What are your dealmakers and dealbreakers for a relationship?
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I feel like Ashley's whole high school era could make a good plot for a movie lol
Ikr! She always has the best stories lmao
right 😲
couldn't agree more lol
That’s high school in nyc for you 😂
fr. she got the hottest tea to spill
I live for Peniel and Harry's mental breakdown as the ladies enumerates their relationship rules 😭🤣
they are looking a little traumatized 😅
@@ComedyGlor no the person is talking about the list they made about what they‘re looking for in a partner
Harry: *Listing his rules for his partner* Me: *AGRESSIVELY TAKING NOTES*
Crying cause that’s me
WRITE THAT DOWN WRITE THAT DOWN WRITE THAT DOWN
sameee
Hahahaaa 👍👏
YAS
The rules segment just really showed the difference between men and women. Can’t stop laughing how concise the men’s rules are, while the girls wrote complex sentences. Lmao
the girls rules kinda childish LOL
It seemed like the guys viewed their partner in a more fundamental and feature aspect (possessive traits) but the girls looked for specific behaviour or habits (actionable traits). Really interesting dynamic.
Basically it’s just saying that girls want to control the guys. And then the guys rules are wanting the girls to be controlling lol. It’s like polar opposites
usually I’d think guys’ requirements are superficial ie fat ass etc and girls more realist but this completely surprised me lol
The way I related more about the boys rules and I'm a girl lol
"This is why i think boys and girls can be FRIENDS" i lost it hahahaha
I’m low key tight how y’all skipped over ph-1’s college probation story 13:00. I really wanted to hear it 🥺😭 Great episode though 💕
Yea. what's up with that?? I want the tea
Omg same! I wanted to hear it!
Yeahh. They end up not talking about it
yeah lol thought I was the only one thinking abt that
Same... I was waiting 🤣
Love the fact that Ph-1 is so into hosting at this point that he can easily lipsync Peniel's intro, mistakes and all :D
I legit thought it was him hosting at the start 😂
“It’s hard to ignore a dog” And with that, I instantly connected with Peniel.
i like how everyone was laughing at first about 4 of them having a child but a little bit later Ashley already talking how kid should tell “us”, thank you ph-1 for this community scenario😌
I lost it when Harry said “right, Ashley?” (14:55) HABAHAHHA i love them
OMYYYYY I AM LOOKING FOR THIS KIND OF COMMENT, I THOUGH I WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO NOTICED IT WAAAH!
My sister jokingly said “OMG they’re dating” when he said it Ashley 😂😂😂
I noticed this as well then I found your comment. Hahaha I feel like they’re dating. Are they tho?
hahaha the clowningg im dedd
2:10 Christine's reaction to Peniel telling Harry that she's a fan is so cute hahaha! It's like on her mind... "It's our secret!!!"
Is she really, though? He looks like he’s kidding.🥲
@@san_mathfractions321 that too... Maybe she's not really a fan and she is reprimanding Peniel 🤣
@@humblepebble with that Peniel, you’re never gonna know when he’s kidding.
harrys face when the girls are reading their list is so funny while peniels like yeah yup i already know 🤣
i like it how Harry started from not wanting to have a child to being interested into having one(ep with Tablo), and now he is setting the rules for his future child.
I love it when Ashley's friends participate in episodes. I laughed a lot in this episode, especially at the time of the lists about partners (ph1 and Peniel's lists are exactly like my list) I feel like Soobenie and Ashley described a character from a book written by a woman hahaha I really liked
I love this episode, it’s feels different from the rest cos they all look comfortable with each other. The part where they wrote the characteristics for their partners is my fave and got me really cackling at 1 am 😂
Same 🤣🤣
Well they were already all friends except ph-1 but ph-1 is good with everyone except Christine so like it just works
had me dying 🤣
I couldn't get over how cute Holly is. The fact that she walked in well uncle Peniel was talking and went stright to aunty Ashley like 'pay action to me.' The fact she so cute and she has the best cue to walk in is priceless. Harry has the cutest dog in the world. Also dad (I'm not sure they the aunt or uncle.)
36:52 - 37:28 damn peniel and ph-1 were sooooo silent they got nothing to say 😂 they be stressed while ashley was reading her rules 😂 actually the girls' rules are over the top 😂 but that what makes them lovable ♥️
Listening to Soobeanie's stories about her curfew and her relationship with her mother, I found myself relating to them. My mom is also like that
Do you know in what group she was in??
@@flywithbees in Blady, se was known as Tina.
@@Dowoon_is_a_drum thank you
I mean just imagine a mom having only one daughter. Def gotta try and keep her as safe as possible. Especially considering it looks like her dad passed or something like that
OH MY GOD THE LISTENERS WITHOUT THE KZhead VIDEO WOULD BE DYING AT @29:13 When Harry says "Well what if YOUR childs or OUR CHILD brings a boyfriend or girlfriend" SURR DON'T GIVE US A HEART ATTACK LIKE THAT!
I'm falling for Harry in every episode more and more, this man has a different charm
I'm so happy seeing ashley get excited having her bestie as guest 🥰
"What neighborhood do you wanna live in?" Omygod my heart-
I found it interesting how they were struggling to come up with rules for their kid cause this is something I've thought about: we might rag our parents for some rules they came up with, forgetting that they were probably our age when they had us, and still figuring out their lives like we are. Like how my mom was 23 when she had her first child, that's YOUNG. Obviously mistakes will be made, but it can be easy to forget that our parents were just tryna do their best. Looking forward to the next podcast! :)
Lol my mom had me when she was 17 or 18 and my grandmother was 15 when she had her lol they were both young but both ended up being great parents…and back then once they found out the were pregnant they both had to get married in which they did…anyways im just bored telling my life story lol i hope you have yourself a great week 👍
@@oharayoung4992 You have a great week too!
Uhhh my mom had me at 30
@@AstarionWifey Yeah I mean my mom had me at 33 lol, hence the emphasis on "probably"
Same, my mom had me when she was 23
The chemistry between Ashley and Soobeanie is beaming ✨
@三木Asenath It is so cute!
I feel like the chemistry gotten so good now between Ashley, Ph-1. Like its been good for a while but Harry gotten more comfortable with the host role etc. Like they all shared enough personal stuff to form a friendship. I love u guys.
Ph-1 with holly on his lap is the most sweetest thing 😭
3:37 remember when peniel called out Ashley for not knowing how to pronounce c’est la vie? 😂
43:24 was so relevant to bring up. It’s so true that some in-laws are really forceful and cunniving to their son’s wife ( specifically in south asian culture I feel) . Honestly, this issue needs to be addressed in like a whole episode itself and how to combat this problem. Thank you for bringing it up!
omg PREACHH because im south asian and this is EXACTLY how in-laws treat their sons wife :(( its a cultural thing im sure and its fucking aggravating
It's for sur will be a big épisode. The difference in education or any subjects are very very differents between East and Weast. For exemple, me, i understand the respect you have to do in front of elders people in Korea, but sometines they abuse their ''power'' and can be bad, or the foreigners in Korea you can see the wall they have to destroys before been accepte in the korean family. For sur some cultural things shock me in education or some other things but it's the same in Europe or usa. But like, when i watching episode of TV reality in Korea, i be like the mom come to their appartement and change what she wants and the person who is foreigners is not okay, in result '' the mom in laws is angry and you have to make excuse '', i'm like ''you serious right now ?!'' 😂
40:07 "THIS IS WHY I BELIEVE GUYS AND GIRLS CAN BE FRIENDS" LMAOOOOOOOOO THAT SENT ME
ASHLEY's whole life can easily be turned into an amazing netflix series ... seriously.. it's so relatable and interesting.
tell me im not the only who got butterflies when harry asked ashley(technically them but yea) 'what neighborhood do you wanna live in?' 😭✋
Same girl! Same! 😅🤪
which minute is that pls 🥺
@@nrlznrl966 at 27:20 ❤️
Yesss!!!!
@@sofiya320 Thankyouu!!
"Right ashley, okay?" Omygod
Exactly 😄💕
For real 🥰🥰🥰
Hahahha i thought im only thinking like that 😅💗
@@gerlietorejo4680 my heart can't take it
I felt that too oh gosh
I chocked on my water when Ashley started gosh these guys should be comedians
42:10 Damn Harry asking Ashley to marry , but she straight up said NO lol. Anyways they hella cute together so imma lowkey support our brother Harry in this tho.
I love the rules of pH-1 and peniel since it's very general and realistic like a laid-back relationship, but ashley and soobeanie's rules are hilarous, it tells so much about girls. Love this episode! ♥
sounds like Harry and Ashely’s household will be like the best of both worlds lollll
Every Ashley's friend one by one come to the Dive Studio but Rosé, i'm dying to see her appear here T_T
Ashley looks so happy to have another girl in the podcast lol they're both such a vibe this episode :)
Omg the way Soobeanie and Ashley automatically did their baby voices when they saw Holly is the cutest 😭 😭🥰
Ash and Harry change their outfit while Peniel stick out with those lovely and boyfie material outfit that I love soooo muuuchh
What an episode with two special guests Soobeanie and Holly 😍😍😍😍😍😍
Ph-1 yelling out STOP ASKING US had me dying. 😂😂
Can we take a moment to appreciate how fine peniel is ? glasses looks good on him 🥰
Yeahh he’s so kyyuuuttt
He's sooo handsome
harry and holly literally has the cutest bond
Since ph-1 confirmed that he reads comments, this is just a reminder for him to stop scrolling and sleep well 😆💃
Pls have part 2 with soobeanie again.. Plsss.... Felt like the talk was too short n I need moreeee 😂🤭🤭
Daddy when Holly appears: *smile; a proud daddy* And he's trying so calm in front of his daughter And that's so funny watching the guys' expression when Ashley starts reading her rules for her partner. OMG
26:12 "We're all parents now. And we share the same child" That is some weird Harry situation right there...
Peniel and Ashley literally just exchange seats 🤣cute! .HAHAHAHHAHA
i swear this episode was like 10 minutes 😩
this might be one of the best fits of Harry
I say all the time when it comes to dating. I don’t want to be your world, I just want to be part of it. Being ok with being by yourself is a big thing😌
I'm glad I'm not the only one that noticed that "right Ashley" 🤭 Anyway, I agree with the boys rules but I can squeeze one or two of the girls rules in there too 🥴😂
I'm living for Peniel with glasses... yes, sir!
Funny how the partner rules for the guys are the bare minimum for any human being. I mean, if the other person don't respect other people and don't give you space they have problems, so for me those things should'nt be rules at the first place, you should'nt ask for someone to act decently. P.s. the synergy between you guys is on point, love the episode
49:55 every story ashley tells about the group makes me fall more and more in love with ladies' code. this is one of my favorite episodes!☺
I’d go with 49:11 though because it has more context on how soft cinnamon rolls they all are everyone can assume that Ashley was the hardcore leader but they all cry they all love each other and Ladies Code was basically the mold of how to be a strong girl group in regards to treating each other right even if things got dramatic.
eunkwang precious leader 🥺💙
pH-1 being a host is a blessing and that's the tea!! 😎🙌🏽
im not even half way the vid and i love it alr HAHAHA i love how in the first part when they were sharing experiences and peniel and ph1 were sharing men's perspective and ashley soobeanie's sharing the women's perspective and they'll have realizations afterwards is just so funny HAHAHAHA
14:55 I feel like Harry and Ashley are dating and he's trynna point out sth making him uncomfortable but doesn't know how to talk to her directly :) But anyways, love their vibes and this ep is funny af.
U are not alone I actually want them togu
Ohh my sister jokingly said “omg they’re dating, I know it” when this happened 😂 low key ship them 👀
i think its bcs in previous ep she kinda implied very lowkey that she acted certain ways with her exes (im sure shes not that way anymore) and harry’s just like…ok ashley? dont be this way okay? but very subtly. love their growing chemistry 🥰
Ily so much. Ash and harry, date each other already 🤧
I'm so proud of Ashley! she went through a lot but still strong..Love her so much such a strong independent woman❤❤❤
Time for teasing Peniel!!! I think he is like this because he is the maknae line. And they teasing their hyungs in BTOB often but in a good way, like a family. 💙 I think the most difficult to say sorry is that I thought that I have sufficient reasons but then I understand that whatever reasons I had, I caused trouble o hurted someone. And I have to apologize and then explain my reasons.
Yeah, he is also the maknae in their friends group too
Harry seems to love doing the role play and i love watching him do those
26:38 for me, i wouldn't give money when they do chores because it gives the child a mindset where they do work for money, like personal gain. not just for helping out the family and the home.
Yessss exactly. I don't see many with this perspective but it makes so much sense. You don't get paid for chores when you're older, you just have to do it out of duty and self respect.
So true I agree
Good point
This episode was so fun. We definitely need another girl as a host 15:40 😂
Watching Harry disassociate while the girls read their lists made my week
What is going through Harry's head seriously!? 😂 He could've said easily "what if we all had children" but he specifically goes *"so the 4 of us will have the same child, now what"* But I'm not complaining! I'm so here for it!! Gets me every damn time 🤣🤣🤣 26:10 28:12 29:13 29:45
That's what I thought too! They could all be parents, but he had to make it weird 🤣🤣🤣
@@navi3430 Harry situation got way too weird lmao I LOVE HIM HE'S SO FUNNYYYY
@@navi3430 No no, it's better this way.
Harry’s college probation story when tho? 🧐😆 Also, the girls’ lists were so extra! 😂😂😂 it’s good that they know themselves and what they want though 🤷🏻♀️
I have been waiting for Soobeanie to hop on Get Real and let me say it was worth the wait. I love this episode and loved how all four of them interacted. Please have more episodes like this. 😁😁
Holly is so adorable wth! the way she greeted all the four omo..so cute
Just watched the shorts of Ashley's type list so I'm here to watch the full interview 🤣
My list would be: 1) Be respectful to yourself and towards others 2) Be yourself don't try to be someone else. 3) I am clueless when it comes to feelings and stuffs like that most of the time, so please if something is bothering you let me know. 4) I need my personal space and may not hangout with you all time but that doesn't mean I'm not interested in our relationship. 5) I hope we have something in common if don't we can find something we can do together. I'm willing to explore new things if those don't affect my morals. 6) Always tell the truth.
it's hillarious that the guys approached their rules in a more conceptual way, but the girls had theirs somehow practical (?) 🤣🤣🤣
Holly seriously so adorable and can get along with everyone ❤️❤️
I love this episode. They're so hilarious and really get along well with each other! We need more episodes with all of them!!!!
I’ve been shipping ashley and harry since day 1 but this ep right here made me ship them more 😫💗
Omfg! Me too!!!!
SAME!!!!
gimme good timestamps
unm she would drive him nuts…
I can only concentrate with your podcasts I end up rewatching everything, so it feels like a huge gift whenever we get a new ep. !!!!
Love when I can relate to Ashley’s nyc school stories 😭
ph-1’s face when the girls were reading their lists 😂😭
So many people felling that Harry and Ashley have something because of the "right Ashley, ok?" and I didn't even realized he said that lol Such a great episode as always get real team and soobinie!
ph-1 and Peniel’s compatability is next level 😂
After 16 minutes, isn't Harry supposed to tell his college detention story?
I could listen to their podcast ALL DAY! I laughed so much XD. I also loved Ashley's confidence while saying her rules for her partner💃 yes girl!
wow..im really loving the special appearance of holly!!!its her playground!
This episode was so good! Would love to see each host bring a friend for future episodes. Felt like I was watching a group of friends just hanging out. the ep flew by!
Absolutely loved this episode. I already knew it would be fun to watch/listen to from seeing Ashley, Christine, and Peniel together in their own KZhead channels. We need Christine back for more episodes so Ashley has someone on her side!!
first time noticing this podcast and I just loved how ph-1 talked and went through it! his way of asking others and actually analysing situations were nice to hear~ hope you can get him to be again on other podcasts! thanks for helping me go through this stressful day! :)
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Harry's fit in this ep is immaculate
omg so far she has been my favorite guest ever!!! i really loved this episode so much can't believe I am watching it this late
Harry's very attentive when it comes to Ashley. its cute. but I'll ship lowkey cus I dont want them to get awkward. So this will be the last time I'll mention this.. hihihihihih
Your comment itself is cute 😄
AGREE i dont want them reading comments and feeling akward but where else can i voice this out 😭
really? I don't feel any chemistry between them. He looks annoyed when she speaks to me
We better get that Harry probation story in the next podcast! 😩
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I loved this💘More episodes with this group pleasee
I've never seen ph1 this funny before, his low-key trying not to flirt it's so cute 😊
so thankful that peuni got these kinds of friends! ♡
Ive been waiting for soobeanie for so long 😭 thank you divee
Been waiting this episode after Ph-1 posted it on ig 🥰
I LOVE this episode *le Harry* imagine four of us have the same child *le Harry again* *to Ashley* who's WE? haha WhO'S WeEe !!