and possible a little inexperienced.
The normal expectations will be …..NO ABUSE of ANY TYPE ….NO to sex outside the marriage …NO to a TONS of stuff that are TOXIC . I call this normal expectations .Don’t marry if you need to be/ feel free .
If someone laid out a list like that in Esther’s podcast, they’d get a reality check real quick.
To all men: Never marry a career woman. You will regret it sooner or later. She will love and amdire her career, her boss and her success more than the relationship with you. It is always a ticking timeb*mb. Do not invest in that kind of relationship.
This woman has a background in art, not therapy. Maybe ask her how long she was actually practicing therapy - it's not 35 years. She waffles on with so much irrelevant information, and what is relevant is obvious to all of us - none of this is groundbreaking. Just because the dating landscape has changed, doesn't mean it's for the better. We are living in a world of narcissism right now, and we don't need more compromising of our morals and ethics when it comes to intimate relationships. I argue that she promotes and even encourages polygamy in relationships as well, and the way in which it is pushed in her books is nothing short of negligent. Lastly, psychotherapy is not backed by science, and they aren't taught anything about trauma, but only skim over the basics of the brain and nervous system. People like her are literally re-traumatising people by making victim-blaming blanket statements that are in favour of abusers. Every couple I've ever met that has subscribed her her nonsense, there is always one extremely selfish partner that cheats, and the other is expected to accept it and have an open relationship even when it goes against their values - all because this stupid woman says it's okay.
Sounds like your comment comes from a place of hurt 😔