A Lot to Take in for a 5 Year Old😥 [The Return of Superman:Ep.521-1] | KBS WORLD TV 240421
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A Lot to Take in for a 5 Year Old😥 [The Return of Superman:Ep.521-1] | KBS WORLD TV 240421
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Parenting challenges of "Superman,” the first hero that children encounter when they are born.
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his one line alone “because i want to be a good son” already shows how his divorce failed. he should’ve focused on being a good husband and father first. minhwan’s mom is a great actress, pretending she didn’t mistreat yulhee and overstep her boundaries
I also i have the gots thats the reason why they divorce . When i watch 1 episode i forgot what reality show is that . But i see clesrly thats shes not comfortable with her monther in law stepping on how she takes care of her children . Maybe yulhee got tired from her in law
Finally someone is talking about this. I'm so agree with you. If your children are married, never interfere in their household affairs for the slightest thing, if they don't ask for advice. And parents should not impose their suggestions on their children's households because that is their business 🥺
Mr house husband ..i saw it too..she was critical of everything yulhee did @@janina365
Itsura parang ng mama niya halata na yung ugaling pakielamerang mother in law
Why to judge when you are not part of their life. I think your statement just come from the stereotypes. Yulhee was still becoming an adult when she became a mom. She definitely needed the helping hand her MIL was. The MIL must also have sacrificed herself in raising her grandchildren when her son was away for military\concerts or when both Yulhee and Minhwan had schedules. Can you think a 24-25 yr olds raise 3 kids, do household work without family's help? And as a grandmother who is equal part of rearing the family, I don't think even if she had scolded her, it's wrong. It's Yulhee's and Minhwan's business, don't bad mouth their mother based on stereotypes. No one divorces due to family.
I watched their past videos. I can see that Yulhee did her best being a wife and mom despite her young age. Can see her efforts in raising the children. So it's unfair when I read comments elsewhere that bashed her saying she didn't care about their children. Such a heartbreak see Jaeyul acts and hear his conversations in this video 😢. Can't imagine my life without my mom at his age 😢.
Agree with you 🥺
Your so right I feel so bad for yulhee 😢 she gets hate for no reason 😭😭
And in previous videos you can see that her MIL wasn't supportive but would nitpick about little things. As someone who married into another culture, had to learn the language and is of a different race , I thank God for the support of my wonderful MIL.
when you have a kid, you've given your whole life to them. that's how it supposes to be. I'm not really hating her. but I know for a fact, her decisions to divorce was not right. no matter how harsh it is. the moment you gave birth, you should put all your effort for the kid.
it's annoying how they portray him as a single father when she is stil parenting her children as well as she can when they are with her. It's disapointing to see how their grandmother acts as she had nothing to do with it, when she is literally the main reason for the divorce :/
Can you explain me why is everyone talking about his mom? I don't know much about their divorce or what happened but I think it's odd he have the custody... it's not bad but generally kids always live and are raised with their mom or it's like 50/50 of time each parent but looks like Yulhee can only watch them once every three weeks at his house so I wonder what happened.
Main reason? You’re talking as if you’re living with them 😂🤦♀️.
@@dramaaaa763 sadly she said it herself in an interview and later on it was published by dispatch (when their divorce was 1st made public). So i'm merely saying what the couple admitted at the time.
@@GabyTk10 actually i dont think they made public the divorce process so even though i have my own theory i don't factually know what happened to make it like this. I know that in summer/long vacations she seems to get the kids (because of insta) but i could be wrong. In the episodes they mention that he kept the house (as he shares with his parents) and they didn't want the kids to go to an unfamiliar place nor keep moving back and forth when they are stil so young, so he kept them like this until they are a bit older.
They do the same for women
The audacity to treat someone's precious daughter bad and then goingon national television to say she wasn't being a good mom. U can see the pain in her eyes in teh video call. This is why its important to be a good husband too while being a good son. I don't like the mother in law
When you start your own family, you have to be a good partner first!! The ex wife was too young but tried hard to be a nice wife, mother and daughter in law!!, She raised the kids alone when Lingua was in the army but still there are stupid people who blame her!! I hate Korean culture!!
She literally humiliated her in front of cameras. What she did to her behind camera must be worse. Poor Yulhee. She deserves better.
Right. The mother-in-law interferes too much in the child's household affairs and is also too critical of even small matters 🥺
Let’s not open our mouth without knowing about their life behind cameras… and they would not go in these program without the permission of their mother😊
@@kulet1001 they went on a t.v. show and let us saw their life and we witnessed some bad scenes!! He came back and put his kids under the spotlight again having his son difficult time!! We can judge that at least cause kids belong to society!! Minhua and his mother try to remake his image and as he has the custody of the children mother's opinion is not needed!! They could have stayed away from cameras this sensitive period but I 'm sure their agencies told them not!! We live in Korea and we know how things work!!
He's a mamas boy. I think they really love each other but then her mother in law is rude to her. So girl fighting you're a good mom you can see it to your son.
Nice comment 😭👍🏻
Oscar. Goes to short haired ahjumma ( grandma of kids ) she poked her buisness in yulhee( mother) buisness a lot
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i dont usually do any hate comments but here i've seen the kids mother doing her best to take care of the child. i am sorry to say but the mother in law looks like one of the biggest trouble in this marriage and minhwan definitely the mammas boy. for a happy marriage mammas boy are one to ruin. i just hope God will protect the heart of our little jaeyul.
Yulhee done her best as mom, raising 3 kids while her husband serve military.. Imagine how hard it is. She probably fedup with the intervention of her in laws..i more than understand how it is. I'm not live with my in laws but every holidays we're staying at my in laws house, she make my kids do everything theirs want, eat all those sweet stuff, the worst part is, she even let my daughters watch youtube in her phone until midnight or probably until dawn, until she fall asleep just to make her sleep in their room. How could you tolerate with that?
he didn't go away for military service. He was given permission to serve at a base near by and go home at end of day cause he has triplets. He basically went from 8am to 4pm or so daily.
@@koreandevil604- as a non-Korean who is familiar with SoKor mandatory military service (because of seeing some Korean actors entering the military for a year or so...) they can do that - I mean be granted permission?
@@charliejoson9145yes they can because of the time he served in the military, yulhee just gave birth to the twins, so minhwan got the permission to go back home and take care of their newborn
The third person is not only about another man or mistress, but parents can also become a "third person" if they interfere too much in their child's household affairs. And divorce can occur because parents interfere too much in their children's household affairs. Allahu'alam bissawab 🙏🏻
if he hadn't allowed for his mom to interfer constantly in the raising of the children and their parenting, none of this would've happened. So weird to see him pitying over himself lmao
exactly, I can't stand to watch him feel sorry for himself just because he has to face the consequences of his own actions.
Totally agree....he does not deserve any pity. His children are the most hurt in this situation.
He allowed his mother because he didn’t want to be responsible husband to help yulhee.. he’s always dependent on his mother for everything! Why bring child to this world if you can’t help your wife??
Yeah that’s usely what women do
@@ssj-rose4572 what is? ㅋㅋㅋ
All of them are born to be actors! Especially that grandma acting queen
That man z superficial…. I can feel his fakeness thro the screen…..
hoping for them all to eventually heal, im sure the kids will realise it was the right thing to do once they grow older
Each of them took the part of divorce, I mean : dissapointing and dissapointed each other
@@ainunh_02 yep. im just glad they realised it was the way to go and went with it and wrapped up everything without telling in laws because im sure they would have tried to keep them together ..
@@hoonlvr7213Maybe the in laws would have given some advice or make them see things in a different perspective and made them keep their family together!! The kids are too small to suffer this much especially the boy!! As the mother said, Noone can replace a mother...
@@hoonlvr7213 They are two adults. They should be able to make their own decisions, but it seems that his parents had way too much to say than they should.
@@ainunh_02 apparently the inlaws were all up in their business when it came to the kids and their parenting and she felt alone and no support from her husband... :/ i hope coparenting goes differently as they both can voice their opinion without the pressure of the inlaws, specially for her.
I hope minhwan mother dont involve anymore.. because of her this family breaking up.. poor yulhee, she deserve better treatment.. take care of her child alone during minhwan in military.. got twins must be burden for her 😢 she sacrificed alot
Yes, she even managed to stick herself here, meanwhile Yulhee never got an interview…
@@andiuptown1711 shes literally so annoying
may i know why divorce?
@@aamirayuni minhwan mother criticize everything yulhee do for her child while minhwan just keep silent everytime his mother point a finger at yulhee.. pls search mr house husband u will understand yulhee pain 😢
The child seems to hide his real emotions from the father. He finds himself free to express his feelings with his mom when the father is not around, maybe there's something that the child witnessed the way his parents had argued in the past. 😢 The reason why the mom doesn't go inside the house is that she might feel trapped again and with its new setup feels like she doesn't belong there anymore, as if she's been erased by them. The dad is clinging too much on his mother. He should've said. "No one can replace my mother to my own children" / "no one can be the best Mom to my children other than my own mother ". 😅😅
I've just thought about something while reading your comment. I hope that there won't be any problems with the fact that she doesn't come inside the house, like... The child wants it and Minhwan said that she could. But then, if she says to Jaeyul that she can't, I hope that they won't turn the situation as if she was the only one that doesn't want that... I mean, there are certainly reasons, but that can't be said to a kid because it would hurt even more...
Mother in law doesn't need oscar, oscar needs her😂
They see their mother only once every three weeks? Dang, I was expecting to see thrice a week. No wonder that little boy is so distraught!
I wonder why they can’t get split custody. Like they spend one week at his place and one week at hers.
@@user-tq9vs6fc9uI guess you don't know the real Korean culture that treats women as second class citizens...
@@user-tq9vs6fc9uI think he got main custody cause he probably makes much more than her also not to tamper too much with the kids stability seeing as they all used to live together in that house
@@user-tq9vs6fc9u the mother decided not to take custody as she wants the children to stay in their father's home where they are familiar with. also the children do stay in their mother's home you can see it on her profile
@@k.c5052 the mother decided not to take custody as she wants the children to stay in their father's home where they are familiar with. also the children do stay in their mother's home you can see it on her profile
This is the first time I see a father getting criticism like this on TROS and I think he deserves it. He doesn't deserve to be called a Superman like other TROS dads when his mom helps him a lot. This show should just focus on him spending time with his children instead of giving him a pity party. It won't work because we all have seen how hardworking Yulhee was in raising the children. They will never make me hate you, Yulhee.
You need to stop being so judgmental of this man. The other husbands live with wives who prep meals and other things for them. The ones with multiple children have older ones who help them to cook and care for the younger kids. This man has three very young children. Additionally, two are girls. Also, plenty of parents on this show have had grandparents provide food and side dishes. There is nothing wrong with his mother helping him. Also, it’s his mother. You may not like her but he can’t care about what you think. You are free to dislike your own mother.
For the people criticizing this man and his mother, find something else to do. No in-law can break up any one’s marriage. I am sure the mother-in-law had the same personality before the wife married the son. When you are married, you have to figure out ways to deal with relatives on both sides. You have to set your own boundaries and decide who to let into your house. If the grandma is problematic, the wife can plan to do other things when she visits and leave her with her son and grandkids. She doesn’t have to entertain her if they clash. It’s his mother. He isn’t going to disrespect her to please anyone. When you marry into a family, you have to learn how to exist peacefully when in their presence.
Seems like the mother-in-law is trying to do damage control after ruining her son's marriage, while Minhwan is making himself out to be a faultless father and husband, even after never lifting a finger for his children and never standing up to his mother for his wife. No-one's perfect but I really don't see any benefit to putting your children on TV after a divorce, other than for money and to repair your image. If he was really thinking about his children's benefit, I don't think he'd do this. Not once does he even consider how his wife feels not being able to see her children. He should have matured a lot more and lived independently without his mother before having children.
So currently how is the mother doing like will she be able to Appeal Korea court to see her kids in the future once’s she gets a better job and earn a bit more money or to at least gain more time to see the kids
He should NOT be put out of the show. The emotional and mental state of the children especially the son is not great...he needs counseling. That is what the (pathetic) father needs to focus on. He says the children need their mother....then increase her visiting hours. The mother of the children, pls do not get back with this man...he has no respect for you.
Ikr! It's so weird to see him in public right away after revealing the news of his divorce publicly like that. They might want to gain the public's sentiments
Best actress award goes to the mother lol
He's matured early as the results of the divorce He have 2 younger sisters, so he needs to be a good brother and a helpful son But he's still a child who needs a mother's love
Mother in law is a great actress!! When he gave 3 children to Yulhee he should have thought the amount of sacrifice she did for him. But hes always selfish even now for the eldest son to carefully put out words shows how traumatic the kid is to share anything with father and all the kids dont show any attachment to father....! Minhwan you could have worked out being a father than being over dependent on your Mother these woudnt have happened! Poor Yulhee! I dont understand the reason for appearing in this Show.. just doesnt feel good the idea behind it! Its really heavy for the heart to watch!
The only reason I can think off.. Money and his image...
Agreed. I don't think these kids should have to be on the show. Minhwan was trying to justify it in Ep1 with flimsy reasoning. My best guess is it pays well, and he's got an image to repair...
I couldn't imagine his kids feeling 😢 watching the episode, watching their father pity himself, then they see they miss their mom, or hearing the gossip from their friends or community about their parents divorce, etc 😢😢😢😢 just why re-appeae after divorce? Really selfish father and mother in law 😢😢
@@Rosa-sh3nm money!! Image of a good father!! So important to Korean!!
IMO if she was such a terrible mom as ppl like to paint her I HIGHLY doubt her son would want to talk and see her as much as he does. You can clearly see the love he has for her and vice versa
People are stupid, pathetic!! If they were in her place,would they stay in such marriage?, But I guess they want a woman always to be the victim and don't speak her mind!!
@@user-hl4vl8qd7h exactly! With the suicide rate in that country something worse could have happened! I’m honestly glad she decided to get out, and I just hope her children continue to love her, and when they get older they’ll truly understand.
@@spoilerlover09 hope so! But it's s heart breaking seeing that boy suffer! The twins are too young to express themselves so we can't see if they affected but the oldest one is having a real hard time!! As for Korea??!! Still can't huddle the way they act and treat people!! I fight every single day but I watch Koreans dealing with mental problems cause of stress!! Yulhee was too young, as Minhua, to start a family!! Especially in Korea things are not easy! And I know she's having a hard time away from her kids and because of badmouthing...
@@user-hl4vl8qd7h it’s definitely a sad situation.
@@spoilerlover09 yep...
I'm sure there is a reason why yulhee is not coming inside the house I feel sorry for minhua but I feel more sorry for yulhee imagine giving up the custody of your children to your ex husband is so painful 😢
The Mother in Law is the villain here 😑 I feel bad for Yulhee and Jaeyul!!! Minhwan should man up and stop listening to his mama.
If i were her i would've also divorced cause ain't no way i'm letting someone constantly interfer in my life like the grandmother did... AND having no support from her husband in decision making must've been really hard as it was everyone agaisnt her :/
Don't you ever find yourself in her position! Be a strong, educated, independent woman with her own dreams!! Built a career and if and when you find someone special who approciates who you are, don't want to change you, have the same values then marry!! But don't you ever let others treat you as not worthy or let them dictate your life!! Another advice if I'm allowed... Fight for your dreams, make your life as you want and when you feel you're complete as a person then start a family!! That was also a big issue on their marriage...
@@user-hl4vl8qd7hthat’s the first condition I put up before mrg….. like u don’t have to care fr my parents n I do the same.
@@areum1992 if there is love between the couple, then you want to love the family too!! You can respect the parents but they can't have a say in your life!! You can't expect to share the same thoughts(not even with your siblings) but that's a reason for causing misunderstandings!! Everyone stay at their home, with their problems and keep their opinion to themselves!!
@@user-hl4vl8qd7h agree, however I have no feelings towards in-laws. They just exist like someone ik. They have no say in our life. Finding the right man n having the maturity z important to have a ever lasting relationship. Most importantly our priorities should b discussed b4 mrg.
First don't get knocked up early before your brain [thinking] can be mature. Second, work hard so you'll have your own money but also learn to spend wisely.
At his young age, he is a beautiful and sweet child, a good son who takes care of his parents' feelings. I hope he can express his feelings so that he continues to be such an innocent and sweet child.
저는 아이 엄마가 지금 겪고 있는 고통을 전혀 상상할 수 없어요. 그리고 저는 시어머니가 너무 화가 난다는 사실이 너무 싫어요. 시부모님이 시부모님을 제대로 대하지 않았기 때문에 그녀가 그들이 헤어지게 된 주된 이유 중 하나라고 생각해요. 남편에게도 미안하지만 네, 저는 이 프로그램을 영원히 시청했고 예전 에피소드들은 그가 아내보다 엄마를 얼마나 더 돌보았는지를 보여주고 있고 저는 그를 이것저것 탓할 것입니다. 물론 저는 그가 좋은 아빠라는 사실을 부인하지는 않겠지만 지금 엄마의 고통을 상상해 보세요. 아이들은 자라고 있고 그들은 엄마가 필요해서 아이들이 엄마를 자주 만났으면 좋겠어요. 왜냐하면 그는 그의 나이에 비해 너무 성숙했기 때문입니다. 저는 그가 곧 엄마와 함께 살기를 바랍니다. 파이팅 어린 아이들. 우리는 당신과 당신의 엄마를 사랑하기 때문에 행복한 삶을 사세요. 우리는 율희를 사랑합니다. 😭😭😭❤️💔
agreed
Yulhee deserves better. Now that she's divorced, I hope she can meet new man who appreciates her.
@@terra-xoxo I swear 😭
Superman is really different show now, fathers here acting as if they did an amazing job which is a normal thing for them to do😂 Minhwan and hes mom dont make me hate this show. Not a single one of them say anything about yulhee's sacrifices too.
I miss illook. He's such a good husband and father. Did everything and even helped his wife after she came home. He was so grateful of his wife giving birth to triplets and raised them so good. I miss old tros. Every family, the twins, sarung, haru and their dad's did a good job
When did this show become a pity party?
When the parents separated, the children are really the first to be affected, it hurts my heart to see them like this, even though it's impossible, but I hope nothing like this happens or will happen in the future.
It's her husband fault if you make a family you should support your wife when she's suffering when his mother was nagging in their past videos his mother seems very dominating it's natural to love your mom but if your mother is wrong and disrespectful towards your wife for no reason you should talk it out with your mom and let the two live peacefully I hate her mother in law
Why to marry & have kids if u want to be mama’s boy forever 😒😒 motherinlaw just wants to prove her son who wasn’t wrong but her daughter in law was wrong 😒😒 she just wants to blame Yulhee
Right. It is very clear that he is not ready to be separated from his mother and is not "mature enough" to be a good and wise husband and father 🤦🏻♀️
Hate that he almost is playing himself as the victim (the husband) when it’s all cuz his mom and that fact that he couldn’t stand up to her…
I hate the mom even more she is definitely fake
Ah divorce is so hard, but I hope they can overcome this difficult transition and grow to be happy, healthy children and parents.
After all the hard work the ex-wife did, now he gets to be the "Superman". Huh😊 judging by the comments, the damage is not controlled bro😂
The children miss their mom. That's a sign that she was the best mom, not a bad mom. This mother-in-law has no right being a drama queen 😂 Although I praise the guy for raising his 3 kids, if he had been a better husband, he'd still have a wife now. Ridiculous.
It’s a sign that seeing her only once every three weeks is not enough.
Hope that Jaeyul’s mother can attend and watch her son’s taekwondo practices and/or tournaments in the future. Seems as if he wants to show his mother how well he is doing and she would definitely show her love and support for him…
When she was doing everything when he was away and being mistreated by the mother in law, She was the superman. I cant stand the mother in law acting all hurt that her son now has to take care of his kids all alone.
That mother in law broken a young lady lif, and 3 kids for the rest of their life. Life is going on but traumas will stay for the rest of their life 😢😢
That's right 🥺💔
When they start vlogging I'm their fans so I'm shock that they really divorce.i watched their vlog before it's only yulhee staying in the house taking care their kids to the point that some of their vlogs she look tired and didn't take care herself 😢 fighting yulhee ❤
Disgusting that they’re giving him a platform. I guess the profit he earns helps with the children. Shame on his entire family for treating Yulhee. She did her best and I hope one day the kids will be in her custody 🫶🏽
Simple his mom destroyed their family 🙂
I hope he we will mature soon and take responsibility for his family. I love my parents to the death but there is a clear line where in my life they can or cant interfere. Instead of relaying and depending on them I hope he will find a strength to do what is the best at least for the kids.
Okay but why did Minhwan keep saying that Jaeyul is the one who adjusts for him. Like cant he at least force himself to be more civil on Yulhee than avoiding her in front of their kids. That's so immature of him that his son need to be more understanding than him on this situation especially the kids dont have a say on their decisions. And what is the reason for him to join the kids here in TROS? arent he got the custody becoz he has the money then why do they need to show the kids on public eye.
Nice comment
maybe to do something for his image because all of these things are so fishy with his Mother fakingly crying there.
Oh my, I can't see jaeyul like this 🥲🥲
I feel bad for Minhwan's circumstances whenever he talks in his point of view bcs you can see he truly cares, loves and shows that he only wants what's best for his three kids but remembering how the mother-in-law interferes with their household matters during one of their reality show in the past is 🤡 besides Yulhee is still doing great in co-parenting the three kids, its visible since you can see Jaeyul still being comfortable and acting like a total baby that wants cuddles with his mom. Anyways all for the best and healing to Minhwan, Yulhee and the 3 kids
Appa eomma and kids Will happy in the future.. just wait.. time Will heal 😊😊
I think we should hating on anyone now.... Some are hating on yulhee then some hating on him saying he wants to be a good son but he should've focused on being a good husband& father or whatever pls stop it both are suffering from their pain it's not easy for them please stop bla blaming... Let them overcome through their pain... Let's hope for their happiness .
5:28, look at her pretending to look all sad and disappointed as if she's not the real reason why Yulhee left Minhwan, and the fact that this woman has the audacity to act all innocent and pulling "old lady" card implying that she's just a mother who wanted what's best for her son... What was best for your son was to not have you meddle in his relationship and rip away the mother of his 3 children... Jaeyul shouldn't have to hide that he wants to talk to his mother because his grandmother is a possessive B towards his dad... Minhwan should have stood up for his wife... I don't get it, supposedly Minhwan's dad is still in the picture, why does this lady not put her attention onto her husband!? If you can't tell from the paragraph, I've always disliked the old lady since the beginning, even before the twins were born, she was rude and disrespectful to Yulhee and I'm sure she pushed the divorce more than anyone.
Great comment 👍🏻👍🏻 I also didn't like her mother-in-law from the start, because she interfered too much in her child's household affairs and criticized too much
I also i have the gots thats the reason why they divorce . When i watch 1 episode i forgot what reality show is that . But i see clesrly thats shes not comfortable with her monther in law stepping on how she takes care of her children . Maybe yulhee got tired from her in law
there's nothing wrong with being a good son.. however when you already have your own family... you're no longer just a son.. you're a father and every decision you and your wife makes affects your children greatly...
If parents are rude to your partner for no reason or interfere too much, you gotta call them out. That's not being a bad son. That's taking a stand for your wife and kids. I don't understand how hard it is for men to get this simple thing in their head. No wife is asking their husbands to leave their mom's or abandon them. It sucks leaving your parents to live with some stranger while his mom is constantly being rude to you
i heard from someone in the comments about what might could be there divorce reason.. i feel like the dad is right!! they already have 3 kids, who still need the parents help! it will be even hard to have a 4th kid.. and in laws- i feel like there the main cause, it's difficult to live with in laws when your married and have kids.. the parents should be able to tell whats good for them and not, what food they eat or whatever not the grandparents!! if they keep interfering, the relationship between the mom and dad will get worse! i think it's good that they divorced before it got worse! but i feel bad for the boy.. i wish they all could spend atleast one day together! the mom and dad could still see eachother as friends and so less awkwardness!!
That's the typical Korean family!! You can't talk to elders or make your own decisions!! They started their family too young but that's not a reason for in laws to interfere into their family!! She left her dreams for her kids but she was not appreciated even by her husband!! Good son indeed but terrible husband!! And now he comes back to play the role of superman. ..
@@user-hl4vl8qd7h what do you mean he was a bad husband?! explain!! from what angle?!
@@Jiahnfools if you watched their previous appearance on the show, you will see how his ex struggle to raise her kids alone and be a good mother although she was young!! She had to stay close to her in laws(typical for koreans) and her mother in law always interfere in a bad way!! Many times she felt alone as her husband was following his mother advice and didn't pay attention on what his wife needed!! Keep in mind that this show was aired to make fathers involved in child raising since Korea is very patriarchical and want women staying mums and always obedient to the in laws!! Those who know Korean reality can understand! This show is scripted, they want to present a happy family or fathers taking care of their children but believe me that's not totally true!! Minhua most of his marriage was away!! As Yulhee had to quit her job, the only income was Minhua's who went on concerts and also his two year mandatory enlistment. Yulhee was left with three kids and in laws!! Her mother in law always made her feel like she couldn't do right things with the excuse Yulhee was too young to know!! The girl felt frustrated but her husband never trully took her side and never set a line between his family and mother!! Yes, good son indeed but a bad husband!!
@@user-hl4vl8qd7h i agree!! but i still blame the in law.. if it weren't for them, he would be listening to her not his parents! in a lot of countries you have to respect and listen to your parents even if your married and have kids.. i guess that's the reason! the audacity the in law had while interviewing, crying saying she was hurt when they divorced when she is the reason!!
@@Jiahnfools sorry but if you dont have an asian or Arab in laws then you know nothing!! We must respect everyone and not just because they are older or in laws!! They have their family, we have our own!! They can't interfere!! Listen to our parents when we have our own family? We are not kids anymore!! We work, have kids and we are totally capable to make decisions for ourselves!! After 12 years in an international marriage, I'm still treated as an outsider from my husband's family!! But I don't care!! They are in trouble as my husband set the boundaries and make it clear to them that he won't put his family at risk! That's not what Minhua did and I find it so fake coming back to the show!!
I'm crying but these kids have the best parents ❤
His mom was not a pleasant mother in law during previous footages. She was so controllling. Poor these young parent.I dont blame Yulhee if she was not happy with the marriage.
I cant imagine the pain all of them are going through. I cried so much watching this. When the news broke out i was totally shock because i adore them so much. Time might heal the parents pain but not for the kids. They will forever remember it. I hope parents can find help how to properly handle their kids (esp. emotionally) in this difficult time.
I hope she understands her attitude was bad towards wife
This is the reason why I want to marry someone with no family at times like I am in no mood to deal with those mother in law and wife drama. I do get it like his mom is worried about it but she needs to learn that his son Minhwan in already a guy with a family now and she shouldnt be getting TOO involved in their family matter.
I think before they got divorced they should've tried more to work their relationship by living out of that house. I know that Yulhee might not be the perfect Mother but she always do things for the best for her kids and Minhwan I guess should've done better.
y'all need to remember that there is so much going on behind cameras and that are not included in this 10 minute video or an hour show. let's not judge anyone based on what we see here.
they were in different show before this
I was wondering, why every 3 weeks ? :( That's really long for such young kids... Hope that this lovely family will find the good balance to feel better and happier all together ! ♥
Because Korean law treats women like trash!!
At least they’re cordial with each other and only thinking about their children’s future.
Every mother in law thinks their sons are the best and that their daughter in laws didn't do enough... One of the reasons that cause a misunderstanding and rift between partners..
Don’t make assumptions guys we don’t know anything about their live we should just accept the fact. l feel sorry for both especially yelhee was young back then but she made a brave destination and welcomed the children which is sweet. many young age girls don’t do that that why l liked her and watched their channel. may be they didn’t match which is common to happen but in the same time l love the mother in low as a person she has nice personality l don’t know about her as mother know and can’t make assumptions because l didn’t lived with them . I love both yelhee and the mother in low actually
Uk what i dont the grandma !! She is insufferable nd the thing that husband just heard her nd said nothing to support wife pisses me off even more !! Check the video from when these kids were nd family was together
I feel bad for the kids. It’s like he said, “it’s a decision that the adults made but the kids are sad.” Kids are so innocent that it hurts to see them hurt.
I didn't want to watch this at first cause I know I'll tear up...and I did when I saw Jaeyul teared up. I've watched him grow in their past videos. He is very close to his mom. I could see how much she gives her all for her children. Yulhee said herself she wanted to be a young mom. She really loves children. I couldn't imagine her pain when they got divorced because it ment she'll be away from her children most of the time. Minhwan is not always around. He is busy with his band FT Island (yes I'm a fan of them since 2008). Imagine Yulhee raising the kids alone most of the time. I can't understand why the children is not with their mom except the house is Minhwan's. Like, his money was used to buy the house. Still.....like I said, he is not always around. The kids need their mom like how much they need their dad if not more. They had a KZhead channel called "율희의 집" mostly run by Yulhee herself. So, she is basically earning money while she takes care of the children. She does sponsorship and other stuff too. On her channel (if the video/s are still there) she was very open about her struggles and mental health. I don't think she specified it from what I could remember (I could be wrong). I could tell she was going through rough times in private her mental health is taking a toll on her. I remember they said on IG (when they announced their divorce) that they decided the children remains in the house so that they won't feel a drastic changed because of their divorce. Seriously....I understand that but kids are not dumb. They could feel their mom's absence in the house more than not living in that house. I'm not Jaeyul but from what I could see (I could be wrong), Jaeyul felt like he should keep his interactions with his mom a secret cause in his mind, his dad is upset with his mom. He felt like his dad kicked their mom out. He could have witnessed his parents arguments where his mom is hurt the most. He could see his mom hiding her tears. Children watching their parents argue and get hurt is already traumatizing enough. When they said Jaeyul is concern about his dad's feelings when they talk about Yulhee that's why he hides their interactions, in my head...."Are they interpreting the child's behavior well?" I'm no expert but I grew up exposed to my parent's unhealthy relationship ever since I was a child until I became a teenager. Again, I could be wrong, Jaeyul knows more of what happened behind the scene in his point of view. He loves his dad nonetheless. I don't know why we have to film the children's life after their parent's divorce. Ofcourse, we'll see how it affected the poor children. I also don't understand why are they focusing on how their dad (Minhwan) feels more than the children. I kid you not, I only shed tears on Jaeyul's part. I felt NOTHING watching Minhwan and his mom tear up. I don't know why. I just didn't feel....sorry. I only cared about the children cause I know how it feels. My parents are not divorced but they are still technically are since dad got really good at showing how much he doesn't care about us over time. He is not always around. It's his choice. If things don't work out between Minhwan and Yulhee, I would feel more at ease if they decide to let the children live with Yulhee. They could alteast alternate like at some days they are with their dad and then the next days with their mom. Children needs their parent's physical presence. Virtual interactions are never enough.
I wasn't ready when I heard the word divorce I love this couple now they are higher 3 children alone it's not easy he's a very good dad 😢
Jaeyul is so sweet
I still can't believe that they have divorce having Thier first I was so happy for them then come the twins.. Hope they can get back together
Yulhee did her best …when she gave birth to the twins minhwan started his military service ..imagine her hardship raising a baby boy and 2 infants without her husband
Bravissimo, anche con la loro mamma sei davvero bravissimo, si fà tutto per i figli, non sarà tutto semplice, il divorzio è sempre doloroso qualsiasi motivazione ci sia, per fli adulti e per i figli. Bravissimo perché sei/ siete genitori intelligenti che si porteranno sempre rispetto❤
I really pray for the kids. They deserve a healthy childhood. Thats all! ♥
Patch up guys I can see they still love each other and their children my gut says they will be together neglecting mom
so cute
Villian grandma 😤
This reeks of "damage control" and "image restoration" to garner sympathy for him and his Mom. If anyone deserves sympathy it's his ex-wife and their children (we saw Mr. House Husband, we haven't forgotten your Mom rudely interfering in her parenting and your inability to stand up for your wife.) Family trauma does not need to be broadcast for the world to see. Protect your children who are still adjusting.
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This is the first time i feel like TROS is setting a stage up. I cant feel anything aside from the pain in the kids, especially the eldest son. Jaeyul, dont worry, your mummy will always love you. She will always be by your side no matter what. You are a smart and loving son, you will grow into a fine man, better than the man you are growing up with. Shine brighter Jaeyul. Stay strong
The best actress award goes to....😂😂 You guys should watch their reality show when they were just newbie parents and see how Minhwan's mother intervenes in everything in their marriage. The mother in laws actions and words in this episode feels soooo very scripted, Haha 😂 And the Kid shouldn't be the one adjusting to the father's emotions! HE IS JUST A KID! But the kid is more mature than the mama's boy father 😢😢 it is soooo frustrating!
I have watch a season of their old episodes of Minhwan and his wife. I notice the mother in law (his mother) interfere alot with their personal household and i notice his wife looks very uncomfortable. This is the problem of every asian household in general in laws interfer to much with their children own household and parents have hard time letting their children go eventhough they are already married and have their own children. Iam sorry if your children do not ask for advise in their household,do not interfere. I have the feeling his now ex wife want a divorce not nessarry because of him but of his mother. Being a mama boy is fine but there is boundary that grandparents needs to respect. Plus a good husband needs to make a boundaries for his own parents for his own family sake.
Chorei e me emocionei muito com esse pai e seus filhos 😢❤
So, what's the deal with this episode? One minute, he's the super dad post-divorce, but when Yulhee was holding it down, he was a great husband? Feels like they're sidelining Yulhee as the reason for the split. Why not show her visiting the kids and the challenges she faces as a mom too? And then we have the super grandma dropping hints about her involvement in her son's life. You can be a good son and still be a good husband and dad. But I worry she might poison those kids against Yulhee in the future.
Jaeyul is such a kind soul, not wanting to make his dad uncomfortable!❤ I hate that they got a divorce. I wonder why the mom doesn’t see them often enough? And usually kids go to live with their mother, especially in this situation when the father is the busy one as a singer. It makes me think that maybe she did something to cause them to get a divorce. Not sure. Either way, he’s a great father caring for those kids with the help of his loving mother ❤
Based on what they said on their divorce announcement it is because she wanted the kids to stay in the house they were raised in it is all they have known so she wanted them to feel stable and safe while they go through a turbulent process which is divorce and separation plus the father owns the house and grandparents were always heavily involved if she were to take them and go apartment hunting and separate them from grandparents it would be too much
Based on what people are saying he got the kids because he has more money/financial stability since he is also from a wealthy family. So I gess that's maybe how things work in Kore, but I also wonder why she meets with kids only every 3 weeks. Was it also court orderd or what ? And when it comes to a reason for their divorce it's his mother. Some people say his ex wanted another child and to spend a lot of money on kids and he didn't but I think it's a little bit trivial. Isn't it? And if she was unrespected and constantly criticized by her mother in law (you can find some examples on internet) I don't blame her that she couldn't bare it anymore. Especially if her husband wasn't on her side and he was not putting his mother in line. How long can you fight against when you are alone/feel alone. Sorry, but when you strat your own family your parents are no longer on a first place, now it's your wife and kids. And if your mom, even if you love her and respect her, is influencing your family in a bad way you have to stand behind your children's mom no matter what 🥺
Heard Minhwan got a vasectomy too to prevent having another kid @@julianna4310
From my observation Yelhee seems to want a romantic and passionate love story which resembles me when I was in my early twenties and her husband seems to prefer slow paced husband and wife relationships which is resembling me now when l am late twenties that why they seems different yelhee because she is young and her husband because he is mature so l can’t blame any of them But the mother in law seems to be a caring person and young age doesn’t like someone who middle in their life which l understand but to find a caring mother in law is rare for me personally l would prefer this kind of mother in law but l understand people are different and as I said l like both yelhee and the mother in low
Watch the old episode ros or mr. house husband to see the conversation between yulhee, mother in law and minhwan. Then watch happy together, to get a clear sight that since beginning Minhwan's family give hard time to Yulhee. Soon you will understand this mother in law interfere too much in his son marriage, dominan, and not respect the mother of 3. If you ever raised kids, then having someone criticism your parenting style, and have no one support you, you can fall down into frustration. It doesn't have any connection between age and ideal form of love that you mention before. Raising kids is hard, even for me in my late thirties with the full support of my husband. Do not underestimated the intervention effect of someone in the house hold.
So this man telling to his children that if they want to call their mom, go into the room? Youre asking your son to go somewhere else before calling their mom? Wtf. Cant they just call their mom where they were sitting! What was so bad with it. If you are uncomfortable, shouldnt you the one to give some space! Plus, what do you mean you cant imagine raising your children without your mom? You are a freaking adult man, cant you do it alone? Your ex-wife can even raise them by herself whilst humbling your mom. I cant even imagine living with that kind of in-law for even a week. How about you imagine raising your children with their mom?😑
I dunno their story but in my opinion as a woman, if it's painful for him i bet it's 100x painful on his ex wife😔imagine her being selfless to let the kids stay on the place where they grew up when in fact she has the right as a mom to bring them with her,, She thinks of them more than she thinks of herself,. i Hope these kids will grew up without feeling incomplete and full of selflove💜💜 Failed marriage does not mean we are a failure, We just learn how to love ourselves more to not stay on a place where we are not happy anymore,When pain is too much it is better to let go than to hold on😊😊
Here, I am crying my heart out for the kids 😭😭😭
Everyone know yulhee is a good mom. She gave up her youth and career for her kids. While minhwan still continues. I think yulhee had enough too. His mother always judges and interrupt with how yulhee raised her kids. Minivans mothers probably created gap between the couple but complaining and criticzing yulhee to his son.
Boy alwys baby alwys loving by mom😢😢😢❤
Ppl are so judgemental on this comment section, they only watch the show and put assumptions on minhwan and yulhee. If yall want to see something go watch yulhee house and you will see that her relationship with her mother in law was far better than what we see on this type of show and that often they spent time only the 5 of them and not every time with the grandma.
I started crying:(
Why is the dad acting as if he cares for his kids when im more than 100% sure the grandma takes care of them as she shooed Yulhee away to obssess her sons life?😃
Lagi2 anak menjadi korban ketika kedua org tuanya bercerai... Jaeyul dia anak yang periang dan pandai berbicara tapi skrg jaeyul yang dulu perlahan hilang.. Dia butuh ibunya.. Super momnya... Dan mari beri tepukan yang meriah untuk ibunya mihwan... Dia dalang dari semuanya tapi ya begitulah... Mihwan seharusnya bisa mempertahankan pernikahannya tanpa campur tangan ibunya... Tapi yang terjadi gara2 ibunya dia harus kehilangan pernikahannya dan buat anak2nya jd brokenhome... Jaeyul semangat.. ❤
Karena ak juga seorang ibu, jd liat gini sedih banget😢😢miris sekali,, ibunya adalah ibu muda, banyak sekali yg harus dia lepaskan demi menjadi ibu, dia sudah berusaha keras sendiri, kesian sekali,,, mereka belum mengerti apa2, keputusan cerai pasti bukan pilihan terbaik, perasaan anak2 yg jelas terluka😢😢😢
I was surprised that this couple divorce. As a Nigerian I followed the update of this couple from happy together till the other reality program. Parents that married in love should endeavor not to divorced because it leaves a gap in Thier children's lives
Hi Minwhan, I don't know what caused the divorce. It's very easy to say move on. But you must. It's good for you, your soul and your own children. May you have the strength and courage to move forward. Stay blessed. Love from India 🙂🙏🏾
So it's important to not marry mama boy or else you gonna suffer your whole life of your marriage
AGREE
I’m worried about Jaeyul..imagine his pain at a young age.
Hope he doesn't have permanent trauma from this
You can never replace a Mom that's true. So why is the Father's Mother trying to do that? Poor Yulhee
I am a mother of 1 children.. I can't even imagine getting separated from my children..every child deserve father and mother love..i would like to say..if there is nothing like cheating minhwa and yulhee both parents should consider reunioning..nobody is perfect in this world..sometime we need to sacrifice someting small to get someting big..it's about 3 children happiness..parents should reconsider the relation..(English is not my first language.. I can make mistake) cute, lovely and pretty children.. I hope they get a full family❤❤❤
im on yulhee side of course. its our child, it is up to us on how we want our child eat, sleep and doing anything. but the MIL keep pushing yulhee to do this and that for her own kids. i think if the MIL just give a little bit of advice its okay, however she was complaining on everything what yulhee did. she had to take care of the kids meal and her husband necessities, totally giveup on her dream being an idol. but this family never treat her well. maybe minhwan treat her well behind the cam but still he put his priorities on his mother not his wife and his little family.
Smoga bisa bersatu kmbali suatu hari nanti dg kasihNy.. anak2 bahagia dg cinta n kasih sayang dari ortu mreka..hope❤