7 Types of Toxic Crushes You Should Avoid
Are you having a crush on someone right now and wonder if they are toxic for you? When you have feelings for someone, it’s easy to see everything they do in a positive light, but not every person you crush on is someone you should consider getting into a relationship with. For example, it is not a good idea to develop a crush on someone who treats you and other people badly. So to save you from being in a toxic relationship in the future and heartbreak, we made this video to help you identify the different types of crushes that might not be good for you.
If any of these types describe your crush and you're looking for tips on how to stop liking them, we also made a video on that: • 10 Tips to Stop Liking...
Credits
Writer: Carley Swanson-Garro
Script Editor: Rida Batool
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Murielle Lindsley Dela Rosa
KZhead Manager: Cindy Cheong
Resources:
National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY) or www.thehotline.org/.
References:
Dubrow-Marshall, L., & Dubrow-Marshall, R. (2017). When your life is not your own. Therapy Today, 28(9), 24-27.
Johnston, P., Tankersley, M., Joenson, T., Hupp, M., Buckley, J., Redmond-McGowan, M., Zanzinger, A., Poirier, A., & Walsh, A. (2014). Motivations behind ‘Bullies then offenders’ versus ‘pure bullies’: Further suggestions for anti-bully education and practice. Education, 10(3), 316-325.
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Popescu, Adam (January 2019). Why people ghost - And how to get over it. The New York Times. Retrieved 29 April from www.nytimes.com/2019/01/22/sm....
Who here met their crush this year? Comment below the first letter of their name ;)
I wish, I found out I’ve had a crush this year.
Me, *and I didn't like it-* (it's an ex crush-)
Me, it was the worst experience ever... Agh stupid A
M
All of mine are fictional :,)
“The Bully” Those bully love stories: *Imma pretend I didn’t see that*
XD
enemies to lover 300k slowburn is sweating
LMAO
Drarry shippers, I'm looking at ALL of you!
@@mariunfabregas7533 UH HI- TOTALLY NOT LOOKING AT Y/N HEHE
"THE BULLY" Wattpaders: nah, I'll pretend I didnt see that
Lol Relatable
lOoL
True tho lmao
Lmfao tRUe
:>
I had a crush on this girl who had a very adult demeanour. We were in year 7 and she always talked about intercourse and adult topics. Being autistic, I thought this was normal. Then in March that year, I got a crush on her. I messaged her a lot, and confessed to her multiple times. She always said “I’ll think about it” and had crushes on different people every few weeks. Eventually we dated. She started sending me very s3xual messages so despite being uncomfortable I sent them back thinking that she’d like them. She then broke up with me by pretending to cheat on me then claiming the way I talked to her was weird, despite me only doing what I thought was correct. A few months after that, she posted screenshots of everything that I said, censoring the context and not showing her replies for her friends to see. When I tried to report it, obviously they didn’t care because she reported me first. if you’re starting highschool, do not be friends with someone who acts like they know everything about s3x. Stay with the people you know and trust. Or stay in your own personal circle.
I'm sorry you had to go through that
So true thx for showing this bc kids needed to hear this (I am a kid lol) BTW DONT CALL YOUR SELF DUM OR AUTISTIC OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT BC THAT CAUSE MENTAL ILLNESSES OR DOUBTS AND I HATE THOSE Mainly bc I have a friend and her friend commited suicide
Sex is fun though. Instead of criticizing women. Just clearly stay away from a grown adult woman. Geez, its not that hard. Go hang out with ugly woman even they don't talk about Sex. 🤔
@@DrXmaQueen.I mean he is autistic and woman can also talk about sex. Its not that hard. There are so many gay people, transies, ugly girls you can have a crush on. Why not the woman who loves to talk about sex. Those type of women are known and just looking for mature men.
@@DrXmaQueen. yk autism is neither a mental illness or an insult, right?
I've been in relationships with people like this before, trust me...the pain of getting over a crush is worth it compared to the pain of being betrayed or used like a tool
Preach
8. The Actor The type where you won't see any red flags because they're good at pretending since they've done the same things before
That’s when you develop skills to notice when someone is acting. >;)
I'll watch out for them
That's the ghoster basically.. everything goes so well you couldn't tell that anything was wrong, and then in a moment, they're gone. Nowhere to be found.
YourHomieHenry yes and no. That could be it. But my actor was sweet and kind. Then did a complete 180 and controlled my every second of every day, emotionally drained me, and didn’t understand what the word no meant. I think this is the kind of thing they were going for. A complete 180 to how their personality and actions appeared to be
Omg ikrrr!!!!
"Does your crush just dissapear?" My crush doesn't even exist
Your lucky, unlike me knowing we can talk but she doesn’t respond 🥲
ME
Meee
LAMO same
Ur not a human...
To sum this up: make sure they're a nice, caring person who wants the best for you
Its not about beauty, its about personality ❤
Hell naw. I am NOT dating someone unattractive.
Exactly @aliyahrapahferenal216.
I prefer personality over look's
@@arnand6636💀
I’ll take two of them. 😃
"does your crush just.. disappear?" my cursh being in a whole ass different reality: yes.
BESTIE- LMFAO IM SO SORRY THAT SUCKS Hope you can visit soon!
@@exandier4810 what?
Wait I relate to this and had a crush on a character or something but I don’t remember who I had a crush on
@@Majin_Xavierras I assumed the OP was referring to reality shifting lol
Anime? Because yeah-
Me just having a crush on a fictional character like- 👁👄👁
Bokutos ass is my crush-
i can relate LOOOL
@@hyo_unbf bahahahahha
@@hyo_unbf I have a crush on salt😂
At least, our crushes can't avoid or break up with us, lol
i adore the fact you called out an isolator. As a half one, my issues are NOT purposefully and ive been working very hard. I try my hardest, and im glad you made this. :) your voice is very sweet btw
When I have feeling for someone, I don’t want them to love me back. They are too perfect that I can’t reach….I don’t deserve them….I can never ask them to like me back else…..it’s too overwhelming for me😢
Unused crush: The self pitier. They say bad things about themselves, and threaten to hurt themselves to try and convince you to date them
lol hate those ones
Fell for this one
Man this one's just flat-out annoying tbh
Roblox role players:
i have a friend that acts like that
1 "the ghoster" Well shit. 3 "the humiliator" Well shit. 6. "The user" WELL SHIT.
Yep
You still love somebody who humiliates you well that means I guess I should love somebody that’s tryna kill me RN 🤨🙂🙂🙂
double kill.
6: The user **Vietnam Flashbacks**
NAH CAUSE LITERALLY
UR VOICE IS SO CALMINGGG
Psych2Go: **has really good points on why these relationships aren’t healthy and cute** Romance dramas: “I’m gonna pretend I didn’t see that.”
666 likes
@@untrustfulsoldchannel9238 not anymore 😔💔
Even the ones that don’t exist? 🥺😩
@don’t worry bout it BAHAHAHAHAHA
How about this one? Psych2Go: *has really good points on why these relationships aren’t healthy and cute* FFs: “I’m gonna pretend I didn’t see that.”
How to avoid bad crushes : Step 1 : Don't have a crush
A man of great wisdom.
I have followed this step since the day I was born and yes, this is great wisdom 10/10 would recommend
Well i have been doing that for awhile
Great
I can’t 😩
Favorite playlist so far from this channel. I love this....rule of thumb for me. Don't tell the person you have a crush on, that you're crushing on them because it will not end well. Let their actions speak. It will tell you everything you want to know
Love your content! Your voice is so calm and beautiful and it makes it so easy to watch your vids! Absolutely love this channel, new sub ❤😊
Me who hasn't had a crush in 7 years: "Yes, this seems like a good, _relatable_ video to watch."
Oof same but only 4 years for me
I've never had a crush in my life xD
Aiming to not have one for a long time
@@blipster0074 Yeah keep it like that because having a crush on someone you know you don't have a chance with by even the slightest is the worst feeling in the world
@@HistoricBlock84 mhmm truth, but my recent one confused me cus idk they said they liked me while having another crush. Next day, they changed their mind and soon found out her other crush liked them back. Messed me up for months cus i desperately believed they liked me deep inside but eventually i contemplated that it's just unhealthy for my mental state. So that's another worst feeling, whole crush thing is not worth it
7 types of crushes you should avoid: *A boy named Ryan*
Who’s Ryan
That’s my brothers name... he’s really chill and nice tho
Like from the Office? Because that Ryan sucked.
What did Ryan do
my exes name is ryan... he cheated on me for his step sister
THIS ART STYLE IS JUST AMAZING
I like the design , it’s so good!
Toxic Crush Quote: "I'm not ignoring you, I'm just waiting to see if you'll put in the effort to talk to me"
Woooah, word bruh
Good one ;)
Yea, i guess that's toxic
@@creativetech1701 Lol yeah
@Sinochi ! y.o I WANT SЕЕХ !!!! OPEN MY VIDEO !!!! wtf
When your crush is fictional: 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻
Mine is fictional bully. Shame on me.
i have one
Lol my heart broke 🤣😭🤣😭
Thats honestly so fucking sad
Ha,ha same ;-;
i love how these videos have a different artstyle each time
this video really opened my eyes, I've been dating this guy for almost two months now and in the start he was super kind and sweet but it went down quickly, for example when I was texting my friend he saw that I was online and texted me asking "who are you talking with?" I would respond that I was just texting my friend but he just would say that I should be talking with him instead and that I shouldn't talk with my friend because she could possibly get me someone else and ruin our relationship. It became constant and I'm very tired of it, I cannot go online without already thinking that I will have an argument with him because I was texting someone else, then he just says it's because he's insecure and he's afraid I might cheat... I definitely remembered him when the Isolater came because that's what he always says, why do you need anyone else when you have me?
1. The ghoster 2. The bragger 3. The humiliator 4. The bully 5. The cheater 6. The user 7. The isolator
I got 💞the ghosted💞
And a person with all of the traits from all of the seven is a total narcissist.
wattpader : *clears throat*
@@lol-qb1ez sameeeeee 🤡🌹✨
I got a bragger for a crush and i got used DO NOT DATE ANYOME NAMED DEVYN JAYSON WILLIAMS AND HAS DITRY BLONDE HAIR AND GRAY BLUE EYES OK
1. The Ghoster 0:31 2. The Bragger 1:03 3. The Humiliator 1:41 4. The Bully 2:06 5. The Cheater 2:35 6. The User 3:15 7. The Isolator 3:45
Thanks for putting this together. This will get a lot of likes by the end of the day :)
Still pretty much fine 3 week ago ;)
@princess gamer My Bestfriend Has A Crush On One.. Best To Tell Him To Let Go Of Her
My crush doesn’t even know me :’D
Ah the ghoster sounds familliar- W a I t ;-;
I'm happy people like you post these because they help me out emotionally which rarely happens in the real world. There was this one time where there was this girl I liked and I slid her a note, and she liked me back (or so I thought) and she seemed really committed but during the relationship I was really nervous to talk to her. When she told me that she didnt like me and she was doing to be nice I decided to not chase love anymore so I could not get my heart broken again. It's people like that that give love a bad name.
Hey bro, this helped me, tysm for recommendating this video😁
Ur voice is so calming i love it!
You cant be toxic crush if no one ever crushes on you lmao
@Benjamin Tay I usually unconsciously walk around with a angry frown and it turns quite a few people away 🤷♂️
@Benjamin Tay nah some people who have crush on someone just keep it in a secret and dont tell anyone, not saying that some HAD a crush on you, but it is possible
@Benjamin Tay shit i'd end up looking like a psychopath with the smiling.
*BIG* *BRAIN*
I wanna like but I don’t wanna ruin the perfect 400 🥺
i like how psych's crushes doesn't only focus on one gender
Sorry i gotta ruin the 101 likes
There’s only male or female, you cannot turn into one or the other and you cannot just not be made or female
@@nukaberry447 Leave
@@nukaberry447 wha- that isn’t true...😭 i am very offended.
@@officialentrapta427 thank you 😊
Im really impressed by the art style
omg you helped me so much i had crush on user and he / she just say : "busy" , "can you do the dishes?" , don't be lazy " and much much other thank you!
Me: *Laughs in having fictional characters as crushes*
Yea lol
Ty Lee
I like your' profile picture! 😁 It's cute
SAMEEEE
I've literally never had a crush on a real person before. I've only had 2 crushes in my entire life and they're both fictional. The current one isn't even canon.
"The bully" Gacha Community, wattpad:"ima pretend I didn't see that."
a c c u r a t e
I'm in the community and I hated the "bully" ones
every gacha community overrated thing mixed up plot: ''i hat u'' ''but i luv you'' ''no ful'' '' :((((( *cries cutely* '' '' (that was hot and coote) '' at bully home :((( ''you butter abuse her or you get alchohol and drug force'' ''yes fathah/mothah'' ''don't bully me'' ''haha nub'' '' n o why me'' at hume '' *cuts* cut can't stay without bein off cute.... uwu depression is assthetic '' '' *sees her on widnwo* omg i feel sos dab!1111!!!!!!!111!!1! '' ze next day uvu '' i luv you do you want me as ur bf '' '' omg yes '' 10 years later '' will u marry me '' '' yas '' 4 months later '' i needdo go to beach '' '' okie doki uwu '' at beach bish '' oh luk @ my ex '' '' which ones '' '' you know the cars that go '' '' i hear you hit it!'' '' WE LIKE THE CAAAAAAARS '' technical diffuCULTies uwu '' when i was lesbian i was with gurl '' '' i was trans once and dated le boi '' '' seems like they together '' '' i got heartbrok 12 tiems in live '' '' i fel dab ;-; '' " holup dat mah brothah " " oh me good " " im gunna go buy lemonade " " o k " " P A P I T O " " ew an ugleh gurl " " l u v e m e " " no 💖💋 " " c h o c o l a t e " " omg she hut " " yas " " Kamukra kamukra yas queen " " why " " omg you're me ex " " GASP " " wow look the gay couple " " hallo my n-n-n-n-name is femboi and the gacha creators think im an cute beanie i luv twerking infrtont of alfaboi. " "Hi guys i am alfaboi and im gaye with femboi" " hello femboi and alfaboi how are uuu:3 " "Oh uh... W-w-w-were good." "You sound very sas" "No im hap" "I no trust e-you" "Im very hap i promise" "Prumisee meh." "Okaye...." "You guyth luk very familier" "I danno wae boot chu do to" (IM FRICKING TIRED IMMA WRITE THIS LATER ALSO IM NOT DELETING THIS TEXT)
@@iliodora25 lol
Very accurate
Thank you for the tip, it helped❤
you fricking do masterpieces so much-
I accidentally read the thumbnail as “types of Crackheads you should avoid”
What's the difference? 😂
Noice
I mean.... what's the difference....
These replies have me dead 😂
NAH BRUH ILL RATHER DIE ALONE THAN HAVE A GF AND THEN GONNA LEAVE U ANYWAYS
"4. The bully" You hear em! Now throw all those "I fell in love with my bully" books
It reminds me of Nagatoro
*looks at the bakudeku ships* ITS A JOKE BTW
G a c h a m i n i m o v i e s b e l i k e
@@yoongistoenailclippers LMFAO- WHY AM I LAUGHING - BakuDeku shipper
Dnf
Thanks this really helped ♥
Really good video Thank you You probably helped a lot of people
Me who doesn’t have a crush: interesting Edit: Holy shit! thanks for all the likes :)
Me who knows I have no chance with my crush interesting that's what it's like having a chance
Same lmao
Same i just wanna see this videos cuz they’re interesting
When all of your Are fictional
Same😂😂
ok but can we talk about how amazing each of the individual crushes look?? They may not be great people, but *man* have they got AMAZING character designs
Especially the humiliator, she was the narcissist in the one of the ‘signs of a narcissist’ videos.
My bisexual self: *bi panic*
* my lesbian self crushing on all the female designs *
the bully one was lowkey kinda fine tho
@@emiliasantos6638 I know right?
I LOVE THE WAY THERE'S SUCH A LIVELY AND INTRIGUING ANIMATIONS TO SUCH A PAINFUL TOPIC❤🎉😂😊🤩👌👏
Her voice is so calm!
"Avoid having crush with the isolator, instead have it with the conductor" - science joke
After playing A Hat in Time, I did not read that correctly.
@@seaweeb2258 Holy crap, I thought I was the only one.
That's not isolator in science its insulator
@@TheGreatWallOfJapan_ ok
@@TheGreatWallOfJapan_ thank you
"the isolator" Gacha kids with a yandere boyfriend: i'm going to pretend I didn't see that
Your comment speak truth and nothing less
vibes in slightly yandere I don't have a problem with people hanging out with my girlfriend but people have told us to shoot ourselves before and that was overboard
@@tsukasayugi4282 whoa thats very overboard
As a Gacha person: This is accurate
*Le gacha logic* ✨ That's what they say. A *AND I TOTALLY AGREE WITH IT.*
This really helped thank you for making thix❤(I have a friend like that btw)
Ok, for real, why is so calming? Like, currently, I’m trying to get to sleep, and.. how did I find myself looping this video?
Psych2go: Don't crush on these people Me: crushes on them because of their great character designs xD
I felt that
IKR
There’s an artist @madhattey on Instagram that I believe is the animator! Her artwork is seriously amazing
I hate to admit it but I do the same
The humiliator was hot, like, like, likeeeee
This is totally the reason on why I like fictional character Edit: okay maybe that was a lie
same chiaki **sad kinnie noises**
Now I love the person on your profile ! I actually just got done playing that game
Same.
Chiaki is always best girl
Because Chiaki makes real characters look like crap in comparison.
Thanks for showing this video
Thank you for advice👌🏻
"When you're looking at red flags through rose colored glasses they just look like flags." 😑
@Violet Ford lmao😭😂😂
ant that what pj said?
My crush is a 31 year old man that doesn't shower and likes cat- and he is an anime character- Edit: 1 year later and I still like him
HAHAHAHAH
@@MEOWMEOW-mu8gx 😔👌
Aizawa??
😂
Ah yes, Aizawa.
I’m just gonna state my opinion. I don’t see how any one can manage to “fall In love” with someone who is clearly a jerk or a mental/verbal abuser. Physical abuse is harder to spot, so I can understand that.
physical abuse is not hard to spot
@@cg15150 ? Wdym? I mean, I don’t expect a physical abuser to just SMACK LIKE A FAMILY MEMBER OR SUM IN PUBLIC- how would you know right away?
@@P_stelz. because the bruises r apparent
@@cg15150 sometimes they aren’t. From what I’ve seen, a lot of people hide their bruises and scrapes and stuff with clothing.
i enjoyed and learned!
Fun fact: The reason it's called "Crush" is because when you try to act on your feelings for them you are most likely to get "crushed" Note: Quite a few replies have been insulting me because "boys cant take a no" so just to clear things up: im a girl ??? and also i didnt comment this because i was salty i got rejected, dont take this comment as a "dont confess because you will get rejected" instead take it as a "take the risk because you will never know what will happen" so if you're thinking of confessing to someone take this as you're signal to go do it 😏
Well that's not very fun.
Well my feelings won’t be crushed because she likes me back
@@confusedcat4387 see you in a couple months
@Confused Cat Me too, it’s a nice feeling
Ikr my crush liked me, my friend, my enemy and then dated my enemy! And he still likes me -_-
Most people here: * Talking about crushes * Me: * Taking notes on the amazing art style *
Ngl it's really good!
The person that made this art is named Madhattey!
@@ms.moonimations1036 Ooh thank you!! I’ll definitely check them out! :D
Same, It just looks so FRICKING AMAIZING! >:3
IKR? I love it ❤️
Thanks this really helped me
I needed this😂😂
“the bully” me who has a crush on draco malfoy: i’m gonna pretend i didn’t see that (thank god i’m over that now)
Hehe
Well, he's not a bully anymore
Same I have lots of non-existed and i didn't even notice meT^T
Never put yourself in a situation where you are not sure where you stand in a person's life!
This is so true ;-;
I wish I saw this years ago... But thanks for sharing this now then never.
but how can i prevent this?
Sometimes you just can't choose who you crush on
I do this all the time , it actually increases my anxiety.
Why is this so soothing to my ears
the best therapy channel :D
**laughs in having a crush on an anime boy**
Jotaro?
*How did you know?*
@@Official_Acelynn Pfp
@@Memiokoa Okay, makes sense
i agree with jotaro statement ^^^
"7 crushes you should avoid" Me who never gets any: "man I am nailing this"
I- SAMEEEEE
@Madeleine L idk as i didnt write the comment, my perspective yes. i just dont get crushes on people idk why.
Same.
ABHAHA- SAMEEEEEE
I started thinking I had a crush but didn't even notice it from the lack of crushes
Thx that’s really helpful
👇people's who have no crush
Vids: “avoid the bully” Wattpad: *a story about a girl who fall for the bully/bad boy* ACCURATE LMAO
Anna oop-
*wattpad and gacha
And gacha to they be like: "Omg bully is mean" Bully:"I bully cause I love you" Tf?!
You're missing episode
@@myfuturelife4445 that moment when I actually liked these kind of gacha and still do
7 types of toxic crushes you should avoid Me: My lonely ass watching this at 4 am :)
rookie number, only real lonely people (like me) watch stuff like this 24/7
Destroy the children
@@SpaceMonkeyBoi LMAO
I am watching at 2 am and this is the reasing I will never care about someone dearly
@@Ok-hr4oh Same dude
Thanks for the knowledge now I know 😢
Thanks for the help I've just started midle school and this kind if stuff is starting to enter my life and it's just really scary
4: the bully Gacha tubers: I’m just going to pretend I didn’t see that
Lmao true😂😂
Lol true
Gatcha tubers be like:NO THATS NOT TRUE MY BF WILL KILL YOU
Dont forget to give them different colors for both eyes and make them secretly an angel who has fallen as a cool edgy demon
@@gonnagohate3230 they also have to be a big boy so big that they’re mom let’s them watch paw patrol now
You are speaking facts 🗣️🔥
Not everyone deserves love.
The video: Avoid these people The animators making them look as attractive as possible:
Well that's the point they might be beautiful and attractive but they are going to hurt you a lot, that's why you shouldn't go just with looks when you fall for someone
@@justanotherman6419 Very much a good point
King is the best character
'"THE BULLY'" K- drama and c-drama fans: well suddenly I lost my sense
them c dramas forreal lol. i just recently got into c dramas and it's so different from kdramas, much more dominate male. I'm both shocked and amazed
Lmaoo true. Tho I'm glad they are showing healthy relationships in the recent years.
Seriously...I've dropped several dramas because the male lead was too much of a d*ck that it pissed me off. Also the reason why I don't read almost any Manhua anymore. I don't know what it is about Manhua especially, but it's like they like their male lead to have the biggest ego in the world, also they always have to be stronger than the female lead- ALWAYS, and not only that but he has to be dominant af at all times toward the female lead. And then they copy all these traits and paste them for EVERY MALE LEAD EVER. I couldn't take it anymore. Yea there's a select few with actual good male leads, but how much shit do I need to taste test to get there...
C drama sooo true like I cnat even explain omg 😂
You didn't have to expose me like that
This make me fall in love again with my crush,thank you❤
Ok ik that the video is supposed to be helpful with other stuff, but GOD THE ART IS TOO GOOD
"The bully" Tsundere enjoyers: Imma pretend I didnt hear that
well..
I seen the title of the video and immediately thought of this
sorye ge ton
aphelios gaming
heheheheh
Me who’s only had crushes on fictional characters for quite a long while now: interesting 🤔🤔
Having a crush on fictional character is the best cuz they won't ever hurt u
@@oneway-hasan5240 exactly 😌🖐🏼 u won’t be hurt from jealousy or them possibly leaving u
true..
Freak
@@kmrnnj1 It's actually normal to have a crush on fictional characters. People may like them because they have personalities or characteristics that real people don't have. So don't you dare call someone who's in love with fictional characters 'freak'. It's totally normal!
To be honest, I'm so glad my first ever crush that I had for only a few days was in this list. Why? Well because they're the bully type of bad crush. And to know for sure that it's not just my brain telling me that him swearing nonstop and being mean to his friends (they're also my friends so he's kinda making me feel bad abt them even if they did nothing wrong) just makes me feel like I'm right which makes me happy.
I'm definitely the user. whenever someone has a crush on me and i can see some advantage on them, like when they have money or a motorcycle, I would order them around. I'm not proud tho, but I can tell you more about this behavior. i was once a tolerant of poverty from my exes and I received nothing from them even if sometimes, they have something to share. i told my self that I wouldn't be a victim of poverty when it comes to relationships because it was hard and draining. that's why it would be refreshing for me if someone who has something courts me. I'd take advantage of them but I won't like them or something. that's why it is important for you to show absolutely nothing of your wealth or helpful skills (like drawing or writing ot whatever academically) to your crush when he or she is STILL a crush
*7 types of crushes* *me who doesnt even have a crush* "interesting"
same
It's interesting the way you said "me who doesn't have a crush" hmmm.....
same (if anime boys don't count)
yeah, samr, lol
So that we know it when we have a crush 👀👀👀
The thumbnail: Left: Worried Middle: Tsundere Right: Stalker
Isn't it more right to say "yandere" instead of stalker if we have "tsundere" as the middle?
Justice, the high prosecutor then left is dandere
@@Majin_Xavierras Maybe because theres not another word for tsundere and yandere can be completely different then a stalker? A yandere can stalk, but a stalker might be a lot more sane then a cold blooded yandere. But I mean the thumbnail does look like that person got issues so I would say yandere, but being a stalker can be different then yandere witch is somebody who is blinded by love with no return or just borderline insane for someone.
The video: nah, bruh
I couldn't read the words fast enough but overall, that helped me really well. i had a crush on a bully once but since you made this vid i dont like them now
i can 100% relate and have deffo experienced this
number 1. the ghoster me: Aw shit,
Bruh same, I just stopped talking to people because it's too much effort, and i gotta focus on studying now. But apparently I'm a ghosted :(
@@davidthai5676 If you're at the point when you can just casually ghost people because it's too much effort for both you and the people you're ghosting, then it is likely that neither you or the people you're ghosting really care that much about each other. It's also one of my firm beliefs that you can have success without friendship or friendship without success, all of my friendships have been hollow since I moved away from home so it's a no brainer to me, almost half of my life has been spent here now so that's a lot of time to go with nothing but hollow friendships. I honestly don't think ghosting is as cruel as people make it out to be, especially if you're not ghosting someone you're supposed to be in love with, not talking to people at all is not as bad as lying to people, I'd rather be a ghoster than a flaker.
Last time I talked to the girl I liked it was in March and Rn it’s December, left that bitch
I felt called out by that one
Ghosting gang right here lol
My crush literally walks up to me and puts his arms around me. People tell me he likes me, and he just smiles. I don’t know what to say :(
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That's sounds uncomfortable 😕 just let him know you need time to regulate your feelings.. I think if he genuinely likes you, he will try to understand.
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Maybe he’s not ready to admit his feelings.
Sounds like he likes you.
idk why but i kinda like her voice! It's so soft
I needed this all my crushes I can’t describe because I’m trying to be family friendly.😊
The bully: rude to others, hits, yells a lot Toradora: imma pretend I never saw that
@Kayla Echols no I meant the anime toradora ahahah
Taiga isn't really a bully, more like an angsty teen. She's more mature after Ryuji and friends supported her and made amends with her family
@@xxprogamerxx7770 lmao I was joking ;-; hope I don't sound that dumb
@Kayla Echols She-ra and The Princesses of Magic? because if so they got together
Taiga is such a horrible girl, but the anime makes her bad behavior looks good
All the weebs in the comments like " And thats y i like a *NOT REAL* character."
couldn't be me....hehehe
@itz_ally here im sligthly Threatened-
LMAO TRU
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THE FACT A COMMENT SAYING “this is why i stick to fictional characters” IS RIGHT BELOW U 😭
The last one I can relate! My crush was telling me not to talk to other people and only hang out with him making a big deal that I’m talk to one of his guy friends and thinks I have a crush on his friend instead I’m so glad I got away from him he was so clingy he did try to get back to me by texting me “Siri hates me” thinking that I would feel bad for him. This really hurt my feelings when I realized I was being manipulated.
I never had a toxic crush like that but I used to be a "Ghoster crush". When I know somebody who I was friend with had a crush on me I would slowly stop talking to them and hope for them to move on. I am not proud of it and I am not like that anymore. I did that because I was a chicken and didn't have balls to rejeckt someone and hurt their feelings. This video made me think about my past actions and I realized how it actually might've been hurted someones feelings. I never thought about it like that before. So thank you for the video, I will definitely be more careful about not doing this again😅❤