Jordan Peterson Explains Why Men Should Always Dress Up
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He's not saying always dress fancy, but wear your clothes with dignity, and choose the appropriate clothes for the occasion.
Yeah no sh7$
Thank you for Jordanplaining Captain Obvious.
@@JustinCase780 slap yourself for saying ‘Jordanplaning’
@@beattrixkiddo2725 where? 😆😆😆
Society decides what's appropriate and what's not. He is just old fashioned and can0t wrap his head around the fact that people nowadays put a lot less value on the little things. They no longer think a suit is gonna make you a better man or a better professional. It's actually a sign of advanced thinking, because you finally realize what's really important and what's not. A suit isn't. He feels better wearing it because he isn't comfortable with himself, hence the need to do his maximum to try to improve his looks. Therefore, he wll criticize those who don't do the same. It's a pretty normal human behaviour. You make a choice, and one way to put even more value in your choice is to look down on those who don't do the same. He says men dress like children. Well, perhaps we're simply more open minded now and no longer think certain clothes are just for kids and certain clothes are just for adults. Like i said, it's advanced thinking. Less bullshit, more practicality. If you can be happy and successful in a t-shirt, why go through all the trouble of putting on something much less comfortable, much more expensive, that will take considerably more time of your day? That's not logical in any way.
Two of the best pieces of advice I learned when I was a young man - "Always leave the house looking your best - no matter where you're going," and "dress for the job you want, not the job you have."
I can kinda relate. I rarely get dressed up in a suit unless it's for a job interview. I ended up running into a friend of mine who is always well dressed, on my way to an interview. He told me he liked how I looked and encouraged me to wear a suit and tie more often. I took his advice, I don't dress up as often, but I feel better in a suit than in a regular t-shirt and jeans.
I should be wearing lab coats everywhere then.
sound advice
what if the job you want everyone works in jeans and maybe a polo lmfao
Those imply the nearly exact same thing...
Tom Ford said it best: “Dressing well is a form of good manners.”
If we were all as rich as Tom Ford, I'm sure we would all make more of an effort too.
@@rickfernandes5331 i think that is not what it means. I'm only 20, and a student, so i don't have a lot of money, but when i buy clothes, i try to take my time and buy quality ! "Manners maketh man" , words to live by, taking care of your look, is a part of the respect you have for yourself and for others.
@@gabriel.t.anderson Oh ok. Good for you. I didn't know H and M was quality.
@@rickfernandes5331 oh shit😂
Who decides what it means to dress well?
Dated a girl who told me once that as a adult, the way you dress is how you’re treated. Best thing I’ve taken away in a long time.
As an adult
@@vibhasj8470as a baby
But should one be treated according to what he/she wears?
@@slothymangoas a brontosaurus
@@slothymangoI wear diapers but people just treat me like a grown man in diapers.
Im taking Jordans advice. Today I wore a suit to the gym, and never felt better. Everyone was even staring at me, so there must be something to it.
LMAO
Can you get more boomer -deconstructionist xD this is exactly the kind of joke you'd find in a newspaper comic 😂
very funny...
Based
Are you gonna speak in a woman's soporno voice like cult leader jordan
When Jordan talks about living life like “everything matters”…. He really does practice what he preaches. He is a solid example of an honest man
Yeah, totally. Like the time he claimed that having apple cider sent him into a depression spiral.
@@SallyMankus130 focus on steal manning people. It’s to easy to straw man.
I live life like nothing matters.
If you believe that then what about the photo of his room being a fucking bombsite of a mess
He’s delusional. There something wrong when you’re always right.
As a lifelong construction worker this rings a bell It never hurts to look professional and take pride in your boots tools or work I feel like it goes hand in hand . My two cents from a blue collar .
Yes!
I knew a mechanic, old school guy, wore a shirt and tie under his overalls for 40 odd years. Real gent.
So do you wear JK boots? I really want a pair.
Well said.
Thank you
My first job in IT only required a company branded polo or button down. I took it a step further, wearing the button down exclusively and also always wearing a tie with it (I was the only one who chose to wear a tie). For the 3 years I worked at that company, I was the fastest rising employee on the help desk, receiving a promotion and several large raises. Many people who only wore the bare minimum attire also presented a bare minimum attitude and therefore received bare minimum compensation.
Ties remind me of leashes and collars, like on a dog. Anyone can come up and yank your chain!
Bro is it really worth it... Wearing a fkn choke holder for 3 years during summer? Just let your actions speak and be productive win the competition
So: Externally: symbolizes that you're not average Internally: makes you feel that the job is important and therefore that reflects in the work that you do
You are wrong
It's pathetic how this society is
Dressing up is not always about impressing others but it's about having respect for yourself, your position,the event you're at and expressing your style.
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sheepoo
i mean, whats more "respect for yourself"? wearing the same classy attire as everyone else to try fit in with the occasion? or having the courage to dress the way you want, get weird stares and not care? Guess what? the wrong answer doesn't exist...your perspective and opinion exists though.
@@afromuthfuka ok aristotle
@@OS-yg9fr ok sheep caller
I think Jordan hit the nail on the head with the story about his father. People dress up to see Jordan speak as a sign of respect and to mark the occasion as an important event in their lives. The choice to formalise the evening has an intention about it, that you're there to take the information and the man seriously.
@bobby macallister . So why are you here following his "dumb right-wing Babel"?¿? Seems like you would spend your time better listening to ESPN or ESPN KZhead to figure out what's the best over-under and spreads are for the next game & listening to why billionaires and mega millionaires are racist toward millionaires in their employ.
@bobby macallister Here's hoping you can use your reasoning mind to put your feelings into place.
@bobby macallister I think they dress up on CNN too, maybe more your speed.
Jordan took a untested jab for a cold and then told everyone to take it too! Knob
Na this is all a lot of mental masturbation, which is kind of ironic from a psychologist, just as your notions and bias towards Jordan is a lot of mental masturbation going on in your own head. This all just speaks to western bias as well and Jordan's own cultural bias, men who only feel comfortable in suits or certain clothing are restrained on some level. Not that I am saying you should not dress up and make an effort, but the idea that it matters so much or is of importance is trivial to say the least.
I used to hate dressing up but nowadays always feel good and more confident when I put on a shirt and tie. It's as much about self respect as it is about respect for others. This matters at any age, even for 65 year old like myself. When I see so many people dressed up like chavs, I despair, but I think there is now a movement towards more classical dressing, which is to be welcomed.
What if I hate ties and shirts. I feel ridiculous into it. It's a nonsense clothes.
@@jwolf267if you’re wearing a tie to appear more successful to strangers and that type of clothing is not in common with what you do for work, yes it is nonsense. But let all these inspired men walk around urban zones dressed up nice reaping all the benefits of real men who wear overalls and provide food and build the world for them.
Just a simple little thing as you increasing your appearance and presentation helped build/change your mindset. That’s great and an awesome story. I read a few years ago that. . . You don’t get paid by the hour you get paid the value you bring to the hour. That change d my whole perspective and outlook of hourly wage labor.
Unless it’s required for work or a formal event, dressing up is completely unnecessary. Clothing doesn’t/shouldn’t change how you feel about yourself.
I disagree, we all have a certain pair of pants or a shirt that makes us feel good about ourselves clothes can change the way we feel. @@jonm5217
As a woman, I absolutely LOVE to see a man dressed up. Even if he's casual but well put together, clean, manicured and confident, its a great attractor ❤
Not every man gonta be lovin on other men with that sweet stuff
Yep, definitely
As a man, I absolutely LOVE to see a women not dressed like a prostitute. Even is she's average but not a whore, loyal, without fake makeup and without fatherless children, Its a great attractor ❤
I learned that the word "consequence" simply means "result", not necessarily the negative connotation that often comes with it. At every turn, I learn something new with Jordan Peterson.
Con sequence: a sequence of related events. The clue's in the word LOL
@@tezzo55 😜Yes I get it. It's just commonly used as a negative and I never really looked the word up.
Jordan Peele begs to defer
@@ExMachina70 LOL. Not sure why 'events that occur through previous events' would necessarily be negative, or positive. Thinking that all consequential events would be negative probably says more about your life, than it does about the word or the world. It seems like depression.
@@ExMachina70 It's not so much the '12 Rules for Life' you need. It's 'The Oxford English Dictionary. Best :-)
I'm so glad someone as influential as Jordan is spreading this message: you're an ambassador of yourself, your family, religion, people, city, country, etc. So dress like it with dignity and honor and intention
Agreed sir!
Yes, well stated!
Yes but not always, dressing properly for the occasion is the point. Not wearing suits for just grocery shopping or going to parks….
@@joeyondakeys dressing up helps with own confidence and people, ofcourse dress up according to the occasion at hand . Like you cant say oh mu anxiety , ill just wear a jeans and stained tshirt to a funeral, or your own wedding, or some important meeting maybe……
@@joeyondakeys yes! Status anxiety mainly
My dad always dressed nice, even to go grocery shopping. One day he's shopping in Walmart North Idaho, wearing his usual dress shirt, sweater best, wool jacket and slacks. They clerk recognizes him and asks what kind of work he does. He said he's in real estate, she answers "you look like a professor". 90% of customers were wearing sweats, puffy vests, athletic shoes, messy hair, no make-up etc. My dad was 80, still working managing his office building but shopped at Walmart to save money. Everything in his closet he bought on sale at Macy's. Always fit, 32" waist and well dressed. Makes a huge difference
Makes a difference for what? So a random cashier hit on a grandpa. Great. Let's wear tuxes
Your dad has "class." Thanks for sharing.
This presentation made me think. To your point, you’re absolutely right. Why do us as men dress like we’re still in high school? Jeans, sneakers, and hoodies. Instead of dress shoes, slacks, and sports coats. In the military I felt a sense of honor when I wore dress blues. I think as men we need to reboot our wardrobes and update our definition of fashion. Dressing for success speaks volumes.
Life is often suffering and discomfort. If wearing what I feel comfortable in helps me to deal with that, I will continue to do so. Dress shoes are stupid and uncomfortable. Good supportive footwear should be worn at all times. Sport coats are ridiculous. A simple good quality shirt is all one needs.
Do you dress for success every moment of your life? Going to a ball game, taking the kids to school, running to the grocery store, when it's 90+ degrees outside, etc? Can you think of any time in your day or week when wearing a tee shirt and shorts are practical?
We do it because sneakers and hoodies are comfortable, its that simple Who is it that defined that men have to wear shirts and ties and suits? Its just bs you were contidioned to believe...
@@jacobwalsh1888 I dress up all the time, and I feel that dress clothes are every bit as comfortable as normal casual clothes. Maybe I'm just used to it, but I don't see how wearing a sports coat is uncomfortable at all unless you're wearing it in extremely hot temperatures. As far as shoes, you don't have to buy dress shoes, you can buy leather sneakers or boots that provide the same level of comfort, but give a classier appearance.
@@jrbobdobbs5516 I don't wear a suit in the summer obviously, but there are still ways to look good. When it's hot, I usually wear a short-sleeved button-down shirt or a short-sleeved Henley. In my opinion, both look better than a t-shirt AND feel better than a t-shirt. No one is saying you have to do this. You can wear jorts and a t-shirt like John Cena if that works for you. However, I often hear men complaining about how they don't get attention from women, but then when people give them advice, they get irritable and start listing off the reasons for why they can't do what was just recommended.
“Dressing well is a form of good manners” - Tom Ford
I think the guy is overrated and his products are pretentious, but that statement is bang on.
@@jsquared1013 I've never heard of him but also agree with the statement.
Lol I know this guy personally. Yuck to him
I like his designs, and this quote now as well
The more well dressed the man, the less trustworthy he is.
My dad was a cardiologist and is now passed away. He wore a suit every single day. As children, we never saw him that he wasn't wearing at least a tie.
The Elite rulers who control the world - place their influencers into society - mostly via Student groups and in certain media - to change perception of the people - In most cases the result of the controlled manipulation creates an economical advantage for the controlling Elite and to a lesser degree fro the 'paid' influencers who infiltrate many areas of society and whose job it is to change the culture. What has largely been created is a society of modern-day peasants. Mass-produced cheap clothing where the people who make it are paid in cents per garment - NOT Dollars -- these make huge profits for the retailers' Manufacturers and distributors - and a pittance for the workers. The clothing is NOT always sold to the consumer at the lowest price - It only appears inexpensive to the better quality products that create a social gap between the have(s) and the Have Not(s) This is all done intentionally - People are being constantly manipulated by the Elite Rulers. PSYOPS have been conducted for well over a century. Having served in the Military for 30 years - I wore a uniform most of the time - and that had to be perfect in every way to a specific standard. One would spend an hour just polishing one shoe boot. I had Canadian Brass on my uniform and it was a shiny as polished Gold.
what does your father being a cardiologist had to do with anything in this vid?
@Matej Juhás not seen a doctor in a suit for years. i'm 31, the suited doctors in my area have diminished
There's something about dressing up and the confidence it gives you when running your business, especially during difficult times. Looking the part is half the battle.
It is always more comfortable to be overdressed than underdressed. When you are overdressed, you can go places that you cannot go when you are underdressed, but it is not reversible.
As a six figure blue collar worker I find dressing homeless looking beneficial. No one ever asks you for money or favors if they think you’re worse off than them. That being said, I wouldn’t mind wearing suits if I didn’t live in florida
i think places like florida and all the big shots moving there is a reason for this. i had a teacher who said she never saw ppl out in public in flip flops until she moved to florida, but its so hot you need to here.
Amen
@@rickowensdemon1792 yeah I mean it's near the beach, flip flops might be common
Everyone is so caught up in the suit thing. The overall point they’re making is don’t look like a bum. There nothing wrong with a collared shirt and nice pants. Just try not to look like a bum and take pride in how you look.
As someone that makes too many figures to count I agree. - Said no one
I was hired at Disney at one of its entry positions. I wore a suit for 6 weeks. When we graduated from customer service class, everyone automatically thought I was already a manager - when I presented with a promotion after 2 weeks of graduating. Dress for the position you want.
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So, you are joking right? I've seen drunken homeless people in suit and tie. It is about what you have up there.
@@stevegwizzle3560 hahahah
And then everyone at Disney clapped, right?
What kind of suit? Are we talking bespoke, Gucci, quintessential men’s warehouse? Or are we talking a Mickey Mouse or goofy costume suit?
Usually when you dress up, you're showing the world you are higher than average status. This translates to our brain giving us extra serotonin as we're tricking our brain into feeling like we're higher on the dominance hierarchy than we typically feel, thus the heightened enjoyment from it (better mood regulation, etc). It also comes with higher costs (less comfortable, longer prep time, more costly) which is why many choose not to do it.
There are 6 reasons I dress up. Weddings. Funerals. Job Interviews. Court. Because a girl wants me to. And for Jordan Peterson seminars.
“Everyone dresses down so they look like overgrown 10 year olds” I feel some relief hearing him say this because sometimes I look at people that get so much hype for their “clout” or their “drip” and I feel like I’d look and feel like a clown if I wore the same thing. I always feel like maybe I just don’t care enough to keep up with the fashion trends but maybe I just genuinely dislike most of the trends going on today.
Don't follow every trend, but instead be yourself!
I don't feel anything positive when folks make irrational and unfactual claims. JBP has made an all too common blunder by thinking in generalisations. He has literally no knowledge of how every adult male dresses and why they do, but it seems he thinks he does. Then add to that, he's projecting his personal preferences onto all other adult males and denigrating any of them that don't dress the same as he. I theorise his robust intellectual traits will continue to drop now he's chosen to believe an adult fairy tale is a factual account of reality. I'll continue to benefit from his earlier works, but alas, I doubt I'll be listening to this new (faith-based, not fact-based) religion influenced version of himself.
I've always wore what I want never cared what others thought. Just be yourself
The illusion of cloutness or dripness is in itself a trap of limited identity, don’t fall like a prey, hunt for the prey ! which is a process in the self
@@Older_Mountain-goat_1984 sthu
"Clothes don't make the man ,but appearance is everything" a quote my dad uses a lot
Your dad is not very smart
@@SeregaOrgan You are filling gaps in your mind and you dont even question your conclusion?
@@SeregaOrgan didn’t notice you know his father
@@SeregaOrgan Toff mentality
Its not expensive to dress nicely. Target button up shirt(fitted $22), Target fitted suit ($160). Ross/Marshall's Bow tie($12) I've had expensive suits, but here is the cheat code. If you're in phenomenal shape, everything looks good on you. I have this Tshirt($11) , that's ironically from Target and it's a "Superbad Mclovin" Tshirt. I get more compliments on that shirt than much more expensive clothes. Stay in shape. That way you can wear any and everything. Out of shape people look so uncomfortable.
I like dressing up when it's called for. And dressing up shows respect for the other person too! You often feel better about yourself dressing up than dressing down. And get usually more respect from people by looking stylish than down dressing! Great channel.
I used to watch your business videos and I couldn't listen to some because they had so much information given, but I'm going to go back and watch them because they were great information
When you dress good, you feel good and you feel good, you do good.
And we all know good is subjective
@@_VISION. bla bla bla(sorry for that not feeling great for as a excuse to use unappropriate words) there is always common we are not so very different from each other dude............
it's so funny he says this, I actually started having a lot of thoughts about my clothes and image as I got closer to 30 and it really confused me because I wasn't sure how to present myself, I still looked like a kid, dressed like the kids, which got me treated like a kid. As soon as I began dressing nice for the occasions and putting effort into presenting myself as a collected adult, not only did I get treated like an ADULT but others looked too me as an example.
It works better in Europe.
See that guy? Go snatch his wallet
In my case I love dressing up but the weather in Mexico really forces you to dress simple, from May to October you sweat like a pig all day
Nicely stated.
crazy you say that cuz i been thinkin bout that a lot the past few years to the point i be on pinterest and checkin out the suits and looking to change my wardrobe. of course i will still have a few articles of clothes to dress down in but i am def with you with changing it up for the better. and even that thought has been changing my approach with cars also since im a car guy. i don't find japanese cars appealing anymore like i used to when i was younger. now i want clean euro cars and thats not to say japanese cars dont have a clean fleet, its just my preferences have changed
I used to be a bouncer, at nicer night clubs. On a vacation in Thailand I bought 5 tailor made suits + xx shirts, ties and so on and started wearing at work. We usually had black windbreakers with "Security" the night club gave us, and the first night someone said "you cant work like that?" Sure I can, I have my badge visible, complying with the law, nobody is going to mistake me for a customer... Within weeks I was promoted and had a pretty nice "career" working high end nightclubs for a few years. And my employer told me straight: Its because of the suit, its looks GREAT, and you wear it good. People love it.
JP is sending the right message to young men. Something sorely needed.
Not really…ive dressed up well, even better than the CEO. Makes no difference….i perfer comfortability and peak performance. 😂😂😂😂 already in multiple trades milking it as I chill. In a suit, i cannot do this
When you dress up and especially stand out from the crowd you just automatically get respect. And that’s a fact. Never be average. Screw what people think, or if there dressing down. Always dress one above everyone else. Trust me
100% RIght -If you want to be "In - Like Flynn " & meet women & look good at work ..
I look at accomplishments and results, and not the cover of the book. I have met plenty of scammers dressed in business suits too.
@@defaultworkouts so everyone who’s wearing a suit, has to be worth 1 million dollars? Lol. Nothing wrong with dressing up to feel good mate. Most business guys who work in an office make average salaries a year.
Or you look like that guy dressed like a rapper, except that he’s not a rapper. Just comes off as an insecure imposter worried about what everyone thinks.
A man knows the difference between there, their, and they're
Your Father said EXACTLY what I said and lived as a Teacher. Students liked it. Parents appreciated it. Teachers were astonished. I enjoyed it. It said: I am a Professional and what I do is important.
I was told to not dress up as a teacher. I did it anyway and got lots of hate.
@@ReadOrwell ENVY!
No one's dad every told them to speak in a soporno voice and cry every other interview
Thanks for the sound and practical advice!
You ever watch those vintage videos of daily life in the 40s-60s or whenever. I always notice the comments stating that people back then dressed better and acted more courteous. I wonder though, how many of those same people dress and present themselves the very same way they dislike. It’s like disliking when people wear pajamas to the grocery store but what do they themselves do? Wear pajamas to the grocery store. Be the change you wish to see. Dress up when you go out if that’s what you’d like to see. It could encourage others to do the same.
I generally like to dress up. However, sometimes it’s really nice to dress down as a way to hide into the background when I don’t feel like talking to people.
based on your statement, you only talk to people when you dress up? If you dress down, you don't feel like talking to people? Doesn't make sense to me. Clothes doesn't determine if a person wants to talk to people or not. Overall, it's usually the mood of the person.
Clothes are more important than character or morals. -Giant turd
@@bigb9257 He's right in that you stand out less the more casual you dress, sometimes people prefer not to stand out at all.
With you on that Jacob.
@@bigb9257 no, but, a person can dress-up or down to better maintain expectations when interacting with someone.
I've worn at least a button-up shirt EVERY DAY for the last 18 years! I did it while driving a concrete mixer and as a barber.
Lol 😆 lol 😆 hilarious. Love that.
That’s Awesome!!
Lol... U a legend mate
Good for you. Would you like a Scooby snack?
Good on you Hernandez.
Dressing up doesn't have to mean dressing complicated, For men you can use neutral suits and shirts that can be interchanged, and have a selection of ties that can throw a bit of colour in depending on circumstance. Develop your own personal uniform is the kind of idea. You don't have to be a model, just make an effort, it doesn't matter if you can't buy certain things just make sure it's clean and pressed make sure you have a shave and cut your finger nails, it's quite basic really. This reminds me of a conversation a had with my Dad, talking about the 1960s he told me "You wouldn't be seen dead without a shirt & tie on" even just going out socially. It didn't occur to me until after we cremated my Dad RIP we didn't put a tie on him at the end, I regret that now. Sorry Dad
I am 17 now and still wear suits casually like mostly the 3 piece suits (Thanks to peaky blinders) I felt really good and new about myself, I love to see this fashion come back like the 1930s - 1960s and seeing 18 - 25 year olds wear suits as a casual thing makes me know that im not alone in this fashion and I hate it when everyone says "It feels uncomfortable) it all depends on the material you use for each weather and I use wool for winter and Cotton for hot weathers and I also dress up more in old money style too but I think this fashion should return.
Hey, i just wanted to say that you definitely aren’t alone in this, i’m 16, going on 17, and i’ve been fascinated in this sort of style since i was 13 when i first laid my eyes upon a dark green tweed suit that my grandfather had since he was young. I’ve always figured that, contrary to what most people think, you CAN wear ties/suits casually, and I do wear them casually every day, constantly trying to improve on my style. Respect to you, sir!
@@BritishHunter I respect you too, and ye the old movies really fascinated me because men back than really showed their masculinity through suits and not through undershirt with leather jacket and tight blue jeans. I didnt see anything masculine in that but when you look at men from 1940s it shows how really masculine they were and Jordan is right men started dressing up like High school or 10 year old kids, we really lost the masculine fashion now sadly...
I think the tech industry has really shaped our way of dressing more than anything. Suddenly, we have all these highly skilled professionals who dress like they’re working from home and the old paradigm is broke. It became apparent that the clothes don’t necessarily add value to the bottom line.
It depends on your role. It's like having a uniform. You wouldn't wear a suit working at McDonald's or being a lumberjack. A good uniform for coding is something more casual. But the guys in the legal department were not wearing T-shirts most likely. Depends on the particular company's culture as well. But yeah, siting in front of a computer and coding for 8 hours in a 3 piece suit doesn't really make sense.
I think k you missed the point really
I don't know whether this is a joke or a fact: "Whenever you see a room full of men in suits with one guy wears only denim and t-shirt, that guy is either the IT guy or the owner."
@@advancedomega it's both xD
Bad example. Most tech companies have negative bottom line..
As an image consultant, I can't emphasize this enough. Best dressed people go further than well degreed up people. Looking good is good business.
Minority men understand there is a message to be sent. I hated watching ladies dress so nice and their date look like a slob.
It seems a bit narcissistic to put so much effort into looks and clothes though
@@overdose8329 if you think nice clothes makes you narcissistic then it's hard to not have a bitter outlook on life
Every little thing people just throw the word narcissist....ughh. What has dressing good for to do with narcissism?
Meh, substance is more important than form. I prefer competent, smart and efficient people over good looking well dressed ones. I guess it depends on who is in power to decide who can go further; I'm part of a younger generation and I don't care much about form as long as the person is competent, honest and trustworthy. I've even come across the counter example: this dude was over dressing and using extensive vocabulary and in effect wasn't that competent, just a good confident talker. I didn't keep him long and was a bit ashamed that I had fallen in his trap and hired him to begin with, all because he presented himself so well.
Don't have to wear suits but always dress thoughtfully/nicely/cleanly/appropriately. Dress how seriously you take the occasion and set a frame/standard of excellence for your team. If you don't take your appearance seriously, others will not (and should not be expected to) take you seriously. In the same way that you set the tone with how you speak and carry yourself, your appearance is you teaching others how to perceive you and how to take you. You get exactly what you put in, it's in your control, therefore, it is your responsibility.
No better feeling than dressing in your military dress uniform. Classy and the ability to show accomplishments with a simple glance of your chest. It brings a very petty yet amazing sense of accomplishment!
Some guys go into public transport in their military uniform. It's definitely something I admire.
It's always a wonderful feeling to hear someone talking about something, using all the same reasoning and sometimes the same words and phrases like you used yourself.
I can't wait to hear his opinions on the color underwear men should wear and the proper way to man-scape.
@@vendicardecarian9220 what^
@palo - Peterson speaks out of common sense.
@@pixelfan8792 Peterson does occasionally produce sentences that contain not only words, but some meaning, and yes, a few of them actually make some sense. He isn't as stupid as a rock. He is more like a sack of apples. It's his fanbouys who are the sack of rocks.
Well articulated by Peterson. Dress-up and be ready to do business. It sends a message before you even open your mouth.
It is no different to being in a cake shop and seeing a beautifully decorated cake and a bland plain sponge. Which would you choose? One can also see the difference in perception from how the average Man dresses how shabby a vagrant dresses -- And naturally one has a lower perception of value of the vagrant simply because of the way that they dress -- It is not their fault that they dress like that as they cannot afford to maintain them-self However - the point is how one is perceived by the standard of clothing - behavior and the language used - By language I mean the specific choice of words and how the words are delivered. I recall speaking with the wife of a Sydney Jeweller who specializes in selling and mining precious stone - She met her husband when he was visiting Thailand - and said that she chose him because he was well dressed / well presented. Her words were 'Always dress well and sharp - You never know who you will meet - and the presentation can make a big change in one's future.
@@andrew_koala2974 Well said. Thank you for that.
Really just depends on what type of business you are doing. Unless I am meeting with owners of a company it is a bit much in my opinion.
@@andrew_koala2974 Disagree on the analogy. Plenty of cakes look exceptional and are utterly devoid of taste and quality. Same with people.
It can also backfire on you.
Thank You for the Video 😀
Saying that you should dress to look your best to a group of people who even before all the lockdowns were dressing in the laziest most unkempt manner is kryptonite to them. It holds them accountable for their behavior which is also kryptonite, there is a correlation between how you dress and how you behave. Just look at our grandparents and great grand parents they didn’t leave the house without looking “presentable” even if you were poor and only had one or two sets of clothes you made sure they were clean and neat.which is one of the many reasons why they were considered the “greatest generation “. Dressing well is a form of good manners”. - Tom Ford
I just recently started dressing up more to go to University and this happened to be recommended for me lol, thanks for the reenforcement! It definitely feels better to dress respectably in society, you feel more productive and positive about yourself.
Like a full suit?
@@bitcoin4624 lol, nah. I hate sports jackets tbh. Just some khakis, button up shirt and a vest on top.
@@captahab6370 thats a half a step down from a full suit and tie imo but i think its awesome that you did that. How did it feel? How did others respond? Were there haters? Do you think it influenced your ability to make friends/hookup for better or for worse?
@@Phoenixguy357 mm, confidence boost I would say. But I’m still me lol. In terms of others reactions, ppl who knew me before were mostly supportive/impressed. But ppl who didn’t, well it’s just who I am to them 😅, they can like it or not. But there are a few smirks and sneers once and awhile, but that’s that. 🤷🏻♂️
@@captahab6370 college is a great place to make connections which could be advantageous later on. Dressing smart as well as having a positive & professional attitude will leave a lasting impression on those around you.
I began dressing up thanks to the words of Dr. Peterson, and I feel absolutely fantastic.
Same 😎 love him.
You aren't wearing a suit in your avatar pic.
@@tonygrowley5275 dressing well isn't just putting on a suit. It's to wear a jeans or a trouser that fits and t-shirt or a shirt that matches. No one wears suit all the time.
@@potatoeskimos Watch the first 2 minutes of the video and see what Peterson says.
I started building a wardrobe because of him. I feel fantastic, and I like my bank account. I owe this man so much.
The more important lesson here is that you should take pride in your appearance and be proud of the clothes you wear. Fast fashion has screwed us in that way. I'm a carpenter, so obviously I won't be wearing a suit and tie to work, or when I get home in the evening. Investing in 1 nice, high quality, excellent fitting sweater that you are proud to wear is much better than buying 10 crappy, ill-fitting sweaters from walmart.
My dad would always say it is better to be over dressed than under dressed. Dad also believed that you are better to buy one suit of quality than 4 cheap suits. I never agreed or understood that when I was younger now I totally understand it and agree with it
Monday - Friday I do a suit or sports jacket and slacks, weekends jeans or shorts. I like both equally but I have to admit the ladies seem to like the suits better lol.
So you wear clothes to impress women?
@@romariosmith422 Read what I said again :)
With that face I don't think it matters
Damn Chad leave some for the rest of us
@@RichardS-hz6wn lol
I like how he cuts straight to the heart of "fashion" as a psychological need for the wealthy to disassociate themselves from the working class, and the working class' simultaneous emulation of them.
And this fashion includes suits as well.
The working class does not emulate them, it's more like pity.
The working class feels too uncomfortable or ashamed to emulate the wealthy, so no.
Whoops! That hit a nerve!
@@Anonymous-ro5fv A better title - "Why I think men should try to look like me"..
I'm from Chicago to the projects. I will always love this Man. I told my GUY that I work for about Him.
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Because it’s not about how you look that matters it’s what you produce, what you create, what you accomplish. Dressing up is just trying to hide some underlying inability to do the above.
Read the situation and dress for it. Don't over dress/ don't under dress. Hitting your target perfectly is more important.
Probably the most leveled comment here.
You don’t have to dress formally, but you either put in an effort or you don’t. In my opinion, these things are momentum based, so when you start putting effort into stuff like this, it tends to be easier to apply that effort to other parts of your life. It’s a behaviour pattern of doing more than the bare minimum.
What do you mean by effort? It takes the same effort to pull on a pair of jeans as it does suit trousers. Shoes the same. Adding a tie is a little extra but not a lot extra. I don't see it as measure of "effort". I see it as a measure of "ego".
@@toby9999 mental effort to put together a better outfit. It’s not complicated.
@@toby9999 That is sad. Don't be afraid to dress well.
Well said.
5:00. 1000% it's a respect thing. No longer teach medical students/residents, but I noticed this even creep into medicine. I'd see an intern (an MD mind you) come into my office with a backpack, white coat and blue jeans on. When they started asking me a question, I'd just say come back when you look like a doctor. The fact that they didn't see that looking like that when you're dealing with sick, vulnerable people blew my mind.
Nothing is more disrespectful than the adults who dress like toddlers.
Unfortunately it's more prevalent now than ever.
I love that you put the entire podcast at the end, very useful!
I can fully agree with what is said here. I'm a technician but self educated, I get dirty so the engineers dont have to. I have young children as well so I have never felt the need to dress any more professional than just a simple solid colored t-shirt and jeans. I have noticed that I get treated inferior to others when I dress casually on a regular basis. But when I clean up, wash my face and trim my beard and remove the oils from my nails, put on a nice suit and get the expensive watch out and then drive my wife's nice car ( I ride a motorcycle), people treat me better and talk to me with respect. They let me have their seat and even sometimes even open doors for me. Its weird how materialistic objects or fabrics can dictate how others perceive you. Then the next day im back in my dirty clothes covered in oil and im back to being a nobody. The funny thing is that I probably make more money than alot of them realize.
It sounds fake but that’s exactly true. You gain respect from people when you dress up. You get compliments that wouldn’t happen if you were just dressed normal. This has happened to me sooo many times when I dress up nice.
Ever since WFH started due to Corona, I wear my full office attire including shoes while working at home. I am not a suit person although if and when occasion demands, I will go full 3 piece. But, being properly dressed, clean, shaved, healthy, smelling ok and talking sense is the mark of a decent man.
Facts
I’ve met FAR more awesome men that were honest, hard working, badass, loyal and they were in converse, band shirts, and jeans. I’ve met many many men in suit who are thieves, filthy luring lawyers and bankers and dishonest men in general.
I understand and appreciate this advice. Dressing up conveys a feeling to the audience.
I live in the woods of Western Washington. I wear a tweed jacket, waistcoat, button down shirt and slacks with field boots, daily. My manners are polite and polished, but not snobbish at all. My wife appreciates this. Its how i show how much i respect her and cherish her. The ravens, elk and otters recognize me in the woods and dont panic or run away. Its rather a nice feeling. I go to town 2 or 3 times a month, about 50 miles away, the shop keepers and clerks remember me and are polite and friendly. Some have remarked that i look as if i have stepped out of an earlier time.
working-class people in my family have always worn overalls, t shirts boots or dirty jeans. we typically didn't trust dudes in suits or ties in my neighborhood when I was a kid. I think dressing casually has a huge element of class involved.
For the work from home crowd - I have found that it is incredibly helpful to my mindset when I am working from home to dress nicely anyway...some self-respect and that the work I am doing is important enough to dress well for even at home by myself.
Who damn defines what it means to dress well?
I don't think it's self respect. It is more like 'Im a good citizen, if God or some person see me, they will be proud'. It's not for yourself
@@maximmatyunin9934 who defines what it means to dress well? Few centuries ago makeup was manly
@@maximmatyunin9934 It can be both...we probably all differ on what motivates us. Thanks for sharing your perspective.
@@konyvnyelv. mostly rich and famous people I guess. Well, we're going into that direction again probably, when men do makeup, unfortunately
It's a psychological thing in a way. If you are dressed nicely, clean etc It makes you feel better about your looks, this builds confidence and confidence is immensely helpful to you. It's like going to two friends' houses, one is clean, organized, and well kept. The other is messy, clutered with trash, has some peeling paint, maybe plastic on a window etc. You will subconsciously be more respectful, removing your shoes before leaving the entryway, making sure you leave nothing behind. The other, you may even be hesitant to take your shoes off..
Love your podcasts and intellectualism with all your guest, who are great choices btw. Also like how you don't interrupt ppl who are making long well needed points.
Very good video. I'm doing the female version of that. I recently switched to wearing dresses and skirts 100% of the time now and I love it. 😀 What most people don't realize is that all over the world before the 1960s, women wore dresses exclusively and men word suits exclusively, even when just going to the grocery store or barber shop. This dressing down culture started with the rebellion of the 1960s and spread all over the world through American TV. Then jeans and t shirts became the thing, then sagging pants and ripped pants etc. We all need to go back to dressing up to have more self respect. 😊
As a guy, I literally can no remember at all the last time I say a woman wearing a dress. I mean that with most seriousness. It says something about the time and culture we are in when you cannot remember women actually wear dressed. So I applaud you for taking the step and switching for yourself and being that ambassador of style.
@@ardentdfender4116 Thank you! 😊
We all? Speak for yourself, goat. The man dressing as he wants, there is no standarts here. You want have self respect? - cool, but its sad, that the only way you can expierence that is by wearing a fking skirt and not taking admirable actions. Quit using emojis tho, youre cringe
Thats nice to hear. I havent seen any women or girls weaing a skirt or a dress since the beginning of the 2020 coronavirus pandemic. Im an 18 year old man whos young and graduated HS back in late May. This is gonna be a long paragraph but I will give you some insight as to how I dress: I still wear jeans and t shirts of an artist that I like, but Ive been wearing plain t shirts, clean zip up or button up jackets, with tailored jeans, sunglasses, and clean sneakers (Im a sneakerhead so Im familar with what shoes I should be wearing to be comfortable and look nice) and I’ll the keep the minimum amount of logos on my outfits to 3. I have to wear hats since its hot in Florida and I like to wear dark colors, but I usually switch between dark or colors that arent too bright and I feel great since this what I like to wear because I’m my own person who isnt afraid of being myself.
Time Travel kudos to you!! I recently retired after 20 years at a company I was not required to dress up but wore a shirt and tie every day I did it more for myself than to impress anyone I actually felt only half dressed without a tie I Constantly received complements from women for my "put together "look . Even in retirement I wear collared shirts and chinos rather than ts and jeans most of the time I'm a political moderate to liberal so it's not nostalgia for a "better day" motivating me just pride in myself and respect for others keep at it and don't let anyone intimidate you out of dressing well
I’m not sure why but I have never felt confident around people wearing suits. Nevertheless, this has never stopped me from dressing down for some reason.. I always picked comfort over appearance, possibly because the former is for a specific purpose and the latter is superficial. There is more to people than what they are wearing but please don’t go around with no clothes on 😂👍🏽 be yourself and always bring kindness with you.
It is not about how you look, it is about your message and your actions.
I was saying a couple of days back that no one ever grows up now a days. Have a pride in yourself, project the person you want to be.
yeah wear a suit and become a pill head like junkie peterson
So you're saying all the tradesmen who work hard and don't wear a suit in the off hours are not grownups? Some of the most grownup people I know don't wear suits.
People grow old, not up.
Im glad I watched this. I often dress like an overgrown 10yr old. I'll be putting more effort into dressing more sharply from now on. Thanks JP.
Ah hello brothers
Good on ya!
Balenciaga
Time to splash the cash then.
I always wear a suit and tie when going on a flight lol.
If you can’t afford to buy a quality suit, invest in a navy jacket. It’s a very versatile item to have in your wardrobe as it can be worn with a t shirt and jeans or formally in a suit and looks good on every occasion including outside the office eg meeting the girlfriend’s parents. Navy suits all skin tones, signifies that you’re calm and coincident and looks authoritative but non threatening.
As a man in his mid 40's (also from Alberta), this is screaming at my soul that I am not showing my best outer self because I have given my inner self an excuse to not be at its best.
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I have to 'dress up' in business clothing before I go to school for the morning, then I head to the office. I always feel awkward and out of place amongst my classmates as they all wear sweat shirts and pants, baggy ripped jeans and such. I don't intend to sound judgemental, but the majority look like they've just rolled out of bed. Listening to this made me feel much better, thank you gents!
Nothing wrong with a sweatshirt and jeans but ill fitting clothes = bad, so things can look bad even if you buy a suit if it's not sized correct.
Classmates are not the ones deciding your grades. I'm retired but applied for a part-time job to stay busy and bring in a little extra. One of the first questions was about my GPA. I graduated college in 1972, and that number is still following me around. Impress the people who determine your future, and your baggy pants classmates will end up working for you.
My experience exactly Elizabeth. You took the words out of my mouth.
When I was in first year of undergrad, I saw so many people show up to write exams in the evening in pyjamas and onesies. It was honestly kind of sad. I get people like comfort in clothing, but it looks bad when some of the professors and grad students dress the same way lol. If you want comfort in tailored clothing, try something single-breasted, made of a really lightweight fabric with unstructured or soft shoulders. A jacket like this with a canvassed construction, paired with handsewn armholes, shoulders and sleeves feels like a second skin, and moves with you. There's this assumption that men's tailored jackets have to be stuffy, uncomfortable and overly formal which can't be farther from the truth.
Im a manual worker , its hard work keeping this 3 piece suit clean but hell Jordan told me too.
This is very sound advice. I started dressing nicer when I was about 18 years old and in my second year of university. I wear a suit or a sport coat almost every day except when it's too hot (even then I wear a short sleeved collared shirt or polo), and own formal attire so I can be properly dressed for special events. It should be pointed out that you don't necessarily need a suit to dress nicely. V-neck sweaters and cardigans paired with shirts and ties work nicely in the cool weather. Even dress pants, a properly fitted open-necked shirt and slip-ons is a vast improvement over what most people wear these days.
Dressing up shows that you respect both yourself, and the person you are meeting. As simple as that.
Who decides what it means to dress up? Maasai wear colored long dresses as manly
I totally agree with Patrick. Whenever I wear a suit it does make me feel good and much more confident than wearing designer casual clothes.
I’m not even kidding people treat me like a celebrity ever since I got a bargain Gatti😂 It honestly does make a difference I cant explain it but if I’m not wearing a suit I feel like that old bum me from a year ago. Suits are so much more than just looking rich
Be intentional ❤ dressing up feels so much better and you get much more respect.
I partially agree with him; I was brought up in boarding schools since a very very young age. I wore a uniform since first grade. Grey slacks, white shirts, tie, jacket and loafers. From first to 12 grade. I was in the military after that and uniforms is the norm. Then I went to work in three piece suits in all shades of grey for a very long time…now I refuse to wear anything that resembles a formal attire. I feel at ease even if dramatically underdresses compared to the rest of the crowd. But If at any point I were to feel the need to dress up to par, I would.
Agree!!
I agree with his points so much! Such an inspirational man.
The way you dress and present yourself, shows everybody the level of maturity you carry.
Intelligence and balanced thinking conversation on display
Love all your Podcasts and I really love this clip. I truly believe all men should dress up as much as possible. It will help you feel better as a man, mentally and spiritually !!!
big facts homie
Hear hear man, we’ve gotten WAAAAY to comfortable here these days.
I've always "dressed down" I think in part because of working as a mechanic, and always being ready to fix something, "out of time". Watching this, I realized part has always been "confronting the formal I didn't like", our father was professional and always wore a suit, and I had many years of trying not to be like him, in large because I've always been so much like. Rebellion is a powerful factor, I spent two decades a marine, and the feeling of my "greens or particularly my blues" was always something that makes on stand up straighter, look around and fit the occasion, and I do feel the need to get a new suit because I've not done so in a decade. Very interesting talk.
a dentist friend of mine dresses down so he doesn't get mugged
My dad is a welder and a machinist but everything he wears is tidy and well put together. Even in his work wear he doesn't look sloppy. Always advices me to look as best as I can, even in very casual settings
every high paying blue collar job interview I went to, i was specificially told NOT to dress up. dress up how you'd expect to work in. if you a mechanic, i was told to dress like one. safety boots, blue jeans and polo short sleeve. because expect to get dirty and you don't do that in a suit. I'd say dress for the job not for the party.
@@Ndasuunye unemployed? who told u this?
@@wolu9456 I know a guy who wanted to get employed as a truck driver and went at the job interview dressed business( suit and tie). The interviewer told him they are not hiring anyone at the office 😃😃 He was not seen as a good fit for a truck driver.
An argument put very well. More so of taking thee enisiontive. The teacher respecting the students. I completely understood that.
I agree 100% Dress accordingly. I have been to so many events (Opera, Symphony, Ballet) w/ppl in sandals, jeans & shorts. Be respectful to the event you attend
From the original 12 Rules For Life: Hold your head up with your shoulders back. Fine clothing generally, and a good suit in particular makes you feel like doing that. It can have a profound impact on your day.
Man he is so right when we were our military uniform you feel good it is like a confidence boost. I know exactly the feeling that he is talking about.
Marine Corp dress blues is the most badass I ever felt while in formal wear
Respect starts with the self.
I was in the Army and hated wearing Dress Greens.
Thank you for your service
i cant tell if this is sarcasm or not
Thank you for this, I love how he said some of these men look like overgrown 10 year olds lol on point. I see Pastors in church wearing tennis shoes and jeans, tshirts, I mean to each it's own, but there is something about dressing nicely builds your confidence and people take you more serious.
I agree 200% Even if I’m just going grocery shopping , I get dressed in a nice casual to moderate outfit. Way yo many people walking around in pajamas, legging/workout clothes (and we know they aren’t working out all day) Or trying to wear clothes they wore 30 yrs ago. I’m 52 in good shape and I love dressing classy age appropriate. Kind of sad to see a woman of age trying to dress like she was 18 . And you don’t have to have a lot of money to dress well either . It is a respect thing and it makes me feel better about myself and people react to you differently .
I'm also a teacher at a high school. I used to dress up sharp for school out of respect for the children. I even ironed my own clothes because I'm single. I did it for several years. But I found out that the children treat you with the same disrespect regardless of how you dress.
Yeah plus one can be lazy and respectful even if they are in suits
I wonder if there are any kids whom your dressing up did have an impact on. You do it for the one, not the many.
As a recent student, we only respect teachers when they are making positive impacts to students. You can wear t-shirt and shorts…..😂
I work in the construction industry on the tools and the outdoors sector, I have a uniform for both and when I'm going out I wear a smart jacket, tie and shoes. No excuse for shabby dressing like an overgrown child, no matter your profession.
I agree with him. The number of people esp. men, that dress down, in jeans, t-shirts and trainers for funerals. just disrespectful.
Great message.... Im not dressing up in a three piece suit to buy groceries but still a great message
I wear a golden crown and a purple cape to grocery shop so I feel go about myself :/
Well, I do buy groceries in a 3 piece suit, usually accompanied by a pocket watch and Fedora hat... Eveything is possible