5 HABITS THAT PROVE YOU'RE AN INFJ! (RAREST PERSONALITY TYPE)

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INFJ Life Coach Lesson: Check out the five habits that show you're an INFJ, a rare personality type known for deep insights and empathy. If you're unsure about your type and want to understand and embrace it fully, this video is for you. While these habits may not show up every day, they're common traits among INFJs. Let's explore the signs that point to you being part of this unique personality group.
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  • What habits you have (or have had) seem very "INFJ" related?

    @Wenzes@Wenzes2 ай бұрын
    • synthasizing a new me. Im very differnt than I was say 3 weeks ago.

      @MegaCyberleader@MegaCyberleader2 ай бұрын
    • Sincere, hardworking, empathic, logical, deep, intuitive, sensitive and creative.

      @jessmason2112@jessmason21122 ай бұрын
    • Absorb environment/emotions -> feel/rationalize -> make conclusions -> behave accordingly. But other people are always one step ahead in "living" life. For me it looks they are fast forwarding the movie, but miss important clues.

      @robin15092@robin150922 ай бұрын
    • Very specific habits that confirmed (& annoyed me) that I might be an INFJ. I do listen better than most but I share sometimes more if there's a purpose. Would you cover how the other MBTI's interact with INFJ's? Also, what's the best way to interact with them?

      @vince1012@vince10122 ай бұрын
    • absolutely keeping things weird…. Side note: check out Terance McKenna the brilliant psychonaut. (a INFJ’s dream)

      @rudysdream@rudysdream2 ай бұрын
  • 1:24 You think in mindset solutions when it comes to others 3:08 You leave get-togethers rather early 6:22 You have the urge to overexplain yourself 11:08 You have obsessed over a romantic interest for a long period in your life 16:08 You listen way more than you share

    @TheWisdomOfTheAges_PsyM_Revd@TheWisdomOfTheAges_PsyM_Revd2 ай бұрын
    • thank you!

      @dsantita635@dsantita6352 ай бұрын
    • Damn. This is me in a (very little) nutshell, although I try to evolve in certain fields, like f.e. to leave get-togethers early. Now I bring people together of which I think they could get along and that it would be a good thing in their lives, so then I must stay. I regret that I organize those things mostly, but I think that goal is more important than my feelings.

      @thewatchtower8330@thewatchtower83302 ай бұрын
    • 💓

      @themountainsandthesea4121@themountainsandthesea41212 ай бұрын
    • I like the way you list the points and the locations. It's a help in reviewing.

      @lindateuling7862@lindateuling78622 ай бұрын
    • #6 You kindly make a list of the topics in the video with time stamps.

      @DonTrump-sv1si@DonTrump-sv1si2 ай бұрын
  • Trying to 'explain less and act more.' It was initially disappointing to understand most people won't understand what I'm saying and thinking. For years, I thought it was because I thought I wasn't doing a good enough job of explaining. Now, I just don't care. Not caring has been liberating. Thank you, Wenzes, for helping me and others see this.

    @davebarker4880@davebarker48802 ай бұрын
  • Both my wife and I are INJFs and we have experienced all the 5 points you mentioned. I wish when I was a lot younger I would have understood I was an INFJ - my life started making sense once I realized it.

    @myhalflifecrisis@myhalflifecrisis2 ай бұрын
  • I recently told my kids, "I can tell you what I know, but I can't give you who I am." This, I think, encapsulates the notion that no one, not even family, can fully understand the INFJ. It's not a bad place to be, just the reality of the situation. Of course, it is family that knows you the best.

    @LyleHornbaker@LyleHornbaker2 ай бұрын
  • I accidentally came across this, and I am a 64-year-old retired (INFJ) Counsellor. I have never heard of an INFJ life coach what a great video

    @karenfinneganart2480@karenfinneganart24802 ай бұрын
    • Karen may I ask for your advice? As an INFJ, I'm 25 and doing IT in a rapidly growing company so there is plenty of career potential, good pay, but of course the stress and responsibility that comes with it. But there is no opportunity for helping others which is my burning hearts desire, I try to unconsciously help others and be too nice etc., but that doesn't help. I have my spiritual life also so rarely have time for fulfilling this need. I'm debating quitting IT to get into counselling, just so I can help people - I'm so 50/50 with it. Any words I greatly appreciate. Thanks, Balarama

      @thespiritualjourney1252@thespiritualjourney125219 күн бұрын
  • I tap out socially after an hour. My brain shuts off but I can't leave yet because I am with my husband who is visiting his large family. His is an ISFJ. With any other group he is one of the first to leave, but not with his family. I can only take an hour at social gatherings. So I have to decompress for days afterward. I enjoy 1-1 a lot more and can stay longer with that person if we are having an interesting conversation.

    @AA123TD@AA123TD2 ай бұрын
  • Emotional energy is scarce and precious, use judiciously. 😺

    @stephenfegely@stephenfegely2 ай бұрын
  • Once i discovered i am INFJ-a & what that entails.... BOOM, no more over sharing, no more explaining myself, no more trying to fit in..... because i am who i am & it won't change, even if i wanted to. In fact i do not feel bad that my business is growing, my hobbies are an expression of me & that some people just don't like me...😁

    @Not_all_as_it_seems@Not_all_as_it_seemsАй бұрын
    • exactly at first I thought great Im cursed ...Lol! but everything fell into place and my drum beats just fine for me and those willing to share my expierience and view of life! the shallow world can drown in a cup of tea for all I care!

      @rc9266@rc926627 күн бұрын
    • @@rc9266 Ha yeah, a cup of tea is still too deep for them though, you are very generous! 🤣

      @Not_all_as_it_seems@Not_all_as_it_seems22 күн бұрын
  • I feel like I have to explain every little detail because I see things from so many different sides that other people may not see. Life has so many different nuances, and things aren't black or white. I also always feel the need to fix problems for others by giving them the solution, even if they just wanted to vent. I want everyone to be happy, have all they need, and be kind to everyone. Unfortunately, others don't always care to be nice. That's when my dark side comes out. I'm super nice to everyone until someone crosses the line with others. Then the claws come out. People should be careful not to mistake kindness for weakness.

    @jikook7457@jikook74572 ай бұрын
    • I do so too. For example: my emails were way too long at my previous job. I try to keep in mind I should temper myself in that.

      @thewatchtower8330@thewatchtower83302 ай бұрын
    • I found fixing machines more rewarding then trying to fix people who refuse sound advice after they asked for it!

      @rc9266@rc926627 күн бұрын
    • @rc9266 I get that, but I love them, and it's hard to let someone walk off a cliff if I can put up a sign warning of caution ahead.

      @jikook7457@jikook745727 күн бұрын
  • The effort INFJs put into explaining themselves could be a result of having Tertiary Ti,. Since INFJs so badly want to understand things, it leads them into falsely concluding that others also want to understand things.

    @japanesereadingandwriting@japanesereadingandwriting2 ай бұрын
    • Dang. So true..

      @marygb777@marygb77724 күн бұрын
  • Yes yes yes yes and yes. Wish I'd known I was an INFJ earlier in life.

    @MichellePoulton-eq1ko@MichellePoulton-eq1ko2 ай бұрын
  • Being an INFJ is the best personality type to be on this planet. To have the power of courage over fear, a well crafted integrity-based living system, intuition to readily identify excessively self-interested people, and soooo much more. I went from a dire search for peace in my college years, to a lasting serenity and understand that my path is profoundly good, meaningful and that frankly, it is too bad the vast majority of people do not understand this excellent approach to life. It is a choice on how you want to handle your INFJ type though. There are many high profile people who are INFJ, both great and some evil. Take the pressure off yourself and just try to make the world a slightly better place, look forward to engaging in meaning, not explanation.

    @Digits-nf9fo@Digits-nf9fo20 күн бұрын
  • I enjoy being a INFJ...I LOVE LEMONS TOO!!

    @lindaelliott837@lindaelliott8372 ай бұрын
  • True. I obsessed over a childhood crush for many years. When he finally noticed me, 30 years later, reality didn't come close to fantasy.

    @MBAinternetmktg@MBAinternetmktg2 ай бұрын
    • I know, what a mean trick your mind plays of looking at potential. I was obsessed with an old friend for over 10 years.... finally happened and only lasted 2 months before I left. Time to get our minds into reality

      @amyitis@amyitis2 ай бұрын
  • I started leaving birthday parties early at about at age 7. Maybe I’d last forty minutes, then I’d have to walk out. Parents looked at me like I was crazy. I was just bored and irritated. I thought Pin The Tail on the Donkey, blindfolding a kid then spinning him around in a circle was abuse disguised as fun.

    @wallymarcel1@wallymarcel12 ай бұрын
    • I never celebrate my birthday since i was 14. It felt odd. My friends...well, they haven't been deep enough for my taste. It felt too superficial for my taste. I get crazy when i have too many ppl around me. It drains me emotional, psychologically. All that B$, gossip & chitchat, it's overwhelming. Therefore, i always have my lunch alone. (or with my gf before, but this is a thing of the past)

      @marcp.1752@marcp.17522 ай бұрын
    • @@marcp.1752 i feel the same way.

      @sukiyakking9138@sukiyakking91382 ай бұрын
    • I've had my last b-day "party" with 14- and told my friends (after having a cinema 99% for ourselves, plus 1-2 other ppl) this is it - there's no more birthday celebration ever again, it sucks, i don't want it anymore. My friends found me crazy, i've found it total ordinary. And Now >3 decades later, still...that was the perfect choice as kid.

      @marcp.1752@marcp.175219 күн бұрын
  • Mostly, I tell people what they want to hear when I choose to deal with them, otherwise, I no longer give a hoot if others like me, or understand me.

    @georgiapeach1327@georgiapeach13272 ай бұрын
  • I dont leave early i stay to help clean up or pack up or whatever...I need to make sure everything is well and taken care of then I leave

    @Breeze2423@Breeze24232 ай бұрын
    • Exactly how I feel unless it's a huge event with a lot of people

      @jennacuracoavocational50@jennacuracoavocational502 күн бұрын
  • Sometimes it's childhood trauma keeping you obsessed with that romantic interest. My reasons to be obsessed were also things I didn't get from my father. I think our INFJ and trauma can go hand and hand. But hearing it in this way takes the pressure off the trauma but the trauma helps to pinpoint the issues a lil more quicker. Not everyone is an INFJ and they also get into dating (not healthy) patterns and obsessed w potential partners.

    @tinacherry2295@tinacherry22952 ай бұрын
    • Agree, the term Limerence covers what you explained. Very eye opening.

      @sspencer4036@sspencer40362 ай бұрын
    • And more worse is, you don't get a possibly relationship, that kind of person, because you've grown older...well, anyway. Sometimes, meditation could be helpful. As long, as you're fine with your own thoughts, your inner & outside world, it's fine.

      @marcp.1752@marcp.17522 ай бұрын
  • spot on. i always feel i need to explain myself, and then i get to a point where i feel i am over explaining, and at the same time, i don't feel i need to apologize for who i am. but yet i do explain myself, in hopes of being understood. this is enlightening. some people may never understand and the infj needs to give themselves a break.

    @ylyl2079@ylyl20792 ай бұрын
  • As for habit #2 For me, I would differentiate between get-togethers in which I participate willingly and with joy and those that I attend because I live in a society. If I'm meeting my dad's side of the family (with whom I have a great connection), I will need to recuperate AFTER but I'm staying as long as it's socially acceptable, and then some, because these meetings ground me, fill me with life-energy and usually become core memories. If my best friend is organising a party, then I'm the first person there, and the last one to leave, too, staying to help clean etc. (though I might not talk much by the end). If we're talking "courtesy" socialising ("I don't hate you and can't find a way to refuse the invitation, nor do I crave your company and conversation is a bit of an effort"), then I'm obviously one of the first out, unless I find a way to help out in the kitchen or with any practical things away from the crowd (just let me out from behind that table pretending to enjoy participating in the inane conversation). That might be because I socialise very rarely, but if I feel connected to someone, I will stay up until the wee hours even if it's not prudent, I'll go hungry to keep the conversation going, I'll put off other plans if possible. However, if we mean get-togethers that drain rather than fuel, then obviously I'm out as soon as I've fulfilled the social obligation.

    @pitulanek@pitulanek2 ай бұрын
  • As a senior citizen in the group (I'm sure there are others) I enjoyed hearing this and comparing it to my actions when younger as opposed to now - and especially after having cultivated Fe for about 63 years. Also, a mitigating factor was having to deal with two chronic conditions - mononucleosis in the 20s and lupus starting in the late 40s. Let's just say that made the habit of leaving a party early easier to understand! 🙂 All these points resonated with me, but especially #3 - having the urge to "explain" things. I often felt obligated to do this at home. However, I soon learned that it wasn't as necessary as my family led me to believe. It was a big relief to find out, while studying systematic assertiveness training that one of the "assertive rights" was that we are not obligated to give a lot of excuses or reasons for our behavior. And I learned and saw thst for every person who demanded an explanation, there were probably 20 who didn't. So if I needed to change plans or make different decisions, I found that by saying, "I have the details if you need them, but I am (going to, not going to, etc ... whatever) Usually that's taken care of most "explaining." and there's been no bad reaction.

    @lindateuling7862@lindateuling78622 ай бұрын
  • #5, i do listen to others far more than I share. But, lately a new interest actually wants to hear about me, wants to find out things about me. It seems odd to me, but we do share in-depth, far more than I've shared with my lifelong friends, far more than with my husband, far more than anyone else. To be emotionally intimate is good for me at this stage in my life. I actually like it--but only with this particular person.

    @deannastands5141@deannastands51412 ай бұрын
  • I don’t what it is, but her facial structure, her teeth configuration, her eyes, they all align with her personality… I love it - very cute, very beautiful, very insightful.

    @DriftArcana@DriftArcanaАй бұрын
  • Sharing leaves me with a vulnerability hangover. Doesn’t feel good. 😝

    @TiMarie13@TiMarie132 ай бұрын
    • then only share the unimportant!

      @rc9266@rc926627 күн бұрын
  • all of them, and I outsmarted a psych doctor who decided to gas light me. So im good.

    @MegaCyberleader@MegaCyberleader2 ай бұрын
    • When one sees enough of them, one becomes familiar with the process they use. It becomes apparent when personal feelings get in the way of professional detachment. Some have an agenda (like recruiting for religion or veganism), and some just don't like a challenge. It's too bad I haven't met one with an agenda to end loneliness, but for some reason they never introduce their clients no matter how isolated and touch-starved. Isn't it sick that there are rules against it? Or maybe they just don't care. One simple action at no cost, and everything is better. But maybe the cost is not being able to sell antidepressants, antipsychotics, ECT, hospital stays, ketamine, and suboxone for the self medicators. Despair is profit, as long as we don't die.

      @JB52520@JB52520Ай бұрын
  • Thank you! The overexplaining and oversharing, the obsessive relationship experiences (limerant attachments, anyone?,) and feeling like nobody gets me no matter what I say, it just hit home. Feeling misunderstood vs not caring about being understood is something I'm working through now, and I'm greatful for this video because it actually kind of answered a question I posed to the universe earlier today. 😂 I really appreciate your work, it has helped me tremendously in seeing my core self and appreciating myself for what sets me apart instead of internally moping about 'not fitting in'. The comment sections of your content are one of those few places I really can feel comfortable authentically opening up about my experiences and my progress in rediscovering my core self.

    @wanderanon@wanderanon2 ай бұрын
    • Couldn’t agree more about her and also the comment section in her videos 🎉🎉🎉

      @theADHDinfj@theADHDinfj2 ай бұрын
    • I do know since all my life, i am HSP. Well, at least that i am different, since pre ground school. Figured out, i am INFJ serveral years ago - and since then, i see whileas life is always being, what it is - this way. Nowadays, even at work, i don't give a damn, over-explaining myself. ppl don't get me quite often, they do have a different mindset, and different own drum set, they're following, too. It's ordinary, to be misunderstood. Ordinary ppl can't look over the plate, sad but true. They simply dont get it. It doesn't make sense.

      @marcp.1752@marcp.175219 күн бұрын
  • Explaining explanation? is truly in a way powerful

    @gianniyuma8852@gianniyuma88522 ай бұрын
  • TO ME IT'S ALWAYS OF HOW I CAN BE LEFT ALONE😂😂BUT, ALSO BE SOCIAL AT THE SAME TIME. EVEN IF I AM HELPING YOU. HOW CAN I HELP YOU TO CHANGE YOUR MINDSET ETC SO YOU CAN NOT COME BACK TO BOTHERING ME WITH THE SAME ISSUE. NEGATIVITY IS SOO DRAINING FOR ME💯💜♓️

    @april2702@april27022 ай бұрын
  • Spot on with all habits you listed. Thank you for reaffirming these thoughts yet again 😊

    @TheParez@TheParez2 ай бұрын
  • This is me 💯! I have as I've matured, and especially after learning of being an infj, begun to implement a lot of these things. Great advice as always!😃

    @tigre7739@tigre77392 ай бұрын
  • Guilty AF, especially from that 3rd point. Thank you again Wenzes

    @kristyboxx@kristyboxx2 ай бұрын
  • Beautifully on point ❤thank you❤

    @wolfeyessouls7965@wolfeyessouls79652 ай бұрын
  • All of this information,explains who I am & the way I see others and the world.

    @francinegillett869@francinegillett8692 ай бұрын
  • This brought me to tears within a way that truly hits home A place I haven't checked in for quite some time

    @brianhales1416@brianhales14162 ай бұрын
  • you catched me!

    @lieushinn@lieushinn6 күн бұрын
  • 100% accurate. I’m just about always the last person to show up & the first to leave a gathering. Large groups make me uncomfortable & what you said about not having the capacity as an INFJ to help a lot of people is also accurate. I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m glad not everyone reaches out to me for guidance & support. If they did I’d probably commit myself to a psych ward.

    @petecrumpton55@petecrumpton552 ай бұрын
  • Love is so rare but when found it truly lights the mirror of my soul.

    @michaellawson6533@michaellawson6533Ай бұрын
  • Yup. Excellent especially leaving early after having a lovely time!

    @loisbock9591@loisbock95912 ай бұрын
  • Thank you Wenzes. You explain my INFJ-ness so well. Your video’s are study material that I treasure. You have changed the way that I look at myself and that has changed my life, step by step ❤️.

    @lalune323@lalune3232 ай бұрын
  • Super video. Sympathetically displayed. That is me, right there. Instant like 😃

    @TheSigmaINFJTigerInMe80@TheSigmaINFJTigerInMe802 ай бұрын
  • Sooooo true ! I’m learning to feel comfortable not explaining myself anymore…

    @malibubliss8153@malibubliss815318 күн бұрын
  • Very nice Wenzes 🎉

    @commoncitizen03@commoncitizen032 ай бұрын
  • My cousins affectionately joke that I'm always the first to leave. I can't help it. When I've had enough I just go. I don't care what is happening.

    @medusagorgon8432@medusagorgon84322 ай бұрын
  • The part about relationships was spot on! I have recently been just realizing I am addicted to the yearning. It is the ultimate problem which can’t be solved.

    @jpink8546@jpink8546Ай бұрын
  • Yes all Five Points. Found that looking for Emotion from other People very hard to shake. Not much internal emotion ( save for Music) , hopeless ' Junkie ' on others moods for a Long Time.

    @depthsowned@depthsowned2 ай бұрын
  • I love this!

    @caslahao2359@caslahao23592 ай бұрын
  • seems receiving clarification beyond any doubts is the daily m.o. & yr explanation maxed this up... W o w... ty...

    @jlm517rocks@jlm517rocks2 ай бұрын
  • Oh I was smiling and laughing along with every point Wenze described. Did I have to listen to each one as described? Sure, an added reminder even to the point of responding who cares when trying to explain over and over, they just won’t get it, what they will get is the action I take for myself, for me which was counter productive to be a pleaser, I am going to hurt someone… not really, when I stand my ground, I am loving myself more and gaining confidence to get stronger… so people won’t get me, oh well. It will be through my intent of my actions to what I want… a learned step by Wenze from this channel. Did I learn something new as an INFJ, sure takes practice, work, and love of self to continually grow as an INFJ, yay yippee 🥳

    @user-xp9yp9iz3f@user-xp9yp9iz3f2 ай бұрын
  • That "tea" situation is exactly what happened when my friend started struggling at work recently. She expected me to bring a cup of something, not any of my advice which she didn’t ask for in the first place. Explaining myself... nobody is willing to wait for the answer or expression (mostly) and if I take a shortcut, nobody understands it. And I understand.. there is nothing to complain about, but it sucks a lot.

    @martindavid1972@martindavid19722 ай бұрын
  • I feel like this was reading my mind, but you're a power house all on your own. I thought, gosh what a conversation she and Jay Shetty would create! Guess who was in the feeds! Jay!

    @meimeiamore394@meimeiamore3942 ай бұрын
  • You are simply super ❤

    @shashankkasliwal6381@shashankkasliwal63812 ай бұрын
  • I really like your short hair style. ❤

    @Mr_Curious@Mr_Curious2 ай бұрын
  • 💚Thank you. Thank you 💚👏😊

    @bonitaclaireloveday-wp9rq@bonitaclaireloveday-wp9rq2 ай бұрын
  • I love this video. It's 100% what I have experienced. What is really helping me out is my writing and performing. The more I sing, do public speaking and share my creativity, the more I am energized. I am manifesting what I desire. I am meeting new people and opening new doors to opportunity. By being my authentic self, I am helping others get in touch with themselves. My INFJ, Dark Lilith , Pluto essence is very intoxicating, but only when it's on full blast all the time. If I try to control that part of me, it just looks manipulative and insane instead of inspired.

    @jerrimenard3092@jerrimenard30922 ай бұрын
  • Very true!

    @jazzychazzy007@jazzychazzy0072 ай бұрын
  • Very interesting perspectives. Your explanation helps identify whether I am an INFJ or INTJ. Everyone exhibits all aspects to a certain degree, but these two types are strongest for me. It mostly depends on the context. My INFJ is strongest around those closest to me. I often "feel" other people's headaches when I get within a few feet (without even looking at them, it only requires close proximity). When I move away the "headache" goes away for me. This has only happened with 2 people so far (both in my family). I also tend to listen to the speech rhythms, tone, inflections, and other aspects when someone speaks than the words they use - also true for what they write. However, as a software developer, I tend to be highly analytical. I've been described as a very analytical in almost everything outside of personal relationships (science, history, etc.).

    @borndeafin1ear@borndeafin1earАй бұрын
  • My sister came to see me a few months ago. She stayed at a cottage (I have a 1 BR) and each day she visited she understood I needed a little down time. We hadn't seen each other in 14 years. We had SUCH a wonderful time together. So much so she is coming next month to visit.

    @traceyd6053@traceyd60532 ай бұрын
  • Omgosh the leaving is totally me

    @JewLsTruly@JewLsTrulyАй бұрын
  • How to deal with sharing with others rather than being the one who listens, helps solve issues etc. I’ve been aware and tried to say more of what’s about myself, and I realised they don’t want to hear it, they want me to listen or help not talk about myself. This has happened several times, my conclusion is that few people genuinely listen or are interested to listen.

    @Hildred6@Hildred6Ай бұрын
  • You blew me away with #4…. A short story is here; if anyone wants to read it. (not about the romantic obsession; about the foreign countries part)

    @troyw.5101@troyw.51012 ай бұрын
    • dittos...more than once...duh...

      @jlm517rocks@jlm517rocks2 ай бұрын
  • LOL I laughed out loud for #4--obsessing over a romantic interest. For years, at least 20, a person who lives in another state has been my obsessive interest. yeah, the thing is, he breadcrumbs me every once in awhile and I get hooked again. lol oh well, it's been fun and interesting. we see each other every three years or so.

    @deannastands5141@deannastands51412 ай бұрын
  • Interesting, I have all of these. I have taken the test a couple of times. Sometimes I am INFJ and sometimes INFP. It apparently boils down to a couple of questions and the mood of the day.

    @busterscruggs5397@busterscruggs53972 ай бұрын
  • Great videos! are there any other people out there who are both INFJs and on the Spectrum (Asbergers)?

    @nattergalen1000@nattergalen10002 ай бұрын
  • HABIT #2: YOU LEAVE GET-TOGETHERS RATHER EARLY I don't do this. Then again, I don't engage in alot of Social Get-Togethers; because, I have No Social Life. I have very strong Negative Energy; and, I avoid others because of it. Even at Social Get-Togethers. What I have experienced as a High Schooler was that I could hang out with my friends for a few Days in a row; but then, want to spend a Day to myself, or away from them; even when, they ask me to engage in a Group Thing that I would like to do with them. In Large Get-Togethers, I would hang around a group for a bit; then, find another group to hang around for a bit; and, so on. The only reason I would want to leave a Get-Together is because there is Bad Energy at the Get-Together; or, there is a Bad Person/Group at the Get-Together; or, my Negative Energy is affecting the Get-Together.

    @stevequerin2504@stevequerin25042 ай бұрын
  • Re: #4, I have a bad habit of obsessing over guys at work as a way of getting through the mundanity of my job. Unfortunately I can’t switch jobs right now because there’s a lot of benefits to staying, and I really need the stability at the moment. Developing an obsessive crush seems to be the only thing that’s gotten me through most of life 😅 I also did this to get through school..

    @nicolemarie866@nicolemarie8662 ай бұрын
  • God Bless you ❤️👁️❤️

    @SkyJackMart@SkyJackMart2 ай бұрын
  • I was 15 when I met this guy I knew I wanted to marry. 9 years later I was!! Happily married for 12 years. Maybe I have mye infj traits to thank for my patience. 😊

    @ima.ekenes@ima.ekenes2 ай бұрын
  • If people are more worried about the fact they are or aren’t because I’ve understood everything and I’ve done testing and I’ve been enlightened by how much I actually do know. Thoughts become actions eventually

    @Joshua-ej8rm@Joshua-ej8rm2 ай бұрын
  • Ok... First things first. I despise the over use of acronyms, they are a waste of time and a distraction to an otherwise interesting conversation. I've always had an insatiable thirst for knowledge. As a child I taught myself to read at 4 years old. By the time I started kindergarten I had read a 10 volume set of book's that explained so much about human nature and the motivations at play that the only place I felt comfortable was in the company of people much, much older than myself. What I understand now is the fact that so much of what I see in others is a pure lack of understanding the repercussions of both action and in-action on themselves and others (very disappointing!). I'm not sure how this topic found it's way into my "suggestions" but I'm grateful, (I think?). Introspection seems almost a hobby that is far more interesting than the clown show that humanity has become and, in away I'm disappointed in myself for that attitude. At least I have a better understanding of the reactions of others to my personality thru this video. I've been called a sigma male, an introvert, a blah, blah, blah... but what the he!! is the full meaning of "I.N.F.J." and why the secret code, what makes a silly label so important? Going on 70 years old I'm at peace with myself "but" life is still better shared with a likeminded woman. It's a balance thing... A very wise friend once said of my plight "Wish with one hand, pick up rocks with the other and see which one fills up first"! Well... I'm still a rock hound. Almost forgot! Thanks for the video Wenzes.

    @donhammer186@donhammer186Ай бұрын
  • I was always late and left early

    @JewLsTruly@JewLsTrulyАй бұрын
  • I'm an INFJ for certain.

    @francinegillett869@francinegillett8692 ай бұрын
  • I tend to be as a vacuum cleaner for negative energy, It's the only way i can understand people and i need a lone space after. This is why i have never been really into relationships that have been functioning. Even if i meet the same person every day can be exhausting.

    @Symphonia1983@Symphonia1983Ай бұрын
  • Shes soo pretty

    @josephwinters5902@josephwinters590210 күн бұрын
  • crystalline guidance with raisia her song I AM you will like it and thanks for what you do.

    @susandoerr3896@susandoerr38962 ай бұрын
  • Merci Wendy j'étais un amoureux imaginaire. Je vais mieux.

    @jean-francoisgagnon680@jean-francoisgagnon6802 ай бұрын
  • i have 4 out of 5 of these. the 2nd one is weird for me cuz i will stay in social setting for a long time. i dont necessarily feel uncomfortable. i have this underlying fear because i have no clue how long it will before i get any social interactions,people dont like to spend alot of time with me. sometimes it will be months between any social events for me,so i feel like i need to spend as much time as possible because i know i will be starved of human connection for a very long time.

    @mork8144@mork81442 ай бұрын
    • Same! If it's a good social interaction, I want to squeeze it to the last drop because it's hard to predict when the next one will happen.

      @pitulanek@pitulanek2 ай бұрын
  • 5/5. INFJ-t, ex-narc (probably), victim of gang stalking, conscious human being, member of toxic family, old soul with young spirit. I keep asking myself what else WILL I FOUND in internet? What else is buried... I don't know, but I'm so curious.

    @DeliciouslyTwistedHumanAnomaly@DeliciouslyTwistedHumanAnomaly2 ай бұрын
  • I feel bad about not having the same capacity as the ISFJ to care for people Our role is a different one however... It's good to be mindful of that

    @cinderling5472@cinderling54722 ай бұрын
  • I swear mankind has to place a label and categorize everything and everyone to make it easy to deal with, I literally have to look up what INFJ even means. People are more complex and placing labels on them I think is a bad idea, it makes that person think they are X and others think they are X, when maybe they really aren't, or are just going through something at that point in life that makes them seem to be X.

    @buckjones4901@buckjones49012 ай бұрын
  • A tortured soul that's all I am today.. trying to heal for tomorrow

    @Dethian666@Dethian6662 ай бұрын
  • I'm pretty sure i'm INFJ but sometimes get INTJ on the tests. Do you know the best types of girl I should be dating?

    @spiritofclay3758@spiritofclay37582 ай бұрын
  • How about just taking the Myers-Briggs test?

    @jacksaintjack2844@jacksaintjack28442 ай бұрын
  • I like to think that that's not our madness, most of the people are just dumb or shalow. They just don't see, or don't want to see bigger picture. I stop explaining myself long time ago.

    @irregularmom1236@irregularmom1236Ай бұрын
  • 💯 6:47

    @jessmason2112@jessmason21122 ай бұрын
  • INFJ is natural born sage

    @renlerose7964@renlerose79642 ай бұрын
  • Like any other human beings infjs are at the depth of their minds first human and then they're different so much so that they become rare people who have a rather specific minds that make themselves by their own habits developed since they started to realize about the difference that they make characteristically but seemingly enough indifferent to what most people would plunge into needful action in real time but infjs I don't know, have a reaction time much more than others to get in touch with a needed action and this laggardness finds infjs in a sphere which is small and so tough that they struggle in companies which don't like the kind of inertness infjs possess, by and by they become almost unexplored by most people who are more at extroverts enjoying life in a general way and they make larger portion of any community and being nearly out of the mass their system makes a tumbling block to find their own community a little more larger and larger to find same kind of people who understand themselves very well and this probably makes a world of difference for anachronistic infjs to unfold themselves! I believe, there's always a darth of understanding people around infjs but this darth doesn't matter much to any infj whether in single or in a small group until they, especially the loners, are in a difficult spot to get home their pov to the throng they are still didn't have to work on such events and being very introverted they start struggling to find some who understand their special language! Special because what the struggling infj wants to make it understand in their way to have it done but now they are fish out of a water where different fishes abounds in, maybe better, if not the best, in a given communion! Sometimes it becomes so intense that the infjs never thought of because, at least it occurs me, that most of the time people like me loves to be in a daydream far far away than real world where down to earth people rule the roost when an infj broods over her prince charming, writing a few lines for him what appear farfetched to most real people, or thinking of a picture in their mind much so abstract before they're made, or even venture into something which other always fear to at a given time in life and now think you try to put on track such a personality like putting a derailed coach on its track again! Now you must strive to find some breather by saying approving words like, this will pass! You know world War l passed, ll also passed and we have fifty six at hand and it'll also pass but even the warmongers don't know how much time they require to give us a world when there'll be no war zone and none of us have difficult to reach where we actually belong to give vent our very self with unmatched joyfulness! 😂😂❤❤ Love is in the air, I'm sometimes beside myself to expressions that does very much mismatch my very much and when I find myself to unfold I try my best not leave anything unexplored to recompense my folies out of infj rage!

    @shyamalganguly3598@shyamalganguly35982 ай бұрын
  • I stopped explaining myself cause i will give the truth onnce and then if ppl lie i tap

    @JewLsTruly@JewLsTrulyАй бұрын
  • Yep 😂

    @brightideas5782@brightideas5782Ай бұрын
  • Leave gatherings early? Why go, I was there a week ago. Lol

    @lii1Il@lii1Il2 ай бұрын
  • 5/5. and i'm slightly annoyed. lol

    @ryanhagge4090@ryanhagge40902 ай бұрын
  • ... AS IF... i didnt already kno .. but ya im doin better 😅

    @sheyennejohnson7013@sheyennejohnson70132 ай бұрын
  • I don't know, it's all so complicated and weird being an INFJ. Can I try being another type instead? lol.. I have no social life, cannot relate to social butterflys.

    @leighlong5447@leighlong54472 ай бұрын
  • Would anyoe explain the acronyme?

    @babettestaiger5856@babettestaiger58562 ай бұрын
  • All but the second apply to me. It all depends on who's at the get together. 😆

    @kymelatejasi@kymelatejasi2 ай бұрын
  • 🤗💯👍🏾 thank you ❤️🌹❤️🫶👁️🫶

    @SkyJackMart@SkyJackMart2 ай бұрын
  • 💓

    @themountainsandthesea4121@themountainsandthesea41212 ай бұрын
  • I'm definitely infj but my tests on 16 personalities only gave infp, why?

    @lvrvsf@lvrvsf8 күн бұрын
  • love animals dont eat them

    @gabrieltopan9315@gabrieltopan93152 ай бұрын
  • 👍

    @DriftArcana@DriftArcanaАй бұрын
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