BM Returns to Talk About Relationships, Modeling, and Turning 30 | GET REAL S3 Ep. #16
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BM is FINALLY back on Get Real! BM joins the host as this week’s guest to talk about what he’s been up to, his growth, and to give advice to his fans.
0:00 - Intro
7:00 - BM’s experience on Fashion Shows
15:42 - BM talks about his current music path
22:00 - BM talks about KARD’s World Tour
28:56 - Advice on not being mentally present/honest with relationships
35:06 - Advice on talking/getting your crush’s attention
45:02 - Advice on independence and how to tackle “Adult Life”
1:00:47 - Wrap up + Outro
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It's so emotional seeing three legends reunion: BM, Ashley and Peniel. I really miss these old days with Ashley, Penelope and Big Matilda. Welcome back my president of Big Tiddies Gang
TIDDDDDIEEEEESS
Tiddie** And I know, I feel youuuu😭😂😂
Aww
Big Matilda, LMAO ahahahhahahaa
BIG MATILDA IM SCREAMING😭
I love how deep BM gets one second but then switches it up to something hilarious the next second 🤣
Side note: for a second I thought that I wrote in that entry, I didn't, but it sounds so similar to what I would write 😅 and it felt like everyone was talking to me (thanks btw, I needed to hear this too ☺️)
That’s what being goodlooking does
Finally Penelope, Big Matilda and Ashley's are hanging out together (with Ashley's younger brother, Junny)... I missed them.
🤣🤣🤣💘
Bichna
BRO STOP I REMEMBER THAT LMAOO
@s We're missing Harriet!!
@@katekyojp6338 that name is forever funny name to have but it best (sorry Ashley) 🤣
IM SO GLAD BM IS BACK 🥹
BIG MATILDA IN THE HOUSE
we need harry too
this episode was needed! 👏👏
15:02 Ashley politely educating BM and him respectfully listening 🤌
I felt so warm in my heart when she stopped him and explained him why it was a trigger word. She is a queen.
BM is next level respecting women and all the effort they put in in all things women do. 10/10, an absolute and perfect gentleman whose always willing to respect our struggles. Its not just laughing material here but SETTING THE DAMN BAR FOR HETERO MEN. C’MON.
When i thought he couldnt set the bar higher, HE MANAGED TO DO IT 😭 theres only one Matthew and it sucks
so true god i love him so much
He is simply what a normal respectful man is ! The bar shouldn't be high it should just be the standard
@@parallelwooju sorry but the current patriotic misogynistic world we live in u can’t step outside your house and see even 1 man acting like this amongst 50 other men as sad as it is the bar is very low
After all he is big tittie comitee president, ofc he’s great
Big Matilda is BACKKKK
NO YOU DID NOT 😭😭😭💀
Sorry but what does that mean?
@@amlas7763that’s what they called BM when he hosted years ago
Was at the last KARD show on their world tour, Houston. BM, Jseph, Jiwoo, and Somin were amazing. And we totally felt BM was in the moment. The show was lit. BM once said on one of the Dive podcasts episode that if he wasn't in the Kpop industry he'd want to be a counselor for teens struggling with substance abuse issues. As a therapist with almost 20 years experience and a GetReal listener, I just wanted to say that BM, I think you'd for real make a good counselor. You're a considerate, kind, and humble soul. Wear one of your Healers shirts because in your own way, you truly are one.
BM as a host: no makeup BM as a guest: gotta put my all to look extraordinary today. No matter what, they’re great!
Absolutely hilarious episode 😂 . BM: "Ladies, I respect how much you -" Peniel: "HOW DO YOU KNOW??!!" They're so funny!!
26:23 😂😂
😂😂😂
I missed them together! And of course sensitive Junny 🤣❣
Welcome back BM!! Now we need ph-1 and then we'll get all the hosts reunited
I love how BM just naturally fit in with everyone as if he's never been gone.
That "its time to glow up baby girl" was so funny🤣🤣
the fact that his voice is still in the intro
OH MYYYYYY GODDDD HE'S BACKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK I missed BM😭😭
I love Peniel honestly ㅋㅋㅋㅋ He's so chill and effortlessly funny
Because, of a recent deep dive in PH-1 discography (just found him don't judge) this was recommended. They are funny, and I don't normally watch stuff like this.
he is so unique in his own way and i wonder what goes on in his mind sometimes haha 🤣🤣
14:59 love that Ashley sought that out and how BM took it serious like props 🫡❤️
Ashley is the middle ground we need, she said “doesn’t change yourself” 🥰
BM saying “it’s time to glow up” is my thought process every time 😭 that whole question it was like he crawled up into my head🤭🌙🤍
And to think I started watching this podcast because of Big Matilda but I ended loving the rest of the hosts so much that I still here after he left 💚
Same!!
Same!
me too 😁
Seeing BM be excited to be in KARD and regain the love for music he once had is just so gratifying. As a fan who got into KPop because of KARD, Ride on the Wind and the album is FOREVER going to be one of the greatest of all time albums because you can see BM and the members really enjoy those songs because they really HAD FUN WITH THAT ALBUM! BM’s love for music faded a bit with JSPEH left and the struggle of DSP during Covid! It’s so INCREDIBLE to see him happy again
Ngl I teared within the first few minutes of hearing BM talking with Ashley and Peniel. I didn’t realise how much I missed hearing the three of them together again 🥺 Thank you for sharing the warmth of your friendship with us! 💛
pls we need BM back as a host again. I miss him sm
While ashley went no s word we dont want any eating disorder i was eating a large sized ramen with pancakes on side waiting 😂 still thanks ashley to think of everyone ❤️ also missed bm so much its so nice to see him again ❤️ ps: peniel i love you 😂
Jun so sorry i love you too 😂 cutie ❤️
Im so happy bm is back i could listen to him talk for hours
I love that he’s so reflective but at the same time so effortlessly funny. BM really deserves the success he gets. I’m sure he’ll find a way to stay humble.
The “romantic thoughts” HAS ME ROLLING💀*slaps couch* ROMANTIC NOT SE***AL 😭😭 get real FR
BM talking about KARD cooking up some music in the studio got me hyped 🙌🏾
His saturn return did him well, he’s definitely evolved into a better version of himself and it’s beautiful to see ✨ Happy to see him back again on the podcast 🥲
Listening to BM is refreshing. I find it very rare that a man can be this self-aware and can reflect and learn about himself. Most guys are unable or unaware of who they truly are or can admit to certain things. He's right about humility. It's important to step back and remember to be humble. Really enjoy watchung Get Real. They all are great hosts and like the topics they talk about.
Peniel & bm are so cute together! They get each other!
I'm a baby KARD and I saw them during Halloween at a concert and I genuinely hope they succeed and remain as a group cos they have dope music & dope vocals. BM's voice is really good and his rap style slays.
Talks with BM are always so humbling and practical in life advice sense. Such a great episode 🥲💜
i love to see matthew growing and doing his own thing
OMG IM CRYING , yesterday i was watching one of the episodes of the first season and i said i hope BM come back to get real one day and HE IS HERE 🥺🥺🥺😭😭 WELCOME BAAAAAAAAAAAAAACK URI BM YOU BEEN MISSEEEEEEED
Manifestation works..😂😂😂
@@fleurravenclaw3576 exactly 😂😂
WHAT A GOOD DAY, BM IS BACK i hope he can be a host again
I saw the title and I screamed for joy. I'm so happy we finally get an episode with BM ahhhhhhhhhhhhh
❣️❣️❣️❣️
Peniel random comments never fails, I swear. Lmao!
Omg 😱 finally BM i miss him on Dive studio so much.
Ashley the advocate for healthy habits! 😍🥰 I'm sooo happy to see BM back on the show! Thank you for the long episode 🥹💕💕💕
BM is legit one of my favorite idols because he just doesn’t give a fuck. He gives off that “I grew up in LA” vibes so hard. As an American dude myself around his age, I’ve know so many people he reminds of just based off of how he acts. He just comes off as that dude you were friends with in high school who randomly checks up on you to see what you’re doing.
Omg it's soooo good to have BM back in the studio!! I love your guys' chaotic energy together lol. BM giving shoutouts to women in general was just so cringe but also cute at the same time lmao 😂specifically Junny's face when BM was shouting out women for maintaining their looks (41:34) was hilarious and adorable 😂Ashley looked like she had just given up on the situation at that point
Oh my god this feels like friends gathering again💓
I genuinely appreciate how respectful and mindful Matthew is of us as women, our experiences, and our struggles. BM you are such a gentleman and I love how you are helping to set the standard high and being a model to all those around you. We see you!💖
Finally Matthew is back! I've missed him so much, you can see how his presence brightens up the studio. This felt more like a family reunion than a podcast.
For Ashley: It is odd that a person you've known for so many years feels discomfort and unwillingness to be more authentic with you (aka talk about more areas of their life such that you don't feel like they're hiding anything), but if they believe you'd be disappointed with things they've done recently (things they wouldn't have done long time ago), they'd rather not risk losing your attention even if it means witholding information or being on their best behavior with you. A meaningful friendship is more than exchange of attention and time, it's a combination of active and passive participation in another person's life.
36:53 'time to glow up baby girl' please put it on shorts to remind myself to put skincare every night
WE'RE GETTING THE BAND BACK TOGETHER
I'm aware that the show is called GET REAL but it always amazes me how real the talk really is. It feels like listening to a bunch of good friends, giving you advice, talking about their lives. Thank you so much for that!
I haven't watched the full episode, and I'm so enjoying it!, But i wanted to commend Ashley for cutting off BM when he said the "S" word. A lot of people who are not built to look as thin as the idol industry portrays can hear words like that and yes, be triggered into not eating properly (as someone who struggles with disordered eating and who isn't built small). So, thank you Ashley, from this fan of the show. 🥰🥰🥰
Btob and Kard are invited to attend the same event in paris, so excited!
0:31 not to be a bare minimum melody but 🥺🥺 the way peuni said “and it’s peniel! from btob!” Extremely Cute, Very Good. Liked it A LOT 👍
I like how the audience's question are read and answered and a conversation is had. I think that maybe having a therapist as a guest would be cool as well in the future
I'm super pumped when I saw the thumbnail!!! Miss BM so bad 😭😭
THIS IS GET REAL!!! I really missed it, idk, love when the vibe is like you're just hanging out/listening to friends share something. It's not that I didn't enjoy the other episodes this season but a lot of them felt more like an interview.
This made my day better ~ thank you 💖❤️
I really love these four's dynamic. The way Ashley gives the best older sister advice, Junny gives the most innocent, sensitive-person perspective, Peniel throws the much needed humor & logical, almost-robotic POVs, while Matthew starts the most random, sometimes naughtiest topic mid-explanation. 😆 I also noticed how Matthew's seems more eloquent now, despite the few confusions he had in this ep lol probably from spending more time in the US. I really really just missed him. I'm so glad they let us have this full hour of OG Get Real happiness but also sad because there will be no more of BM next week. 🥲🏻
we missed u!!!! thank u for coming back and letting us know how u been!!!
I loved this episode. It just feels so authentic with all of them.
So glad to hang with the gang again.....BM WELCOME BACK 😚😚🥳🎉
SO MUCH HONESTY!!!! exactly what we needed!! welcome back BM
Omg I love this episode so much! Great job
3 legends are back~ i'm so happy seeing them all together !!
So great to see Matt again with you all, just hanging out and shooting the breeze, love it. Missed him.
missed Matthew so much he offers so much to this dynamic and it makes it truly enjoyable !!
So cool to have the OG crew back! So much fun the chemistry is.
Yesss King BM has finally made a return!!! Looking forward to his and KARD new music next year!
Ashley unnie gives real Noona vibes when she's with the boys ❤️
Junny is so cute and likable and his laugh is so adorable
I MISSED BM SO MUCH!! When I saw the notification, I got so excited.
What a fabulous, interesting and great speaker BM is. A captivating episode from all of you. ❤️
it's so nice having BM back, I loved this episode!
I WAS WAITING FOR THISSSSS!!!! DIVE doin’ it!, BM, Ashley, Peniel, Junny, loved. Paraguay Hereee!
Just what I needed tbh, since its finals wk😭💪gota power through while doing hw+ listening to the podcast
I really missed seeing them all together again. This episode was so healing. Thank you! ❤
BM's backkk .. ohmygod..this is so awesome 😭😭😭🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 Welcome back man ! So great to see you here !!
This is my new favorite episode 🙏🏻🔥💕✨
Yay!!! I loved it so much! So fun and entertaining
so happy to see him again with the gang!
This episode made me so happy 🥰 loved seeing the four of you together!
Also, so so hyped for KARD’s next comeback!!
bm is actually so respectful towards everyone! i love himmm ❤❤ sucha icon
Beyond Great EPISODE!!! THanks For Sharing.
BM and I have the same birthday. He’s 30 and I’m in my last teen year . Im glad he’s doing all the thing she wants to do at this young age . Big inspiration. I’m so glad BM is in this new get real ep !! He was missed so much 😭🤍
So excited to see BM again! Your solo stuff is amazing, LIE is almost always on repeat on my phone~ I’ve also been listening to Re: since it came out, whip! Is my go to bop off of the album! Looking forward to more Kard in the future!❤
it's really nice to see you guys to seat together. And the conversation is so heart warming, feels like hugging. Love u guys
So happy to see this reunion and see the comfy relationships are still intact. Love y’all! 🥰
i could legit listen/watch them talk and just conversate with each other about random topics for houuuursssss! thank you for always being the best hosts and for putting out the best episodes!! we missed you BM!! :'))
Waaahhhhh Dive Studios so generous Thank you so so much for this! We miss the OGs ❤❤
Just like the podcast title, you guys really got real this episode!! Y'all are always so fun to have together in the studio, and BM just brings out your guys' wild side, I swear lol
WELCOME BACK BM WE MISSED YOUUUUUUUUUUUU 💕❤️✨💕💖✨
FINALLY BM IS BACK !! Congrats on everything you’ve done this year and remember that we’re always looking forward to your projects❤️ Sweet episode
Truly enjoyed this episode! Really wish we could have BM back on the show. Thank you get real fam for being my buddies on my Friday workdays 🤎 Always rooting for you, guys!
I'm glad that it is 1:02:21 for BM's GET REAL episode!!!
I like the smile (kind of a giddy smile) on Ashley’s face whenever BM is around. I like the lil chemistry
Lots of love to all of them , such understanding personalities , it's really healing to see how relatable their perspectives are to me on the Asian girls submission , Junny representing the feeling of a younger siblings in that case and Ashley sharing her side of the story , and bm talking about the importance of independence in life and peniel words too just healed my middle child Asian soul , thank you so much dive studios for such amazing guests and this wonderful show ❤️
I really loved this episode, I laughed and learned so much! All this after-the-show tea spilling makes me wish i could join the party! Well done all of you at Dive Studios, I'm looking forward to watching more of your content! May god bless and strengthen you 💪🏿🙏🏿🥰💕
The OG get real group!! What a great episode. Also is it just me or did they never mention BM's name in the intro while bringing him in?
OMG!!! I’m so happy to see them together ❤❤
Haaa ! Felt good to see all of them together again. It just hits different :) Enjoyed this episode so much !