Shay Carl Loses Everything! The Full Story
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KZhead OG Shay Carl Joins the Podcast today to discuss his rise to stardom and his real life struggles.
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Hi roman Atwood
Roman I feel like you are trolling us. You had a pretty memorable prank when you farted on Brittany under a blanket. So you have passed gas in front of her and on camera lol
I hope both of your families realize how much you guys have affected your fans, it's been amazing watching you guys.
They weren’t “just” text messages, Roman. It shattered that woman’s entire world and publicly.
Right and their kids are All on social media to see it...
As someone who has personally experienced this is my own marriage, it definitely isn’t “just a text message”. It’s completely and utterly devastating and horrifying and heartbreaking.
@@sbryson4 especially when you're extremely religious like they are
It crossed a line!!
She forgave him. You guys need to stop being so judgmental and just move on. The whole martyrdom thing for someone you don’t even know is lame.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m so happy they worked it out after he was unfaithful. But the audacity of the men to downplay his actions in front of the woman who almost divorced him over it…. Just wow.
True… I think Shay did ok trying not to minimize the situation. But knowing that they involved lawyers should’ve been a signal to Roman that this was a huge issue they were working through & should’ve handled the conversation accordingly.
Super disrespectful to her. Cringed so hard when both men tried to pass it off as something completely "normal" Makes me wonder if they would pass it off the same way if it was their wives talking to another man.
I agree 100 percent! I took those comments as the public blew it out of proportion, not Colette. Collette had every right to react the way she did.
Blamed it all on the alcohol lol it feels like a cop out but 🤷♂️
Reality check: Men and Women are different. Until people realize this, this world will continue to run into the shittier. Not saying its okay. But it is what it is.
Shame on you Roman for saying "it's not a big deal and it was blown out of proportion" right to the face of a woman who was publically humiliated. Like damn the audacity lol
Was shocked!! I’m guessing he was referring to the social media reaction but still I felt so bad for Colette in that moment
what is the time stamp for this?
@@annie42468 yeah what’s the time stamp?
@@annie42468 29:40
Yeah right!! I cringed.
If Brittney would be sending that kind of messages to other dudes at 1 AM I bet Roman wouldn’t consider them as ”just text messages”.
lmao
Fax
And the fact it wasn’t just a one night of drunken texts but rather weeks or months long and they just dismissed it. Disgusting
@@xAdorkable15 It was just one night
@@Camerons16 it sure wasn’t. It happened multiple times over months. And not just with the cam girl. He has been taking sexual advances towards other women for years in the height of his “fame”
Stop normalizing cheating. Gross. And right in front of the wife that was cheated on. Nice going. Scumbags.
No big deal??? He was texting that woman for 3 months. You think he was drunk the entire time? You think he was drunk when he called the girl disgusting for mentioning his son's name? Or do you think she just popped his fantasy bubble and he got pissed? Drunk texting is when you get drunk and emotional and text an ex, not having a full blown description of every messed up thing you want to do to another woman that isn't your wife and then show her how you're playing with yourself. It's cheating, without question. And after all this time he's still blaming the alcohol and crying to the world about how hard his life is. Nah, he wanted something new and exciting because he got too rich and too bored, just like he said. Seeing how he's never going to take responsibility isn't a judgement call, it's stating the sickeningly obvious. And Roman just kissed his butt the entire time. Nasty asses.
Preach 🙌
I use to watch Shaytards all the time and even still come back to watch old videos for nostalgic reasons but Shay is disgusting honestly, his barely empathy for his wife and children.. he just found an excuse for his actions and took it and milked it! he knew what he was doing and he enjoyed it. I hope Colette finds peace one day because sadly she’s treated like nothing.. she deserves better.
Omg how are you literally sitting in front of a woman who was cheated on and publicly humiliated by her husband, and saying that it “wasn’t a big deal” and “was blown out of proportion”??! Like, where the hell did you get that much audacity?
💯💯👏👏👏
AGREED
Lmao calm tf down
@@Zaa-up4hg Absolutely not.
@@Meepmoop26 lmao cry baby
Colette is once again downplayed in this podcast - she is the backbone of the relationship and was always a positive light in their content. I could never have stayed with him, she is a strong and fierce woman.
Agreed.
She's not downplayed dawg, Shay Carl was the face of their brand and is much more talkative than her. Stop stirring the pot
Yea she needs to leave still
@@Makeupstylenecessity Sit down kid, you're obviously clueless about life.
@@KoncealedCinema 💯
how can you sit there and say this was “blown out of proportion” and that “they were just text messages” in front of not only your wife but the actual victim of this whole situation? the audacity this man has
But I mean they were just text messages, sure they were pretty detailed and not saying "sexting" other people while married is okay but she was just a sex worker. Not like Shay had a whole other relationship with the women...
@@petastafford908 cheating is STILL cheating. at least shay realizes it but his friends are showing their true colors by saying it’s not a big deal
@@joemama69691 I know but it's not like the texts meant anything. So they were just text messages...
@@petastafford908 so when you have a partner and they send sexual & naughty messages to someone else behind your back, you’d be fine with it im assuming 🤷🏻♀️
@@joemama69691 well you're "assuming" wrong. Obviously won't be okay with it but I also wouldn't just leave as soon as my partner fucks up, especially if he just sent a few texts to a random sex worker.
The take around “just sending some messages” bothered me. It’s so much more, a marriage of 10 years, 5 kids.. the trust is gone. Colette is an angel, she is so strong and has an amazing heart to have overcome, forgive and continue to love after that
makes me think he's done the same and gotten away with it by telling his wife "they're just messages"
She's an angel? How do you know that? Anyone can act in front of a camera but you're not there when it's off, you don't know anything but keep being judgemental.
You assume she is an angel. Really none of us know shit and we all have our own shit. No one is perfect. This is why we're told to not judge and just love everyone.
This is a woman who is speaking out against shay Carl and his sexual advances toward her. She was a family friend and an employee kzhead.info/sun/etiwm76ci56tiJE/bejne.html Shay Carl needs to get himself in check. If he knows the Bible at all then he knows that everything done in darkness comes to light, and it most certainly is.
it wasn`t just a few messages - there are many woman he assaulted. he`s a r*pist.
The fact that Roman and Brittany both agree that it wasn’t a big deal blows my mind
It depends on each individual relationship. We all have different boundaries.
@@JonahBoudreauSeriouslyJD cheating is cheating. It’s a big deal.
Exactly!!!! Brittany would shit if Roman did that! Honestly Brittany doesn't have a back bone.
This is a woman who is speaking out against shay Carl and his sexual advances toward her. She was a family friend and an employee kzhead.info/sun/etiwm76ci56tiJE/bejne.html Shay Carl needs to get himself in check. If he knows the Bible at all then he knows that everything done in darkness comes to light, and it most certainly is.
They are so 🗑
Poor Colette having to sit there and listen to her being cheated on being called “not a big deal” “just a few messages”. I loved the shaytards growing up but I really wish Colette had left Shay. She deserves much better than to be disrespected like this, especially to her face.
Can you be more judgemental? I'm sure you have lived a perfect life, but for the rest of us thank God for his mercy.
@@oloblish Never said I had a perfect life but I sure as hell have never cheated on a partner or humiliated them on the internet. It’s not a judgment it’s a fact. Shay cheated on his wife and publicly humiliated his family. To call that “not a big deal” and to say that it was “just a few texts” to try and minimize the fact that he was unfaithful is shitty behaviour.
@@oloblish Stop being dense and worshipping these Internet personalities. Learn how to think for yourself instead of believing that these youtubers can do no wrong.
kzhead.info/sun/etiwm76ci56tiJE/bejne.html
This is a woman who is speaking out against shay Carl and his sexual advances toward her. She was a family friend and an employee kzhead.info/sun/etiwm76ci56tiJE/bejne.html Shay Carl needs to get himself in check. If he knows the Bible at all then he knows that everything done in darkness comes to light, and it most certainly is.
Roman cut off collette so many times and/or just totally disregarded what she said. Very sad, I love collette, I wish I could hear just her talk.
That bothered me so much. Collette has so many interesting ideas. And hasn't really expressed much in the past. It would have been a good opportunity to hear her side of the story.
This just shows everyone’s true colours. Why did the women get cut off so much !!
@@maisielee7802 i’m sure it wasn’t purposely
@@jasminex6421 literally they all seem close and have been friends for forever so who knows
yes!! thought of this too
No sex is not a guy thing. Sex drive has nothing to do with men vs. women. Listen to Colette! She knows exactly what she’s talking about. Some people need sex to feel loved and some need to feel love to have sex
Yep.. so much backwards misogyny in this vid lol
@@cuca_ I’m so shocked Roman would say that but I’m glad Brit is like uh no
Disregarding people have different drives is another conversation, all play into it
You just describe the difference between men and women!
How dare Roman minimise the situation and brush it off. It would have been humiliating for Collette. It nearly broke their family and ruined their career..
when
It did ruin their career. Forsure
Timestamp
@@Makeupstylenecessity yes I stopped watching after that
“How dare” lol stfu who are you?
Unsubscribing for disregarding Colette’s feelings on the situation. The lack of sympathy towards her as if it were no big deal was absolutely disgusting. How inconsiderate of you to even act like you know first hand all about this and again shrug it off like no biggie. Why even bring something like that up? Let her continue to heal without being reminded by it. I’m sure it haunts her enough still till this day.
Ok?
What happened
@@yelloworanges4198 Shay was drinking heavily and sexting another woman. She dared to mention one of his kids, and he went off on her, calling her hateful names. Maybe the “C” word. Not sure.
…..
He don’t care bru
I feel like this was a wasted opportunity. Like the interview was so awkward and off putting. Shay was open and wanting to share his heart and they kept making jokes and minimizing the situation and how it affected their marriage and family. I felt like it was all really disrespectful to both of them but mainly to Colette. I’d be livid having to listen to a guy tell my husband “ it was just some messages to a girl” wtf.
I agree! Shay tried several times to go deep and heartfelt then gets cut off by a comedic response. Shay never finished a story. I wanted to know about Collette moving out and the big house but Shay was cut off by Roman trying to be funny about her leaving with the Maker money
I so agree. They did not realize how big this is and for them to be given the opportunity to get an insight into it all and to make a joke out of it, super insensitive and not personable at all. Very cold and strange interview, from Romans end. I feel like Brittney is more understanding but should be more vocal so Roman stops overstepping his boundaries.
I agree as well. I loved hearing Shay & Collette talk about their experience & wish I could’ve heard more. It was really nice to hear a bit of what it takes to work on a relationship, I feel that’s helpful for a lot of people.
Yes!!! Everyone thinks they can do podcast just because they have a following. Both of them immature and off putting. I was trying to stay interested.
But why would you want to go to that level of deep on a podcast. Just remember, you don't know what boundaries they set before they started
CTFxC, Shaytards, Roman Atwood vlogs, BFvsGF/prank vs prank … i literally watched them all back to back. Those were the days. ♥️
Yup me too
What a time to be alive
never watched shaytards but OG CTFxC Roman and BFvsGF was my daily thing coming home from middle school
Saaame. What a different era of KZhead
You just summed up part of my youtube journey fr
Really did NOT enjoy roman in this episode... Was extremely immature and pushed off the struggles both Colette and Shay went through as if it was no big deal. He was very misogynistic and quite unbearable. Disgusting on both roman and Shay's behalf
just showing his true colours
I didn’t like how up shays butt he was and kinda pushed collette to the side.
@@kristinrauen2019 He was extremely disrespectful to her. It was shocking.
This is a woman who is speaking out against shay Carl and his sexual advances toward her. She was a family friend and an employee kzhead.info/sun/etiwm76ci56tiJE/bejne.html Shay Carl needs to get himself in check. If he knows the Bible at all then he knows that everything done in darkness comes to light, and it most certainly is.
Wow some of Roman’s takes in this were not it…yikes. Shout out to Collette for being such an incredible person. I look up to her so much, and kudos to her for calling Roman out on his toxicity! Edit: after watching Dana’s video I am absolutely disgusted by Shay’s downplaying. To any young girls out here watching this, Roman’s comments on sex are absolutely wrong and his advice should not be followed
What do you expect from a republican lol
Time stamp?
Right like what the heck. Dirty messaging is 100% cheating and how is that being “blown out of proportion”?!
Because he’s probably messing around or has messed around in the past
Called him out on his toxicity?! WHERE!? Sit down kid, you're delusional.
It did make me sad for Colette hearing Roman talk about how it was “just text messages”. As someone who has gone through this as well (partner online cheating), it doesn’t feel that way. It is completely devastating and has so many layers beneath the text messages of dishonesty, distrust, lack of connection, confusion, so many negative feelings. On top of that, Colette being a public figure and having to process in the spotlight. I think that was flippant of Roman to say and he should have acknowledged Colette’s pain.
Very well said, I had the same thought
Yes! That was so disrespectful. Hopefully he realized and apologized to her for being so insensitive to her feelings.
She also has grown past it and knows there were things that went wrong on BOTH sides. Typical of females blaming the man always, where is YOUR accountability? What did YOU also do wrong in the relationship? Let me guess, you were perfect right? smh
@@SliceIceNDice I blame the cheater for cheating, and I take responsibility for issues that I participated in 🤷♀️ it’s pretty simple, and much more accurate to blame the person cheating rather than based on their gender. You sound very bitter towards women 😘
@@SliceIceNDice lol please tell me what Colette did
It was frustrating near the end of the episode where Colette was trying to talk about intimacy and Roman kept interrupting to make jokes. She was really trying to share something that I was interested to hear about and she should have been given more respect
@@CristelleBrown1993 ....and then when Roman said, 'if the sex is gone then the relationship goes'. What if his wife is not able to be physically intimate due to illness or injury? What would he do, leave her? Cheat?
@@Ladygirl1211 "What if" isn't a thing and not fact.
This is a woman who is speaking out against shay Carl and his sexual advances toward her. She was a family friend and an employee kzhead.info/sun/etiwm76ci56tiJE/bejne.html Shay Carl needs to get himself in check. If he knows the Bible at all then he knows that everything done in darkness comes to light, and it most certainly is.
@@SliceIceNDice it is in my marriage. Many of us have sexual dysfunction, it's not uncommon. And that doesn't mean we don't deserve a happy relationship/love. There's a lot more to life and marriage than sex. And it's extremely insensitive and frankly untrue to imply that it's the most important thing in marriage. He's letting us know that if Brittany developed a sexual dysfunction he wouldn't be able to be happy in his marriage anymore.
@@lilmissmonsterrr You heard him say them words? I sure as hell didn't, you're spewing your own nonsense.
The complete disregard of Colette’s feelings is disgusting.
glad youre upset😂
Point out the "disregard" part of the video please.
What? How did they disregard her feelings?
@@oloblish Exactly.
@@SliceIceNDice pretty sure when he said it wasn’t a big deal and when he said it was blown out of proportion was the part he disregarded her feelings… clearly you have never been cheated on and it shows.
Shay Carl didn't lose everything, he made choices. He is not the victim. I was hoping after the work he did we would see a changed person, but self-forgiveness doesn't mean that you wave away your past behavior, it means acknowledging that you can change and taking steps to grow as a person. I hope he can find it in himself to do that.
He was literally saying how he is currently (at the time of recording) working on himself yes there was a lot of self forgiveness but he did say what he has done to remedy his addictions in no way am I saying he is that victim but I am saying he is clearly working on himself and not just moving on
I actually felt quite sorry for Colette when Roman and Britt said they felt like Shay’s mistakes were totally blown out of proportion. It’s kind of insensitive towards Colette because at that time, her world came crumbling down around her. It was such a serious thing for them to go through as a family, so to say it blew up out of proportion is a little insensitive I feel. Edit; after watching his older editor/employee Danna’s video about working for Shay, I can category say that this man is a monster. If you have not watched it, please give it a watch. Shay is not the victim here.
I thought so as well, but my husband and I were watching/listening together. We discussed, and I think they just meant that it was definitely huge but the internet was making it 100x worse than it actually was and making the situation for Shay and Colette even worse. Does that make sense?
@@2306lipex makes perfect sense. Going through such a personally issue so publicly makes it so much worse. I remember the internet being so mad at Colette for staying with Shay.
I agree. I feel they were trying to make Shay more comfortable about it but im sure in Colettes eyes, it was not blown out of proportion.
@@2306lipex I understand what you’re saying, however, the way Roman passes it off as “just messages” is wrong. Regardless, Shay disrespected Colette and I think it was really insensitive.
This interview was meant for Shay, not Collette, it seems. Very insensitive for Collette.
Colette deserves a public apology.
She deserves better than Shay, she’s way out of his league sadly because they are together for so long it’s hard to let go but she deserves so much better than stuck up Shay and his excuses for cheating on his wife and hurting his kids on the way with it.
this podcast made me realize Roman is one of those seemingly nice guys who actually have a lot of internalized misogyny.. disappointing.
Rofl, you're getting that out of this? smh, because you don't agree with something you start spewing nonsense.
He also turns to say and talks about Collette as if she isnt there.. "i love her confidence, your pet has nice confidence" ... why not just say it directly to her.. I love your confidence
@@curiouskittenn Are we watching the same video?! I did not see that AT ALL, why must you add drama to things where there is none? There were a few moments I think that she was uncomfortable and so he nudged in but outside that, no.
@@SliceIceNDice He dismissed the whole thing. Watch his other podcasts. Especially when it is just him and Britney. You get this feeling like a lot of his " personality" is very forced. Like he really does not know how to comfortable in his surroundings. There whole " wont fart in front of each other" thing and how they bang on it constantly like it is something to be proud of. It just means they never figured out how to be around each other with out putting on a act.
Why is it that the people who hyper focus on others past faults often have the biggest issues of their own
Colette really is the back bone of their relationship -I'd love for to do her own podcast or write a book. Just to hear her stories from her point of view. She seems so wise and so well spoken. You can tell she has been through a lot in her life and she has real advise to give.
i literally love her so much , she’s just such a good human.
She is the doormat sadly😢 She’s an amazing woman and is/was very strong and I’m hoping this change in shay is real this time for her and the kids sake they all deserve it❤️
I am pretty sure she’s training to be a life coach! She is doing a lot of good with the pain she has clearly gone through.
Ah jusr got to the part where she confirmed she is doing that 🤣
@@missyestep447 I wouldn't say she is the doormat. I see her as the center mast that is holding up the circus tent. Shay is the circus master but at the end of the day, if there is no strong foundation holding up that circus tent, Shay could not put up the show. On the flip side, it does take a character and a ring leader to bring an audience to put butts in those seats under the circus. Similar to a lot of military families, which spouse is left behind to "hold it down" do a lot of the dirty work of literally HOLDING IT DOWN. Both roles are important.
I feel bad for collette when Roman mentioned what shay did and kind of played it off like how it wasn’t that bad. I also feel like she got cut off a lot when trying to really get her valid points of view across .
Agreed
100% ... and making out as if that's what a lot of men do/get away with.. pff! Had to go back and see the messages again (rank) and for a guy in drunken stupor at 3am he made NO spelling mistakes...wow! Love shaytards but wish he owned up to it more and not blame it all on the alco..cmon
Agree! It's not a normal thing that happens in marriages. Many people divorce of things like that. She is treated like a door mat. Very sad to watch her still love him after this. These men give me a ick feeling.🚩🚩
Completely agree
NGL, I'm baffled that Roman doesn't understand the level of betrayal that Collette must have felt (maybe still does). That's her husband saying some VERY graphic an intimate things. I can tell that Shay still holds on to some of that shame. I admire Collette for being strong enough to stay together and work on the relationship. This can't be easy
I have lost every shred of respect for both of these men. The downplaying, interrupting, and pure misogyny. Collette barely got a chance to speak and share her perspective. If I were her I would have stood up and walked out. Also. Roman is a child. The conversation around sex was absolutely disgusting. Do not take marriage advice from any of these people ever.
She's the backbone and the floormat. She'll never be more than that because her religion dictates she put up with a cheater.
I watched their new podcast that just dropped today and ran straight to this video due to some of the comments about Brit having social media anxiety. just the way that Roman referred to her as a “female” so many times in today’s podcast was unsettling. I used to love Roman, but damn. they’re showing their true colors in this podcast.
This is just a holier than thou social judgement trip. Neither has to apologize to any of you. Colette is free to speak for herself and she has proven she can take care of herself. She’s a big girl. She doesn’t need fanboys and fangirls getting offended for her. Roman literally said the words, “I am not trying to downplay anything”. So everyone STHU!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@blurgh7706 Your problem was with her being referred to as "female"? What? You people are psychotic.
Roman just downplaying the fact that Shay quite literally cheated on Colette was really disgusting to hear
Glad to see that someone that publicly humiliated their family and his wife is given a platform to brush off his actions and divert blame on literally everything but himself 👏🏼 you had the opportunity to do so much more and you wasted it…
I don’t agree with what Roman said about “just some messages” but he did say he was speaking as an outsider, which we all are. A lot of people looked to Shay as the ultimate and perfect father figure, which is childish but it’s more than just messages. It’s the loyalty and trust fractured to do that to your family, friends and everyone who’s supported you.
But I’m so happy to see they’re still strong, or from what we see their family is still very strong.
Agreed. It was way more than just messages
You clearly didn’t watch this
for sure, it wasnt JUST. To Colette it wasnt just a simple mistake
What if it was her that did it? Would that change the situation to JUST?
It makes Roman so uncomfortable that Colette is more intelligent than he is 😂
Roman talking about how sex is the biggest way to be intimate, while Britt is making it abundantly clear that she isn't into it. This is awful.
It's totally gross how Roman minimizes Shay Carl's cheating smh
Poor Brittany. Pressure for sex could kill their relationship. Roman comes across like a self centered, sex obsessed, misogynist. Colette commands respect from Shaycarl now that they've come through the fire, and he gives it to her because he chooses her. I like all of them and admire their willingness to expose some flaws.
Loving consideration for your partner goes both ways.
Your brain is underdeveloped
It really wasn’t even that big of a deal he sent messages that’s it, your such a feminist evil for calling him a misogynist
Yeah I got anxiety when he said that about having more sex… like jeeeze.
@@zoeygall6989 if that's your perspective and attitude regarding that kind of behavior I sure hope you don't have a wife or girlfriend. If you do I feel sorry for them too.
I listened to almost every single episode of When the Kids Go to Sleep. You can tell how much more sure of herself Colette is. She seems so much more confident here in speaking her opinion and the way she thinks and feels about things. It’s so awesome to see that she truly does seem happier and more confident. Not that she used to be sad and insecure, you can just see a positive change in who she is, and that’s nice
Love hearing your perspective.
Yes! WTKGTS was the first podcast I ever listened to. It's what got me into them
Loved, loved, loved When The Kids Go To Sleep!!! ❤️
Oh my goodness I loooooved that podcast! Miss it so much. 😢
100% agree! I was like something seems different about Colette here and I like it! Would love to learn more from her
Wow I am disgusted with Roman and Brittany saying it was blown out of proportion. We know damn well if Roman did that texted a girl like shay did Brittany wouldn't think it was blown out of proportion and it will upset her. How can u say that right in front of Collette?
I can’t believe this guy is victimizing himself after he cheated on his wife.
This was not blown out of proportion. I’m surprised she forgave him and took him back, it was absolutely horrible.
You're single huh?
How she gonna leave the Father of her 5 kids .. Her Breadwinner.. Her first love who gave her a sexual imprint she won't think of any other man but Shay ... Trust me she already tried leaving and cheating... She know Shay is the best option and she not gonna leave him to make you single feminist girls happy.. Cheating is in a man's nature and its easy to forgive.... The most horrible thing about this situation is that it was very public and the texts are going to give the kids PTSD for life.. other than that this whole situation made Shay better it makes him accountable of his actions and addictions... The worst thing for the whole family would be them splitting.. Collete is smart not dumb like you dumb broads
@@SliceIceNDice Hey incel, I've seem multiple comments of yours. You're truly pathetic! Looks like you're most definitely the single one here.
@@dixienormous6969 You seem triggered, a little too close to the truth for you?
@@SliceIceNDice ew incel ew
Roman, the way you literally rolled your eyes and completely down played what was Shay and his Wife's worst moment of their lives is disgusting. I can remember hearing Shay speak about how he was suicidal during the time and this whole interview you were just so dismissive. Shay and Colette, if you ever read this comment before I'm sure it will get deleted, just know how proud we all our that the two of you made your way back to each other and truly put your family first. I can only imagine the shame Shay was feeling. This was not the channel that they should have told their story on and I feel bad that they wasted such a vulnerable opportunity.
Yes!! Exactly what I was going to say! My prayers, love, and support is always with them! I'm so sorry these people treated the worst moments of your life this way! Soo despicable!
He was trying to keep it light and he steered the interview well. He let Shay and Colette get out what they needed to and Shay thanked him at the end. I don’t even know who Roman is really but I respect his ability to steer an interview now. That’s not an easy thing to do and it was such a rough subject matter.
Very well said. I can’t agree more. We love you Colette !
This is a woman who is speaking out against shay Carl and his sexual advances toward her. She was a family friend and an employee kzhead.info/sun/etiwm76ci56tiJE/bejne.html Shay Carl needs to get himself in check. If he knows the Bible at all then he knows that everything done in darkness comes to light, and it most certainly is.
No one deserves to be suicidal but play stupid games win stupid prizes
Shocked by the disregard for Shay’s family and the damage he has caused them.
I feel a completely different way about Roman now. I used to watch his videos all the time when I was younger and still do from time to time but he made it fun and he was so genuine. I’m listening to him now saying things like “it was not a big deal and it was blown out of proportion” and it was “just text messages…”, and saying “oh our relationship is good we just had to stop drinking… I can’t relate..” When the camera is on he’s like a super kind and nice person who love helping people out but when the camera is off he like only cares for himself and his family and no one else. I can’t believe this right now like literally someone I used to look up to i mean we all did we are subscribed to him…🙃😔😔😕 Colette I love u for being genuine human being and being there for ur family.
well in todays podcast he went full on homophobic tirade and they branded the lgbt as people having mental issues, and dangerous to kids. i unsubbed .
The real Roman is shown in this episode. I'm ashamed to say that I have been a follower for years. Listening to this episode brakes me and is making me reevaluate why I was a Roman fan for so many years.
Was thinking the same thing.
Me too. Unfollowed him on all social media. And for Brittany to sit there and agree is unbelievable. Narcissists are experts at surrounding themselves with people they can control & manipulate.
@@staceydilla56 Agree. Same.
The mask has fallen!
Because overly happy people are so happy because they are ignorant.
Alcohol isn’t the problem it’s the person Shay is just a bad person who hasn’t changed
Very disgusted that Roman normalized Shay cheating after struggling himself for years in being able to trust within a marriage again himself. Gross. Collette deserves so much more.
Was thinking the same thing pretty much. Right on.
How can u sit there in front of a woman who was completely humiliated and just disregard her feelings. So so so disgusting and outright disrespectful. Honestly shame on you.
This is a woman who is speaking out against shay Carl and his sexual advances toward her. She was a family friend and an employee kzhead.info/sun/etiwm76ci56tiJE/bejne.html Shay Carl needs to get himself in check. If he knows the Bible at all then he knows that everything done in darkness comes to light, and it most certainly is.
Check out Montana Danna, the woman he hired for piano lessons, bc shaycarl has harassed her too. It’s ridiculous
This screams narcissism. Worst part of the convo was when Collette said "when he can just be with me and not need sex then I feel free because I can choose". Wth. You should always have a choice. Not sure why the men alloud the women at the table. Didn't let them speak and, talked over them (well Collette anyway) when they were speaking thier minds.
because of religion.
@@cinnamon8884 damn straight. I can NOT believe Roman and Brit got sucked into Mormonism. Big mistake for the ladies. What a damn shame.
Wow. Just wow for them down playing Collettes feelings is horrible. The way she must of felt after being married to a man for years and creating a family and children. Alcohol is not and excuse to cheat on your wife under any circumstance.
This is a woman who is speaking out against shay Carl and his sexual advances toward her. She was a family friend and an employee kzhead.info/sun/etiwm76ci56tiJE/bejne.html Shay Carl needs to get himself in check. If he knows the Bible at all then he knows that everything done in darkness comes to light, and it most certainly is.
What happened to woman supporting woman? She laughed at her friends pain. Then agreed that it was blown out of proportion. This was just icky...
Look up Montana Danna & Shaycarl
Stop blaming all your mistakes and regrets on alcohol. So easy to do. But you made those decisions not alcohol
Normalizing drinking at 3am and DMing those disgusting things????. To a woman on the internet? How is the reaction to that “blown out of proportion”? That is so disrespectful to Colette. And, also, how about what you did to Danna? You just Tasmanian devil through everyone’s lives leaving a mess but it’s always just about you. Whose lives did you wreck along the way, Shay? I’m glad Colette thinks she is happy with shay and can’t find anything better but I think she can do better 🤷🏼♀️
I stand with Danna. Glad she spoke out about Shaycarl. I lost all respect for him.
It's the men in the comments defending shay with their entire life for me
As a teenager, I was deeply afraid of becoming an adult. Shay and Collette made me realize that growing up doesn't mean that you have to stop having fun or being silly or creative. Life can be just as enjoyable after 30 and after kids, you can choose happiness and levity. That shift in perspective helped release a lot of anxiety for me 💗 So much love for this family.
they were growing up with us.
So cute
Awesome. Thanks for sharing.
Yes.. I agree with you..
Yes, it would seem that Shay certainly knows how to have fun...
It's not normal, and it is a big deal. What is wrong with you? Their love, their life, their choices but this is cheating.
The fact Roman hasn't addressed any of these comments and left the comment section open just shows to me he doesn't give a shit about anyone's opinions but his own. I don't mind you Roman but fuck sake, have some respect for the woman.
THIS IS THE PODCAST EVERYONE HAS WAITED FOR.
I am actually waiting for Charles Trippy's podcast.
@@samo_ammo I can relate, especially now! both Shay and Charles were battling for my top pick.
Since shay posted it on his Facebook story.
I think we’re all waiting for Noah 💯💯
not rlly I'm waiting for Noah
I used to watch Shay before he sold his company. Then I started watching Roman. But Shay is my OG first vlogger that I loved. Love you guys both! So happy to see y'all together!
Same, I watched shaytards from day 1. I can still picture the camera he was using
@@njsmall4 same! Or when collete or the kids would put stickers on them😂
how disgusting of you to downplay what this poor woman went through, after being cheated on and publicly humiliated.... as “not that bad”..... y’all are disgusting. Alcohol does not *give* you these desires, it *gives* you the courage to act on desires that you already had.... So stop shifting the blame. There was more to the story. what happened with danna? She went out to live on the property, something happened, talked about “getting out of a really bad toxic situation” but that she can’t give the details (nda?), and it wasn’t until whatever happened with danna that colette finally moved out. So cut your BS both of you.
This screamed misogyny. I feel like these men don't know how to please their partner...
The Shaytards were literally my entertainment in my teens! Crazy to think I'm 27 now listening to this. Glad they are doing well ❤️! I remember hearing about the Shay story a few years ago and being devastated! I was like "Noooo, my internet family!" 🤣
Well we can thank the gods above that they held it together
I cried
same! they were the one that i know of to introduce "daily vlogs"
Same !!! I’m 28 now
Same exact experience for me!
Woah two families I grew up watching! Happy to watch and listen. "HEY, I'M VLOGGING HERE!"
You need to apologize to Colette for this video. The backlash is clear that what was said was wrong.
Having been cheated on in the past myself, it is very disappointing how the situation was downplayed. I absolutely love the Shaytards and loved them back in the day as well, and I understand that Shay feels terrible for his actions. But once that trust is gone in a relationship, it’s gone…there are ALWAYS those what if’s no matter how much time passes. I feel for Collette. They were SO inconsiderate. 🤦♀️
This whole thing was actually so disgusting and misogynistic. Like…it’s actually crazy how misogynistic and disrespectful this was.
kudos to anyone watching the entire thing and keeping their lunch in their stomach
What i see with men in america especially areas like texas and idaho is that the men always have to be front and center and they chat to each other like the women don't exist there. I can say for certain i've now experienced this while i was part of a type of clan in an online game and then i started getting stalked and the males all made fun of me, called me drama, shut me down and dismissed me when i tried to speak out about it. The leader was totally helping telling the guy the location i was at in the game and while they did interact before i joined so they know each other online, it's just insane he was helping him. He kept turning it on me like it was things i was doing that was the problem, like he said because i had a pic of my main character on the discord that it was somehow my fault for being stalked. The rest just stayed quiet but never stepped in and acted like i'm the female in the group so i should just stay quiet and not exist, you guessed it the leader lives in tennessee. I can now say i understand what they mean by not joking about things too because the way they "joke" is very demeaning and passive aggressive, and different from the way americans may usually joke where you might not be able to tell if they're really joking or not. I once wanted to visit america but i think i'd rather not now when this is still their culture, and quiet recently sent themselves back several decades.
This episode made me lose a lot of respect for Roman. I can't get past the way he spoke directly in front of that woman, saying it's "no big deal", like having her heart shattered was nothing. I only got more and more irritated as the podcast continued. Definitely unsubscribing to both channels. I expected better.
Roman is a good guy. We can't just throw someone away over one mistake.
Also the cam girl stuff has been proven to be MORE than one night. They messaged for months. Shaycarl is an abuser and a liar.
I STAND WITH DANNA.
Who is danna
@@heazy9744 danna richards who used to work for shay and was sexually harassed by him
@@amaiaamaiaa any lawyer would shred through her story
Let’s all recognize how caring and supportive Colette is. Seems like an amazing woman.
And props to her for putting up with Roman’s weird and misogynistic comments and interruptions.
As Roman has been someone who has experienced their partner cheating on them, I thought he would be way more sympathetic and kinder to Colette. Oh man this makes me angry this is my third comment...
I AM DISGUSTED WITH HOW ROMAN HANDLED THIS SITUATION. HIS WIFE IS SITTING RIGHT THERE! FOR THIS MAN TO DISMISS IT AS A NORMAL THING IS DISGUSTING!
I wonder if he’s done something similar and so he’s hesitant to truly CONDEMN Shay’s actions. It’s like when you ask a criminal suspect, “What do you think should be done to the person who committed this crime?” A truly innocent person will respond with STRONG condemnation and suggest the highest penalty. A guilty person will minimize and go for a less harsh penalty.
he didn't say IT wasn't a big deal. He said the way the media blew it up WAS a big deal. Toddlers like you should stay off the internet.
@@thebonnienonnie please stop talking and take a good look at yourself. You're an insane, horrific human being.
Wow! Imagine being the wife sitting there with everyone feeling like the man that put her in this position was done wrong. YIKES!
Hearing shays voice shake when he’s speaking about it is so real and you can feel all the emotions
What time was it
And yet he did it again right after the text scandal LMAO he lies and apologizes saying it’s alcohol but then turns around and tries to do it again
@@jessicadiaz8500 tell us what you know sis
@@raniabrahim46 Watch Montana Danna’s video.
Yes, and btw I would like to sell you a bridge in New York.
I would love a longform podcast with just Collette! You can tell she has a lot to say and has the life experience and wisdom to back it up
Yeah but wife to wife not the husbands.
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Only came back to see these comments, so glad people are calling him out. Im done with Roman. All this time I thought he was someone else. Thanks for showing your true colours.
Everything is wrong with this video but I hate how they are like "yeah alcohol is poison and it's the worst thing ever" etc etc basically saying it's the alcohol that did these actions not the man. New Flash Millions of people drink and they don't cheat or act like dirtbags. It's not the alcohol that's the problem it's YOU. The alcohol just brings out the fact that you are a dirtbag because you think you can blame your actions on the drink and not take real accountability for your own actions.
Yes you are right, but alcohol is very much linked to changing brain activity and brain neurons. Long term use can lead to brain damage and is not knowing.
Poor Colette, how disrespectful to minimize what happened to her IN FRONT OF HER.
“Blowing it out of proportion!” Ru kidding me??????????
This was so upsetting to watch. IDK how Colette was feeling on the inside... Its no big deal... No big deal? Yikes... I feel so shitty and I wasn't even involved!
He is so manipulative. Disgusting.
I don't know who the hosts are but jfc the guy needs to stop downplaying what happened to Shay and Colette's relationship. No, it was not "just text messages". I also didn't like how he (as a host) talked to Colette. He barely gave her chances to talk in depth and he overall disregarded her comments. The host should stick to other type of interviews, bc he clearly can't manage the type of conversations that deserve a more mature approach.
This is so disappointing. As someone who doesn’t comment on videos and has watched a lot of shaytards growing up, this is such an awful disgrace. How dare you down play such a terrible thing to do in a relationship like it’s nothing. Unsubscribing, should be ashamed.
So disgusting thinking their situation was "blown out of proportion."
I truly fell in love with the Shaytards through college. I wasn't mad at Shay for his mistakes. Regardless of background, humans make mistakes, but they don't define our existence. We all struggle to find our identity when a phase of our life ends. high school, college, and family and friendships change all impact our identity, and we struggle to figure out our next steps. We turn to negative behaviors to cope with our changing identity. We are BRUTAL with critique and refuse to understand one another and just place judgment. We make mistakes, we grow, we change, we learn, and we keep going.
Wonderfully said! 😀👍
damn, I feel so sorry fot Colette to sit there and listen to all of that.... just, soooo sorry, she's the one who didnt deserve all of that
I couldn’t believe it when it happened, as childish as it sounds. Growing up watching them, I felt hurt by it since I always saw them as the blueprint to a perfect family. I just felt so bad for the kids and Colette.
WHY DID THEY PUT HER IN THAT POSITION? SO humiliating. I'm barely getting through it. And the tone becomes completely sympathetic for HIM and not her.
@@Noura-ii1uw YES. HE hid under a rock of embarrassment. Lots of emotions coming up while talking about. Doesn't want to minimize it, but lets Roman completely minimize it. lol
@@HuntressLIVE and maybe its a good thing it happend. stop being delusional, there is no such thing as a perfect family. EVERY family will have hardships. maybe not cheating but the lesson in all of it is that we should forgive, grow, understand and be patient with the ones who make mistakes.
she chose to stay with her r*pist husband, even with alle the mormon cult going on, she should have kicked him in the curb.
Shaycarl sexually harrased Danna( Montana Danna). And shame on you Roman Attwood.
Everyone, please look up Danna Montana's YT video she just posted on Shay sexually harassing her. There goes my pity for Colette.
Thanks for making me cry uncontrollably!!! Ugh I loved this podcast so much I’m going to have to re-watch it. Both of y’all and your channels and content were with me throughout all my awkward and difficult years… I looked up to each of you guys and your families through KZhead like a second set of parents/family. I still watch you guys to this day. Thank you for all of your hard work you poured out into your audience, I really want you all to know it goes such a long way.
A single man, an uncommitted man may reduce it “to just a few late-night texts”. But when you are in a committed relationship, when you are married, it's called Adultery! Also, I will never forget when Shay made a comment about Obama’s character (which was a lie and a clear talking point) and how McRomney was an upright man during their presidential elections. He was so arrogant and he used his platform to promote lies…. Years later when people called out Shay, he said everyone was being jundgemental, but when he pointed out other people's faults for years on his channel it was ok because sat on his LDS throne and judged others! I respect his wife because she took a lot of hits and scrutiny over Shay's behaviors. She was often overlooked but she was the constant rock of the family!
Shay was my #1 media influencer when I was a kid. I started watching when I was 13 and I am 24 now. He honestly shaped a lot of who I am as a person, especially dialogue. I quote Shay all the time, lol. My family was always fighting and bickering and tuning it out and watching Shaytards every day was such a safe haven for me. He is the reason I started running. He is the reason I started eating healthier. He is the reason I always tried to choose happiness. He is the reason I can switch my mindset in a bad situation. He is the reason I can be goofy in public. Him and his family have taught me so much and I will always be grateful for that.
same😊... except, I found them at 24. I was pregnant and alone at the time (no family + hubby was sent to iraq) The shaytards became my family, the family I had always needed. Even with the texts and drinking, they outshine my family... Also, I was pregnant at the same time as Colette so that made me feel a bond too.
Blaming alcohol is the lamest excuse for cheating. No accountability. The infamous "I was drunk and you weren't there". Alcohol doesn't change who you are at the core.
Shay, I still follow the advice you gave us years ago, “Do at least ONE thing today that you don’t wanna do that you know you should do.”
And yet he did a lot more than one thing that would devastate his family, which he knew he shouldn't do. I wonder if he has a saying for that.
I started watching your vlogs in 2010. You were there when my childhood dog died, you were there on my first day of high school, you were there when I moved into my dorm as a college freshman, and I even watched your vlog the morning of my wedding day. When everything went down, I was absolutely heartbroken. I looked up to your marriage so much and had a "if they can't do it, how can I do it?" mentality. I'm SO grateful for your story. In a world where marriages are thrown away, you've shown how much love and work truly goes into a relationship. What a blessing to have a part 2 to your love story. Shay should 100% propose again and y'all can have a magical vow renewal wedding ;)
Along with how he’s minimized collette’s experience, it’s interesting that all the names he listed off for who inspired him on KZhead were men. And then to say Jesse wellens and not credit Jeana? I’m getting sexist vibes. It just seems like all of his respect is directed towards men.
Yea I kind of agree and I noticed that when Colette was talking and being the amazing person she is, he was looking at Shay saying she’s so confident instead of telling Colette straight to her face.
I will forever and ever have a place in my heart for these two and their family. They have helped me grow, survive, learn, and love myself and others in a different way and continue too. I'm very glad they have come back to the internet and chose to be open and have this conversation with you guys. Thank you
I was looking through the comments and you were one of the few that was supportive of the couple. thanks so much, now I know that I'm not alone. I love this family.
I don't like Roman minimizing what Shay did by saying it was blown out of proportion. DMing a woman nasty messages and talking about meeting up is cheating. Biblically speaking, just lusting over a woman who's not your wife is a sin. I still feel sorry for Colette who is sitting there when Roman said this and Shay retorted that a lot of his friends have said the same thing. I wish Shay would of owned up to it in that moment. I hope that their marriage is doing well since I used to really look up to this man. Much love to everyone.
as a kid my life used to consist of black ops 2 and three daily KZheadrs: Shaytards, CTFxC (old Allie) and BFvsGF. and also Roman after some time
i watched more youtube but same!
@@ToStompU well I obviously watched a lot more KZheadrs. I mean like a lot more but these three were special, makes me reminisce.
Pvp saaan Internet killed tv 😭😭😭
for real ! Can’t forget old black ops 2
@@georgenikola Fr man I use to come back from middle chill making sure I had my 2 bags of chips and soda ready to play some black ops then hop on KZhead 😂😂😂😂
Disgusting. He acted like a victim for choices he made. Only upset that he was caught publicly for who he really is. Not upset that he hurt his wife and kids. Downplay the pain he caused Collete.