Outliers: Why Some People Succeed and Some Don't
2016 ж. 5 Қыр.
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Outliers is a book about success. It starts with a very simple question: what is the difference between those who do something special with their lives and everyone else? In Outliers we're going to visit a genius who lives on a horse farm in Northern Missouri. We're going to examine the bizarre histories of professional hockey players and look into the peculiar childhood of Bill Gates and spend time in a Chinese rice paddy. We will investigate the world's greatest law firm and wonder about what distinguishes pilots who crash planes from those who don't. And in examining the lives of the remarkable among us-the brilliant, the exceptional and the unusual-we will learn that the way we think about success is all wrong.
I had a classmate at uni, who I always felt was just too intelligent to succeed within the rules of the university life and even later on. He was very cynical, funny in a very dark way, sometimes pretentious, arrogant and annoying, but definitely one of the smartest people I knew at the time. After I had graduated, I found out he worked in a deli at a local supermarket and did not graduate. I was stunned. I have always felt like he could examinate the teachers. But I didn't feel like he had failed. I have alwas felt that the uni had failed him. It was a pleasure to discuss the materials with him, to argue with him, to exchange views, to be exasperated with him. He always read the materials we were supposed to and a little extra on top of that. Now, two people, who would always ask us what the books we were supposed to read were about and who were largely quiet during the seminars and when they spoke, the lecturer could not help but roll their eyes, went on to do their PhDs. I guess they are respected academics now. I will never stop being baffled by that. I guess some people are too smart and true to themselves to succeed in the fake world of human society.
Probably untreated depression
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@@ataarono probably, im the same way, i self medicate with heroin. i used to used the common anti--depressants and anit-anxiety medicines, but the world is sick when u really open up and realize it and realize how many of these other countries are and then see how the "higher society" acts compared to the "poor man" or "lower society" people who tend to be more loyal as the rich lives evolve around lots of smoking mirrors. Some of us have the ability to blend, but sooner or later u just end up getting sick of pretending just to blend in
@@ASimpleHeroinUser hmm self medication with drugs, SSRI anti depressants are counter productive and you feel society is demanding too much of a facade. I think you might have undiagnosed ADHD with comorbid depressive episodes and comorbid ODD. Have you ever considered having ADHD?
I felt like you knew me reading.. I don't know who you were talking about. But thank you for being aware enough to see that in someone & expressing it. Means a lot & gives me hope.
Poverty can also involve the lack of moral support. The lack of someone in the household to help the child envision the possibilities of a brighter future can not be underestimated. Some kids are trapped in homes where adults drum into their heads that they can't become anything positive in life.
So very true!
Spot on! I came from a working class background with 2 alcoholic parents who’s biggest aspiration for me was to be a sanitation worker because... it was a solid job from the city - not a doctor, a lawyer or anything related to a college education. It was a struggle to say the least. I put myself through my first year of community college by saving. To this day, I still struggle internally with a lot of my parent's “decisions“. It can be very difficult for a child in a position like mine because many people around you are jealous if you try to pursue a better life. You’ll hear the phrase: “You think you’re better than me?“ Sadly, you hear that phrase a lot with people who are stuck. (Not to get political, but I’ve heard that phrase a lot from Trump supporters.) Allowing a child to flourish with encouragement is probably the single most important factor for anyone’s life.
is it more of too poor or too rich? I see how too poor can affect a child's moral and potential in life but I also see it in rich children as well. No motivation and too rich to want to do anything.
@@houdinididiit You are to be commended for envisioning more for yourself and making it happen. I, for one, applaud your success.
@@houdinididiit your problem wasn't poverty, it was shit parents. Ben Carson, Walter E. Williams, Thomas Sowell all came from poverty.
"Success is not measured in dollars or social status. Success is measured in quality of life." Those are the most important words I heard in my life...probably. A college professor, who was a recovered workaholic, said this on the last day of class. It had a major impact on my career and work life balance. The only thing anyone needs to achieve is a life that is fulfilling. That is different for each individual person. Some people can live in peaceful bliss without achieving anything in the public eye. Some people think they are winning when they are actually losing in life. Those of us who know, know. We know because we are not miserable, we are not stressed, we are happy.
This is kind of a shallow argument though. Most people are fully aware that the paper or the social indicators are not the success itself. They are just indicators and tools. Sort of like how most people are fully aware that plumbing and door hinges aren't a house, and its entirely possible to build one with neither. But they are pretty common features of houses.
@@homelessrobot You've met most people? Cool beans
@@gregoriusmike "Most people I have met" then. Another shallow argument. "You haven't met most people, so you cannot say anything about how people think and behave in general" Yeah OK.
Capitalise... that's all.
Success is a feeling.
What a time to be alive and have access to this type of lectures, i barely have an high school diploma Im so lucky to be ale to watch this
Now go watch Gary vee
I was denied a high school diploma when I returned from a senior year in England. I got a Master’s Degree in spite of it. Open admission to community colleges is a good idea. I had a very successful and enjoyable career as an elementary school teacher. Great memories.
Or you could just buy the book.
because your definition of success is "college" or "university" what about these guys: 1. has barely finished high school. Now he works on buildings and drives $70,000 in a BMWx6 2. Graduated high school, dropped out of college, drives a Porsche and has several apartments 3. has a secondary vocational school and now employs about 20 people 4. For all of the above, people with a college education are working, and the top success will be to pay off the apartment in 30 years
It's right that we define success as professional success or some form of societal achievement which comes with a degree of wealth.. And it's right that this should be main life lesson. The lesson of life is not all about success but happiness should also be included but not as your main theme as it may end up as an excuse for not living a fulfilling life.
What I got from this is that perseverance is one of the greatest skills you can develop
True, also having an open mind and constantly asking questions
@@martinm6108 9ooooooooooooooooooooooooopo
Psychologist Angela Duckworth named this grit, the most powerful success factor based on her evidence based study.
I feel like this really points out how important it is to know what resources you have available to you in any given situation and to actually utilize them. Perseverance can be one of the biggest factors overall though, I'm sure.
Watch the long version of the video documentary called, 'FALSE GODS OF OUR TIME' by Jeremiah Films.
"...you learn to problem-solve, because your life is one big problem". Man. Felt that
jordan peterson said it, but in his way "Be humble enough to understand that if you can't order your own life, you shouldn't be trying to order anything more complicated than that."
Only time in life we don’t have a problem is when we’re in crisis‼️
“Necessity is the mother of invention”
You are absolutely right! The reading and writing skills are important. But, problem-solving skills are essential.
In life, I was always bad at reading comprehension, good at math, poor memory for what I wasn't interested in ... so welcome to abcd tests! I had to problem solve. So...yes, our negatives help us sometimes. Now mine aren't crazy emotionally driven (although, they could be if I really dwell on them). But...life goes on, so we gotta adapt, and change, and figure things out even more...and sometimes, in my problem solving brain, letting go and just looking for beauty and positives, brings me happiness...lately, I had this idea, popped in my head today...if you are on a plane and it's unfortunately one of the few that's going down...and you know you're done for and this is the last few seconds...who do you wish was sitting next to you? Now...think for a quick second...how do we become that person that we are sitting next to? It transcends everything...we're all here together, and cheering each other up and being there for others is where it's at. This idea that we need to figure out how to be happy is great too...but if we can bring happiness to others in the process, that is something.
0:05:05 sources of constraints 0:05:25 #1 poverty 0:10:12 #2 stupidity (skewed distribution of birthdays/biological maturity in sports & education) 0:17:52 #3 attitude 0:23:00 theory on differences 0:26:39 importance of capitalization constraints 0:30:05 questions
In Genesis GOD said "let there be light " & There you are .!!!! 🌎 🌏 🌐 🌍 🌎 🌏 🌐
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How gracious of you. Thanks!
Thank you
Clarification, the stupidity referenced, is an inbuilt stupidity of the system rather than of the students.
"Persistence and determination are critical components of success" I love that statement, this guy is a thinker of note!!!
you watch everything on tv 24/7 don't act like it took. more than a 4 months old boys penis to capture your entire motheers an. childrens families lineage
@@pabloherrera7210 dislike cause dumb.
Yeah, gee, I never would have guessed that persistence and determination were important to success. I figured successful people sit around playing video games until there's a knock at the door.
I was able to earn my Bachelor’s degree after having 6 children, being a high school dropout and having low self confidence. I just persisted and really wanted it. Also, success is different for everyone. We all have losses, failures and successes. To me , success is growing and being responsible. And in giving oneself the same grace we give to others.
@@veronicaherrera7586 Your reasoning is excellent and so is your accomplishment, well done Veronica. Your children must be proud of you. More people like you and we can all look forward to a better future.
I deleted social media apps off my phone and decided to watch talks about personal growth or issues in close proximity such as this. I never knew a lecture could be this entertaining and educative! I'm only going to have 2 hours sleep before hitting the ole assembly line in the morning, but it was totally worth it.
What a proactive and wise decision, bravo! Unfortunately for my line of work I must use social media. It is however a curse and a huge drain of energy that could be spent on self improvement. Like you are doing.
@@corneliusparkin2401 then change it, go hustle
He's an excellent lecturer and an amazing intellect.
Don't sleep on sleep! It's crucial
@@Sadvey ok but if you are a musician you have NO choice
I heard a Japanese say: “Discipline will sooner or later defeat intelligence”
@@jazmine9570 it is actually
intelligence and discipline together 👌
Its also sad to note that most intelligent people don't want to get their hands dirty😄
Wisdom will defeat discipline n intelligence combined- e.g.King Solomon
@@robertamoyaw1979 CHUCK NORRIS DEfeats everything. Case closed. Checkmated.
I have Dyslexia, ADHD, and Type 2 Bipolar and I recently got accepted into Johns Hopkins for an MS. I was in special education from 1st to 10th grade. I barely got into my undergraduate at the University of Idaho but when I started my classes I can honestly say I felt like I was at war to keep up with every person there. I graduated with a GPA of 3.72 with undergraduate research experience. I grow up in a low-income household too.
I am having to fight the same war too. With a cGPA of 2.0, I gotta get myself out of probation. I have no other choice but to study as efficiently as I can. I am and still an avid stutterer since 2nd grade.
You were gifted one of most important assets for succeeding in life- Tenacity. You never gave up.. You refused to fail. You never gave up and did let your "disabilities" interfere with your desire to succeed. I am blessed with ADHD which actually can be great asset because I process solutions very quickly. The only problem is that sometimes people cannot understand how I got to the solution. You were accepted into an incredible school. You have been blessed by Heavenly Father to help in others you did with your research paper
@@wannabe_Hacker have you ever had any experience with acting? I had a horrible stutter around k-2nd grade but the very first time I was put on camera (I was supposed to speak for a doll I held in my hand), I think it may have been that I was lending my voice to a personality that was not my own but the first time I spoke to the camera was literally the last time I stuttered. I can't imagine it's a fool proof fix but it couldn't hurt to try 🤟
@@wannabe_Hacker one more small piece of advice from someone who also had problems learning in school: do you read for pleasure? if not I highly recommend finding a series of books on a subject that holds great interest to you and that has no other practical use. your brain is a muscle. if you use it in the pursuit of pure enjoyment it will get so much stronger so much faster than struggling to get by because you must. that route is uphill in all directions in a dang blizzard! have you read Harry Potter? it might be the perfect thing... assuming you can get into the story. best of luck to you 🙌💙🙌
@@marpafranzoni9536 James Earl Jones (voice of Darth Vader in Star Wars) advised the same successful strategy. Thank you for sharing, I love to see people win! ✊🏽❤️⚡️🙏🏽
It's interesting how a relatively quiet and serious talker can captivate a packed room with just his intellectual ideas. I didn't hear people coughing, having side discussions, shuffling papers, anything. They were sitting on the floor in the front, leaning against the wall in the back, and everybody was silent, listening.
They are Microsoft employees, so they are pre-screened for ability to pay attention, conform to expectations, engage in intellectual curiousity. Also, they are "on the clock" at work, and being viewed by their peers.
@@Allen2 interesting. Tks
@@Allen2 Kind of a pessimistic view. Successful people are naturally more curious and are driven to up their games. Granted, peer pressure is a factor.
@@Allen2 100% assured that they are being evaluated as well
Those people are already the top, they know how to behave and the talk was marvelous anyway.
I love this phase of him: "When it comes to poverty, we underestimate how powerful constraint it is."
Exactly, and like he said its even harder for someone who never experienced it to understand how powerful it is. Thus, the people who never lived in poverty are the intellectuals who go on to write and discuss the role of poverty in success. All the while not knowing what a profound impact poverty has on success. its fascinating really.
yes yesyes provide internships, give all decent healthcare. If my brain is screwed, no rx drugs, no roof, you will use more. All humans have to have basic needs. Im 72, white, part of the 80%. Doesn't mean I haven't used to get high, speaking for this bag of goo, drugs work and it was fun. But I knew to escape poverty look up Kensington Allegheny, Phila. My neighborhood. I had to work hard, even when I didn't to
Or in my case what a powerful motivator it is.
@@networth8754 we get it. your badass
@@gregd.6920 As much as I think the words "lived experience" are lame, it is an extremely important concept, and I think it should be a requirement for any kind of civil service job.
Poor families = Higher childhood trauma. I do not understand why people are so afraid to say that is the case. Probably people with lots of money who don't want to feel entitled.
Yeah, this is common. But for some reason, as someone who comes from a rich (not so rich anymore) family, I, as well as my father’s side growing up had lots of childhood trauma, and many of the families of the friends my brother and I have and had were also toxic, well-off families with very dark secrets and this is part of the reason why I can’t take those Netflix TV shows about rich families with dark secrets seriously because they dramatize the shit out of them with things that are hardly even close to what reality holds and reality is unfortunately much darker. Sometimes you wonder why you have the friends you do, and often times it’s because of shared trauma and socioeconomic factors. Well, we had a bit of both. And to contrast your last sentence, I can understand why people would take one look at me and my family and assume everything is perfect, but no one would understand if I were to explain any kind of stress I’m experiencing due to the power the illusion of having money holds over our world today. Rich family ≠ safe or healthy. Power is dangerous in the wrong hands
When you realize what you just said it becomes even more obvious that culture and knowledge is gonna save us
Parents with money tend to shelter their children from the realities of life , and most of the time , when these realities of Life come knocking , these poor kids are ill-prepared to deal with them. That kind of trauma can be very hard to deal with.
@@robertamoyaw1979 I really wouldn’t say it’s naivety in my case. All of us are pretty well-seasoned, well-rounded for life. It’s the emotional component that’s lacking. You could almost say it’s too extreme for the level of superficiality of the subject matter. I think also, we don’t care about the same things as others and that skews our perceptions about what values to have in life. It can really turn a good person into a not so good one.
@@2322zelda Yes it can , n at that point a person has to decide what kind of person they want to be. It's our FREE WILL AS HUMANS , we just have to make that decision n go for it 🙂
Persistence, ambition, patience and being able to listen are things nobody teaches you. You either have them or you have to work hard to teach them to yourself.
I have flat feet. That's why I don't run. =P
How the fk do you master persistence and patience? Don't they contradict each other? teach me.
@@ex-x7079 patience and persistence go hand in hand.
How do I teach myself about ambition? I think I don't have any, and I'm looking inside me around 3 years now.. and nothing... Actually still think that ambition it's a way of get your ego Even bigger
Those values and methods of success are taught all the time... I don't know what world you live in but plenty of teachers and parents and coaches and community leaders are all about these and more
I love the fact that the audience picked extended Q&A instead of autographs, that gave us more to listen to in the posted talk!
needed to hear this right now, watching this video to procrastinate statistics homework...now I am changing my attitude and going back to homework to work harder at it
Work smooth and smart, doing the right things, even if it's slow. Hard may not be right
You watched this vid then decided to work harder are you joking
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the empirical rule...careful when the specify one or two sided on the standard deviations away from the mean.
That .9 correlation between math aptitude and the student's attitude/self-confidence level when sitting down long enough to complete a task was an eye-opener! "If you want to know how good a country does at mathematics, you don't have to ask that country's kids any math questions. You just have to make them do a task that requires them to sit down at a seat for an extended period of time and focus on a task. And if they can do it, they're good at math!"
No matter what domain
Idk, not to toot my own horn but I think I’m pretty good at math. Can’t focus for shit though.
Such a simple task could be used to evaluate the mental health status of kids. (As if anyone cares for simplicity.)
@@timfredrickson3889 You, sir, are what we’d called an Outlier ;-)
@@kirstinstrand6292 I think you’re on to something. And what are the odds that my word for the year (2021) is Simplicity!
I’ve set a time limit on my social media and I’ve been watching more lectures lately and I’ve been learning more about myself and life.
Way to Go, man! gotta to do the same thing!
A lot people start, some never stop Success happens when preparation meets opportunity. Persistence is everything.
Undiagnosed and untreated mental illness and abuse is also a constraint that is often overlooked in poorer homes and all homes really as mental illness and abuse affects all classes; however, poorer homes do not have the financial resources to treat these issues. It's much harder to do well in schooling when your focus is just surviving the day. That is what the Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) assessment is all about.
sorry but you.re right. Mental illness, my parents thought we were nuts. Well, they got it right. there is a moral code on a parent to do their job. They may be teaching what was handed down. ABUSE no one deserves that. Truth is, my opinion, jail. You trust these people with your life. How the hell can you feel any safety, trust, love. You start out just you and wind up with the Andes on top of you. Fight hard.
I agree that mental illness is an issue. My wife is bipolar. Money cannot fix this situation. All i can do is provide my kids a safe outlet.
@@MrTodayistheday Well, that's nice, but I disagree. Money can buy medicine, counseling, perhaps a nanny, and respite for your wife, and you too. Just saying. I wish your family the best.
@@krmccarrell My wife is a practicing medical doctor (MD). I am an experienced management consultant for Fortune 100 companies. You would think we would have everything. Twelve years into my marriage she was diagnosed as bipolar. No about of medicine or counseling will make her "normal". My kids and I must endure her moodiness and depression. Counselors are useless. As their parent, I can only provide my kids an example, stability, and a safe place to express their emotions. Life is not fair and money cannot fix the dearest things of all. In the end, we can only do the best and hope our kids will do their best.
another reason to hate this world
I moved around a lot growing up, so my grades just went down and down. I learned very early on growing up that success was not determined by What you knew, but by WHO you knew. Job interviewers didn't care that I had experience, all they wanted to know is if I knew the same people that they knew. This was incredibly frustrating most of the time. Its also very satisfying to hear someone explain something I suspected all along. That much of success has to do with the household you were born into. I've seen very well off kids completely waste great opportunity that's handed to them on a silver platter. And also at the same time many poorer people working very hard and get absolutely no where because they lack the family and business connections. Thanks.
Facts. Your ability to accomplish something isn't enough for people who hire; they have to have a good reason to let you earn your salary; they are not willing to give you their money unless you belong to their direct families or to a close group of friends that they really know. The goal is to keep the money closer to themselves with very little fear to losing it! . That's one of reasons why you may 'fail' at the interviews despite your obvious intelligence and potentiality. Exceptions to that unfairness may apply be large organizations that always need targeted practical knowledge; even in that occurrence, selections for interviews are pretty scary! Finally, an individual or family should be able to have ownership with the intent ro be free of injustice and abuse, and trive for growth.
sounds like you got a victim mentality if you knew all this time that its who you know why didn't YOU go out and network, so what you weren't born into a rich household you were born in a fist world country you make the most out of your life
You nailed it.
*Fax*
Fact but when u work for it, u will get it
Totally awesome speaker! Profound shift in perspectives! I was drawn in throughout the entire presentation. Thank you for your work and for sharing!
One thing that is a must to be noted here, is that he is not telling a prophecy or describing your fate. He is only describing a systematic pattern that is observed across different ethnicities or groups throughout time so that people can acknowledge and better understand those repetitive tendencies. Seeing in such a manner will be a great start to breaking cycles and changing mindsets. What interests me is that there is absolutely nothing one can do against stupid constraints as Malcolm explains very well, but one still has eternity to spend and, in this day and age, varieties of options to choose from, where will one choose to put their time and attention?
This is such a great book. I have to admit that it is really unfortunate to hear just how much of an outsized impact one’s financial resources (or lack thereof) can have on opportunities in life. So much so it seems that one’s ultimate choice of career has to acknowledge that more likely than not it will inevitably impact their child’s future chance of success. And as someone said, it’s not just financial capital that’s important, but also social capital-one’s network, experiences and overall perspective on life.
What's best for the collective is best for all members of the ecosystem.. its a social system ! Metaphors.. all words are just data. Thinking in probabilities and staying adaptable is so powerful
@@goldnutter412 probabilities of the unknowable?
@@TeaParty1776 What's your problem? Example: Probability that extraterrestrial aliens visited Earth in the year 1521 = ~ 0 %. See how easy that is?
@@markplimsoll I cant tell if thats serious or satire.
@@TeaParty1776 When I taught, I came across Stanford University's one page advice to new students. It assumed everyone's family had intellectual discussions over meals.
“What your great great great great grand parents did for a living, can make a difference in how you see the world.” A very difficult point for many people to grasp.
You mean, lik, slaveowners?
Very true
@@J3unG Very funny. That's too many past tense descendants. Its about what you are doing not your great grandparents.
No voodoo but generational curses are kinda real
@@J3unG lmao you talking romans and jews? or blacks and blacks?
I can listen to this guy all day long. Great writer and speaker. thanks
These days if you're not spending to recover , then stop spending
Successful people keep on going when people stop.
The rich become richer by spending like the poor and investing non stop, why the poor stay poor by spending like the rich yet not making any investment
Investment are the ones stepping Stones to success, investing in what create wealth.
I invested in both stock and crypto but currently I believe crypto is doing more better !!!
NOTE:Money is always eager and ready to work for anyone who is ready to employ it.
What strikes me so nicely is how relaxed he is when he speaks and shares, and how relaxed his listeners are as well. Just like chatting in a living room, hanging out.
Remember hanging out?
that's sign of a great speaker
Malcolm is always easy to listen to. He is low ego.
it's an excellent tactic of the Marxist left; against all pressure and facts, remain calm cool and collected then the masses will follow you ANYWHERE.
@@brad349miller Maybe Fox bloviators should take note of the style, but I didn't see here any Political leanings expressed that were Marxist or any obvious untruths.
This is a great speech. Really good content. A few observations based on my experiences: -I grew up in a small farm farming town where many kids didn’t finish college or leave the area. I think environment is a huge influencer, from getting mediocre teachers, less college information, and less of a priority on higher education -Many people did not pursue their dream jobs or potential due to what our society values. Being a struggling musician that can barely support themselves at some point becomes too much, especially if they want to have a family at some point. So those skills can get abandoned or not fully reached -Resources are also extremely important. If you do not have connections from people into an industry you want to get into, most people give up eventually unless they are extremely committed
I also come from a small farming community. I got lucky - our school bought some computers early. The first computers were labeled as A/V equipment and put in the library. It happened that my mother was the school librarian, and she brought one home over Christmas break to figure it out. I spent more time on it than she did. I was hooked, and probably put in 5,000 hours of programming and using programs before I graduated high school. Without that, I don't know where I'd be. I didn't know anybody in the tech field. Many of my friends became farmers, loggers, maybe work at or own a small business. You learned how to do that from your parents, not from a college. A third of the girls in my class dropped out before graduation.
It's less to do with actual education and more to do with social connections. Rich kids who make friends with other rich kids and their families have enormous advantages within that network and they will take those with them throughout their entire life. You don't have to be a genius to work as a corporate executive, you just need to know someone who generally approves of you and your family.
‘1 out of a billion’ is coincidentally the exaggerated same phrase I used on a South Korean online chat messenger few years ago when I rarely exaggerate not to lie false words!😮/😹Maybe why a gal I thought who was not envious had introduced me this author’s book which was a pop bestseller was because she knew something else along with granparents who gave her a logo dialed Bvlgari watch while I had been hating logos until I had to use and fashion logos to ward off retarded abusive people. In short you might want to exchange your individuality with financial support and zombie parents and granparents who choose and shop your clothes and not only gifts while you may never even realize spirituality or how further some other people had pursued in spirituality and growth in character without ever having really worry about calories because youre busy doing something or warding off envious lunatics who cancel your cheapo Ruelala order because theyre the retards who complain during work to random clients while you think the retarded complaining in store British female clerk will probably never understand true work ethic and how you will work humbly with every moment in servitude and good intentions while never even thinking of talking to customers outside guidelines. You might realize you would want to actually be reading conservative religious beliefs and considering ditching all farm occupation people and most population as maybe retarded and some untouchables due to their lack of character and immature disgusting envy:you will want disgusting hypocrits at academia become ashes as soon as possible and realize how overrated doctors or so called people who wrote medical journals and papers and lab reports and even AI researches IF YOU ACTUALLY READ THE STUFF. Your dre** will come true more quickly with a higher probability if the evil corrupted South Korean Catholic doc passes after the Catholic abusive doc cursed the word ‘dre**’ few years ago in a city with the same name as a South Korean arrow shooter scumbag who i wondered had been simple tools. The Catholic doc who has passed or is waiting to have his corrupted head taken by a statue of Mary **-which might had been shedding blood tears in his dre*-* has the same name with a male South Korean singer contestant who lost at a singing contest to a male singing contestant named ‘hero’ the same name as an American Eskimo’s name listed on a South Korean vet’s PC. Wow i am so brave like 1 in a billion:lesson: *YOUR LIFE CAN BE GLORIOUS IF YOU DONT GET EXPOSED TO ENVIOUS CREEPY KOREANS*
@@toddmarshall2726 everything you just said is SPOT ON!!!
All great points, environment is probably one of the biggest factors i agree with. If you're in a community where everyone is highly educated and has high paying careers more likely you will try to do it too. Also having the social connections from the start, teens getting part time jobs at legal offices because their parents friends work there instead of fast food places.
He is so right about long distance running in Kenya. We grew up knowing that was the most important sport in the world. And we had role models to boot.
The part about agricultural practices hits close to home. Historically, the economy of what we now call ‘Saudi Arabia’ relied on Date farming for hundreds of years, and takes about a decade for a Date tree to bare ripe fruit, which has created a deeply-ingrained attitude of long-term thinking. Furthermore, Date farming emphasized the role of merchants, because of the long distances between cities, which resulted in a culture of mercantile/financial thinking that is even evident in our everyday word-choice. Also you can tell immediately with your naked eyes if a Date is ripe or rotten, which means Date farmers and merchants would be immediately exposed and ridiculed if they attempted to be dishonest, creating a culture of honesty. So with that in mind; it's no surprise Saudi Arabia is generally at the top of global trust indexes.
Lots of agriculture is like that. Fruit trees, even dwarf varieties (which yield more fruit per hectare than traditional trees) take about 5 years to grow and they produce fruit, sometimes every other year, for about 15-20 years. I know...I farm.
It's fascinating to think of how profoundly agriculture shapes societies. Thanks for those insights.
So basically you succeed when you are raised or supported by an environment or a community that helps you succeed?
yep
The discussion of dyslexic people becoming billionaire business founders suggests that it is more complex than that.
Most of the time, yes. But also some people born disadvantaged or in disadvantaged environments can also acquire skill sets that turn out to be advantages later on in life.
Period.
@@jimbaker5110 but they are a vanishingly small minority
Success is mainly determined by being surrounded by those who are happy for your success.
Not the point of this video or his lecture but OK...
@@ADifferentVibe The video was about social evolution. His point was that outcomes are determined by conventions and values of society. Therefore by modifying conventions and values, we can achieve greater equality and improve outcomes. Values and conventions are essentially what we approve of. So if he's saying that values and conventions determine success, then what it all boils down to is social approval determines success.
Being physically handicapped, I turned this ‘disadvantage’ into advantage by developing my mind ( compensate) more than others
Thank you so much, Mr. Gladwell!! More humans in North America (including Canada) need to exercise their brains and engage in more talks about problem-solving in the education systems. Education needs to be about far more than what young people are required to learn in a classroom. Consequently, we need to improve the skills and abilities to teach well and in creative ways. Getting a teaching certificate is never enough to develop and engage young minds. I appreciate how you think and how inspirational you are!! I believe the program of studies throughout all public schools needs to be consistently and regularly reviewed and revised as well.
Seems as though kids these days are taught, not how, but what to think. We have been homeschooling our kids for 10 years now. Aside from their Biblical studies, I believe their classes in "logic" have been the most important. They know how to work through discussions, and problems, in a way so few people, it seems, know how these days. Really glad to have clicked on this. So good.
This talk is very insightful. I grew up in a village and worked on the farm. As a result, I tend to have greater perseverance and commitment to problem-solving than most of my colleagues who grew up in the cities. Very telling.
Also way more humble.
I’m just the opposite. Grew up in a small town but moved to the city. I’m very ADD compared to many of my friends who would stick to a task until they figured it out. Now my daughter I see is the same as me. Wasn’t until later in my 20’s that I decided hard work was more beneficial than leisure time and though not rich I managed to own a home and provide a good life for the family. Just don’t know how to get that message to my teenager.
I too grew up in a village, and have a different outlook on life then many of my friends.
The Thinking Man my husband was a transplant surgeon and program director at an academic centre who trained many residents and fellows in the course of his career. He used to say “give me a kid from a dairy farm who had to get up and milk cows as the first thing in the morning and the last thing in the evening 365 days a year over the kid who came from an upbringing with a silver spoon in their mouth.”
Well said.
I did real estate in fancy neighborhoods and young people got internships from much sought after institutions because their mother, aunt, father etc worked there. Not to mention the rent was paid for by their family. So yeah, money matters.
Makes all the difference in the world.
I’d say at risk of being misunderstood, that it takes a lot to run away from tigers and lions.
As does race. (See: coloreds.)
Which is why colleges should consider household income when it comes to the admissions process.
Having a supportive family that encourages education, good work ethic and morals has a huge impact. You can come from rich dysfunctional family or a close knit immigrant family where everyone works their tails off, and see these poor immigration family pass dysfunctional rich and dysfunctional poor lazy welfare types by.
Brilliant talk, as always, Malcolm.
This is very interesting. I’m not being political about this, but my son enlisted in the Marine Corps last year. He’s been keeping my wife and I up to date on his progress and experiences. A thread that runs through all of it is that “The Marine Corps will not let you fail.” I was expecting a simple story of brutal discipline, that sort of thing, but my son’s lived reality is different. Anyone who fails at something is simply made to stay with the task until they succeed. My son told me stories of fellow Marines who performed the same task over and over many times - they failed and failed and failed but at last they were successful. There was never a point at which anyone acquiesced in non-success. The story of Asian agrarian society and its hypothetical influence on success made me think back on my son’s Marine Corps experience. Persistence reigns supreme. Again, not being political about it. Just an observation about a genuinely persistent environment and its outcomes. I’m not saying no one washes out - I’m sure they do. But washing out is discouraged and persistence is strongly encouraged and it seems to have a positive impact on success.
Is that why people say you only fail when you quit?
This guy hits hard in a subtle fashion and at the same time comes across as someone who knows you. It's never too late for anyone to have found his take on things.
Gladwell will increase your IQ just by listening to him. Read his books/lectures/interviews and I have learned a lot.
1 in 100 actually finish a novel
@@rickspalding3047 bitter truth
Starting at 37 minutes he explains how people who are dyslexic end up becoming an entrepreneur. All of this is so powerful.
The number of 33% blew my mind
I worked with Stephen J. Cannell. He was uber successful, and he was dyslexic. Also a very nice man. In any case, he managed to write a novel a year on an old IBM selectric, despite his challenges. Not to mention his TV and movie career.
I'm at that point right now. Very interesting.
I won't say he's 💯 percent, but he's right, because I have a brother who is dyslexic and a also know a few more people who as well. And they are all successful so his research is definitely on to somthing.
I was about to move away, I have ADD, and jump from one thing to another. Thank you for this comment. I will go back and hear this. U made my day!
I deeply enjoyed this talk, thank you for uploading it Microsoft!!
This is an absolutely incredibly enlightening talk
This is brilliant! The secret to success is self reliance at an early age. Give children the tips to accomplishment and let them fail, fall, miss, makeup and learn on their own. Hold them accountable by giving them room to make mistakes for self-readjustments. Reward when they finish, get through it and rectify their negligence. This helps them be self sufficient. Empower children with fortitude. Say, “you can do this” by making perseverance innate. Keep it simple. Read everything from start to finish as fast as you can no matter if you comprehend or understand one thing you read and then pay attention and highlight in class. Review highlighted subject matter and review before tests. Just push through until completion don’t make things harder for yourself, instead of putting too much pressure-take it easy on yourself.
How did you learn this?
Agree but with one thing. Don’t connect a goal of completion with a reward. Finishing should be reward by itself. Another thing is that in life sometimes there will be no rewards though great effort was invested. (Not saying never reward )
That's one out of the 3 things he said that give you a chance at being succesful and he said there are many more in his books. He also said no matter how hard you persevere and try to become succesful it can still backfire in the end resulting in depression. Life is all about luck.
@@yannickclaes90 that sentence is very discouraging. It’s like an excuse. Someone doesent give all effort possible then blames it on the luck factor. That selftalk is a killer. It is however not easy and not without a danger to be completely honest with self. Not easy because sometimes we are not aware of lies our mind is comforting us with. When we see through our own self limitations and we see the truth it can be tricky to accept it without being hurt. Like I had to admit to myself what I did wrong and what I could make to prevent my bankruptcy. It’s a hard cake to chew on. But only way to became better is to recognize weaknesses and acknowledge the pitty old me patterns. Hard work beats the crap out of luck in 99% of the cases.
@@nevencuca1680 Einstein quote: “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.” You are only looking at life in an anecdotal way. Someone with down syndrome will never be "successful". Someone who dies in a car accident at 16 will never be "successful". What's the definition of success? Hard work? Work a lot? Work smart? You aren't giving any answers to this by just saying hard work will be the way to what our society perceives as being successful.
Have been exposed to Gladwell's books and ideas for a while. I really think he is going to be remembered long past his own mortal demise. He has opened a lot of eyes! Think his 'children' will make a lot of change in this world. For decades.
I thought that too but after reading two books and skimming a third I realised that he is another Dan-Brown-type author with a repeatable formula. Serial writer, a journalist that never gets deep into a subject. A fantastic marketeer but only superficially grasps at any topic he deals with.
@@clichethinker 3000% agree. But, I'm saying he has popularized the trend of looking at things mathematically/probability-wise. I think that is important.
Most people never heard of blink, I liked listening to it, but he hasn't revolutionized anything, politicians and teacher unions are a massive wall that no one is breaking down
The passion with which he is making this lecture is out of this world.
You are right about the obsession with running in Jamaica 🇯🇲! I experienced while growing up! Sports day at Church, School, Camp, ‘Backyard’ etc.#lovesign
Just wow! my dog’s paw accidentally hit this and it auto played a few minutes, well I’m glad I listened, it is still relevant 5 years later, and just as insightful today. Well, an hour and 15 minutes later....Can’t even remember what video I was listening to previously!
your dog is very wise
Good Dog!😂
Just let your dog select all your videos.
May the paw of your dog guide you through the internet
"...cultural models and codes and rules persist. That long after the circumstances that created them have gone away, those things are still in the air ..." This explanation of how our ancestry/culture influences us today is fascinating to me - especially since my grandfather actually WAS a rice farmer in the Philippines.
Such a fascinating discussion I always keep thinking about
Outstanding and enlightening. I will consider what I've learned from this talk and by reading "Outlier" a book I've owned for a year, how to use it for the children iny life.
Attitude and Learning, the Correlation with Sport and Success. Thank you for this talk .
Born and raised in NYC went to public schools in Manhattan. I was stunned at how kid’s from other countries would transfer and excel in school so easily. Wasn’t until I was a bit older I realized how crappy the school systems are in the US. No child left behind 🤦🏻♂️
what? teachers care. Care about their pension, their time off, their union protection, their tenure...
Also,... The English spelling system is so flawed that it delays learning to read by 2 years compared to languages like Spanish (Seymour, 2003). The less educated families have it worse. Every single linguistics' professor knows this. Teachers should. Tutoring agencies know. Everyone of them will find excuses to keep the status quo. The system favours the status quo. It is the Fix It Again Tony (fiat). The flaws create opportunity to make money at the expense of the whole society. People are so focussed on their own success, they cannot think f the whole and to be sure governments are often bought off by industries that benefit from the chaos. They have lobbyists to keep the golden goose alive. If one were to keep the old generations using the current ststem and raise a new generation with the new system, it could work. Which dialect? Make one. Unify. There is a lack of vision and the anglosphere is declining. Mark my words.
Yeah but lets not act like all Asian countries have great school systems. The difference in attitude is one key element here. In the West it depends on your parents making you open to learning or nurture anti-intellectualism and make you fail.
this actually clarifies a lot of questions I had in the past. At first I though that genetics played a big role in how smart you can actually be in life. but then I was doubting it because of how many different races and successful people are out there. Then I came across during a stoic reading that I was listening to the phrase "nurture vs nature" and It just came to my mind the fact that sometimes in life discipline actually defeats talent in many circumstances. great video.
Definitely. Dedication creates talent. I can't actually name any talent that is innate. Maybe a physical ability. Worked with alot of musicians and never met anyone talented who didn't study and train. Though, having larger or smaller hands seems to have some advantages in specific cases.
@@BLACKPICTUREE People are not born with skills. Therefore, they can not have a higher level of skill in something at birth.
@@BLACKPICTUREE except every top athlete is the one who was most determined and not the one with the best genetics. There is always someone with better genetics, but we don't have any champions who have the optimal genetics. Michael Phelps is the closest thing we have, and yet : A. He's unique (obviously not the common occurrence) B. There's someone out there with better swimming features in all likelihood. So even if we could measure that theoretical "innate ability," it's never occurred that way in a single example we can draw from.
It isn’t just the habit of learning. It is the cultural and familial input that every day wears down the emotional and intellectual potential of individuals. Money also enables those with potential to have access to extraordinary experiences that help them get additional experiences etc.
What a genius. I can confirm I grew up in a well off household vs my friend who lived in a poorer household. Me and him were good friends and he was way smarter then me but he had to start working long hours as his dad passed away and he started falling behind in school work. I always said if he has financial support he would have been a CEO.
Why are you named after my favourite hotel lol
@@born5094 We been thier few times as well when we stay at NYC, I see you got good taste ;)
@@citizenm9590 Likewise ;) Been to the London, France and Amsterdam ones so far, still many more to check off
I bet he's still successful in his personal life though; as in having many friends and popular with the girls. Being successful at school isn't all it's cracked up to be.
You should have asked your dad to support him until he could stand on his feet.
When he talks about math and attitude he’s talking about ‘growth mindset’ ..there is work on that.. also.. the East African runner point is also about environment (specifically altitude and oxygen levels).. long distance runners who train in environments with less oxygen typically develop better oxygen efficiency because it’s more difficult which gives them an advantage in higher oxygen environments.
Environment and 'capitalization' are distantly secondary to genetic predisposition. The genetic factor is right in front of our faces and beyond undeniable. The body structure and physiology that are ideal for distance running just happen to be more common in the East African phenotype than anywhere else, it's as simple as that. Then on top of that, yeah, add the high altitude and the strong cultural encouragement for distance running, and you get the total dominance we see. For another example, 100% of the men who line up for the 100m Olympic final are of West African descent (regardless of country of origin, crucially), and 0% are of East Asian descent. This is not a result of culture or structure. We're hesitant to recognize this obvious dynamic because of the fear of a sinister slippery slope of racism, but the facts are right there.
please quit with the growth mindset. Go back and read how Caroline Dweck tells us that this has been totally misunderstood and misapplied.
Yesss it was a big controversy at the 1968 Olympics in Mexico City because as you may know the altitude of Mexico, specifically Mexico city (the capital was founded there because it was the highest point in the entire country!)...is very high for most runners. It is actually even higher than Jamaica. Apparently people were angry about the elevation, but people didn't know how profoundly it could effect the body until that 1968 game. :)
@@rrickarr Your comment is not true. Caroline Dweck's growth mindset is taught everywhere now. Her main point was that innate ability is nonsense. For example, telling someone they did a good job is better than telling someone they are smart. Smart kids fear that if they do badly, they are not smart anymore. Whereas if they know that they will do better next time if they keep trying and learn from their mistakes, that is better. They can always learn it right the next time. Believing you can grow and improve is ideal.
This is super interesting. Thank you for posting this.
Great talk. Very inspiring. Thank you for sharing
Because some people are born on third base and others aren't aware there is a baseball game.
PREACHHHH
@@rachelo9804 I guess that puts me in the big legumes
You're not wrong, still, better late then never
Many people end up in the bleachers.
@@zoltannemeth8864 Everyone watching this video is in the bleachers, trying to learn how to play the game with the professionals.
I love how he interrupts himself. I do this every last time I go to open my mouth.
Very interesting presentation. Thank you for sharing this.
i agree wih that. I'm asian but didn't do well in math. i got a D and had to repeat algebra in summer school. but i also think it has to do with support of your teachers. my summer school teacher was amazing in guiding us with the assignments. he wasn't judgmental too so i didnt feel stupid. so when i had math problems i spent my free time solving them. when i was waiting for my brother, i was reading my math book. i wanted to learn it. my goal became solving the problems.i took out an old chalkboard and played with the problems until i understood them. at the end, i got a A in the class and was able to teach others how to solve problems. i forgot that teachers name, but he was awesome. he used to be an engineer i think.
So glad I stumbled on this presentation! WoW ❤️ I read outliers during the lockdowns in 2020 and I was blown away by a number of things - so good to see the face behind the great wisdom! Also I’m a Kenyan and I love the fact that he really used Kenyan Athletes to drive a few points… there is definitely a Geographical thing that brings out that great talent ! It’s in the cold highlands of Kenya and not the whole country…!
Hi! Can you please elaborate on how the cold highlands bring out the talent? Thank you! Curious to know your perspective
Win for Kenya.
@@drugvash4899 There is a relationship between highlands,haemoglobin and oxygen concentration that enhances athletic potential .
I'm from the highlands and it's true we run and run and run
they think we all run...
It's so cool that these tech employees get to have conversations with world class thinkers. Sweet job perk.
World class thinker? hhahahahahahahahha
World class self-marketers. Nothing Gladwell said here has not been said before. Money and success going hand in hand is as old as time.
Or unfair privilege given to those who already are privileged. If he taught at high schools or gave in person courses for normal humans struggling that would be noble. Getting paid by the elite to tell them how to get even more rich isn’t impressing me.
I must have this book. A truly eye opening lecture on the the ridiculous notion of IQ and genetic advantage. It basically boils down to exclusivity and elitism stifles the growth of a society.
A jam packed room, I ❤ it!!
Incredible, changed my point of view.
My favorite modern writer. Intensely interesting points.
Excellent thanks,!The most important thing is to constantly stay attuned to what people do Well and then to find out how they do it.
Awesome, thank you Malcolm.
Thank you for giving the fantastic lecture! Garfunkel. I am also a huge fan of "The Sound Of Silence".
Most underrated comment. Thanks mate!
Solid chuckle!
Lmao 🤣 he looks exactly like the dude
🤣🤣
This was so beautifully done and said. Very interesting.
Wowow good your horses. You are describing a situation when someone had help from the outside. I wish that this happened to me. Someone helping me discover my talents and making the best of it to help out this society
Soccer team selected only born in jan, feb & march is really interesting study to know and how it affects their capability to excel !! 🙌🏼👌❤️
Interesting to know that is more about opportunity and environment than ability. Most business owners I know had a paper route as a kid.
There is this podcast called how I built this by guy nas on NPR and he asks the founders of huge companies (he's interview founders of airbnb, dell, we work, Instagram and way more) at the end of every episode- "is it down to luck or smarts?" they got so successful and they all but one saidthat you CANNOT have one without the other to be as successful as they did.
How many girls had paper routes? Is there an equivalent? I’m assuming most of these business owners you’re referring to are men.
@@o.h.w.6638 babysitting?
@@o.h.w.6638 well that’s because men and women are different, if you watch a lot of Jordan Peterson videos you will notice women are as ambitious or interested in being CEOs of big companies as much as men
@@edlerg.624 what’s the why tho
His point about the long labour hours in rice growing in the East vs shorter hours in wheat growing in the West is interesting.
Interesting but not correct. The west has dominated since the middle ages thou its now the time for East to take the lead
@@ednan9 dominated?😅
@@zoeliu48 yes 😀
@@ednan9 Genghis Khan invaded half of the Europe he was not a Westner.
@@arth_chart5280 talking last 600 years not genghis era
I love this .... Great topic and great speaker
Many parents don't want to see their kids do better than them - they actually feel like a failure themselves if the kid does well . It's a lifetime of 'keep 'em down , keep 'em down '. Human nature to fit in where you are is very strong .
People who succeed in anything is always measured by validation and akcnoledgemnts of the rest (others). Thus, the successful are the one who got popular at what they do, not because they were better at what they do than the rest 99.9%.
I wish someone had explained that to me 40 years ago!
Correct. Many talented people or fantastic concepts don't take off or succeed simply cos they don't get popular with the masses or the masses just don't get it. What a bummer...
It’s called marketing
You could also say it is a measure of their persistence combined with the efficiency of the results of their productivity.
Its called sales and marketing. There is a reason why these 2 industries alone are massive. Applies to companies also individually.
If it worked for you Grandpa, then why wouldn’t it work for me?!” Incredible.
Because you can learn great life lessons without the life threatening circumstances of the grandfather, kids that grow up in environments without negative stress are far more likely to learn great life lessons from eustress(good stress), what our grandparents had to go through didn't leave them unscathed and many suffer from mental illness, etc... Malcom Gladwell is a smart guy and I'm a fan, but am often disappointed by his pesudo-profundity and oversimplification.
@@willmanning3819 Will is right. A lot of kids who grew up with hardship and poverty ended up suffering long-term effects related to trauma. This leads to a lot of mental illness, particularly in the form of personality disorders... and can perpetuate a cycle of intergenerational trauma if the grandparent isn't away of it. We want to minimise the amount of trauma our kids experience, but we also want to build resilience in them.
this has been in my recommended feed for probably 5 years, I'm finally ready to see why I don't succeed.
It is food for thought that being the youngest in a class might influence how well you play at sports. My whole life I have had recurring thoughts in my head that I am "bad at sports". I was literally the youngest child in my education - in general! Last night I was shooting hoops with my friend. I waited for him to drift off a little bit knowing that when I'm alone, I can shoot multiple streaks in a row. It was still true - in my mind I programmed myself to think I'm terrible at sports, though deep down I now I'm perfectly average (and maybe good) at sports. This is not a connection I would have made without watching
This man is brilliant...i know he runs as well...and he s quite good as well...bravo!!....love him.....would jog with him for 30 min and ask him so many questions....
Well the key to success is to completely lockout any possible competition by requiring third party software clients to use your proprietary platforms to have any chance of entry into the market place.
Great video. Thanks for uploading.
That was thoroughly fun entertaining and engaging from the comfort of my wfh and walking lunch !
Brilliant. He really knows how to collate information from history, culture, science, etc. and apply it to our circumstances. He says so much in 30 minutes. ❤️☮️
Yes, You very poignantly hit the nail on the head.
It's a talk based about a book he wrote. Of course he gonna know a lot about it.
@@michaelf.7050 Okay, you write a book and then try to summarize it clearly in thirty minutes! Most of us who write books wind up droning on and on about them, it's not an easy task to be concise!
@@jimsykes6843 I'm not saying it negatively, just matter of factly.
Utterly superb talk, this is what KZhead can be!!
YEAH. In the palm of your hand ( we call a phone) is a hand-held computer. What do you want to do? you can search, confer with others, order drugs, a hitman) I agree. I love youtube watched for the wolf in sheeps clothing. its truly a phenon, whatever. Dont be pushed back by naysayers. All people, all over the world who only get 1 channel a day. TThey defect here.
KZhead can be healthy. We just have to govern ourselves and seek out quality.
i use filters and dont watch too much outside of it...just like all social media, most of it is toxic garbage...educational, homesteading, fuzzy animals...thats where i stay
wow - you dont give up...that sentence in that context maybe is the greatest motivator I have ever heard
What an amazing speech especially the piece where poverty hunts the person way later on in life
Success is definitely subjective. Never juxtapose against someone elses narrative.
@@DirtyBottomsPottery what is a narrative? Has nothing to do with terms such as good and bad. It's a story. Tell me, what is something Good? Just a question
Up to a point. Toddlers really want to succeed at a lot of dumb stuff that their parents would be foolish/neglectful to allow.
How can you not especially in American society? Our entire culture is based on making a certain dollar amount, even if you don't spend it on lavish items.
Absolutely!!
Just fabulous! Thank you!!!! No sugar--be strong. :)
Well done Malcom. Proud fellow Jamaican - Canadian!
This book really helped me re-evaluate how to measure success and really blended well with another book called Under the Affluence, that I happened to have just read before this one back in like 2015. Especially now in 2020, watching who covid effects and who ends up benefiting from it. It is just wild.
Prison Mike wasn't a very successful individual
@@EYTPS I don't know, he was arrested for kidnapping the president's daughter, and he didn't get caught neither
Was this video a summery of the book?
@@marcelaaguilar5027 Not entirely, it was like any other reading, he talks about a couple of the chapters he wrote. I think in this it was examples of why most pros have birthday's in January-March, which was straight out of the book Outliers. Great read.
I agree with most of this talk, but some of what Malcolm is calling "Stupidity Constraints" is just convenience. It's easy to say we should have 3 parallel little leagues at once , but are there enough kids signing up to sustain 3 leagues per age? Who is managing all those leagues? My sports leagues were ran by volunteer parents and there was definitely not enough kids to sustain a league for every quarter year age group. So easy to say, not practical in reality.
Malcolm makes some far fetched ideas extremely compelling
Not only am I an outlier, I don't know a single person born in April my entire life. Loved your book.
11:38 - this occurred in the Men's Belgians Soccer before the 80s. This was down to the kids being born in Jan - March developing sooner than those born after March (usually) so coaching was focused on these kids meaning that they were rejecting talented players. This changed in the 80s/90s and now Belgium has one of the best (FIFA Ranking) Mens Soccer team.
1st off...what is YOUR definition of success? Hard to obtain what you can't see. Upbringing, culture, relationships, influences, worth ethic, etc these are all examples of cards in your "deck" so to speak. Sometimes even with a full house you can still lose. There are so many faces to the question and it's answers. 1. Have your goals and the steps well defined. 2. Get around people with same goals or mindset or at least get away from those who hinder them. 3. Perseverance.
Great advice. I think I needed this In order to properly realign my Priorities and values.
There were so many flawed assumptions in the first few minutes of this talk that I didn't see the value in continuing. As you pointed out by your sentence, success is not the same for everyone. By his definition, only holding a prominent position in society is having successful life. To begin with some people excel at jobs that aren't prominent in society. Such as nurses, who are not given the same value and attention as doctors. He is branding fulltime mothers as failures, etc. What you wrote can be applied by most people. From someone who wants a career, to someone who is disabled and has different goals each day. We all have our various limitations and values in life. As far as I see it, success about quality of life. That is my definition. Many people value their relationships with loved ones more than awards and accolades from their careers when at the end of their life. Yes, success is up to the individual's interpretation. From what I have listened to thus far, and gleaned from the comments, you have contributed something far more useful and valuable in your succinct comment than the entirety of the speech. Thankyou!