Psychopath’s “Karma” Confirmed in Study (Patrick’s Triarchic Model, Hyperarousal)
2024 ж. 12 Сәу.
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The psychopath’s impulsive disinhibition results in adverse life outcomes as do, to a lesser extent his/her boldness and meanness (Triarchic Model of Patrick Fowels, and Krueger, 2009). Some psychopaths are prone to depression, anxiety, and suicide.
LITERATURE
“The personal cost of psychopathy: Impacts of triarchic psychopathy traits on impairment, internalizing, and life satisfaction,” by Kelci C. Davis, Nicholas Kavish, and Jaime L. Anderson, Personality and Individual Differences, Volume 219, March 2024, 112507
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You forgot to include lawyers!
My personal experience with psychopaths showed me that they hate when you object the lies and respond with nonaggression to aggression.
Sir, Thanks for the information I was dealing with psychopath partner. I came to know about his series of broken relationships. Each and every relationship disrupted emotionally, financially and physically. Its been a year since I exposed. There is no Signs of Karma. Instead when ever he crosses me or pass by on road he stairs me with anger. Hope one day karma will knock his door.
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This video had a lot of information about psychopaths that surprised me. I particularly liked your last statements against splitting and labeling certain people as all bad.
To the first psychopath I encountered when I was 17 - others were not insects but marionettes. Then I met a few surgeons... I think medical schools should at least screen prospective students with the MMPI.
Thank you Uncle Sam
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distress tolerance skills helps a lot for me
Maybe it’s interesting to study the way ( mis)usage of medication like valium ( Diazepam) affects the brain areas responsable for functions like fear. Or how medication like that, represses fear. What if someone started to use stuff like Diazepam in early adolescense to repress his anxiety, ( he secretly took mommys meds) is it possible that the still developping brain is damaged, causing sociopathy/ psychopathy..?
benzodiazepines supress anxiety just for a very short time, then your brain gets used to the drug and you get addicted and experience more fear and panic.
@@hiraijo1582 I know. I guess its also possible that in time the brain area permanently changes..? Talking about someone who was addicted to valium for over a decade.. talking high doses 80/90 mg per day.
@@hiraijo1582I know. Maybe over time such addictions are causing brain damage
It's a good cuestión my psychopath used epilepsy medication, before ten, my sister also have similar problem in childhood and now she has empathy issues, but... I am sure my ex was born like this, his sister used to tell me how he seated in the corner of her elementary school classroom all morning without stand up, he was 3 years old.
I had plenty of empathy in kindergarten over all my classmates, took care of a classmate who kept wetting his pants, and not one my other classmates cared to help him to the restroom. They even asked me why I cared to help him. Being molested during those years created a psychopathic personality. I wasn't born with it, it was created. And yes taking drugs later in life had a big effect on my inability to have stable relationships without major drama. My brain was definitely affected by many drugs, but the psychopathic tendencies were already inside me, the drugs just created more instability.
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I think a psychopath may be someone who has learned to associate safety *with* fear, either in themselves or others. Not so different from personalities who feel “safer” in abusive dynamics.
I am a psycopomp maybe that is my path hehe a joke, or not 😂. Thank you always
Well, that's not a psychopath. Psychopaths feel no emotions, do you even watch this guy's videos??
Cool Lecture as always 😎 plz lecture us on Schizophrenia Professor ... plz 🙏 My mom has been diagnosed schizophrenic in her 20's. She is 66 now. Society's immatureness (including her family|) played a big role in her getting worse. Fortunately i (44) have now got a knack o f her moods & act accordingly to my best. (Its insufficient always :P) Love from India ❤ Sam Vaknin Rocks 😎❤
Brilliant.
thank you for this video! Can you please tell us about adhd impulsivity?
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Hi, could you do a video on the Machiavellian of the dark triad? It's hard for me to understand what macchiavellianism adds that isn't already in psychopath and narcissist. Thanks! Is he like a psychopath who lacks impulsivity?
Narcissism: Need for attention and admiration, Manipulative, Fake self, Perfectionism potentially, egocentric, low empathy, usually has a guise of superiority, co-dependent in the need for others to confirm it. Neuroticism scores vary. Not exactly more likely to be incarcerated. Highly likely to be annoying. Psychopathy: Lack or very low level of Empathy, Disregard for rights of others, Manipulative, Parasitic potentially, low self-control for most, lower scores in Neuroticism. Highest of the three to be incarcerated. Most are poor planners. Most are quick to react with violence. Machiavellianism: Patient, Revenge-best-served-cold mindset, Business-minded, cynical and misanthropic view of humanity, most likely to be quieter than the other two, high impulse control, long-term plan oriented, not impulsive or very emotional, calm indifference, money money money and how can I make it attitude, not necessarily out to get you but does not care if they have to step on you. Desires material and power but not fame usually. NOTE: It is generally common for an individual high in one to have traits in others, however there are those who score high in one but not the others. I.e. a machiavellianism who does not want fame. source: Aced psychology in college...just find it interesting too.
Machiavellianism is basically manipulation, lack of morality, lack of empathy, and a focus on self interest. So basically doing whatever you have to to get the outcome you want, regardless of who is hurt in the process.
I have a question. I left my narc husband 2 months ago. I am now understanding why no contact is the only way. Everytime I try to talk to him all i get is " you left me" . Thats it nothing more. What do I do now? I have only been married 8 months. Will he divorce me or will i have to divirce him?
How do you know he is a “narc” as Dr. V says only 5% of the male population are actual Narcissists.
Does it make a difference who files for divorce?
IMO, you may need to see a good psychologist to heal and get your head on straight because, if you’ve been with a narcissist for even a short time, you’ve been hurt and traumatized and you will need to heal and have a “guide.” He may hurt you even worse if you go back because “you need to be punished for how you humiliated him by leaving him.” Yes, the answer to “I don’t want to be with this person in marriage any longer” is usually divorce. But imo, it’s better done when you’re young and you have time to start over again, if you want to with someone else, than when you’re older and have wasted your life on this guy. Also, don’t have children with narcissists and psychopaths…it’s very dangerous and makes divorce much more expensive and difficult. Then, after seeing a counselor, if you want to see a divorce lawyer, imo get a bulldog of an attorney who is well respected in the community and who knows how to deal with these types. Your soon to be ex will see this as “war”. Go no contact. Do not agree to meet your soon to be ex for any reason. Dangerous. All communication should go through your attorney and should be written communication as much as possible. You will be harassed, videoed without your permission, followed, and any and all “secrets” you told your narcissist in the relationship will be twisted and used against you in court. Your good name will be smeared all over town. Shut him out of all social Media, be a perfect lady (since many male judges still have double standards), hold your head up high, ignore your narcissist, and let your attorney do all the dirty fighting for you while you go on with your work/life. Do not defend yourself to others in the community when he slanders you. If they are your friends and know you, they will stand by you. If they believe your soon to be ex’s lies, they are just like him--do do not waste your breath on them. Expect your tires to be slashed (your soon to be ex will get a friend of his do this for him so he doesn’t have to “lower himself” and your home could possibly be vandalized.). Stay safe.
It's important to feel that you are doing the right thing and not dishonouring anyone. We also need to be seen. When we are faced with this sort of situation we don't know what is right. It's also the classic response from the victim of narcissism. You are a victim because you don't have the mechanism or capacity to protect yourself from any narcissist. You are probably an empath. You really have no choice but to divorce. I hope you have decent parents that you can trust. If they told you not to marry this man they are credible protectors. Listen to them next time! If they said nothing then you need to find reliable friends who will protect you. Usually a good conservative church is a good place to look. You need to get involved in community work. You will find decent people doing the same. Anyone who cares for the community expecting nothing in return will be decent.
My humble opinion: Don't talk to him, anymore. Hire a lawyer and start the divorce, because he will not do it.
It seems very weird that it took so long to state something so logical. Obviously, if all psychopathic traits were beneficial to the individual, we'd all be psychopaths. I can hardly imagine, that a statement like that would be even controversial. Is something wrong with it, that I can't see?
Seriously!? There are many things that are beneficial (especially monetarily ) that are unethical or immoral etc. which many of us will not do regardless of its benefit.
@@elaineinarizona6354 I'm talking about long term benefits. Being immoral rarely pays off. Like stealing - works great, until you get caught. Then you spend the best years of your life in prison. Not that great overall. If stealing did pay off in the long term, we'd all be doing it. It happened in some hunter-gatherer societies.
Say an individual with psychopathic tendencies was just neglected and ignored growing up, but did not experience physical violence. Would they be alot more passive and pro-social?
Most psychopaths do not experience childhood abuse of any kind.
@@samvakninRly? Could you explain more?
@@wearereligion2489I think he said this because ASPD is not a personality disorder it's a brain disorder, so the way that they interpret the world would be different in comparison non-ASPD folks. Unlike the rest of the cluster b disorders that have experienced childhood trauma which caused them to be that way, the psychopath is very much born that way, his/her physiology however, yes physiology changes the older he/she gets. You should watch Dr.Vaknin's video titled "Latest on psychopathy" and "myth of the fearless psychopath" to further understand what he's trying to say but hope this helps 💯.
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@@wearereligion2489 Sometimes they ven are behind the abuse of others as children.
Some victims of the psychopathic hoards become fearless. That's when these cowards hive up and play victim.
Would a psycopath fake cry, do they want attention from others by playing the victim?
No. This would be a covert narcissist.
Psychopathy always has been the subject of drama and literature, and is a frequent subject of movies & tv series. If you’ve seen Alfred Hitchcock’s work, does he seem to accurately portray psychopathy, and the Dark Triad, in his characters? Are they psychological believable to psychologists?
Yes. Watch my review of “Psycho”.
@@samvaknin Thank you! I certainly will!
So the psychopaths in movies we see don't commit suicide to escape accountability and justice.
They are suicided.
How to tell if one is a narcissist? Also being afraid of love in and of itself, feeling a compulsion to hurt someone or use them, and being afraid of being ordinary or allowing oneself to stay ordinary in and of themselves does not make one a narcissist, no? As long as one doesn't act on it, one is still a neurotypical person or at least a person without NPD? Also feeling contempt for people who are humble and try to live a "good" life doesn't make one a narcissist? Also feeling ashamed when being around "good" people because their attempts to be "good" and underlying humility even when not actively being "good" makes you feel a lot of shame and feel physically sick? Well, it's fine. Sam Vaknin said only a professional can diagnose and therefore I have no personality disorder is what they said at least on 3 different occassions of testing, including one recently. I asked to be tested a few times because I was worried I had BPD. Luckily they said I had no personality disorder and that it's a trauma response. They would have undoubtedly picked it up if I had something as severe NPD or even APD, or even BPD (borderline). Just because my Dad seemed to have antisocial personality disorder (APD), it doesn't mean I'm going to have it at all. I don't feel any pain when I recall beatings from my Dad though. None at all, not even a little. It didn't affect me emotionally and still doesn't even though I love my psychoapthic Father (he just got angry often and lacked emapthy. This world is a dark, pitch black place and gave him a very limited choice really). It must just be a trauma response on my part. No idea. I feel bored when others seem to feel peaceful but that's probably because I'm young, and I hate the idea of having a normal, peaceful life and having a family (kids), but that's probably just because I'm used to being around narcissists and psychopaths who always did spontaneous things and made me do the same. I now feel bored and ordinary without that heightened excitement I guess. I definitely have tons of affective empathy and I'm therefore the complete opposite of them. Humble people just weird me out that's all. I don't hate them, they're just strange and I feel like they're in the minority and have some sort of hidden agenda. I feel like they're not being natural. I just feel sick when I'm around people who put their conscience first, even if I try to do that myself, because I'm not used to being around those types and their humility makes me want to put as much distance between myself and them, prove that I'm different to them, or otherwise insult someone out of sheer frustration. I feel like they are trying to trick me by pretending to be "good" and trying to gain some benefits from me or prove to me how "good"/"normal" they are. Maybe I've just been around narcissists too long. Yes that must be it. But I find certain narcissistic guys more real, more attractive and I feel genuine feelings of love and affection towards a couple of them... well actually I'm thinking of one in particular right now and I've never even met this dude. I feel like he is almost a deity. That's just the aura he gives off... a god. But he has completely melted my heart with his brutal, sadistic, unforgiving, off-handed cruelty towards me and I genuinely feel true love towards him. I don't know why, but he reminds me of a child. It's *almost* like he doesn't even know what he's doing is wrong. Best of all, he has an extremely mean look on his face and it's completely natural even when he's not making any expression. 💘 It just melts me completely. He has a friends list on Facebook of like 2000+ and most of them are girls hahaha. 😂 he can get anyone he wants. At least he doesn't seem to hide his cruelty...
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@@Susanne2000 hahaha I know. I know. 🤣
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I'd tell you to seek Christ, but even he would be disgusted with you
Sounds like the bold Trump